Pre-Sort Standard U.S. Postage PAID Stamford, CT Permit No. 1063 Jewish News Volume XVIX, Number 3 UJA Greenwich | One Holly Hill Lane | Greenwich, CT 06830 February 2015 | Shvat/Adar 5775 A Celebration of Community and Service Honoring Peter Tesei The Hillel Silverman Community Service Performance by Yisrael Campbell Peter J. Tesei is Award to the Lipton Family in Memory of From the wildly successful First Selectman of the Amy Lipton (z”l) Broadway play, he’s just your aver- Town of Greenwich. age Irish Catholic kid from Philly, Prior to serving as Amy’s life was shaped by passion- Comic Actor, Sober Alcoholic, First Selectman, Peter Recovering Drug Addict, Husband, worked in the finan- ately held values that centered on family, Father, Reform, Conservative, cial services sector Unorthodox, Orthodox Jew. A spir- for close to twenty friends and acts of goodness. She cared itual journey stretching across four years, serving as a decades, two continents, and three circumcisions. Vice President of the deeply about mak- Wealth Management ing the world a bet- Marlene & Alan Gilbert and Group of BNY/Mellon. ter place, and was Alice & Michael Delikat, Gala Co-Chairs In 2005, he was rec- respected for her in- ognized by the Fairfield County Business Journal as telligence, generosity, Thursday, April 23, 2015 persuasive advocacy, and thoughtful philanthropy. Amy one of the 40 under 40 business leaders demonstrat- The Hilton Stamford Hotel ing achievement and promise. was also active in Israel education. After a long career During Peter’s tenure as First Selectman, he has as an attorney, she received the Letter Writer of the 6:30 pm Cocktails & Dinner worked together with the Board of Estimate and Year Award for 2012 from the Committee for Accuracy 8:00 pm Program in Middle Eastern Reporting in America. Taxation and Representative town meeting to keep Honoring Peter Tesei Greenwich’s tax rate at a modest and predictable level Amy served on the board of UJA Greenwich for many while ensuring quality of life services, safety, education years, as well as Literacy Volunteers of Stamford/ Presentation of the Hillel Silverman and public infrastructure renewal as priorities. Greenwich and many other philanthropic organiza- Community Service Award to the Lipton tions. Family in Memory of Amy Lipton (z”l) A Huge Thank You What Do a Harvard Professor, Yoga Instructor, Food and Wine and a to All of Our Bestselling Author and Journalist Have in Common? Generous Donors Find Out at Our Annual Education Symposium on March 11 and Volunteers The annual Women’s Philanthropy Education Symposium returns! On Wednesday, March 11, Greenwich will once again shine a light on for the 2014 UJA Jewish learning as four powerhouse speakers share their special areas Greenwich Campaign of expertise. Now in its second decade, the 2015 Symposium is jointly presented by JCC Greenwich and UJA Women’s Philanthropy. This year it The 2014 Campaign’s will be hosted by Kim and Marty Sands. total is $2,572,523.44. Our keynote speaker will be bestselling author, journalist and professor, These funds will Iris Krasnow, back by popular demand to further update her inquiries strengthen Jewish life in into the adult female growth cycle. Greenwich, in Israel and As we’ve done in prior years, three breakout sessions will be offered, in 70 countries around appealing to a variety of tastes and interests. This year participants can the world. Thanks to each choose to delve into Jewish-inspired yoga with Shelly Dembe. Or you can and every one of you for join Harvard professor Jon D. Levenson, for a scholarly look at the legacy this extraordinary effort. of Abraham among the monotheistic faiths. Or perhaps you’d prefer to Please refer to our Honor savor a food demonstration and wine pairing, all the while exploring the Roll insert for further role of wine in Jewish history with Jeff and Jodie Morgan of California’s acknowledgements. May celebrated Covenant Winery. The Symposium couvert is $60 per person prior to March 4 and This year’s Symposium Chairs are Maura Shapiro and Irit Tratt, who $72 at the door. Sponsorship, at $136 or higher, comes with the gift we continue to grow as a are joined by Women’s Philanthropy Vice Presidents Andi Fern and Dina of one book. Sponsors will be acknowledged in the print brochure community from strength Klein Lunder. Joan Mann serves as Honorary Chair. and in all relevant JCC and UJA online communications. Register to strength. at jccgreenwich.org or contact Director of Women’s Philanthropy More details on page 3 Tracy Daniels at [email protected] or 203-552-1818. Page 2 February 2015

