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Winter / Spring | Dec 2020 - Mar 2021 A Positive Outlook CONNECT SUPPORT ENABLE www.communitycentershanghai.com Dedicated to serving the needs of the international community in Shanghai We. Transform. Lives. Find out how. Applied Learning courses at Concordia encourage students to discover unique connections between their studies and real-world endeavors. THANK YOU OUR 2020 – 2021 CORPORATE PARTNERS Pudong Founding Partner Since 2012 Minhang Founding Partner Since 2013 Concordia International School Shanghai Shanghai American School BUND LEVEL PARTNERS Parkyard Hotel Costco Manufacturing of Shanghai Wholesale GOLD LEVEL PARTNERS Team Education Western International School Consulting of Shanghai SILVER LEVEL PARTNERS United Family Parkway Health Healthcare COMMUNITY PARTNERS Abundant Grace International Fellowship Active Kidz Shanghai BECOME A PARTNER WITH COMMUNITY CENTER SHANGHAI To Connect, Support, and Enable Internationals to Adapt and Thrive in Shanghai WELCOME The Pursuit of a Positive Outlook on Life I write this welcome note on Thanksgiving Day. A day when we take a We dedicated the theme of this issue, “A Positive Outlook”, not to moment to stop and think of all the wonderful, extraordinary as well as gloss over the pain and suffering that we have all felt this year, but to ordinary moments in our lives that we are grateful for. A perfect way to share stories of how we have found ways to go beyond the negative present the theme of this magazine’s issue – A Positive Outlook. to find joy and meaning. Read about all those wonderful community If there is a year where we all must dig deep and tap into that which is members who joined our Come Dine With Me campaign and positive and hopeful – then 2020 is it! Not one person I know would generously donated towards mental health services (Page 8) and the think of putting “thankful” and “Covid-19” in the same sentence. incredible platform that INWARD has established to support mental Covid-19 has caused so many deaths, a long-lasting global economic health in Shanghai (Page 23). Read stories of community members slowdown, and rampant general stress and anxiety. However, as I who were not able to travel but took the opportunity to explore more navigated this year, personally and professionally, reading through of Shanghai (Page 16) and China (Page 10) and eloquently described copious posts, articles by researchers and clinicians, a clear thread how they were able to find ways to connect despite the challenges of learning surfaced. People who cope well in crisis and even grow (Page 14). Read about how the small, shared moments of humanity through it, have one thing in common – they don’t focus on pursuing connect us more than we realize (Page 15) and about the power of happiness to feel better in the moment, they cultivate an attitude of being grateful (Page 18). “tragic optimism”. The article on rose-tinted glasses (Page 12) perfectly sums up the Tragic optimism (a term coined by Viktor Frankl, the Holocaust essence of this issue “perhaps we don’t need to for positive things survivor and psychiatrist from Vienna) is the ability to maintain to happen in 2020, but rather attribute more weight to the positive hope and find meaning in life despite its inescapable pain, loss, and things that have happened amongst all the negativity” Louise Roy. suffering. It may seem inappropriate to call on people to seek the So, I hope this issue helps you to choose a Positive Outlook on life. good in a crisis of this magnitude, but in study after study of tragedy Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the and disaster, that’s what resilient people do. And we have witnessed human freedoms – to choose one’s attitude in any given set of so many examples of resilience in our communities: circumstances, to choose one’s own way” Victor E. Frankl • Finding new ways to connect with ourselves, with our families, Senait Petros Tekeste and our loved ones. CCS Executive Director • Realizing how important community is and doubling- down on investing in it. Hello from the CCS Family • Deepening our appreciation for the people—the teachers, doctors, nurses, pharmacists, grocery store workers, garbage collectors, bus drivers, janitors, and more. • Realizing that we can do things that seemed impossible and we can make sacrifices for the greater good. Maybe after learning how to come together to fight this virus, we’ll carry that spirit to fights against racism, sexism, inequality, and climate change. 