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Library continuad from |K I only natkmai donor network that helps quali­ not tipdmistic* but l*m not vvitiiout Iiope for dialibnrr. fied openly gay and l^bian cantMates the sndedMT odoaeNMlNS^^ aaiv ant aaa ean oaajfcVViiaatpi'^a obstadas that have MstoHcaHy denied them »e-de>tQt ftscetariy infiia iha cflitmha mm 'Vlpanwhit^ we're open for business and fekr and actual political Of>portunidas. Since Its a«daidaefd»G^MMMaofdieGB«iiea 90mmMim»^'m' we naad lots of peopie to come in and use inception In l99l,theViceoryFundhasfBner- VWtay or die 6nW OQcct^^l^apiffta uawtenaaradaefcydie thialnfomutioii, Evan if wa have no mon^ ItMn at dw edhor^ dloNeiie aad en a fla Bai#:•! 'Why do you need a parson there? You have Seeking necipes for aN the matarlals. wl^ do you need a Iftnr- - •«. ianrithMclMcd to make diem understand con^nuinit/ cookbook that any kind of Illness is a very private and The Rochester area is home co a lai-ge and • LOCAL AND STATE NEWS personal maceer, and none more SQ than talented ffty and lesbfam popubtion. I^lany of Catholic condnuad from p. I AIDS* arid people aren't necessarily com­ us, though, do not really experience the fiill called Citizens fbr a Decent Communi^, porting arson, murder or other crimes. fortable spiwking to a reference librarian or diversity of our community. The annual GAGV was interviewed recently and said that they to just anyone—they need an AIDS worker, Picnic provides the only opportunity most of The local uhm-conservative group called would be presenteo picket but would not be Itear H.—*nr&aiaay|a & heteiosexual pubticatfony Glick for Manhattan vide a space for people to share imporunt say about the issue we're ulking about today." of the media to sensationalize and polarize, atdtudes towaid gay tights." s our Chairman of tbe Board In Ventura, "WeVe proud to endorse this gifted Oysters Rockefeiier help make us who we are." media stirrmg up agiution. Having said that, will be a safie, warm and welcoming environ­ Marriage Act passed by Cctfigress and signed by "style" my iife. Ifl want a style, FUgo to the salon. several other employees probably have td^ous CaHfonda.** legislator," says Manhattan resident and And, as Elston notes, "Food can say 'I love there's a small local group m the diocese ment." Ptesident Clinton... is a symbolic gesture with the ^peaking of'lifestyle choices/' thc question is beliefs condemning hotnoscxuality as sinful, so Aa ftx Mr. Haas' concern forthi s employees' Victory Fund boardmember Steve Salzman. you.'" In that spirit, the cookbook Is planned vi^ich is toully opposed to the mass. The -Some information from Doug Mandeiaro, smell of futility about it." still c^Tcn as to whedier gaya and lesbians, or I made it a point to inform them that the job "comfort zone" (ts that all of them?) it's imown "In the Assembly, Deborah Glick hais as an "I love you" to the community, with all group is called Catholics United for the Faith. Timcs-UnMin Kinsley condudes that all this represents a kind anyone else, can actually "choose" dieir emodotial contains honioetotic inaterial so that it could be that there are degrees of physical, emotional and proven that she can represent the inter- proceeds to benefit local gay and lesbian "Michael Macaluso. a leader of a group of "life-styte libcrtarianism" which hc sees as a and sexual feelings, or whether who wc fall in love steered to diose who don't have hangups. We're mental "discomfort" in a gteat many jobs, I can't ests of her endre constituency while never organizations. Submissions of recipes and sto* possible countetbalancc to bodi r^^r^ssive con- with is something wc have little or no control over. tdking about a fewphoto s and pieces of artwork imagine one couid wotk in a copy store without losing sight of the core values that are ries are requested by May 10. and may be servarism and "communitarian " liberalism, as wdB We can choose not to act on our feelings, and we showitig men undodted (but not engaged in coming actoss some polidcal, rd^g^ous or fifestyie crucial to the ^y and lesbian communicy." mailed to Share the Dish c/o the GAGV Com­ Day of events planned as ^liiac he calls "yi^)pie ami Gen X" j^xslitical sdf- caui choose not tn come out But can we really sex). mucrial that he or she didn't ^tee with to some The Borou£^ President is the chief ex­ munity Center, 179 Adantic Ave., Rochester, for gay men of color indiJgence. Why he sees "the fineedom of the choose who we care about and fed atnacted to? On Feb. 4,1 had the foJIowing convesaatkn extent. Woukin't tlut be one ofthe "h«eanis" of ecutive and advocate for the more than 1.5 N.Y. M607, or e-mailed to Are you gay and African American, Native individuaf* and libcrtarianism as a move toward Itwould seem thatinczeasitignumbersofpeopie with Peter Haas, mand^get of die East Avemie woridng in a copy store? million Manhattan residents, "Nothing [email protected]:hester.edu American. Asian. Hispanic/Latino or Pacific "the Left,"^^iife saying it also represents a move are wondering about that, and statting eo question Kinkos, downtoan-Rodiesten k seems die local Kinkos manager would not breaks down anti-gay stereotypes like plac­ away feom leftist collective ideab, seems sdf-con- Islander? Feeling alone and isolated? Wishing the simplistic, unsdcntific hatc-pcopfi^ui^ theyNne BiflC—*iPma«idt^wby alto gse yeaia havegone out on a Hmb regarding this mitfsct faad ing outstanding gay men and iesbians IHce GAGV thanks I tradict30ry and confusing, but never mind. you could connect with other men like your­ been deluged with the past few years. That doesn't of printing BR05 yeo no kmger wffl do it?" it not been approved at a hitier levcLTbey have no Deborah Glick in the political spodight." Maybe the country is moving toward the Left mean that everything is OK and we can stop says Victory Fund