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PJ Library reader at Big Day Out PJ Library® Books Coming Your Way… February 2015 Page 3 Alison Lebovitz Addresses COMMUNITY Education Symposium, DIRECTORY Women’s Philanthropy UJA Greenwich Wednesday March 11 (203) 552-1818 Continued from page 1 The Women’s Philanthropy kickoff meeting was well attended Anti-Defamation League by Board members and guests who gathered to hear non profit (203) 288-6500 Breakout sessions are as follows: executive and TV personality, Alison Lebovitz, speak about Bi-Cultural Day School WRESTLING WITH YOGA changing the world with one idea. At our invitation, Carmel (203) 329-2186 Shelly Dembe Academy educators attended as well, and Erica Sokoloff, Director Carmel Academy Experience both energy and calm while of Jewish Living, shared some of their reactions: (203) 863-9663 discovering the kabbalistic sefirot found We are so glad that you invited us to attend today’s Woman’s Chavurat Deevray Torah in the body and expressed in the soul. Philanthropy meeting with Alison Lebovitz. (203) 637-9478 or (203) 637-5877 Along our spiritual journey, Shelly Dembe Ali’s message was so inspiring and meaningful. We are Chabad Lubavitch of Greenwich, Camp Gan Israel of Greenwich will touch upon her book, Wrestling with looking forward to continuing conversations with her as well (203) 629-9059 Yoga: Journey of a Jewish Soul. This is not as with each other about how to make service learning even Gan of Greenwich Preschool your ordinary yoga class! No experience more prevalent at Carmel and in our own lives. (203) 869-1742 required. Thank you so much for thinking to include us in this Congregation Shir Ami amazing presentation. (203) 504-2424 INHERITING ABRAHAM: THE LEGACY Greenwich Chapter of Hadassah OF THE PATRIARCH IN JUDIASM, (203) 625-9666 CHRISTIANITY AND ISLAM Greenwich Reform Synagogue Jon D. Levenson, PhD (203) 629-0018 Who was Abraham and what is his legacy Hebrew Wizards in Judaism, Christianity and Islam? 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Greenwich Jewish News Published by UJA Greenwich UJA GREENWICH One Holly Hill Lane Greenwich, CT 06830 WOMEN’S PHILANTHROPY (203) 552-1818 www.ujafedgreenwich.org Calendar of Events 2015 BRIAN NEILINGER PRESIDENT, UJA GREENWICH ✓ Wednesday, February 25 BOARD MEETING SUZANNE KATZ CAROLYN SURGENT ✓ Wednesday, March 11 EDUCATION SYMPOSIUM CO-PRESIDENTS, WOMEN'S PHILANTHROPY ✓ Wednesday, May 13 LION OF JUDAH PAMELA EHRENKRANZ CEO ✓ Wednesday, June 3 BOARD MEETING TRACY DANIELS WOMEN’S PHILANTHROPY & PJ LIBRARY DIRECTOR Important UJA Event Dates 2015 SHELLY KATZ DIRECTOR OF DEVELOPMENT ✓ Wednesday, April 15 YOM HA SHOAH NANCY ZISSON EDITORIAL CHAIRMAN ✓ Thursday, April 23 UJA GALA JUDITH MARGOLIN EDITOR Women’s Philanthropy Event Vice President, Debbie Daum ✓ Sunday, April 26 HAATZ MAUT (Israel Independence) ADDRESS CORRECTION REQUESTED Page 4 February 2015 Congregation Shir Ami Celebrates Passover “Let all who are hungry come and provided by members of Shir Ami. eat. Let all who are needy, come and The evening will be rich with music, celebrate.” These are the words Jews dancing, and fun for all. all over the world recite as they gather “For thousands of years, the history to eat the festive meal and recall the and beliefs, the customs and rituals Exodus from Egypt at Passover Seders. have bound together generations of “The text is not in Hebrew like most Jews across five continents,” noted of the prayers of the Passover Seder,” Rabbi Axe. “Especially designed to explained Rabbi Vicki L. Axe, spiritual Jewish leaderYoga of Congregation Shir Ami. “It hold the attention of children, and is in Aramaic, the street language of the child in all of us,” she continued, ������������������� “there is fun and prizes for all as we ���������������ancient times, designed to be heard and understood by all who needed declare early in the Seder, “Let all who Breathe are hungry, come and eat. Let all who and a place of refuge during the Festival Simplifyof Passover. Today, it resonates as are needy, come and celebrate!” a call to reach out to people in “Shir Ami is known for welcoming need while inviting family, friends, and all people – families with young neighbors to share in the celebration children, like my 7-year-old twins, of Passover.” as well as interfaith, singles, seniors, In the Mussar tradition, simplicity is called histapkut – the ability to appreciate that what we have isShir enough. Ami will celebrate Passover boomers, and the LGBT community,” In yogic philosophy, santosha (simplicity)with is the a abilitysecond to be night Community Seder said Old Greenwich resident and Shir content with the moment. led by Rabbi Axe on Saturday, April Ami officer Jennifer Stranzl. “Every Paring down, de-cluttering, brings us4, closer 2015, to the purity at 6:00pm at Westchester of our souls – the neshamah. time we get together,” added Cos Reform Temple in Scarsdale, NY. Yoga helps us slow down, tune into our breath, and Cob resident and co-president Rick appreciate our bodies. Always known for its family-friendly Certified yoga instructor, Naomi Norman,events helps us where all are welcome, more Mason, “there is a feeling of family – experience the freedom that simplicity brings. even with over one hundred people.” All levels of yoga experience are welcome.than Please one bring hundred a children, parents, mat, if you have one; if not, we will provide extras. and grandparents, friends, and guests To learn more about Congregation will gather to share all of the traditional Shir Ami events and programs visit ����������������������������������� ������������������������������Passover�������� � customs��� and rituals with www.congregationshirami.org or call a sumptuous pot luck festive meal 203.274.5376. �������������������������������������������������� ��������������������������������������������������� Greenwich Planning for a Pleasant Passover… Reform Synagogue and Avoiding Passover Panic! In 2015, Passover begins with the first Seder on Friday evening, April 3 – a little over a month away! To ensure that you’ll be able to enjoy Passover to the fullest, Greenwich Reform Synagogue is offering three free fun and educational programs – you’re invited to attend any or all of them: Understanding Passover: Sunday morning, March 8, 10:30-11:30 am Perhaps you’re attending or even hosting your first Seder. Perhaps you’ve been celebrating Passover since childhood, but never really understood the meaning and traditions behind the On January 31st, the Chabad of Greenwich community came together rituals. Perhaps you’re making the transition from an adults-only Seder to a more family-oriented to honor Rebecca and Eddie Sugar for their exemplary work on behalf of the Greenwich Jewish community and to hear inspirational words one. Whatever your area of curiosity or concern, Rabbi Andy Sklarz will help you feel at home by Keynote Speaker, Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks. and comfortable with this beautiful holiday in an informal hour-long discussion, including why we celebrate, the major Passover themes, symbolic foods, and more. Creating (or Finding) the Right Haggadah for Your Family: Welcome to Greenwich! Sunday morning, March 22, 10:30-11:30 am Amazon literally lists dozens of Haggadot on its website, while many families go beyond that to WE’D LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU! create their own versions. Rabbi Andy Sklarz will explain the structure of the Haggadah, create a basic outline, and show you how to give the Haggadah your own personal flavor. A variety of “Join us for Coffee” professional and homemade Haggadot will be available to share and study. “I remember receiving my newcomers Coping with Pasta-less Passover: basket when my husband and I first moved to Greenwich almost 10 years Tuesday morning, March 31, 10 am-12 noon ago. I am happy to be able to give Please join us for a fun morning of shared ideas for coping with breakfasts without Cheerios, back to our vibrant, wonderful Jewish lunches without sandwiches or pizza, and dinners without macaroni and cheese! We’ll share easy community. If you know of someone new to town, please let me know. I want and creative recipes for everything from kid-friendly meals to elegant adult repasts, as well as to make sure they get a proper ‘UJA welcome’! other tips for getting through the week. You can email me at [email protected]” Contact Stephanie Glaser at [email protected] for full details and locations or visit the GRS website at www. —Bonnie Citron, Newcomers Committee Chair GRS.org. All are welcome! February 2015 Page 5 JCC Greenwich Invites Nancy Spielberg, Film Documentarian, for “Above and Beyond” Screening and Discussion, March 26 This gripping documentary just sounded fantastic.” The helped the Israeli Air Force. film, which unfolds on the youngest sister of celebrated But once I read that obituary, eve of Israel’s 1948 War of director Steven Spielberg was I started reading everything I Independence, follows the seeking a new project on the could find. mostly Jewish American pilots heels of her Elusive Justice: Q: Former pilot Harold who helped build the Israeli Air The Search for Nazi War Livingston talks about Force’s historic 101 Squadron. Criminals, which aired on PBS how the experience made They were with “Machal” (the to favorable reviews. To direct him a “mensche.” Beyond acronym for “Mitnadvei Chutz Above and Beyond, she tapped the transformative arc of LaAretz”), a group of volunteers Roberta Grossman, whose hit Israeli history, how did from around the world who documentary Hava Nagila JCC your subjects evolve? answered the clarion call of Greenwich presented to great NS: To me this story is about David Ben-Gurion. Fresh from acclaim two years ago. the human character. These World War II, these young On March 26 at 7 pm, guys didn’t go there because Nancy Spielberg with former pilot Harold Livingston idealists helped face down JCC Greenwich will screen of Zionism or even due to a five charging Arab militaries, Above and Beyond in real connection to a Jewish Q: Growing up, didn’t you mother let him make us hold including that of mighty Egypt. Greenwich Library’s Cole state. Of them, only one, literally help your brother spotlights that were so hot I’d Their aircraft was as slapdash Auditorium. See why the film Giddy Lichtman was brought “in need” on the films he have beads of sweat on my as their training, yet they were lives up to its title, and join up with an emphasis on was already shooting as a forehead, I’ll never know! I absolutely essential in altering Nancy Spielberg for what’s sure Zionism. The other guys just kid? was six, seven, eight…I got the course of the war. to be a riveting discussion. said, ‘We did what we had NS: Oh yes. Since he didn’t burned by those lights so many This story actually has its Here are some excerpts from to do.’ This experience really have a crew, we were the crew. times! roots here in Connecticut, our recent interview with Ms. helped him get in touch with We were also the actors. We To read the full interview with Nancy where Al Schwimmer, a flight Spielberg: his Jewishness. handled the lighting. How my Spielberg, visit jccgreenwich.org. engineer from Bridgeport, Q: What had you heard began smuggling war planes about “Machal” before and recruiting pilots to Israel tackling this film? – in defiance of America’s then NS: In 1975 I went with my embargo on weapons to the sister to Kibbutz Sderot Yitzhak Mid-East. The idea for Above to study Hebrew at their Ulpan. and Beyond, was born at It’s very close to the airport Schwimmer’s death in 2011, – when the airport was just a as the film’s producer, Nancy falafel stand and had one gate Spielberg, recently told jcc- – and I had a lot of friends who greenwich.org. were coming to Israel to do “Someone emailed me an volunteer work. At one point obituary entitled, ‘Godfather much later on my brother Steve of the Israeli Air Force Dies toyed with the idea of doing at 94,’ recalled Spielberg. It a film about Americans who Machal Pilots Bar/Bat Mitzvah Parents N’T MISS DO 23rd year!

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Greenwich Reform Synagogue Purim at Temple Sholom! presents: Tot Purim Wed., March 4, 5:30 pm Come in your favorite Purim costume! Join us for a program filled with Ruach (spirit), singing and dancing. Led by music specialist Sarah Fradkin. To RSVP or for more information, contact Alice Schoen, 203-542-7165, alice. [email protected]. Hamantaschen Baking Wed., March 4, 6:00 pm Fun for the whole family! Get ready to prepare this three-cornered holiday treat with sweet, delicious fillings. Enjoy dinner while your hamantaschen are baking. $5/person; $20 max/family. Reservations REQUIRED. To RSVP or for more information, contact Alice Schoen, 203-542-7165, alice.schoen@templesholom. com. Sunday, March 1 Megillah Reading 10:30 – 11:30 am • Stanwich School Campus Wed., March 4, 6:45 pm Join us for a cartoon-themed Purim celebration, featuring: Purim begins! Let’s shake, rattle and BOO! Join us for the always entertaining Megillah reading. Fun for all ages. Costumes are encouraged! Calling all teens to • Dr. Seuss Purim shpiel volunteer for the megillah reading! To volunteer or for more information, contact • Purim carnival with games, Cantor Asa, 203-542-7160, [email protected]. popcorn and cotton candy Purim Carnival Sun., March 8, 11:00 am • Dress as your favorite cartoon Games, activities, food & fun for everyone! Come in costume! Tickets in advance character and win a prize! (must be purchased by March 2) are $18/child, $36 for two or more ($20/$40 at the door). Lunch is available for $7 per person. Parents enter free! For tickets or more information, contact Michele Strauss, 203-542-7161, michele. [email protected]. For more information, contact Stephanie Glaser at [email protected]

