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The Newsletter of the Religious Education Office New Wine in Old Wineskins: Is Your Parish Pg. 2 Letter from the Director Culture a Roadblock to Change and Growth? By Deacon Keith Strohm Remember when you came back from a conference or day of formation fired up to share Loving Witness what you experienced and implement what you learned—only to run into disinterest and a Pg. 4 of Persons with “we’ve never done it that way here before” attitude? Or when you Disabilities sat in planning meetings with a ministerial team, parish council, or parish staff and you spent countless hours launching a solid strat- Millennial Pg. 6 egy—only to see it land with a dull thud? Maybe you’ve been Church lucky enough to never experience any of this before. Conference I have. Many, many times. And so have countless volunteers, council members, parish staff, and ordained leadership that I know and have supported over the past 30 years. It’s heartbreak- Pg. 7 Welcome Echo ing and demoralizing to see the energy, passion, and work behind Apprentices implementing a good idea or new approach to things translate into so little fruit. We often think that the problem must Pg. 8 V Encuentro be the quality of what we attempt, or Priorities its execution. Frequently, our desire to roll out new approach- es to ministry or a new way of doing things runs afoul of our community’s culture. A culture in this context represents the assumptions that a group of people make (often unconscious- ly) together that shapes their behavior and how they see the Pg. 9 Ministry Grants world around them. Culture, therefore, becomes the environ- ment in which ideas, strategies, and activities are analyzed, evaluated, celebrated, and, possibly, rejected. Leadership Pg. 9 Development Catholic parishes and dioceses are becoming acutely aware of Assistance the very real issues that we are facing, and they are creating pastoral strategies to address the problems. The challenge is that very few of them are looking at intentionally changing the culture within their communities. We are trying to put new wine Pg. 10 Best Practices in old wineskins. Peter Drucker, one of the most famous man- In Catechesis for th agement gurus of the 20 century famously said that “culture eats strategy for breakfast.” Catholic Identity In other words, until we begin to change the culture within our organization, even the very best strategies will not make a difference. That’s why the REO is bringing me to the Blanchette Center to offer a day of formation on Pg. 11 The Empathy January 18, 2018 from 9:30 am to 4 pm. We will focus on the 5 Paradigm Shifts Leaders Project Must Make to Renew Parishes and help you see how to become fruitful communities of missionary disciples. This isn’t just another day of learning “theory.” I’m committed to focus- ing our time together on practical application and “hands on” work. This will be a day Cathedral Visits whose sole purpose is to give you tools that you can use immediately to work on cultural Pg. 12 change. & Cathedral Day Continued on p. 3 The Newsletter of the Religious Education Office Leaven www.dioceseofjoliet.org/reo Winter 2018 A Time to Sow Tom Quinlan, Director Catholic Formation on Same-Sex Marriage: An Important and Nuanced Conversation My experience tells me that you can tell anyone anything, at least most of the time. It just de- pends on how you say it. Studies have shown the importance of tone and affect in our interpersonal communications. We could deliver great news with a scowl or an off-putting tone and people will receive it negatively. And we can share something challenging with empathy and people will often respond well. I open with this insight for its own benefit to you in your many, many occasions of pastoral inter- action with people. I also share it as an element related to an important pastoral-theological- social issue of our time. The issue: Addressing same-sex marriage (and all that surrounds this topic) from a Catholic perspective. The data out there seems to be confirming what I think most of us are experiencing anecdotally in our ministry, social circles and perhaps our families. There is a pervasive misperception about what the Catholic Church teaches about peo- ple who are gay, lesbian, and transgender. As catechetical leaders, we must consider ourselves “on” for helping to clari- fy the Church’s position and place it within the larger context of the good news of Jesus Christ. Further, I’d like to challenge you to help your parish more broadly consider how to pastorally catechize parishioners on this. Other- wise, we leave it to society to define who we are and what we be- “...there is a pervasive mis- lieve as the Church. And that will never lead to a good outcome. perception about what the Let me begin to unpack this with a key, primary premise. As Cath- olic leaders, we must never qualify or compromise the fullness of Catholic Church teaches Church teaching on homosexuality or, indeed, all of human sexuali- about people who are gay, ty. This is a foundational point. It must be Catholic teaching that we help to form people in, not our inclinations and opinions. But, lesbian, and transgender.” the second point follows closely. Clarity must always contain a full measure of compassion. Why? Because this is the face of God revealed in Jesus. And because the reception of the Gospel and Church teaching will be greater in this post-modern world when it is delivered with dialogic patience rather than didactic judgment. How is the case to be made for our faith and teaching here? First, it is helpful to start with a simple, impassioned state- ment of truth, owned by us personally and as the Church: We do not hate gay people. To the contrary, we are called (indeed, required) to love, respect, and treat them with the fullness of dignity that they deserve. There must be no reser- vation here. Until younger people today hear us and believe us on this point, I think we have little hope of gaining credibility in their minds so as to enter into deeper dialogue. (I use dialogue because people today, especially young adults and adoles- cents, refuse to be talked at. We have a better chance to bring them to an embrace of Catholic truth and wisdom through engagement rather than lecture.) So, it must start with a head-on address of the big lie that society is perpetrating (and some Catholics are complicit in) about gay, lesbian and transgender people and the Church. (This could lead to a whole, big complicated conversation about how some Catholics actually think and speak about homosexuals and homosexuality.) At this point we can and should step back from specific, narrow issues (like same-sex marriage) and explore the broad platform of Catholic moral thought…the Catholic worldview. It is here, from a more global perspective, that the beauty and power of Church teach- ing becomes more evident and can start to persuade. The foundational questions are “Who is God?” and “Who is the human person?” The God question is huge. For purposes here, I think it is helpful just to name that God is a community of persons who live in love…the Trinity. With a super- abundance of love welling up interiorly, God chose to create all that is, especially human beings, to experience and par- ticipate in this divine love. This can be a wonderful and rich theological exploration! Continued on page 3 Page The Newsletter of the Religious Education Office 2 Leaven www.dioceseofjoliet.org/reo New Wine in Old Wineskins… continued from p. 1 During the day, we will talk about how to move from: A culture of Institutional Faith to a culture of Intentional Faith A culture of Engagement to a culture of Encounter A culture of Maintenance to a culture of Mission A culture of Programs to a culture of People A culture of Avoidance to a culture of Accountability This day won’t be a silver bullet! Changing culture is difficult and painstaking work. It will, however, provide tools and a focus for your parish’s effort. If you know we need to see radical transformation in our parishes, and you’re not sure how to get there, I hope that you will come to this important event. If you are tired of working hard and seeing little change in your community, I hope to see you on January 18th. The question isn’t whether or not our parishes can experience transformation and renewal—the question is whether or not we have the will to live differently as parish communities. (See insert for more information and to register.) A Time to Sow, continued from p. 2 As to the other fundamental question upon which Catholic teaching stands, “Who is the human person?”, this groundwork must be laid before we have a chance to win the argument with society on any and all fronts, such as wealth and poverty, the environment, laws and justice, social structures, and human sexuality. The human person is God’s pinnacle of creation, created out of divine love and called to reflect it. Human persons are invited to participate in the ongo- ing generation of love and creation with God. This is a profound view of the person. It implies partnership with the Creator of the Universe and invitation to live each day in deep meaning and holy purpose, both within the heart of God and out in the world.