Deputy Director winter ball donors self and share thoughts and experiences? Peter H. — '•Our cni|^oyeea don't fed printed policy r^ardii^ copying nude photos in BUSINESS SPONSORS Ga> men of color are invited to a free again in aotne ways. Or mnybc it's ;i&t diat the wortying about our dvil lighfs. After all, there has GQxnfortable woddi^ on it.'' their stoics. Ofcourse they have the RIGHT m Ka«h{e«n DttBold. "As Ma«)ha«tan SoroMffh thetoiic of thc Rd^ous R^ht has been thor­ been a cenain amount of progress made over the President, Deborah will serve the largest Cats Hxdusivdy on March 9 at Rochester Cencer for Irt^eiptst* BiOC— *lfaiiotlMud-c«tM orect of penetration. Aixl ^ddle aonfte bave die RIGHT not to do business with a com­ constituency ever served by any gay or MaynanJ's Electric Supply Inc. dent Uving (RCIL) , 758 South Ave. rejecting that rigkl,extremis t ideology in &vor of a toward people of color. Racism is no longer offi­ pefeonaladami^itbeexpiicityyourwodceta pany we perceive as homophobic. lesbian elected official in history — and Muther's The workshop will be faciliuted by Stan Kttle common sense. Pethaps die baby boomer cially acceptable. Noncthdess, society is stiUriddled have no need to fead tibem... fuat see that the ^noerdy, that's one enormous spodight." Valeric Standt and Aiida Basso, Prudetitial Byrd and Thomas Warficid of the National generation has had enough direct experience to with racism and racist injustice — it's just a liofe pegea ioe primed Mda&ctorily* Aaually, BmCaflidMUi. BROT PuhUafacr In 1990, Deborah Glick won Manhattan's Preferred Services Coalition Building Institute. Topics will in­ reaHzc that, in spite of the scnsationalasm and more furtive these days, as some Tcxaoo ezecu- 66th district seat in the New Yoric State Rochester Custom Leathers dude racism, homophobia, self esteem, sex­ hysteria around the issues of marijuana, abortion ttves recentiy demonstrated. Fundamental soctai Assembly, making history as the state's Rodiester Spa & Body Qub ism, isolation and safer sex. The day of events and gay rights, the reality in each case is a littic more change takes generations. first openly lesbian or gay legislator. Ex­ Scsmley's Flowers- - •• is sponsored by RCIL and AIDS Rochester Road, Chili. The doors will officially open complex than rightwing propaganda wouk) have It's great that things may be starting to chac^jC, tremely effective and well-liked by her INDIVmUAL SPONSORS Men's Outreach. constituents, she has been reelected every for business on March 3. Members of the us bdieve. but we can't stop struggbng yec We need to keep Kevin Camipbdl Susan Chekow Lu^gnan The NCBI workshop w\\\ be^n at 12:30. and t¥vo years since then. In November of firm Indude Melvin L Olver, Janet H. On the issue of gay tigjbts, plain old common oti working to buikiastrofigermavcainent; one diat Danid Cobaugh CharleaJ jusignan wHI be folfowed by a community dinner at 5 I9M she won 85 percent of the vote. A KorU. Matthew M. Korona and Kimberiy sense, feimess and moderation may be causing indudcs^queerpeoplc:richandpoor,nudScciaai Litida Contceras WilliaR]f F. McKay p.m. and a safer sex workshop at 6 p.m. Both lifalong diampk>n of civU rights fbr all P. Russell. The firm's main offices are non-ideologues (thc majority of Americans) to and woridng dass, mak and fetnale (and everyoae Bob Coultas linda Rekl the dinner and lunch will be free. people, Deborah has woriced hard to ol>- located in Tobey Village Office Paric. question die pc^caOy-motivatcd homophobia of in between); Nanve Ametican, African Americ mi. Dr. Dennis J. Foley Hon. Tim O. Mains For more information, conuct Eric Jenerson taln 1^1 sutus for domestic partners, to Pittsford. the Right Maybe, too, our activism is finally start­ Asian American, Hispanic American and Euro­ at RCIL. 442-6470. repeal adultery and sodomy statutses, and BiH (Bubbks) Kdly Conrad J. Schott ing to get thc message across that we are human pean American; "strait-appearing" gays, drag The satellite office is located in a shared to extend sute iaw to ban discrimli^don Lawrence Krieger Baq. Mark Sh«iec beings who want \(^t most humans wane love, a queens, radical feminist dykes, bisexuab, Pittsford law firm fitdlity with the Jill Corey Nationwide In­ based on sexual orienution. Dalx>rah's Max ter-Horst Feter and Ibfidiad fulfilHi^ sex life, a feniil>% a job, a hotne. Most transgender people, conservative businesstneo, surance Agency and Harris & Company, presence in the legislature resulted in the I^ck Oxmett dc Jack Ellis Americans seem opposed to gays and lesbians len Skalny of Great ExpeGtations Travel opens second office Tax and Accounting Services. The Paul leather folks atid ALL the peopie we are. And Assembly's passage ofthe Sexual Orienu­ SfBCIAL THANKS having the ri^t to many legally, but a ma jority also The law firm of Olver, Korts, Korona & Road address is opposite the Chili Center maybe we don't have to prove to heterosexuals thst tion Non-Discrimination bHI. TJmTtmifilcina, Wner, j^jpcoves of extending most benefits and other Russell LLP announces the opening of tu new Wegman's Ptaza, near the new Rrst Na­ wc are "just like them" in awy w9y. Maybe wc can Tonifricifia Msexoou{^. have feith in die power of tradidonal American The Gay and i^esbian Vkrtory Fund Is the west side satellite office Uxated at 780 Paul tional Bank Chili Office. But where Kinslc/s artide goes dangerously common sense and moderation to change unfaix wrong is in calling gay r^^ a "fifestyie issue." It is attitudes about those who are "dififerent"—once a dvii r^^ issue. Whether or not I, as a lesbian, diosc attitudes are sem as ttn^m. bur confidential GAGV Membership indudes an Etttpty Ckset have fuH dvil t^ts as a UJS, dtizen is hanfiy the Howdo wedctRonstrate thatPJustweaoi^asutt same thir^ as whether I can dedde to smoke a joint atid smiling nicdy fbr the cameras won't cut it. If or have a beer. Why is it so hard to get through to we want credibiHty and allies, we need to continiie A FdbftcadDn of Ifae Gajf AKaaee strai^ people Hke Kinsley that lesbians and gay a rigorous analysis of opptcssion, aad gposebig- of^GcMMbeVA? men do not have "lifestyles;" we have Hves? And otry forwha t it is. Only our conrinued, pdnc^aled whether 1 choose a female or a male kwer, or both, resistance to injustice can hd|> betctosctuab see Swanjoidan , or none at all, is a question that goes a lot deeper that we acc srruggHn^ not foi^.a^me auperfidal HariMrRaMd! Q Endosed is a check payable to GAGV into my being and my histoty, and involves many 'lifestyle," but for otir bask human rights. 