Archdiocesan News A PUBLICATION OF THE CATHOLIC CHURCH OF CAPE TOWN • ISSUE NO 67 • OCTOBER-DECEMBER 2012 • FREE OF CHARGE Archbishop's Stewardship Challenge Making stewardship a way of life in the Year of Faith

A Christian Steward is a Christ follower who: • Receives God’s gifts gratefully • Cherishes and tends them in a responsible way • Shares them in justice and love for all • Returns them with interest to the Lord (USCCB Stewardship: A Disciple’s Response) This means that we acknowledge that all we have has been given to us as a gift from God and we are grateful for all our gifts, our posses- sions, our health, our children, etc. We cherish these gifts and realise that we are accountable for all that we have been given, and we prom- ise to take care of them in a responsible way. For the benefit of others, God has given us all these gifts that we might be generous and give back a portion for the common good and in recognition of the bless- ings received from God (Malachi 3:10). We are also to use the gifts we have been given, and not to ‘bury’ them. Remember the Parable of the Talents. (Matthew 25:13-30) In a very practical way we are asked to give back to God from all Archbishop Brislin leads the way in the stewardship challenge, taking time out of his busy schedule to serve the poor that He has given to us in three ways: Time Talents Treasure THE STEWARDSHIP CHALLENGE TIME: spend one extra hour in prayer each week, go to an extra How do we do this? We spend more time in prayer with our Creator. Mass or spend the time in front of the Blessed Sacrament We share our skills and abilities with those who could benefit from TALENT: give one extra hour of your time and talents to your them and we take a portion our income (after tax) for those in need. parish, or to a charity that looks after the poor and vulnerable For further information The Bible talks about giving a ‘tithe’ – which means a tenth of all we people in Cape Town on how to donate to the receive in all three areas, before we do anything else. TREASuRE: as an extra act of giving, give the equivalent of Year of Faith Building Archbishop Brislin has asked that we all take up the Stewardship one hour’s salary to the Year of Faith Church Building Project, to Challenge as we enter the Year of Faith – to live in practice what we pro- a charity that supports the poor and vulnerable people in Cape project see page 3 fess as our faith. Town, or to your parish. Archbishop receives generous gift towards building of churches Father Christian Frantz moti- a cheque to the value of R10 000 to vated his parishioners at St Philip's, Archbishop Brislin. Strandfontein – as part of their conse- The Archbishop was most grateful cration sacrifice – to generously con- for this fitting gift – an excellent tribute to a second collection, taken gesture given to him on the eve of up over the two Sunday Masses prior his birthday (24 September). He said, to the Solemn Dedication Mass on “I’m indeed very glad and grateful for Sunday 23 September – as a gift to your kind generosity in helping me Archbishop Stephen Brislin towards with the building of two churches, the building of the new churches for and I know how you have struggled the Year of Faith. to complete your own church building Fr Christian thanked the parishion- and in having it consecrated – yet you ers for their generous support and thought of others as well and once The Confirmation class of 2012 from Corpus Christi, Wynberg who donated so generously to the building at the Mass of Dedication the PPC again a big thank you to you all.” of new churches in our Archdiocese chairperson Mr Paul Daniels, during Well done St Philips! his thank you speech, handed over Joseph Pillay Generosity of our church youth as they grow in Christ

On 16 September 2012, a group of that the candidates would donate building more churches for poor com- 28 young boys and girls received the money instead and would give the munities, with specific needy areas Sacrament of Confirmation at Corpus proceeds as a donation for the build- being sited. Christi Catholic Church, Wynberg. ing and renovation of churches in Young people have an important This was a very special day in the financially poorer communities in the role to play in uplifting and growing lives of these young people, their Archdiocese of Cape Town. It was the Catholic community at large. The parents, their sponsors and ecclesial also felt that this would give the young priests, deacons and many organisa- community. At the Mass, Archbishop Confirmation candidates an oppor- tions (with many older and very com- Emeritus Lawrence Henry called tunity to contribute more directly mitted members) in the parish have on the candidates to continue their into the larger Cape Town Catholic assisted in demonstrating their gen- involvement in the activities of the community through an outreach of erosity of spirit by their longstanding Church and to commit to continued their own. This would bring about a service and involvement in the church. service in their ecclesial community. greater and more personal awareness All young people are encouraged to It has been the tradition of the Corpus of the importance of enhancing the see themselves as an integral part of Fr Christian Frantz, parish priest of St Philip's, Strandfontein thanks Christi parish for the Confirmation dignity of our fellow Christians by our the growth of our church and to share his parishioners for generously contributing to Archbishop Brislin's (and First Holy Communion) can- generosity of spirit. willingly of their gifts and talents. plan to build and renovate three churches in our Archdiocese, espe- didates to contribute non-perishable The outreach is intended to coincide These seemingly small acts help to cially after having struggled to raise funds for the renovation of their foods as gifts for the needy. with the Year of Faith and Archbishop make our world a better place. own church. A cheque of R10 000 was handed over to the Archbishop. This year, the decision was taken Stephen Brislin’s appeal for support in Dorian Arendse ARCHDIOCESAN NEWS Visit the Archdiocese of Cape Town’s website on www.adct.org.za October-December 2012 1 From the HEART Archbishop Brislin blesses the new building project at St Catherine's and turns the first sod