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From the Rabbi Y Haman and Pharaoh: Dark Souls Who Remind Us to Be People of Light and Love Y by Rabbi Andrew R. Sklarz, Greenwich Reform Synagogue Humor has proven to be In our observance of Purim Divestment and Sanctions ear to those who cry out in are to be an Am Kodesh, a an effective defense mecha- and Pesach, which both Movement, and global terror- physical or spiritual hunger Holy People, ever spreading nism for the Jewish people. To conclude on notes of hope ism, we are called upon to for nourishment. love and light to all of God’s mask the tears we might shed and herald promise for the remain no less vigilant than Our painful experiences children. when we consider the count- future, we “self-medicate,” to when our ancestors won- have led the Jewish people to less cataclysmic events of our use modern parlance, through dered when the next breach be champions of civil rights Editor’s Note: The rabbis history, Jews have transformed the use of Jewish humor. upon the walls of Jerusalem and humanitarian efforts. In of Greenwich alternate in biblical memories of fear and Our ethnic gastronomy and would occur, or when another America, rabbis and Jewish providing messages for each terror into days of celebra- libations soften the blows of pogrom would destroy the leaders have been in the van- issue of the Greenwich Jewish News. tion. With more than a hint the Hamans or Pharaohs who shtetls of Europe and Russia. guard of social issues, nota- of sarcasm, Jewish resilience have unsuccessfully sought to While Jews have expressed bly in our partnership with has been encapsulated in the destroy our people. both laughter and tears Martin Luther King and the flippant line used to character- Not all holidays are celebra- when recalling our journeys, Black community, and to those ize so many of our holidays: tions, however: Our pain and responding with mourning, in our nation and abroad who “They tried to kill us, we won, outrage are not camouflaged spiritual and physical resis- have been cast aside or mis- let’s eat.” during Tisha b’Av, which tance, the key is the empa- treated. Despite the continu- With the approaching cel- recalls the destruction of the thy and compassion our ing bombardment of Israel, ebration of Purim, we will Holy Temples and the sack- people have developed from both verbally and physically, sweeten the memory of brutal ing of Jerusalem; Krystalnacht, the heartache of our expe- the Jewish nation has led with Haman’s attempt to destroy the “Night of Broken Glass” riences. As the Haggadah of humanitarian responses to Steve and Hersh Batkin our people by eating trian- of 1938 Nazi Germany; and Pesach commands, “You shall earthquakes in Haiti, tsuna- gular pastries in the shape Yom HaShoah, Holocaust not forget the stranger, hav- mis in Japan, hurricanes in Personal & Commercial of the henchman’s hat. Soon Remembrance Day, which ing been strangers in the land America, and life-saving sur- Insurance after, with the observance of resulted in pure darkness. Yet, of Egypt.” This theme is reit- gery for Palestinian or Arab Passover, we will drown our the Jewish capacity to rebound erated throughout our daily, children. The list goes on. sorrow, as we reflect upon the and transform ourselves has Shabbat, and holiday liturgy, And so, let us fully enjoy the evil of Pharaoh and our bond- come shining through. and underscored in the proph- joyful traditions created for age in Egypt, with matzoh ball The pages of our history ets’ call for social justice. We our celebrations of Purim and soup. Both Purim and Pesach have been filled with Pharaohs, are a people who are com- Pesach. However, as we share not only call for, but require, Hamans, and Hitlers. Jews manded to ever reach out to food, drink and laughter, let the drinking of wine, to light- have always needed to be on the downtrodden, the margin- us ever be conscious of the en the heart, anesthetizing us guard. With the current wave alized, and the afflicted. We inherent message of these 203.302.3880 from the horror inherent in of increasing anti-Semitism, have been instructed to keep holidays – the quintessential www.lampebatkin.com these biblical narratives. the anti-Zionist Boycott, a watchful eye and an attuned message of Judaism: we

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Nancie K. Schwarzman Upcoming Arts & Culture Programs at Temple Sholom Fine Homes Specialist Temple Sholom invites all members of the on Thursday, February 26th at 7:00pm and on 136 East Putnam Avenue, Greenwich, CT 06830 community to attend their upcoming arts and Tuesday, February 17th at 12:00pm, during a spe- Bus 203.869.0500 Direct 203.637.6225 culture programs. Leah Vincent, author of Cut cial Lunch ’n Learn session, Tagliareni, a former Cell 203.233.7572 Fax 203.869.7055 Me Loose: Sin and Salvation After My Ultra- Catholic Priest, will share his search to understand Email [email protected] Orthodox Girlhood and Sal Tagliareni, author how the Shoah occurred and the Catholic Church’s of the historical thrillers Hitler’s Priest and The role in it. Finally, on Thursday, March 19th Cross or the Swastika will visit the synagogue to at 7:00pm Temple Sholom Sisterhood presents, discuss their latest works. Additionally, Temple McShane’s documentary filmed over four years at © 2013 An independently operated member of BHH Affiliates. Equal Housing Opportunity Sholom Sisterhood will host a special viewing the Bedford Hills Correctional Facility and which of the documentary, “Mothers of Bedford” by explores the effects of a long-term prison sentence Jenifer McShane, followed by a discussion about on the relationship between a mother and child. the film. To register for one or more program(s) contact Named one of the Jewish Week’s “2014 36 Alice Schoen, [email protected], 203- Save the Date! Under 36”, Leah Vincent will visit the synagogue 542-7165. Sunday, March 15th, 5:30 p.m. Shabbat As You Like It from GRS Brae Burn Country Club, Purchase, NY Although Shabbat is the most important Jewish Hebrew and English, but no prior background or Join Carmel Academy for our holiday, and the only one mentioned in the Ten previous knowledge is needed to participate in annual Erev Tov Celebration Commandments, many of us are too busy to give prayer or join in the discussion; just bring an open ourselves the beautiful gift of rest that Shabbat heart and mind and a desire to be with others. As we mark our 18-year milestone, Carmel Academy represents. To make it easy to find the Shabbat Family Shabbat Services and Dinner: The proudly honors Head of School Nora Anderson for her instrumental and transformative work on behalf experience that’s right for you and your family, GRS first Friday of each month generally celebrates of Carmel Academy and her leadership role within offers these services: Shabbat with a one-hour service designed for the educational world. Shabbat Yeladim: For a Shabbat experience both school-age children and adults, followed by that you and your kids (age six and under) will delicious and delightful Shabbat dinner, provided For more information or to place a commemorative journal ad, enjoy, join us for a short, lively service, followed by the congregation and enjoyed by all. please visit www.carmelacademy.com or contact Seth Young at 203-983-3508, [email protected]. by craft projects and pizza or snacks. Services start Weekly Shabbat Services: Each Friday night at 5:30 pm on Friday nights or 9:30 on Saturday at 6:30 pm, we welcome Shabbat with a peaceful mornings – perfect timing for active little kids and service of prayer and song, often enlivened with the parents. beautiful music of our choir or house band.

