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VOL. 97 NO. 5 JULY/AUGUST 2018 TAMMUZ/AV/ELUL 5778

HazzanWelcome Randall Levin To Our Family! Mission Statement Temple Beth El is a vibrant and inclusive community of who join together for , education, celebration, mutual support and comfort, tikkun olam and acts of loving kindness. We are guided by and the principles of the Conservative movement. We are committed to our community, the State of Israel, and Jews around the world.

Vision Statement Our vision is that Temple Beth El will be an inspiring center of Conservative in which meaningful experiences and memories take root and grow.

Values Statement We are a welcoming and inclusive congregation. We value and respect each congregant and his or her personal journey in Judaism. We foster a sense of connectedness with our community. We value participation in all aspects of and Jewish life. Our congregation will be here for the entire Temple family now and for future generations.

Welcome to our house.

WEEKDAY SERVICES : Sunday: ...... 8:30 am Monday–Friday: ...... 7:30 am Rosh Hodesh: ...... 7:15 am Secular Holidays: ...... 8:30 am

Mincha/Ma’ariv: Sunday–Friday: ...... 6:00 pm 139 Winton Road South Rochester, NY 14610 SERVICES Phone: 585-473-1770 (beginning October 14, 2017 with Bereshit) tberochester.org : ...... 9:30 am facebook.com/TBEROCH Shacharit: ...... 10:00 am @tberochester Torah Service: ...... 10:30 am

Mincha/Ma’ariv: 1½ hrs prior to sunset TISHA B’AV SERVICE TIMES JULY 21 Ma'ariv and Eicha ...... 9:15 pm

JULY 22 Shacharit...... 8:30 am Mincha 1 ...... 2:00 pm Mincha 2 ...... 6:00 pm No Ma'ariv Fast ends at 9:33 pm

MAZEL TOV to our 2018 Confirmation Class as pictured here from left to right, Elijah Dietz, Allison Grosser and Joshua Fuller. Through specialized study with Bitran this year, as well as individual research projects, these students are now confirmed in their dedication to lifelong Jewish learning.

TAMMUZ/AV/ELUL 5778 | THE KOL 3 PRESIDENT'S MESSAGE It is both an honor and a privilege to begin my term as President of Temple Beth El. I am also equally as pleased to have the opportunity to introduce two new members of our Senior Staff, Hazzan Randall Levin and Jody Dietz, Limmud Religious School Director. Hazzan Levin comes to TBE with more than six years of experience as a lead and almost a decade of work in the Jewish community. He is a graduate of the University of Akron School of Music, the Cincinnati College-Conservatory of Music, and the H. L. Miller Cantorial School of the Jewish Theological Seminary. Randall, his wife, Emily, and their two boys, Henry and Michael are a welcome addition to our TBE family and the Rochester community.

Jody assumes the role of Limmud Religious School Director with a long history of and participation. She spent six months in Israel working and studying on Kibbutz Ein HaMifratz during college, served as the Executive Director of the New Jersey Region of HaShachar Young Judea for two years, and was a madricha for three American Zionist Youth Foundation Israel Summer programs. Jody earned her graduate degree in Industrial and Labor Relations from Cornell University. She previously worked for the Eastman Kodak Company and Hillside Family of Agencies where she held a variety of roles in Human Resources with a focus on Organizational Development and Learning. Jody also co-chaired our TBE Human Resources committee. I am excited for Jody to join the TBE leadership team and to help evolve our religious school program.

Religious Schools have long been a topic of discussion as continue to struggle with attendance and delivering meaningful, engaging content to our children. Responses to the struggle and critiques have varied over time, but the root cause of the challenge – our challenge – is one of unclear and conflicting expectations. For families, is religious school merely a place for children to associate with other Jews? Is it solely for training and preparation for B’nai – that milestone representing an end to when instead it should be a springboard? Is it a mandatory “must do” part of being Jewish? For educators, is the goal to develop Jewish identity or discover ways to enjoy being Jewish? Is it to motivate children to continue their Jewish education during high school, college, and beyond? Is it to learn Hebrew, Torah, or ?

Religious school is only one element of a full Jewish education experience. It is our combined responsibility as a congregation to offer all our members a variety of learning experiences from preschool/early childhood to adolescent and family programming, adult education to camps and retreats. Fostering opportunities that enable our congregants of all ages to encounter the richness of Jewish traditions, and to instill in themselves strong Jewish identities, commitments, and practices, is an important and worthy endeavor. We will undoubtedly find success in our combined efforts, commitment to each other, and in support of our TBE staff, educators, and .

I grew up at TBE – I am a product of attending religious school here and completing Midrasha. My Bar Mitzvah was here, I was married here, rejoiced in the naming and of children here and recently celebrated my daughter’s Bat Mitzvah here. Serving as President of this organization represents another chapter for me here and I am thankful for the opportunity.

I believe the future remains bright at TBE. Get involved – help us reach our highest potential.

L’Shalom – enjoy the summer! Marty Spokony

For highlights of the Minutes of the Board of Trustees Meeting, please go to tberochester.org.

4 THE KOL | JULY/AUGUST 2018 FROM THE DESK OF THE SENIOR RABBI It is with a full heart and pure excitement that I extend Hazzan Randall Levin, Emily and their children, Henry and Michael, greetings and well wishes as we welcome them all for a most successful tenure at Temple Beth El.

Temple Beth El strives to be a welcoming, inclusive, nurturing home for anyone interested in fostering relationships, learning our ancient history along with new modern rituals, and finding deep and enriching spiritual moments.

I sincerely hope that at Temple you and your children will find your community. It is in our religious services, Limmud Religious School, Torah Study opportunities, along with multiple life cycle events and holiday celebrations that we find our connections with one another and ultimately with God.

I am sure Hazzan Randall will add a new dimension to our services, High Holy Day worship, and community life and look forward to launching into this new chapter in our congregation’s history together.

I look forward to working together, strengthening our team of professionals, and sharing our path to holiness and fulfillment.

Hazzan Levin, Emily, Henry and Michael, welcome to your new home, welcome to Beth El.

Rabbi Leonardo Bitran

Remember Your Loved Ones... With a memorial plaque in the Sanctuary and Chapel. Plaques are dedicated during the service each year.

The cost for both is $600. Deadline for ordering plaques to be included in this year’s dedication is August 17, 2018

If you would like to order a plaque please contact Carol at 585-473-1770 or by email at [email protected].

TAMMUZ/AV/ELUL 5778 | THE KOL 5 NOTES FROM OUR HAZZAN. . . One of the unexpected highlights of my graduate training at the Cincinnati College- Conservatory of Music was the study of sonata form. As a young voice major, far more versed in Paul Simon’s Graceland than I was in Mozart’s 30th Symphony, I was, to say the least, not always overjoyed with my coursework in “Graduate Theory and Analysis.” But in studying Charles Rosen’s seminal work on the subject of sonata form, I found it fascinating that the emotions one feels when listening to music could actually be understood, and given greater meaning, through studying the large-scale musical forms. When I went on to study at the Jewish Theological Seminary, this approach would greatly enhance my ability to understand the Jewish liturgy as connected spiritual system, rather than merely a random collection of unrelated .

I won’t get into every detail of sonata form in this small space, but the basic premise is that the music starts out as a presentation of two competing musical ideas, or themes, in two different keys. In between the first theme and the second theme is a transition (what is called a bridge in pop music) that connects the two themes, and the two different keys. Next, there is a second section, called the development, where the ideas are, more or less, broken apart into their smaller component parts, and then repackaged in various ways. This is often a chaotic process, in which there is considerable tension, and also one in which some interesting possibilities are put forth. The last part of the sonata form is what’s called the recapitulation—a new presentation of the original themes in their entirety. In this second presentation, however, the two themes appear not in two different keys (as they did the first time) but in thesame key.

