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20-year Archive of Class of 1962 News by Geoffrey Gould NOTE: Links will not work in this document. WINTER 2017 - 2018 Jack Carley wrote to reminisce and share news of his career and family. He graduated from Yale Law 50 years ago and retired from practice in 2009, though he uses his extensive legal knowledge continually. After leaving Cendant where he managed several lawsuits from the 1998 accounting fraud, he served as one of five federal monitors for the investigation of hip and knee replacement companies conducted by Chris Christie during his time as a federal prosecutor. That resulted in non-prosecution agreements settling charges with the companies. As former US Attorney General John Ashcroft was also a monitor, their work hit the NY Times, a moment of public visibility for Jack. After that work and as ‘fully retired’ has such a high-energy man can be, Jack audited classes at Columbia and began a hobby of visiting Presidential sites. Thus far, he has been to 36. He also has served on the NY State Disciplinary Committee for the Bar, hearing complaints about lawyers and serving on ‘not for profit’ boards. He is Chairman of the Program Committee of the Richard Nixon Foundation, linked to the Presidential Library in Yorba Linda, CA. The library has been renovated, enabling quick access provided by computer technology. For example, notes Nixon wrote by hand en route to China in ’72 are instantly available. Jack acknowledges Nixon’s mixed reputation but suggests there is much to learn in the library containing so much history of Nixon’s life in government. As Jack’s wife, Pia Lindstrom, is a Board member for the American Theater Wing that hands out the Tonys yearly, he has seen a great variety of plays. In fact, so taken by theater has he been, that Jack has joined a community theater group and will appear this fall in Gore Vidal’s “The Best Man” as the campaign manager for a Presidential candidate. That’s familiar territory for Jack as while “bumming around” the country awaiting his Army appointment (delayed by a surplus of officers related to the Berlin crisis), he met Mrs. Nixon and did work for her husband’s unsuccessful campaign for governor of California. He also drove her around as needed, useful experience for a 21 year-old Rutgers ROTC graduate. After the Army, while at Yale Law in 1968, Jack did more work for Nixon’s successful campaign for President, an uncommon commitment, he said, as so many Yale Law students were backers of McCarthy or Kennedy. Jack and his wife live in Boca Grande, FL during winter, keeping in shape with tennis, then spend summers at their apartment in Manhattan. Thanks again, Jack, for sharing news of your very active life since Rutgers. Our Rutgers classmates are very accomplished and share their talents in many ways. We highlight the work of those whose stories reach us and encourage classmates to share other stories like the uplifting one below about Jeffries Shein and his wife, Rona. Jeff, who is regularly an important supporter of our own Class Fund has, with his wife, created a new special fund in their community. Jeffs’ parents, Jennie and Joe Shein, were immigrants from Poland who owned a general store in New Brunswick. They set an example for their son to emulate through their generosity to the Jewish community in Middlesex County. Jeff and Rona have used funds from his very successful real estate career to support many Jewish causes in New Jersey. In 1994, following other contributions, they began a philanthropic fund for an organization now known as The Jewish Federation in the Heart of New Jersey. For years, Jeff and Rona have served on numerous organizations, including the boards of many that have benefited from their leadership and generosity. The Jeffries and Rona Shein Family Donor Advised Fund was created to honor his parents’ on what would have been their 100th wedding anniversary, January 12, also the day Jeffries turned 78! The million dollar donation will be used to “support causes that assist the vulnerable in both the Jewish and general communities,” a superb gesture of generosity that will nurture many. I strongly recommend a reading of the entire story of the wonderful work done by Jeff and his wife, who over the years have honored both sets of their parents and their collective philanthropy in New Jersey. The article may be found here. the following website: Many classmates will remember Pierce Frauenheim’s prowess on the gridiron during our undefeated season in 1961. Some also know he was a outstanding football coach, athletic director and assistant principal at Immaculata High School in Somerset for decades. Pierce’s teams won 332 games and four state titles and his legacy lives