A private school for children of all Jewish Let Your Good Deeds Shabbat L’Shachrit: Our informal Shabbat Contact Stephanie Glaser at stephanieglaser@GRS. affi liations serving grades Transitional K-8. Exceed Your Studies service and Torah study begins at 9:00 and concludes org for full details and locations or visit the GRS website ����������������������������������������������������������������������������� by 10:15-10:30 am. The service incorporates both at www.GRS.org. All are welcome! BCDS Announces 2015 Celebration Dinner Honorees On Sunday, May 17, at the Hilton Stamford Alumni and faculty member Bob Abrams Hotel, Bi-Cultural Day School will be honoring a will be receiving the Alumni Award this year. group of community members at the annual Bi- Abrams has taught a variety of Judaic Studies Cultural Celebration Dinner. Five people from courses throughout the years and exhibits a different walks of life will be recognized for rare form of enthusiasm, while connecting with their involvement, contribution and dedication his students on so many levels. to the school. Long-time faculty member Morah Yospa The Guests of Honor for the evening will Lieberman will be awarded the Jane Shoztic be parent members, Maria and Glenn Award. Lieberman, an icon of the Stamford Reicin. Maria Reicin is currently serving as Jewish community, has taught Judaic Studies at the Co-President of the Parents Association Bi-Cultural since 1981. She and her husband, and has served as a co-chair of the auction Rabbi Abraham Lieberman z”l, a Director of fundraising event and was one of the founders Judaic Studies at BCDS for many years, helped of the innovative R2 social responsibility foster a love of Judaism and learning for so program. She also was instrumental in the many students throughout the years. recent renovation of the school café space and is an important member of the Board of This year, Bi-Cultural will also be presenting Trustees. Glenn Reicin has expertly chaired Stamford Police Department Assistant Chief the Endowment Management committee and Jim Matheny a special Community Service is an active member of the school’s Executive Award. Assistant Chief Matheny has served as Committee. a security expert and guiding voice to BCDS Bi-Cultural parent Sarah Rich will be in developing first-rate security policies and receiving the Young Leadership Award. Rich, a system of safety protocols for the school, who has served as a Past Parents Association including training faculty and staff. President and Auction Chair, has helped The Bi-Cultural Celebration Dinner is an manage numerous fundraising and school annual event and is a gathering of current and events and served as a positive role model for past parents, alumni and community members many incoming and current parents. to celebrate the achievements of the school. February 2015 Page 9 Carmel Academy to Honor Trailblazing Head of School at Annual Celebration Nora Anderson Recognized As School Celebrates 18 Years Carmel Academy is thrilled strong leadership skills have learning disabilities. She has most renowned school heads to announce that it will honor put Carmel Academy on the worked tirelessly to promote in the country. And her pas- Nora Anderson, the school’s map of Jewish day school edu- and encourage ongoing pro- sion for education is matched longtime and innovative Head cation,” said Carmel Academy fessional development for new by her commitment to tikkun of School, at its annual Erev President Evan Levy. and seasoned teachers alike. olam (repairing the world), an Tov Celebration on March Anderson’s commitment to In addition to her impor- unwavering love of Israel, and 15, 2015. Anderson will be a child-centered education, tant work at Carmel Academy, a tremendous dedication to her recognized for her instrumental dedication to best-practices, and Anderson has done much to family. and transformative work on her emphasis on professional further the field of Jewish edu- Erev Tov, which means “good behalf of Carmel Academy and development have helped cation on behalf of both stu- evening” in Hebrew, will take her leadership role within the shaped Carmel Academy into dents and professionals. She place at Brae Burn Country Club, educational world. the high-achieving school it is is a sought-after speaker and Purchase, NY on Sunday, March “In her 12 years at the helm today. and is a current mentor with 15th at 5:30 p.m. This year’s of Carmel Academy, Nora has Her strong background in the prestigious Day School annual event will mark Carmel overseen our school’s growth mathematics and the sciences Leadership Training Institute Academy’s 18th year. For more from a small community day has put Carmel on the forefront (DSLTI). Her leadership and information about Erev Tov, Nora Anderson school on the second floor of a of science, technology, engi- vision have transcended the or to place a commemorative Institutional Advancement, at synagogue to an institution with neering, arts and mathematics landscape of Jewish educa- journal ad, please contact seth.young@carmelacademy. more than 250 students on a (STEAM) education. Her child- tion. This past summer she Seth Young, Carmel Academy’s com, 203-983-3508 or visit 17-acre campus that has been centered philosophy led to the was appointed to the Board of Associate Head of School for carmelacademy.com. accredited with distinction. start of the school’s ground- the Connecticut Association of Nora’s vision, unwavering com- breaking PALS program for Independent Schools, in which mitment to excellence, and her children with language-based she serves with some of the

Hebrew Wizards trip to Museum of Jewish Heritage

ongregation hir mi C A Reform Congregation in DowntownS GreenwicAh Rabbi Vicki L. Axe, Spiritual Leader and Educational Direcotr SHIR AMI RELIGIOUS SCHOOL Tuesdays, 4:00-6:00 pm One-day-a-week Religious School K-6 Bar/Bat Mitzvah Studies Confirmation Class for SATs Shir Ami Teens Grades 8-12 Creative teaching staff Engaging curriculum Special care for all learning styles Registration Open | call to arrange a visit ALL ARE WELCOME young families interfaith singles boomers seniors lgbt TO LEARN MORE www.congregationshirami.org | 203.274.5376 Page 10 February 2015 ADULT EDUCATION Are you considering taking a class or attending a lecture this winter or early spring? Look no further! Here is a list of what’s going on right here in the greater Greenwich Jewish community. Center for Judaic & Middle Eastern Studies at UConn Lunch & Learn Lecture Series begins April 15 Yiddish Tish Wednesdays, Feb. 11, Mar. 11 & Apr. 22, 2015, 12-1pm, Dodd Bulding Sponsored by Rita Edelston Bring a lunch; beverages provided. Feb 19 ...... Rabbi Tzvi Bernstein March 12 ...... Rabbi Barry Schwartz Chabad of Greenwich Feb 26 ...... Dr. David Pelcovitz March 19 ...... Rabbi Daniel Cohen Sara Esther Crispe, Kabbalah for Women March 5 ...... PURIM—no class March 26 ...... Amir Aczel Wednesdays, 9:30am, remaining sessions: Feb. 25, Mar. 25, May 16 Check JCC calendar for updated schedule Early Morning Torah Study Monday-Friday, 6:30-7am Sunday Morning Torah Study 9:30am-10:30am, email [email protected] for info. Jewish Parenting Class: Blessing of the Skinned Knee Wednesday, 9:30-10:30am Parsha with Classic Commentaries Thursday, 9:45am-10:45am Chassidic Philosophy Class Shabbat, 8:45am-9:30am Fairfield University Carl & Dorothy Bennett Center for Judaic Studies Special Lectures All lectures are complimentary. Please call to reserve a seat as space is limited (203) 254-4000, ext. 2066.. Anti-Semitism in Europe Today with David Harris, Executive Director of the American Jewish Committee Tuesday, March 17, 7:30pm, Regina A. Quick Center for the Arts, Kelley Theater 9th Annual Lecture in Jewish-Christian Engagement “From Enemy To Brother: Catholic Social Teachings on the Jews” with Dr. John Connelly, Associate Professor of History, University of California, Berkeley Tuesday, March 24, 7:30pm, Dolan School of Business Dining Room Samuel & Bettie Roberts Memorial Lecture in Jewish Art Jewish Women and American Art with Dr. Gail Levin, Professor of Art History, American Studies, and Women’s Studies, City University of NY Wednesday, April 22, 7:30pm, Dolan School of Business Dining Room Greenwich Reform Synagogue Advanced Beginner’s Hebrew Sundays, 9:30am, with Rabbi Andrew R. Sklarz Wisdom Literature of Psalms and Ecclesiastes Sundays, 10:30am, with Rabbi Robert Rothman To register for these free classes, call 203-629-0018 or email [email protected] JCC Greenwich Film Showing, “Above and Beyond” with Documentarian Nancy Spielberg Thursday, March 26, 7pm, Greenwich Library, Cole Auditorium Temple Sholom Shabbat Study with Temple Sholom Clergy Saturdays, 9-10am Lunch & Learn Tuesdays, 12-1pm. Kosher lunch provided February 2015 Page 11

The StarLab Visited JCC Sunday Fundays!

Mr. Science brought his nocturnal friend the Owl to teach us about The JCC Greenwich Teen Action Committee is selling these shirts to raise Lining up to send one group at a time heading through the tunnel the night sky before going into the money which will help provide meals for needy Jewish children. Buy a shirt into the StarLab StarLab for $25 and be our partner in making a difference. Buy online at http://bit.ly/TShirtsFeedingKids

Inside the StarLab

Tracy Daniels, Director of PJ Library, reads Listening to Mr. Science teach us about the lights in the sky a Tu B’Shevat story at JCC Sunday Funday at night. event called Earth & Sky.

JCC Teen Action Committee Members and PJ Library Parent Planners volunteering at the PJ Library/JCC Greenwich Hanukkah Party.