Notably, in between the two themes the second time around is a second transition, different from the first one, of course, since we are now imagining these two themes not in opposition to one other, but existing in the same dimension. The “job,” then, of the second transition is to facilitate a reality in which two apparently different ideas are hovering alongside one another as if they were meant to be heard together all along. This creates a very satisfying moment for the listener. In achieving this moment, it certainly helps if the composer has written two memorable, compelling themes. But what makes it all really “work,” is actually not the themes themselves, but the transitions, and how they effectively bridge the gap between one idea and another, ultimately determining whether we hear the two themes as being in two different keys or in the same key. This is where the real work and skill of a gifted composer becomes evident.

As summer fast approaches and I shift my attention from one pulpit to another, I can’t help but notice the connections between this musical form and the process of integrating new religious leadership into a community. While I am most certainly energized by the challenges of this opportunity, I am also humbled by the task. For as an ancient declares, “Kol hatchalot kashot: All beginnings are hard.” Change, no matter how exciting and full of possibility, is not easy.

Before long, our thoughts will turn to the High Holidays, which will serve in some ways, as a microcosm of this transition. Together, we will engage in a process of rediscovering what was, deciding what is to remain, and imagining what will be. Like the traveling through the wilderness, our transition may at times have moments of uncertainty and insecurity, of starts and stops, of complaints for needs not met, and demands to return to the old. Some will be reticent about moving forward. Others will want to move forward too fast.

The wilderness, though, can be a time of great creativity and of new voices being heard. What I can assure you, as I most humbly enter your community, is that your voices will indeed be heard. There will likely be moments when it seems like we are singing in different keys. You may be used to one model of what a Hazzan is and does, and my model may be different. What might have worked well in my previous congregations might not work well here. It takes time for a Hazzan to get to know a congregation and to become a true shaliach tzibbur. But I will hear you. Over time, I will become better attuned to your style and expectations, while you will get to know me and, hopefully, appreciate the gifts that I bring.

6 THE KOL | JULY/AUGUST 2018 I am most certainly looking forward to getting to know you all, and to hearing your voices, both as individuals, and as a group. Temple Beth El is a gem – a truly special, and most welcoming, community. Emily, Henry, Michael and I are delighted to now call Rochester our home, and to be a part of both the tradition and a dynamic future at Temple Beth El. Finally, I would be remiss if I did not mention how honored I am to be following in the footsteps of such extraordinary Hazzanim as Sam Rosenbaum and Martin Leubitz. I pray that, along with Rabbi Bitran, I will be able to serve each and every one of you in your own relationship with God, and the Jewish people, and in helping to continue the work of making Temple Beth El a place of learning, inspiration, transformation, connection, acceptance, and joy.

Hazzan Randall Levin

Please join us for a special Friday night BBQ as we welcome Hazzan Randall Levin!

FRIDAY NIGHT BBQ FRIDAY, JULY 13 Name(s) of all attending: ______SERVICES AT AT 6 PM ______DINNER AT 7 PM Address ______

Friday Night Live & Shabbat Dinner Phone______Adults (13 years and older): Email ______TBE Member @ $16 Allergies and dietary restrictions ______Non-Member @ $20 Please seat us with* ______* we will do our best to accommodate seating requests Kids’ Meals (12 and younger): _____ TBE Member @ $8 Payment Information: _____ Non-Member @ $12 Name on Card ______Card # ______Maximum cost per member family Exp. Date ______Sec. Code ______household _____ @ $50 Signature ______prices increase July 1.

TAMMUZ/AV/ELUL 5778 | THE KOL 7 YOUTH EDUCATION CORNER I am honored and privileged to have been selected as the new Limmud Religious School Director and I look forward to building on the rich history, deep tradition and commitment to educational excellence that have been the hallmark of Temple Beth El's religious school for decades. I have had the opportunity to meet quite a few parents during my tenure as the Interim Director and appreciate the feedback and creative ideas that have been shared. Parents interested in meeting with me, I welcome your calls, emails or visits if you wish to chat.

I am working very closely with the Education Committee to plan for the new school year. Together we are looking at the goals, structure and curriculum of Limmud. What follows is a sneak preview of what will be coming this fall. In September our teen program will no longer be called Koolanu. There will be just one religious school at Temple Beth El called Limmud for grades K-12. Work is underway to create a new curriculum for our teens that is meaningful, engaging and educational. We know that many of our teens enjoy opportunity to volunteer in the younger classrooms. We are currently developing a Madrich/a In Training (M.I.T.) Program for these teens. Applications for this exciting program along with information about required training will be available shortly.

It is very quiet in the hallways of Limmud this summer and we are missing the smiles, laughter and that our students share during the school year. While your children are enjoying some much needed relaxation, family vacations, time with friends and camp, we are busy preparing for the fall. Be sure to mark your calendars as our first day of classes will be on Wednesday September 12. We will celebrate the start of the school year with a school-wide picnic following Limmud on Sunday, September 16th. If you have not yet registered your child(ren) for the fall you can access the registration form online.

Temple Beth El remains committed to educational excellence and we are actively recruiting and hiring exceptional madrichim (leaders/teachers) to join our Limmud staff. There will surely be familiar faces in the halls of Limmud when school resumes along with some new ones. Professional development for our staff will be an area of focus throughout the school year as we work collaboratively to continuously build our shared knowledge and skills. We will participate in both community-wide training for Jewish educators, as well as offer Limmud specific ongoing learning programs.

A school is only as good as the partnerships that are established across staff, parents and students. Thus, improved communication with parents and greater opportunities for family engagement will be a priority in the coming school year. Specifically, we will host a Meet the Teacher Night in October, identify a room parent for each class, offer parent- teacher conferences and schedule class specific family programs and services throughout the academic year. Stay tuned for more details.

Learning the is a cornerstone of Limmud and we will be putting a greater emphasis on Hebrew instruction and differentiation this year. In September students will be assessed for their Hebrew reading, writing and comprehension and will receive appropriate differentiated instruction. This will provide opportunities for us to challenge our students who have higher than grade level Hebrew capability and to better support those who need extra help. Last Chance to apply We are looking forward to Hazzan Levin's arrival in July and hope that you will join us in welcoming him and his for Keshet/Limmud family at the outdoor Friday Night Service and barbecue dinner on Friday, July 13th and/or at Shabbat services on Scholarships! Saturday July 14th. As we look ahead to August we invite you and your family to join us for S'more's and Havdallah Apply online outside. I hope to see you at services this summer. In https://goo.gl/forms/x0q8T3JlVKJprowJ2. the meantime, whether you are travelling far or enjoying All applications must be completed by a staycation in Rochester, I wish you and your family a August 1, 2018. Contact Becca Zaretsky, wonderful summer. [email protected] with questions B'Shalom, Jody Dietz

8 THE KOL | JULY/AUGUST 2018 EARLY CHILDHOOD UPDATE

Our last few months of Keshet finished on a strong note! Our children spoiled their moms and dads during Donuts with Daddy and Mother’s Day Tea, and we had a spectacular send-off for our end of the year party! Special thanks goes to Laura Pullem and Sara Metz for co-chairing the end of year party themed “School’s Out- an Undersea Extravaganza!”. We wish our students graduating the best of luck in kindergarten. Camp is underway, at record breaking numbers, and so is Watermelon Wednesday! Our Watermelon Wednesday for the last week included a special tribute to Hazzan Leubitz, as we wish him farewell on his retirement! We are looking forward to Biffy Borg, the fire department, Shira Presberg from Song Leader Boot Camp, and some other exciting guests coming our way! Our camp themes include some old favorites including the ever-so-popular “Let’s Get Cooking!” and “Messy Art” as well as some new ones including “We’re Going to the Zoo”. The Seneca Park Zoomobile will be joining us for a live animal interaction! Spaces are limited, but there is still room to register! We are looking to start a new group for families with children who are under the age of 18 months. Come socialize with other parents of infants, have a light snack, and have some play time! Our first baby play group will be on Thursday, July 12 at 10:30 am in the muscle room. Please see me with any questions or any families that might be interested! Our enrollment for the school year is booming! We have enough two-year olds for two classes, and are looking forward to opening up a second room! There will be some great improvements in store! Finally, Tot Shabbat Summer edition is on August 10 at 5:30 followed by a dairy potluck dinner. Weather permitting, we will have an outdoor service! Please do not hesitate to contact me with any questions! We have a lot of exciting programs and offerings for the youngest members of Temple Beth El.