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Los Iiear hate group case scrutiny of Grand and staved dttt gays ^do Vtee President Ai Gore expressed supportfor The Medical MaHfuana Buyers Oub of New an Assodaai Professor of amical Madteine Angeies CA 90067; fax: (310)557-7679; ematt: The U3. Supreme Court has refused to hear not constitute proper role models as teach* gay rightt in a speech before the Democratic York City Is planning a protest this spring ac the Unlvaralty of CaMbmla, San Fran­ abcaudrQcabccom. And to reach tha Disney an appeal by the anti-py hate group led by National Committee (DNQ onjan. 21. against the prosecution of people who use era," dsco, and also served as tfie Assodate Co., write Mtehael Eisner and Dean Valentine, Baptist minster Fred Phelps to aHow h^ Gore said,'*We know, all of us, that America mar^uana for medical reasons* indudingpeopie Although htmdreds of studenu and par- Medteal DIractor of die AIDS Cfinic at San President of Networit TV and Television Ani- ^roup unlkniced picketing outside a Topeka. is a strong nation because we are a diverse with AIDS. enu proeestad die parsacudon of Crana. he Frandscjo Gmaral Hospital. Over the past madon. The Walt Disney Co^ 500 S. ^uena Kansas ^>lscopal church which has criti* nation, that our differences of race, religfon. 1^ NATIONAL AND INTERNATIONAL NEWS Lesbian AIDS acdvist Arm Northrup said, resigned test July, tScemngdia atmosphere l4yaers,Dr.G6osbyhasfervadonnumer- Vista St.. Burbank CA 9IS2I: fax (818)560- dzed Phelps. gender, sexua! orienution and native land or >low dare we try to tdl people who are sick among school offidals and focals to ^^ogtst- ottt HSV-raiatad comrvdtftaes for profes­ 1930; emaH: WWW:http7/www.disney.com/ The Court had no comment on Jan. 2f ban on same-sex marriage. In Arkansas, siml^ language malce our ^-eat nation an inspiration Right keeps up the tr^ pofscMi," aeconftig to the Associated Maa. when the {ustices let stand a restraining lar bills won overwhelming approval, in both and in pain and dyingthat they can'ttake a drug sional ofpnizations, communlty-basad or- Press, to tfie worid That's wtiat we believe, tliat's order which bars Phelps and the members of Senate and House in January, and Govl Mike that ^Hild be useful to them? How dare wer ganiations, and medical schoob through- -Gay Affiance Against CMamatfon (GLAAD) pressure with state Over 900 peopie attended Crane'sfoneral wiiat we fight for, diat's wfiat we work for." his Westboro Baptist Church from demon­ Huckabee, a Republican, has said he will sign The Club and AIDS activisu wil stage a non- outdke countr]ir. on Jan, 14, IndudU^ many of tha studenu Gore's remarks drew applause from the strating within 36 feet of St. David's Episco­ anti-gay legislation the measure. vfolent protest on May 3 in Greenwich Village The OfHce of IMational AIDS l^oltey was who had supported him, and had g^mn him Meissa, Juie are moms; audience at the hi^ly visible meeting, whteh to support the right to use mari|uana to created ki 1993 by President CEknon to pal Church b>efore. during or shortly after The Right's drive to initiate anti-gay bills In Arkansas is one of e^ht sutes whteh are a standirv ovation during a hoiiday concert took place the day ^fter the inauguration at relieve pain and the side effocu of drug treat­ provide the Federal govemment with a media seenns confused any rdigfous service. sute legislatures is going strong, according considering and-same-sex marriage bills for on Dec 7. ''We went him to know we are the Washington Hilton. ment fbr serious Illness. Some n»earchers p-eater fbcus on Issues related to the epl- and Julie Cypher became Since 1991, Phelps has led disruptive pro* to a Washington BMe survey. the firsttime this year. The others are Indiana, IOO percent behind him,*" senior Joe Colorado Govemor Roy Romer, now the believe that mariiuana use can reduce nausea demte of HIV/^DS. Thb office provides mothers to Bailey Jean Cypiier on Feb. 10, but tesu at gay men's funerals, pride parades. The survey shov^ that out of 50 sute Monuna. Nebradu, North Dakota, Ohio, Penningcon said at the dme. Democratic Party general chairman, also men­ from chemotherapy and radiation, ease air­ broad direction and coordination for Fed­ according to GLAAD, you would never know President Clinton's second inaugural, and legislatures included, 48 anti-gay bills (and Texas and Vermont. Out of 39 such bills now Apparently Crane's fHends asiced school tioned his supportfor the Democratic Party's way resistance in asthmatics, combat weight eral HIV/AIDS poltey. The Office also works it from some media commenu. churches which the group calls '^churches" 40 pro-gay bills) had been filed by Feb. 7. on the burner, 28 were kitroduced by Repub- offkiaiis not to attend his funeral, aldiough traditional committment to dvil rightt. "I want loss in people with AIDS, and relieve eye closely with the AIDS community both in The United Press Intemational (UPl) story for "promoting tfie sodomite agenda." Group None of these measures has become law licans and nine by Democrau, snd one by a the school Ixiard Issued a sutement of re* a community