We are blessed Evangelization? St Catherine of Siena, Kleinvlei to have the 1. The message is not new. It is forthcoming year the proclamation of Jesus Christ as Situated in Kleinvlei, Eerste River declared “The Saviour of the world and inviting (about 21km outside Stellenbosch) Year of Faith” by people to an encounter with Jesus is St Catherine of Siena Catholic Pope Benedict Christ and to enter into a personal parish. Here one finds a vibrant XVI and this is relationship with Christ; community of people of all ages an opportunity 2. It is the responsibility of ALL and backgrounds who are proud to for spiritual renewal and re-com- baptized people; serve the Lord in the community of mitment for all Catholics of the 3. It is about discerning new ways Kleinvlei and its surrounding areas. Archdiocese. of being Church and how to live faith It is a parish where you can feel The Year of Faith coincides with in situations where the Church is a at home and where people have the Synod on the New Evangelisation minority; donated their time, services, hard presently taking place in Rome. We 4. It is not only about evangelising work and finances to accommodate recall our baptismal mandate to individuals but also about evangelis- the church community’s expanding Above: Before building began. Below: nearing completion witness and to evangelise. By our ing the whole of culture; needs. This is a true reflection of very baptism we are called to fulfil 5. The first evangelisation was the development and growth of a the commandment of Jesus to “go, “geographical”, i.e. going to different church that started off with humble therefore, and make disciples of all countries. The new evangelisation beginnings. nations… teaching them to observe is “situational” and should perme- Since the early 1950s up to 1976, all that I have commanded you” ate every level of society. Some of Mass was celebrated periodically in (Matthew 28:19-20). those levels mentioned are: “culture, a centre in the old Eerste River vil- The Catholic Church has a long social (especially due to migration), lage by the Stellenbosch Dominican tradition of sending missionaries to economic, civic and political life, priests. When the area of Kleinvlei countries to proclaim Jesus Christ to scientific research and technology, was developed, the Catholic com- those who do not know him. More social media. munity of Stellenbosch, Eerste River recently, Pope John Paul II called 6. It is “kerygma” – the basic and Kleinvlei and their parish priest, for a “new evangelisation” – not Gospel message – but also a compre- Fr Arnold Diephuys OP did not lose as a criticism of the work done hensive process of Christianization time establishing a proper place to by missionaries, but as a response involving catechesis, moral and social worship. to a rapidly changing world. Not teaching as well as incorporation As the township grew, their ‘self- only are there rapid changes in into communion with the Body of help building project’ also grew. The technology and communication, but Christ, the Church. It is about “how men's societies of Stellenbosch and also the changes occurring due to we live”. Kleinvlei competed with their female the migration of peoples and rapid Can we, as the Church in Cape counterparts, and through stiff com- urbanization. This “meeting of the Town, rise to meet the challenge of petition and with the assistance cultures” often means that traditions the New Evangelisation? The Year of of the youth of Stellenbosch and and customs are broken down, as Faith provides an excellent oppor- Kleinvlei, the necessary funds were well as weakening of support sys- tunity for us to reflect on this and raised. Cardinal McCann blessed the tems. The Church needs to respond to find ways – especially through building and named the parish after to this quickly changing environment “Ecclesia” – of being at the service the great Dominican, St Catherine and to ensure that the proclamation of the New Evangelisation, with a of Siena, on 25 May 1976. Here of Jesus as Savour continues, and also special emphasis on reconciliation, was a building with no outstanding that adequate pastoral care is given justice and peace, as Africae Munus debt, built by the community for the to all her members. calls us to do. May God bless you all community. The new evangelisation is par- and strengthen you in your witness When the Dominicans and Fr ticularly concerned to re-kindle the to Jesus. Diephuys left the Cape towards the faith in those who are members of end of the 1970s, the community of the Church but have drifted away St Catherine’s became a part of the from the practice of the faith. What +Stephen Brislin neighbouring Kuils River parish of St are the characteristics of the New Archbishop of Cape Town Ninian’s. From 1988, until the arrival of Fr Gerry Masters in February 1989, the communities of St Ninian’s and St Catherine had no priest. However, with a sense of deep spiri- tual commitment, the parishioners of St Catherine’s upheld their parish life through the formation of small faith communities throughout the Archdiocesan News is a channel of communication and dialogue for the parish. In that period the parishio- teaching, dancing or singing, you will gave their overwhelming support people of the Archdiocese of Cape Town. The views expressed in it do ners also took it upon themselves find an occasion in which you can be for the success of this endeavour. not necessarily reflect the views of the editors. It hopes to communicate to arrange that Mass was celebrated yourself through the many societies Purposeful fundraising, committed various events, discuss topical issues, provide theological and spiritual every Sunday. and parish groups e.g. catechists, planned giving and community spirit input, and reflect all aspects of the life of our Church. During the early 1990s, St choirs, St Vincent de Paul, Legion of have contributed to raising sufficient Archdiocesan News is produced by the Archdiocese of Cape Town and Catherine’s church community saw Mary, Kolping Society, Young Adults, funds for Phase 1 and making the appears quarterly. Thank you to those who submitted articles for this edi- a substantial growth in numbers Ecclesia groups, as well as parents Pastoral/Catechetical Centre a real- tion. What would you like to see in future editions? Please submit reports due to the Blue Downs/Eerste River and social committees. This church ity, and it will be ready for the use about events and workshops that take place in your parish, or suggest housing developments, and a large and its people have kept a strong of the parishioners as well as the topics and issues you feel would be beneficial to our Church. number of newly married young faith and a strong church through the neighbouring community. Archdiocesan News is distributed free of charge in all parishes of the families moved into the area. In changing landscape of South Africa. Phase 2 of our project is to con- Archdiocese of Cape Town. Donations will be gladly appreciated. 1992, Fr Brian Gelant was appointed It is a place where many have found vert the factory-like shape of our Articles, letters and advertisements should reach us by 11 January by Archbishop Lawrence Henry as their second family. church building into a proper place 2013 for the January-March 2013 edition. the first resident parish priest. Right now, the parish is busy with of worship. This phase entails recon- Please address all correspondence to: The following four priests served a major renovation and reconstruc- structing the church building which Archdiocesan News, P O Box 2910, Cape Town, 8000. St Catherine’s since its indepen- tion project. This entire project, currently cannot accommodate the Tel: 021 462 2417. Fax: 021 461 9330 dence: Fr Brian Gelant (1992), Fr which is the re-construction of the more than 650 families registered in E-mail: [email protected] Website: www.adct.org.za Frank du Preez (1997), Fr Brandon church and attached small hall into a the parish. Fund raising and planned West (1999) and Fr Shenoy Thomas proper place of worship, and a bigger giving are continuing and we hope to Editor: Stephen Docherty (2005 to date). hall and classrooms for catechism, implement Phase 2 in the coming year Regular Contributors: Archbishop Stephen Brislin, Mgr Andrew St Catherine’s is not only a com- was encouraged and spearheaded with the help of the Archdiocese and Borello, Fr Ralph de Hahn, CPD, CPLO, Youth Desk, Vocations Desk, by the current parish priest, Fr our sister parishes. Catholic Welfare and Development. munity, it also celebrates commu- Layout, Production & Advertising: Stephen Docherty nity. There is a place to serve for Shenoy Thomas. 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ARCHDIOCESAN NEWS October-December 2012 2 The Year of Faith Building ProjectS Archbishop Brislin has committed to help build/renovate three churches in some of the financially disadvantaged areas of our Archdiocese in this Year of Faith. He can only do this with your commitment and generosity. Take up his stewardship challenge of Time, Talent and Treasure (from page 1) to help him build up our local Church. The communities of the three churches involved in this project – St Elizabeth's Wallacedene, St Josephine Bakhita Old Crossroads and St Catherine's Kleinvlei – are doing everything that they can to raise funds, but they cannot do it without our help. Here they share their stories with us. St Elizabeth's, Wallacedene The community of Wallacedene started in the early nineties. The majority of the people that com- prise the community come from the Eastern Cape and Lesotho. They came to Cape Town to look for job opportunities and others to further their studies in the different univer- sities and colleges that are available in Cape Town. When they arrived in Wallacedene The Church of St Josephine Bakhita, Old Crossroads they looked for a church in the area and discovered there was no church site or building. They then found the St Josephine Bakhita, church of St Anthony of Padua in Kraaifontein, they introduced them- Old Crossroads selves to the local parish priest and he welcomed them with love. This community is situated in an After trying for many years to get area not far from the Cape Town permission and support to have a In those days there weren't many St Elizabeth's, Wallacedene International Airport, in one of the proper brick and permanent church Catholics and so the parish priest poorest black townships of Cape building, it was granted this year felt that it would be good for the Town called Old Crossroads. by Archbishop Brislin. Delighted people of Wallacedene to come to Most of the people here are very with this news, the community has St Anthony’s for Mass. The people poor and unemployed and yet they embarked on a fundraising venture accepted the request of the priest are a very vibrant and dedicated using different mechanisms. and some went to St Anthony’s and Catholic community. It comprises We have many groups in this com- others to St Owens. of Xhosa speaking people from the munity, e.g. sodalities of the Sacred In the mid-nineties the commu- Eastern Cape, Sothos and, of course, Heart, St Anne, Catholic Men, St nity of Wallacedene expanded. As some from other African countries Joseph, youth group, altar servers, a result they felt that they wanted like Uganda, Congo, Tanzania and and numerous ministries like funeral, to start their own community in Ghana, just to mention a few. word, catechism, rosary, etc. The size Wallacedene. Many were not going The community itself dates back and state of the structure that we to St Anthony’s because of the walk- about 50 years. For many years have makes it difficult, if not impos- ing distance, and others felt that they people have worshipped in houses, sible, for different church activities were not participating actively in the shacks (temporary wooden and metal to take place, hence the urgent need Mass because of the English language. structures) and they have moved to have a proper permanent church They approached the local parish from one place to another. Eventually building that is functional. We get an priest and asked if he could offer his Above and below: The community at worship in Wallacedene they bought a plot and have put up a average of about 200 people attend- services to them in Wallacedene. temporary structure where they now ing Mass in this community. The priest agreed, but made it clear congregate for Mass and other parish Fr Kizito Gugah to them that they still belonged to St activities. Parish Administrator Anthony’s and that he will come to them once a month for Mass and that other Sundays they will have to come to St Anthony’s. The people of Wallacedene began worshiping in someone’s house and when the numbers got bigger they moved into one of the parishioner’s garages. Fr Desmond Curran then donated a container for the people to use for their worship, which was put next to the school grounds of Wallacedene Primary School. The community is still using the con- tainer which is not in a good condi- tion and has become very small for it is a place where they can deepen teachers who assist with catechism their needs. their relationship with God and also to the young ones and this is done In the late nineties the area devel- a place where they can meet fellow every Saturday and Sunday. Because oped and a new area not so far from Catholics. They also come regularly of space some classes are outside. Inside the church of St Josephine Bakhita Wallacedene was established called for the sacrament of reconciliation We have Mass every Sunday at Bloekombos. Many Catholics from and often I have to do this in my car 11.30 and on special feast days and Bloekombos form one community because there is no confessional in days of obligation. We also have with the Wallacedene people. the container. Mass also every first Friday of the A census was done five years In our community we have differ- month. All these are well attended ago and the number of Catholics ent ministries and sodalities. The by the community. registered in the parish is about 200. music ministry is one that the young There are many more Catholics in I have seen in the nearly two years people enjoy being a part of. We the area. Some have come and then of my stay in this parish that the also have a good number of altar not returned because of a lack of numbers have gone up considerably servers who are dedicated in their space, but those faithful ones have and is continuing to grow rapidly. ministry and also very helpful in come and stood outside during This is a call for a new church for the the church with other activities. A Mass even on cold days. We would Above and below: A shack and a container used for meetings and community because our container youth group has also been started. appreciate all the help and dona- catechism has become far too small for the We have four main sodalities: St tions we can get from people in amount of people coming to Mass Anne’s, Amadodana, Sacred Heart order to help build our church. We every Sunday. and the girls of St Anne. All these as a community are also trying hard The community is a very lively and have their own special meetings to fundraise for this big project. active one and this is reflected in the weekly. They come together to pray, Please remember us in your prayers celebration of the Eucharist. People read the Bible and share the Word as we struggle forward. come in good numbers for Mass and and teach one another about their Fr Nkululeko Qokolo participate fully with great response constitution. We have a number of Parish Administrator to the prayers and good singing and dancing during the liturgy. Our HOW TO DONATE TO THE YEAR celebration of the Eucharist is two hours long and on special feast days OF FAITH BUILDING PROJECTS or solemnities it’s even longer. The people find joy in coming to the It's easy! Log on to www.adct.org.za/yof.htm where full details will be given. Eucharist because they believe that

ARCHDIOCESAN NEWS October-December 2012 3 Youth News and Activities Nurses Hey there! and health I hope everyone has been enjoying the great Cape Town weather for the past few months (ha ha ha!). But despite the weather lots of exciting things have been happening for the youth of the Archdiocese. care work- Particular highlights have included: The first meeting of Pilgrims for World Youth Day in Rio 2013. There are nearly 50 young people from the Archdiocese planning to go to Rio and ers day of preparations are well underway. A weekend retreat at the end of July with the youth leaders of the four Cape planning Town Life Teen parishes (Durbanville, Rondebosch, Somerset West and Table View). Despite the freezing weather, it was a great weekend near Franschhoek – making new friends, relaxing and most importantly deepening relationships After lunch the group split into three, with the younger ones playing games Catholic nurses and with God. outside, while the older ones heard some moving testimonies from other young health care profes- people and were introduced to the Theology of the Body course, which is now sionals are invited being run by the Youth Office. to attend a day of reflection and plan- ning for the forma- tion of Cape Town’s own CNA (Catholic Nurses and Healthcare Workers Association). The day will be held at Nazareth House in Vredehoek on Saturday November 3. It will begin with Mass celebrated by Archbishop Brislin at We were also most blessed on 25 August to have the first ever ‘Prayer Jam’ 09.30. After tea there will be an at the Cape Town International Convention, with Jesse Manibusan, a lay input and reflection led by Fr Mark evangelist, music minister and motivational speaker from the USA. Nearly Foster – followed by group discus- 200 young people from across the Archdiocese spent the day praying, singing, sion and sharing. This will exam- listening and sharing. ine issues such as the purpose of CNA for Cape Town – what can be expected from it and be put into it – for the purpose of serving others. There will be a bring and share Exciting things to look forward to include the upcoming Catholic Children’s lunch, followed by planning the way Christmas Camp in December. This four day holiday enables children from forward and the formation of a Grades 1 to 7 to engage with the Christmas message and also learn something steering committee. about their faith, all the while having fun in the sun at a beautiful campsite in The day will close at about 14.00 Glencairn a few minutes walk from the beach. There is also an opportunity for campers to explore their talents in art, sport with benediction after which and drama. The camp aims to help each child realise how special they are in Fr Foster will give a Blessing of the light of God's love, and to learn a little more about Him and themselves, in Hands. activities tailored to suit their age. Hopefully this will be the start This camp ran for more than 20 years until 2006, and is now being revived by of many such gatherings. All are the Youth Chaplaincy, along with some of the previous leaders and organisers invited to offer their ideas for the (some whom started attending camp when they were children!). future by emailing either Sister Campers are well looked after by their individual group leaders who take them Margaret (socialworker@nazhouse. through the whole camp. Accommodation is provided in dormitories and all co.za) or Father Wim Lindeque meals and equipment for activities is provided. Applications for campers and leaders (who should be over 18 and have some ([email protected]) experience in youth leadership or working with junior school children) can be downloaded from the website at http://adct.org.za/ministries/youth. The docu- ment names are Leaders Application Form and Campers Application Form. In February next year, we will be hosting several international guests from CPE courses Life Teen, and all the young people of the Archdiocese are invited to an evening of praise and worship on Friday 22 February, and youth leaders are invited to a at Groote workshop on Saturday 23 February. Please contact the Youth Office ([email protected]) for more information. Peace and Blessings Schuur Fr Charles The CPE Unit (eleven weeks): In the second picture, you can see Jesse with the adults from St Anthony’s Tuesday, 5th February - Friday 19th parish in Langa April, 2013. Finally, we had our annual youth ministry day on 29 September at The CPE Module (four weeks): Lansdowne, which started with Mass celebrated by the Archbishop and includ- Tuesday, 5th February - Friday, 1st ing a recommitment by all the young people who are involved in ministry in March 2013. their parishes. The above programmes will be the last Clinical Pastoral Education(CPE) programmes offered out of the Pastoral Department at Groote Schuur Hospital, Cape Town, co- ordinated, directed and supervised by Sister Jacinta Bannon IBVM and Sister Isobel Africa HF. As from February 2013 all enquiries in connection with Clinical Pastoral Education (CPE) in South Africa can be directed to either:- a) Groote Schuur Hosptial, Cape Town. Rev. Devin Atherstone. e-mail: [email protected] OR b) Prof. Edwina Ward e-mail: [email protected] OR c) University of Stellenbosch Dr Christo Thesnaar e-mail: [email protected]

