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PARADISE CITY ARTS FESTIVAL, BACK IN NOHO P. 4 2 • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Opinions The Controversial Couch Clinton raises the bar Lie back and listen. Then get up and do something By: Nicole C. Lashomb By: Suzan Ambrose*/TRT Columnist send me back out onto the streets, TRT Editor-in-Chief tough questions. After all, she has been through the ringer so to speak. “Feelings … trying to forget my with the promise that I am exactly the same, only better, than before. It’s en. Hillary Clinton has recently chal- Throughout this primary season and … feelings of love …” so the old just that my left-hand turn signal lenged her opponent, Sen. Barack throughout the course of the past 14 months, song goes. And if certain individuals at the doesn’t work anymore. Only problem is, my Obama to a debate, Lincoln-Douglas for those of you who have been following pol- American Psychiatric Association (APA) S car wants to turn left. And so do I. style. Essentially, this means that the candi- itics closely, Clinton has delivered speech have their way, it may be more than feelings So, get this. In a few days, the American dates would be at liberty to ask each other after speech, offerings specific solutions to they’d like gays and lesbians to forget. Like, Psychiatric Association’s annual convention questions with out having a moderator pres- the problems that our country faces, contrary just forget all about being gay and move on ent. After the last debate before the to Obama. I would like both candidates to Pennsylvania Primary, Obama’s campaign debate again and I would like to hear precise- I see the downside here, and it is the existence of us. Gay, complained about the moderators being too ly how Obama plans to solve the nations hard on him, thus stimulating Clinton’s pro- problems because all I’ve heard thus far are Lesbian, Bi, Trans. And a panel of people that appear to be threat- posal.Perhaps Sen. Obama would agree to a general terms used to define general prob- ening, at the very least, to make sure we are categorized as a disease, debate without a moderator since that was a lems. Doubtfully, the debate will happen since chief complaint from the Obama camp. Obama refuses to debate during this critical a mental illness that needs to be “fixed” once again. This challenge to me, speaks largely to moment. If Obama is the presumptive nomi- nee, what in the world will happen in Clintons convictions, her certainty, her ability, …” I can almost hear it now: “Straight Land will present a symposium titled November against the Republican think tank? and quite honestly her intelligence, to use a … Up Ahead! Everybody get off at the Next “Homosexuality and Therapy: The Religious A McCain victory and a third Bush term … I debate forum to assist in propelling her num- Stop!” Dimension” (not to be confused with the Fifth say let’s debate! bers higher in the polls and in her popularity “What?” you ask. “Didn’t the APA Dimension of “Up, Up and Away!” fame). as we head into an increasingly important remove homosexuality from its Manual of The panel will include New Hampshire democratic primary on May 6th, Indiana. This Mental Disorders over thirty years ago?” Bishop Gene Robinson , Reverend Dr. Albert should not be a threatening forum for Obama. Share your thoughts. Well, we all thought this issue was put to rest Mohler and a psychologist without state board If he truly is prepared to be Commander- in- then, but SURPRISE! It’s back! certification, Dr. Warren Thockmorton, an Chief, as he claims that experience doesn’t Send a letter to the Editor. “Reparative therapy,” they’re calling it advocate for “Sexual Identity Therapy,” matter, he should be able to answer Clinton’s [email protected] now; just another word for conversion thera- which, he says, he has successfully (?) applied py. Repair me, like a broken down car. And in helping patients “alter homosexual feelings or behaviors” and live their lives “heterosex- Read TRT’s Own Trans Column on Page 4 Letters to the Editor ually” with “only very few weak instances of homosexual attraction.” Dear Editor, Uh-huh. Love, Rights … and the Rest of It! The Margaret Cho story was great. Awesome Ok, let’s look a little closer at these pan- Rainbow Times! elists, sanctioned and approved by the APA. By: JM Sorrell*/TRT Columnist nificant for both Mexico and the United Tamara S. , Springfield, MA States. By 1862, Mexico had been liberated Gene Robinson is better known as the first May is here. In pre-Christian Europe, May from Spanish rule for five Dear Editor, out-of-the-closet, elected gay bishop in the 1 marked the first day of summer, and the decades, and yet the French The Anyone & Everyone story was really Episcopal Church. June event was known as the mid-summer arrived under the pretense touching. I wish there were more documen- Solstice. With everything blooming after a of “visitor,” with the inten- taries like this one. See Couch on Page 20 long and fairly cold winter, it certainly feels tion of taking over. Reed M., West Springfield, MA as though life is being created all over again. Outnumbered (at least 2- Dear Editor, The Rainbow Times May 1 is also International Worker’s Day to 1) and out armed, the The Trans coverage in The Times is incredi- commemorate the Haymarket martyrs of 351 Pleasant St., #322 J.M. the JP Mexican army nonetheless ble. I’ve never seen such a presence in any Northampton, MA 01060 1886. Although the observance of this day other LGBT newspaper. Usually the T’s are used strategy to catch the www.therainbowtimesnews.com began with a United States event, it was inten- left out. Thank you. French off-guard and to soundly defeat them [email protected] tionally named “Loyalty Day” and down- Helen S., Northampton, MA near Mexico City. This in turn prevented the [email protected] played in significance by Congress in 1958 Dear Editor, French from continuing to supply arms to the Phone: 413-204-8959 • Fax: 866-310-8512 because of its association with communism. The Suicide Mission article was very well Confederate Army. Union forces rushed to the NY: 518-391-2617 Ironically, it is celebrated all over the world, Texas/Mexican border to provide weapons written. I think the author didn’t choose cow- and our Labor day was placed in September. and ammunition, and American soldiers were ardice, he chose the real challenge, which is to Publisher Columnists Isolationist policies seem to run deep in the discharged complete with uniforms and rifles live as a member of the gay community, as a Gricel M. Ocasio Jennifer Dexter United States; however, we can do things to to fight alongside the Mexican army. It was gay man and all that this entails, as we well Editor-In-Chief J.M. Sorrell counter this. Go to just 14 months later that the Civil War ended. know. Nicole Lashomb Suzan Ambrose www.thelovefoundation.com to learn about Thank you, Mexico. —Joe W., Schenectady, NY Deja N. Greenlaw Global Love Day—also on May 1. This is the Distribution Mother’ Day was originally a gathering day Dear Editor, Ben Peterson Reporters 5th annual event with the following princi- to call for pacifism and disarmament by moth- Great coverage on the CT pages. I see that Lindsay Wilson Sales Associates ples: “We are one humanity on this planet. All ers whose sons fought on opposite sides of the there’s more to read from our area, though you Tynan Power SJ Seymour life is interconnected and interdependent. always have tons to read that pertains to the Civil War. Chris Gilmore Webmaster Love begins with self-acceptance and forgive- Queer community. Memorial Day was first observed in 1865 Liz Johnson Jarred Johnson ness. With tolerance and compassion, we —Sean T., Hartford, CT by liberated slaves at a site that had been a The Rainbow Times is published by The Rainbow Times, embrace diversity.” Confederate prison camp and mass grave for Dear Editor, Continue the love fest at the annual LLC. The articles written by the writers, columnists, and Union soldiers. Freed blacks and Union sol- I am with the reader who thinks that if correspondents express their opinion, and do not repre- Northampton LGBT Pride March on May 3. It diers had a picnic and sang songs. It got its Northampton Pride is for the LGBT communi- sent the endorsement or opinion of The Rainbow Times, kicks off the Pride March Season, which is official name in 1967, having been expanded ty, why is there a T Pride? Should we then just LLC or its owners. To write letters to the editor, please most heavily concentrated in June throughout have an LGB or fight only for the LGB’s from send your letters, with your name, address and phone in definition to commemorate soldiers who number to: The Rainbow Times (address shown above), the U.S. and abroad. The world is with us served in all United States wars. now on? I mean, come on! here, too, as the Stonewall Riots (June 27-29, or e-mail any comment/s to the editor at: The fundamental roots of these holidays —Doug M., Northampton, MA [email protected]. All submissions 1969) are most often quoted as the beginning include principles of love, peace and justice. will be edited according to space constraints. The of a lesbian/gay civil rights movement with Dear Editor, Rainbow Times, LLC reserves the right not to print any Is this why there’s a spring in my step? Love We loved Anyone & Everyone and went and global effect. Now, when will WE catch up is in the air and a new wedding season has or all content, or advertisements for any reason at all. with THEM (Canada and most of Europe) for bought a few copies of the film. The article TRT is not responsible for advertising content. To arrived. that followed it was very informative and we receive The Rainbow Times at your home via regular full civil rights?! * J.M. Sorrell is a Justice of the Peace in Next comes Cinco de Mayo (the 5th of use it to let others know about our desire to mail, or through electronic delivery, please visit our Northampton, Massachusetts. She loves the motivate others to join us in our PFLAG chap- website. The content and graphics (photos, etc.) are the May). Besides being an excuse for good mar- love season. sole property of The Rainbow Times and it cannot be garitas and Mexican food, the holiday is sig- ter. —Jackie S., Hartford, CT reproduced at all without TRT’s consent. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • 3 LGBT News Pride FAQ’S: Northampton, Connecticut and Trans Pride Northampton Pride March and Rally 860.225.5122 for more information. An array of vendors will also be present this Northampton Pride is being held on May 3, Visit CT Pride online at www.connecticut- inaugural Pride event and will offer merchan- 2008 from noon – 5p.m. The Pride March pride.org/ (no hyphen) to sign up to receive dise and services directly related to the bene- commences at Lampron Park and will end at their e-newsletter or to join the Pride eGroup fit and interest of the Trans community. the Rally site, the large Armory Street parking on Yahoo. For more information about New England lot, behind Thornes Marketplace in down- Trans Pride, to volunteer, or to become a ven- town Northampton, Mass. This year’s theme New England Trans Pride dor or sponsor at this historic event, visit their is “Vote with Pride.” The first New England Transgender Pride website at www.transpridemarch.org. This year’s Pride will have tons of vendors, March and Rally will be held on June 7, 2008 merchants, and displays that attendees will be in Northampton, MA. The March begins at Capital Pride ’08 certainly to get a kick out of. Special features the Bridge Street School (Lampron Park) and This year Capital Pride kicks off at 12 noon include a photo shoot with Democratic Party’s will end at the Armory Street lot behind on June 8th, rain or shine, and if you’d like to candidates (full-size) Hillary Clinton, and Thornes Marketplace. march at the parade, or enter a float, please fill Barack Obama! The Connecticut Pride Rally and Festival According to the New England Transgender out the parade registration form (found at the An excellent entertainment line-up is put will be held on Saturday, June 7, 2008 at Pride website, www.transpridemarch.org, the www.cdglcc.org) and join the fun! The parade into place and includes headliners Kirsten Elizabeth Park in Hartford, Conn. The theme event is organized by members of the Trans steps off at noon in Washington Park, at the Price and Brian Kent and several other hot of this year’s Rally and Festival is “What and gender variant community, and their intersection of Sprague and State Streets. artists such as Carrie Ashton; The Jesse Have You Done Today to Make You Feel allies, with the intent of taking a visible and From there we will march down State Street, Molina band; Lenelle Moise; Lord Russ as Proud?” positive stand for transgender rights. over Lark Street, up Madison Avenue and "Queen Elvis;" the Wicked Queeah Band; This year, you can expect a wide variety of A superb variety of rally speakers and enter- back into the park at the intersection of Laura Wood, Mayra Casales, & Wendy Sobel family fun, great food and entertainment, ven- tainers at this grassroots March and Rally Madison and New Scotland Avenues. and Off Beat Women’s Drumming Ensemble. dors, speakers, and much more! include; Rally MC, Louis Mitchell-Villon, The festival will begin immediately follow- There will also be guest appearances by Hosted by Barbara Seville, you can count Trans Pride Grand Marshal: Miss Major, ing the parade so plan to stay for the entire Lipstick & Dipstick, and Rachel Maddow. on fabulous entertainment that features mega Monica Roberts, Moonhawk River Stone, afternoon. There will be fabulous entertain- It is still not too late to volunteer! To hit recording artist, Abigail, Carrie Ashton, Alex Pangborn, Ethan St. Pierre, Leslie ment on the festival stage and activities for become a volunteer for the day of the event, e- Arlene Wow, Jen Talylor and Sweet. Other Feinberg, Imani Henry, Kate Bornstein, Jill the entire family! The entertainment line-up mail Lisa Downing at artists include Shaded Soul, The Hartford Meredith, Berlin, Ph.D., Joe Stevens (of will be announced soon, please visit: [email protected] For all other Harlettes, Lady Tatiana, Least Complicated, Coyote Grace), Gunner Scott, Dr. Enoch www.cdglcc.org information, please contact Northampton and The King St. Boiz Page, Jacklyn Matts, Dru Levasseur, Bet Capital Pride is looking for volunteers. To Pride at [email protected], call Connecticut Pride is actively seeking volun- Power, Marie Ali, Elliot Halloway, Donna volunteer,contact: Cathi Iuliano at capital- 413-586-5602 or visit Pride online at teers. If you would like to help produce Rose, Vickie Boisseau, Jerimarie Liesegang, [email protected], or call the CDGLCC www.NorthamptonPride.org. Connecticut’s largest LGBTI event, email Lee Elder, Ellen Wittlinger, Cathy Worthley, at: 518-462-6138. [email protected] or call and All The Kings Men: Boston’s Drag Connecticut Pride Rally and Festival Troupe. 4 • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com In ‘The Name of God’ Top church court reviews gay marriage case By: Bruce Schreiner/AP Writer Redwoods, which oversees denominational line denominations has struggled to stay uni- nized by Taylor. LOUISVILLE, Ky. (AP)—The volatile churches from north of San Francisco to the fied amid differences over sexuality issues. “Nowhere will you find two couples more issue of gay marriage reached the highest Oregon border, said the case was a difficult “This can be the first time that the committed to each other,” Taylor said. realms of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) one because Spahr is respected and church Presbyterian Church stands for the full inclu- Taylor told the church court there is no on Friday, when the top church court opinion is split on gay-rights matters. sion of all of its members,” Taylor said in an mention of same-gender ceremonies in the reviewed the case of a longtime minister But he said the church constitution defines interview. church constitution. She said Spahr presided found guilty of violating denominational law marriage as between a man and a woman. Spahr, who was ordained in 1974 and over the weddings of the lesbian couples as a for officiating at the weddings of two lesbian “No one in this church is above the law,” he retired, last year, was upbeat after the hearing, “right of conscience” and out of her efforts to couples. said. saying, “This is about real people. This is minister to the “marginalized.” During a two-hour hearing, an attorney for Spahr, 65, was found guilty last year by a about ... people's real love for one another.” Taber said in an interview that the church the Rev. Jane Spahr said the now-retired regional judicial committee and was given a Taber said he worried a ruling for Spahr allows “a great range of freedom of con- California minister committed no offense and rebuke—the lightest possible punishment. would cause a deeper rift within the denomi- science,” but added, “if there's a standard, you followed her conscience when she married That ruling reversed a lower church court's nation, which has lost some conservative con- have to comply with it.” two lesbian couples in 2004 and 2005. decision. gregations amid tense debates over sexuality While the church constitution reserves mar- “This is a community of faith that knows Spahr appealed to the church's top court, and interpretation of Scripture. riage for a man and a woman, the top well that all of its members are equal in God's and the gray-haired grandmother sat calmly “There are substantial numbers of people Presbyterian court ruled in 2000 ministers can eyes,” attorney Sara Taylor said during the during the hearing. who are disaffected,” Taber said. bless same-sex unions as long as the cere- hearing at denominational headquarters in Afterward, Taylor said a ruling in their The top church court is expected to issue a monies are not called a marriage and don't Louisville. favor would represent a “turning point” for ruling early next week. mimic traditional weddings. In arguing against Spahr's action, Stephen the nearly 2.3 million-member Protestant The two lesbian couples married by Spahr Taber, an attorney for the Presbytery of the denomination, which like some other main- attended the hearing Friday and were recog- Paradise City Arts Festival: Back in Northampton, Mass. There’s no better way to spend Memorial the whole family into the mix! New Century two exciting new restaurants this spring. Day Weekend than with a trip to Theatre and PaintBox Theatre share the stage What: The Outdoor Sculpture Garden & Northampton’s “Springtime in Paradise”, just in the red Morgan Building Two, alternating a 250 competitively juried artists from 30 states Courtyard From birdbaths, fountains and named the #1 art fair in America and surely series of one-act plays and collaborative chil- exhibiting original works. handmade outdoor seating to large-scale the most exciting juried show and sale of dren’s theater. Plus, you’ll see the works of 55 Where: sculpture, Paradise City’s lush Sculpture museum-quality craft, art and sculpture in artists making their Northampton debuts in All Indoors and under tents, rain or shine Three Garden is a wellspring of fantastic ideas for New England. Welcome the 250 artists travel- every media, from paintings and sculpture to County Fairgrounds • Rte 9 & Old Ferry Rd. your home landscape. Cast your vote for the ing from thirty states, and enjoy this extraor- glass, weaving and ceramics. Enjoy a wide Northampton, MA: I-91 at Exit 19 or 20. “People’s Choice Awards for Outstanding dinary opportunity to furnish your home, fill selection of exciting activities, like “The When: Outdoor Art.” your closet and decorate your walls with art- Paradise City Collection”, a Silent and Live May 24, 25 & 26, Memorial Day Weekend; And there is more! After the Festival, be ful delights in every media and price range. Art Auction to benefit WGBY Public sure to visit Northampton itself, declared Saturday and Sunday, 10am-6pm; Monday, Founded by artists, and produced from an Television, or a host of artful projects hosted “The Best Small Art Town in America” and artist’s perspective, the outstanding selection by the Fiber Art Center. Go “green” and help 10am-5pm “New England’s Restaurant Central”. Come of work and the creative swirl of activities all construct a huge globe made of recycled Admission: Adults: $12. Seniors/Students $8. and enjoy all that Paradise City has to offer! weekend make this spring’s P aradise City materials! Weekend Pass: $15. Under 12: free. For more information, please contact Linda Arts Festival in Northampton one-of-a-kind. Cool Jazz and Fabulous Food Dine to the Free Parking! Group discounts available. H. Post, Founding Director at lpost@paradis- There’s always something new, and this artful sounds of live music, from swinging ecityarts.com (no hyphen), or call spring Paradise City brings performances for vocals and solo sax to sizzling Latin Tango. The mouth-watering food, offered up by 800.511.9725 x102. some of Northampton’s finest chefs, includes Sisterhood: Life is tough enough without having support systems By: Deja Nicole Greenlaw Five of us went to the UniTy meeting and group. There is shar- us and it will be us who break down the class TRT Columnist met the other girls. There's no class differenti- ing and laughing and system for the next group of Trannies. Sisterhood ation here. There is actually a feeling of caring. There is defi- Today, you see people coming out as It's the fourth Thursday of the month and it's Sisterhood here. I remember of talking to 3 of nitely a feeling of Transgender. We are visible and into the the second monthly meeting for UniTy, a my girlfriends and reminiscing about the Sisterhood emerg- mainstream now. It's all part of Transgender Springfield Transgender group. I live right off “old” (3 years ago!) days when we were all ing! Culture and History unfolding right now in 91 so some of the CT gals stop at my place to partying Cross dressers with the I have seen the front of our eyes. It's fresh, it's exhilarating! ride up together. Tonight I met Daisy from Hartford/Springfield Girl's Night Out group. Transgender It's confidence. Finally! NYC. She was happy, pretty and full of fun. From Straight to Cross dresser to Full-Time, Community grow Spring is here and so is the Pride Season. She had a star like presence about her. She we all went at roughly the same time. I guess into a real support Our hope has held out and was rewarded by a was, indeed, a happy girl but she told me you might say we all “grew up” together. system for each much welcomed blast of summer. It feels something that made me feel saddened/puz- Now, when you come out you tend to hang DEJA NICOLE GREENLAW other. The seasoned good to be alive; and LGBT and Sisterhood zled/scared. She told me of the days when with people who also came out around the girls will help the have reached the Transgender Community! girls did not really support one another. The same time. You grow friendships from the newbie’s and actually talk to them! We know Yay! I hear that the boys (female to male girl who just started hormones was not to sharing of learning about your new life that it's tough enough out there and we shud- Transgenders) are doing better too! even talk to a girl who has had her surgery. I together, going through the same stages at the der to think of what a lot of girls went through “No one can make you feel inferior with- thought, how sad! Life is tough enough with- same time. Talking to each other and asking before us. For this I feel indebted to the out your permission.” –Eleanor Roosevelt out some kind of a support system, Trannie for advice and sharing and laughing and Sisters who went before me in not so nice life or not. emoting. It's kind of like a Trannie cohort times. It was they who broke the barriers for www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • 5 6 • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com LGBT News Massachusetts transgender activists lobby Congress for inclusive ENDA By: Tynan Power TRT Reporter & Columnist On April 15th, the National Center for Transgender Equality (NCTE) conducted its Lobby Day 2008. At the lobby day, activists gathered from around the country to talk to Congress members about the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) and to urge support for a version of ENDA that includes gender identity. I joined several other Massachusetts transgender activists in DC for the event. During the lobby training, we learned why the House of Representatives passed a version of ENDA that doesn’t include gender identity, instead of the inclusive ENDA most LGBT advocacy group’s support. Congressional leaders said it was not clear the inclusive bill would pass. Mara Keisling, the executive director of NCTE, believes that was an over- simplification. “There was never any question that [gender- inclusive] ENDA would pass,” Keisling said at the training. According to Keisling, the bill’s sponsors feared opponents would try a complicated maneuver to block it by targeting the gender identity language. She likened the preemptive removal of gender identity to “gnawing off your leg—in case you go into the woods and get stuck in a bear trap.” Diego Sanchez (first transgender person on the DNC) of Boston, Tynan Power, Holly Ryan (Chair of the Massachusetts Transgender Political Coalition, MTPC), The limited version of ENDA places mem- Gunner Scott (Director of MTPC), and Ethan St. Pierre of Haverhill. Photo by: Tynan Power bers of Congress in a no-win position: oppose support it and come under fire from both con- beyond—the LGBT community. Senator Kennedy is expected to submit a it and appear to condone discrimination, or servatives and transgender allies within—and During the lobby event, I spoke with staff version of the limited ENDA to the Senate, members in the offices of Senator Kennedy which has raised concerns. Yet after hearing (D-MA) and Representative Richard Neal (D- speakers from NCTE and other organizations, MA, 2nd District). They were well-acquaint- as well as talking with Senator Kennedy’s ed with the need to enact ENDA and receptive staff, it seems clear that no one believes any to gender-inclusion. Senator Kennedy’s coun- version of ENDA will be signed into law by sel promised to take our concerns back to the current president. Whatever happens this him—and Representative Neal’s chief of staff year, all eyes will be on next year’s assured me of the same. Congress—and our next president. Senate backs anti-discrimination bill for gays and lesbians By: Colleen Slevin/AP Writer an amendment to change the bill into one pro- tecting short people. Brophy, who stands 5- DENVER—The Senate gave initial backing foot-6, then withdrew it. to expanding anti-discrimination protections Bill sponsor Sen. Jennifer Veiga, who is a for gays and lesbians on Friday. lesbian, took offense. The measure (Senate Bill 200) takes the “It must be nice to sit back as a white male state's current anti-discrimination laws and and mock the discrimination many Americans adds sexual orientation to the list of things, feel based on sexual orientation,'' Veiga said. such as race or national origin, that can't be Brophy then went to the microphone to considered. It would be illegal to deny gays apologize, saying he didn't mean to be offen- and lesbians everything from apartment sive. rentals and a seat in a restaurant to burial Sen. Shawn Mitchell, R-Broomfield, said plots. civil rights legislation was passed to protect The debate in the Senate was tense at times. black Americans because they historically had To make his argument that there isn't a fewer educational and economic opportuni- record of discrimination against gay people, ties. He said gays and lesbians generally enj- Sen. Greg Brophy, R-Wray, jokingly offered See Senate on Page 7 www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • 7 Queer Politics Democrats eye bill to protect gays, end war By: Anne Flaherty/AP Writer Gregg of New Hampshire have proposed sep- 60 votes needed in the Senate. WASHINGTON (AP)—A senior Senate arate proposals that call for Iraq or its neigh- The committee plans to complete the Democrat said last week that he wants to use bors to pay more for reconstruction. defense authorization bill by the end of next a major defense policy bill to expand federal Levin's measure would be proposed as part week, with a floor vote expected by the end of hate crimes laws to protect gays, bring troops of the 2009 defense authorization bill, policy May. home from Iraq and force Baghdad to pay legislation that guides defense spending and more toward reconstruction costs. the acquisition and management of all mili- The effort would raise the flag on major tary programs. issues favored by the party's base. But only The Democratic chairman also said he Pride Marches in the reconstruction provision is considered to hopes a broader hate-crimes law becomes part have a chance at passing—and even that pro- of the debate. Last year, Democrats tried to our Gayborhood! posal's prospects would depend heavily on attach a similar measure to the defense Northampton Pride; May 3 Republican cooperation. authorization bill but backed down after FMI: www.northamptonpride.org/ Slim margins in Congress, particularly in Republican protests threatened to sink the the Senate where 60 votes are needed to over- bill. Boston Pride; June 6-15 come procedural hurdles, have kept “Diversity and tolerance and hate crimes FMI: www.bostonpride.org/ Democrats from enacting much of their leg- runs smack against what the men and women islative agenda since taking control last year. of the American armed forces fight for,” CT Pride; June 7 Sen. Carl Levin, chairman of the Senate Levin told reporters Tuesday. FMI: www.connecticutpride.org/ Armed Services Committee, suggested In addition, Democrats are expected to Democrats will try anyway, starting with a revive legislation that would force President New England Trans Pride; June 7 measure that would prohibit U.S. money from Bush to withdraw troops from Iraq by a cer- FMI: www.transpridemarch.org/ being spent on reconstruction and possibly tain date. Levin said this proposal could be Capital Pride; May 29th - June 8 other war-related costs. Levin, D-Mich., who offered on the defense authorization bill, or FMI: www.cdglcc.org plans to meet this week with Defense GOP lawmakers have signaled a willing- earlier when the Senate considers a separate Secretary Robert Gates on the issue, says Iraq ness to back such a measure, depending on war spending bill. Toronto Pride; June 20-29 should use its massive oil profits to cover how it is written. Republican Sens. Susan Democrats have repeatedly failed to pass FMI: www.pridetoronto.com/ rebuilding efforts. Collins, Bob Corker of Tennessee and Judd such legislation in the past, falling short of the NYC Pride; June 22-29 FMI: www.hopinc.org/ Senate from p. 6 ``This is symbolic politics elevated above onymous with religion. real need,'' he said. Last year, the Legislature passed a bill Pride Vermont; July 7 -13 oy a higher level of income and education. The bill originally would have also pro- protecting gays and lesbians from being FMI: ww.pridevt.com/blog/tag/parade/ Veiga said someone can still be discrimi- hibited discrimination on the basis of reli- fired from their jobs because of their sexu- nated against even if they are well-off. gion but that was removed. Veiga said al orientation. Mitchell said he thought the real aim of existing law already outlaws discrimina- the measure was to have the government tion based on creed, which she said is syn- weigh in on the side of gays and lesbians.

TheProud to be theRainbow Main Media Sponsor for Northampton Times Pride & Connecticut Pride. Additional Media Sponsor of Capital Pride and Trans Pride. 8 • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Queer Organization News Groups Advocating for LGBT Rights urge D.A. to charge alleged Lawrence King murderer as a minor, not an adult "We call on prosecutors not to compound and fear about sexual orientation and gender this tragedy with another wrong." expression. The alleged perpetrator, who Los Angeles, CA— A coalition of 27 groups turned 14 years old less than three weeks fighting for lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans- before the shooting, should be held account- gender rights today is urging Ventura County able for his actions. But we support the prin- prosecutors to try 14-year-old Brandon ciples underlying our juvenile justice system McInerney in juvenile court, and not as an that treat children differently than adults and adult. McInerney has been charged as an provide greater hope and opportunity for adult in the February 12 murder of his E.O. rehabilitation. In addition, public safety is not Green Middle School classmate, 15-year-old served by treating children as adults. Lawrence King. Students say McInerney tar- According to research released by the Centers geted King because the victim was openly gay for Disease Control in 2006, children trans- and because he wore women's jewelry and ferred to adult court are more likely to re- makeup. offend than those committing similar offenses LGBT civil rights organizations, including who remain in the juvenile justice system. Lambda Legal, the National Center for California law does not require District Lesbian Rights and the Transgender Law Attorneys to prosecute 14 year-olds as adults, Center, have delivered a short statement to even in circumstances such as these, and we Casting Calls for gay and lesbian contest- Ventura County District Attorney Gregory D. oppose them doing so. We are issuing this Totten, calling on him to try McInerney as a joint statement because we believe so strong- ants at Bravo for Top Chef show juvenile. ly in principles of justice that protect all our Bravo is now casting for the fifth season of Beach, CA, and on May 7 in Orlando, FL, for "We are saddened and outraged by the mur- young people and know that, even in the face the culinary reality series Top Chef. The pro- the new reality series High School Musical: der of junior high school student Lawrence of strong emotions, we should not abandon gram has regularly featured gay and lesbian Summer Session. The producers are looking King," the statement reads. "At the same them. We refuse to let our sense of outrage contestants, including Lisa, who is still bat- for anyone ages 16-22 who has dreamed of time, we call on prosecutors not to compound blind us to the fact that the suspect is only 14 tling it out for the top spot this season. Casting being center stage – “the high school quarter- this tragedy with another wrong—we call on years old. calls for the next round of chefs will be held back who’s never tried out for a play but has them to treat the suspect as a juvenile, not as "Prosecuting the alleged perpetrator as an in Las Vegas (May 4), upstate New York a song in his heart, the drama club extrovert an adult. adult will not bring Lawrence King back nor (May 10), Manhattan (May 11), and Los looking to break into the big time, someone "The facts in this matter seem clear: one will it make schools safer for LGBT youth. boy killed another in a climate of intolerance We must respond to this tragedy by strength- Angeles (May 26). Visit looking to trade the chess club routine for a ening our resolve to change the climate in www.bravotv.com/Casting//index.php for dance routine.” schools, eliminate bigotry based on sexual more details! Application form and song lists are avail- The Night Owl orientation, gender identity or expression and Want to get in on the excitement of Disney’s able at http://abc.go.com/primetime/high- Best LGBTQ Clubs in our hold schools responsible for protecting stu- High School Musical phenomenon? Open schoolmusical/index?pn=indexFirefoxHTML Gayborhoods! Check ’em out! dents against discrimination and physical casting calls will be held on April 27 in Long \Shell\Open\Command harm." W. 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For more information, Schenectady, NY 12305 please visit www.glaad.org. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • 9 10 • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Gay Fashion Boy, oh, boyRio: Swimwear line for the gay community By: Michael A. Knipp/TRT Special people, meaning “White Man's House." It's arry Manilow summed it up best also a way of life. According to Laing— with his 1978 smash hit whose new boyRio swimwear line, which B"Copacabana": "Music and passion launched in piecemeal last year, is based on were always the fashion." the concept—“it embodies the joie de vivre Though the classic crooner was referring to that expresses a genuine love for the good New York City's famous nightclub of the things in life, whether it's food, samba, sun- same name, his timeless lyrics easily apply to shine or beaches." Brazil's Copacabana, a borough located in the Like the Cariocas themselves, boyRio— southern zone of Rio de Janeiro, famous for which, though conceived in South America, its four-kilometer beach that attracts millions calls Scottsdale, Ariz., home— isn't typical. of tourists each year. Its cue comes from the sunga-style—or trunk- Guarded by Christ the Redeemer, the iconic cut—suits originated in Rio, opposed to the 130-foot-tall statue located at the peak of baggy board shorts that have become Corcovado mountain and named one of the America's summertime staple. With his new New Seven Wonders of the World by line of sophisticated swimwear, however, Switzerland's New Open World Corporation, Laing hopes to change Americans' aversion to Rio has long been a source of inspiration for form-fitting beach attire. artists worldwide: the sprawling city of 11 "In Rio, beauty is displayed externally and million has popped up in such films as the internally, but it's done tastefully," says Laing, James Bond series' Moonraker and fresh from one of his frequent fly-aways to Paramount Studios' upcoming, big-budget the Brazilian metropolis. "boyRio aims to relaunch of The Incredible Hulk franchise; an encourage customers to be proud of their bod- episode of The Simpsons; and video games ies, and our suits help to complement that like Forza Motorsport and Tony Hawk's Pro goal. Because our suits are free of pouch 'gad- Skater 3. getry,' thongs and strings, our customers can Considering Rio's widespread influence, count on a swimsuit that embraces their per- then, it's easy to understand why American sonal identity without compromising their businessman David Laing turned to the once- individual style." capital city of the Portuguese Empire to find But style, relative to what we witness on our his muse. own beaches, isn't this nation's strongest And while sipping a caipirinha on the asset. Sure, the Crayola-colored practicality Copacabana's soft sands, he spotted it: the of a sunga-style suit— cut to maintain cover- Cariocas, splashing around in their swimsuits. age for an overall flattering look—sounds Carioca, the demonym given to Rio's native great in theory, but will Americans embrace inhabitants, is not just a derivative of the boyRio as their go-to brand as they have other indigenous Amerindian language of the Tupi underwater outfitters like Billabong, Hurley

and Quiksilver? resume lends credit to that self-assessment Laing thinks so. while revealing a career as diverse as soap "There is a market segment out there that is actor Shemar Moore's nightclub make-out comfortable without trying a change," says sessions. the 40-something entrepreneur, "but it never A graduate of the Henry M. Jackson School fails that when someone who is hesitant tries of International Studies at the University of on one of our suits, they can feel the differ- Washington, the Northwest native has made ence in the cut and their confidence." his living as an attendant at the Zygofolis For Laing, though, his own confidence aquatic amusement park in Nice, France; as comes from an entirely different place—more an ad man in Seattle; as a game play coun- specifically, his aptitude in appealing to con- selor for Nintendo of America; and traveling sumers. A quick summary of the workhorse's See boyRio on Page 12 www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • 11

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Kathryn and Jen Good-Schiff celebrate their marriage in Look Memorial Park on June 16, 2007. Kathryn is wearing her grandmother's 1940s wedding dress. Photo by: Ben Bruss Congratulations Kathryn and Jen!