L’Shalom, Mandi Warner

Watermelon Wednesdays Join us at our playground for summer storytime, activities, fun with friends and watermelon! Featuring a special guest each week!

JUNE 20 - BUTTERFLY KIDS YOGA

JUNE 27 - HAZZAN LEUBITZ

JULY 11- BIFFY BORG, PJ LIBRARY

JULY 18 - CITY OF ROCHESTER FIRE DEPARTMENT

JULY 25 - ALEX REEDER & HILLEL

AUGUST 1 - ROCHESTER POLICE DEPARTMENT

AUGUST 8 - SHIRA PRESBERG WITH SONG LEADER BOOTCAMP

TAMMUZ/AV/ELUL 5778 | THE KOL 9 Temple Beth El Communit NEWS & EVENTS

Friday Night BBQ JULY 13 | SERVICES AT 6 PM, DINNER AT 7 PM

Please join us for a special BBQ Friday night dinner as we welcome Hazzan Randall Levin!

Pride Shabbat SATURDAY, JULY 21 To coincide with the Roc Pride week we invite you to join us for a Shabbat service to support and celebrate the LGBTQ community.

Dairy Potluck Tot Shabbat MONDAY, AUGUST 10

Bring a dairy dish in a disposable container to pass for Shabbat dinner following services. Services and dinner will be outside, weather permitting.

USL Soccer THURSDAY, AUGUST 16 | 5:30 PM

Come see some soccer with us! Watch for details!

S’mores and Havdalah

SATURDAY, AUGUST 18 | 7:30 PM–9:30 PM Enjoy outdoor activities and refreshments ending with a rousing Havdallah service

10 THE KOL | JULY/AUGUST 2018 SAVE THE DATE | MONDAY, AUG 6 Second Annual Joint Golf Outing and Kosher Dinner in memory of Jay Cohen

Eagle Vale Golf Course, Fairport, NY Golf and Dinner: $125 | Dinner only: $50 9am...... Registration, team pictures 10am...... Shotgun tee start (Lunch at Eagle Vale Golf Club included) 4pm...... Hors D'oeuvres at Temple Beth El (139 Winton Rd S.) 5pm...... Kosher Steak/Chicken/Salmon/Veggie Meal at Temple Beth El (139 Winton Rd S.)

Registration/sponsor forms are available online at: tbdrochester.org and tberochester.org

TAMMUZ/AV/ELUL 5778 | THE KOL 11 B’NAI MITZVAH MAX ARI SPENCER Bar Mitzvah Date: August 18, 2018 Parents: Jeanne & Brad Spencer Siblings: Molly Spencer

Max is excited to be called up to the bimah in celebration of his Bar Mitzvah. He enjoys kayaking, swimming and biking. Max has performed in two musicals and likes acting and photography. His favorite part of summer is 1st session at Camp Seneca Lake.

MAZAL TOV Congratulations to ROCHELLE & SHLOMO GABAY on the marriage of their daughter, Alexandra Gabay to Jaryn Tanner on April 2, 2018. And congratulations to Alexandra's sister, Aliza (Corey) Josephson; and to the Jaryn's parents, Amanda & Jarod Tanner, grandparent, Mildred Schreiber.

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12 THE KOL | JULY/AUGUST 2018 SCENES FROM OUR ANNUAL MEETING

For highlights of the Minutes of the Board of Trustees Meeting, please go to tberochester.org.

OFFICERS 2018-2019 NEW BOARD OF TRUSTEES 2018 OUTGOING OFFICERS President: Martin Spokony Roberta Feldman Marc Haas Vice President: Debi Brenner Irwin Goldberg Lisa Maas-Vangellow Vice President: Gerald Gamm Nancy Krieger Vice President: Abe Glazer Jason Reynolds OUTGOING BOARD OF TRUSTEES Vice President: Sara Ressler Adam Saks Eric Brandt Treasurer: Michael Phillips Evan Spindelman David Dworkin Secretary: Matt Ryen Allison Warren Scott Green Lisa Pelta Leonard Stein

TAMMUZ/AV/ELUL 5778 | THE KOL 13 MEN'S CLUB

Men’s Club of Temple Beth El Involving Jewish Men in Jewish Life

Looking Ahead: Red Wings Baseball Game

JULY 30 | 7:05 PM Join us for our annual outing at Frontier Field to cheer on the Red Wings while schmoozing and eating. July 30 at 7:05 pm. $10 per person. Call the office for more details.

Looking further ahead: Looking at you: We’re planning a Red Cross Blood Drive To continue doing all we want to do, we need your ideas, your energy, and your and an electronics recycling event. See the commitment. Join the club! Annual dues are only $36.00 (first year free for weekly bulletins and your email for details. new members) and every penny goes to our various programs (such as buying that new TV). Come to our meetings (first Sunday of each month, following morning ). Help support TBE and Jewish Rochester!

And become one in a minyan! TBE proudly offers services twice daily. Few synagogues can make that claim. Make sure this continues by committing to attend at least one evening (or morning) service a week. Or volunteer to be called on an “as needed” basis by leaving your name and phone number with the office.

Help keep TBE a home of spiritual strength and social engagement.

14 THE KOL | JULY/AUGUST 2018 SISTERHOOD Calendar JULY 2018 SEPTEMBER 2018 8 Board Meeting 10-Noon Happy New Year to All No Sisterhood Meetings this month AUGUST 2018 01 Selichot 19 Board Meeting 10-Noon 09 Erev Rosh Hashanah 10/11 Rosh Hashanah 18 Erev 19 Yom Kippur Just Judaica 24 Sukkot! The gift shop is open for the TBE Sisterhood summer by appointment BEREAVEMENT QUILT In the last edition of the KOL, there was a beautiful picture, taken by Jessie Atkin, displayed of the bereavement quilt designed and created by a Sisterhood group in the course of the last year. We extend grateful appreciation to the women skilled in needle arts who contributed to this effort: Janice Greenberg, The Conference Was Great! Tova Moonay, Ester Tobochnik, Esther Smalline, Martha Supnik, THE INR (INTERNATIONAL NORTHEAST Athene Goldstein, Judy Schulman, and Dvorah Kolko. We REGION) annual conference was hosted by the TBE especially appreciate the inspiration of Peggy Blumenthal, who Sisterhood at the close of April 2018. With the help of brought this project to us and has been the sponsor of this effort. strong coordinating committees focused on food and program a time for learning and reflection was enjoyed The quilt offers a third option by all. for families who have lost a loved one: the traditional pall, Conference offers an opportunity for participants to an American Flag for a veteran, improve their leadership skills and gain exposure to and the bereavement quilt. Educational and Community Service programs they may wish to use as models for their own programs. The opportunity to worship together and to engage in Torah Study with Rabbi Bitran enriched our experience. The pleasure of having time to visit with folks we do not see Book Club often is the heart of Conference for many. WEDNESDAY, SEPT 26 | 7:30 PM Two highly rated programs were “TBE grown:” The Rosh Hodesh Group and the PAD Project (which our To start the new year, we will be reading TBE Sisterhood does in concert with National Council Backpack, A Bear and eight Crates of of Jewish Women and to which our congregation as Vodka, by Lev Golinken. Join your book a whole contributed). Kudos were offered throughout club friends and Athene Goldstein for a the conference for the exemplary food, gluten free discussion of this book . options for all those needing them and the general “deliciousness” of all the gustatory delights presented. We’ll meet at Marcia Naubut's home, Sisterhood extends thanks to the Office and Facilities 10 Danbury Circle North. staff for helping us to set up rooms and for keeping everything on track and in good working order as our Questions? 271-4189 or [email protected] conference was held.. These are the folks who support us and help in every way.