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Monsignor Anthony Seba was the last African Navy, for while in Simon's parishioners. active role in the civic, community sought it, if you did not have it”. Of born child of John and Mary Seba, Town, he witnessed the transfer of In the early years the Church hall and religious life of the suburb. In his priesthood he had this to say, “I born in Cape Town on 14 November the naval base from British to South doubled up as Christ the King School. recognition of his long service to the cannot imagine what my life would 1912. He was baptised in St Mary’s African naval command. During the At first it was headed by a lay teacher people of Pinelands, a public bench have been without it. It has given me, Cathedral and started schooling with time of forced removals under the but later the Pallottine and Cabra was dedicated in his honour by the even on a human level, all that I prize the Cabra Dominican Sisters at St Group Areas Act he appeared before Dominican Sisters took over the run- municipality. The bench, which stands most. It has allowed me to develop Mary’s. Later he continued his educa- the Group Areas board testifying ning of the little school. outside of the parish hall, is inscribed: as me. It has been an enrichment of tion with the Marist Brothers. After against forced removals in Simon's “Donated by the people of Pinelands in my mind, my heart and personality making his First Communion he Town, receiving a letter of appre- recognition of service by Rev. Anthony as nothing else could have done. I became an altar server and served until ciation from the chairperson of the Seba, parish priest of Christ the King, believe that without it my life would he was accepted by Bishop Bernard Simon's Town Group Areas Liaison Pinelands, 1960-1988.” have been an arctic waste”. O’Riley for studies to the priesthood. Committee for his efforts. After 28 rewarding years in Mgr Seba is now resident in In 1932 he was sent to Rome to After leaving Simon's Town he was Pinelands it was back to the seaside for Nazareth House which is situated in begin his studies at Propaganda Fide. sent to Pinelands. He arrived there Mgr Seba when, in 1988, he retired to the City Bowl, the suburb in which he Fellow students at the time included in 1960 and took up residence at St St Theresa’s in Camps Bay. In 1992 began life 100 years ago. He has lived Mgr Con Lynch and Owen Cardinal Vincent Pallotti Hospital (St Joseph’s he was made a Prelate of Honour and through the pontificates of Popes Pius McCann. Sanatorium). The Pinelands Church became a Monsignor, a recognition X, Benedict XV, Pius XI, Pius XII, In 1938, after completing his at this time was in essence a Mass by the Church of his long years of John XXIII, Paul VI, John Paul I, studies, he returned to Cape Town centre served for the hospital. It was faithful service. He spent three happy John Paul II and Benedict XVI. And and began to minister under Bishop only when Mgr Seba moved out of the years there, but with failing eyesight in terms of the local Church has lived Francis Henneman SAC who sent hospital that the parish really came it became time for another move. In under the following bishops of Cape him as curate to Holy Cross in Nile into its own. 1991 he moved back to St Mary’s Town: John Rooney, Bernard O’Riley, Street. During his time in Pinelands he Cathedral. He was warmly welcomed Francis Hennemann SAC, Owen After serving at Holy Cross for two oversaw the building of the hall, the there by Mgr Donald de Beer and Cardinal McCann, Stephen Naidoo years he was appointed as one of the purchase of the presbytery, and the Mgr Anthony Seba though in retirement Mgr Seba con- CSsR, Lawrence Henry and Stephen curates at St Mary’s Cathedral and beautification of the grounds with tinued to assist the parish when neces- Brislin. In March 2013, on the Feast for the next ten years he ministered to the establishment of a garden planted In 1977 he went to Rome to attend sary. It was at St Mary’s in 1998 that of St Joseph, he will celebrate his 75th the people of St Mary’s, serving also with many of the trees and shrubs that the canonisation by Pope Paul VI he celebrated his 60th anniversary of anniversary of priestly ordination. as the first official Catholic chaplain are mentioned in the Holy Scriptures. of St Charbel Makhluf, a relative of ordination to the priesthood. At this The Church of Cape Town thanks to the Roland Street jail. He also oversaw the renovation and his on his father’s side of the family. celebration, quoting Marcus Aurelius you for your years of ministry and In 1950 he was appointed as parish extension of the church building. He This brought him great joy and hap- he said, “Think of what you have, congratulates you on a century of priest of Saints Simon and Jude in secured the use of a piece of land piness as well as a tremendous sense rather than what you lack. Of what living. May God continue to bless and Simon's Town as well as chaplain to in front of the Church, which was of pride. you have select the best. And then keep you in the years ahead. the Royal Navy and later the South developed into a parking area for the While in Pinelands he played an reflect how eagerly you should have Fr Hugh O'Connor

Mater Domini’s CIRCLE OF FRIENDS

The Circle of Friends was The Mater Domini Home is a shelter for women in crisis pregnancy, or suffering abuse. Our home is situated in Claremont. We operate within the Archdiocese formed earlier this year to pro- of Cape Town, with Archbishop Stephen Brislin as our patron. vide a forum through which The home is run with a specifically Catholic ethos – providing a loving, caring environment that respects the sanctity of life and freedom from abuse for all people can involve themselves human beings. At Mater Domini we provide non-judgmental counseling and medical and spiritual support to women and their babies. We also offer access to in actively supporting the Mater skills training programmes, and we support them in seeking and securing employment. Domini Home. The Masque Ball held in March to very generous individual donations The primary project this year is went some way towards raising funds we have received towards this, on 5 a “planned giving” campaign to towards a new vehicle for the home but September we received a visit from fund the monthly running costs there was still a shortfall. In addition Mr and Mrs Da Silva of Our Lady of the home – we are trying to of Fatima parish in Bellville and their get at least 500 supporters who parish priest Fr Bogdan Buksa. They will give us a regular monthly had recently celebrated their 50th wed- donation. ding anniversary and asked friends and We meet once a month and if family to donate money towards our vehicle fund in lieu of presents. The you would like to be involved result was fantastic and our new vehicle please contact Amy (076 593 has now been purchased. 3325) or Debbie (082 460 4662). We are very grateful to our benefactors and donors who Our bank details are: have made the pur- Right to Live – Mater Domini First National Bank The Ladies of St. Kevin's in Northpine and All Saints in Brackenfell recently chase of our new Branch 200309 celebrated Women's Day together with their parish priest Fr Roger Hickley. All vehicle possible. Account no 62145987709 the ladies who attended the function were asked to bring a donation in the form of toiletries for the women at the Mater Domini home. The group collected a Donations are tax-deductible huge bag of toiletries, which were presented to us by Jennifer Chothia from St Public Benefit Organization: 930036903 Kevin's parish. We were delighted to receive Jennifer, and wish to extend a big Non-Profit Organization: 089-510-NPO thank you to each and every one who contributed toward this generous donation for their kindness. You are truly a great blessing to us!

