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Temple Am Echad The South Shore Reform Congregation One People ~ One Place T H E B U L L E T I N www.am-echad.org MARCH /A PRIL 2016 PURIM From the Rabbi’s Desk PALOOZA Bar/Bat Mitzvah: Congregational and Family Milestones A young adult’s affirmation of Jewish identity is an opportunity FOR ALL for celebration for the entire community. Leading us in worship, GES chanting Torah and Haftarah, and teaching about the weekly Torah A ! portion comprise the major tasks of this milestone on our youngsters’ journeys to Jewish adulthood. Yet, the ceremony is also recognition of years WEDNESDAY . of religious instruction, preparation and participation in our Temple community. MARCH 23 Becoming a bar/bat mitzvah is both a child’s and his or her family’s public affirmation of Jewish identity and faith. As important as this occasion is for the child’s family and STARTING friends, it is also a significant moment in our congregational life, a moment we should all celebrate and take pride in. AT 6 PM The translation of the phrase bar/bat mitzvah literally means “son/daughter of the commandments.” On becoming a bar/bat mitzvah at the age of twelve or thirteen, the DINNER , responsibility for Jewish living begins to fall more squarely on the shoulders of the child rather than on his or her parents. The degree to which this takes place varies from family MEGILLAH to family but one example may be that the decision to continue with Jewish studies to READING , Confirmation is more of a mutual decision between a bar/bat mitzvah and his/her parents than was the decision to attend the earlier years of religious school. In another example, SHPIEL , becoming a bar/bat mitzvah allows a boy/girl to count towards a minyan, the group of SPECIAL ONEG ten Jewish adults required for offering prayers such as the Bar’chu and Mourner’s Kaddish . After becoming a bar/bat mitzvah, our youngest Temple members ought to take on the responsibility to join their parents in making shiva visits so that mourners may AND offer prayers at home after the death of a loved one. A third example of a Jewish IT S responsibility after becoming a bar/bat mitzvah is that of fasting on Yom Kippur. ’ Clearly, becoming a bar/bat mitzvah isn’t the end of participation in Jewish communal FREE !!! life, it’s only the beginning! Many would agree that the highlight of the b’nai mitzvah service is K’riat HaTorah, RSVP TO “the reading of the Torah,” which takes place during the Saturday morning service, but TEMPLE BY the bar/bat mitzvah and his/her family play a significant role in the Friday night service as well. The bar/bat mitzvah leads many of the Friday night prayers, including the candle MARCH 18 lighting and Kiddush , as well as the Bar’chu, Shema and V’ahavta . The child and their parents and grandparents participate in a moving ceremony in which the Torah is passed SOMETHING FOR l’dor vador, from generation to generation. At the Friday night service a multitude of EVERYONE !! (Continued on page 2) Temple Am Echad is an open and affirming Reform congregation welcoming families and singles, persons with disabilities, Jews of all cultures, sexual orientations and gender expressions as well as Jews-by-choice and inter - faith families. It is our belief that the fabric of our Temple community will be enriched by your participation. From the Rabbi’s Desk (Continued from page 1) Friday, March 4 __7 PM blessings are offered the child by the rabbi, family Family Shabbat Service members and the congregation, and the proud parents Saturday, March 5 _ 9:30 AM offer remarks about the meaning to their family of Tot Shabbat their son/daughter becoming a bar/bat mitzvah. The bar/bat mitzvah celebration continues with the PM Friday, March 11 8 Shabbat morning service and communal participation Shabbat Service Honoring Caring Community in that service is essential as well. Saturday, March 12 In the next few months we will have many Torah Study 9:30 AM opportunities to celebrate and rejoice as several of our Learner’s Service 10:30 AM youngsters become b’nai mitzvah. To be present on Friday, March 18 _ _ _ 8 PM these occasions is both a blessing and a responsibility. Shabbat Service I look forward to seeing many members of our community at both the Friday and Saturday b’nai Saturday, March 19 _ _ 10 AM mitzvah services. Shabbat Service/Bar Mitzvah of Justin Comack, B’shalom, son of Randi & Brian Comack ~ Rabbi Sandra Bellush Friday, March 25 _ _ 8 PM Shabbat Service Spring Bar/Bat Mitzvahs AM Saturday, March 26 _ 9:30 March 18/19 Justin Comack Torah Study April 1/2 Kira Grossman Friday, April 1 _ 7 PM April 