Corinne Shaw and Jess 2nd Place Bouchard won the second winner & third prizes for their orig- inal and beautifully cho- sen photo of their hands together, depicting their rings and honoring their union. And, the sensual kiss, takes the third price. Congrats Corinne & 3rd Place winner Jess! TRT announces Anniversary Edition winners, congrats! ith the end of the Anniversary To the rest of the readers who submitted Edition give away, commemorat- photos and videos, we thank you for your sub- Wing The Rainbow Times first-year missions and hope that you continue to send Anniversary, the winners have shown great your commitment, anniversary, love, etc., pic- creativity and effort in putting together pic- tures and/or videos to The Rainbow Times. We tures that speak about their commitments, would like to showcase your lives, just as you their love and what it truly meant to them. We live them. Send them to: editor@therainbow- applaud Kathryn and Jen Good-Schiff for a timesnews.com (no hyphen). great picture and sentiment, as well as a well-chosen back- ground. Jennifer L. Dexter We also applaud Corinne Shaw and girlfriend Jess Attorney at Law & Notary Public Bouchard for their beautiful Specializing in: Real Estate, Family photographs that won them the 2nd and 3rd prize awards. Law, Wills, Education Law & According to Shaw, the pho- Criminal Law tos were taken when “we were 95 State St., Suite 724 first falling in love, so they Springfield, MA 01103 [the photos] were inspired by the beauty of the love we were [email protected] discovering.” 413-214-7626

Intersex (from the College Media Reference of the Transgender Glossary of Terms): Describing a person whose biological sex is ambiguous. There are many genetic, hormonal or anatomical variations which make a person’s sex ambiguous (i.e., Kilinefelter Syndrome, Adrenal Hyperphasia). Parents and medical professionals usually assign intersex infants a sex and perform sur- gical operations to conform the infant’s body to that assignment, a practice that has become increasingly controversial. FMI: www.glaad. org 12 • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Health News HIV patients may not need regular lab tests boyRio from Page 10 ground fads into the mainstream. Which is exactly why Laing is looking to while taking antiretroviral drugs, study says the world sourcing photographers for the this sect of soeciety to help boyRio become digital stock-photo company PhotoDisc. as synonymous to fun in the sun as fake-and- By: Maria Cheng/AP Medical Writer people with AIDS globally are receiving the After a short-lived online business, which bake tanning is to Dinah Lohan. LONDON (AP)—Patients with HIV who drugs, experts said. he started as a service to help people without "We aim to market our product line name- aren't monitored with the expensive laborato- “Laboratory monitoring shouldn't be the computers or digital cameras list items on ly to stylish men who are self-confident – ry tests commonly used in rich countries may priority while we've got less than half of peo- eBay, Laing says he sickened of the oft-drea- not just physically, but in other aspects of survive just as long as those who do get the ple who need treatment still waiting for it,” ry Washington-state weather round about their lives, regardless sexual orientation," 1999 and moved to Phoenix where he tests, a new study says. Phillips said. he says. "It comes to no surprise that a large worked in an art gallery, sold scooters, and In a paper published in The Lancet medical Phillips developed the original computer part of that demographic is compromised of served coffee in an Internet café. journal Friday, experts found only a slight dif- model with funding from Pfizer Inc., makers gay men and, frankly, we're flattered. Men Despite Laing's contention that boyRio can in the gay community are always on the ference between the survival rates of HIV of many antiretrovirals, the drugs used to and will work in the states, and notwith- patients on antiretrovirals who were moni- fight HIV and AIDS. forefront of change and always willing to standing his product-shilling pedigree how- express themselves confidently. Thankfully, tored with laboratory tests and those who In the West, people with HIV undergo rou- ever, there are two sides to every argument. weren't. Lab tests can be an early indication of tine lab tests about every six months to check we are beginning to see a change where In this case, it's not one we generally care to regardless of one's sexuality, a well-fit problems in HIV patients that aren't yet obvi- the amount of virus in their body and the sta- see. Because while Americans' attire remains ous. tus of their immune systems. The tests cost boyRio swimsuit complements any man." conservative on the beaches of, say, But will 'any man' see things the way The research was based on computer mod- about US$60 (euro38) and US$20 (euro13) California or Cape Cod, there's a segment of Laing does? Probably not. Despite the help eling and while the results must be verified, each time. If a patient has too much virus or our traditionalist population that loves to let from homosexuals' fashionable influence, they could influence how HIV patients across their immune system is weak, doctors usually Africa and Asia are treated. switch drugs. As drugs to combat AIDS have been distrib- But in poor countries, most patients are sim- ... Men in the gay community are always on the forefront of uted across developing countries, some doc- ply monitored by a doctor or nurse. Only a change and always willing to express themselves confi- tors worry that without lab monitoring; few countries in Africa run regular lab tests, patients will either die earlier or develop drug and results often take too long to benefit dently. resistance faster. But based on the evidence to patients. date, that has not happened. Consequently, patients are only switched to the bottom line is that a boyRio swimsuit “We often get stuck in letting the perfect be other drugs if they start developing bacterial loose once they bid farewell to our country's threatens to make more of splash than many borders. the enemy of the good,” said Jennifer Kates, infections, skin diseases or other suggestions men prefer. Americans are puritanical by Usually in the skimpiest, illest-fitting an HIV expert at the Kaiser Family of an AIDS complication. nature, and American males—gay and ensemble they can find. Foundation in Washington. She was not con- “It's counterintuitive that people who do not straight alike—are especially hesitant to Seemingly a man with all the answers, draw extra attention to their, um, assets. nected to the study. get laboratory monitoring seem to do just as Laing chimes in on overcoming that chal- “Waiting for the perfect lab infrastructure to well as those who do,” said Charlie Gilks, an That's not news to the man behind the mar- lenge as well. keting plan. All components of this casual be ready before rolling out antiretroviral ther- AIDS treatment expert at WHO and one of "American inhibitions definitely take a apy means that millions of people will die,” the paper's authors. conundrum considered, Laing knows that his leave when traveling, especially outside the biggest barrier is persuading people to Kates said. “This study says we shouldn't Some experts worry that because people United States," he says about U.S. citizens' wait.” who are not monitored with lab tests stay embrace their bodies and enhancing it with affinity for public near-nudity in foreign body-hugging boyRio swimsuits. Sure, his Andrew Phillips and colleagues from the longer on drugs that don't work, they could be countries. "It's easy to spot the Americans on work is cut out if he's to keep his swimwear Royal Free and University College Medical spreading drug-resistant HIV. the beaches of Rio—either clad in the line from sinking, but he's confident that his School in London used a computer model that Nathan Ford, head of Medecins Sans frumpy swimsuits I mentioned before or, own cleverness and comprehension of the simulated patient details based on HIV pro- Frontieres' medical unit in South Africa, said worse, overly revealing suits. American psyche will position his Carioca- gression in real patients. They then projected there are no signs that drug resistance is "But boyRio is the alternate to that. We inspired concept to help change and improve the patients' survival for up to 20 years. Data developing more quickly in Africa than else- allow that 'show-off' segment to be stylish a man's perception of self. from real patients are not yet available. where. Ford was not involved in the study. and free while still maintaining their digni- "Above all else, boyRio is about promot- Phillips and his colleagues essentially found He and others said developing countries ty." ing self-confidence," says Laing. "When we that 83 percent of patients who were moni- should still work on making lab services a Still, with so many hurdles to clear—intro- say 'feel good inside and out of your boyRio tored with lab tests survived five years, com- standard part of HIV care. ducing the stuffy set to alternative swimwear swimsuit,' that's exactly how our customers pared with 82 percent for those who went “We shouldn't accept that this is too compli- options and reeling in the too-revealing— feel. Laing knows that he can't rely solely on his without the tests. Over two decades, 67 per- cated and expensive and we need to do with- "It's that kind of confidence in one's self own marketing skills to set his brand apart. cent of those who got lab tests survived versus out it,” Ford said. that cannot be bought but rather wonderfully Enter the gays. expressed." 64 percent for those who didn't. “In an ideal world, you would want lab sup- Though the queer community in its entire- The difference is negligible—and contra- port everywhere,” said AIDS expert Gilks. ty isn't off the hook for showing up poolside * Michael A. Knipp is a New York City-based dicts long-held beliefs that antiretrovirals “But right now we need to continue to roll out looking like a dejected David Beckham, it is, must be accompanied by regular laboratory the medicines because that is what's going to freelance writer and the founder of as history reveals, well-versed in keeping Line/Byline Communications. 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At the high end, opulent- friendly, unassuming city ly decorated Ixia scores high marks for its has experienced a virtual well-chosen wine list and superbly rendered rebirth over the past 15 cuisine, including grilled baby octopus with years, rehabilitating its lemon-fennel confit, and lobster-crab mac- handsome Inner Harbor by converting dilapi- and-cheese with a creamy Fontina sauce. dated piers and wharves into museums, shops, Across the street, Sacha's is a great spot for restaurants, hotels, and condominiums. Often toothsome grazing - the many "small plates" featured in the movies of camp filmmaker and include crisp french fries in a cone with Old native son John Waters, Baltimore has also Bay-seasoned creme fraiche, and fried green developed increased cachet as a welcoming tomatoes topped with lump crab meat. gay and lesbian destination, with its many Continue up Charles Street and you'll come to GLBT-friendly businesses. trendy Donna's, a cheerful and modern space Fortunately, the city's success hasn't gone to where an artsy crowd mingles over light sal- its head. It's hard to find a more genuine and ads, roasted veggie sandwiches, fresh coffee, down-to-earth breed of urbanites than the res- and fantastic tiramisu. The Helmand has idents of Baltimore, who retain a special become renowned for its spicy, well-prepared affection for their hometown. You may be Afghan food (it's owned by the brother of lured to Baltimore by the many highly publi- Afghanistan's president, Hamid Kharzai), and cized attractions set around downtown's Inner Mount Vernon Stable and Saloon is a perfect Harbor, and indeed most of these museums late-night venue for chicken wings, sandwich- Baltimore's most popular lesbian bar, Sapphos, is part of the bustling Grand Central club in the heart of and entertainment centers live up to their es, burgers, ribs, and similarly comforting pub billing. But be sure to save time to explore the the Mount Vernon neighborhood. Photo by Andrew Collins standards. Finally, don't miss City Cafe, an many quirky residential neighborhoods, a few waterfront, with its perfectly maintained flavor - the city even has its own spice, Old airy and inviting java joint that also serves of which - Mount Vernon, Federal Hill, Fells Federal-style town houses. Bay Seasoning, a feisty concoction of 16 sea- food and wine. Point - are within easy walking distance of Baltimore's gay epicenter lies north of sonings sprinkled mostly on shellfish but Make the trip a bit north toward Johns downtown. downtown in historic Mount Vernon, which required by some locals on seemingly every- Hopkins to reach Ixia's sister restaurant, the The Inner Harbor thrived for years as a you reach by strolling north from the Inner thing but ice cream. If you’re on the run, just lovably kitschy Paper Moon Diner, which is shipping crossroads before falling into a state Harbor up the city’s backbone, Charles Street. wander through the copious food stalls in the open 24 hours many nights, making it a per- of blight. Its conversion into an entertainment The neighborhood is anchored by Mount Harborplace pavilions. It may look like a zoo fect post-clubbing choice. Near here in the and museum district has made it one of the Vernon Square and its 178-foot-high of tourists, but you’d be surprised how many Hampden neighborhood is the famous Cafe most engaging and picturesque harbors in Washington Monument. Nearby are the out- locals graze here. Many of these places offer Hon, notable for the massive pink flamingo America. Popular attractions include the standing Walters Art Museum and the top-notch local seafood - particularly oysters, dangling from the front of the building (not to glass-enclosed Harborplace pavilions, where Peabody Conservatory of Music, the oldest clams, and Chesapeake Bay blue crabs. Walk mention tasty comfort fare like Belgian waf- you can browse through dozens of shops. and one of the most prestigious classical a bit south to Federal Hill, along South fles topped with fresh berries, and famously Also check out the Baltimore Maritime music schools in the country. Charles or Light streets, and you'll find good meatloaf). There's also great coffee to be Museum, National Aquarium, and World You’ll need to drive or take a bus up Charles dozens of appealing eateries, including one of sipped nearby at Common Ground coffee- Trade Center (which offers fine views from its Street to reach the leafy 140-acre campus of the best little restaurants in the city, the house, and delicious Mexican food served 27th-floor observation deck). Johns Hopkins University, which is ideal for Bicycle Bistro, where you might dine on within the funky confines of Holy Frijoles. A regal grassy knoll south of the harbor, strolling and is next to the state's largest grilled rack of lamb with a pineapple- Baltimore gay-bar-goers congregate mostly Federal Hill Park rises majestically above museum, the Baltimore Museum of Art. West poblano-pepper chutney, or porcini-crusted at a handful of mainstays. Yuppies and stand- downtown and the Inner Harbor. It's an ideal of Johns Hopkins, Hampden is a good old- sea scallops. and-model types flock almost religiously to spot to laze under the sun on warm after- fashioned "Bawl'mer" neighborhood, a for- East of the harbor, there's superb dining in Grand Central, a large, multi-level complex noons. The surrounding eponymous neigh- mer mill-workers' community that has more the city's Little Italy (Boccaccio, with such that consists of a video lounge, dance bar, bil- borhood has loads of inviting cafes and bars, recently developed a bounty of hip boutiques, seasonal delights as local clams and mussels liards room, and outdoor deck. Also on-site is and the neighborhood's American Visionary galleries, and cafes. (John Waters, who lives in a pernod-tomato broth, is a particular the swanky lesbian bar, Sapphos, with its Art Museum ingeniously blends two historic nearby, occasionally strolls these parts and set standout), and in nearby Fells Point, talented comfy living-room-esque decor and soft light- warehouses within a striking contemporary his movie Pecker here.) chef Nancy Longo helms the kitchen at ing. structure. East of the Inner Harbor, Fells Point When you're craving a memorable meal, Pierpoint, which is known for such inventive may be America's best-preserved Colonial remember that Baltimore's cooking is full of contemporary regional fare as smoked crab See Baltimore on Page 32 www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • 15 Featured Business Jackson & Connor: Classically modern apparel for men … and women By: Nicole C. Lashomb Tetreault said that there was a clear void and TRT Editor-in-Chief need for a men’s apparel store, which also After years of working in the retail busi- includes footwear, accessories, and personal ness, dynamic duo Tara “Jackson” Tetreault care products. and Candice Connors put their experience, “People have been thanking us up and down hard work and complimentary fortes together for opening up,” said Tetreault. “It feels good to launch the opening of Jackson & Connor, a to be needed!” contemporary men’s apparel store, in Thornes Born and raised in Northampton and a grad- Marketplace in downtown Northampton, uate of Smith College, Tetreault is not a Mass. stranger to the large Northampton based Although Tetreault and Connors began their LGBT community and notices it in her busi- careers by working the floor at Taylor Men, ness. both moved on to other companies, Tetreault “The LGBT community has supported us as a seller and Connors as a greatly and given us much feedback which we merchandiser/buyer. The two crossed career need,” she said. “[For example,] one thing we paths once again as they worked together for need to do is get smaller sizes in as soon as different companies, each in their respective possible. We have already altered our buy for position. the fall 2008 to include smaller sizes for those Since their initial retail career, Taylor Men of you that have mentioned it. Thanks!” has since gone out of business and Tetreault Experience and hard work some of the took full advantage of such a business oppor- assets that Tetreault attributes to Jackson & tunity. Connors success. “I couldn’t believe that no one had filled the Step in to Jackson & Connor at 150 Main Street, Thornes Marketplace, 2nd Floor, Northampton, Mass. “Jackson & Connor is really special, not gap that Taylor Men had left. So, I decided to only to us, but to the wider community at make a move but I did not want to do it alone. to the Jhane Barnes suit with a dress shirt, tie friends in to buy for the men, which is strange large because it is different,” she said. “[It] I called Candice. It took a little wine and a lit- and Italian leather shoes,” she said. because as a statistic, women shop for men showcases our 20+ years of combined experi- tle convincing over dinner, but when we part- “Whatever kind of man/woman you are, mod- 46% of the time,” said Tetreault. “On top of ence in the industry which is apparent in ed that night, we were on our way to creating ern or classic, young or old, casual or dress, this, the LGBT community was also not everything from the decor to the apparel to the Jackson & Connor,” said Tara ‘Jackson’ Jackson & Connor has you covered.” apparent in the customer base of Taylor. level of customer service that we provide. Our Tetreault, Co-owner, Jackson & Connor, According to Tetreault, Jackson & Connor Candice and I really wanted this [Jackson & lines are exclusive and not available every- Northampton, Mass. is representative of the entire community at Connor] to be different. We wanted an open where. We took care to bring back some of the Jackson & Connor, tagged as “classically large and in the broad sense of their customer store, a warm store, a place where everyone old Taylor favorites while brining in new ele- modern apparel for men” has something for base. was welcome no matter who, what, how, why, ments to the area that were previously not everyone, according to Tetreault. “It is interesting for us coming from Taylor whatever [they are]. I feel that we have done available.” “We have everything from casual to dress; Men which was heavily male [oriented] that that.” See Jackson & Connor on Page 27 Red Sox tees with hats and jeans and sandals we hardly ever had any of the wives or girl- Since the opening of Jackson & Connor, 16 • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Q-lebrities True Colors Tour: Cyndi on politics and love for the LGBT community

By: Nicole C. Lashomb and one that isn’t going to push the LGBT TRT Editor-in-Chief community aside as a marginal fraction w/out The True Colors Tour, a celebration of the the same rights. basic values and freedoms that should be TRT: Does this mean that True Colors wants shared by all Americans, pioneered by Cyndi to ensure that people “get it” that the LGBT Lauper, will kick off again this summer after community needs all of the fundamental a successful 2007 debut. rights that the rest of the U.S. citizens have? The tour, fueled by Lauper's desire to give CL: Yes, all people need to know that the back the love and support that the LGBT community deserves the same rights. So, the community has given to her throughout her messaging of the tour continues to reinforce successful career, has even a greater mission and galvanize the GBLT community and this time around. This year, the tour will focus hopefully the message of the tour goes out on the need for the LGBT community and its beyond to the wider gay engaged population. straight allies to make their voices heard by PFLAG actually has an initiative running voting in this through the tour called the “Straight Pledge upcoming 2008 for Equality,” where they ask straight people Bush’s lies upon lies. Pavilion. The Rainbow Times will cover the Presidential to get involved in support of GLBT people TRT: Who do you support for a presidential Boston opening-tour. election. getting the same rights. candidate (I know this is a stretch, but we had In an exclusive interview with The Rainbow The perform- TRT: We read that you want to give back to to try, as you know)? If you'd rather not say, Times, Cyndi speaks candidly about her per- ance line-up is the community that has supported you and what should people, especially LGBT and sonal views regarding the significance of the more than allies, be looking for this November when upcoming Presidential election, what she sees impressive with they cast their vote? and looks for in her candidate of choice, while legendary and CL: I have chosen what candidate I will vote she discusses the direction that the country is hot rising artists for, but I don't think it’s smart to try and influ- heading in regarding LGBT rights and protec- waiting to blow ence people’s choices. I just think people tions. This, and much, much more, she will you away. True should do a little homework find out where reveal here. Colors’ headlin- these politicians stand on issues important to TRT: Why is this upcoming election so ers include you, look at their track records and make an important, or more so than others before? Cyndi Lauper, informed decision but most importantly get CL: The current administration has done so The B-52s, Rosie involved. You can't complain about the state much damage on all fronts, including LGBT O’Donnell, host Carson Kressley and many of things if you aren't actively participating. progress. The challenges are immense and it The Cliks: L-R, Morgan Doctor, Lucas Silveira, more. Get involved. Vote. Let's come together and is critical that we have an administration in Nina Martinez & Jen Benton. The tour will officially kick off Pride Month make America a place where we are all equal office that gets us back on track on all fronts Photo by: Kelly Davidson on May 31st at Boston’s Bank of America and all count. that that is one of the reasons why you creat- TRT: Any message for the readers of The ed True Colors because you wanted to give Rainbow Times regarding True Colors, etc.? back to “the community,” but is there a more CL: Get up , get out, and say or do something personal reason (perhaps knowing someone, that helps to turn around what is going on in losing someone, or having someone be this country whether that’s via politics or bashed) that led you to its creation? If so, can one’s own personal actions. Also, have a great you share it with us? summer while you’re at it! CL: I have everyone from transgendered peo- The True Colors Tour is presented by ple in my inner circle, friends that want to get LOGO and produced by True Colors www.seriosmarket.com married and can't—all the way to standing Concerts, LLC in partnership with the Human strong for my friends that were causalities of Rights Campaign. This year, the tour has “Where customers are friends & friends are customers.” AIDS. I do it for them and I do it for me and expanded to a 24-city North American tour the next generation coming up. I don’t want and is presented by LOGO in support of the Family Owned & Operated since 1950! my kid growing up in a country that is not newly created True Colors Fund of Stonewall equal and does not treat everyone fairly. Community Foundation. Groceries • Deli • Fresh TRT: Why should everyone support True The True Colors Fund of Stonewall Colors? Fruits & Vegetables Community Foundation was created this year CL: I think it’s an entertaining way to become to generate financial support to directly bene- informed on some serious issues and I think DAILY SPECIALS TO GO fit the tour’s non-profit partners. Funds will it’s