In May last year we broke away from the Durban-based Mater homes to become independent within our own Archdiocese under Archbishop Brislin’s patronage. In August we held our first AGM. The Board is at present com- ABOVE TOP: Archbishop Brislin blesses Mater Domini's new vehicle prised as follows: Chairperson ABOVE: The Da Silva's with the Mater Domini staff – Brenda Munro; Finance – Stephen Armstrong and Elena CONTACT DETAILS Moore; Home Management 021 671 6008  [email protected] and Communications – Amy www.materdominihome.org Servais; Maintenance – David Over the past six months we have taken 15 women into the home and celebrated Nash; Human Resources – Bruce Donations of food and clothing are welcome. the birth of eight babies. The management of the home is in the capable hands Please phone to make arrangements. of sisters Nina and Janine Richards – pictured above (extreme left and centre) Walsh and Archdiocesan Liaison & Fundraising – Joan Armstrong. with some of the residents. Nina and Janine see this work as their vocation, "Whatever you do unto the least of these, you do unto me." having been called to it by God. ARCHDIOCESAN NEWS October-December 2012 5 ADVENT LECTURES 2012 Theology The Odour of Paradise Today Themes in Islamic Mgr Andrew Borello Spirituality Many Catholics have a very basic into God. This is the integration of knowledge of their faith, but our faith and our lives. Fr Christopher Clohessy PhD have done little to develop this In turn, this determines who knowledge beyond their childhood we are for others and how we Tue 20th November, 19.30 – The Desolate Mystic: Adam, Satan and the Creation Story catechism. It is absolutely essential relate to them. We cannot claim for us to know our faith, to live it to know God or to live in Him Tue 27th November, 19.30 – The Project of God: Muhammad and the Christians and to be able to defend it. In a and at the same time be unloving Tue 4th December, 19.30 – The Odour of Paradise: the Sûfî Path very real way, this knowledge of towards others. When we fail the faith and the exercise of the to respect and accept others, to Tue 11th December, 19.30 – People of the House: the Grief of the Shi’ites gift of faith needs to form life. All harbour prejudices in relation to too often faith and life are simply groups of people who are differ- Tue 18th December, 19.30 – Friends of God: Islam’s Mystic Women not integrated, with faith being on ent from ourselves, to talk badly the periphery of our lives rather about people behind their backs than at the centre. An example or to refuse to be reconciled with St Bernard’s Church Hall would be our sense of and knowl- someone who has hurt us, then Cnr Protea and Buchan Roads, Newlands edge about God – we believe in we have a serious issue in regard God, but we need to know who to our relationship with God. In 19h30 to 20h30 the God is in whom we believe and fact we would have to look at Donation: R20 per lecture to place God at the centre of our ourselves with a very critical eye lives. It is Jesus who reveals God and admit that this relationship is to us and the Church, under the more about fantasy than reality. inspiration of the Holy Spirit, who If we are to make a difference teaches us who this God is so that in our world as members of the St Philip's jubilee year consecration we can form relationship with Him Church, then we need to experi- in such a way that He is the core of ence a radical conversion in our- The parish of St Philip, Strandfontein our lives and our living. selves and our thinking about who marked the beginning of its Silver Evangelisation is a faith conver- we are in God. It is not enough to Jubilee year celebrations – since sion into a relationship with God, tolerate others, especially those the blessing of the church on 26 literally our lives being formed in who are outside of our Catholic October 2011 – by embarking on the Gospel who is Jesus and shar- family. We must actively reach out a much needed renovation process, ing through him in the relation- to embrace them with knowledge culminating in the solemn dedica- ship of sons and daughters of our about ourselves and them, with tion of the church which took place Father. The starting point in this understanding and acceptance, and, on 23 September 2012, presided process is the love that God has most importantly, with respect. over by Archbishop Stephen Brislin for us and his overwhelming desire Prejudice has no place in a person and concelebrated by Archbishop for us to form this bond of love who lives their relationship with Emeritus Lawrence Henry, Fr Peter that is life for us. It is a relationship God. This is what dialogue actually John Pearson (vicar general), Fr of love that is reflected in the love involves, whether it is a formal Christian Frantz (parish priest) and that we become for God and for process or just happens between Fr Pat Lonergan SDB (pioneering others. The same is true of all the individuals. Ultimately, we have to priest of St Philip's), amongst oth- qualities of God – mercy, kindness, be concerned with the salvation of ers. compassion, goodness, patience, ourselves and of all peoples. This is Fr Christian Frantz recognised the understanding, truth, justice, etc. our mission as Church. It is for this efforts of parishioners both past and Archbishop Brislin blesses the altar during the consecration of the church If we are in a faith relationship with that we celebrate Eucharist – the present, who have worked tirelessly God, then we need to reflect who salvation of all – the continuous for the parish and contributed to the God is by these values being lived making present into our world made by his predecessors and parish church over a number of years. He for various services offered to the St and experienced in us. This is a of the great salvation act of Jesus councils in collaboration with parish also acknowledged the many people Philip's faith community. radical conversion away from self Christ. such as Monsignor Andrew Borello, Mr Paul Daniels, the present PPC priests over the years. In his con- Fr Eddie O'Neill, building contrac- chairperson, in his word of thanks cluding remarks he said: “I would tors, benefactors and many others acknowledged the contribution like to add that we need to accept that this church was completed and consecrated in God’s time and he KOLPING chose a time to bring this faith fam- ily together here in Strandfontein to work together to complete this Guest House & project – a time when families are Conference Facility being torn apart by the scourge of drugs and gangsterism. We have all Situated in a tranquil garden setting in the centre THE KYRIOS MOVEMENT worked hard, but always together, of Durbanville, with pool and braai facilities, we and we need to continue to work offer both tastefully decorated Bed and Breakfast PRAYING FOR YOU - INTERCEDING WITH YOU together as a faith family especially The Kyrios Movement is a spiritual movement which came to birth in the Archdiocese as we enter the year of faith. We rooms and Self-Catering units, as well as a full of Cape Town on the Feast of Mercy in 2007. It is established in Kuils River and also look forward to the second English breakfast and dinner by arrangement. Belgravia parishes. It is based on the message and devotion of Divine Mercy. It season of Ecclesia which revolves embraces a Rule for Daily Living, which has been approved by Archbishop Brislin. The Conference facilities, wheelchair facilities, around family, and need to always rule is sacrifi cial in its nature and it seeks to live out a covenantal spirituality, which within walking distance of shops, restaurants, perceives Mercy, as the way of the Gospel. be mindful that we are now a family consecrated or dedicated to the Lord banks and close proximity to Catholic Church, As members of the Kyrios Movement, we seek to live a life of greatness, by living a life our God". of intercession for others. We lovingly offer up all our daily labours, all our sufferings tennis courts, golf course and wine route. and prayers for the intentions of others or for anyone who seeks to encounter the Listening to the remarks made power of God’s mercy in their lives. If you would like the Kyrios Scapular Members by some of those who attended the We would like to be your to offer up their humble prayers and daily offerings for your intentions, to strengthen consecration of the church were: home away from home your prayers and to pray with you as humble brothers and sisters in Christ, then “indeed a momentous day for St please contact: Philip's Catholic Church" and CONTACT • JOHANN BAARTZES in Kuils River 083 412 5047 [email protected] again, “it was an honour to be part Elisabeth Blank, Manager • GRAHAME JOHN in Belgravia. 082 688 7353 grahame.john@ of the celebration, I truly felt blessed 7 Biccard Street Durbanville 7550 capetown.gov.za to experience such a beautiful Mass” • For further details contact Fr Craig Holmes 021 782 2671 sjtepp@ Tel +27 21 970 2900. telkomsa.net and again, “truly a day to be cher- Fax +27 21 976 9839 ished for the rest of my life” – all Cell 082 584 1483 We also enthrone the Divine Mercy Image in the family home, at the invitation of a of which gave one a sense of a task family which seeks to have Jesus Christ reigning as ‘Lord of Mercy’ in their hearts and E-mail: [email protected] in their home. well done. www.kolpingguesthouse.co.za Joseph Pillay ARCHDIOCESAN NEWS October-December 2012 6 The Robot Bandit Catholic Men's Ministry celebrate A short story by Fr Ralph de Hahn Women's Day It’s a long busy road from Castleton to the city, more than 45 kilometres. On 9 August, Women's Day was And for Kelly this was the pattern celebrated with a difference. The morning after the morning; and then Men's Ministry, for the second year, the same endless traffic coming back celebrated and honoured women at in the evening. One wonders where all the Lansdowne parish hall, and was these cars come from – some with four worked hard for every penny and had attended by more than 150 women. wheels but certainly not roadworthy! nothing to share, especially with these The men prepared a number of And the number seems to grow from robot bandits! yummy, wholesome potjie kos pots year to year. One gets the impression There was one stop Kelly really and delicious desserts while the that even the blind, deaf and dumb are enjoyed; this was at Windermere Road. women were entertained by a music at the wheel! With the very elderly at Here he had his fun with a youth- group and belly dancing girls (per- ful gentleman, probably a drug addict, the wheel one sees only the eyes! haps the dancing girls were the men's Now Kelly may have been a very somewhat handsome and fairly well entertainment?). good driver in his dainty Tazz but he dressed, who named himself Charlie. All the women received a goodie certainly had no love for the beggar or Sometimes he was named Antonio and bag and there was great excitement the poor; he was known to be utterly other times Romeo. He claimed to be selfish, egoistic, a lonely miser – and in multi-talented, and this Kelly knew all and laughter. The women sincerely fact quite miserable. He loved annoying too well. “Sorry to worry you, kind sir, thanked all the men for their generous people, irrespective of rank, more espe- but my granny has died, and I need to efforts, hard work and just giving of themselves to make the day special. ABOVE: Some of the ladies cially those who dared to annoy him. get to the funeral…” and spoken with proudly displaying their Despite all this he believed that God such sincerity and superb diction and, The Men's Ministry invite all men goodie bags; loved him! Oh yes, he was a believer; of course, tearful eyes. The first week, in the various deaneries to form more RIGHT: Entertaining the he attended the local church every Kelly remembered, it was his gran, prayer groups and join the ministry if ladies with song. Sabbath and said the Lord’s prayer a then the following week it was his they have not yet done so. Photos: Zelda Van der Holst least once a week. He keeps his precious aunt, and then, alas, the third week the Jean Hendricks bible safe – way on top of the closet. granny died again! However, the one What bugged Kelly most was the bandit Kelly found most distasteful and persistent ‘hold-up’ at the traffic lights infuriating was old man Jolly Jack, who in the city area; those many times never ceased smiling at being rejected. Vocations in a Year of Faith when, forced to stop for the red light, He wore that irresistible smile day and he would be confronted by persistent night, even when asleep. Jolly Jack The Year of Faith is on our doorstep God and hopefully be in union with feelings are evoked as we think about beggars of all shapes and sizes; he claimed that he was now a virgin for he and there seems to be excitement in God. There are different ways of our own personal call. The Year of named them the ‘robot bandits’!Listen had left his four wives behind since they different parts and different minis- praying, yet every prayer is about Faith is an opportunity once again to to his story. had refused to smile! And there were tries in our diocese. a relationship. During the Year of get in touch with our own personal At the Broad Street robots there was many more stories of this kind related Vocations is a very real part of Faith, every Catholic is called upon call. What was my feeling when always Archie, with those pleading by our friend Kelly. our Church and therefore serious to deepen their experience of prayer I first received the call? If my son eyes and devilish smile, always with an He enjoyed laughing at the poor on reflection needs to be given to it. We and at the same time to pray particu- or daughter was to tell me that he empty mug begging a coin or two for the road; he believed nobody – only his need to put vocations on the map larly for vocations to the priesthood wanted to be a priest or she wanted to some liquid nourishment. Now Archie own self-righteousness. In fact, his con- in the sense that we need to create and religious life. be a nun, what would my feeling be? was the one-legged beggar; the other leg science often reminded him that many awareness of the need to pray for it. Awareness leads us into the area of Hopefully in getting in touch with he left at home! Kelly would shout some cases on the roadside were desperate Prayer is power and is an opportunity feeling. How do we feel about some- our deepest emotions we would be abuse and quickly wind up his win- and very needy cases, but there were for every Christian to commune with one who is called by God? Perhaps able to share this feeling, to honour dow. At the Grand Avenue corner, yet other motorists who could do the job the one who feels called and try and another traffic stop, and behold Sally for him. His version of so-called charity remain in that space of “feeling”. (who loved to be called ‘Beauty’) – a was truly illuminating; he professed he Talking about our feelings, and espe- truly sorry sight, so unhappy, so tearful had a better interpretation of the Lord’s cially our feelings about priesthood with a baby in her arms (definitely not teaching. and religious life, would open the her baby; only God knows where that But let me tell you the shocking end door for greater dialogue. What are baby came from!). Kelly had no respect of this story; whether it actually hap- the concerns, the drawbacks, if any, for her although she deserved some pity, pened or not I don’t know; but that’s and also what are the joys and hopes but more so the unfortunate baby! how Kelly related it to me. of priestly and religious life? On the corner of Bradley Road the It happened at Calvary crossing, just Awareness and feelings leads to slow-changing traffic lights gives Joe outside the city. It was one evening on action. What can we do as a family to the opportunity of approaching the his way home. As he halted for the promote and foster vocations? What cars one by one, proudly wearing his red light, which seemed to him to be can we do as a parish? What can we captain’s cap and boldly displaying forever, a young bearded man in tat- do as an archdiocese to foster the his handicap. Joe had only one arm, tered garments stood at his car door; beauty of vocations? This “doing” so our friend Kelly named him the he smiled lovingly and gently and his part has a lot to do with our own per- ‘one-armed bandit’. This bandit spoke eyes were weary and penetrating. This sonal understanding and acceptance not a word, but merely rattled the tin was one robot bandit Kelly had never of the reality that God calls people mug with a desperate look of hunger seen before. The bearded stranger was to serve him in a particular way and stretched across his face. Here Kelly something, somebody totally new. that priesthood and religious life may would respond with that ugly smile Kelly was speechless; the stranger be one way in which young people which clearly translated spelt “no way, stretched forth his pleading hands with would like to respond or feel that fellow!” Kelly was a man of immovable open palms. Kelly stared at his hands. they are being called, but because of principles; he made it known that what He went cold. The stranger’s two hands negativity or pressure they shy away was his belonged to him alone. He had bore the ugly print of nails. from taking that leap of faith. What are we doing as Church to celebrate our faith and our own personal voca- tion. HOLY SPIRIT CENTRE The Year of Faith is an opportunity (Totally Renovated) for us to do three more things: 1. To share positive things about Welcomes ALL Church / School Groups our Church and our faith 2. To sustain our faith through the (Alpha, Confi rmation, RCIA, Bible Study, etc) sacraments, even though we go for Retreats, Conferences, Study, or whatever through trials and adversity 3. To strive to put more energy and time into making a meaningful contribution toward the edifica- tion of our Church. 161A Coronation Road Maitland / PO Box 925 Maitland 7405 Let us listen to the words of Jesus, and let us follow his ways and when We offer accommodation, good food, conference rooms for 100 people, we do we will experience his uncon- a garden, a chapel… and much love and hospitality. ditional love in a new way. If you feel called to follow Jesus ALL AT LOW, EASY RATES as a diocesan priest and are not sure of the process to follow, then e-mail BOOK EARLY: Manager: 021 510 2988 or 083 723 0293 [email protected] or telephone Public telephone: 021 510 0188. Fax: 021 510 7699. 083 492 5552 and I will guide you E-mail: [email protected] through the process. Fr Emmanuel Siljeur THIS IS THE HQ OF THE CAPE CATHOLIC CHARISMATIC RENEWAL Episcopal Vicar for Vocations and Seminary Formation ARCHDIOCESAN NEWS October-December 2012 7 GOD & LOVE, LIFE & SEX guide & resource for christian living, Marriage, Family