JCC Greenwich Teen Action Committee heard presentations from Leket Israel, Masbia and Jewish Family Service on Sunday, January 25th. They will work together to decide which proposals they heard best fit their philanthropic goals of addressing causes of childhood hunger. They will allocate the funds they raise in April. Page 12 February 2015 JCC/PJ Library Hanukkah Party and Toy Drive * December 7 Special THANKS to PJ Parent Planners Magic of Hanukkah Event Committee: Jill Derikrava; Penny Goffman-Vazquez (Co-Chair); Allison Jackson (Co-Chair); Jody Siegartel-Lazlo; Jessica Maiman-Rickert; Cori SaNogueira

Photos by Asher Almonacy February 2015 Page 13 Photos by Asher Almonacy Page 14 February 2015

Educate SPRING Stimulate 2015 Motivate February 2015 Page 15 Tropp Family Celebrates 25 Years in the US In 1990 the Tropp family arrived works in Institutional Wealth Services on our shores as refugees from the at Fidelity Investments. Anna graduated then Soviet Union, having escaped an from Clark University and is working anti-Semitic and abusive government as a marketing analyst at Planet Shoes, in order to raise their family in a free Inc. She has a daughter, Ayla, who is 3½ world. The program that welcomed (the same age as Sasha when he arrived them was funded by UJA Federation, and in the U.S.) Valentina graduated from JFS, which coordinated the volunteers Skidmore College and has started a new who helped them settle into their new career as a computer programmer. Vitaly life. is a senior project manager working in Twenty-five years later they are still construction management for Tishman she participates in all activities offered. living in Old Greenwich. The Tropp Construction. He just completed work According to Vitaly: “We are blessed children have grown to be happy and on the Freedom Tower at WTC. to have you (JFS and the Greenwich successful. Sasha graduated from And Rosa is now 101 years old! She Jewish community) in our lives and Johnson and Wales University and attends an adult day care center where in our hearts.” Jewish Family Services AmazonSmile SUPERMARKETING FOR SENIORS NEEDS YOUR HELP! For the past 29 years, ways to help our clients remain You shop–Amazon gives to Supermarketing for Seniors has safe and independent in their provided free grocery shopping own homes rather than being UJA Greenwich! and case management services placed in institutional living to the homebound frail elderly environments. We know our You just need to select UJA Greenwich as your of Greenwich. Last month at clients feel better at home, and chosen charity, and start your first shopping our winter holiday meeting for ultimately it is better for the shoppers, “File of Life” cards Greenwich taxpayer, since it session at smile.amazon.com. were distributed to our shoppers costs more than $150,000 a year to give to their shopping clients to be placed in The Nathaniel Happy shopping! in the new year. Lynn Ridberg, Witherell. If you, or anyone you Mary Karlan, bringing season’s Director of Education at GEMS, know could benefit from our greetings to shopping client made a presentation about program, please call or email the Bernice Nadel. the utility of these easy-to- program director listed below. a few hours per week to this complete packets, which are a IMPORTANT: We have a valuable service! Call program Jewish Yoga quick way for first responders renewed need for shoppers director Elyse Brown to get to find and access vital health this winter, due to new client involved, at 203-622-1881, or by Sunday, February 22 records quickly in the event of referrals as well as the challenges email to ebrown@jfsgreenwich. 9:30 – 10:25 am an emergency. Supermarketing presented by bad weather and org. Thank you so much, in for Seniors is always thinking of the flu. Please consider donating advance, for doing so! Breathe and Simplify The GHS Israel Club Gets Cooking Israeli Emissaries, Matan and Itamar, teach the Israel Club how to make hum- mus and majadara and pita chips with zatar. This cooking event is an annual In the Mussar tradition, simplicity is called histapkut – the ability to favorite among our members to bring a appreciate that what we have is enough. In yogic philosophy, santosha (simplicity) is the ability to be content little taste of Israel to GHS. with the moment. Paring down, de-cluttering, brings us closer to the purity oof our souls – the neshamah. Yoga helps us slow down, tune into our breath, and appreciate our bodies. Certified yoga instructor, Naomi Norman, helps us experience the freedom that simplicity brings. All levels of yoga experience are welcome. Please bring a mat, if you have one; if not, we will provide extras. Classes are free but donations are appreciated and reservations are required. For more information and spring yoga class dates, contact Stephanie Glaser at [email protected] Greenwich Reform Synagogue Page 16 February 2015 JEWISH FAMILY SERVICES OF GREENWICH Jewish Family Services of Greenwich Update From the Jewish Health and Healing Center Joins Forces with the by Lisa Goldberg The Jewish Health and Healing Center providing a wonderful presentation and for Connecticut Chapter of the ALS was proud to bring Itamar and Matan, the answering so many questions. One woman told Israeli Young Emissaries, to The Greens of us she would share what she learned with her Association Greenwich this winter to give a talk entitled children, just to prove to them that she wasn’t Jewish Family Services of Greenwich is proud to announce Israel: Culture, Language, Land and Growing too old to learn about new things! It was a our new relationship with the Connecticut Chapter of the ALS Up There. Not only were the Greens residents pleasure and by all accounts a huge success. Association. Starting in February we will be bringing our new completely enthralled by what Itamar and Matan Luckily, we’ll have more programs with Itamar innovative online support group programming to families of those had to say and the pictures they shared, but the and Matan, planned for this spring. impacted by ALS, as well as to the patients themselves. According questions just kept coming. Residents asked And now, with the fall and winter holidays to Stacey Rahl, LMSW, Care Services Director and Regional Care about the Israeli military, the language, the behind us, the JHHC is gearing up for a wonderful Manager of Fairfield, New Haven, Middlesex, & New London relationships with non-Jews and Arab neighbors, spring of visits, holiday celebrations and some Counties: “Working with the Online Support Group Project their families…it went on and on. Our gratitude interesting programming. Please know you are of Jewish Family Services of Greenwich is an excellent opportunity goes out to the Israeli Young Emissaries for invited to join us for some or all! for our patients and caregivers. I really am impressed with the technology – so clear and easy to use/understand.” JFS is also running two additional online support groups for the community starting in February: Our online support group for Those Coping with Chronic Illness takes place on Wednesdays from 9:30-10:30am, and our Caregiver Support Group takes place on Wednesday afternoons from 4-5pm. If you know of anyone who could benefit from these online support groups, please call Lisa Smith, LCSW, Executive Director at JFS. It’s stress-free to join an online support group. All you need is a computer and Internet access. Our groups, via easy-to-use video conferencing are confidential and secure, provided through JFS’s exclusive partnership with Vidyo, Inc. This year the Jewish Health and Healing Center is excited to announce even more programs, even more events, with an even greater numbers of participants. We can’t wait to share them all with you. Through the help and enthusiasm of the Greenwich community and partnering institutions, we have more than 50 planned so far this year with more coming! Please join us. HOLIDAY/PROGRAM DATE and TIME JFS PARTNER FACILITY Tu B’Shevet Thurs., Feb. 5th, 11am GCS, TS & JFS NW Shabbat Fri., Feb. 13th, 11am CA GW Discussion Thurs., Feb. 19th, 1:15pm JFS & GCS GADC Shabbat Service Fri., Feb. 20th, 10:30am Gan Chabad Mews SPECIAL DONATIONS to JFS Purim Tues., Mar. 3rd, 1:30pm Chabad Greenwich Mews In Honor of: Purim Wed., Mar. 4th, 1:30 pm GRS GADC Stacey Delikat and Rob Marmor, Purim Thurs., Mar. 12th, 11am GCS, TS & JFS NW by Phyllis Shapiro and Marty Flashner Shabbat Fri., Mar. 13th, 10:30am CA Mews Stacey Delikat and Rob Marmor, by Ron and Kerry Moelis Andrew Bernstein and Janna Goldhaft, Discussion Thurs., Mar. 19th, 1:15pm JFS & GCS GADC by Phyllis Shapiro and Marty Flashner Shabbat Service Fri., March 27th, 10:30am Gan Chabad Mews Rise Mattler, by Pam Ehrenkranz and Matt Greenberg Pesach SEDER Tues., Mar. 31st, 11am CSA Greens Maren Audrey and Jillian Simone Axe, Pesach SEDER Tues., Mar. 31st, 1:30pm GRS GADC by Rabbi Vicki and Harold Axe Pesach SEDER Wed., Apr. 1st, 11am TS GW In Memory of: Pesach SEDER Wed., Apr. 1st, 1:30pm Chabad Greenwich Mews Gerald Braunthal, by Phyllis Shapiro and Marty Flashner Howard Sugarman, by Phyllis Shapiro and Marty Flashner Pesach SEDER Thurs., Apr. 2nd, 11am GCS, TS & JFS NW Leon Grossman, by Phyllis Shapiro and Marty Flashner Yom Hashoah Thurs., Apr. 16th, 11am GCS, TS & JFS NW Leon Grossman, by Susan and Jerry Davis Young Emissaries – Overview of Israeli Life and Culture NW Amy Lipton, by Phyllis Shapiro and Marty Flashner Thurs., Apr. 16th, 3:15pm UJA/Young Emissaries, GCS & JFS If you would like to honor or memorialize someone special in your life or Shabbat Fri., Apr. 17th, 11am CA GW community, you may do so by making a donation to Jewish Family Services and we will send a note of acknowledgement to