September 2019 | Elul / Tishrei 5779/5780 Volume 86 No.1
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SEPTEMBER 2019 | ELUL / TISHREI 5779/5780 VOLUME 86 NO.1 RABBI’S NOTES INSIDE: by Rabbi Michael Mishkin ◾ Schedule of Services for High Holidays ◾ Brothers for Life Reflections from Israel ◾ Welcome Anya Morgulis Shalom Friends, After spending two months in Jerusalem, Tamara, This issue of the TBI Tablet Lily, Ben, Nathan, and I are full of gratitude. We are is sponsored by grateful to the TBI community, for giving us the time to be in Israel and for me to study there. We are grateful for Denise & Ken the delicious food in Israel—for Lily and Ben that spe- FALTISCHEK cifically means a restaurant called The Waffle Bar, Kosher in honor of the Bat Mitzvah McDonalds, and Magnum ice cream bars. For Tamara of their daughter and me, our appreciation of Israeli food encompasses a slightly wider variety. On a more serious note, we are grateful for the State of Israel, AVA where we connected with our Jewish past, present, and future. We feel blessed to be living in a time when we have a Jewish State, a place where Jews can immigrate, or visit, and experience a thriving Jewish nation, filled with moving religious experi- ences, exciting cultural events, and amazing technological advancements. This issue of the TBI Tablet is sponsored by Rabbi continued on page 2 Cheryl & Christopher ALBANESE in honor of the Bar Mitzvah of their son DYLAN HAPPY & HEALTHY NEW YEAR 5780 Visit us online at www.tbiport.org Contact us at 516-767-1708 Rabbi continued from page 1 We are also grateful for the many wonderful welcomes we have received Temple Drive, Port Washington NY 11050-3915 since our return. T: 516-767-1708 F: 516-944-6461 Our tradition teaches us that there www.tbiport.org are many character traits we should possess, or work to incorporate into Rabbi our lives. One of the most important Michael Mishkin of those traits is gratitude. In Hebrew, Cantor Sharon Grainer it’s called, hakarat ha’tov, which liter- Cantor Emeritus ally means “recognizing the good.” Baruch Blum When we recognize and acknowledge President our blessings, we are more likely to feel Rita Shumsky thankful—thankful to God, and thank- Vice President, Ritual David Volpe ful to our family and friends for all of Vice President, Fundraising the good they do for us. When we are Steve Castar grateful, it can fill us up with positive Vice President, Administration feelings, because it helps us see our cups Louis Silfin as full (or half full), and it redirects us Vice President, Education Adina Kay-Gross and Eden Kasle away from the parts of our cups that Vice President, Membership are empty (or half empty). When we are feeling grateful, we are also more likely to Jen Latner thank other people for the good they do for us. Vice President, Communications Eric Letuchy When we wake up in the morning, the first thing we are supposed to do is Treasurer NOT think about what we’re going to wear, our to-do list, or our first cup of coffee Andrew Silver (although that’s important); instead, we are supposed to think about how lucky we Financial Secretary are that we woke up and that we have another day to live our lives, love our fam- John Teeger ily and friends, enjoy things that make us happy, and be productive. That is why Corresponding Secretary David Cooper the very first prayer we are supposed to say, when we wake up in the morning, is Recording Secretary called Modeh Ani. The prayer could have been written to say, Ani modeh (modah, Susan Levbin for a female), which would mean, “I am thankful.” But instead, it’s written Modeh Trustees (Modah) ani, which means “Grateful am I.” Why is this significant? Because the Alan Doubert Jack Mishan Mark Fridman Lane Palmer first word on our lips is “Grateful.” We should wake up and reflect on our gratitude. Sheryl Gordon Adam Smith That is the very first state, we should be in—a place of thankfulness. Halona Jaffe Mike Smolow Helene Hechtkopf Andrew Sollinger Going back to the topic of Israel, there are a lot of people in Israel and outside Laura Landau Scott Tashlik Israel that help make it thrive. One group I’d like thank are the soldiers in the IDF, Jenny Markman Alison White Jill Mellow the Israeli Defense Forces. The soldiers in the IDF risk their lives, every day, to keep Trustees Emeritus Israel safe in a very hostile neighborhood. However, it’s easy to take the soldiers for Elkan Abramowitz Joel Greenblatt granted — except during times of conflict — because they are behind the scenes. Saul Muchnick Nathan Alterman, a 20th Century Israeli poet and journalist was sensitive to the Sisterhood