This is a preview of a book by the southern African catholic Bishops' conference (sAcBc). The full version will be available from the sAcBc towards the end of the year. we will be featuring a section from each chapter in the next few editions of the Archdiocesan news Pope John Paul II wrote: “It is the ‘heart’ converted to the Lord and to the love of what is good which is really the source... of true judgements of conscience."1 For these two very learned people God had first claim on their conscience through the teaching of the Church and the authority of the Pope. St Thomas More (1478-1535) Thomas More was a very gifted man, a highly respected lawyer and statesman, a great scholar and writer, a devoted husband and father, and above all a person whose whole life was deeply rooted in his Christian faith as a man of prayer. He never tried to separate morality from politics and had a passion for justice and fairness. CHAPTER 3 He rose to the highest political offi ce in England, that of Lord Chancellor to King Henry VIII. He refused to take the Oath of Openness to Life versus Contraception Allegiance which declared that the King and not the Pope was ‘Head of the Church’ in England. For this act of ‘disobedience’ and ‘treason’ he was The Role of Conscience imprisoned by his king whom he had served faithfully and was fi nally beheaded on 6 July 1535 as a martyr to conscience. Methods and Effects of Contraception On the scaffold awaiting death, St Thomas More described himself as “The King’s good A Story: servant, but God’s fi rst”. He was beatifi ed in 1886, canonised in 1935 and declared the “Heavenly Patron of Statesmen and Politicians” by John Paul II on 31 October 2000. A husband shares his story with us: 1 Veritatis Splendor 64 My wife Alice went off to see the doctor. Without fi rst consulting me, she asked him to prescribe contraceptives because she felt that I was expecting to have sex with her nearly every night and she Blessed John Henry Newman (1801-1890) feared becoming pregnant again. I was really shocked that she went off on her own but I thought Born in London, brought up in the Anglican tradition, John Henry to myself that if she does not want to get pregnant, well, that’s her business. I continued with my Newman became an Anglican priest. Through a deep study of the sexual demands believing that it was my right as a male. One day it dawned on me that while I Bible, as well as the Fathers and early history of the Church and found pleasure, my wife felt simply used. In fact she was bored and only wanted me to get it over through his constant search for truth, his conscience finally guided with. She did not enjoy it any more and our relationship was deteriorating. him into the Catholic Church. Questions for Refl ection: This decision caused him real anguish of soul and the loss of many • What strikes you most in the story? friends but he had to obey his conscience and was received into • Do you know of any harmful side-effects of contraceptives? the Catholic Church. Soon afterwards he was ordained a priest, • Name some of them. and became one of the greatest theologians of his day. He wrote extensively on conscience and how it should always be guided by objective truth. The Message: Newman wrote: “Conscience – there are two ways of regarding conscience; one is a mere Sexual intercourse in married life is a precious gift from God, the Creator. It belongs to the sort of sense of propriety, a taste teaching us to do this or that, the other as the echo vocation of a married couple to safeguard the spousal act as an expression of God’s life- of God’s voice. Now all depends on this distinction – the fi rst way is not of faith and the giving love. Married couples are called to keep love and life together in the marital act by second is of faith" 1 avoiding the use of contraceptives.1 Cardinal Newman was beatifi ed by Pope Benedict XVI on 19 September 2010. As human beings, all people are created in the image and likeness of God, “male and female He created them” (Genesis 1:27). Men and women are completely equal in their great These two men are very relevant witnesses to the supreme importance of seeking and dignity, common humanity and ultimate destiny. They refl ect God’s image not only in their living the truth through an informed Christian conscience, which “is both capacity for souls but also in their bodies as male and female, since the body too partakes in the image truth and obedience to the truth which manifests itself to anyone who seeks it with an 2 and likeness of God. The human body should never be regarded as an object or thing to be open heart. used at will. 1 John Henry Newman, Sermon Notes, (Herefordshire: Notre Dame 2000, 327) 2 Pope Benedict XVI, Address to Roman Curia, 20 December 2010 In a certain sense, it can be said: I am my body and my body is me”. It reveals who I am as a person – a unique union of a material body and a spiritual soul. It is through my body that I relate to God, to other people and to the world. Pope Benedict XVI writes: “It is neither the spirit alone nor the body alone that loves; it is man, the person, a unifi ed creature composed of body and soul who loves”.2 God gave us sexual bodies so that we could love each other in both a physical and spiritual way and also that our love would issue in new life because love is essentially life-giving. To reject fertility is to reject a noble part of the body. This great gift from God makes people partake more fully in his image as loving and life-giving Father. Through the gift of fertility we co-operate with God in bringing a precious new life into existence. Furthermore, through Baptism a person receives the Holy Spirit and becomes a temple of God’s glory. This causes St Paul to say, as we noted above: “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God and that you are not your own? For you have been purchased at a price, therefore glorify God in your body” (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). One should never do anything with the body that would defi le this CHAPTER 4 temple of the Holy Spirit. All sins in the expression of our sexuality defi le the body in a certain way and offend God who made us and became one of us. Christians should try to Humanae Vitae: A Prophetic Teaching live their bodily life in holy and truly human ways and glorify God in their bodies. “The Truth Will Make You Free” The vocation of a married couple includes safeguarding the spousal act as an expression of A Story: God’s life-giving love. The truth is that both life itself and the bringing of new life into the A priest writes: world are ultimately in God’s hands and not in ours alone. Responsible self-control based on love is God’s plan for us. Over the years in my capacity as a student and lecturer in moral theology, I have come into personal contact with a variety of groups and individuals throughout South Africa. One group of people I We belong, body and soul to God, our loving Creator. “But now, thus says the Lord, who seem to meet all over the land is that of married mothers concerned about having babies. Some created you, O Jacob, and formed you, O Israel: Fear not for I have redeemed you; I have called of these I meet within a group context, others on a personal basis. But what has come across to you by name: you are mine” (Isaiah 43:1). me loud and clear from either contact is the fact that many of these women are, to say the least, 1 Smith, Janet E CD 1 Contraception: Why Not? – Revised and Updated upset and frustrated by the way priests avoid anything to do with procreation and contraception 2 Deus Caritas Est 5 in sermons, instructions and in ordinary pastoral meetings. Others are angry because some priests Outstanding Witnesses to Christian Conscience are not even interested in natural family planning, indeed are sometimes openly opposed to the movement. These women feel let down by the Church in the person of the priest. They often protest St Thomas More and Blessed John Henry Newman are outstanding examples of fidelity to that they can distinguish between the priest and the Church, but that it is sometimes diffi cult to do an informed Christian conscience. so in this whole debate. ARCHDIOCESAN NEWS October-December 2012 8 Questions for Reflection: ishing their relationship with the Lord by daily prayer, by going to Sunday Mass, and by • Why do you think that some priests are reluctant to speak about such important issues the regular reception of Jesus in the Eucharist and of his forgiveness in the Sacrament of as sex, having babies, contraception and natural family planning? Reconciliation. • Have you read Humanae Vitae? If so, how did it speak to you? Making time to be together as family e.g. at meals, going to church together and other • How do you feel about the teaching of Humanae Vitae? occasions which provide opportunities for informal conversation and sharing, is sacred The Message: family time which helps to bond all the members together and gives them an opportunity on a regular basis to share their faith and Christian values, their joys and difficulties, their Pope Paul VI maintained in Humanae Vitae that there would be serious consequences if the hopes and disappointments. nature of the marital act were deliberately altered by separating the unitive purpose and the life-giving purpose through the use of contraceptive and other immoral methods of birth control.1 It was an unpopular truth then and is an unpopular truth now though many Chapter 6 people, especially younger people, are coming to see its wisdom. It is no longer necessary to predict what would happen if contraception were to be widely used. It is now clear what Single Unmarried Parents and disastrous consequences have followed. They are precisely the ones the Pope prophesied and this prompts us to call on all members of the Church to discover and practice the Co-habiting Couples teaching of Humanae Vitae.2 Some say: “It’s my right to have a child”. 1 Humanae Vitae 17 “Why can’t I live with somebody I love?” 2 Catechism of the Catholic Church 2366 – 2372 A Story: St Maria Goretti Here is the story of a child of a single parent: Young people can draw inspiration and courage from the example “I grew up not knowing my father – or so I thought. My mother worked hard and brought us of St Maria Goretti (1890-1902) and be helped by her prayers. Maria up, that’s me, my older brother and my two sisters. Granny stayed with us and she was always at was a very good young girl who loved God very much and was very home. An uncle used to visit us regularly – once or twice a month – and most times he stayed devoted to her mother and her brothers and sisters who were very over on weekends. One day one of my school friends let me in on a big secret, ‘That uncle you poor and hard working. Her father had died when she was young. always talk about, that is your father.’ I was shocked with disbelief. Up till then I had liked ‘uncle’ A young man, Alexander, from a neighbouring family, had tried several but after that I did not want to see him anymore because he had deceived me and my mother times to seduce Maria and had often tried to accost her when she had also deceived me all along. My brother did not mind because ‘uncle’ was not his father and my was on her own. Maria did not want to tell her mother because she sisters did not mind either – somehow it did not upset or disturb them. It devastated me. I started did not want to cause trouble for her family who had no father to protect them. One day to stay away from home at weekends when I knew my father would be there. Then I started to Alexander threatened her with a knife because he wanted to force her to allow him to stay away altogether and stopped going to school. I began to smoke dagga with the friends I had have sex with her. When she resisted, he stabbed her repeatedly, but he did not succeed in fallen in with and it was drink and then it was sex. It was only my brother who cared enough to raping her. She survived the attack but died a day later as a result of her wounds. Before she keep on bringing me back home. died she forgave her murderer, saying, “I forgive him for the love of Jesus and I want him to Questions for Reflection: come with me to Paradise.” • How does this story touch you personally? The young man was subsequently sentenced to 30 years in jail. During this time he underwent • What hardships do a mother and the children face in a home without a father? a deep conversion after Maria Goretti appeared to him in a dream. She became Saint Maria Goretti when she was canonised by Pope Pius XII in 1950 in the presence of her mother The Message: and the man who killed her. Human sexuality is a beautiful gift from God to be used only in marriage to bring joy to Maria Goretti is held up as a great model for all young people as a witness to chastity. She the spouses and to help the couple co-operate with God in bringing new life into the fought for her freedom and her death was life-giving – it even helped to give supernatural life world. The family is the privileged environment where the important values and attitudes to her attempted rapist. She continues to help others who ask her intercession, especially for developing these Christian ideals about sexuality and marriage are learnt and practised for purity and chastity and help in sexual difficulties. from a very early age. This is in harmony with our dignity as human beings, made in the image and likeness of God. To love one another is the fully human way to relate to each other. The opposite of loving a person is to use that person as a means to an end.1 Chapter 5 In Southern Africa, as in many other parts of the world, marriage and the family are in deep Good Preparation Helps Prevent crisis for several reasons, e.g. social and economic difficulties, the breakdown of traditional values and cultures. A symptom of these social crises and changes is the growing tendency Marriage Breakdown to use people for sexual gratification without any real love or commitment. This affects not only individuals but society as well, because it contributes significantly to many social “Where did we go wrong in our marriage?” problems which include crime, poverty and the increase of children born out of marriage. A Story: The increase in the number of neglected and abused children, an increase in sexually A couple who are considering divorce: transmitted infections especially HIV&AIDS as well as an increase in addictive patterns of behaviour, such as abuse of alcohol, drugs and pornography are all symptoms of the crisis Sipho and I were married in Church. Our families had fulfilled all the customs according to our culture. in relationships and in marriage and family life.2 There was one problem in our marriage which we never discussed with anyone and that was the fact that Sipho used to often get drunk on weekends and he would assault me when he was in that state. The Church promotes the right of every child to grow up being loved, cared for and I often threatened to leave him and he would promise me that he would not do it again. When he was protected by both father and mother who are married. There are unfortunate circumstances sober he was a wonderful person. where this is not always possible – a parent may have died early in life or there may be some other reason. Situations in which couples live together without marrying in Church As time went on it became worse and Sipho started to tell me that I could do nothing about it are in conflict with the Christian ideal of marriage and family life. because we were now married in Church. I kept on begging him to stop drinking because we had three children to look after. When young people consider getting married they need to take the trouble to learn about the deeper implications of Christian marriage. The first people to be approached After six years of living like that I decided to go one day to the lawyer and ask for advice on how should be parents, other family members, clergy and pastoral leaders. Each parish provides to divorce my husband. for marriage preparation. There are many other sources of help, such as associations, 3 Questions for Reflection: movements, sodalities and other groups who promote marriage. Pope John Paul II, out of concern for the ever increasing incidence of sex outside marriage, wrote: “Above all, there • What kind of issues need to be openly addressed in marriage preparation? must be a campaign of prevention, by fostering the sense of fidelity in the whole moral and • Why do you think so many marriages end in divorce? religious training of the young... without which there is no true fidelity; they must be helped • What can be done to promote happy marriages? to reach spiritual maturity and enabled to understand the rich human and supernatural The Message: reality of marriage as a sacrament"4 • The Catholic Church (see the Catechism of the Catholic Church) teaches that: 1 Blessed John Paul II, Love and Responsibility; refer page 34 and 41 • The marriage vows of a couple are binding until the death of one of the spouses 2 In September 2011 the South African Government showed its concern for the family through the • The marriage of a couple who have been validly married cannot be dissolved Department of Social Development which released a discussion document, National Family Policy. The 73-page document deals with the breakdown in family life and makes proposals towards building The Church authorities can however declare a marriage ‘null and void’ if something essen- strong marriages, introduc- tial to it was lacking from the beginning. ing parenting programmes and teaching children at After marriage celebrations, when daily life becomes routine and ordinary, the romantic school the importance of glow of the first days gradually fades as each spouse realises that the other is an ordi- family values. Sunday Times nary human being with weaknesses as well as strengths. Sacrifices generously made and (25 September 2011) adjustments to life together lead to a deepening of love. The spouses themselves have 3 Among these groups the responsibility for making their marriage a success. Qualities like openness, honesty, are: Couples for Christ, patience, self-discipline, forgiveness, trust, generosity, mutual helpfulness and affirmation of Focolare, Marriage each other are called for everyday. Encounter, Schoenstatt, Neo-Catechumenate, At the heart of this relationship there need be another more important relationship, with Retrouvaille, Sodalities, The the unseen member of the family – the Lord Jesus. Spouses who welcome Jesus into their Foundation of the Person marriage on their wedding day receive an outpouring of the Holy Spirit to strengthen and the Family and Marfam 4 them on their journey together into the future (cf. Romans 5:5). They must keep on nour- Familiaris Consortio 81