the person or family involved, informing Yom HaZikaron, them of your generosity in their honor/memory. If you wish, you may request that Yom Ha’atzmaut Thurs., Apr. 23rd, 11am GCS, TS & JFS NW your donation be used to benefit a specific JFS program, e.g. our “Counseling Discussion Thurs., Apr. 23rd, 1:15pm JFS & GCS GADC Services & Support Groups”, our “Supermarketing for Seniors” program, our Refugee Resettlement program, our college scholarship fund, etc. You will have the Shabbat Service Fri., Apr. 24th, 10:30am Gan Chabad Mews satisfaction of knowing that your gift will help make it possible for us to continue KEY: Carmel Academy – CA, Congregation Shir Ami – CSA, Greenwich Chaplaincy – GCS, Greenwich Woods – GW, to provide the highest quality programs, resources and services to all who come Greenwich Reform Synagogue – GRS, Greenwich Adult Day Care – GADC, Nathaniel Witherell – NW, to us for assistance. Jewish Family Services of Greenwich – JFS, The Greens – Greens, Temple Sholom – TS, The Mews – Mews February 2015 Page 17 JEWISH FAMILY SERVICES OF GREENWICH Spring 2015 Spring 2015 Programming Counseling and Support Groups JFS BOOK BEAT: DIVORCE SUPPORT GROUP FOR THOSE WHO LOVE TO READ An ongoing weekly support group for adults whose lives are impacted by divorce. A thought-provoking book club with themes relevant Facilitated by Lisa-Loraine Smith, LCSW. to people of all ages held at JFS. Facilitated by Judi Wednesdays, 5:30-6:45pm Margolin. 3/25 Not Me by Michael Lavigne 7:30pm at JFS BEREAVEMENT SUPPORT GROUP An ongoing weekly support group for those who have lost a loved one within the past INTERFAITH CONVERSATIONS year. Facilitated by Lisa-Loraine Smith, LCSW and a member of the Greenwich Jewish This series meets on Monday evenings and gives people Clergy. Thursdays, 10:30-11:30am a way to explore the opportunities and challenges associated with interfaith living. ONLINE SUPPORT GROUP FOR THOSE WHO ARE CHRONICALLY ILL 7-8:45pm in a private home. 3/30, 5/4, 6/15 Today, chronic illness affects nearly half of the adult population, according to the Federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. The chronically ill get tired of GREENWICH HOSPITAL SHABBAT trying to explain to others why they can’t do it all. The JFS safe online support group Every Friday, JFS leads a Shabbat Service, in partnership is a refuge of understanding. Connect with others to reduce your isolation, and bond with the Greenwich Hospital Spiritual Care Department, with people who really understand what you are going through. Learn strategies and at 1:00pm in the Greenwich Hospital Chapel. It is broadcast LIVE on channel 6 in all the hospital rooms. tips for coping and make new friends at the same time. We understand how hard it is Joan Mann, Spiritual Care Counselor at JFS, Lisa- for you to leave the house; take advantage of the JFS Online Support Group Project so Loraine Smith, Executive Director of JFS and Rabbi that we can come to you. All you need is a computer with Internet access! Facilitated MJ Newman, Jewish Chaplin of Greenwich Hospital, by Jan Mittleman, LCSW. lead the service. Wednesdays, 9:30-10:30am. Set up for the online group is quick and easy! RENEWAL OF BODY, RENEWAL OF SPIRIT PEACE OF MIND On the second Monday of each month, JFS, in This experiential and educational group teaches participants powerful exercises partnership with the Greenwich Hospital Spiritual designed to focus the mind and relax the body, facilitating the empowerment of each Care Department, conducts a Healing Service for individual. Members will discuss the evidence connecting mindfulness exercises to the community in the Greenwich Hospital Chapel. decreased stress damage caused to the brain and body. As a result of this 4-week Lisa-Loraine Smith, Executive Director of JFS, Joan group – members will learn creative relaxation and mindfulness techniques to help Mann, Spiritual Care Counselor at JFS, and Rabbi MJ realize joy and success. Facilitated by Inessa Zaleski, DD, CMCH, RM. Newman, Jewish Chaplain of Greenwich Hospital, Fridays, 10-11am lead the service. Mondays, 3/9, 4/13, 12-12:45pm FRACTURED FAMILIES, HEALING HEARTS Volunteer Opportunities This group is designed to give participants an opportunity to talk about strained family relationships, whether it is with a parent, a sibling, a grandparent, a son or Bikkur Cholim/Friendly Visitors/Grocery Shopper a daughter. These relationships, when stressed or tense, are so painful to endure Do a mitzvah! Get involved! JFS urges you to make a difference in the life of a Greenwich senior. Volunteers because family means so much to us. If you cut the ties, or someone in your family are needed to visit and/or grocery shop for home-bound has cut you off, this group will help you explore your grief, anger, regret and and nursing home residents. The time commitment forgiveness in a safe environment with other people who understand. Facilitated by can be as little as one hour per week. The rewards are Linda Schlapfer, LMFT. Wednesdays, 11am-12pm immeasurable! ONLINE SUPPORT GROUP FOR CAREGIVERS B’nai Mitzvah Resource Center We know it is hard to get away when you are caring for a chronically ill loved one. This unique program provides young people with a So we are offering this group for you in your own home. Whether close by or far carefully selected list of bar/bat mitzvah volunteer away, many of us are caregivers to those we love. Sharing feelings, concerns and, in ideas and arranges one-on-one meetings with program some cases, frustrations with this role is a key component to effectively coping and participants and their parents to design and implement managing caring for a loved one. All you need is a computer with Internet access! projects that cater to the child’s individual interests and Facilitated by Lisa-Loraine Smith, LCSW. personal goals. Wednesdays, 4-5pm. Set up for the online group is quick and easy! For Current and Upcoming Programs, LIVINGWELL IN LATER LIFE please visit www.JFSGreenwich.org LivingWell in later life is a support group for individuals who are 70+ who would or call 203-622-1881 for more information. like the opportunity to talk with peers about the opportunities and challenges they face at this stage of life. Topics covered will explore how to: maintain and manage SAVE THE DATE health; retain independence with family members including adult children; continue to be involved in meaningful activity; cope with mourning and loss. Facilitated by Lisa Mounts, LCSW and Rabbi Vicki Axe, Congregation Shir Ami. Thursdays, 2-3pm COUNSELING When you need someone to talk to…talk to someone who understands. JFS offers pring high quality, confidential counseling for families, couples and individuals in a S welcoming, Jewish environment. Day and evening appointments; insurance and Medicare reimbursable; sliding scale fees. Soiree For more information regarding specific groups, please call 203-622-1881. A JFS social worker will help to ANNUAL BENEFIT determine whether the group is a good fit for you, prior to start date. SUNDAY, MAY 17, 2015 FROM 5-8PM Unless otherwise noted, all support groups take place at JFS, and cost $20 per session. All individual counseling services are $150 per session (Sliding scale fees are always available) Page 18 February 2015 Carmel Academy Students Win First Place in STEM Competition A team of Carmel Academy’s other STEM-based programs on the experiments. The sixth sixth grade students captured in the United States, organizes graders performed so well that first place in a national STEM national and international the contest organizers asked competition for gifted math virtual contests throughout the them to further explain four of and science students. Carmel year. Teams compete in real- their answers to the competitor Academy’s E2K team answered time, using the Internet. schools, Ginsberg said. every question correctly for the Carmel Academy’s 14- “I am so proud of our E2K first place trophy. member sixth grade E2K team students,” said Ginsberg. “They E2K, the acronym for studied high school chemistry voluntarily spent much of their Excellence 2000, is an concepts to prepare for the free time preparing for the enrichment program developed challenging contest, which competition, and they did so in Israel that encourages explored the phases of matter because they were excited to advanced students to use and transitions from one learn. Their enthusiasm is truly logic, analysis, creativity and phase to another. During the contagious.” “The CIJE E2K teamwork to approach math two-hour competition, the virtual activities foster a healthy Members of Carmel Academy’s sixth grade E2K Team pose with their and science. The Center for students performed three sense of competition in an trophy. Initiatives in Jewish Education experiments, observed results exciting and unique way,” said be in the forefront of science, from the earliest years, we (CIJE), which runs the E2K and and answered questions based Linda Goldberg, the CIJE Math technology, engineering, arts offer cutting-edge curriculum, and Science Coordinator. and mathematics (STEAM) resources, facilities and tools Carmel Academy was one of education,” said Carmel so that our students have the the first Jewish day schools in the Academy Head of School Nora learning experiences, the country to implement E2K eight Anderson. “At Carmel we critical thinking skills and the years ago, when it was invited prepare our students to be foundation for future success by CIJE to pilot the program. “It leaders in our fast-paced, 21st in a competitive world. is our intention to continue to century global economy. Starting Sanford Shapiro, CLU®, ChFC®, CFP®, CASL® (203) 653-2100 sandyshapiro.nm.com