Thank you to the Beth El congregation for welcoming Thank You... us to this beautiful building. It was the “buzz” in the To all the members who donated feminine hygiene products, background especially as people visited the Sanctuary. you made our Pad Party a great success during the conference.

TAMMUZ/AV/ELUL 5778 | THE KOL 15 TODAH RABBAH CONTRIBUTIONS* TO TEMPLE BETH EL FUNDS THAT ARE WORTH MENSCHEN-ING

Every contribution to a EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR'S For the Yahrzeit of Isaac Schechterman Temple Beth El Fund is worth DISCRETIONARY FUND Beth M Elkin menschening. However, we can For the Yahrzeit of Helen Gould For the Yahrzeit of Leya Spivak Bette Gould-Ross Ronald Spivak only publish those that are $10 or For the Yahrzeit of Ann R. Spiller For the Yahrzeit of Shlomo Tubman more. The contributions listed Burton Spiller Raisa Tubman were received between March For the Yahrzeit of Ethel Winters Daniel Winters 17 and May 4, 2018. If your GENERAL FUND Donation For the Yahrzeit of Bronya Zatz contribution is not listed, please Stephen Goldman Raisa Tubman call the TBE Office, we will correct Donation Anniversary of Mike and Terri In honor of Julian Goldstein's 60th birthday it in the next KOL issue. Terri and Michael Rosenhouse Chuck, Lynn, Michelle, Marissa & Aaron Mills For the Yahrzeit of Abraham Beckerman In honor of Yizkor Pesach Murray Beckerman Diana Kastenbaum AARON GABAY CHILDREN'S For the Yahrzeit of Max and Toby Bittker In honor of Shavuot Yizkor GARDEN FUND Frederick Dushay Diana Kastenbaum Donation Susan Barnett Birthday For the Yahrzeit of Genya Braslavskiy In memory of Estelle Goldman Ms. Susan Barnett Janet Tubman Wendy and Jack Scull For the Yahrzeit of Ethel Lefberg For the Yahrzeit of Aaron and Leah Dushay In memory of Aleksandr Poyurovskiy Barbara and Sam Waldman Frederick Dushay Yudif Poyurovskaya For the Yahrzeit of Leonard Relin For the Yahrzeit of Anita Bittker Dushay Ms. Susan Barnett Frederick Dushay HAZZAN’S DISCRETIONARY FUND For the Yahrzeit of Bernard Waldman For the Yahrzeit of Dr. Seymour L. Dushay For the Yahrzeit of Saundra Braitman Barbara and Sam Waldman Frederick Dushay Ann Goodman For the Yahrzeit of Faibish Weidenfeld For the Yahrzeit of Basya Falkovich For the Yahrzeit of Samuel Brodsky Miriam Weidenfeld David Falkovich Eileen and Michael Grossman For the Yahrzeit of Lillian Dinaberg Wetzstein For the Yahrzeit of Morton M. Feldman For the Yahrzeit of Mary Rose Gordon, Marcia Stern Florence Feldman beloved Aunt For the Yahrzeit of Bella Zysman For the Yahrzeit of Barbara Goldberg Sandy and Phyllis Kravetz Miriam and Lloyd Krieger Gerald Russ For the Yahrzeit of Rachel Leah Gordon For the Yahrzeit of Samuel Goldstein Phyllis and Sandy Kravetz BUILDING FUND Julian Goldstein For the Yahrzeit of Miriam Gould For the Yahrzeit of Albert R. Barnett For the Yahrzeit of Irwin Hoffman Lynn and Arnold Goldman Ms. Susan Barnett Harry Hoffman For the Yahrzeit of Ethel Kestenblatt For the Yahrzeit of Donald Brandt For the Yahrzeit of Jimmie Kastenbaum Susan and Robert Simon Eric Brandt Diana and Hiram Kasten For the Yahrzeit of Nathan Korus For the Yahrzeit of Lillian Markus For the Yahrzeit of Marsha Kastenbaum Estelle Fisher Lawrence Markus Diana and Hiram Kasten Marvin Korus For the Yahrzeit of Molly Smalline For the Yahrzeit of Arthur Lazoff For the Yahrzeit of Stanley Levinson Esther Smalline Savedoff Family Helen Levinson For the Yahrzeit of Nehama Makhnovskaya For the Yahrzeit of Ida Schwartz DAVID E SADICK JEWISH Yudif Poyurovskaya Phyllis Kasdin ENVIRONMENTAL FUND For the Yahrzeit of Yakov Makhnovskiy For the Yahrzeit of Feiga Spivak For the Yahrzeit of Rhea Sadick Yudif Poyurovskaya Feliks Spivak Dorothy and Robert Sadick For the Yahrzeit of Issie Morgenstern For the Yahrzeit of Bella Zysman Helen Hecker Daniel Zysman EARL GOLDSTEIN TORAH For the Yahrzeit of Bruce Newman In honor of Lynn & Arnold Goldman's 1st MEMORIAL FUND Helene Newman great-granddaughter, Anna Maya Finkel Carol and Michael Hirsh For the Yahrzeit of Philip Salit For the Yahrzeit of Two People Marilyn Salit Diana Kastenbaum In honor of Lisa Kasdin's special birthday Carol and Michael Hirsh In honor of Alan Goldstein For the Yahrzeit of Jonathan Rickless Marlene and Ross Elkin Julian Goldstein In honor of Hazzan Martin Leubitz Judy and Alan Wertheimer In honor of Aviva Skye Goldstein For the Yahrzeit of Celia Savedoff Alan Goldstein Savedoff Family Tillie Levinson In memory of Jerry Caplan In memory of Robert Oster For the Yahrzeit of Lydia G. Savedoff Ann Goodman Marilyn Salit Savedoff Family