a slamming show. It’s genuine in what it's be raised through sales of official benefit t- Quality Meats trying to achieve. I really have gotten a lot shirts, an eBAY auction of tour and music from the community over the years and I felt Old Fashioned Service memorabilia, the True Colors Jewelry this was the best way for me to give back. Collection by Love & Pride, the tour's Official since 1950! TRT: Do you feel that your music is more Jeweler, as well as individual donations to the supported by the Lesbian or Gay community? STORE HOURS: fund by visitors to the tour’s website. The CL: I'm lucky in that regards. I think my Mon. - Fri.: 8 a.m. - 8 p.m. True Colors Jewelry Collection, selected by music has equally resonated with the ladies Cyndi Lauper from creations made by Sat.: 8 a.m. - 7 p.m. and the men. I can be a folk rock mama one renowned designer Udi Behr, is currently in WE DELIVER Sun.: 8 a.m. - 1 p.m. minute and be dragging a disco ball around production and will launch this June. In addi- the next. I think that the different genres that tion, through the True Colors Fund, $1 of I’ve attacked have always kept everyone every ticket sold will once again be donated to interested. At least I hope so [laughs]! HRC. TRT: What do you consider to be the most For more information about the True Colors 65 State Street • Northampton, MA important factor in determining or selecting Tour, visit www.truecolorstour.com. Tickets the next presidential candidate? Why? are on sale now at www.ticketmaster.com. Phone: 413-584-2633 • Fax: 413-585-9756 CL: Truth and integrity … the world is sick of www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • 17 Trans News Burn, Baby, Burn: When Laser Makes Sense By: Joy Ladin* each portion of skin is exposed to a burst of more importantly, was not a sales pitch. The t’s depressing but true: hair removal is intense laser light, dark hair follicles absorb focus was on making sure that I understood often the single greatest expense in the energy and are burned, while light skin the procedure, including the potential risks Iterms of money and time for male-to- reflects the energy and is unharmed. This and limitations. The consultation also made female transsexuals. For many years, the best makes laser treatment much faster than elec- clear that I would be welcome and respected option for permanent hair removal was elec- trolysis, because each patch of skin only takes as a transsexual—and that my transsexuality trolysis—a painful, time-consuming process a second or two of exposure. In addition— would be treated as a patient confidence. of follicle-by-follicle electrocution that costs and this is a real plus for those who are Transsexuals buy hair removal in bulk, and a between $50 and $100 per hour and can cause already living as women—laser works best on good laser center should offer flexible, afford- permanent scarring. But in the past decade, shaved skin, while electrolysis can only be able pricing and payment options. This place, the FDA has approved another procedure that done on unshaven hairs that are long enough for example, offers a discount for a certain is faster, less painful and less expensive: laser to see. number of pre-paid sessions, and also makes hair removal. However, laser is not a panacea. Unlike discount coupons available through a local Laser treatment has been controversial in electrolysis, which destroys all kinds of folli- radio station. Best of all, after six paid ses- the trans community, with some users claim- cles, laser can only destroy follicles for dark sions, follow-ups and touch-ups are free for ing fabulous results and others dissatisfied. hairs. Moreover, laser can only affect follicles two years—a very important feature, because, Understanding how laser works, who it works that are active—and only one out of four fol- as I’ve learned, hormone fluctuations can for, and how to find a good treatment center licles are active at any given time. That means JOY LADIN cause new hair growth. Since my six paid can help you get the benefits of this technolo- the treatments need to be repeated every four all skin and hair types, laser works best for sessions, I’ve enjoyed well over a year of free gy. Laser treatment works because dark colors to six weeks, generally for six to ten sessions. those with the darkest hair and lightest skin, treatments. absorb light, and light colors reflect it. As Finally, while electrolysis works equally for and doesn’t work at all on light hairs or for Laser isn’t the pain-free cure-all that some people with dark skin. ads promise. I’m doing electrolysis to get rid New England Trans Pride March Even those light skin and dark hair, like me; of my blond and grey hairs, and the treatments will probably need some electrolysis to themselves feel like highly localized sunburn. announces Rally Lineup, seeks support remove blond and grey hairs. However, if But they are quick, and only happen every (Northampton, MA)—The organizers of the are.” laser works for you, it can save you both four to six weeks—and best of all, they leave first New England Trans ally and money and pain. my face smoother, my skin softer, and my 11:00 a.m.: Assemble at Lampron Park Noon/March What should you look for in a laser treat- self-image that much stronger. Transgender Pride steps off steering commit- ment center? Amherst Laser and Skin Care in * Joy Ladin is a transitioning M-to-F transsexual. March and Rally 12:30–12:45 p.m.: Marchers arrive at Armory Street tee member Alicia Amherst, MA, where I go, offer an excellent A widely published poet and essayist, she is current- have announced the Lot (behind Thornes Marketplace) Jay stated, “It has model. First, it is run by a physician who is ly working on a book about transition called bound by medical standards of confidentiali- INSIDE OUT: CONFESSIONS OF A WOMAN following lineup of 12:45–12:50 p.m.: Welcome by MC Louis Mitchell and been a powerful Proclamation by Mayor Clare Higgins ty, honesty and concern for patients’ well- CAUGHT IN THE ACT OF BECOMING.. speakers and per- experience organ- 12:50–1:00 p.m.: Political official TBD being. The initial consultation was free, and, formers for the 1:00–1:10 p.m.: Miss Major (Grand Marshal; izing with the event, scheduled for Transgender, Gender Variant, Intersex Justice Project) trans community, June 7, 2008 in 1:10–1:20 p.m.: Gunner Scott (Massachusetts and I feel very Northampton, MA. Transgender Political Coalition) honored to be part 1:20–1:30 p.m.: Jerimarie Liesegang (CT “Presenting our TransAdvocacy Coalition) of this event. It is foremost transgender 1:30–1:40 p.m.: Jill Berlin (TransForming Families) crucial for trans authors, along 1:40–1:45 p.m.: Elliot Halloway (Trans youth) allies to get with1969 Stonewall 1:45–2:00 p.m.: Ellen Wittlinger (Author reading from involved in the Parrotfish) Rebellion veteran growing trans 2:00–2:05 p.m.: Alex Pangborn (Generation Q) Miss Major, and sev- 2:05–2:15 p.m.: Lee Elder (FTM folksinger) civil rights move- eral prominent trans 2:15–2:30 p.m.: Joe Stevens (singer/songwriter of ment, and support activists and musi- Coyote Grace) the right of all cians on one stage 2:30–2:40 p.m.: Announcements/Intermission communities to 2:40–2:50 p.m.: Monica Roberts (Trans Griot blog, may be unprecedent- founding member of National Transgender Advocacy stand up and be ed,” said Bet Power, Coalition) heard.” a Trans Pride steer- 2:50–3:10 p.m.: New England Transgender Pride New England ing committee mem- Steering Committee members: Bet Power, Marie Ali, Transgender Pride Dru Levasseur, and Jacklyn Matts ber. “It will certainly is seeking spon- 3:10–3:25 p.m.: Statement from Leslie Feinberg be an historic event, (Trans author and activist) sors, donations a pivotal day that the 3:25–3:35 p.m.: Moonhawk River Stone (Trans psy- from organiza- national, regional, chotherapist and activist) tions and individ- and local transgender 3:35–3:40 p.m.: Vickie Boisseau (Intersex activist) uals, and volun- 3:40–3:50 p.m.: Imani Henry (Trans activist and per- community is very formance artist) teers to help on the much looking for- 3:50–4:00 p.m.: Dr. Enoch Page (Associate Professor day of the march. ward to. Trans peo- of Anthropology, UMass Amherst) For more informa- ple and our allies 4:00–4:10 p.m.: Cathy Worthley (MTF folksinger) tion or to partici- 4:10–4:20 p.m.: Ethan St. Pierre (TransFM Radio) will be traveling pate, visit 4:20–4:30 p.m.: Donna Rose (TransEducate, resigned from both coasts and from HRC board over ENDA) www.transpride- locations in-between 4:30–4:45 p.m.: Kate Bornstein (Trans author, play- march.org. to march for our civil wright, and performance artist) rights and celebrate 4:45–5:00 p.m.: All The Kings Men: Boston’s Drag Troupe our pride in who we 18 • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesmass.com LGBT Announcements TRT PRIDE Calendar from MA, NY, CT & VT! (MA) UNITY is a Transgender support group CDGLCC, 332 Hudson Ave., Albany. FMI: 518- domestic violence in GBT relationships. There will a special program that highlights, through music, which meets at 7 p.m. on the 2nd and 4th 462-6138. also be plenty of opportunity for audience partici- the diversity of regions within Israel and the histo- Thursdays at Baystate Hospital 3300 Main Street LGBTQ TEA DANCE AT DANCE NORTHAMPTON. pation through discussions and role plays. Family ry and pageantry of these last 60 years. Held at in Springfield, MA. FMI: Deja 860-604-6343 or Second Sunday of every month; 3-6 PM; $8 Justice Center at 989 Commonwealth Avenue in Temple Beth El in Springfield, MA, begins at 4 Allston, MA. FMI or to reserve your spot: educa- p.m. Following the concert, a light dinner will be Keri 413-364-1749. (includes lesson at 3:00) FMI: www.dan- cenorthampton.com . [email protected] if you are interested in attend- served in the "Israeli Cafe" within the halls of the (MA) SOCIAL GROUP FOR LESBIANS; We ing. synagogue. $36; FMI: 413-733-4149. (NY) OUT DANCING (for the LGBTQ communi- always meet on the first and third Friday's of the (MA) May 2-3; at 7:30 p.m.; Documentary “Born (NY) Tuesday, May 6, 13, 20, and 27; Pride ty); every Wednesday evening; 7 to 8 p.m.; month. For information call 413-687-2065 Again,” about a woman growing up in an Planning Committee Meeting; 6pm at CDGLCC Saratoga SAVOY, 7 Wells St, Saratoga Springs, Evangelical Christian family coming to terms with (332 Hudson Ave, Albany) If you are interested in (MA) EMERGENCY CONTRACEPTION (EC) is NY. FMI: 518-587-5132. http://saratogasavoy.home- being a lesbian. Pothole Pictures Theater is in becoming involved with the Capital Pride 2008, NOW available without a prescription at all stead.com/files/outdancing.html Tapestry Health Services sites. (413) 586-2539. Shelburne Falls (51 Bridge St.). On the Saturday this is your official invitation to jump in! FMI: cap- (CT) Every Sunday; ALL LGBT YOUTH to the show on May 3, its director Markie Hancock will [email protected] Note: This year's parade (MA) MATURE LESBIAN SUPPORT GROUP; Rainbow Room; at the Hartford Gay & Lesbian be present to answer questions. Both nights and festival will be June 8. Health Collective; from 3-6 p.m.; 1841 Broad Group for women 55+ meets monthly at the Carrie Ferguson & the Cherry Street Band, from (MA) May 9, and May 10; Dance Company Street, Hartford, CT; for LGBT youth and allies. 21 Northampton Council on Aging at 240 Main St., at Northampton, will play on stage before the film Spring Concert; 7:30 p.m., MainStage, '62 & younger. 6 p.m.; second Monday of each month. from 7 to 7:30. Admission is $6 at the door. Center, Williams College. FMI: (413) 597- (MA) TransForming Families – Transgender (MA) DISCUSSION GROUP FOR LESBIANS (NY) May 2; Romaine Brooks Art Gallery 4279/4277. Support Group; Parents, partners, children and 40+ meets every Wednesday from 6 p.m. to 8 Opening – First Friday featuring: John Frederick (CT) May 10; Special Litchfield County their transgender loved ones. Wednesdays, 7:30 5-9pm; @ Romaine Brooks Art Gallery @ p.m. at the Stonewall Center at UMass. This is a – 9 p.m. in Hadley. FMI: www.transformingfami- Premiere of Marriage Makes a Word of CDGLCC @ 332 Hudson Ave., Albany; FMI: Difference! 4-6pm warm and welcoming group of intelligent women. lies.org or 413-522-0522 Michael at [email protected] and check out Information email to: [email protected] Cornwall Town Hall, 26 Pine Street. The film por- (MA) Free Breast Cancer Services; Cooley www.romainebrooksga llery.30art. com or trays the personal struggles and political chal- (MA) OLDER LESBIAN DISCUSSION GROUPS; Dickinson; Women can select therapy services www.1stfridayalbany.org. lenges of Connecticut’s same-sex couples and Amherst/NoHo Area. New members accepted on such as acupuncture, aromatherapy, therapeutic (MA) May 3; Pianist, Composer, Vocalist Lenore their families who are fighting for the freedom to space-available basis. If enough interest, new touch, healing music, healing touch, Reiki, Reiki, Troia performs KEY WEST CABARET; At The marry. Reception after the film! Meet Anne groups may form. FMI: 413-247-3257 or 413-253- Peggy Huddleston’s Prepare for Surgery, Heal Northampton Center for the Arts; 7:30pm; She will Stanback, Exec. Dir. of Love Makes a Family, & 3049. Faster™, self-hypnosis/guided imagery and ther- be joined by co-producer and LP percussionist, mingle with your neighbors in Northwest apeutic massage by CD employees that hold cer- guitarist and singer, Laura Wood.A Benefit for the Connecticut. RSVP to Nancy Dart at 860-672- (VT) MEN'S SUPPORT GROUP; Any male 18 or tifications in these therapy techniques. FMI” 413- Northampton Center for the Arts and 0041 or e-mail at [email protected]. older; Support group not a therapy group. Free. 582-2424. Northampton Pride 2008. (MA) May 10-18th; 5th Annual Latino Pride of Every Tuesday, 6:30-8:30 p.m., Brattleboro, VT. (MA) EAST COAST FEMALE-TO-MALE (MA) May 3; Northampton Pride 2008; 12- New England; FMI: see page 24 of The Rainbow FMI: 802-258-3914. GROUP (ECFTMG); 2nd Sunday of every month 5p.m.; Parade starts at Lampron Park on Bridge Times. (MA) JOIN EMAIL GROUP FOR LGBT PAR- from 3:00 to 6:00 p.m. FMI: 413.584.7616 or Rd. and goes thru Main St., Hampton Ave., (MA) May 11; LGBTQ tea dance (with optional ENTS in the Pioneer Valley area at email: [email protected]. FTMs or SOFFAs Northampton. FMI: 413-586-5602; lesson) at Dance Northampton; Second Sunday http://groups.yahoo.com/group/lgbt_parents_pio- who have never come to one of the meetings www.northamptonpride.org of every month; 3-6 p.m.; $8, includes lesson @3; neer_valley/ for exchanging information, chatting should call and introduce themselves to Bet (NY) May 3; LGBT Party Sponsored by The 492 Pleasant St.; FMI: 413-586-2422. about our families, and organizing get-togethers before attending. Meetings are open to ALL mas- Northeast Gender Alliance and Schenectady and play-dates. culine-identified, female-born persons, our signif- (NY) May 16; FREEHELD followed by Q&A with Gender Alliance; Yours Jazz Club @ 145 Barret icant others, family, and allies. director Cynthia Wade; The Linda, 339 Central (MA, NY, CT & VT) DISCRIMINATION St, Schenectady, NY. 8 p.m. – 1 a.m., $5 Cover Ave., Albany, NY; 7:00 p.m., $6. FMI: 518-465- BECAUSE YOU ARE QUEER? Call The (VT) Third Sunday of Every Month; in Brattleboro, (bring your ID) 5233, x.4 Rainbow Times, 413-204-8959; 518-391-2617. Open to anyone whose identity or expression (MA) May 3; Stoppard Nights: Travesties; 7:30 doesn't fit neatly into the gender binary, (VT) May 17; NH Gay Men's Chorus will be in (NY) Bisexual Brunch; First and third Sundays p.m., CenterStage, '62 Center, Williams College. including transpeople of all genders and sexual Keene NH; 7:30pm at the Redfern Arts Center. of the month, 11 a.m. - 1 p.m. at the Rainbow FMI: (413) 597-4279/4277. Cafe, 332 Hudson Ave., Albany. FMI: Viktoria orientations. FMI: Benjamin Robin: robin@ben- This is the closest performance to us, so let's 518-438-6315. jaminrobin.net (NY) May 3rd & May 4th; Nocturna spring show our appreciation for them coming over this show, workshops and Milonga (Tango Party); way and get them a big turnout! (NY) Ask-A-Lawyer Legal Clinic: Serving the (NY) Bagel Bunch; Tuesdays; 10:30 a.m.; Older Saratoga Music Hall, 3rd Floor City Hall, 474 LGBT community Geri Pomerantz, Esq. and Anne (CT) May 17; Queer Prom; HGLHC will hold its gay men’s social and discussion group. Broadway, Saratoga Springs NY; May 3rd: work- Reynolds Copps, Esq.; 5:00 - 7:00 p.m.; FREE 13th Queer Prom on Saturday, May 17, 2008 at Bruegger’s, Hannaford Plaza, Central Ave., shops- 3:00-5:15pm, Nocturna show 7:30pm; Albany. legal consultations to the LGBT community. the Greater Hartford Jaycees Community Milonga 9:00pm; and May 4th: workshops- 1:00- Boathouse in Hartford from 8:00PM – Midnight. (NY) Capital Pride Singers; Mondays @ 7 p.m.; Appointment only. FMI: 518.432.4188. 2:10pm; Nocturna show 3:00pm. Tango guest Come dance the night away with more than 200 LGBT/LGBTaffirming; mixed chorus; St. (NY) ONGOING: First and third Sundays of the artists from New York City, Oliver Kolker and hundred LGBT and allied youth. The HGLHC Andrew’s, Episcopal Church, 10 No. Main St., month, 11 - 1 p.m. at the Rainbow Cafe, 332 Sylvana Vals, are showcased. The show is “Queer Prom” is one of the most highly anticipat- Albany, 12203; FMI: 435-4636. Hudson Ave., Albany. FMI: Viktoria 518-438- designed to be fun, sexy, surprising and suitable ed youth events of the year. Dress to impress. (NY) Capital District Prime Timers; Provides 6315. for all ages. FMI: (518) 691-0423 FMI: HGLHC at 860-2787-4163. social, cultural, and recreational opportunities for (CT) Living Soulfully: A Monthly Men’s (MA) May 4; Bread and Tulips (2000 | PG-13 | mature gay and bisexual men. 21+. FMI: jalli- (NY) May 17; Progressions Concert Series: Gathering; Meets on 4th Wednesday of every Italian with English Subtitles). At The Agawam Namoli Brennet with Liz Stahler; CDGLCC, 332 [email protected] or CDPT 595 New Loudon month from 7:30-9:00pm at the Hartford Gay & Cultural Council; $6; includes complimentary hors Rd #202 Latham NY 12110 Hudson Ave, Albany, NY; 8 p.m.; 7:30 Doors. FMI: Lesbian Health Collective. FMI: HGLHC at 860- d’oeuvres before the show; Free drawing for door 518.462.6138. (NY) Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Men 2787-4163. prizes; Agawam Family Cinemas at 866 Suffield Support Group; Mondays; 7 p.m.; Support group Street, Agawam, and begin at 1:15 pm. Doors (NY) May 17; Capital Pride Singers presents (NY) Capital Pride Singers LGBT and affirming for GBT men; CDGLCC @ 332 Hudson Avenue in open at 12:30 pm. An unappreciated housewife “Keeping It Gay!”; Emmanuel Friedens Church, mixed chorus. Rehearsals on Monday's, 7pm, Albany. FMI: Q Diamond at (518) 462-6138 or finds good fortune when she hitchhikes to Venice 218 Nott Terrace, Schenectady; 7:30 p.m., $10; A Emmanuel Baptist Church, 275 State St; Albany. [email protected]. to begin a new life, and with newfound confi- very special Spring Concert of serious and silly FMI: 518-435-4636. music from your favorite GLBT chorus. (NY) Lesbian and Bisexual Women's Support dence, begins a tentative relationship with a lone- Group; every other Tuesday; 7 p.m.; Meet at (CT) RainbowRoom is open every Sunday from ly waiter. (CT) May 18; INTEGRITY/Greater Hartford 3:00pm-6:00pm and is located at 1841 Broad St., CDGLCC at 332 Hudson Avenue in Albany. FMI: (MA) May 4; Gina Daggett and Kathy Belge, bet- Meeting: Changing Vision of Marriage; 3:00pm at Hartford. RainbowRoom is an affirming and safe Q Diamond at (518) 462-6138. ter known as Curve Magazine’s relationship Trinity Episcopal Church, 120 Sigourney Street, place for lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans and ques- advice columnists “Lipstick and Dipstick”, will Hartford. All are welcome! Speaker: Fr. (NY) Youth Group; Friday nights; 7 p.m.; 332 tioning teens and young adults 13 to 21. be signing copies of their first book Lipstick & Christopher L. Webber, author and priest in the Hudson Ave. in Albany; Group offers peer support RainbowRoom is a drop-in center located in an Dipstick’s Essential Guide to Lesbian Connecticut Diocese. Webber will give a talk to LGBT& questioning individuals ages 13-19. A intimate, informal space with room for a variety of Relationships; at Pride & Joy, 20 Crafts Avenue, titled; "Changing Vision of Marriage" based on his supportive environment for LGBTQ youth and activities. Northampton, from 1-3pm. FMI: Pride & Joy at new book, soon to be released, Re-Thinking their straight allies. FMI: Q Diamond (518) 462- (MA) May 1; The Gay Men’s Domestic Violence 413-585-0683. Marriage. 6138. Project (GMDVP) will offer a 3-hour orientation (MA) May 4; Temple Beth El of Springfield (NY) Confidential HIV Testing; first Wednesday for individuals interested in learning more about Massachusetts will host a musical tribute cele- of each month; 6-8:30 p.m.; Provided by Project volunteering with the organization. A survivor will brating Israel's 60th birthday. Director: Cantor H.O.P.E., a program of the AIDS Council of share his personal story and GMDVP will provide Steve Berke of Beth El Temple, who has created Northeastern New York. Testing offered at the a wide ranging presentation on the dynamics of More Calendar of Events on page 39 Submit your non-profit calendar event/s* to [email protected] or [email protected] *Certain restrictions apply. Small for-profit events/groups, 35 words or less, are considered for a small fee. Large/for-profit events are not considered. All submissions appear online. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • 19 LGBT Intolerance News & More PFLAG releases new audio recording of meeting with Oklahoma Rep. Kern 40-minute un-edited recording clearly contradicts Kern’s version of the event OKLAHOMA CITY, OK—Parents, Edwards, president of PFLAG’s Oklahoma they have been “deceived” by the “homosex- recording attests, we approached her with a Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays City chapter. “The recording, which we made ual agenda,” but also expresses gratitude for willingness to talk and a commitment to work (PFLAG) has released the full 40-minute with her staff’s consent, is irrefutable evi- the opportunity to talk with them. together for our families. In response, she has audio of a recent meeting between Oklahoma denied that she said what she did and walked PFLAG supporters and State Representative away from her duty to hear from her con- Sally Kern. The un-edited audio, released The un-edited audio, released exclusively at stituents. Kern’s return to shrill rhetoric is a exclusively at www.pflag.org, was made pub- www.pflag.org, was made public after Kern insisted disservice to everyone. She clearly does not lic after Kern insisted the organization had the organization had misrepresented her state- intend to represent all of the families in her misrepresented her statements to reporters district.” following the sit-down. Kern, who referred to ments to reporters following the sit-down. Kern, who The full audio recording of PFLAG’s meet- gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender referred to gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender ing with Kern is available online at Americans as a “cancer” that “is just destroy- www.pflag.org. ing this nation,” and said gays were “the Americans as a “cancer” that “is just destroying PFLAG promotes the health and well-being of biggest threat our nation has, even more so and said gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender per- than terrorism,” met with PFLAG supporters this nation,” gays were “the biggest sons, their families and friends through: sup- at the state capitol on March 27. She subse- threat our nation has, even more so than ter- port, to cope with an adverse society; educa- quently denied that, during the meeting, she tion, to enlighten an ill-informed public; and spoke out against job discrimination against rorism,” met with PFLAG supporters at the state capi- advocacy, to end discrimination and to secure gays or that she agreed to consider an ongoing tol on March 27. equal civil rights. Parents, Families and dialogue with PFLAG families. Friends of Lesbians and Gays provides On the recording released today, Kern twice dence that she did agree with us on employ- “Sally Kern has, to our disappointment, opportunity for dialogue about sexual orien- agrees with PFLAG supporters that gay ment non-discrimination; that she did agree to now slammed the door shut on our families, tation and gender identity, and acts to create Americans should not be fired from their jobs consider an ongoing dialogue with us; and allies and loved ones in Oklahoma and across a society that is healthy and respectful of simply because of their sexual orientation. that she did agree on some basic principles of the country,” said Jody M. Huckaby, execu- human diversity. For more information, visit She goes on to say that “maybe” she would fairness and equality. It is beyond disappoint- tive director of PFLAG. “As the PFLAG www.pflag.org. consider a follow-up meeting with PFLAG ing that she has now stepped away from those families in her district and agrees to a dinner comments, and it is disheartening that she, as invitation from a PFLAG supporter in the an elected leader, has attempted to disavow meeting. Near the end of the conversation, her own words.” Kern is asked, in recapping the conversation, Loyce-Edwards, along with PFLAG sup- if she does indeed oppose anti-gay job dis- porters Rev. Dr. Kathy McCallie and Rev. Jim crimination; she responds affirmatively that Shields, are heard in the recording engaging she does. Kern on issues ranging from GLBT demo- “Representative Kern’s words speak for graphics in Kern’s district to issues of faith themselves,” said Rev. Loyce Newton- and family. Kern later tells the group that TRT Remember, you saw it here first!