in which it orunt since the actual law­ bill on Feb. 13. In Virginia, a House bHI tnarridige bill. rentiy serves as the director ofthe Office of reotyping, anti-semitism. homophobia. These Crane was an outstanding and popular muste character will come out. GLAAD com- New York Post, 1211 Avenue of the Ameri- suit between St. David's and Westboro has passed by a vote of 87-9 on Feb. 4. whHe a -Christopher Jones, Usa Keen. The Wash- HIV/AIDS Policy at the Department of are the things we abhor. We know they are teacher in Byron Center, near Grand Rapids» menu that it is crucial to send support for cas,NewYorkNY 10036-8790;fax(212)930- not yet gone to trial. He promised to "ex­ Senate vote that day was 37-3 in favor of the ingtxmBhde Health and Human Servtees (HHC). Dr. unworthy of us as Americans or as Demo­ Mteh., wfio became the urget of persecution Blen's coming out; "radical religious groups 8540; email: nevo^ri

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But it's even harder today in some ways to tnctL-That kind ofdang was fea% in^KXMt* Bm sqxuate redity &om idea, hype, media image^ and at the apme dme, rd poinc tpt spmedttntt tbat die media vtsftiility diat takes on a Hfe of its own. histadanJrB«ewg thhrtional)^ terview: rcafiy depended on a feefing of sdkbrity and Idextf^tf^t despite emyi^at^ that raiataBsm haa Homo Economics authors study gay/lesbian relation­ sameness»in some cases* And diets have also been dooefeggayJ^i^lMyj^^ P^Fb« |M«foHfom thgn jtraigN real tensions around diat because often the peopk ship to the economy, marketing and employment goats ioc ecuidmc^aaxkties that aic pcodueed atthe forefixint ofthe gay moveihetuhave actua&y under the ecoabnac system* Md ta than aeirf^ ffTMn withbi tfiose o been those who ace mc^s privileged tn the eco­ ^KayDiaa there has been a more syscetnadc histodcal link nomk system: \(^te, upper nuddk dass. That's to and-SeoatiAnin teims ofthe stesBQqpesbfg»y Is it true, as Supreme Courc Jusdce Antonin between raoe discdnunation and dass expiuu- what we were ttying to get at wtdi die phrase "a peopk and Jewab peopk. Bia also htfxmgpaatd Scalia daims, that ''those whoeti^g|age in homo­ don, and that doesn't quite translate vo the'i^ community divided.^' lliere is a sense of commu­ feminists, and dttfaosc^«^lradHfrwyteci^3fe^^ sexual conduct have hig^'S^Kisablc income*? situation. A*G»: Seiy in die doaet One of our andiots nity and solidarity and a lot of pc^tical good has than diedemtnantfaeietcwfeSiial nudear fiunfiy.S o Massachusetts, because they don't care about the (dissent mEptttts p. Romer, the Colorado Amend­ ^ KD: So, ptobably, the vulnetalHlity you mi^t ^ecuktes chat tfae leason yhy the gay mifitaiy come of that, but at the same time, rcpresentit^the that's a central contiadictiQn. The otfaer ooneradk- other issues, AO they care about is gay issues. Not ment 2 decision). Or do gays cam kss than didr have as a ksbian or gay man, is a vuitierabiiity diing fenapar t was that it was a ckfll cut at the top communtty as a sort of monolithk entity has don woukl be that, whik c^talism has diowed just ^iM they don't care, but tfaat tfaey are activdy straight countetpaiu? Ek> gay men dispropor- dependent on class position. Ifyou ate poor, being by peopfe like David Mbcr^ and Obton's peopk definitdy alienated a lot of peopk and done some the devdopment of very stror^ gay communities, on tfae side of punitive welfare refbmi, or anf on the donately woric in the arts, health and beauty, and gay is liable to be a real big vulnerability. Ifyou're befbte die decdon in *9Z And itwasn't die result side of privatisation of sute setvices, that sott of poBrical damage. it has also emfdiastsged, because of vatious dass AmyGkickman resuurant businesses? After Absolut and IKEA, wealthy, it may not matter much at all, economi­ of die slow buikfing t^ of organidng in low- thing. BeoyReed Cindy shaving k.d, what do mainstream market­ KD: Could you explain how you saw that alien- stutificadons, the differences among ffxy peopk, income gty communides wfaere the miHtary is cally speaking. lesbian and gsy movement wexe played out You There's a spHt between the part ofgay activism ers have in store next for gays? What benefits arc adon as part of the contradicdon ofour economic and that has been an ongoing source of difficulty important for economic oppommity. If that otga- a quesdon you posed to (African American lesbian BR; Lee Badgett C'Beyond Biased Samp^: had activists, pcogressives on the one hand ss^ying that is moving towards the Right, and vihxt re­ you losing out on, and how arc insurance com­ system for the lesbian and gay community? politically. nidng had been in place, thousands of phone calls author/activist) Barbara Smith: 'TXi you think Challenging thc Myths on thc Economic Status of chey Sdt\'t want anyone in die tnifitasy, so diey mains of a more progressive ^y movement that panies screening you? What pnce is thc doset? BR: One of thc most exdting things that wc*ve AG: In "Capitalism and Gay Identity,"D*Emiljo could have lit up Congressional switchboards on that, in spite of the discriminadon that now goes Lesbians and Gay Men" atid [with Mary King] didn't want to fi^t for gays in the military; on the sees itself as part of a broader Left or progressive IH Can gays get along? seen in the last 50 years is the development of a goes back to tlie lS>th century and shows that our side of the issue, and thc outcome might have on, capitalism could ultimatdy go along its mer^ 'Tesbian and Gay Occupational Strat^cs") dis­ other hand, you had odier pc(^resstve& saying, well movement. I think that some of those folks in the strong, vibrant gay community in this country, and capitalism enabled gay h£t (originally more for beendififetent way and assimOatc gay people and gay rights, but Two members of the Z^EM^Ssm-tf^^iimuv editorial covered that there were