16 THE KOL | JULY/AUGUST 2018 KESHET NURSERY FUND For the Yahrzeit of Hyman Swartz In honor of Henra Briskin for sponsoring For the Yahrzeit of Bessie Baker Milton Swartz Richard W Briskin Cantor-in-Residence Sue Ann Baker In appreciation of Estor and Terry's kindness. program For the Yahrzeit of Morry Baker Phyllis Cohen Myra Berlowitz Sue Ann Baker In honor of Sandy Appelbaum’s Birthday In honor of Henra Briskin and all the For the Yahrzeit of Robert Baker Mr. Sanford Appelbaum participants in the Briskin Concert Sue Ann Baker In honor of Deborah Gallant’s Birthday Peggy Blumenthal & Ronald Gould For the Yahrzeit of Herbert Schwerberg Mrs. Deborah Gallant In honor of Henra Briskin Renee Alper In honor of Logan Hiller's Bat Mitzvah June Rapowitz In appreciation of Keshet Teachers Staci and Aaron Hiller In honor of Richard W. Briskin Michelle and Aaron Baker In memory of Sylvia Leonard Cantor-in-Residence Program Jerome Barczykowski Faye Herr Andrew J. Kirch Trust Patricia and Gabriel Chodak Maxine and Jerry Rosen Courtney and Michael Cornell L D SCHACHT MINYAN/CHAPEL FUND Elise and Steve Rosenfeld Shannon and Dan Cunniffe In memory of Philip Dickman Joan and Arthur Segal Ashley and Thomas Frye Letty Gail Schacht Elaine and Leonard Simon Taylor and Josh Futerman In honor of Myrna LaBaer's birthday Kate and Jonathan Goldstein LIBRARY FUND Fran and Arnold Henry Sarah and Andrew Gordon For the Yahrzeit of Jean W. Patiky In honor of Hazzan Leubitz and all the Aileen and Ben Koffman Elaine Patiky participants in the Briskin Concert Bine't and Paul Lorenz Peggy Blumenthal & Ronald Gould Sarah and Matthew Lynch NEIL NORRY MEMORIAL In memory of Richard Briskin Catherine and Josh Manelis CAMPERSHIP FUND Ellen Hagelberg Lauryn and Sean McCabe For the Yahrzeit of Charlotte B. Cohen Phyllis Kasdin Meg and Gregory Pheterson Louise Epstein Laura and Eric Pullem For the Yahrzeit of Phyllis Ann Cohen RABBI BITRAN’S Ellie and Matt Reinert Louise Epstein DISCRETIONARY FUND Sara and Darren Ressler For the Yahrzeit of Bess Whittaker Donation Louise Epstein Paulette and Jason Reynolds Lisa and Edward Pelta Stacie and Adam Saks In honor of Helen Schreier & Sy Zivan's For the Yahrzeit of Samuel Brodsky Eileen and Michael Grossman Sarah Schlagman wedding. Hannah and Arnold Rosenblatt For the Yahrzeit of Abraham Cohen Aviva and Arie Schochat Barbara and Irving Cohen Aviva and Arie Schochat PRAYER BOOK FUND For the Yahrzeit of Miriam G. Gould Michelle and Jeremy Smith Lewis J. Gould Marni and Jason Stephens In memory of Mildred Perloff Dr. and Mrs. Neil Greenberg For the Yahrzeit of Mrs. Ida K. Gould Emily and Jeff Vinocur Lewis Gould Anonymous RICHARD W. BRISKIN For the Yahrzeit of Ruth Pressman Lansky CANTOR-IN-RESIDENCE FUND Ellen Lansky KIDDUSH FUND Donation For the Yahrzeit of Abraham Melter Donation Joan and Richard Markus Dick and Bea Rosenbloom Linda Epstein For the Yahrzeit of Henry J. Alderman For the Yahrzeit of Charles Myers Ms. Heather Hedges Rosalyn Schreiber Perry Myers For the Yahrzeit of Robert J. Pollan For the speedy recovery of Abbey Rasnick For the Yahrzeit of Miriam Corris Lee Pollan Marilyn Manis Barbara Kaplan For the speedy recovery of Susan Zauderer For the Yahrzeit of Judy S. Sandler For the Yahrzeit of Arlene Gordon Jack Sandler Molla and Ralph Carr Faye Herr Barbara Freeman For the Yahrzeit of Frank J. Shames For the Yahrzeit of Lisa Beth Krieger Phyllis Korn For the Yahrzeit of Ruth Boyar The Clarksons Barb and Steve Schron For the Yahrzeit of Samuel Smith For the Yahrzeit of Jacob Lederman Geraldine Appelbaum For the Yahrzeit of Anne Garfinkel Pauline Wasserman Ellen Garfinkel For the Yahrzeit of Samuel B. Spiller For the Yahrzeit of Lawrence Meyers Burton Spiller For the Yahrzeit of Ruth Green Freda and Joseph Meyers For the Yahrzeit of Mary Temkin Martha and Bruce Green For the Yahrzeit of Baruch Reitzfeld Robert Temkin For the Yahrzeit of H. Jerry Lavender Ezriel Reitzfeld In honor of Lynn & Arnold Goldman Martha Green For the Yahrzeit of Lea Reitzfeld on the birth of their great granddaughter, For the Yahrzeit of Morry Natal Ezriel Reitzfeld Anna Finkel Mildred Natal & Family For the Yahrzeit of Mendel Reitzfeld Phyllis Greenstine For the Yahrzeit of Anne Perlman Ezriel Reitzfeld Barbara Freeman For the Yahrzeit of Hyman Wasserman For the Yahrzeit of Martin Reingold Pauline and Ezriel Reitzfeld Beverly and Larry Glass In appreciation of The Richard Briskin For the Yahrzeit of Michael Alan Rosenbaum Cantorial Concert Program Esther and Harvey Rosenbaum Judy and Alan Wertheimer For the Yahrzeit of Bessie Spector Gary Gottfried

TAMMUZ/AV/ELUL 5778 | THE KOL 17 RABBI HYMAN & S. LASKER SCHOLARSHIP FUND Ira understands your family’s needs For the speedy recovery of Arlene Stolnitz Brad and Mort Kolko For the Yahrzeit of Miriam Gould Proven Performance with... Dvorah Kolko For the Yahrzeit of Hyman Price Ira Jevotovsky Licensed Real Estate Associate Valerie Price Ciufo & Philip Ciufo or In honor of Carol Rosenberg's 90th birthday Call: 585-389-1029 Cell 230-1187 Dvorah Kolko Email: [email protected] www.SoldByIra.com Before After SCHOLARSHIP FUND Ira understands your family’s needs For the Yahrzeit of Sam Chazanoff Nina Chazanoff Proven Performance with... For the Yahrzeit of Morton M. Feldman Roberta and David Feldman Ira Jevotovsky Licensed Real Estate Associate or For the Yahrzeit of Isidore Trachtenberg Call: 585-389-1029 Nina Chazanoff Cell 230-1187 Email: [email protected] www.SoldByIra.com Before After SIDNEY LEVINSON YOUTH MEMORIAL FUND In memory of Max Levine Caryl Levinson Weiss & Richard Levinson Establishing a New Tradition TBE FOUNDATION For the Yahrzeit of Sandra Temkin Robert Temkin

TBE LEGACY FUND Donation Simon Makon Charitable Trust Makon Estate Donation Frieda Makon Chariable Trust Rochester's Jewish Funeral Home Makon Estate Graveside, Temple or Chapel Services. Mazel Tov to Julian Goldstein for Now maintining the PARSKY records Julian's Birthday Erinn and Matthew Ryen

TBE PROGRAMMING FUND 427-8520 For the Yahrzeit of Ida K. Gould 3325 Winton Road South Deborah Goldman www.BrightonMemorialChapel.com For the Yahrzeit of Miriam Gould Deborah Goldman For the Yahrzeit of Elliott Landsman Deborah Goldman For the Yahrzeit of Sol Landsman Debby Goldman In honor of Rachel & Alex Finkel on the birth of their daughter, Anna Maya Debby Goldman In honor of Rachel & Alex Finkel on the birth of their daughter, Anna Maya Debby Goldman Home, Auto, Business, Flood Insurance In honor of Anna Maya's birth 6843 Pittsford Palmyra Road Debby Goldman Fairport, NY 14450

WEINTRAUB MEMORIAL FUND Phone: (585)442-4130 For the Yahrzeit of Marion Slate Diana and Phil Weintraub Fax: (585)244-0664 For the Yahrzeit of Irving I. Weintraub Weintraub Family In honor of Norman Lurie's 80th Birthday www.lombardceci.com Barbara and Martin Lipsky In memory of Max Levine The Weintraub Family

18 THE KOL | JULY/AUGUST 2018 YAHRZEITS… Dates are determined according to the . The names will be listed in the Shabbat program booklet on the date listed.