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Starring Perry as the break from the busi- ly as a gay nurse on ER, but forever known as clownish and outsized old woman who's ness to find her way "Long Duk Dong" from Sixteen Candles). always ready to beat on people who misbe- back in, so lately she's The film rolls in June and promises cameos have, Pulliam co-stars as a prostitute who been taking some cues from ex-husband by several as-yet-unnamed New York finds herself protected from a predatory les- Bruce Willis. Want a low-risk comeback? Get nightlife personalities. bian inmate by Madea. Audiences expecting on the indie-film bus. And that's exactly what to find subtlety, good taste, and positive queer she's been doing, recently starring in the heist Raul Esparza Slays 'Em in 25/8 role models are advised to look elsewhere drama Flawless with Michael Caine, and now Eventually, all the Broadway stars try their when this one comes down the pipeline. The set to shoot gay writer-director Mitchell luck in Hollywood. And it was just a matter of rest of you will know where to find it when it Lichtenstein's (Teeth) latest film, Happy time before Raul Esparza, the handsome Tony hits multiplexes in 2010. Tears. She's in good company, too, as indie- Award nominee and Drama Desk Award win- film veteran Parker Posey has signed on to ner (both for Company and Taboo), wandered * Romeo San Vicente's favorite "Cosby Show" play Moore's younger sibling. The drama west. The bisexual actor has already found kid was always Denise. He can be reached focuses on the two estranged sisters (one self- success on the small screen, cast in a recurring DEMI MOORE care of this publication or at aggrandizing, the other bitter and resentful) as role on ABC's hit Pushing Daisies. But now and looking to introduce her adult self to audi- [email protected]. they re-establish their relationship and deal he may be stepping way outside the feel-good with their elderly father's progressive demen- box he's been in - he's in talks to play a serial Couch from Page 2 beliefs. tia. Shooting now in Philadelphia, look for the killer in Wes Craven's latest teen-horror film, Tyler Gray in a recent Radar article argues Dr. Mohler is the president of the Southern happiness sometime in 2009. 25/8. Concerning a group of kids being that pro-lifers will have to decide if the “pub- Baptist Theological Seminary, a syndicated stalked by a killer believed to have died on the lic shame of having a gay child outweighs Gay Cast Populates Canvas birthday they share in common, the film will radio talk show host and on the board of the private sin of terminating a pregnancy.” Shifting the Canvas, an indie drama due to co-star teenage colleagues Max Thieriot Focus on the Family, James Dobson’s anti- And pro-choice advocates would have the tackle the complicated lives of a group of (Jumper) and Shareeka Epps (Half-Nelson). gay organization. Mohler is on the outs with dilemma of accepting the decisions of “thou- Brooklyn friends after 9/11, has cast several No production or release dates yet, but the his religious constituents by acknowledging sands of potential parents choosing to filter faces familiar to queer audiences, notably up- scary stuff is due to shoot soon. homosexuality may not be a choice, so I homosexuality right out of the gene pool”. and-coming gay actor Cheyenne Jackson. guess he’s the open minded right- wing bigot I see the downside here, and it is the exis- Last seen on film as rugby player Mark Cosby Kid Goes to Jail of the bunch. tence of us. Gay, Lesbian, Bi, Trans. And a Bingham in United 93, and currently on Adorable little Rudy Huxtable is all grown up This is supposed to be a fair and balanced panel of people that appear to be threatening, panel, discussing an issue that is of great at the very least, to make sure we are catego- consequence for all of us. What is not men- rized as a disease, a mental illness that needs tioned is what Mohler wrote in his Christian to be “fixed” once again. advice column, in regards to genetic testing Can’t anyone see the irony here? That if it for homosexuality. He wrote: “If a biological was possible to isolate the gay gene, and it basis [for homosexuality] is found, and if a were to be eradicated, wouldn’t those who prenatal test is then developed, and if a suc- did the deed be playing God? Going against cessful treatment to reverse the sexual orien- the will of the very One they say they believe tation to heterosexual is ever developed, we in and are doing this for? And that this deity would support its use as we should unapolo- apparently made gays this way to begin with getically support the use of any appropriate perhaps with the greater good of humanity in means to avoid sexual temptation and the mind? Would we be fully human without the inevitable effects of sin.” Mohler concludes, contributions to society of all the writers, “If such knowledge should ever be discov- film makers, fashion designers, musicians, ered, we should embrace it in use it for the poets, artists, clergy, athletes, entertainers greater good humanity and for the greater and all the rest of the GLBT community? I glory of God.” know we wouldn’t dress as well, that’s for Oh yeah, this guy is the one I want weigh- damn sure. ing in on whether people like us could be put I’m a little tired of other people suggesting in a mental hospital in the future. And what’s there’s something wrong with being gay, with the “appropriate means to avoid sexual something that needs a little tinkering to temptation?” Does that then give the green make it all better. And I don’t want GMG’s light to castrate those born with a penis, (Genetically Modified Gays) to be an because it may be too much of a “sexual acronym of the future. This ethical dilemma temptation” to reach out and touch … some- must be addressed now by our community, one? Or, yourself perhaps? I know that makes before it is done for us by others. the A-list of sin. Think of the temptations Dr. Mohler could stop! All for the greater good of * Suzan Ambrose can be heard on her call- humanity! And don’t forget: God’s beaming in talk radio program, The Naked Truth, praise will be yours. Monday evenings at 8 p.m., and 2 a.m. But, I’m guessing if the whole reparative Tuesdays, on 103.3FM, Northampton. Or “ex-gay” thingy doesn’t work. We can streaming on the web at www.valleyfreera- always move on to the elimination of fetuses dio.org. For more of Suz’s thoughts, check with the gay gene. Oh, wait, that’s not out her website at: www.nakedtruthshow.com allowed in religious circles either. Not yet, Got some feedback for Suz? Topics you’d anyways. But if and when such testing like to hear about? 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By: Wilfred Labiosa* community groups in this state (and others pride flags waved side by side with other embraces and learns the validity of this illegal states). flags. residents/immigrant community’ currently “Race is an issue that I believe this nation As a gay man, I’m astonished about the Let’s make our fight one of advocacy for living in the US. Let’s embrace immigration. cannot afford to ignore right now,” Sen. indifference, hatred, and “uneducation” of justice and equality for all not for the few. As The immigrants in question are our neighbors, Barack Obama. GLBT individuals. I have noticed how GLBT a marginalized community, GLBT folks of all our work force, our friends, our lovers, and individuals have stopped caring for other colors and races and immigrant status should possibly our spouses. Let’s learn about this t would be a great world if racism, big- subject, let’s unite, and let’s have an “agenda” otry, and homophobia wouldn’t exist. It What ever happened to transgender rights, or GLBT immi- for equal rights for all, not the few, and let’s Iwould be impressive if people would mean it! Take time to vote in November as stop expressing and acting their racism, sepa- grant rights? Can these be added to the GLBT community your vote will affect all of our futures, not just ratism, and homophobia. It is incredible that yours! in the year 2008 we are still seeking equal “agenda”? The GLBT community and the immigrant rights for GLBT folks, and for immigrants. community are not mutually exclusive. So to We should be all equal by now but we are not. the GLBT community and all of the commu- People wake up! issues after we gain the right to marriage. work together towards the advancement of nity at large, wake up, stand up and unite so I find myself writing another column about What ever happened to transgender rights, or rights for all. Aren’t we all victims of oppres- that our spirits and our voices rise and are the same issue. I wrote a similar column two GLBT immigrant rights? Can these be added sion? Aren’t we children of the “isms” like heard all the way to the top and around the years ago and we are still trying to bring to the GLBT community “agenda”? I have racism, sexism, and homophobia? The globe! Start bringing this change to your equality for all and work with the racism that not seen the enthusiasm and energy for these moment for GLBT individuals to unite is home, family, church, group, organization and exists in our country. After January 20, 2009, issues as that noted during the intense struggle now! No matter your political affiliation, community. You can make a difference, it is when a new a president is sworn might be a of marriage equality. These two issues should color, or race you should unite to fight for time to talk, get educated, vote, and to wake better time for all of us specially immigrants have the same intensity and we should contin- immigrant rights, fighting for these rights up! Visualize, Struggle, and Change! and people of color. ue the dialogue on the racism, and homopho- don’t diminish our cause and ongoing strug- You can attend the seminar been planned I’m lucky. Thanks to a 1920’s act signed bia existent in our community. gle for equal GLBT rights, instead it makes it for Latino Pride 08 on this subject to be held into law by the US and my home country, As a Latino gay man, I’m astonished how stronger. When you don’t see some other per- May 15. For details on this community con- Puerto Rico, I was born being a citizen of the much more welcoming my Latino straight son as unequal is when you will be able to versation and on Latino Pride 08 please visit US. If these two governments in 2008 had counterparts are about GLBT rights. Yes, you make a change. www.somoslatinoslgbt.org or read this news- negotiated this, most probably it wouldn’t might not have expected this but it’s the truth. Let’s not spend money in stronger border paper. have occurred because recently the US gov- Survey results and other research conducted control. Let’s not spend money convicting ernment instead of progressing has regressed. in the last four years have confirmed this fact. hard working immigrants as felons. Lets not * Written by Wilfred W. Labiosa—community I have noticed a higher prevalence of racism, During the marches for immigrant rights, you stop immigration reform but lets do it in a mobilizer, and founding member of Somos sexism, bigotry, and homophobia; not only can notice Latinos walking side by side with proper way that will allow families to stay Latin@s LGBT Coalition of Mass and Latino within the government and its institutions but GLBT individuals and families; in some together, that it will allow working immi- Pride of New England. This article was edit- also among individuals, organizations, and marches across the US, you could have seen grants gain work permits, and in a way that ed in English by John Barter. ¡Únase por la igualdad para todo/as y no por los pocos! Por: Wilfred Labiosa* Sería impresionante si las personas dejaran de somos. ¡Despierta! GLBT? ¿Estos temas se pueden agregar a “El tema de raza es uno que esta nacion no expresar su racismo, fanatismo, transfobia y Me encuentro escribiendo otra columna con nuestra "agenda" GLBT? No he visto el entu- puede ignorar en estos momentos”, Senador homofobía. Es increíble que en el año 2008 la temática de igualdad. Escribí una columna siasmo y la energía para estos temas que pude Barack Obama. todavía estemos abogando por igualdad para similar hace dos años y todavía estamos inten- notar durante la lucha intensa por la igualdad ería un gran mundo si no existiría el la comunidad GLBT y la comunidad de inmi- tando alcanzar la igualdad para todo/as y al matrimonio gay. Estos dos temas deben Sracismo, el fanatismo, y la homofobia. grantes. Debemos ser todos iguales pero no lo lidiar con el racismo que existe en este país. tener la misma intensidad además de abrir Después de enero 20 del 2009, cuando se jura- dialogo en relación al racismo y homofobia. Queer Cinema You Can’t Miss! mente un nuevo(a) presidente quizás pueda Como hombre gay Latino, estoy asombrado ser un mejor momento para todo/as nosotro/as de la aceptación de mucho/as de mis contra- Kiss the Bride (Gay & Bi) en especial para lo/as inmigrantes y personas partes “straights” Latinos sobre los derechos Genre: Comedy, Romance; Rating: R XXY(TRANS) de color. GLBT. Sí, usted quizás no lo pueda creer pero Director: C. Jay Cox Genre: Drama; Rating: Not yet rated Soy afortunado ya que a la gracia de un acto es la verdad. Resultados de encuestas y otras Distributor: Regent Releasing Distribution: Limited Release de ley en los 1920’s entre los Estados Unidos investigaciones en los pasados cuatro años Starring: Tori Spelling, Philipp Karner, James Director: Lucia Puenzo; Starring: Ricardo Darín, y mi país de origen, Puerto Rico, nací siendo han confirmado el hecho de que hay una gran O'Shea; Release Date: 04/18/08 Valeria Bertucceli, Germán Palacios, Carolina ciudadano de los Estados Unidos. Si estos mayoria en la comunidad Latina que apoya Synopsis: When Matt (Karner) receives an invita- Peleritti, Martín Piroyansky, Inés Efron dos gobiernos en 2008 hubieran negociado los derechos para la comunidad GLBT. tion to high school best friend Ryan's (O'Shea) Release Date: 05/02/08; Synopsis: 15-year-old esto, quizás no hubiera sucedido ya que Durante las marchas para los derechos de wedding he's surprised-especially that Ryan is Alex (Ines Efron) was brought up as a girl but was recientemente el gobierno de los EE.UU. en inmigrantes, usted podía notar Latinos cami- marrying a woman! Matt plans to rescue his for- born both with male and female genitalia, and is vez de progresar ha retrocedido. He notado un nando de lado a lado con individuos y famil- mer love from whatever "she-devil" has trapped starting to believe she might be a boy. Alvaro incremento en racismo, sexismo, fanatismo y ias GLBT; en algunas marchas a través de los him into this huge mistake. (Piroyansky) — suffering gender identity angst of homofobia no solamente dentro del gobierno EE.UU., usted pudo ver banderas de Orgullo his own — forces the issue of Alex's sexuality. Love Songs (French title: Les Chansons y de sus instituciones pero también entre indi- de lado a lado con otras banderas. d'amour/ Lesbian, Gay & Bi) Shelter (Gay) viduos, organizaciones y grupos en la comu- Hagamos nuestra lucha GLBT una de justi- Genre: Musical, Romance; Rating: Not rated Genre: Drama, Romance; Rating: Not rated nidad en este estado (y otros estados). cia y de igualdad para todo/as y no una lucha Distribution: Limited Release; Director: Distribution: Limited Release; Director: Jonah Como hombre gay, estoy asombrado sobre por los poco/as. Como comunidad marginada, Christophe Honore; Status: Opens in NY; Markowitz; Starring: Trevor Wright, Brad Rowe, la indiferencia, el odio, y la mala información gente GLBT de todos los colores, razas y esta- Release Date: 03/21/08 Tina Holmes, Jackson Wurth, Ross Thomas (poca educación) que existe entre individuos dos inmigrantes debemos trabajar juntos hacia Synopsis: A French musical featuring a woman Release Date: 03/21/08; Notes: Premiered at GLBT. He notado cómo individuos GLBT el adelanto por los derechos de todo/as. ¿No sharing her bed and affections with a man and 2008 Palm Springs International Film Festival han parado de actuar políticamente después somos todo/as lo/as víctimas de la opresión? another woman. After an unexpected event, the Synopsis: An unexpected attraction to his best de haber ganado el derecho al matrimonio friend’s older brother forces Zach, a handsome man involved finds himself seduced by another gay. ¿Qué sucedió con los derechos de los artist and surfer, to reconcile his own desires with man. transgeneros o derechos para los inmigrantes the needs of his family in first-time director Jonah See Unite on Page 23 www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • 23 Queer Justice & QPuzzle Queer Justice: Will vs. Power of Attorney? By Atty. Jennifer Dexter* pay bills on behalf of the Q Puzzle: “You’ve grown a foot!” TRT Law Columnist grantor. A general power of Dear Queer Justice: attorney is an instrument What is the difference between a Living Will which authorizes an and a Power of Attorney? Which one do you agent to transact busi- recommend and for what reason? ness on behalf of the —Tom, Southampton grantor. An irrevocable ATTY. JENNIFER power of attorney is a Dear Tom: DEXTER POA which cannot be A Living Will is quite different from a revoked and a special Power of Attorney. The term Living Will is power of attorney is a POA which is limits the defined by Black’s Law Dictionary as an authority of the agent to only specific matters. instrument which is executed with the same Basically, a living will tells people what you formalities as a will (must be signed before want medically in the event you can’t and a two disinterested witnesses as well as nota- power of attorney gives someone the authori- rized), in which a person directs that his or her ty to act on your behalf and take care of your life not be artificially prolonged by extraordi- affairs. nary measures when there is no reasonable These two documents serve two very dis- expectation of recovery from extreme physi- tinct situations. I would recommend execut- cal or mental disability. ing both documents so you are sure your There are four types of Powers of Attorney; wishes and desires are respected. (1) durable power of attorney; (2) general power of attorney; (3) irrevocable power of *Attorney Jennifer L. Dexter earned a B.A. attorney; and (4) special power of attorney. in Psychology from The University of Central The most common being the durable power of Florida. She moved to Massachusetts to attorney. attend law school at The Western New A durable power of attorney is a document England College of Law in Springfield, Mass. which grants a specific person the authority to She is a member of the Massachusetts Bar act as an agent or attorney-in-fact for the and has a Solo General Practice in the grantor (the person executing the instrument) Pioneer Valley Area. The information con- during the grantor’s incompetence. This type tained herein is intended for educational pur- of POA is only valid should the grantor poses only and does not represent legal become incompetent or incapacity. The advice. Should you need legal advice, please Across instrument typically specifies that the agent or contact an attorney. If you have legal ques- 1 Nick Malgieri, for one Down attorney-in-fact has the authority to do any- tions that are unanswered, send your ques- 5 Make-or-break date 1 Coins w. Abe images thing the grantor could do. For example, the tions to: [email protected] 9 Mystery writer Claire 2 One foot, to a stallion agent could buy and sell stock or property or 14 Friend of Dorothy 3 It comes at the bottom of a list 15 Prefix with gravure, in "Easter Parade" 4 Flavor of a skin? 16 Spartacus venue 5 Impossible practice for Greg Louganis? Legal questions? Don’t wait, contact TRT’s Queer Justice: 17 Fly like an eagle 6 Auxiliary with "protest," to the bard [email protected] 18 Linda Hunt's The ___ of Living Dangerously 7 Opposite of loads 19 Yellow Brick and others 8 Time of Spamalot 20 Best of Anglo-French elevators, to Renee Vivien? 9 Leatherneck Unite from Page 22 23 Oddly shaped testicle? 10 Jolie's tomb-raiding role 24 Queen of the hill ¿No somos niños de los "ismos" como a tener una "agenda" para los derechos 11 Like Felix of The Odd Couple 25 Variety 12 Added stipulations iguales para todo/as, no los pocos, y deja el racismo, sexismo, y homofobia? ¡El 28 Actress Ione 13 Some women's studies degrees momento para que nos unamos es ahora! miedo atrás! ¡Toma tiempo para votar en 30 NCAA jock org. 21 Type of wedding candle No importa tu afiliación política, color, o noviembre ya que tu voto afectara nuestro 33 Go down on a hill 22 Rim job? raza, debes de unirte a la lucha por los dere- futuro como comunidad Latina y GLBT! 34 Party after a Hawaiian wedding, perhaps 25 Part of an IRS return chos de inmigrantes. Esta lucha por los La comunidad GLBT y la comunidad 35 Star quality 26 Saw opening about being human derechos de todo/as los inmigrantes no dis- inmigrante no son mutuamente exclusivas. 