dusters of lesbians in look, peopk need jobs, peopk need to be in die tntMC mainstream gay organizadons arc scratching economics has a lot to do with that Hie fact that, men) in thc sense that once an industrial workforce otherwise remain the same?" coDccttvc, Amy Ghidcman and Betsy Reed, have occu|^tions diat tended to bc both disprc^x>rt2on- miHtary, acid diey shoukki't bc sul^ectcd to these Hicre's a whok set of issues that is also real their heads wondering, **Why aren't peo|^ ac­ increasingly, women have moved into thc work devdoped that was firee ofdic farm and fire of edited Hatttt> EamttttsUs GpitaMsrtt, Ctmvttttttifjtt atui atcly low-paying and hosdJc to an out lesbian (but witch hunu. And the witdi hunts have been car­ irr^x^tant in die boc^ and I wish we could have cepting gay marriage? We're just like everybody AG: I can't claim scholarsh^ or expertise, but fbrce and have been able to maintain their own household-based production, singk individuals Lesbitm attd Gtry U^ (Romicc^ $19.95 paper), a have a hi^ turnover) and one of the possibk geted disprqpcntionatdy at Black women. deakwidi even mote. The Idnds ofconflict s occur­ dse." my spccuiadctfi would be yes, that it can. Tliat's households, free of dependence on a male wage could move to thc dty, get a job, and explore their collecdon of essays by gay men and lesbians (in- explanations she siiggests for lesbians gravitating BR* The 'Don't ask, don't tdl" policy is really ring because a s^ment ofgay politics has been what we already see. Many mainstream corpora­ earner, has been hugely important to the ability of identicy. That's probably a fundamental way in KD: It would be subversive. What would be the tions have dedded that there's more money to bc dudic^ Tony Kushner, audior of thc AIDS xr\- towards those occupations is, it's a strategy for damaging as a message to all sorts of employers. steadily moving towards die Right You know, economic effects ofgay ttiarrii^? lesbians to live. which gay pCopk can sort of be grateful to capital­ made by advertising to the gay community than o^AttgetsinAMetud) on vthstt thcy describe as the minimizing possible financial loss if you're dis­ KD: You mean that employers wiD say—"hey, orgaxii^adons stt(ipordng peopk like Govemor We have a piece by Lawrence Knopp ism. That was one of my inidal quesdons, as a AG: It's obviouslyabenefit tobe abk roget your there is to be lost by risking some wuth on the tense reladonship between gay people and die dosed as a lesbian. on the job, don't ask, don't telL" WiUiam Wekl {great oo gsy issues; terribk on ("Gcntrification and Gay Ndghboriiood Forma­ Dollars and Sense progressive, ftom a cridcal partner's sodal security, there's a whole variety of Ri^t or fiom cultural conservatives. Tbe fomines economy. BR: Right. It sends a message to the rest of everything dse progressive) \i^'s gotten a lot of Tlic interesting diing about gay men's employ­ tion in New Orieanst A Case Study"). It's about the perspective: how gratefiil to capitalism should we financial benefits to marriage, and there's no rea­ ofthe maricet are to overcome social uboos. The KD: What prompted you two to do diis book? society. support from sovne of the gay o^utizations in ment is that thcy have been disprop>ortionatdy gcntrificadon ofa ndghborhood in New Orleans, bc? son why that shouldn't be availabk to gay people. willingness ofgay potidcs to shift to thc Rig^t to AG: Beisy and I became interested in this whole concentrated in higher paying professions than But the economic dynamics of marriage for a gay the Marigny ndghborhood, and how it really en­ KD; How do you see the issue of "gays in the accommodate our economic system, -and not talk issue ofgay matkedng, where there seemed to be strai^t men, but, in fact, have been paid less than coupk arc not going to bc the same as thc econcMH- abled the community to form in a basic way. To militai)^' fitting in? It seems to me that this is really too much about those who are most vulnerabk to this sudden outpouring of commercial attention co straight men within those occupations. *';vv.^ ics of marriage for straight peopk, where the man have access to capital, to even form rental agendes an issue where dass and radal tensions within thc it—yeah,I think that probably most of tfae current die gay community, not only die devdopment of BR: One of our writers wrices about the eco­ has a lot more economic power than die woman^ gay business but advertising on the part of main­ ^ Beat tfae demands ofgay rights can be accommodated and nomic costs of the doset, how much it actually so there is an inherent source of inequality in thc perh^qss will stream businesses to the gay community, so wc costs in finandai terms to maintain an essentially marriage. That is not an automaric feature ofgay Ki^ Uui^is a ianyer speda&^figm labttr ttttd etttphjt- wrote about that f Tlie Gay Marketing Moment"). fake identity. 0cf£icy Escoffier, *1he Political winter blahs.. marriages. If a woman is abk to marry another ment iaWf heatth and pensitm hen^ts, attd ittielketkal Itgot a tremendous response, and as wc started to Econcwny ofthe Ooset; Notes Towards an Eco­ woman, and have all the benefits that accrue to look furdier, wc discovered that there was very •>: ptt^tcrty. Sbe is alto a writer attd an activist Her uttrk has nomic History of Gay and Lesbian Life Befbte .•'•**t**?' diat, I think diat really does change thc picture. littie accessible infbrmation about ccononuc is­ I GetoutScgo appeared in Z, Gay Community News, T\ic Advo­ KD: 1 want to put. An-iy on the spot and ask you Stonewall"). To separate your worit and personal cate, So)ouTnet, and otiierpMhtifatient, sues in die gay community. hfe and to sacrifice thc networking that usuaUy BR: I remember one meeting where Amy happens at corporations, sodsiXiy outside of the ii._^ V4^ 99 broi^t up ihc idea of rficfdadonshi p between formal ofifice life. Things like that are thc points '!