on through his sons and grandsons. With 22 grandchildren including four on high school varsities, Pierce never is far from the pleasure of watching his lessons take shape. Pierce’s coaching skills are just a part of his personal values, of the care he gave to students, athletes, other coaches and teachers during his years at Immaculata. In retirement, those same strong values and love for his family, including the football players, make him a wonderful exemplar of what was best about our Rutgers education. Please click here to read the full article about Pierce, photos of him with his grandsons and a family photo when those big guys were very young. It’s a joy to see all that Pierce has done and to know he gets to keep enjoying it even as he shares his knowledge. Editor’s Note: We are happy to add that Pierce Frauenheim was awarded the Distinguished American Award for 2018 by the Bill Denny/Rutgers football Letter winners chapter of the National Football Federation. He received the award at a luncheon on March 11. It is another in a large collection of honors and awards recognizing Pierce’s varied contributions to his community. We add our congratulations to our talented classmate Last summer’s hurricanes caused damage to many coastal communities. Roger and Vicki Wyman, away from their Miami home when Irma struck, returned to no power, but were invited in to stay with friends until it was restored. The Wymans lost a big lychee tree, various other items turned into tons of debris they dumped by their street. Luckily their house and sanity survived. Class President Barry Pavelec had his one-week, home-alone vacation spoiled when his wife and daughter had their Disneyworld vacation cut short by Irma. Disneyworld shut down and Amtrack eliminated all train service forcing his family to drive back to New Jersey ahead of their planned schedule. If anyone has news to share about surviving Harvey, Jose, Irma, or Maria, etc., please email it to me. Also, if you did volunteer work to help others during a storm, feel free to send it in to encourage others. As fate would have it, we lost four more classmates to aging and/or illness during 2016 and 2017. More information abouteach appears on our ‘Departed’ pages. Of the four, the classmate I knew best, Digby Diehl, had an extremely successful career. See additional commRobert Wiener ’61, a longtime friend of Digby’s, kindly shared personal comments: "It is with great sadness that I report the passing of a great frien and literary giant, Digby Diehl, RC ’62 who died on Sept. 26, 2017, after a long battle with Alzheimer’s disease. He was 76 years old and lived in Pasadena, California with his wife, Kay Beyer Diehl. They were married in Kirkpatrick Chapel on the Rutgers campus. He is survived by his wife and by thedaughter, Dylan, an actress living in the Los Angeles area. His writings appeared in Esquire, Cosmopolitan, American Film, and People magazines and the NY Times. He also wrote about books for the LA Times, the LA Herald Examiner, Playboy, and AARP. Among his most popular works were “as told to” autobiographies of CBS anchorman Dan Rather, movie star Esther Williams, singer Natalie Cole, actress Patti LuPone, and game show host Bob Barker. He shall be sorely missed." Fred Stewart, 77, of Hoschton, Ga., passed away Friday, Feb. 17, 2017. Fred enjoyed a successful career in the insurance industry as a business owner. A lifelong NY Mets and Giants fan, he enjoyed spending time with his grandchildren. He is survived by his daughter, Deborah Abel, and other relatives. Robert (Bob) Anthony Dembinski passed away December 2, 2016 in Tenants Harbor, Maine. Bob worked for several companies that benefited from his math and computer skills. Outside of work, he employed many skills from woodworking to cooking, creating cooking videos shown on Norfolk Community TV where he was Volunteer of the Year several times. Heralded as a kind, fair, and decent man of Polish ancestry, Bob was the 1958 recipient of The Polish Arts Club of Trenton scholarship. He enjoyed visits from an American Woodcock (aka the timberdoodle bird) each Spring. Larry Hecker spent his career as an attorney with a practice in Toms River, retiring in 2012. His family expressed deep thanks to the caring volunteers from his church and the ‘Haven/Beat the Street’ organization for their help. WORDS ON DEPARTED CLASSMATES Dennis Deuschl -- Dennis Fox -- Clem Izzi -- Steven Matushak -- Howard Rubel -- Horton Taylor The passing of a classmate must be, for family and friends, a time both of great lamentation and, simultaneously, an outpouring of memories of good times passed. Celebrating a life while grieving its loss must be among the most challenging, bittersweet times in the lives of family members.