Presidents fact that the soldiers’ efforts could be taken for granted. Five months before the Alisa Schindler and Michelle Mondschein War of Independence, Alterman described the soldiers of the Palmach (the precur- Men’s Club Presidents Jon Brooks and Michael Nerenberg sor to the IDF) as “the silver platter, which [would] deliver the Jewish State to the Immediate Past President Jewish people.” It’s a beautiful image, but it’s also troubling because, when a valu- Matthew Engel able object is delivered on a silver tray, we think about the object, and disregard the Synagogue Director tray, upon which it sits. By using this imagery, Alterman is telling us, do not forget Cathy Seldin how the Jewish State will come into being. Do not forget the efforts, sacrifices, and Director of Education and Engagement Anya Morgulis courage that will be necessary to make the Jewish State a reality. The State of Israel Preschool Director formally recognized, thanked, and celebrated the efforts of the Palmach fighters by Diana Snaider opening up a beautiful museum in their honor/memory. If you have not visited it TBI Tablet is published monthly by TBI. Submissions yet, make sure you put it on your itinerary for your next trip to Israel. must be received by the tenth of the month prior to the We, the members of TBI, have a special opportunity to say thank you to a group issue in which they will appear. of special IDF soldiers. On Wednesday evening, September 18, at 7:15pm, TBI is Rabbi continued on page 3 PAGE 2 | TBI TABLET SEPTEMBER 2019 PRESIDENT’S NOTES From Atlantic City to Port Washington By Rita Shumsky Shalom, Or attend a Tot Shabbat with your kids! We have a Sunday I always loved Rosh Hashanah, morning Minyan. The High Holidays are coming very soon. it meant the new school year, new Join us for services with your family and friends to pray, and clothes, and spending time with my be with each other in our beautiful sanctuary. Rabbi Mishkin’s family and friends to celebrate the sermons are sure to be very insightful. We look forward to Jewish New Year. I grew up in Atlantic hearing Cantor Grainer’s beautiful voice leading our commu- City, New Jersey where there was a nity in prayer. Your fellow congregants will be chanting Torah large Jewish population and many syn- and Haftorah, always a delight. agogues of various denominations. On We have a wonderful and progressive Preschool under the the High Holidays, Atlantic City shut down because most of direction of Diana Snaider. The children always look like they the businesses had Jewish owners. The large and small Jewish are having the best time being at TBI. Our Religious School, hotels were open, before casinos, and many people came to led by our new Director of Education and Engagement, Anya Atlantic City for the holidays. The Boardwalk was almost as Morgulis, provides education about Prayer, Judaism, Tikkun crowded as the synagogues! Olam and Hebrew. In addition to learning about becoming a My family belonged to Community Synagogue/Beth Bar or Bat Mitzvah the children are learning what it means to Kehillah, a 2,000 seat Conservative Synagogue started in be a Jew. 1922. I loved going to services with my Grandpop Benny, Programs provided by the Library Committee, Sisterhood, not only could I spend time with him but I could also braid Men’s Club and the Social Action Committee are interesting his Tallit. My favorite prayer was Ein Keloheinu, and when and well received. Look for adult courses to be led by Rabbi we chant it now I think of him. I had my Bat Mitzvah Mishkin, Annette Kasle, Cantor Grainer and Rabbi Sharyn and Confirmation there. I felt so much a part of that Perlman. In early 2020 we will be bringing back Monte Carlo Congregation for so many reasons; family, friends, learn- Night and other fun activities for both adults and children. ing, the magic of the Sukkah, celebrating Simchat Torah and Of course there is the Purim Carnival and Passover and TBI’s Purim to name a few. favorite – the Gala! When I left Atlantic City I found it very hard to replace TBI is a special place for all of us. We all have our own “Community Synagogue.” It took many years before I felt reasons why we belong. For those not actively engaged, I that welcome, that comfortable and that spiritual in a syna- invite you to join us. We’re doing fun and meaningful things. gogue. I found my new home at Temple Beth Israel. And know that the wonderful members of our community As a Temple and community we offer so much. TBI is celebrate and support one another. In this way, congregations here for your life cycle events; Aufrufs, Weddings, Brit Milah, are like insurance policies.