(• WESTSIDE FLORIST gay life and capitalism, and how it seems like the that are unique to thc iesbian and gay economk •!.[• g?iy community owes a lot of its development to situation. •li Come to in union with die modem economy in many ways, but as AG: Escoffier also gpes back a few decades and \:\ ii'y;'i-\<: Oesi^is in Eyewear MAURIZIO'S TUXEDO\UNIFORM SHOP ptogrcsstves, we werc instinctivdy wary of that looks at the cost of being homosexuaL If your 1954 LyeH Avenue 9et/§ tZ99S% notion. So wc werc intrigued by that seeming sodal life required gcMng to the bars every ni^t, Area Specialists in contradicdon. And then, there was this explosion ihat's expensive. And if, forexampk , you attd your (Behind the Diplomat Party House) M>i9^^9Aa^%W of marketing interest in the g?iy community, which lover couldn't sharc a housdiokl, you had to pay Ma rch 9 ^m-M^ TICKETS^ S5 OO Optical Makeovers also made us wary, because it really did not appear separate expenses. Leading this doubk Hfis had a ^ Spectacular Easter Floral Anangements as if this interest was botn of political awakening variety of costs throughout thc '406, '50s and '60s. DESIGNS IN EYEWEAR but rather was the result of hard Snandai calcula­ KD: Hie first section of your boc^ is calkd "A C3 Flowering plants (Easter Lilies, etc.) tions on the part of corporations. Commtmity Dtvkkd" Do you think the gay and 2100 S. ObiMM Ave • 244-1245 KD: In spite of gay culture growing with the ksbian community (to die extern it can be called a ivriteiafiMpaBnaaAaatfcMa Qj By far the lowest prices in town on modem economy, have the wodcs in your book communtty), has become mote dhrided since the 23Q0W.IUd8el(il* 723-1030 hammered out a link between bdng lesbian and decades afber Wodd War II n of Labor, Sexuality, and liiii ecooomic terms. Gay people have not caped- Ixsbian/Gay Liberatk>n: Toward a Marxist-Femi­ cnced the scandess exploitation as a gttxtp that nist Analysis of Sexuality in U.S. Gq^itaHsm") The Community Blact pec^ have. Gay peof^ Hke women, ate ckscrihoi in die early 20dt century, there was an found in all dasses. 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In feet, ocie in^ ask if''^Z* really is kfvite g^ cfaotuses and smal groups to come and Wben adoed fbc suahmnnajag commenta, the Bjr Tony Lemad Mdissa Bdierk^ if tliey don't want tCM> In tiieir duee attistic enttcpreneois seemed to bave lost lished each year, ..4«ok^ doesn'tjMllKa^^ a distitict; obfccttve catcgoty of peopfe with essen­ er^aging essay, "Move Over Dading: Beyond tfae vie for prizes?^ Or words widi diat i^ipioxiaiate Siti)fMt^ MMJC (ed)..4iMHG9i New Yodb Casadl dietr foan on pcomotbg die an tfaiOKfl^ compe* boob no generous portiona of sexy mafe fledi or tial similariries dut differentiate tiiem feom others, Daddyl>^"SuzanneFattet90n and Anne-Made meatung Anyway, die tdeagKeWyaod tfae elaborate FyMfettkMu/FK«kMnEc]itioa ^^ in her presence. How­ However, beyond tlie endless sexy catalogues is good." i\ny homosexual -^tAvo still loathed liim- range of talents as models, appearing in various which meant I had to make ft lot of dedskxis ^xna RCTV Sundays at 8 pm. and Tuesdays at 10-JO Fd like to think this excellent book will be ever; were we in tum'"acting g»y" or sin^aly calting for underwear and fecedom ritigs, and tlic events/ sdf after this landmark event codd tig^tfdly be costumes including evening dress, and helping to dian^ng my life. I tfaou^t,''What can I do? What pan. ddibcratdy ignored by "Shocking Gray" custom­ attention to ourselves as tiie perverts ^le no doubt otgani^^tional lists in community newspapers that called a homophobe in desperate need of thetBp>', comes easiest to me?*' Whkh turned out to be EQ Why do you have cwo names — WIW ers, but the truth is it may never even get noticed emcee thc show. He hastened to comment on the thop^t us? In reaction to her comments, did my In one fell swoop, then, gay histoty marks same- dieater. I thou^t I'd like to /^rjomtto widi an aU- designafce what's gay and what's not, one wodd bc (Don't forget tiie deddedly vm-sexy cover). What­ number and quality of other solo and small group Wimmin and thc Women's Conimunity Perfor­ sex attraction, and one's attitudes towards it, as a femalc cast, and I wanted eo get a su^^port gfoup of wm ever thc case may bc, ^Anii-Gajf calk for men-who- acts which will bc interspersed between the visiting mance Project? matter of mere chronology—BS ("Before Stone­ women together, not only for myself bot to also have-scx-w!th-mcn (a (Mobfematic phrase in itsdQ choruses. g: Thc Women's Community Performance wall") and AS C'Aftet StonewaU''). Thc scatdogi- make a contribution to tfae ccMnmunity. and women~who-have-scx-with-womcn (Hkewise) VS^Jliams was particularly enthusiastic about thc Prefect is what I tiiiiik of as an umbrella fbr the cal icfcrcnccs here to bullshit and asshofe arc not Irene McNdty and I atid three or fbur other to peihaps do a littfe labd analysis. What's implicit i^ipeatance of Rodiesterian Thomas Warfield, mottspedficgtoi^thatare formed todoptofects. acddental. Simpson makes it quite dear tiiat "gay" women got together and talked for a fow months. in tiic wotd gay? How many of us know its etymol­ who will be die sdoist for thc gospel piece and who Wild XK^mmin is tiie performance groi^ and is a bullshit term, a buzzword that designates We made dedsions about putting die gcoup to­ ogy, or even how it came to bc used stnctly as a has qspeated widi Peace Art» a group whicii goes EveaDfopping the TV show, and wc have plans nothing more tlian a list to which peopfe keep gether, our goals and philosophy. We wanted to designator for homosexuals? And what about all over the world combining the arts to promote CO put togwiier a ^oqp of women who wifl wtite adding new names and items. Is this why so many form a