4 | www.communitycentershanghai.com CONTENTS ABOUT US 4 Welcome 6 Locations 7 Overview 8 Counseling Campaign Come Dine With Me A POSITIVE PERSPECTIVE 10 Re-discovering China 11 A Different Outlook Counseling Campaign 12 Rose-tinted Glasses 13 On Gratefulness P8-9 Come Dine With Me 14 Connecting Through Covid-19 15 Connection Through Narrative 16 Positively Speaking 18 The Power of Being Grateful COUNSELING 20 Counseling Service at CCS 22 Counseling Corner 23 INWARD and Subsidized Counseling at CCS CHARITIES 24 Giving Tree 25 Bring It Back to the Book P18-19 26 CharityLINK The Power of Being Grateful COMMUNITY BUILDING 28 Don’t Be Afraid to Start Something New! 28 Bad Things Can Lead to Good 29 New Possibilities 30 Community-Building Activities CCS Pudong Library Corner 32 University Social Mixer: Connect and Make Friends 32 Fall Bazaar: A Shoppers Delight For advertising and promotional inquiries with Community Center 33 Shanghai 123: Shanghai, contact: [email protected]. We Embraced the 2020 Change 33 Parkyard Hotel and Zhangjiang Planner: Senait Petros Tekeste, Sammi Zhou Group Support CCS Giving Editor: Senait Petros Tekeste Tree Charity Designer: Sarah Wu assisted by Cora Qi 34 Policies Cover Photo: Johan Prozesky www.communitycentershanghai.com | 5 LOCATIONSCCS L OCA T I O N S DOWNTOWN W Fuxing Rd 复兴路 ulumuqi COUNSELING CENTER R d 136 3631 7474 乌鲁木齐路 Line 10 淮海中路 Shanghai Library d Middle Huaihai R 衡山路 d R Hengshan PUDONG (021)021 3382 3382-1770 1770 HONGKOU Line 6 PUTUO Yun Shan Road Y LUJIAZUI unshan Rd CHANGNING Hongf 云山路 Line 9 eng Rd HUANGPU Lan Tian Road 黄杨路 Huangy 红枫路 杨高中路 XUHUI HUAMU gao (M) Rd HONGQIAO ang Y ang Rd Biyun Rd 碧云路 Baihua Rd (021)136 7151 136-7151-9554 9554 Jin feng Rd 运乐路 北青公路 Jidi Rd 纪翟路 白桦路 锦绣东路 幸乐路 xiu Rd Beiqing Rd Yunle Rd t Jin 金丰路 Eas Xingle Rd Baole Rd 保乐路 Zhuguang Rd GIS MINHANG 诸光路 崧泽高架路 y (021) 6406-3866 e Hw 021 6406 3866 Songz Line 2 Pudong Center Minhang Center 3F, Building 3, No. 1146 浦东新区金桥 2F, No. 360 Xingle Road, 闵行区华漕镇 Biyun Road, Jinqiao, 碧云路1146号3号楼3层 Huacao, Minhang 幸乐路360号2楼 Pudong 靠近黄杨路 Shanghai 201900 Shanghai 201206 CCS-Minhang CCSSH2016 Downtown Counseling Center Hongqiao Satellite Center Ambassy Club Puxi, 淮海中路1500号 136 7151 9554 No. 1500 Middle Huaihai 近乌鲁木齐中路 CCSHQCenter Road Shanghai 200031 ccs-counseling Corporate Office Executive Director: Senait Petros Tekeste Community Relations: Events: [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] Workshops, Talks, Tours, & Room Rental Operations Director: D. Adrienne Harris Advertising and Sponsorship: [email protected] [email protected] Pudong: [email protected] HR: [email protected] Counseling: [email protected] Minhang: Marketing: [email protected] [email protected] Charity: [email protected] Hongqiao: [email protected] 6 | www.communitycentershanghai.com www.communitycentershanghai.com COMMUNITY CENTER OVERVIEW Our Name: Our Vision Many people sharing one heart Community Center Shanghai (CCS or ) connects, supports, and enables internationals from the moment they arrive in Shanghai, through relevant community-building activities. CCS is a not-for-profit organization, strategically located in Shanghai’s international communities in Pudong, Hongqiao, and Minhang. CCS responds to the ever-changing needs of the CONNECT ENABLE community by providing relevant programming that equips individuals and families so that they can maximize their potential while in China. SUPPORT Our Services Community Building Counseling Charity Community building is at the core Community Center Shanghai Community Center Shanghai of everything Community Center has a counseling department provides the opportunity Shanghai offers. CCS does this with more than 20 professional to give and serve in the by providing a platform for the counselors that speak 10 different community through its community to connect through languages. The counselors well-known and established interesting tours and explore offer professional, charity, Giving Tree. CCS’s interesting topics through talks and compassionate support to CharityLINK provides a platform workshops. Improve a language individuals, children, for collaboration, referrals, and or skill. Dabble in a new hobby or couples, and families. an opportunity for volunteer interest. Take a tour and explore matching. the city. Promotions • Community Center Shanghai – The channel to reach internationals, serving their needs and connecting them to companies that provide relevant products • Discerning customers looking for quality products and services • Contact [email protected] www.communitycentershanghai.com | 7 CENTER HIGHLIGHTS 8 | www.communitycentershanghai.com 8 | www.communitycentershanghai.com CENTER HIGHLIGHTS www.communitycentershanghai.com | 9 www.communitycentershanghai.com | 9 A POSITIVE PERSPECTIVE Re-discovering China By Alexander Larcher Alexander Larcher moved to Shanghai in 2017 and is a BD and Community Outreach Manager at an international hospital. Through his work he has been engaging with CCS and the wider foreign community for the past three years and feels a strong connection with Shanghai and its diverse residents. Fascinated with China, he spends a lot of his free time studying Mandarin and travelling around the country. 2020 has so far certainly been hugely and visit or re-visit places like Beijing, experiences on a professional level too. different in many aspects and has had Nanchang or most recently Gansu I work for an international hospital and a profound impact on the way we live, Province.