36 Fat cat, to Shirley McLaine? 27 Boats you can blow up 39 Art Deco design name minuye nuestra causa y lucha por nuestros ¡A la comunidad GLBT y todo/as en gener- 28 Type of daddy 40 "Uh-oh!" to Lord Byron derechos, en vez la hace más fuerte. Cuando al, despierten, luchen y únanse para que 29 Artist Deborah 41 "Ring My Bell" singer Ward 30 Subjects of autoerotic fantasy? todo/as nuestros espíritus y voces se oigan usted no ve a otra persona como desigual es 42 G. O'Malley and J. Kildare 31 Greek island cuando usted podrá realizar un cambio. en todo lo alto y alrededor del mundo! 43 Direction from The Naked Chef 32 Stone size No gastemos dinero en más fuertes y Comienza en traer este cambio a tu hogar, 44 Straights, to humanity, for example 34 Taylor of Six Feet Under grandes fronteras. No gastemos dinero en familia, iglesia, grupo, organización y 45 To ___ For (1994 gay British flick) 35 Odd Girl Out author criminalizar a inmigrantes trabajadores. No comunidad. ¡Usted puede hacer la diferen- 46 Elton John Broadway musical 37 Kathy of Primary Colors paremos de trabajar en una reforma de inmi- cia, así que es tiempo de educarte, votar y 47 Flour mill imperative, to Frida Kahlo? 38 ___ Cologne 53 Rosie's partner gración pero envés trabajemos en una que despertar! ¡Visualiza, Lucha y Cambia! 43 Passive ACT UP protests 54 Silence for Saint-Saens permita que familias permanezcan juntas, Puedes ir a la charla comunitaria que se 44 Amy, to David Sedaris 55 Home st. of Maupin 45 Self-contradictory bra size? está planificando durante Orgullo Latino 08 que permita trabajar con permisos apropia- 57 Freudian slip follower 46 Cruising, maybe dos, y que abrace y enseñe la validez de esta de este tema Mayo 15. Para detalles de esta 58 Contemporary of Max Jacob 47 Sweet opening? comunidad que vive actualmente en los charla comunitaria o de Orgullo Latino 08 59 Cry of Dorothy 48 "Why should ___ you?" EE.UU. Vamos abrazar la inmigración. visita www.somoslatinoslgbt.org o lee este 60 Hands of a manhandler 49 Puts out Estos inmigrantes de los que hablamos son periódico. 61 It comes before 69 50 Copped a tactile experience? nuestros vecino/as, nuestra fuerza de traba- * Escrito en ambos idiomas por Wilfred W. 62 Terse oral refusal 51 Lorca's eight jo, nuestra comunidad GLBT, nuestro/as Labiosa – Miembro de nuestra comunidad 52 Drivers get off on it amistades, nuestro/as amantes, y posible- Latina, fundador de la Coalición de Somos 53 Object of Britney's lesbian fantasies 56 Seed spilled by some farmers mente nuestro/as esposo/as. ¡Aprendamos Latin@s LGBT de Massachussets y de sobre este tema, vamos a unirnos, y vamos Orgullo Latino de Nueva Inglaterra. Solution of Puzzle on Page 32 24 • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • 25 26 • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Queer Voices from NY & Reviews Lesbian Notions: Reclaiming Christ in our lives By: Libby Post* Karslake told his In the Life boss that he find out about screenings at the movie’s web- "As they discussed it afterwards, they made Edward R. Murrow, wanted the LGBT religion beat. His focus site, www.forthebibletellsmeso.org.) each other braver," said Phil. "They started to the pioneering journal- eventually turned into a feature-length film Together, they travel to Colorado Springs, see they wouldn't be out there all by them- ist, was right about tele- that is taking the country's pulpits, class- Colo., to challenge the homophobia of James selves if they took a stand. It helped them vision—if it is used to rooms, and movie theaters by storm: For the Dobson and Focus on the Family. Together, along on their journey." educate people, it could Bible Tells Me So. they are arrested. Together, they make the That journey is also being taken by what have an amazing The spiritual violence of the radical point that Christianity is not what the radical Karslake calls "straight people who are con- impact. In the case of Christian right became palpable to me as I Christian right says it is. flicted." one gay teen in Iowa in 1998, TV not only watched the film. Even though I'm a Jew, I "Churches should be the place that wel- He explains how people come up to him educated him, it saved his life. truly felt the pain of Christian families with comes the outcast," Randi told me during my after seeing the film and tell him they've been After seeing a segment about Harvard the- LGBT members. Before, it was just another interview with Karslake, who was sitting with sitting in their church pews for decades, feel- ologian Rev. Irene Monroe on PBS' _In the political issue for me to rally around and write the Reitans in their home, eating Chinese ing really conflicted about what their pastors Life_, the youth in question wrote an e-mail to about. During the 99 minutes of the film, I takeout after a day of lobbying together for have to say about the LGBT issue. They tell the segment's producer, Daniel Karslake. The heard and felt the stories of five very OutFront Minnesota. "Instead, churches are him, "Jesus embraced outcasts... it makes no e-mail read, "Last week I bought the gun. American, very Christian families who have making people into outcasts. The film helps sense that LGBT people are put outside the Yesterday I wrote the note. But last night I struggled with reconciling their religion with us share with pastors how many people have Kingdom of God. I'm going to talk with my happened to turn on your show, and just the very real fact that they have lesbian or gay been hurt, how they long to come back and preacher. I want him to explain how we're not knowing that someday I might be able to go children. feel welcome. It's time for pastors to lead their all God's children." Others have told him that back into my church, I threw the gun in the The Reitans from Minnesota are one of congregations and no longer be silent about they left the church because the way the river. My mom never has to know." those families. LGBT rights." LGBT issue was handled didn't jive with their Reading that e-mail was the beginning of a These were people I knew—literally. I had The Reitans have been touring with the understanding of who Christ was. "But I'm a journey for Karslake. interviewed Phil and Randi a few years back film, so to speak. Whenever it is shown with- Christian," one viewer told Karslake. "The "I couldn't fathom that this kid was going to about their son, Jake, whose coming-out had in a few hours of their home, they go and par- film makes me feel like I can go back to kill himself because of what he thought the taken their family on an amazing journey. ticipate in the question-and-answer period church." story of Jesus was," Karslake told me in a Their unconditional love for Jake outweighed that inevitably follows a screening. They have Changing hearts and minds in the red states recent interview. "Gay kids are pushed to sui- their Lutheran church's teachings, and they also been taking it to churches. In fact, after is what Karslake had in mind when he made cide because of Christianity. It's what should soon found themselves sharing his passion for showing it in one small Methodist church in the film. It seems to be working. save them, but it's been twisted so much for so bringing Christ's real message of love and Minnesota, the congregation wanted to know "Much of our country is really part of that long. This kid changed his mind because here inclusion to LGBT-excluding college cam- what they could do "help the situation." Phil movable middle. _For the Bible Tells Me So_ was one person of faith [Monroe] who was puses and organizations through Soulforce's and Randi told them it would be great if they helps educate," explained Phil. "Those who also openly lesbian and proud of being both. Equality Rides. could make the For the Bible Tells Me So see it start to understand what the discrimina- There were so many stories we needed to start Go see the film, and you'll experience their DVD available to the folks at the Methodist tion is, so it becomes their issue." telling. We could save more lives." family. (You can check out the film’s trailer or national convention happening soon in Ft. *Libby Post is the founding chair of the Worth, Texas. Empire State Pride Agenda and a political A group of Lutheran ministers asked Randi commentator on public radio, on the Web, and Phil to be part of a Q&A session after and in print media. She can be reached care watching the film. The Reitans said all the of this publication or at ministers were visibly moved. [email protected]. Authors on Authors Book Review: When It’s All Relative, Higgins is back! By: Frankie J. Jones under mysterious circumstances. Brett reluc- What do you get when you stir up a mixture tantly agrees to investigate the deaths and of lap dances, a strap-on, nipple clamps, a quickly concludes that they aren't accidents. Smith and Wesson .357, a family that exceeds In order to solve this case, she will have to the term dysfunctional, a serial killer, a kid- face her demons, both human and emotional. napping and strippers? No, it's not another With the tough, gun-toting, head bashing political scandal. It’s Therese Szymanski's lat- Brett Higgins, Szymanski pulls no punches. est Brett Higgins novel, When It's All She doesn't hesitate to yank her readers into a Relative. sordid underworld that is quite frankly some- Brett Higgins has survived the horrors of times uncomfortable and disturbing. Then, her abusive family and a long line of misad- she'll hit you with sex scenes that will have ventures. When it seems her life might be set- you squirming in your seat. It's Szymanski's tling down, her girlfriend, Allie, discovers carefully blended wry sense of humor that that Brett has cheated on her. Brett tries to keeps the story from becoming morose. explain that she can't help it if women throw In addition to being an author, Therese themselves at her, but Allie isn't listening. Szymanski is an editor and an award-winning She’s moving out. playwright. She was the recipient of the 2008 And if that's not enough for Brett to deal Alice B. Readers' Appreciation Award. with, her sister-in-law, Laura, suddenly appears and informs her that several members [Editor’s Note: This review is considered as an of the Higgins family have died recently advertorial for the authors on authors program.] www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • 27 More NY News Lance Bass speaks out against discrimination, discusses why he stayed silent about sexuality By: Erin Carlson/AP Writer silenced for being who they are. ... They're that would have such an issue ... with the sub- out. ('N Sync went on hiatus in 2002 and has NEW YORK (AP)—Lance Bass doesn't brothers, they're sisters, they're gay, they're ject of being gay,” said Bass, who was part of virtually disbanded now that Justin want others to stay silent as he did. straight, they're you, they’re me.” the boy band 'N Sync. “It also shows me that Timberlake's career has taken off.) So he's made a public service announce- Bass, who recently completed a stint in the these kids don't—they don't learn (bigotry) on “I was very scared of ruining my four best ment for the Gay, Lesbian & Straight Broadway musical “Hairspray” and released a their own. ... They're being told by older sib- friends' careers,” he said. “The ignorance in Education Network (GLSEN). The spot, me thought that if I did reveal that, that our which will be distributed over the Internet whole life would crash and the group would Friday, debuts in advance of the 11th annual And I think it would have been great to be able to come end because everyone would hate us. But now National Day of Silence on April 25, when I see how stupid that was, and I wish I could students take a vow of silence to protest bul- out (at) the height of like the 'N Sync heyday—I think it go back and be able to tell the world who I lying, harassment and discrimination in really was. schools. could have helped a lot of people.” “And I think it would have been fine. My “I think it's time for me to stand up ... and fans have always still stood by me, and they help educate, because I'm lucky enough to memoir, said the advertisement is meant to lings or family members or other fellow stu- haven't changed. And I think it would have have been given a voice to be able to talk and honor Lawrence King, a 15-year-old boy dents.” been great to be able to come out (at) the grab the attention of people,” said the 28- killed by another student in February because Bass—who joined 'N Sync in 1995 with height of like the 'N Sync heyday—I think it year-old singer, who is gay. he arrived at school in feminine attire. Justin Timberlake, JC Chasez, Joey Fatone could have helped a lot of people.” “Everyday, thousands of students are “I heard about Lawrence on the news, and it and Chris Kirkpatrick—announced in July silenced. They're silenced by fear; they're was just incredible to me that kids that age 2006 that he's gay. It took him a while to come

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"BUY FROM SOMEONE YOU CAN TRUST. COME SEE ME AND I'LL TREAT YOU LIKE FAMILY." –KIM MORRIS, SALES CONSULTANT, LIA HONDA OF NORTHAMPTON www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • 29 More Queer Organization News As Pentagon Confirms Alarming Increase in ‘Moral Waiver’ Enlistees, Retired Air Force Colonel Calls For Dismantling ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ Colonel Daniel Tepfer Calls Military’s Gay Ban ‘Affront to American Principles’ Washington, DC—Following a new report career, as are my wife and children. I know who want to serve. It is indefensible that the from the House Oversight and Government many stellar lesbian and gay troops who also only reason for denial is their sexual orienta- Reform Committee, confirming a sharp served proudly, but who could not serve open- tion.” increase in the number of ‘moral waivers’ ly about their lives and their loved ones. Our The House of Representatives is currently being issued for new enlistees who would oth- national priority should be on the qualifica- considering legislation to repeal “Don’t Ask, erwise be disqualified from service, a retired tion of potential service members, not on dis- Don’t Tell.” The Military Readiness Air Force Colonel is calling on elected leaders criminating against them because of who they Enhancement Act (H.R. 1246) is sponsored and military officials to abandon the contro- are.” by Congresswoman Ellen Tauscher (D-CA) versial “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” ban on les- According to the Associated Press, the and supported by 142 lawmakers, both bian, gay and bisexual personnel. Colonel Army issued 511 so-called ‘moral waivers’ in Democratic and Republican, in Congress. Daniel Tepfer, USAF (Ret.), who also serves 2007, up from 249 the year before. Marine on the national board of directors of Parents, Corps waivers rose from 208 in 2006 to 350 PFLAG promotes the health and well-being of Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays in fiscal year 2007. “The bulk of the crimes gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender per- (PFLAG) called the law an affront to involved were burglaries, other thefts, and sons, their families and friends through: sup- American principles of fairness and equality. drug offenses, but nine involved sex crimes port, to cope with an adverse society; educa- “I swore, as an Air Force officer, to ‘support and six involved manslaughter or vehicular tion, to enlighten an ill-informed public; and and defend the Constitution of the United homicide convictions,” AP reported. “Several advocacy, to end discrimination and to secure States,’” Colonel Tepfer, who served for more dozen Army and Marine recruits had aggra- equal civil rights. Parents, Families and than 23 years in the Air Force, said today. vated assault or robbery convictions, includ- Friends of Lesbians and Gays provides “My unwavering belief is that the privileges ing incidents involving weapons.” opportunity for dialogue about sexual orien- and responsibilities of the Constitution, to serve,” said Tepfer. “As a retired officer, I tation and gender identity, and acts to create including military service, are for all citizens, “While second chances are, in many cases, am appalled that our country continues to turn a society that is healthy and respectful of including my gay child and other gay and les- a noble thing to offer, lesbian, gay and bisex- away or dismiss talented, qualified Americans human diversity. For more information, visit bian citizens. I am proud of my military ual Americans aren’t given even a first chance www.pflag.org. New Human Rights Campaign Foundation Guide Helps Virginia SC hears arguments in cus- Employers Create Fair Policies for Transgender Workers WASHINGTON—The Human Rights ed at any time. tody case involving Lesbian mother Campaign Foundation, the nation’s largest "Transgender gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender civil Inclusion in the "It is both unfair and against the law to Virginia Supreme rights organization, has released a guide that Workplace” is a pub- involve this child in a tug of war between two Court. aims to provide human resource and other lication of the HRC states." "This litigation employment professionals with best practices Foundation has been on going for transgender workplace inclusion—from Workplace Project, Richmond, Virginia—At oral arguments for over four years discrimination and benefits policies to inter- which promotes today at the Supreme Court of Virginia, Arent now. The Vermont nal practices that reflect how gender is basic fairness in employment. Fox LLP, Lambda Legal, and ACLU-VA, will Supreme Court and expressed and integrated in the workplace— "Employers can use ‘Transgender Inclusion defend a lesbian mother and her relationship the Court of as well as the state of legal issues encompass- in the Workplace’ to create work environ- with her daughter against her ex-partner who Appeals of ing gender identity in employment situations. ments where all employees are able to dedi- claims that she is the sole parent after the dis- Virginia both agree that my daughter has the "Transgender Inclusion in the Workplace" cate their skills and energy to the work at solution of the couple's civil union. right to be raised by the two parents she was covers topics such as appropriate terminology hand, rather than worrying about being "It is both unfair and against the law to born to regardless of what state she lives in," with which to discuss gender identity and harassed or fired because of who they are," expression, the creation of policies that pro- said HRC Foundation Workplace Project involve this child in a tug of war between two said Janet Jenkins. "I love and adore my tect transgender workers from discrimination, Director Daryl Herrschaft. states," said Greg Nevins, Senior Staff daughter and I am going to honor my commit- and the expansion of diversity programs to "So many of the obstacles that workers face Attorney at Lambda Legal. "The court of ment to be a parent. That is what I have been include gender identity and expression. when they transition in the workplace can be Vermont, which has jurisdiction over this trying to do all these years and I hope very “In the absence of a federal law that pro- mitigated if executives, managers, and staff— matter, has granted visitation rights for Janet much that the Virginia Supreme Court will hibits workplace discrimination based on gen- including human resource professionals—are Jenkins, finding a continued relationship allow me to continue to do that." der identity, it is up to employers to take the educated about transgender issues," said HRC between Janet and her daughter to be in the The arguments on behalf of Jenkins are lead and implement policies that ensure all Business Council member Diego Sanchez. child's best interest." based on the federal Parental Kidnapping their employees are protected," said HRC "This guide goes a long way toward making Janet Jenkins (formerly Miller-Jenkins) and Prevention Act, which makes it clear that Foundation President Joe Solmonese. "With workplaces safe for all employees, and the Lisa Miller (formerly Miller-Jenkins) were court orders regarding custody and visitation this guide, the HRC Foundation hopes to help fact that it is continually updated fortifies its joined in a civil union in Vermont and shortly enacted in one state must be enforced in other managers educate themselves and