gioi^ using die process of theater to he^ (drum roll please) — bisexuals? peace. >& enthusiasm for son^ other solo acts, SpedficaUy for perfoffmanoc. Also in the fiitureive fesbians and g^y men arc annoyed that Ellen women build a netwodc, make mcaningfd sodal Local artist has show howcver,aecmed to involve less such high-minded warn to put out a local women's newsletter that D^eneres won't officially come out on her own I ask so many questions because I don't have tiie contacts, kam new sldUs, have a good time and at LovingTouch Cemer presents tiie inixedniedki sentiments and more admiration for their focuses on women in the arts. show and therefore cannoc add her tiame to that answers. Neither do these wnters. They simply the end of die process have a product whidi we VDCbs of artist Qifford Smith. hunldness. These ate tfaif^ that we lode forward eo down all-important list? Certainly tl^ protrfem is nx^re teco^tize ahemative ways to live, and akemative oodd seU to ke^ die gpiot^ funded. We wanted it Smidi'se^ietienoe indudes extensive tmdieatn . Karen A. Miller,C5.W.XA.C. Loyal £ms of the Qiorus wiU remember other the road—we don'twant toget in over ourheads. compfex tfaan this, isn't it? names to call oursdves. to be open to aU wonien 16 and over, lepndless of commerdal art at Gg^ihk Careen, cerihiicwoifc ^*\TC^ ""'"*" I I ttrnifiifiniiii Ml iwiu i[|iii[i._._j A times when the ffxtap has staged major produce Our philosophy is, vtbcxt the time is titgjht it wil Warning: this book contains anti-Stieisand sen­ dramatic experienoe. We tfidn't know what wodd Iat tfae Genesee Pottciy CoOp, and teitttutig Bx Simpson wisely balances the tnale/fctnafe con­ timents. tkms, &tt oMinple tfae Bcoadwvy concnrt two years fas^pcn. PSYCHOTHERAPIST SPBCIALiZING IN happen. We were gpir^ tp make an errvifonmenr the Gteece Addt £ducadon Programi'Through ago and "The ACan, thc Moon, and the Lady'' with BO Hcfsv nia:iy women are in the groi^ now? i^ women to come to, aiid a task to perfbmt tliife rejtent use of pasteis, scratchboard and acrylic Individual - Rolationshfps - Qroup Cecile Saine in 1987. This production, however, SJ: We have 15 women in thc Cinderella cast, What ha{^>cncd was incrediblel The response paints, &nith creates unique pieces of art on dis­ Alternative Lifestyles Name: wiS be dieir most ambitious yet; and Kuhns has and Lara Haberbetger and I arc directing. Then Ro Eom^lmSi^W program .«••;. 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kgup Ifats yeat, liowever^oouldbedlflEerenc. For CMie thif^ Sen. Al D'Amato, tfae most powetfiil Re- by Erie B«linrMinn pubflcan in tiie state, voted in finrtx-of a similar lafl Tho diochon boy rENDA") on die fedecd fevd. If D'Amato wants Albany to pass sometiiing, it's hatd for tfae *1 amdce dgarettesrHiat's die Rqsubiicans ttiere to say no. Anodier reason is answer I snj4> badi wiien asked that Gov. Geocge Pataki has come ouc in fin^or of ^»faat I do wedu oaeadstway die bifl. During tiie 1996 Repubifean Conven­ ttom home. My smart ctadk is tion, Gov. Pataki joined Governors Whitman intended to aiiofft-dtcuit con- (Newjerseji) and Wdd ^hlassadiusetia) in finroc^ -•* -Jl ''versations>Awiacttavelcrgyowa ing equd rights fbr leabians and gay men. Hie rloe hester Ci ^mcyoft^ppk«hiahand;rmiealou8ofwhatrve diird reason diis year is dififermt is because ii is foood. Pteopie assume I tcacvd £cMr sex because of tiecoming harder and tiaider fbr fegislatocs to H TJ^ North Goodman St. @ \^age Gate Mall ivhat diey lie¥e seed or imi^tned lliat happens ^EF^oretfaefiKXtfaattfadrconstituenoovecwiidm- aooM^mes but it isn't die whok stocy. ingly supporcnonrdiscrimiraKion. PoQsdiow tfaac Open every day 10:00 am till midnight Soraepeafde can't tnvdi diey don'twamtopeit 84 percem of Ameikans wiio voted in last year's with die knoein. Otiiets bnvefy seeIc gcMs tliat's election suppoctequd t^its for gay AmoiGans in leas btown. What I have fbund is bodi temble and die woclqitace. Few politicians are wifling to go (716) 442-2323 (800) 836-9047 diiSKng. We imve litde pctfiaration for witnessing against 84 percent of tlie voters. poverty. One passes begg^ as a daily routine. Passage of tiie bdl is one of ttie main goals of OnoeladcedaTkidtishftiendwl^liiscciuotzymm tile Empire State Pride Agenda's Lobby Day on "The store that ties us all together/' were all so sfim (Td assumed it was because of Mardi 4, Tethtans,gyy men, liiyxuals, and their vanity and stret^ of chucacter). He b2andfy re- of peopfe headkig someplace safe, or press confer­ rons;we*diiave bteakfittt together. WaOtingacxoss fiiends and fimdies from afl over ttie state wifl go ptied: 'They don't have enot^ to cat" Reilicy •n.-i ences blowing fierce men dcdanx^ Hberty, or tfae piaza witfa two watm rolls wrapped in newspa- to Albany on tfaat dsry to talk to members of die seeps in thoi^ tise oddest diinks* I returned to ravaged, empty landso^ses. Not romantic any- per was as daring as anytiiing Fd ever done. Senate and Assembly at>out why this bill tieeds to Tuxitcy one spring and dioughc FS! be able to eat tnore. My spirits rose when I saw Ahmet beaming MI become law. However, we need to do tnorc. It is grapes again. Not so. Grapes aie a M harvest. At home Fve decorated tny car, the winddiield, walked toward liim. My pleasure, wiiidi came alsoin^KXtantdtataflofuswriteandcaOourScate Now I ri^ard our supermarket abundance with thc rear window with odds and ends — soccer foxn a willingness to take a risk, was indebted to Senatois and Senate Majority Leader Bruno and embarrassment Wc have so mudi. Tm hicky to flags, knitted trifles, good hick diarms—theway curiosity, con^iassion, and good hick. At some explain to tiiem wtty tfais liifl is iixqioctant In , have been bom here. Yet I continue to wander. people do here. It amuses mc. Peo[^ gape at my fevd most gay men (I should only speak fbr mysdf) Rochester we arc very hidcy in