Mikeitz 5772 December 24, 2011

A Taste of Stories For The Soul A Matter of Trust Never Give Up By Mordechai E. Fleisher word would have resulted in one year. Rabbi Soloveitchik disagreed; had In 1933, Rabbi Dovid Leibowitz Rabbi (1853- Yosef only said one word, he wouldn’t set out to do the seemingly impossible 1918) once asked Rabbi have been penalized at all! The reason, - to build a in America, where (1860-1939) a most intriguing question: he explained, is that Yosef wasn’t assimilation was rampant and people What would have happened if Yosef punished for putting in a basic request believed Torah was for the ghetto. would have said only one word? with the butler; one is obligated to make In this hostile environment, and A bit of background: At the close an effort to attain his material needs. in the terrible economic environment of last week’s parsha, Yosef successfully However, for Yosef, at his tremendously of the Great Depression, Reb Dovid interprets the mysterious dreams of refined spiritual level, two words were forged on despite incredible hard- Pharaoh’s butler and baker, together too much. Someone who had reached ship, and built and built and built. with whom he is imprisoned. He tells his heights should have sufficed with On December 5, 1941, a week be- the baker that he is to be executed, while one word; beyond this minimal effort, fore Chanuka, Reb Dovid passed away the butler will be restored to his former he should have relied upon Hashem. after a terrible illness. The burden of position. Yosef then makes a plea to the When he uttered the second word, his dream fell on his 26-year-old son, butler. “If only you would remember “vihizkartani”, the entire endeavor was Reb Henoch, who took over the helm me (zechartani) with yourself when a failure, and he was held accountable of the Chofetz Chaim Yeshiva. He he benefits you, and you will do me a for both words. served for 20 years, but the yeshiva kindness, if you please, and mention While most of us certainly cannot never quite got off the ground. Reb Henoch considered going me (vihizkartani) to Pharaoh, then claim to have such trust in G-d as to into a different area of Rabbinics you would get me out of this building rely upon such minimal levels of effort, which didn’t have the same issues, (40:14)”. we must still take an important lesson pressures and problems. After much At the start of this week’s parsha, the from Yosef. Since the sin of Adam in soul searching, he recalled that his Torah tells us that Yosef actually spent the Garden of Eden, G-d decreed that father had told him that leading the two more years in prison before he was mankind will have to work to make yeshiva was within his grasp and was recalled by the royal butler. Our Sages ends meet. Essentially, however, our the greatest thing he could do. Reb tell us that these two years were extra, livelihood and other material needs are Henoch strategized and revamped the beyond the period originally decreed by provided in the same fashion as prior to methods by which he led the yeshiva. Heaven. What did he to deserve these Adam’s sin: through Divine providence. The yeshiva began to turn around. two years? He said two words to the The sole difference is that in the post-sin Since then, the yeshiva has served butler: “Zechartani”, (remember me), era, there’s a Divine decree that in order thousands of students who have gone and “vihizkartani”, (mention me). This for G-d to bestow us with His goodness, on to serve thousands more. They request was considered excessive effort we must sweat. How much we sweat, have established branches and affili- on Yosef’s part; he should have relied on however, depends upon our level of ates of the yeshiva all over the world. Hashem instead of the butler. (see Rashi trust in G-d. To expend efforts beyond The Maccabis did not give up, and 40:23). the pale of normalcy is to display a lack Reb Dovid and Reb Henoch did not Which brings us back to Rabbi of basic trust that G-d will provide once give up. No matter how dark and des- Soloveitchik’s question: What would we have done our part. perate it seems, the light of Chanuka have happened if Yosef would have said is there to nurture the light that is al- only one word? ready deep within us. Rabbi Shkop replied that since he Adapted with permission from Shul- received two years for two words, one Week by Rabbi Baruch Lederman.

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