their work- relevance." thereafter had a child. After the women ended states as well. ers on these sensitive and increasingly visible "Until we have a fair-minded Congress and their relationship, Miller moved to Virginia issues—as well as the consequences of failing president who will make a fully-inclusive Greg Nevins, Senior Staff Attorney in with the women's daughter, and asked a to do so.” ENDA the law of the land to treat the GLBT Lambda Legal's Southern Regional Office in Vermont court to dissolve the couple's civil The new guide recommends steps that community as equal Americans in society, Atlanta is handling the case for Lambda Legal union and sort out custody of the child. When employers can take to facilitate peaceful, safe, there will be an urgent need for employers to along with co-counsel Rebecca Glendberg of and healthy gender transitions for employees. use resources like ‘Transgender Inclusion in the Vermont court ordered visitation for the ACLU of Virginia. Joseph Price of the law Among these are the adoption of inclusive the Workplace,’" said HRC Business Council Jenkins, Miller filed a new lawsuit in a firm Arent Fox LLP argued the case on behalf non-discrimination policies, removal of dis- member Meghan Stabler. "Even after an Virginia court, using that state's antigay mar- of Jenkins. criminatory health insurance exclusions, inclusive ENDA is enacted, we’ll need this riage law to have herself declared the child's The case is Miller-Jenkins v. Miller-Jenkins. development of dress codes that avoid gender resource to eradicate the ignorance and fear sole legal parent. The conflicting court orders stereotypes and can be enforced consistently, that make it so difficult for workers to transi- —one from Vermont ordering regular visita- the protection of employee privacy, and the tion in the workplace." tion for Jenkins, and the other from a lower TRT TRT: incorporation of gender identity and gender court in Virginia naming Miller as the sole expression into diversity training programs. The Human Rights Campaign Foundation is parent—led to a decision by the Virginia Online “Transgender Inclusion in the Workplace” is America’s largest civil rights organization work- Court of Appeals to uphold the Vermont court available on the Human Rights Campaign ing to achieve GLBT equality. For more infor- Anytime website at www.hrc.org/issues/1561.htm. It mation about this article, please visit HRC’s order granting Janet Jenkins visitation rights. will be continuously updated and can be print- website at: www.hrc.org. Lisa Miller is appealing the decision to the www.therainbowtimesnews.com 30 • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Queer Musical Reviews Hot Blooded: X Factor Leona Lewis spills Spirit from her soul By: B. Voss/Special for TRT papers. Photo by: Randall Slavin B.V: Do you enjoy being fussed over by styl- he won the third series of Simon ists? Cowell’s The X Factor, and her LL: It can be quite relaxing, actually. I’ve got album Spirit became Britain’s all- S some people who regularly do my hair and time fastest-selling debut and an international my makeup, so we’ve found a good balance sensation, spawning two record-shattering of what to do. They know what I like and I singles. Now, with her emotional lead U.S. don’t like, so we get on really good. single “Bleeding Love” (the U.K.’s best-sell- B.V: Women with soulful voices like yours ing single of 2007) making her the first have usually dealt with great heartache and British female vocalist to top the Billboard sorrow, but you seem so well-adjusted. What Hot 100 in more than 20 years, the 23-year- struggles have helped color your sound? old diva is winning gay America’s heart. LL: Growing up, I think at one point or anoth- B.V: Congrats on your U.S chart-topper, but er everyone’s had their heart broken, and I especially on your recent Oprah perform- have definitely. So I draw on those experi- ance—that’s major! ences. Like with “Bleeding Love”—it is a Leona Lewis: I know! Oprah’s so popular and love song, but it’s not a love song about a per- world-famous; everyone knows her back in fect romance; it’s actually quite heart wrench- Britain as well, so yeah, it was a pretty big ing and raw. With love sometimes comes a lot deal. I was really nervous, but at the same of pain. It’s not all sweetness and roses. time she’s such a lovely lady, so it was great B.V: What was the harshest comment you to go on there and meet her. received from Judge Simon Cowell on The X B.V: Has conquering the U.S. always been a Factor? goal for you? LL: I actually got quite good comments. I LL: Well, I’ve always had the dream to be a never got anything really mean said. I feel singer and hopefully be a recording artist. very, very lucky. When I actually got the chance to do it, I B.V: I understand you got some criticism for knew I was going to release in the U.K. But a lack of self-confidence. when I was introduced to Clive Davis, that’s LL: Yeah, that’s probably the worst thing, when the U.S. doors were opened to me. It’s which isn’t that bad. But I take awhile to been an incredible chance for me, really. come out of myself. I have a quiet self-confi- B.V: How has America been treating you? dence. I guess against other people on the LL: People are just getting to know me over show who were really loud and out there, I here, whereas in the U.K. people will recog- may have seemed quite quiet. As people get to nize me when I’m walking down the street. know me, they’ll know the real me. I’ll get the odd few people here. But it’s all LEONA LEWIS B.V: What advice would you give the current great. I spent so much time here when I was long as it’s reaching people and people are spend so much time together. You need people American Idol contestants? creating the album, so it’s great to come back enjoying it, that’s the main thing. you can talk to as well. LL: Enjoy it, and remember the moments and share my music with the people here. B.V: Do you have a gay best friend? B.V: How is your longtime boyfriend han- because it goes by quick. For me, the show lit- B.V: Dance remixes of “Bleeding Love” have LL: In school I did—a really sweet guy called dling all the traveling that comes with your erally went by in such a flash, so just enjoy been popular stateside for months, particular- Paul, who was really into music and acting. U.S. promotion? what you’re doing and have fun. ly in gay clubs. And my hairdresser is just amazing, so lovely LL: Well, he comes out to see me sometimes, B.V: And what advice would you give a drag LL: Yeah, the remixes are cool. I’m glad that and relatable. It’s good to have a team around and I’m never away from home really for a queen who wanted to emulate you? they can reach people in different ways. As you that you’re friends with because you long stretch of time. I’m always back and forth, so that helps. And there are so many LL: Have big hair and a sparkly microphone! ways to communicate with people now, so it’s And just sing from the heart and with lots of THE HONORABLE not like you never talk to someone. soul. J. MARY SORRELL B.V: Have you had awful things printed about Leona Lewis’ Spirit (J Records/Syco) is out ] you? now. For mor einformation, please visit: A MEMBER OF OUR TRIBE JM the JP LL: Everything’s been quite positive so far. I www.leonalewismusic.com don’t really do much negative to put in the

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Baltimore from Page 14 tors choose properties near the Inner The other major club in the neighborhood Harbor, close to great restaurants and attrac- is Club Hippo, whose reputation for great tions. An excellent option here is the Pier 5 Q S music draws a wide mix of revelers, gay, Hotel, a hip and lively boutique property ueertations: ay what?! straight, old, and young. It's a great place to with whimsically decorated, spacious By: Rex Wockner cut loose, especially on Thursday and rooms, many directly facing the Inner Saturday nights. When it gets late, the party Harbor. The same owners run the elegant, “I don't know what will happen professionally ... that is the moves to Club 1722, an 18-and-over after- historic (and allegedly haunted) Admiral hours club open on Fridays and Saturdays Fells Inn in nearby Fells Harbor— this fear, but I guess I can't really be concerned about what will into the wee hours. charming old-world property earns kudos happen, because it's my truth. There is this desire in L.A. to The tiki-themed Coconuts Cafe is another for its helpful service, romantically decorat- Mt. Vernon hangout that's popular with les- ed rooms, and afternoon tea and refresh- wonder who you are and what's been blaring for me for the bians, while Club Bunns caters heavily to ments. In Mount Vernon, the historic 1924 last three years is how can I be most authentic to myself—so Baltimore's sizable African-American gay Clarion Peabody Court, with its 104 hand- community and has a legendary happy hour. somely outfitted rooms, enthusiastically this is the first time I am speaking about it [being gay] in this Leather aficionados head a few blocks up welcomes gay and lesbian travelers. way.” Charles to the Eagle, which, though lacking You'll also find some impressive smaller any serious back-room action, nevertheless properties around town. The quirky —Actor Luke MacFarlane, who plays Scotty Wandell, character Kevin Walker's cultivates as racy an atmosphere as any bar Abacrombie Badger B&B is set inside an boyfriend on ABC-TV's Brothers & Sisters, to Toronto's Globe and Mail, April 15. The in town. A classic dive that’s been serving 1880s town house and lies just a short walk newspaper said the couple will marry in the May 11 season finale. the gay community for more than 60 years from several gay bars. Other esteemed gay- (longer, say some, than any bar in America), friendly inns include the six-room "I strongly respect the right of same-sex couples to insist Leon's is especially popular late on week- Scarborough Fair B&B, in historic Federal end evenings. Nearby Jay's on Read is a Hill just steps from the Inner Harbor, and the that even if we got complete equality in benefits, it still classy piano bar, and Club Phoenix is a laid- gay-owned Inn at 2920, near the waterfront wouldn't be equal because there's a stigma associated with back neighborhood hangout with a small in Canton. This stunner with exposed brick dance area and some highly entertaining walls and high ceilings has posh rooms with not having the same word, marriage, assigned to it. I under- drag shows. In Federal Hill, the Rowan Tree tasteful, sleek furnishings and contemporary stand that, but my perspective is also shaped by the broader bathrooms. These cozy properties offer visi- is a friendly neighborhood spot with an political and historical context in which I'm operating." eclectic crowd, and over in the up-and-com- tors a great chance to get to know ing Canton section of Baltimore, The Quest Baltimore's distinctive, close-knit neighbor- —Sen. Barack Obama to Advocate.com, April 10. caters to fans of go-go dancers. hoods and appreciate one of the city's best Baltimore hotels have become slightly assets: its people. * Andrew Collins is the author of Fodor's more expensive over the years, as the city Gay Guide to the USA and eight additional "We will push on and bring full marriage equality to New York has become a serious tourist and convention travel guides. He can be reached care of this state. And when we have done that, we're going to do more. destination, but rates are still much lower publication or at [email protected]. than in nearby Washington, D.C. Most visi- We're going to protect young people from bullies. We're going to protect against the discrimination of people in the Q Puzzle Solution from P. 23 transgender community, and we're going to fight for decent $ and affordable health care for all citizens in this state. If you will join with me, and if we work hard enough, we can change the face of New York, which will be the catalyst to changing national policy." The 35monthly cost of this ad. —New York Gov. David Patterson addressing the National Gay and Lesbian Task $420: the cost of this ad for a Force Leadership Awards dinner April 7 in New York City. year. TRT is the most cost-effec- tive route to the LGBT commu- nity in our quad-state coverage "I'm such a big ol' bull dyke, it would have been impossible for area. There is NO OTHER! me to hide it. I mean, when I was doing stand-up, was I going to go out onstage and talk about my boyfriend? Everyone would go, 'Hey big dyke -- why are you talking about your boyfriend?' So being out was basically being who I am."

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—Canadian federal Tory MP Tom Lukiwski caught on a 17-year-old amateur videotape unearthed April 3 by an opposition political party. Lukiwski said of the recording: "I am sorry. I am ashamed." www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • 33 QReviews Taking Cover: An interview with ‘Shelter’ director Jonah Markowitz By: Mikey Rox* direction they needed. They’re actors; they Blink and you’ll miss it, but every so often did the rest. a gay-themed saga comes along that doesn’t MR: In your director’s statement, you say suck. that, “Shelter is a story about people – not gay That may seem harsh, but the truth is that people—just people,” and, in fact, mention for every Brokeback Mountain there are a several times that the story is more about dozen Say Uncles—films produced because desire, love and identity than sexuality. Do no one had the guts to tell the projects’ mas- you think you accomplished that, especially terminds that they should quit their day jobs. when the media considers this a ‘gay’ film? Luckily for writer/director Jonah JM: Not all the media considers this a gay Markowitz, no one needed to. film, and, judging by the response I’ve gotten Because with Shelter, his feature debut (on at screenings and festivals, I do think that we DVD May 27), Markowitz has turned out a accomplished this. poignant piece of cinema that’s less about MR: There’s a pivotal moment in the film being homosexual than it is finding happiness when Trevor Wright’s character, Zach, is con- —regardless of sexuality or circumstances. fronted with homophobia from within his own The story of Zach (Trevor Wright), who gives family. The nature of the conflict is so severe up his dreams of attending art school to take that it threatens to take away everything that care of his family while falling in love with an Zach loves, including his nephew, for whom older family friend (Brad Rowe), Shelter grit- he’s been caregiver. Why is this moment cru- tily captures on film what’s at the core of cial to the plot, and why do you think audi- every romantic human heart—a longing to MR: While working on the latter film, you straight in real life. Was this a conscious deci- ences will relate? belong and the barriers that must be broken to were writing and directing two acclaimed sion on your part to cast straight men in the JM: I think that it’s something that everyone achieve it. short films, I Left Me and Hung Up. What gay roles? goes through, straight or gay—the moment In a recent interview, the award-winning was the impetus for your transition from art JM: Absolutely not; not only would that be when you realize that you cannot live your Markowitz discusses his new film, which has direction to full-on directing? illegal, but I wanted the best actors for the life for other people, that joy only comes from premiered on three different platforms (the- JM: I had always studied directing and want- best roles, regardless of their age. I would being yourself. aters, TV and DVD) in as many months; cast- ed to be a director. It just took a while to get never ask someone I was casting or hiring MR: Shelter’s soundtrack includes many ing the easy-on-the-eyes male leads; why he there. about their sexuality, nor would I appreciate here! Tunes artists, including Shane Mack and doesn’t consider Shelter a ‘gay’ film; and MR: You first feature film, Shelter, is releas- anyone doing the same to me. the band Dance Yourself to Death. How do how, hetero or homo, at the end of the day it’s ing on DVD May 27, but in the past two MR: Let’s talk about the chemistry between these track selections assist the story? up to us to find our own way. months the film was released theatrically fol- Trevor and Brad for a minute. As straight JM: Music always drove the story, and when MIKEY ROX: You cut your teeth in the film lowed by a television premiere on here! TV. guys, it was probably somewhat difficult for [executive in charge of production] Matt industry as an assistant art director on films That’s quite a whirlwind release schedule them to create an on-screen man-on-man rela- Freeman introduced me to Shane’s music, I such as The House of Sand and Fog and Meet using an unprecedented platform. Did it pay tionship since they’re both straight and likely was sold. the Fockers and as art director on We Are off? out of their comfort zone. But was the chem- MR: At the end of the day, how do you want Marshall. How did those positions prepare JM: I think it did—especially as it’s hard with istry naturally there, or did you have to step in people to view this film? you to direct? this size budget to really get a bang for your as director and sort of guide them to more JM: With someone they love! And, then again JONAH MARKOWITZ: I learned a lot about buck with marketing. This way you can really authentic realizations of their characters? with a bunch of friends. how to tell a story in a visual way. I also got capitalize on it. JM: We talked about what it was like to be so Who is Mikey Rox? Who gives a f@&$! But the opportunity to watch many talented direc- MR: Though both male leads, Trevor Wright in love with someone that you wanted to you can find him at www.mikeyrox.com. tors and their crews work on set. and Brad Rowe, play gay in Shelter, they’re spend all day in bed with them. That’s all the The Candidate: A good lesbian novel that resembles HRC’s run to the White House By: J.M. Sorrell/TRT Reviewer found it striking that the author describes ing towards As with the classic love story, hearts are The Candidate (Bella Books 2008; paper- Pennsylvania as a key state to win for the our team; thus, broken in various ways. I do not want to ruin back $13.95) by Tracey Richardson is a great feminist, left-of-center candidate; in fact, I this is a les- the ending by saying much more here. The read during this volatile and history-making read this book on April 22, which happened to bian novel). questions you will want answered once you election year. be Pennsylvania’s primary election day. The Also, in the are a few pages into the book are, “Will these The fictional protagonists are a presidential divergence from reality is that the other book we are two powerhouses get together?,” “What will candidate, Jane Kincaid, and her secret serv- (Democrat) candidate is conservative enough treated to happen politically?,” and “How could this ice agent, to be indistin- some very hot possibly play out?” AlexFor starters, HRC has not come out as far as I guishable from sex scenes. All There are twists and turns—some more pre- Warner. Republican I have seen of dictable than others. Mostly, this is a good It is a love know (although her initials are curious). She candidates. HRC is a beach book. It is timely and interesting to con- story first, is still in a heterosexual marriage (the “candi- Wait, there bumper sticker sider the plausibility of elements of the plot in and it also are many dif- that reads, coming decades. If this were a film, I would contains a date” of the book is a widow but clearly lean- ferences “You know cast Emma Thompson as the presidential can- sub-plot ing towards our team; thus, this is a lesbian between this you want to didate and Michelle Clunie (remember Mel of the book and what have sex with from Queer as Folk?), as the secret service world of novel). is happening Hillary.” agent. But that’s my fantasy. What about you? politics— now. Some of the writing here is over the top but Enjoy and write to me about what you rec- how decisions are made, what the media does, For starters, HRC has not come out as far as it is more erotic than much of the erotica I ommend for a good summer read. I can be and how the strategists work to create imag- I know (although her initials are curious). She have read. The author is adept since the char- reached via email at: jmsorrell@therainbow- ing. is still in a heterosexual marriage (the “candi- acters are passionate in their work, their intel- timesnews.com. (no hyphens) Since the book was written prior to 2008, I date” of the book is a widow but clearly lean- lect, and their desire for each other.