ARCHDIOCESAN NEWS October-December 2012 9 CATECHETICAL FESTIVAL

'Family and Faith' was the theme for the annual Catechetical Festival that was held at Our Lady Help of Christians, Lansdowne on 13 October 2012. At this gathering of catechists, parents and children there were about 150 participants from about 30 parishes. Archbishop Stephen Brislin opened the festival by chal- lenging the cathechists towards 'New Evangelisation'. The keynote address was given by Fr Chris Clohessy who reflected on the story of the rich young man and invited the catechists to find 'the one thing missing...'.

Photos: Melanie Pisanello

The journey of Ecclesia inspires Preparing for Season parish group to care about others Two of Ecclesia The journey of Ecclesia has inspired Visiting the Jones Home did not feel and continuing our ongoing work as our group to not only participate in like we were walking into a charity missionaries for the Church. the weekly sessions but also put to but more like a family home filled Details for the Jones Safe House: action some of the lessons we have with many happy children and it was 021 785 4720 jonessafehouse@gmail. learnt. Thus we felt it would be appro- a blessing for us to spend time with com. priate to be disciples and reach out to them and do something small. We Roxanne Lynham the community. Our group suggested would like to continue visiting them that we spend time visiting charities and assist where we can. The fam- The following and homes and we all set out to find ily belongs to St Andrew’s Parish in Ecclesia items are possible places. We wanted to visit a Ocean View and it was very welcom- home that is not well sponsored. We ing for them to have visitors from a available: realised that there are unfortunately fellow parish. They are not always Season 2 DVD + Booklet many charities in need of help and able to attend Mass together as they decided to choose two, the Jones Safe are do not have a vehicle big enough – R50 House situated in Kommetjie and to transport all the children, but they Season 2 Booklet – R15 Solomon's Haven in Mitchells Plain. are raising funds and God willing Season 2 Facilitators I contacted the homes and set up they will blessed with a new van. dates to visit them, and they were very Our group name is Aedificium Fidei, Guide – R15 welcoming and excited. Latin for 'Building Faith'. I think the Golf Shirts – R95 We have thus far only been able enthusiastic response our group gave Ecclesia Focus Table Ecclesia facilitator training on 15 September at OLHC, Lansdowne to visit the Jones Safe House as we in assisting these homes is clearly a postponed our visit to the Solomons result of us building faith as well as Cloth – R35 Haven. Our group collected items of building community. We are looking Ecclesia Candle – R30 clothing, toiletries, toys and sweets forward to visiting Solomons Haven for the children. We visited the Jones House on Saturday 4 August and spent time playing with the children and chatting to the lovely couple who run it, Bernadette and Donovan Jones. The home provides a safe place for abandoned and abused children aged between babies to 18years old and some of the mothers who are recover- ing drug addicts. The children come from Ocean View, Masiphumelele and surrounding areas. They are a registered NGO and rely on donations from the community and income from Donovan’s Maintenance Company. Bernadette runs the administration of the home and ensures all the children Fr Job Kaleekaparampil MSFS conducts the Ecclesia recommitment Learning the Ecclesia hymn at the training workshop. Led by Barbara ceremony at St Clare's, Elsie's River. Photo: Wayne Carolissen. and mothers are taken care of. Ramsden and the facilitators from St Paul's, Somerset West. ARCHDIOCESAN NEWS October-December 2012 10 Our Lady of Good Counsel celebrates Golden Jubilee

The parish of Our Lady of Good thoughts around gratitude for the were present. Counsel, Bridgetown turned fifty values of those who laid the founda- In his homily the Archbishop, while on 5 August 2012 – blessed and tions of the parish, recognizing those congratulating the parish on reaching opened on 5 August 1962 by Cardinal currently involved in keeping the faith this historical landmark, reminded the Owen McCann and consecrated by alive and preparing to ensure the sur- congregation about the mandate that Archbishop Lawrence Henry on 29 vival of the Church in Bridgetown. all baptized Catholics are charged with October 2003. The parishioners, All of this climaxed on Sunday 12 – of spreading the gospel by building under the spiritual guidance of par- August, when Archbishop Stephen on the foundations of our predecessors ish priest Fr John Malayil, marked Brislin concelebrated Mass in a spec- and expanding God’s kingdom. the Golden Jubilee with numerous tacularly spiritual setting with five In a moving address, Fr Basil Parish groups display their banners at the Golden Jubilee devotions which kicked off late in other priests. Hendricks, the first resident priest at May 2012 with an inspiring Mission The church was adorned with six- Our Lady of Good Counsel, recalled (Theme: “Jesus, our Source of Hope”) teen magnificent banners depicting the solid values and principles which by Redemptorists Fr Cecil Dowling the vision and mission of each of the guided those who founded this par- and Deacon Julius (he has since been active ministries in the parish. From ish. He complimented parishioners for ordained a priest). This was followed the paschal candle the four consecra- their unselfish sacrifices, determina- by Mass on the first Sunday of each of tion candles were lit in remembrance tion and solidarity, often in the face of the following three months – celebrat- of the church’s consecration and three strife and hardship. ed by former parish priests. A Novena special candles were lit in remem- Fired up by the outpouring of the of Holy Hours and Benediction was brance of deceased clergy and parish- Holy Spirit over the past weeks, the also held each Wednesday and a chain ioners who served the parish over the parishioners are ready to tackle the prayer was started in preparation for years. Their names were engraved on task of ensuring that the faith is kept this important milestone. Then, on a plaque that was unveiled and blessed alive and relevant. Sunday 5 August parishioners went on by the Archbishop. Gifts of pendants A highlight of the jubilee celebrations a pilgrimage (Theme: “Capturing the bearing the image of Our Lady of was the grand dance at the Athlone Faith”) to the Schoenstatt Conference Good Counsel were presented to the Civic Centre on 31 August. Centre in a final gathering of their Archbishop, priests and deacons who Basil Snayer (PPC Chairperson) Holy Family on Mission