JULY 7 David Wainer Leon H. Sturman Jerome S. Smalline Jacob Umansky Sol Aiole Max Widawski Jacob Walenitz Benjamin Stein William Weisberg Lester Appelbaum Joseph Wolitzky Fannie Weinstein Diana Weiser Simon Weissager Doriene Baker Morton Zivan Florence Azoff Wish Irving Weltman Larry Wolfson Fanny Berger Eileen D. Wolff Jack Wynar Donald M. Wolin Morris Braverman Robert Wolff David Russell Zinkin Thelma B. Wolk Morton Brodsky JULY 14 Edward Wronker Estelle Zimmerman Jacob Buff Samuel Aiole Morris Zeger Milton Cohen Norman R. Aronson Ester JULY 28 Sophie Dasevschi Jacob Baldwin Kalman Zohar Dorah Ball AUGUST 4 Lillian B. Diamond Hyman Barnet Jenny M. Barash Harry L. Albert Anna Eissenstat David Becker Max M. Berger Anna Baldwin Kate Endlich Max Bernhard JULY 21 Samuel Borisoff William Berger Jack A. Erdle Molly Bresloff Juan Abrahamson Genya Burd Benjamin S. Black Alfred Feltman Hena Gewertz Bromberg Sarah Abramow Max Clonick Betty Block Leah J. Fernandez Dorothy B. Bunis Fae Abramowitz Rosella Cohen Nathan Carr Anna K. Fink Harry Capell Freida Braverman Maurice Davidson Pearl Cohen Harry Fox Gary Cassorla Sarah Bresloff Marion M. Doner Max Coleman Laibe Freeman Mamie Cilman Morris Bushinsky Herman Dworsky Hyman Dankner Havah Gilderman Irene V. Clifton Mollie Caplin Ida Edelberg Frieda Davidson Abram P. Goldstein Ethel Cohen Arthur Cohen Max Edelson Al Ellowitch Rhoda Helene Goldstein Henry Cohen Donald Paul Cohen Louis Feinstein Mordecai Epstein Bernard Greenberger Jack Cohen Henry Cohen Lillian Feshbach Benjamin Farber Zohar Harary Leon Charles Cohen Max F. Cowan Belle L. Forman Dorothy Fink Joshua Hollander Moses Cohen James M. Davis Michele Baker Freed Meyer Fix Theodore R. Holstein Rose Cohen Aaron Eden Ephraim Freedman Ruth Forman Hillel L. Horn Ora Diamond Sadie G. Friedson Sarah Gastel Ezra Frankel Sandra F. Hurwitz Herman Elbaum Louis Gamm Sylvia Greenberg Adolph Friedman Dorothy G. Kahan Julius Esterman Anna Goldman Philip Greenstine Sandra Gamm Melvin Kahan Juana Farber Sadie Gertrude Goldman Betty Gutkin Howard Garaventi Oscar Kaplan Roberta Freifeld Marvin N. Goldstein Etta Hitter David H. Goldman Deborah Burstein Karp Hersch Gewertz Ben Grace Hilda Horwich Jeanette Goldstein Gilbert Kasdin Adele Greenberg David Louis Greenberg Feigi Iskovitz Max Gonsenhauser Nissan Kaufman Etta Rubens Greenberg Samuel Gross Leibish Isaac Iskovitz Lillian Goodman Samuel Kaufman Hyman Greenberg Ida Handelman Rifka R. Kaplan Nathan Greenberg Sally Kleeberg Irving R. Grundstein Gert Harrison Gerald R. Katz Raye Grossman Jacob J. Estelle Handelman David L. Hathaway Carol Joyce Winn Kaye Anne Harris Robert Korenstein Isidore Held Goldie Henry David Komenski Louis Hoffman Jacob Kowal Efim Lekhter Morris Hoffman Selma Levis Isadore Illman Alfred Kravetz Hyman Lisson Jean Kamin Hyman Levison Muriel A. Katz Frieda Krieger Celia L. Maltinsky Sanford Kent Mildred G. Mace Liza Katzowicz Sarah Lederman Herman Mand Sam Kinel Dorothy Manson Eva Kaufman Fannie Alderman Libglid Alexander Mann Itta Koretskaya Aaron Mellman Beverly Kolko Jacob Massachi Maurice Melin Herman Kutner Meyer A. Miller Morris Kravetz Fred Mayer Arthur A. Michlin Fannie Landsman Sherwin Morris Eunice Krieger Mary Blume Meyer Anna Miller Lottie W. Lasky Henry Neivert Boris Kublanov Michael Mittleman Elkan Munter Louis Lefberg Israel Osband Irving Kurz Eleanor Myers Belle Nusbaum Joseph Legumsky Sonia Phillips Benjamin Kusler Albert Newman Leonard J. Nusbaum Mae H. Levine Beryl M. Oser Present Rabbi Hyman M. Lasker Paula Posen Lester Nusbaum Ida Mann Charles N. Rapfogel Yale Sander Lewine Max Rosenbaum Ella S. Oken Sally M. Mayer Abraham J. Reich Harold Lipson Mollie Rosenbaum Philip Okun Sonia Morgan Arlayne Rogoff Anna Marder Samuel Sacks Bernard Rose Charles Naditz Ruth Sandler Mortimer F. Miller William M. Savedoff Margot Roth Seymour Pollan Morris Schaft Henry Morris Milton Schacht Esther Rubin Ida B. Rapp Donald F. Schneiderman Nathan Olenikow Michael Sklar Vera Sandburg Morris Raskind Louis Schulder Paul Philipp Thelma Ring Smith Morris Saperstone Rose Rechter Bernice Schwartz Jerold Jay Relin Anna Solomon Sam Schulman Manfred Rosenstein Samuel C. Shoolman Seymour S. Rosenhouse Joan Soloway Sheri Schwartz Julius Rutchik William Stein Abe Rudnick Samuel Stein Raye Kass Smith Maurice Schlossman Morris Sweedler Jack Sanow Robert Sussman Joseph H. Stern Sarah Rachel Shamaskin Abram Tabachnick Dorothy Simon Shamaskin Millicent K. Tanenbaum Harry Stoler Albert A. Silbermann Bertha Esther Taffel Louis A. Shorr David Von Perlstein Rebecca Stonefield Harry Slavny Abraham J. Tatelbaum Marion Silverman

TAMMUZ/AV/ELUL 5778 | THE KOL 19 Theodore Stark AUGUST 18 AUGUST 25 Minnie Taksen Eugene J. Allyn Isadore P. Appelbaum Ze'ev Taksen Herman Jacob Auspitz Steven Aronson Matilda Tobochnik Miriam Pollack Braunstein Etta Barnet Julian Vogel Louis Brener Norma Berger Melville Waltzer Dora Brill Sylvia Berkov Alexander Weissager Betty Brodsky Joseph Bernstein Elizabeth L. Wishman Ida Brody Esther R. Brudno Benjamin Wolin Joseph Byer Martha Bruner Sol Wolitzky Albert A. Clonick Anna Cohen Miriam Yasinow Raye Clonick David Cohen Abraham Zisser Nathan Comisar Eugene Cohen Rose Diamond William H. Cohen Anita Dushay Harry Cornell AUGUST 11 Sidney Esterson Yontiff Dasevschi Isadore Alpert Selma Flaum Esther Diamond Sidney Altman Jakob Flicker Samuel Garfinkel Jonathan M. Birnbaum Michael Futerman Evel Gelman Bella Borovoy Anna L. Gaffe Leon Germanow Richard Briskin Theodore Gersz Isadore Gertzog Gertrude Cohen Bertha G. Goldstein Anna Gold Naomi Cohen Henrietta Goss Perry Goldberg Esther Davis David Greenberg Hermann Goldfarb Sarah Davis Esther S. Handelman Leonard L. Green Libbie Diamond Maurice Hardy Pearl S. Gross Harry Eber Sylvia Heicklen Leonard Grossman Bertha Fayer Kenneth Hollander Doris C. Kanter David Fayer Etta Joroslow Adam Seth Kogan Sadye Fritt Jacob Joroslow Judith Lynne Kogan Dorothy Gamm Jennie C. Kaplan Rae Komisar Katherine Goldberg Samuel A. Katz Louis Konoff Bertha M. Goldstein Max Katzowicz Robert M. Korpeck Nelson Goldstein Florence W. Kirsch Ida Kozel Solomon Golub Anna Kirshenbaum Fred B. Kravetz Albert Greenberg Helene Kirzenbaum Sol Lederman Eva Heicklen Burton Samuel Kolko Sadie Levi Pauline Hollander Bernard Kozel Arlean Levinson Sam Jevotovsky Victor Lazarus Donna Levinson Reva Nagan Joffee Minnie Legumsky Harold Lewinson Benjamin Klein Allen Lesser Minnie Manning Ida W. Leichtner Anna M. Lubitow Kaethe Mayer Louis J. Ligotti Frieda Mandell Gloria Miller Arthur Maas Edna Marcus Rose Musicus Haskel G. Manson Phyllis Mashioff Fanny Obstein Minnie Marine Betty Moskov Harold R. Paley Eric Meier Milton Olshinsky Ludwig Rheinstein Harry Melin Donna S. Pratt Mark Rosenbloom Rocky Newman Barney D. Rapp Irving Ross Helen Levitz Presberg Tillie Rose Moses A. Roxin Betty Ruth Raines Fanny Rosenthal Mildred Lena Sachs Esther G. Robfogel Dena Rotenberg Ida E. Sanow Sanford Rothman Thekla Samuel Marion M. Shapiro Philip Rudolph Leah Sadick Samuels Noah Shapiro Etta Schulman Albert Schiffrin Ben Shatoff Bernard Shapiro Martha Miller Schwartz William Shulkin Ann Simon Sumner Shechet Rebecca Sklar Rosa Spivak Jennie Shoolman Jacob Stein Marcia Stein Harry A. Spector Jacob Tanzman Samuel Turk Aliza Stark Joseph Taschman Marilyn Wasserman Meyer Stein Major Tyser Israel Weinbach Joseph Taksen Meyer Umansky Sylvia Weinberg David M. Teichler Morris Weinstein Josephine Wronker Analisa Weiss Samuel S. Weinstein Stanley Yules Bessie Weltman Minnie Westheimer Anatoliy Zeldich Greta Wortsman Rose Witrack Rachel Zimmerman Karen D. Zivan