8/9 Alexis Samelson Family Shabbat Service May 13/14 Carly Tucker May 20/21 Emily Pritzker AM Saturday, April 2 _ _ 10 May 27/28 Marty Candel Shabbat Service/Bat Mitzvah of Kira Grossman, daughter of Shari Braverman & Michael Grossman Friday, April 8 _ 8 PM GREAT CHALLAH BAKE! Gospel Shabbat Service Thursday, March 3 Saturday, April 9 _ _ 10 AM 6:30 PM Shabbat Service/Bat Mitzvah of Alexis Samelson daughter of Tara & Jordan Samelson Temple Ballroom Friday, April 15 _ __ 8 PM Shabbat Service All Welcome! Saturday, April 16 _ _ _ 9:30 AM $36 per person Tot Shabbat Reservations required Friday, April 22 5:30 PM For Information, call Shabbat Service (Note early time!) Shari Cooper 917-861-6174 Saturday, April 23 _ 9:30 AM Torah Study Name: __________________________________ Friday, April 29 Passover Yizkor Service 10 AM # People Attending _______ Shabbat Service 8 PM Saturday, April 30 9:30 AM Amount enclosed _____ Bill my account ____ Torah Study 2 President’s Message Lifelong Learning In January, Rabbi Bellush and I had the opportunity to spend two days Adult Ed together in Chicago at the URJ Shallat Rabbinic Transition Program and Learning Center Retreat. This program, generously underwritten by the Shallat-Rapaport Foundation, was an opportunity for Wednesday, March 9 at 7:30 PM Rabbi Bellush and me to step back and assess our develop - ing partnership, and review our mutual vision for Am Professor Stanislao Pugliese Echad. Rabbi/President teams from all over the U.S. and will speak on the Canada joined us. We learned from each other and from specialists in the field of rabbinic transition and synagogue “Vatican and the Holocaust” management. I couldn’t possibly share with you everything we learned during those two very busy days but I wanted Professor Pugliese holds the position of to share a few key takeaways. Professor of History at Hofstra University and is 1. The relationship between a rabbi and a synagogue’s Queensboro Unico Distinguished Professor of leadership is a sacred one, and requires time and nurturing. Italian American Studies. Rabbi Bellush and I committed to working on our relation - He is also very well known in our own ship by setting aside time every week to check in with each community as the facilitator of the Foreign other, to always be honest with each other and, when nec - Policy Association Great Decisions Program at essary, to grant each other forgiveness. the Hewlett/Woodmere Library as well as being 2. Change, while often difficult, is inevitable. People don’t react to the change itself, they react to how the the author of many publications, including change and, more importantly, the transition is managed. several on Italian/Jewish issues such as “The At Am Echad we’ve seen our share of changes. Some of Jews of Italy.” them have been managed well, others could have been __________ handled better. As we move ahead, our goal is to manage upcoming changes and there will be more in a way that Programs with Rabbi Sandra Bellush respects where people are at along the continuum - from Three Wednesdays at 7:30 PM those who are resistant to those who are unsure to those March 30, April 13 & April 20 who are ready. 3. Listen, listen, listen. It’s critical to get input from We celebrate March as congregants as we continue to discover who we are as Temple Am Echad and who we want to be. Toward that Women’s History Month end, we have had some successful informal meet and greet when Rabbi Bellush will begin a sessions with Rabbi Bellush which have resulted in some series of discussions about very helpful and informative feedback. But that’s not “Lesser Known Women enough. We would like to know what you wish and hope of the Hebrew Bible.” Temple Am Echad could be. So I’m asking each and every one of you to complete the following sentence and email it Gentlemen in our congregation, to [email protected]: “At Temple Am please feel welcome to attend this Echad, I wish...” I can’t guarantee we will grant everyone’s informative Biblical seminar. wish but I look forward to hearing your thoughtful and creative ideas. Micky Friedman & Paul Kantrowitz, Adult Ed Co-Chair L’Shalom , ~ Lisa Burch Get fit! - Sit or Stand! with Instructor Andrea Wool Wednesdays at 10:15 AM ~ March 2 to 16, April 13 to May 18 Members: $6 per class, Non-Members: $8 per class Take one! Take all! 3 The first time might be a bit scary or unfamiliar but soon Membership Minute you will be amazed at how easy it is to raise that hand, So we are entering the Spring of the make that suggestion and have a role in getting an idea off year and by the time you are reading this, the paper and into actual practice.