Greenwich Reform Synagogue presents:

� middle school students Shabbat Yeladim enrolling from public school. � An education that fosters a love Servicevicess of learning, kindness, Judaism and social responsibility. � Comprehensive, progressive and integrated curriculum to ensure a program tailored for every child’s needs. � Exceptional performing arts and robust sports programs. � Outstanding support staff including speech and language, occupational therapy, school For a Shabbat experience that you and your kids (age 6 and psychologist and reading specialists. under) will love, join us for a short, lively service, followed by a craft project and snacks. All are welcome! � Recipient of numerous awards including the Jerusalem Prize by the State of Israel, a citation Fridays at 5:30 pm by the U.S Department of February 20, April 24 Education for Excellence in Education, and two staff recipients of the distinguished Saturday at 9:30 am Grinspoon Steinhardt Award. May 16 Pre-K through 8. in grades ckgrounds jama On February 20, Wear your PJs Embracing children from all Jewish ba Pa and join us for a fun Tot Shabbat Tot service followed by pizza and a For more information, contact: Shabbat craft project. Joanne Karow, Director of Admissions BEGINNING FALL 2015 — 203-329-2186 Ext. 1310 or [email protected] BUSING AVAILABLE FROM GREENWICH, CT 2186 High Ridge Road • Stamford, CT 06903 • www.bcds.org For location details and to RSVP, contact Stephanie Glaser at [email protected] Teaching Minds. Reaching Hearts. ��������������������������� February 2015 Page 19

BCDS Uses “Flipped Learning” Greenwich High School Grad Attends to Turn Traditional Classroom Shalom Hartman Institute in Jerusalem on Its Head Dear Friends: When third-grade teacher I am spending this year in Jerusalem at the Shalom Hartman Institute as part of Hevruta, Beth Fritz had to teach her a program designed for Americans and Israelis who have just graduated from high school. We students how to measure angles are a group of eight religious and secular Americans and 17 Israelis striving to create a dialogue with a protractor, she decided between our diverse Jewish and cultural backgrounds. to make the lesson come alive The Hartman Institute is a remarkable place to be able to study. Our core classes are in a new and different way. She centered around two curriculums, iEngage (Israel) and usEngage (United States). Calling on asked her students to view a biblical, Talmudic, and modern philosophical video online of a protractor lesson that night. When the sources,we discuss Zionism, Israeli politics, and students came to school religion through the lens of the tribes of Israel the following day, instead of and Jewish denominations in the United States. handing in written homework, In the evenings, we have electives, choosing from they instead used what they had classes including Tanach, Rambam, Israeli learned the evening before to film, gender and Halacha, Kabbalah, literature, complete the written protractor war ethics, and modern Jewish philosophy. exercises during class. Fritz Students in Beth Fritz’s third- Community involvement is also an important grade math class use the flipped went from student to student, classroom method to learn how component of what we do. We work in various working with them one-on-one to measure with a protractor. volunteer positions, such as serving as mentors to make sure they understood Pictured from left to right are: in elementary schools or as companions for Charlotte Moreen, Tobey Shein, the material. “At first, I was the elderly. We also participate in social action nervous about trying this Sammi Bradley and Harrison Climbing Chod Akev in the South Browne. (Photo by Beth Fritz) projects throughout Jerusalem. I’m part of a team method, but then I realized how well it worked – the we covered in class to other of three rebuilding a community garden, where eventually we’ll facilitate activities for volunteers students loved it and math class students. It was a fantastic way with disabilities. In addition, we have internships once a week at various locations in the city. I transformed from a lecture into to see the skills that the students am working in Ginot Ha’ir Community Council, an organization that runs events throughout an interactive workshop testing acquired – it really showed the the city. each student’s knowledge.” depth of their knowledge.” In our free time, we’re able to take advantage of all the cultural events in Jerusalem, such as At Bi-Cultural, teachers and In addition to math and lan- street festivals and free concerts, and on many Fridays, we have tours of different neighborhoods students are experimenting guage arts classes, teachers of Jerusalem, such as Ein Karem, Nachla’ot, and Mea She’arim. As much as there is to do in with the flipped classroom like Rabbi Yehuda Jeiger in Jerusalem, we also travel in different parts of the country. Between Yom Kippur and Sukkot we model across a variety of the Judaic Studies department had a three-day hiking trip from Tel Azeka (near Beit Shemesh) back to Jerusalem,and at the disciplines, using class have also embraced this inter- end of November we headed to the South for five days. Yet some of my most meaningful travels time for labs, exercises and active learning style. He uses in Israel have been to my Israeli friends’ homes for our free Shabbatot and chagim. interactive activities to illustrate the online educational tool, I’m looking forward to the rest of the year! new concepts. “The flipped Blendspace, to post informa- Jackie Bein is a graduate of Greenwich High School and the daughter of Janet and Andrew Bein. classroom makes the learning tive videos on topics such as process more engaging and Jewish history, holidays and meaningful for the students current events for students to by tapping into the technology view at home in preparation for that has become part of their deeper in-class questions the daily lives,” said middle-school next day. And Shoshanna Yaari, teacher Adrianne Robinson. who teaches Hebrew language. She continued, “We actually “The students love it and the took our flipped lesson a step classroom environment is even further and had students create more vibrant and alive with the videos to teach the concepts questions.” Wizards Shabbat Sleepover

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Cantors’ Concert JHSC Students Experience Poverty Students from the Jewish High School of Connecticut (JHSC) participated at Bi-Cultural Day School last week in a Poverty Simulation program run by the United Way and the Jewish Federation of Greater New Haven as part of their Neighbor-to- On November 20th, at Bi-Cultural Day School in Stamford, Neighbor Project. The program was designed to give us a glimpse of the students in the early childhood school enjoyed a three-part struggles of living with poverty and the pressures of every day life.” said cantors’ concert. Cantor Uriel Catton from The Conservative Katya, a sophomore at JHSC. The organizers simulated real life by creating stations that represented Synagogue of Westport, Weston and Wilton, Cantor Asa services such as supermarkets, pawnshops, a general employer, bank and also a jail. Participants Fradkin from Temple Sholom in Greenwich and Cantor Magda were divided into families where each family was given a series of materials that explained their Fishman from Temple Beth El in Stamford joined Bi-Cultural’s economic positions. musical director, Jonathan Cahr, for a morning of song, dance, “Trying to navigate food stamps, transportation vouchers with the impossible tasks of daily and musical education. Each cantor showcased his or her living, such as getting children to school highlighted for us the anxiety and frustration of living a own musical style and explained the meaning behind each life under these conditions.” remarked sophomore Alex “I was the mother in my simulated family. selection performed. It was incredibly stressful managing the transportation vouchers and all of the things I needed to do in order to enable my family to eat and for me to pay utility bills and go to work. At one point, we simply did not have enough money for food and the devastation I felt was palpable.” While the students were cognizant throughout the exercise that this was a simulation, they left with a far stronger visceral understanding of the strife and burdens of poverty. “I now feel more than ever the responsibility of trying to help in whatever way I can to better the lives of people living with such pressure, anxiety and struggle.” said senior Batsheva. To learn more about JHSC and its unique approach to education, contact 203-357-0850 or [email protected]. JHSC is now located in Stamford at 1937 West Main Street, Stamford, CT. Carmel Academy Teacher Wins ATID Day School Innovation Challenge Cantor Asa Fradkin of Greenwich’s Temple Sholom sings to an early Talk to Carmel Academy their decisions: creativity, sections with dry erase pens,” childhood audience at Bi-Cultural, with Cantor Uriel Catton in the seventh graders about their impact, and replicability, said Zollman said. Zollman’s other background. (Photo by Dora Salm) Judaic Studies class and they Winograd. Zollman’s “Tactile strategy, which also gets will likely tell you about the Talmud” lesson, which fit all students out of their seats and unique way in which their the judges’ criteria, uses pages moving, involves cutting digital Rabbi Mitch of Temple Sholom teacher, Sarah Zollman, of text that are enlarged and text into smaller segments teaches Talmud. Zollman was laminated. and then gluing the text onto Reads The Invisible String recently chosen as a winner of “The enlarged text is hung on colored construction paper. the ATID Day School Innovation a wall, written on and erased “Innovation and creativity in On a cold evening in January, young children and their Challenge for her “Tactile with dry erase markers. This the classroom are hallmarks parents gathered near to Rabbi Mitch of Temple Sholom in Talmud” lesson – a creative, enables students to physically of the type of teaching that Greenwich for a special reading of The Invisible String at whole body experience that interact with the text and to takes place every day at Carmel Barnes & Noble in Stamford. The entertaining and poignant enables students to interact demonstrate their learning to Academy. We are thrilled children’s book expresses the notion that humans are all directly with the text to learn the class in a way that everyone that Morah Sarah is being connected by an invisible string of love. The reading was open Gemara (ancient rabbinic can see. The students can easily recognized,” said Head of to all and was followed by a pizza party. texts). She was selected as one underline, circle and highlight School Nora Anderson. For more information on upcoming events sponsored by of eight winning K-12 teachers Temple Sholom contact [email protected] or in the New York City metro visit templesholom.com. region for her innovation and creativity in the classroom. Considered by the judging panel as an “inspiring testament to the quality and diversity of day school education,” Zollman will be honored in May at the Hackathon Conference, in which Jewish day school teachers will convene to hold workshops about their ideas in interdisciplinary teams. The winners were chosen by a combination of a public vote and a judging panel, weighted equally. The panel of judges, comprised of professionals, Rabbi Mitchell M. Hurvitz of Temple Sholom in Greenwich reads The educators, and lay leaders, Invisible String at Barnes & Noble in Stamford on January 15, 2015. considered three criteria in Carmel Academy seventh graders learn about ancient texts in an innovative way. February 2015 Page 21 Temple Sholom Religious School and BCDS Has Talent On January 11, Bi-Cultural Day School produced and pre- The Great Dreidel Relay Race sented its first-ever tal- In December, Temple Sholom Religious School students and teachers gathered with Barry ent show, showcasing Gruber, Director of Congregational Learning in Temple Sholom’s Social Hall for The Great Dreidel individuals and groups Relay Race. Students cheered each other on excitedly throughout the game while learning the from students in grades importance of teamwork. Kindergarten through eight. The afternoon was a full force of cre- ativity and celebration of the arts, as students showcased their unique talents, from song to dance to comedy. The funds generated by the BCDS Talent Show will be applied toward the school’s special lighting system, used extensive- ly in the annual spring musical performance. Temple Sholom Religious School students at play during The Great Dreidel Race in December. Jewish Network of Young Couples Dinner JNYC’s annual Pan Asian Dinner, which took place in December was another well-attended and successful event! JNYC began in 2010 as a way for young couples in their 20’s and 30’s to get together and socialize (regardless of their affiliation). The annual Pan Asian Dinner is just one of the many popular, signature events hosted by JNYC (in partnership with Temple Sholom) which also hosts game nights, barbeques and family-friendly outings. To attend a JNYC event or for more information contact [email protected]. Rebecca Kurzweil Levine embraces Kahla Kaufman Cooper and Inga Ekgaus Skuratovsky while socializing at JNYC’s annual Pan Asian Dinner in December 2014. Shalom From Israel From the Greenwich Melton Mission