On a beautiful Friday evening, 5 October 2012, Holy Mass was celebrated at St Gerard’s Church, Parkwood Estate by Archbishop Stephen Brislin, assisted by Archbishop Emeritus Lawrence Henry, the parish priest of Grassy Park Fr Joseph Puliyilakat MSFS and assistant priest Fr Babu Joseph MSFS, in thanks- giving for the Holy Family Sisters' 97 years of work in Cape Town. When the sisters came to Cape Town in 1915 they settled in Sea Point and built a hospital there, attending to all the sick. The sisters then moved to Grassy Park, Goodwood, Khayelitsha, Archbishop Stephen Brislin and parish priest Fr Mark Foster, Parkwood Estate, Mitchell's Plain and together with the newly confirmed members of St John's, Maitland. Lavistown where they worked tirelessly Confirmations took place on 9 September 2012 among the sick, the poor and the lowly, gathering together the scattered chil- dren of God. The closing of their homes and then Left to right: Sr Isobel Afried, Archbishop Emeritus Lawrence Henry, leaving these areas was a sad time for Sr Shelagh Mary Waspe, Archbishop Stephen Brislin, Sr Cathy the people in the Cape whose lives O'Gorman and Sr Daphne Charles were touched in a very special way by these kind, generous and hard-working The Holy Family Lay Associates and “a Family Mission” they “Go Forward” sisters. At this time there is only one Seculars in Grassy Park and Tafelsig for the glory of “God Alone” as was the sister, and one house that will close will surely miss the presence of their sis- dream of the founder Pierre Bienvenue soon. ters, but at the same time understand as Noailles. HERMITAGE COTTAGE

A self-catering cottage with two bedrooms available for silent prayer, The pilgrimage group at Fatima who went on pilgrimage by bus through Spain, Lourdes, Avignon, Ars, Nevers and ended in Paris – led retreats and quiet study. by Dcn John Sheraton and arranged through St Gerards Holy Tours. It was a wonderful spiritual experience for all. The cottage is set in a forest with a natural spring Maseti St Gerard's Holy Tours and close to the mountains and the sea. PILGRIMAGE TO PORTUGAL, SPAIN & Preference is given to those wanting to stay FRANCE - JULY 2013

Ten nights’ accommodation in 3-star centrally-located hotels as follows: for three days or more. (Transport through Portugal, Spain and France via private bus) – 2 nights Fatima (Portugal); 1 night in Central Spain; 3 nights in Lourdes; 1 night Avignon (Palace of the Popes); 1 night Ars (John Vianney); Nevers (St The Grail Centre Bernadette); 2 nights in Paris – Eiffel Tower, Notre Dame, Sainte Chapelle, St Kleinmond, Western Cape Vincent de Paul and St Margaret Mary visits. Spiritual Leader Father Job MSFS Tel: (028) 271 3410 Bookings: Deacon John Sheraton 021 705 5131 or 083 277 7999, E-mail: [email protected] Liz Lotters 021 706 5217 or 082 319 7249. Email: [email protected]

ARCHDIOCESAN NEWS October-December 2012 11 Mary Assumed into Heaven – 60 years’ patronage

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The Diamond Jubilee of the proc- Emeritus Lawrence Henry, and Afrikaans and the gospel in English. lamation of Mary Assumed into Archbishop Stephen Brislin who pre- The focus of all nine petitions was Heaven as the Patroness of South sided. In the midst of the procession, on human dignity and reflected the Groote Schuur Africa, was celebrated in the church Our Lady’s statue was borne by six work done by members of communi- of Our Lady Help of Christians, Knights of da Gama – an impressive ties, societies and different orga- Hospital Chaplaincy Lansdowne, on Sunday afternoon, 19 sight! nizations who try in their various August 2012. In his words of welcome, Mr ministries to uphold the dignity of After preparatory hymns were sung, Francis Boulle referred to the fact that the human person. During the recital The Groote Schuur Hospital Chaplaincy the Litany of Loreto was prayed in Archbishop Stephen Brislin is now of the petition a decorated candle was hereby makes an urgent appeal for English, Afrikaans and Xhosa by the President of the Southern African placed in front of the statue which young men discerning their vocation Catholic Bishops’ Conference. Our was beautifully adorned with flowers. Volunteers to join the Groote Schuur to the priesthood. During the litany prayers accompany him. The response: Queen and Patroness Pastoral Care Team. a procession entered the church mak- Approximately 500 people attended we call upon you was sung. ing its way down a side aisle across the celebration. The singing of this In his homily Archbishop Brislin The role of each member of the team will be to help in visiting the main aisle to the other side, great throng, accompanied by the emphasized the importance of cel- the sick and taking Holy Communion to them. returning via the middle aisle to the lively band, bore witness to their love ebrating the Patronal Feast of South sanctuary. It comprised flag-bearers, for our patroness. Africa, a country which, since our Volunteers should preferably be either a Deacon, Sister, Brother altar servers, petitioners, liturgical The first reading of the feast was democracy, has experienced so many or an Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion dancers, deacons, priests, Archbishop proclaimed in Xhosa, the psalm in blessings of ‘freedom’. Yet corrup- “… for I was sick and you visited me… for whenever you tion, poverty and other deeply dis- did this to one of the least of these… you did it to me.” turbing aspects are also evident. He (cf. Matthew 25:31-45) encouraged us to imitate Mary in her virtues, particularly in the practice Should you be interested, please contact the chaplain, Fr Jude Amatu at of the ‘cardinal virtues’ prudence, Tel: 021 448 2645, Email: [email protected] or PO Box 43344 justice, fortitude and temperance. To Woodstock 7915. the extent that we are people of integrity and as virtuous as she was, we will have a positive effect on oth- P O Box 379 ers and on their lives. 8000 Cape Town As always, the beautifully-robed Tel: 021 465 5904 liturgical dancers provided an uplift- Fax: 021 461 0785 ing, edifying dance of light, pointing E-mail: [email protected] to Christ THE Light. 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ARCHDIOCESAN NEWS October-December 2012 12 On 12 August the parish of St Clare, Elsie's River celebrated the feast of St Clare as a family day. It was for the first time in many years that such a grand celebration took place. The response from the parish was enthusiastic and supportive. It was an initiative of the Parish Pastoral Council and the Ecclesia co-ordinator. ME stalwarts celebrate 40 years of marriage

Joe & Neela Kay and Melgrid & Basil Ricketts recently celebrated their 40th wedding anniversary. Fr Paul Taylor celebrated Mass in thanksgiving. He said that amidst the joys and sorrows and challenges that married couples are faced with, it is encouraging to witness these two couples' love and sacrifices and giving of themselves to other married couples – and making a difference in their lives for so many years. Marriage Encounter is a weekend experience for married couples and priests which offer them a technique of loving communication that they can use for the rest of their lives. It is a time for the couple to be alone together, to share their feelings, their hopes, fears, joys and expectations. For more information contact: William & Bernadette Minords 076 339 5259, [email protected], www.marriageencountersa.org.za

Participants in the Parenting Skills Course at St Mary of the Angels, Athlone Parenting Skills Course in Athlone a great success

We ran the Parenting Skills Course Gretchen Dennis and Angie Petersen. a picture of the Holy Family. The in June/July 2012 during the coldest Brian, myself and Fr Albert took it in facilitators also received a gift for their winter months. In spite of the cold turns to facilitate a group as well. efforts. we had an attendance of about 90% It was great to have so many mar- Father Albert made a speech and as everyone who attended were in awe ried couples attending the course. The thanked Brian and me and the facilita- of it. participants' feedback was positive and tors. He felt that we should continue to Fr Paul Taylor together with Joe and Neela Kay and Melgrid and Basil The reason why our course was so they felt that they should have attended run the course in future as it was very Ricketts successful was because our parish priest a course of this nature a long time ago. well attended and enjoyed by all. Fr Albert Gonsalves was very involved, It built a great community spirit and Jean Hendricks may be contacted if even to the point of being a facilitator. they got to know each other on a closer you would like the course presented at My husband Brian and I spearheaded level. your parish. Tel: 021 462 2417 or jean. On a lighter note the course and we had four facilita- We ended the course with a bring [email protected] tors, Laurian Henry, Paula Cookson, and share and each person received Hilary Felix I have learned… • that the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person. Joyful cel- • that when you’re in love, it shows. YEAR OF FAITH • that just one person saying to me, “You’ve made my day!” makes my day. BOOK ebration of • that I feel better about myself when I make others feel better about themselves. Marriage • that having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world. REMINDER • that what we have done for ourselves alone dies with us. What Sunday For all parishes and religious communities – we have done for others and the world remains. as well as those archdiocesan societies, archdi- What a joy it was to see the number • that words harshly spoken are as difficult to retrieve as feath- of married couples going up to receive ers in a gale. ocesan sodalities, archdiocesan institutions and a personal blessing from the priest on • that being kind is more important than being right. archdiocesan programmes listed in the Marriage Sunday (7 October), a feast • that you should never say no to a gift from a child. archdiocesan directory – to submit four celebrated worldwide. In Lansdowne, • that I can always pray for someone when I don’t have the Fr Tim Wrenn SDB, Lansdowne's strength to help them in some other way. photographs, each with a caption no longer former parish priest, now visiting, • that no matter how serious your life requires you to be, than two lines – plus a paragraph no longer made Marriage Sunday so special for each couple and also for those who had everyone needs a friend to act the fool with. than ten lines of information about themselves recently lost their spouses in death. • that simple walks with my father around the block on summer – for the archdiocesan Year of Faith book While each couple was waiting to nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult. receive their blessing the music minis- • that life is like a roll of toilet paper; the closer it gets to the by 15 November 2012. try provided some beautiful wedding end, the faster it goes. songs with messages so appropriate for Marriage Sunday. The longest • that we should be glad God doesn’t give us everything we ask Information to be emailed to Stephen Docherty married couple to receive a blessing for. at [email protected] or be sent to the was 62 years, and five months for the Courtesy of MARFAM website. Chancery on a CD, DVD or memory stick. couple married the shortest. Maud Stellenboom ARCHDIOCESAN NEWS October-December 2012 13 UPDATE FROM CPLO

Collaboration with the Goedgedacht Forum for Social Reflection entitled ‘From Violent Protest to Dialogue – How do we change the current discourse?’ For a long time there has been great concern about some of the trends Collaboration with Rural Education Access Programme in the body politic. The values of the Constitution which promote (REAP) entitled ‘Removing Barriers to Access and dialogue and tolerance have seemingly found little resonance in an Success in Higher Education’. increasingly hostile and intolerant exchange of ideas and opinions. National participation rates in higher education and training for black Collaboration with the Pietermaritzburg Agency for While there has been some dispute as to the exact nature of what has and coloured young South Africans remain frighteningly low, even 18 Community Social Action (PACSA) entitled ‘The Chapter been termed ‘service delivery protests’ what cannot be denied is that years after the end of apartheid. Even more disturbing are the very 9 Institutions of South Africa’. This event was hosted in there has been a growing tendency towards angry protest and violence. poor completion rates for those students. Clearly there remain huge Pietermaritzburg. Inputs were given by Mawethu Mosery, IEC Provincial The events at Lonmin Mine has brought these issues to the fore in a systemic barriers to access and success in higher education for the Electoral Officer KZN, Commissioner Janine Hicks, Commission on dramatic and tragic manner. Main inputs to this discussion were given great majority of learners despite the massive government invest- Gender Equality and Ranjay Narain, Investigator with the KZN Office – by Bishop Kevin Dowling from Rustenburg and CPLO Liaison Bishop, ment in bursaries and loans. Presentations were heard from Dr John Public Protector Provincial Investigations Unit. and Mr Nqabayomzi Kwankwa from the United Democratic Movement. Pampallis (special advisor to the Minister of Higher Education and Training) and Dr Ian Scott (Director of Academic Development at UCT).