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Janice Dickinson Modeling Agency, The Wire, BET (1 hr) Oxygen (1 hr) Set in Baltimore, this gritty HBO drama fea- Janice has a handful of gay models in her tures two gay series regular characters: agency, including JP Calderon. lesbian police detective Kima Greggs and gay criminal Omar Little. Noah's Arc, Logo (30 min) Noah, Alex, Ricky, and Chance are four gay Top Chef, Season Three, Bravo (1 hr) black men living in Los Angeles. Journey Watch 12 chefs compete in Miami for the with them as they navigate complex roman- chance at culinary stardom and the title of tic and professional relationships. “Top Chef.” The series features gay con- testant Dale and lesbian contestant NYPD Blue, CourtTV/TNT (1 hr) Sandee. Tough detective Andy Sipowicz has a gay assistant, John Irvin. Will & Grace, syndicated (30 min) Will, Grace, Jack, and Karen: All gay, all Party Line with the Hearty Boys, Food day. Network (30 min) Winners of the first season of The Next TransAmerican Love Story, LOGO, (1 hr) Food Network Star, this Chicago-based Our transgender bachelorette, Calpernia couple teaches us how to throw a party on Addams, is she's being wooed by eight any budget and for any occasion. dashing men. With the help of her trans best friend Andrea and a parade of chal- Queer As Folk, Logo (1 hr) lenges and dates, Calpernia whittles down www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • 35 Queer Sports The OutField: Paul Tontz Searches for Subjects By: Dan Woog* Tontz, 31, understands. Growing up in San it's easier for those athletes to come out." One of the joys of Diego as the third of nine siblings in a tight- Tontz has found that sports like swimming, college sports is feel- knit, staunchly Catholic family, he was so which attracts both male and female athletes, ing part of a team. sheltered he "didn't realize what gay was" help facilitate the coming-out process. The Sharing practice ses- until after high school. close interaction between genders creates a sions, meals, and Sports provided one way to feel "normal." feeling of comfort. One male swimmer said road trips draws ath- Tontz played tennis and volleyball, ran cross that he talked about "guy issues" with a letes from different country and track, and swam. At the female coach - something that could not hap- backgrounds togeth- University of San Diego, he rowed. pen in, say, football. er. The locker room "Sports saved me," he says. "It gave me Though the NCAA has supported Tontz becomes a home confidence, and a place to feel at home." with a travel grant, he finds there is little away from home. In 2000, he moved to Tampa, earned a mas- understanding of gay issues at individual col- For males, it's a place where daily banter ter's degree in education, and worked as an leges. "Most gay athletes say not enough is about teammates' races, ethnicities, physical athletic advisor and academic coach. being done at their schools, and what goes on features, and girlfriends is a welcome diver- Returning to San Diego, he worked with col- is reactive rather than proactive. There's still sion from the political correctness that rules lege athletes at two universities. Looking the mentality that 'we don't have gay athletes the rest of society. back, he says, "I could have supported the ath- here besides our one swimmer, so why spend Unless you're gay and closeted. letes who had sexual identity issues much bet- money on education?'" Those athletes never really feel a part of ter. But I was still pretty closeted. I really PAUL TONTZ Nevertheless, Tontz's research has affected their team. Even in the locker room, college regret that." athletes replicate Anderson's findings. "Those him profoundly. "The athletes I've talked to athletes are isolated. The incessant topic of In 2004, he entered the University of who are openly gay have high levels of self- have been amazing," he says. "I'm a com- conversation—"banging" girls—bears no rel- Denver’s doctoral program in higher educa- confidence and ability," Tontz says. "Gay ath- pletely difference person now - socially, emo- evance to reality. tion administration. Inspired by the work of letes with strong performance levels have tionally, and professionally." Meeting gay That scenario is as true in 2008 as it ever Pat Griffin and Eric Anderson - noted plenty of social capital. If you're an excellent athletes inspired him to return to competition. was. While the rest of America changes, much researchers specializing in gay sports - he swimmer who happens to be gay, your team- He is training for triathlons, using a subtle yet of college sports remains locked in mid-20th- began studying why Division I male athletes mates and coaches look the other way." clever motto: "Out to Tri." century mode. choose to conceal or reveal their sexual orien- Out athletes are happy, he says, because And Paul Tontz will keep trying, too, to find That's not just conjecture. It's what former tation to teammates and coaches. That choice they don't lead dual lives. Freed from worry- out gay college athletes to interview. college athlete Paul Tontz has discovered as affects the rest of each gay athlete's college ing about being found out, they function well Out or closeted Division I male athletes he struggles to complete his Ph.D. project at sports experience, Tontz says. athletically. interested in participating in Trontz's research the University of Denver. "Before I started, I didn't realize how diffi- Tontz is frustrated at his inability to find gay can e-mail him at [email protected]. The topic is factors that contribute to invis- cult it would be to find them," he admits. "I D-I football, basketball, and baseball players. ibility or visibility for Division I gay male thought I'd move to L.A. and start interview- (He has heard from bisexuals in those sports, * Dan Woog is a journalist, educator, soccer athletes. Yet finding appropriate subjects has ing. But I couldn't find any out athletes at but his study is limited to gay men.) What he coach, gay activist, and author of the "Jocks" been nearly impossible. UCLA or USC. I'm not sure why - maybe has found so far "reinforces the stereotypical series of books on gay male athletes. Visit his They do exist. However, at the elite colle- because they're such high-profile schools." look of gay sports - that it's all swimmers, website at www.danwoog.com. He can be giate level, they're about as hard to find as The search was equally difficult in the rest divers, and runners," he says. "I think because reached care of this publication or at same-sex married couples in the Bush White of the country. there is already gay visibility in those sports, [email protected]. House. His several face-to-face interviews with out COLORING the LGBT world into your gayborhood! QQ ClassifClassifiedsieds

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Advocate Awards are Connecticut residents announce that the Festival has been selected alliance among the state's arts, history, film Festival Director Dan Millett stated, "This who, without monetary compensation, have to receive the 2007 "Outstanding Project and tourism industries. award recognizes the Film Festival's reputa- worked to strengthen, preserve or promote the Award" by the Connecticut Commission on "This conference brings together the great tion as Connecticut's longest running and one arts, history, film and tourism in the state and Culture & Tourism. This award is in recogni- minds of professionals in the culture and of the most respected cultural organizations in made a significant impact on one or more tion for bringing twenty years of outstanding tourism fields and provides them the opportu- the state. At the same time, the award is an organizations, or have made important contri- LGBT Films to Connecticut audiences. nity to further collaborate in promoting all acknowledgement of the important role that butions to their communities, regions or the The Connecticut Culture & Tourism Awards Connecticut has to offer," said Governor M. GLBT organizations play in Connecticut's state. recognize outstanding achievement and last- Jodi Rell. "Gaining knowledge and inspira- cultural landscape." He went on to say, "It is The 20th Connecticut Gay & Lesbian Film ing contributions to the Arts, History, Film tion from one another is critical to continuing particularly meaningful that we have received Festival will be held June 1-9, 2007 at and Tourism Fields in our state. The award the great work that sustains the state's eco- this award in 2007 as the festival celebrates its Cinestudio, on the campus of Trinity College will be presented as part of the 2007 nomic vitality." 20th year. It has truly been a labor of love for in Hartford. It will feature nine days of LGBT Governor's Conference on Culture & "These awards recognize the individuals the many volunteers involved in the organiza- feature films, documentaries and short films, Tourism, by the Connecticut Commission on who work tirelessly to improve and enhance tion of the festival." with Opening and Closing Night parties, a Culture & Tourism, in partnership with the the arts, history, film and tourism in In addition, on May 2nd, Shane Engstrom, silent auction and other special events to be Arts Council of Greater New Haven and the Connecticut," said Karen Senich, acting exec- Secretary of Out Film CT will be given a announced. Greater New Haven Convention and Visitors utive director of the Commission on Culture Culture & Tourism Distinguished Advocate Bureau. Held on May 1st and 2nd, this year's & Tourism. "Their work and passion speak to Civil Unions are inadequate substitute for marriage anywhere By:Anne Stanback, Executive Director confusing and unclear. Additionally, many Additionally, the Commission heard testi- recognizing same-sex relationships. An expert Love Makes a Family couples have incurred significant financial mony that New Jersey's Civil Union Act is from Massachusetts, which in 2004 became Nearly three years ago, the Connecticut leg- disadvantages because of these issues. likely not to provide equality with the passage the first U.S. state to allow same-sex couples islature approved the creation of civil unions, Civil unions are misunderstood by the gen- of time. An expert from Vermont, which in to marry, testified that same-sex married cou- a legal designation that would confer all the eral public, as well as by those individuals and 2000 became the first jurisdiction in the ples there do not face many of the problems state rights, benefits and obligations of mar- institutions who are in the positions of author- United States to enact a civil union law, testi- that New Jersey and Vermont civil union cou- riage to same-sex couples. While historic in ity to enforce the law. It is unfair that loving, fied that civil union couples there still face ples face today, even in the context of federal many ways, the legislature stopped short of committed couples should face additional problems with the law today. In fact, as a law. giving same-sex couples the legal designation burdens and hardships because they are result of the inequities, Vermont has estab- For more information on the Vermont and they had hoped for and still seek: marriage. denied access to the word “marriage” and its lished a new commission to study whether to New Jersey civil union experiences: Today the legislature's Judiciary Committee universally-understood legal status. amend its state law to now provide full mar- VERMONT: Attorney Beth Robinson, Chair will hold a public hearing on "An Act More importantly, there is no good reason riage equality to its same-sex committed cou- of Vermont Freedom to Marry, 802-363-7565 Concerning Civil Unions." The individuals to continue to exclude thousands of same-sex ples. testifying today will highlight the inadequacy, couples from the dignity and respect, as well This Commission also heard testimony that NEW JERSEY: Steven Goldstein, Executive the confusion, and the unintended conse- as the clarity and legal and financial security, the term “marriage,” were it applied to the Director, Garden State Equality, 917-449- quences that have resulted from creating a that marriage provides. relationships of same-sex couples, could rem- 8918 separate and unequal marital status as a sub- Some have argued that the state of edy the shortcomings of the Civil Union Act Love Makes a Family is a statewide grass- stitute for marriage. Connecticut needs more time to make civil and make a significant difference in providing roots organization working for marriage As hundreds of same-sex couples in unions work. equality to same-sex couples in New Jersey, equality in Connecticut. This article can be Connecticut have reported to Love Makes a Others have said that without a change in even with the challenges of federal law not found at www.lmfct.org/. Family since the law went into effect on federal law, marriage would be no improve- October 1, 2005, civil unions are not the same ment over civil unions. Below is an excerpt as marriage. Same-sex couples have been from the Introduction of the First Interim denied services (or had services delayed) in Report from the New Jersey Civil Union hospitals, funeral homes, state agencies and Review Commission (February 19, 2008) that courts because the concept of civil union is points out the errors of both these arguments: HELP WANTED IN HARTFORD, CONNECTICUT If you’ve ever considered being a Foster Parent … Looking for LOVE? Turn to the PERSONALS on page 35 NOW is the time to do it. CT Neighborhood Organizations Connecticut’s children need you more than ever. 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(AP)—A special com- report and in their best judgment determine and the Vermont Marriage Advisory Council, mission appointed by legislative leaders to what steps to take in their role as public ser- said they were not surprised by the commis- study same-sex marriage stopped just short in vants of the people of Vermont,” it said. sion's report. its final report Monday of recommending that But in its findings the commission said Bensen questioned whether producing a the state become the second in the country— “such a change in the law would give access report that contained no definitive recommen- after Massachusetts—to allow gay and les- (to same-sex couples) to less tangible inci- dation pro or con for gay marriage was a good bian couples to marry. dents of marriage, including its terminology use of time and resources. “I wonder what the The Vermont Commission on Family (e.g. marriage, wedding, married, celebration, purpose of this report was.” Then he added Recognition and Protection was appointed divorce), and its social cultural and historical that some of the legwork would be done when last summer to study whether Vermont, which significance.” a bill is introduced in the Legislature, as is became the first jurisdiction in the United It added that full same-sex marriage “would expected to happen next year. “They did the States to offer legal recognition to same-sex likely enhance the portability of the underly- research for this.” couples with its civil union law in 2000, ing legal consequences of the status. ... The Bensen said the proper course is the same as should take the next step. tangible same-sex marriage benefits ... raise the one he called for in 2000: a statewide ref- The 11-member panel, chaired by the for- serious questions about the operation of the erendum on the question. mer legislator Thomas Little, who chaired the civil union law and warrant additional Cable said his group would soon issue its House Judiciary Committee when it wrote the research and serious attention.” own report on same-sex marriage. “It will 2000 law, said it decided not to make a final And it said, “There is credible social sci- contain some information the commission recommendation, because to do so “would ence research supporting the conclusion that didn't have in theirs,” he said. undercut the purpose and usefulness of its raising children in a gay or lesbian coupled Issuance of the report came too late for leg- Marry Task Force, welcomed the report. work and this report.” family, per se, has no negative impacts on the islation to be passed this year; lawmakers are “They reported what they saw and heard, “It is the role of Vermont's policy-makers well-being of children,” but added that the expected to adjourn their 2008 session within which is exactly what I was hoping they'd and elected officials to read and reflect on this topic needs further study. two weeks. do,” said Robinson, a Middlebury lawyer. The commission's work included eight pub- But Robinson vowed her forces would con- “The vast majority of people who testified Calendar from p. 18 lic hearings around the state _ boycotted by tinue pushing the matter. spoke compellingly about why this is an same-sex marriage opponents, who charged “We've never made a secret of the fact that (NY) May 18; Capital Pride Singers presents important step for Vermont to take.” “Keeping It Gay!”; First Unitarian Universalist that the panel was stacked in favor _ a semi- we're planning to come back in '09 and we're Two leaders of the opposition to civil Society of Albany; Emerson Hall, 405 nar on the legal issues at Vermont Law School going to be here talking about these issues and unions in 2000, Rev. Craig Bensen of Washington Ave., Albany; 4 p.m., $10; A very and extensive staff research. looking to move forward, absolutely,” she special Spring Concert of serious and silly music Cambridge and president of the group Take It Supporters of same-sex marriage, including said. from your favorite GLBT chorus. To The People, and Stephen Cable of Rutland Beth Robinson of the Vermont Freedom To (VT) May 18; Transgender Support Group; 5:30 to 8:30 p.m.; Brattleboro, VT; Open to any- one whose identity or expression doesn't fit neat- Backers of Calif. gay marriage ban ready to submit petitions ly into the gender binary, including transpeople SAN FRANCISCO (AP)—The sponsors of woman marriage laws. from qualifying, said he had never seen such of all genders and sexual orientations: transgen- der(ed), transsexuals, FTMs, MTFs, non-op, pre- a proposed constitutional amendment to out- If passed by a majority of voters, the consti- a coordinated attempt to prevent a marriage op, post-op, crossdressers, bi-gendered, gen- law same-sex marriage in California said tutional amendment would overturn a court amendment from making it to the ballot. derqueer, genderfluid, questioning. Monday they have gathered enough signa- ruling in favor of gay marriage advocates. “There is a real sense of hope and possibil- Confidentiality guaranteed. FMI: Benjamin tures to qualify the measure for the November They hope California will become the second ity here because of the court ruling that is Robin: [email protected] ballot. state after Massachusetts to legalize same-sex coming down in June,” he said. “The fact that (CT) May 30-June 7; The 21st Connecticut A coalition of religious groups called marriage. could be taken away in five months is really Gay & Lesbian Film Festival; Cinestudio, Protect Marriage collected more than 1.1 mil- “We shouldn't have to be guessing. This painful for people who want to marry.” Trinity College @ 300 Summit St., Hartford, Connecticut; FMI: 860-586-1136. lion signatures in support of the amendment, shouldn't be something left to the court either Earlier this month, Gov. Arnold said Brian Brown, executive director of the now or in the future,” Brown said. “The idea Schwarzenegger upset the amendment's back- (CT) May 31; Marriage Makes a Word of Difference is a featured film at the CT Gay and California office of the National Organization that California voters should be the ones to ers when he told a gathering of gay Lesbian Film Festival! Saturday, May 31st at for Marriage. decide this is an idea that resonates with peo- Republicans he thought the measure was 3pm at Cinestudio, Trinity College, 300 Summit The initiative needs 694,354 signatures, or ple.” unnecessary and that he would actively Street, Hartford See all the films! The festival 8 percent of the votes cast in the last gover- If it qualifies for the ballot, the measure oppose it. He has twice vetoed bills seeking to runs 5/30-6/7/08. The film is directed by Emmy- nor's race, to make it onto the ballot. promises to be the center of a hard-fought make gay marriage legal. award winning filmmaker Fran Rzeznik. “We have gone against tremendous odds to campaign. “When Governor Schwarzenegger publicly (NY) June 6; Romaine Brooks Art Gallery do this, and now the voters in California will Protect Marriage raised more than $1.5 mil- opposed this constitutional amendment, he Opening – First Friday featuring: The PRIDE Show! 5-9pm; @ Romaine Brooks Art Gallery @ have the chance to protect marriage,” Brown lion in contributions to support its petition said the people of California are much futher CDGLCC @ 332 Hudson Ave., Albany; FMI said. drive, money that allowed the group to hire along on this issue, and the governor is right. Michael at [email protected]. Supporters of the Limit on Marriage initia- paid signature collectors to supplement the The voters have moved on,” said Seth (NY) June 8; Capital Pride 2008!; Parade and tive plan to deliver their signed petitions to volunteers it recruited from churches, Brown Kilbourn, political director of Equality Festival; 12noon-5pm, Rain or Shine; Join county registrars this week, ahead of the April said. California, the state's largest gay-rights lobby- Capital Pride in Washington Park in Albany once 28 submission deadline set by the California A coalition of gay rights groups called ing group. again for this exciting annual event! More info Secretary of State's Office. The signatures Equality for All launched an aggressive Kilbourn said the amount of money the ini- soon so save the date! FMI: www.cdglcc.org/cappride.htm must be verified before the amendment can be counter-campaign to persuade people not to tiative's sponsors spent and their use of paid approved for the election. sign the qualifying petitions. petition circulators showed that California (NY) June 21; 2nd Annual Black and Latino Gay Pride Celebration hosted by In Our Own Although gay men and lesbians cannot Its “Decline to Sign” volunteers approached voters may be reluctant to write a same-sex Voices; The celebration will take place from legally wed in California, opponents of same- patrons outside the shopping centers where marriage ban into the state Constitution. 9:00am -5:00pm; venue for the after party will be sex unions want the ban written into the state the signature gatherers were working and “We are confident we will be able to defeat announced very soon. FMI: Jasan at (518) 432- Constitution. In that way, neither the asked them instead to sign pledges supporting this measure, when and if it appears on the 4188. Legislature nor the California Supreme Court same-sex marriage. ballot,” he said. (VT) Gay Pride in southern Vermont will take can legalize gay marriage without approval Representatives from the two sides have The National Organization for Marriage, place in the month of June, with many events from voters. accused each other of trying to squelch free headquartered in New Jersey, and the planned. TBA They were especially anxious to put the speech. There were reports of heated debates Colorado-based Focus on the Family have (NY) June 21; 2nd Annual Black and Latino Gay Pride Celebration hosted by In Our Own question before voters this fall because the and even fisticuffs in some locations. contributed heavily to the Protect Marriage Voices; The celebration will take place from state Supreme Court is scheduled to rule by Dan Hawes, an organizer with the National campaign. It also has received significant 9:00am -5:00pm; venue for the after party will be early June on a series of lawsuits seeking to Gay and Lesbian Task Force who has spent backing from the Knights of Columbus. announced very soon. FMI: Jasan at (518) 432- toss out California's existing one man-one two months on the effort to keep the initiative 4188. 40 • May 1 - June 4, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com