20 THE KOL | JULY/AUGUST 2018 CONDOLENCES We record with sorrow the passing of:

JUDITH K. ALDERMAN (KUSLER), Z’L Aunt of several nieces and nephews.

BETTY K. LAVENDER, Z’L Mother of Martha Green (Bruce); Sharon Lavender Ward (Michael), Steven Lavender (Rachel) and Susan Lavender Fornara (Chris); grandmother of seven; great-grandmother of four.

GLENNA B. SPINDELMAN, Z’L Mother of Evan Spindelman (Monique), Margot Spindelman (Mark), Erica Spindelman (Michael) & Claudia Blumenstock; grandmother of seven; sister of Daniel Burkitt (Judy).

GERTRUDE L. SHEINFELD, Z'L Mother of Dr. Sherri Sheinfeld Gorin (Brian Gorin) and Stephen (Jane Fried) Sheinfeld; grandmother of Aaron (Michael) Gorin, Rabbi Evan Moshe (Chana) Gorin, Michael, David, Jonathan, and Andrew Sheinfeld; great-grandmother of Akiva, Temima, Shira, Talia, Esther, and Abraham; sister of Gloria (Ernest) Beren.

CHARLES KAPLAN, Z'L Husband of Daryl Salzman Kaplan; father of Jeffery Kaplan and Robert (Rebecca) Kaplan; grandfather of Eitan, Aviva, Rafi, and Foss Kaplan; brother-in-law of Marc and Betti Salzman, step-brother of Dennis Rinzler; cousin of Charles (Lynn) Mills.

May their souls be bound up in the bond of life.

HIPPA regulations prevent hospitals from alerting us when someone is ill. If you would like a clergy visit please contact us in the office at 473-1770

from one generation to the next… for our future. For over 100 years Temple Beth El has been an integral part of the Rochester Jewish community. To ensure that the life of the temple continues to flourish the L’Dor V’Dor Giving Society has been established to recognize donors who provide for the future of the congregation through a planned gift.

Temple Beth El’s L’Dor V’Dor society works in partnership with the Life and Legacy program, of the Harold Grinspoon Foundation and the Foundation of the Jewish Federation of Rochester.

To learn more about making a planned gift or to join the L’Dor V’Dor society please contact Debbie Zeger at [email protected] or visit our website.

TAMMUZ/AV/ELUL 5778 | THE KOL 21 YIZKOR REMEMBRANCE BOOK

The Temple Beth El Remembrance Book is an opportunity to honor the memory of loved ones in an annual publication that is used at the and every holiday at which the Yizkor prayer is recited. The Yizkor prayers are also in this publication.

To include the names of your loved ones please complete the form below by August 21, 2018

Please mark the appropriate choice & include payment (cash, check, or charge).

___ Single line (maximum 69 characters including Remembered By) - 1 name for $36 ___ 1/8 page (maximum 30 characters per line) - up to 4 names for $72 ___ 1/4 page (maximum 24 characters per line) - up to 8 names for $108 ___ 1/2 page (maximum 52 characters per line) - up to 12 names for $136 ___ Full page (maximum 52 characters per line) - up to 24 names for $218 ___ Same as last year

In order to properly honor your loved ones each person must be listed on a separate line. A couple is two names.

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Remembered By:

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22 THE KOL | JULY/AUGUST 2018 Usher in the New Year with a “sweet” gift of Apples & Honey!

Please consider making a contribution of $54 to sponsor the annual Apples & Honeycake Kiddush at the conclusion of the first day of Rosh Hashanah services. Your name will be included on a Shanah Tovah wish to the congregation This is a wonderful way to wish friends, family, and TBE members a joyous New Year. Please make checks payable to Temple Beth El, 139 Winton Road South by August 29, 2018

Yes, I (we) would like to wish the entire Temple Beth El family a Shanah Tovah!

Name(s) (as I/we would like to be listed):

______

Phone:______Email: ______

Enclosed is my $54 check to Temple Beth El

LULAV & ETROG

To order a & Etrog simply return the form below with your payment to the Temple Office by September 6. You may pick up your Lulav and Etrog at the Temple Beth El Office September 20, 21 & 23.

Name______

Address______

Phone:______Email: ______

I/We want ______set(s) of Lulav and Etrog at $54.00 per set (Total $______).

Please make checks payable to Temple Beth El. Questions? Call 585-473-1770.

TAMMUZ/AV/ELUL 5778 | THE KOL 23 5779 HIGH HOLY DAYS 2018

SELICHOT SERVICE YOM KIPPUR Saturday, September 1 Tuesday, September 18 Mincha Service 7:00 pm Mincha...... 5:45 pm Seudah Sh’leesheet (3rd Shabbat Meal) ...... 7:30 pm ...... 6:30 pm Ma’ariv...... 8:15 pm Candle Lighting...... 6:56 pm Shabbat Ends...... 8:29 pm Selichot Service “Music for the Soul”...... 9:00 pm Wednesday, September 19 Memorial Plaque Dedication and Selichot Service.... 10:00 pm Shacharit...... 9:00 am dessert reception to follow Babysitting opens...... 9:00 am Young Professionals Service...... 10:00 am Torah Service...... 10:20 am ROSH HASHANAH Youth Programming and Services begin...... 10:30 am EREV ROSH HASHANAH Sermon...... 12:00 pm Sunday, September 9 Yizkor...... 12:15 pm Candle Lighting...... 7:13 pm Hineni/Musaf...... 12:40 pm Mincha - Ma’ariv...... 7:00 pm Break...... 3:00 pm Study Session...... 3:30 pm FIRST DAY ROSH HASHANAH Mincha...... 5:00 pm Monday, September 10 Neilah...... 6:30 pm Shacharit...... 8:30 am Concluding Shofar Blast...... 7:56 pm Babysitting opens...... 9:00 am Torah Service...... 9:40 am Young Professionals Service...... 10:00 am Youth Programming and Services begin...... 10:30 am SUKKOT Shofar Service ...... 10:40 am Sunday, September 23 Hineni...... 11:00 am Sermon...... 11:45 am EREV SUKKOT Musaf continues...... 12:30 pm Mincha & Ma’ariv...... 6:00 pm (at Cobbs Hill Park, Lake Riley) ...... 5:00 pm Candle Lighting...... 6:47 pm Mincha & Ma’ariv...... 6:00 pm Candle Lighting...... 8:11 pm Monday, September24 FIRST DAY OF SUKKOT SECOND DAY ROSH HASHANAH Shacharit...... 9:30 am Tuesday, September 22 Youth and Family Celebration...... 10:30 am Shacharit...... 8:30 am Mincha & Ma’ariv...... 6:00 pm Babysitting opens...... 9:00 am Candle Lighting...... 7:46 pm Torah Service...... 9:40 am Young Professionals Service...... 10:00 am Tuesday, September 25 Youth Programming and Services begin ...... 10:30 am Shofar Service ...... 10:40 am SECOND DAY OF SUKKOT Hineni...... 11:00 am Shacharit...... 9:30 am Sermon...... 11:45 am Youth and Family Celebration...... 10:30 am Musaf continues ...... 12:30 pm Mincha & ...... 6:00 pm Mincha...... 6:00 pm Holiday Ends...... 7:44 pm Holiday Ends ...... 8:31 pm