Collaboration with the Open Society Foundation enti- tled ‘Political Party Funding: Moving from Rhetoric to Reform’. The corruption of money and politics, a defining feature of South Africa’s apartheid past, is threatening our young democracy and rob- Collaboration with the Catholic Institute of Education Roundtable Discussion entitled ‘The Plight of the Elderly: bing the poor of their basic needs. The absence of limits or disclosure (CIE) entitled ‘Rural Education – Neglected Area’. Vulnerable and Marginalized’. requirements for private donations to parties – combined with par- Rural schools face a wide variety of challenges. These include difficult Has the introduction of the Older Persons Act No. 13 of 2006 made ties’ increasing demand for funds – has contributed to an unhealthy social circumstances, lack of support from the Provincial Education any difference to the lives of the elderly? All too often the elderly are alliance between government and private interests that threatens to and Health Departments and in some cases poor infrastructure. This marginalized, neglected, exploited, disrespected and victims of abuse. institutionalize corruption and conflicts of interest. For more than a roundtable discussion explored what has and has not been done and This event explored ways to remedy the situation and restore the decade, civil society activists and leaders in government and business how these schools could best be supported. The guest speaker was elderly to their rightful place as invaluable members of our community. have sounded the call for comprehensive party funding reform. This Dr Adele Gordon, an independent consultant and an associate of the Speakers included Roedolf Kay, National Co-ordinator, South African discussion was addressed by Barbara Hogan (former Minister of Health Centre for Education Policy Development. Older Persons’ Forum, Pat Lindgren, from Act on Elder Abuse and and Public Enterprises), Prakashnee Govender (COSATU Parliamentary Gavin Weir from Neighbourhood Old Age Homes – NOAH. Officer) and Zwelethu Jolobe (UCT Department of Policies).

Publications Distributed Briefing Papers 279: 2011 in review 280: Matric 2011 281: The vulnerability of children 282: Growing up in the new SA 283: The budget 2012: Options for the poor? 284: Economic migration in SA 285: Electoral reform in SA 286: Analysing COP17 An Iraqi delegation of Members of Parliament (pictured above with Fr 287: Chapter 9 Institutions in SA Roundtable Discussion entitled ‘Language in Education – Peter-John Pearson, Bishop Kevin Dowling and Archbishop Stephen Brislin) 288: Psychiatric care in SA visited South Africa to gain insight into our experience of reconciliation, Moving beyond just English and Afrikaans’. after the abolition of Apartheid. One of the MPs said that, as an emerging Despite the fact that the South African Constitution recognizes eleven 289: Youth unemployment: Finding solutions democracy, Iraq faced many challenges, but that the security situation in the official languages, this has not, as yet, been translated into a coher- 290: SA’s impending nuclear plans country had improved significantly since 2005. They currently have a well- ent language-in-education policy. And, as the late Neville Alexander 291: State of the rural nation observed, it is the failure to use and respect children’s first languages functioning Parliament, with a good presence of women and Christians. The 292: Opposition parties – sustaining multiparty democracies in learning and teaching that contributes to underachievement and high MPs have been visiting numerous countries to learn from their experiences 293: Early Childhood Development: What's government doing? with reconciliation too. They acknowledged, however, that each country’s dropout rates. This discussion was addressed by Mr Peter Plüddemann context and challenges were unique, and hence each needed its own model (Language Education Department, UWC Faculty of Education) and Dr 294: Recidivism of reconciliation. They also facilitated the engagement of various sectors in Vuyokazi Nomlomo (Senior Lecturer, UWC Faculty of Education). 295: Tapping into SA's water Iraq in this process, particularly seeking the assistance of religious leaders. 296: Promoting rural development The delegation noted that Iraq was still frequently misrepresented in the 297: Using the army for police duty media, but that significant strides were being taken to show its respect for democracy and the inclusion of all citizens. 298: Political Party funding 299: Barriers to access in higher education 301: Tackling wildlife crimes Responses 1. Telling Statistics 2. The State of the Nation Address 3. The Budget 4. The National Development Plan 5. Crime Statistics 2011-2012 6. Textbooks and Targets

Collaboration with the Goedgedacht Forum for Social If you would like to receive these and our other Reflection, the Black Sash and the Democracy Development publications please contact the office adminis- Programme (DDP) entitled ‘Deepening Democracy – Public Roundtable Discussion entitled ‘Morbidity and Mortality trator on the number below. Participation and the Experience of Communities’. One of the of Children – the First 1000 Days, Changing the Future’ most crucial elements to top a vibrant, healthy democracy is an engaged and “The 1000 days between a woman’s pregnancy and her child’s 2nd P O Box 2910 CAPE TOWN 8000 active citizenry. The aim of this dialogue was to bring organisations together birthday offer a unique window of opportunity to shape healthier and Phone: +27 (21) 461 1417 to discuss some of the challenges that they have had and are currently more prosperous futures. The right nutrition during this 1000 day Fax: +27 (21) 461 6961 facing. This event also created an opportunity for dialogue between the window can have a profound impact on a child’s ability to grow, learn, E-mail: [email protected] community and elected officials. Inputs were given by Colleen Ryan (DDP) and rise out of poverty.” Speakers at this event included Advocate Website: www.cplo.org.za and Gavin Weir (NOAH) which focused on their organisations’ experiences Paul Hoffman, Advocate Chris Shone (both from the Institute for Follow us on Twitter: @SACBC_CPLO of dealing with provincial authorities. Accountability), Prof. Andrew Argent and Dr Christiaan Scott.

ARCHDIOCESAN NEWS October-December 2012 14 Season Two: Our Faith Our Life

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ARCHDIOCESAN NEWS October-December 2012 15 Buckets of Love It’s that time of the year rate the birth of Christ. ful Christmas gift. If you give again! CWD appeals “For most people Christmas a Bucket of Love to someone to YOU to support our is not just a time to eat, drink who really needs it, in the name and be merry, it is also a time of a loved one in lieu of a gift, Buckets of Love 2012 to reflect on the past year. Be you have the opportunity to campaign! grateful for what you have, and give something meaningful and One of the oldest public fund- be conscious that there are share this with your family and raising campaigns in Cape Town, those for whom Christmas is friends.” Buckets of Love provides a par- just another day,” said Pauline For just R130 for a bucket, cel of staple food items to poor Ford, who manages this cam- you can change lives over families, giving them something paign. “Why not give a special Christmas. For more informa- special at Christmas time – that gift this year? In this era of tion, visit www.cwd.org.za, or important time of year when materialism and consumerism, it get in touch with Pauline on 021 families gather to commemo- is so difficult to find a meaning- 425 2095 or [email protected]. Leatherwork project provides income, restores dignity

In 2011, Catholic Welfare and this project,” said Judith Turner, their self-esteem.” Development (CWD) initiated manager of the Vulnerable She went on to say that the a skills development project for Women and Children focus workshop is in full produc- the women who were clients of area. “Being able to provide tion, and if you would like to the Women in Need (WIN) an income for your family is purchase some items, or invite programme, which forms part critically important, not only the project to sell their crafts of the organisation’s Vulnerable for their safety and well-being, at an upcoming event, please Women and Children focus but it also gives each woman contact Judith on 021 425 2095 area. immense pride and a boost to or [email protected]. As a result of generous fund- ing from the City of Vienna, through an entity called SADOCC, CWD was able to implement a skills project that teaches the women to make craft items from off-cuts of leather and sell them to pro- vide an income for themselves and their families. Now in its second year, the project is Top left: Youth from St Philip's, Strandfontein helped with the packing of buckets. The proving to be a success, with girls in blue from Springfield Junior School brought with them their specially made leather purses and other items Christmas crackers to put in each of the buckets. being sold through a variety of outlets. Sr Vimla overseeing the women making craft items from “We are delighted with the off-cuts of leather to make an income for themselves and Holiday Fun in the Sun! results that we have achieved in their families When the grade 7 learn- ers who visited Siyakhulisa Centre in the informal area CWD AGM of Masiphumelele, Fish Hoek heard what we had in store The theme for this year was that financial sustainability is for their school holiday pro- " giving hope and restoring secured. She congratulated the gramme, they were ecstatic. dignity". staff, board and volunteers for With the help of six American CWD was delighted to see their dedication and encour- volunteers from World Teach, the number of supporters and aged them to continue their we arranged a three-week friends who braved the rain to good work. holiday programme with a dif- attend the 2012 annual general A brief report from the CWD ference. Not only did it help meeting, which took place on chairman, Donovan Adonis and young children understand Thursday, 27 September 2012 an address by the Archbishop diversity, but also increased at 3pm. Stephen Brislin conveyed their their self worth. They enjoyed Sr Eleonora Dittrich mem- sadness at having to report on their trip to the SA Museum, ber of the CWD board opened the retrenchments of staff and Silvermine, a walk in Cape the proceedings with a prayer, the restructuring of the organi- Point Nature Reserve, and the to give thanks and offered zation that is still ongoing due Penguin Colony at Boulders hope after another difficult to the funding situation. CWD Beach near Simon's Town. For year for the non-profit sec- is undertaking an organization children who live in the town- tor in South Africa. This was review and the Archbishop echoed by Amelia Jones guest urged people to support the ships and rarely venture out Grade 7 learners braving of their communities, it was the rain on their excur- speaker and outgoing CEO of work of CWD which is critical three weeks to remember! For sion to Cape Point Nature the Community Chest of the in the community. Sanele Makhalingwana, who Reserve. Western Cape as she reflected Thereafter there was a grati- is 13 years old, going to the on the current funding crisis. tude Mass with Archbishop Penguin Colony was a first She was also quick to offer Stephen Brislin as the main for him. “I was so happy as included talks on how to say hope - explaining that orga- celebrant, and he welcomed this was my first time see- no to alcohol, drugs, and under nizations like CWD perform the board members, new and ing the penguins and I learnt age sex. Thank you to everyone a critical role in the commu- old, to CWD. Guests enjoyed a lot about them,” he said. who helped make their holiday nity, and that as such, every light refreshments and good The holiday programme also one to remember! effort should be made to ensure conversation thereafter. You can also support the work of CWD through the MyVillage/MySchool card and Pick 'n Pay Smart Shopper card points

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