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Safe Zone Manual Is a Resource for All Safe Zone Members ACCEPTANCE. TRUST. RESPECT. UNDERSTANDING. SUPPORT. L y e s a b G i a GLBT n r e Rhodes d ZONE B n AFE i e S s g e s x n u a a r l T Safe Zones at Rhodes Rhodes College Safe Zone Training Manual TABLE of CONTENTS The information contained in this manual is based on Safe Zone & Ally programs at other colleges and universities throughout the country. Special thanks are due to Worcester Polytechnic Institute where this manual was originally developed and to Western Carolina University whose manual provided an outline for additions. An INTRODUCTION to SAFE ZONES Acknowledgements ..........................................................................................................................................................3 How to Use this Manual ..................................................................................................................................................4 Purpose of the Safe Zone Program at Rhodes & Its Goals ...............................................................................................5 Who Should You Be in order to Be a Safe Zone at Rhodes? ............................................................................................5 “Free to Be Me” Statement ...............................................................................................................................................6 Statement of Inclusion .....................................................................................................................................................6 Referring an Individual to the Counseling Center ...........................................................................................................6 KNOWLEDGE Defining a Common Language .......................................................................................................................................9 Symbols of Pride ............................................................................................................................................................12 Who We Are: Contemporary & Historical GLBT Figures ............................................................................................ 15 The Kinsey Scale ...........................................................................................................................................................17 A Review: Sex, Gender, and Sexuality ...........................................................................................................................18 Sex/Gender/Sexuality Continuums ...............................................................................................................................19 Sexual Identity Development: The Cass Model .............................................................................................................20 Obstacles to Overcome in Developing a Positive GLBT Identity ...................................................................................22 HOMOSEXUALITY & BISEXUALITY What is Homophobia? ...................................................................................................................................................23 Homophobia in Clinical Terms .....................................................................................................................................23 Homophobic Levels of Attitude .....................................................................................................................................23 Positive Levels of Attitude ..............................................................................................................................................24 How Homophobia Hurts Us All ....................................................................................................................................24 Biphobia – Myths & Realities of Bisexuality .................................................................................................................25 TRANSGENDER Some Basics ...................................................................................................................................................................27 Who are Transgender Youth? .........................................................................................................................................27 Understanding Transphobia ..........................................................................................................................................27 Transphobic Myths ........................................................................................................................................................27 Things Non-Transgender Individuals May Take for Granted ........................................................................................28 Supporting Transgender Persons ....................................................................................................................................29 Additional Resources for Transgender ...........................................................................................................................29 INTERSEX What is Intersexed? ........................................................................................................................................................31 Four Stories from Intersexed Individuals .......................................................................................................................31 Intersexed Resources ......................................................................................................................................................32 Rhodes College Safe Zone Training Manual 1 HETEROSEXISM The Heterosexual Questionnaire ...................................................................................................................................35 What is Heterosexual Privilege? .....................................................................................................................................35 Examples of Heterosexism .............................................................................................................................................36 Forums of Oppression and Discrimination ....................................................................................................................36 Costs of Heterosexism: How It Hurts Us All .................................................................................................................37 Action Steps for Interrupting Heterosexism ...................................................................................................................38 Suggestions for Combating Heterosexism ......................................................................................................................38 GLBTQ STUDENT LIFE ISSUES Coming Out ..................................................................................................................................................................41 Coming Out: Students on Campus .............................................................................................................................. 41 Ways to Prepare for Coming Out ..................................................................................................................................42 Questions Students May Consider Before Coming Out to Parents .............................................................................. 42 Family: Those People Who Raised You ....................................................................................................................... 43 People of Color Issues ................................................................................................................................................... 43 Safer Sex .......................................................................................................................................................................45 What is AIDS? ...............................................................................................................................................................45 How is HIV transmitted? ............................................................................................................................................. 45 High Risk ......................................................................................................................................................................45 Protect Yourself ..............................................................................................................................................................46 Condoms .......................................................................................................................................................................46 Oral Sex & Latex ...........................................................................................................................................................46 BEING an ALLY “I am Only One Person” ................................................................................................................................................47 Qualities of Allies ..........................................................................................................................................................48 Ten Ways to Be an Ally ..................................................................................................................................................48
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