Eating and learning in Tel Aviv.

Rye Ridge on High Ridge. Enjoy the best New York-style deli in Fairfield county. You can’t Just south of the Merritt Parkway’s Exit 35 on find better High Ridge Road in the High Ridge Center. High Ridge Center � 1087 High Ridge Road � Stamford, CT 06905 food. Tel: (203) 322-5333 � Fax: (203) 322-2203 � www.ryeridgedeli.com Page 22 February 2015 SAVE THE DATES WHERE YOUR MONEY GOES… Wednesday, March 11 UJA Womens Philanthropy Connecting with Young Jews Annual Education Symposium When Valerie Maier sent out of the resources in her fund at the home of Kim and Marty Sands, 9:15 am invitations to her bat mitzvah to purchase a generator for Thursday, March 12 last year they came with a Zoe and her family so that JCC Greenwich heartfelt letter asking guests the young girl’s bed and other Broadway Trip “The Heidi Chronicles” 8:00 pm to forego presents and instead important equipment won’t be Sunday, March 15 send money that she could without power again. Carmel Academy donate to charitable causes. At Expanding Her Reach Erev Tov the urging of her father Gary, In addition to helping Zoe, Brae Burn Country Club, 5:30 pm Valerie turned to her local Valerie has used her fund to Tuesday, March 19 Jewish Federation to explore contribute to other programs When asked what she wants to be UJA and JCC Greenwich options for a hands-on giving locally and around the world. when she grows up, Valerie said: National Yiddish Theatre - Folksbiene experience. The Federation She has bought blankets and “I don’t know what I want to do, “From Rosenfeld to Robeson” helped her establish a donor- other baby supplies for abused but I do know that I want to help people and make a difference.” Temple Beth El, Stamford, 8:00 pm advised fund from which she women in Israel, provided Tuesday, April 7 could support programs that scholarships for kids to attend In addition to directing her JCC Greenwich resonated with her – like summer camp and helped fund, Valerie is considering Crossing Borders: Memory and Heritage in a New America helping a young girl named those impacted by devastating getting involved in a variety ArtWestchester, 10-11:30 am Zoe who has cerebral palsy. tornados in Oklahoma. of other programs through Thursday, April 23 Volunteers working through “Valerie has leveraged all Federation. “The Jewish UJA Annual Gala the Federation had just the gifts she received,” said Federation has been great in The Hilton Stamford Hotel, 6:30 pm renovated Zoe’s home to help her mother Lisa. “All her giving us the right opportunities Wednesday, April 15 her get around more easily. guests who participated in that appeal to her,” according Yom Hashoah When the construction was her bat mitzvah, and made to Lisa. Community Wide Commemoration complete, Zoe’s wheelchair contributions in her honor, in Making an Impact JCC Cinema Screening “Numbered” could fit into the kitchen, essence participated in this act Your gift to UJA Greenwich Temple Sholom, 6:00 pm allowing her to join her of tzedakah.” supports efforts like Valerie’s Sunday, April 26 siblings and parents for meals Giving to those in need is to help those in need through Yom Ha’atzmaut rather than eating alone in her a tradition in Valerie’s family. Jewish Federations across Community Wide Celebration Israel Independence Day room. “My parents are both Holocaust North America. We are con- JCC Cinema Screening “Beneath the Helmet” When Hurricane Sandy hit, survivors,” said Lisa. “So they necting young Jews like Greenwich Town Hall, 4:00 pm Zoe’s home was without power passed on a belief that if we Valerie to the larger Jewish Sunday, May 17 for a week. To help ensure are fortunate enough to be community and helping them BCDS Annual Celebration Dinner Zoe’s health and comfort in able to help someone else, we make an impact around the Honoring a group of community leaders the future, Valerie used some should.” world. The Hilton Stamford Hotel JCC Greenwich Exclusive Tour at ArtsWestchester Crossing Borders: Memory and Heritage in a New America With Israeli Artist Yardena Donig Youner and in our home and yours Iranian Artist Nazanin Hedayat Munroe Jewish Senior Services provides care throughout Memory, heritage and identity are the most notable themes of this exhibition featuring Southern Connecticut. installations, photography and mixed-media works by new and first-generation American artists.

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Greetings from Your Emissaries! Soon after we celebrated a new holiday It’s been almost five months since we began for us – Thanksgiving in Greenwich– we our journey. When you read this message, enjoyed singing, eating latkes, spinning the we will already be back visiting our families Dreidel, and celebrating Chanukah with all of and friends in Israel, and looking forward to you. We were kept very busy participating in our return, after gathering some “Israeli air” “Chanukah Live” with Shir Ami, Hanukkiyah to bring back with us to Greenwich. lighting at Carmel Academy and with the Hebrew School at Temple Sholom, the We will miss our host families with whom Hanukkah carnival with Hebrew Wizards, we did so many fun activities and spent and lighting candles with the Israel Club via wonderful quality time together. Skype with Itamar’s family in Israel. Over In the past few months we’ve enjoyed getting the holidays we also experienced watching to know the students at Carmel Academy a competitive basketball game with the and the Hebrew Schools at different local children and youth of Chabad. Thanks to all synagogues, and the teens at Greenwich who invited us to attend and be part of your High School’s Israel Club. Together we’ve holiday celebrations. learned about Israel and bonded over current By getting involved with the many events events. We shared special dates together: sponsored by the JCC, we’ve been able November 29, the UN resolution date, to gain a better understanding of the and the Siged holiday, meaningful to the Greenwich Jewish community and see how Ethiopian community in Israel. We explored it comes together to learn and enjoy. At the the various youth movements in Israel, ADL Gala, we met some really interesting learned some new words in the Hebrew people and were introduced to an important language and much more… organization that works for an amazing goal. When we visited Greenwich Country Day We also attended Carmel Academy’s 2nd School, we met a lot of kids who had very annual “Lights, Camera, Auction!” It was a little knowledge of Israel. It meant a lot to us wonderful opportunity to meet with all the to teach them about an entirely new topic, parents of the kids we teach. and to share many positive aspects and the Last but not least - we truly treasure beauty of Israel. meeting each and every one of you - We had a lot fun cooking Israeli food with members of the Greenwich community. members of BBYO and the Israel Club. It Thank you very much to everyone who was great sharing Israeli culture with them opened their homes and invited us to visit. by means of the wonderful tastes and smells of falafel, Israeli salad, Krembo for dessert, and many other delicacies. Page 24 February 2015

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