24 THE KOL | JULY/AUGUST 2018 Friday, September 28 Monday, October 1 Dinner in the Sukkah Shacharit...... 9:30 am Saturday, September 29 Yizkor Recited...... 11:00 am SHABBAT CHOL HAMOED SUKKOT Kiddush Luncheon following services Shacharit...... 9:30 am Kiddush Luncheon in Sukkah Following Services EREV SIMCHAT TORAH Mincha...... 6:30 pm Mincha...... 6:00 pm Seudah in the Sukkah...... 7:00 pm Simchat Torah Family Celebration...... 6:30 pm Ma'ariv and Havdallah...... 7:38 pm Candle Lighting...... 7:34 pm

Sunday, September 30 Tuesday, October 2 CONCLUDING DAYS OF SUKKOT SIMCHAT TORAH Hoshanah Rabbah...... 7:00 am Shacharit...... 9:00 am Kiddush Luncheon following services EREV SHEMINI ATZERET Youth and Family Celebration...... 10:00 am Mincha & Ma’ariv...... 6:00 pm Mincha and Ma'ariv...... 6:00 pm Candle Lighting...... 6:35 pm Holiday Ends...... 7:31 pm

To order your High Holy Day tickets, please contact the office at 585-473-1770.

Interpreters will be present at morning services both If you need accommodations please call our office days of Rosh Hashanah, Kol Nidre, and all day during 585-473-1770 or email [email protected] Yom Kippur. Interpreters can also be made available for any of our other High Holy Day services upon request.

Selichot Service

“Music for the Soul” SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 1 AT 8:15 PM

An exquisite evening of prayer and orchestral music to usher in the Jewish New Year 5778.

Featuring Rabbi Leonardo Bitran, Hazzan Randall Levin and The TBE High Holy Day Orchestra & Choir Conducted by Jonathan Allentoff

7 pm: Mincha Service 7:30 pm: Seudah Sh’leesheet (3rd Shabbat meal) 8:15 pm: Ma’ariv/Havdalah (conclusion of Shabbat) 9 pm: Selichot Service 10 pm: Memorial Plaque Dedication

Dessert Reception to follow

Co-Sponsored by the Sheinfeld and Gorin Families in Memory of Trudy and Al Sheinfeld (z"l)

TAMMUZ/AV/ELUL 5778 | THE KOL 25 Shabbat & Events Calendar JULY SUNDAY MONDAY TUESDAY WEDNESDAY THURSDAY FRIDAY SATURDAY 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 18 TAMMUZ 19 TAMMUZ 20 TAMMUZ 21 TAMMUZ 22 TAMMUZ 23 TAMMUZ 24 TAMMUZ FAST OF PARSHAT TAMMUZ 8:33 pm PINCHAS SHABBAT ENDS* 9:42 pm

4th of july 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 25 TAMMUZ 26 TAMMUZ 27 TAMMUZ 28 TAMMUZ 29 TAMMUZ 1 AV 2 AV ROSH HODESH PARSHAT MATTOT-MASEI 8:29 pm SHABBAT ENDS* 9:39 pm Watermelon Wednesday Biffy Borg Friday Night PJ Library BBQ 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 3 AV 4 AV 5 AV 6 AV 7 AV 9 AV 10 AV SHABBAT HAZON 8:24 pm EREV TISH’A B’AV PARSHAT Tisha B’Av DEVARIM observed Watermelon SHABBAT ENDS* Services Wednesday 9:33 pm at 8:30 am, Rochester Fire 2 and 6 pm Department 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 11 AV 12 AV 13 AV 14 AV 15 AV 16 AV 17 AV TISH’A B’AV TU B’AV SHABBAT NACHAMU 8:18 pm PARSHAT VAETCHANAN Watermelon SHABBAT ENDS* Wednesday 9:27 pm Alex Reeder and Hillel 29 30 31 18 AV 19 AV 20 AV

*Mincha begins an hour and a half before Shabbat ends.

office will be closed All events & times are subject to change

26 THE KOL | JULY/AUGUST 2018 Shabbat & Events Calendar AUGUST SUNDAY MONDAY TUESDAY WEDNESDAY THURSDAY FRIDAY SATURDAY 1 2 3 4 20 AV 21 AV 22 AV 23 AV PARSHAT 8:10 pm EKEV SHABBAT ENDS* Watermelon 9:18 pm Wednesday Rochester Police Department 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 24 AV 25 AV 26 AV 27 AV 88 AV 29 AV 30 AV ROSH HODESH 8:00 pm PARSHAT RE’EH Watermelon SHABBAT ENDS* Wednesday 9:09 pm Shira Presberg Dairy Pot Golf and Song Leader Luck Tot Tournament Bootcamp Shabbat 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 1 ELUL 2 ELUL 3 ELUL 4 ELUL 5 ELUL 6 ELUL 7 ELUL PARSHAT 7:50 pm SHOFTIM SHABBAT ENDS* 8:58 pm

USL Soccer S'mores & Game Havdalah 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 8 ELUL 9 ELUL 10 ELUL 11 ELUL 12 ELUL 13 ELUL 14 ELUL PARSHAT 7:39 pm KI TETZE SHABBAT ENDS* 8:47 pm

26 27 28 29 30 31 15 ELUL 16 ELUL 17 ELUL 18 ELUL 19 ELUL 20 ELUL

7:27 pm

office staff retreat

*Mincha begins an hour and a half before Shabbat ends.

office will be closed All events & times are subject to change

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SENIOR STAFF OFFICERS 2017-2018 ADMINISTRATIVE OFFICE HOURS

Leonardo Bitran Martin Spokony Monday-Thursday 8:30 am–5:00 pm Senior Rabbi President Friday 8:00 am–3:00 pm [email protected] [email protected] Sunday (during school year) 9:00 am–12:00 pm

Randall Levin Debi Brenner 585.473.1770 Hazzan Vice President [email protected] Jessie Atkin Anna Eckert Gerald Gamm Marketing and Early Childhood Admin. Asst., Ext. 112 Deborah Zeger Vice President Coordinator, Ext. 115 [email protected] [email protected] Executive Director Carol Konuksever [email protected] Abe Glazer Michelle Caron Reception/Admin. Asst., Ext. 110 Vice President [email protected] Jody Dietz Facility and Administrative Limmud Religious School Director Sara Ressler Coordinator, Ext. 119 Mary Novinger [email protected] Vice President [email protected] Finance Manager, Ext. 113 [email protected] Mandi Warner Michael Phillips Rebecca Zaretsky Early Childhood Director Treasurer Youth & Family Education [email protected]. Program Coordinator Matt Ryen [email protected] Secretary

LIMMUD OFFICE KESHET OFFICE Phone 585.473.1190 Phone 585.473.1770