diat bodi Senators Traveling involves cfFott and itigenuity. The car as I pass them. Anotiier flag is not a bad idea. fed diey arc wortiiless. They accq>t tile lie that diey Dt^Hnger and Alesi siqiport diis bifl. However, difBcult part is not language or finding hotels or I have nothing better to do this moming. What's arc no good. Travel, among i ts otiier virtues, is an we stifl need to remind tiion of its importance changing currency. There ate always people able to more the j^oung man at thc table is bcauriful. opportunity to escape tlsc monotony of one's own and we e^sedally need tolet Joe Btuno loiow diat help with those things. TTie hard part is filling time; For a moment I hesitated in front of thc modest, history. we need tiiis law. what one does after thc sights have been toured, •%^' "•'Ij*^ neatly arranged display. Then 1 xeadicd for a Ahmet was embarrassed by my gift; hc yelled to The tiifl itsdf is very, excuse tiie terminology, when one stays longer. My sodal skills have ex­ pennant. Thc man smiled. It*s a better ttavd mo­ stra^jhtfotward. It simply prohitiits disctimina- panded. Fve grown better at making idle chatter a nearby vendor to bring us something spedaL ment Avben two things attract my attention simul­ tion on tiie basis of sexual orientation in ttie areas with shop keepers, waiters, taxi drivers. I've had to Sitting on a plastic stool nibbHngon a breal^Btof taneously. As he grilled fbr change, die dark- of employment, housing, education, and public devekjp other habits. I read more. 1 write letters. fieshly baked, still warm burek, a light pastry filled eyed youth gestured toward a large white note accotnmodations. The main reason we fieed tliis Fm ddigiited when I solve a problem: a torn with wiiite cheese, (here food is shared — more book. Each page hdd writing in languages I could law is tiiat discrimitiation against fesbians and gay sititcsae can be repaired by a cobbler (tiiey are things tiian I can grasp are shared), tiic Chedien not dec^[^ier. He handed mc a pen. He wanted me men exists statewide. Hie most prevalent form of everywiierc) for a dollar, bent eye glass feunes boy and I kept company. Wc liked each otiier. And to write. discrimiriation occurs Ul the workplace aiid tfais stanu^tcned with nail clippers. I had an insight, mundane or maudlin in retro­ Pleased that our encounter might be mote than spect, ftesh as breakfiist rt^ then: I can always bifl provides a way oo discourage workplace ha­ When you travel, tiierc's less to do. I have brief, I ga^ed at the pages and die reakxation settled love. Love is a capability, a syndiesis ofboivery and rassment and address sudi discriminanoffL fiociiingtoarrBnge»dcan.Fmlike Robinson Crusoe: in diat this was a collection of sentiments about determination. Ratiier Kke the ability co go to a Today, festiians and gay men make up die what Fve packed is all I own. With mindless war. How utterly siUy, I tiiough like a hig^ sdxxiA fontigp country. latgest group of citizens who are tpccificdty routines erased, possessions pared down, I can graduation book filled with wishes for thc ftamte. Bventuafly 1 took my leave, waved good-^yc d&sctintixiated ag^iinsc widiout piotccckxi m 1^4^ focus on bcix^ Thcse's so much I don't under­ This odd ;uxt3^30aidcm of a swoef^ hvnu^mtxnc Yotic Semoc. The* y^mr n cMti tAtu^gc dh^tt tyy dtnts stand, 'niere axe endless opportunities to practice youth collecting money for a devastated coumry peopfe in this crowd tiitnk ofmc^ tears gfistening passi^ ofcheSexualOdeoouian Waa-J:>iacam»- patience* Patience comes easily: tiieie's hardly any fascinated mc I felt as if I had come upon a down my diccks? I did not look back. I dkl not nationBifl. dxMoe. One simply must wait for situations to creature in a clearing in the woods. My instinct was retum a tiiird day. Hiat, I was certain, would have change, unfold, explain tiiemsdves. to move carefuUy. And since I wasn't eager to tneant I wanted to take possession of iiim. I didn't TheLsMvandUs Best of all IVe leamed CO be aimless. One reason witiidraw fi:om his radiance, I sat in die chair he want anytiiing. Travding^ one feams to move on. By EUen Yacknm I ttavd is the possibility for the seretidipitot^; that pcmited towards and thoi^t. Sad diou^its. Peopfe What I have also learned as I age is that with fittfe expecience or event which may unfold witiiout witiiout liberty. H<»nes destroyed. lives ended. evidence to support my ^th, I continue to bebeve When HIV plan or warning. And as I wrote a few sentences about afl peopfe in love. I have been cciiified of looking old, hardly CAitfiRcMBiitijuity isn t Fd arrived in die center dt>' bus depot, a latge deserving to be ^ce^ my mood sank into despair a novd response fbr a gay American mafe, and at c^ien plaza tinged with food stalls, flower sellers, and I grew tired. Too many emotions in dooe times of confusion I have sunk into tiie panidcy Hie term "ci^t to privacy" is fbund nowliere in and rows of tnen seated bdiind siioe shine boxes. sequence: curiosity, artxtsal, amusement, sorrow. I fimk wiiere I bdieve diat kioking odd, htAO^ otd, tfae Constitution. Neverdtidess, an individud's In this space I find a vast tiiron^ travelers descend- dosed thc boc^ wouki pccdudc romance. Wc take such comfoct in cig^t to privacy is firequently touted as one of die ii^&ommitu vans and hutryingoff, otiiers in lines, I censored my thoughts of war and concen­ figuring out Hfe diat it is breathtaking wiien we most fundamentd ofall constimtional rights. ei^er to depart, pcessif^ forward, straining to see trated on tiie tnan sitting here aU day iiopmg to raise teaHze in a flash we have been wrong. Then, To ttie extent anyone knows wtiat lidiavior is if tiietr bus is next. They form a rlxydimic counter­ money. Beauty is so mudi more appealing 5x4ien it startled, fissli, we find die wlierewidid to go on subsumed by ttie cocistitutiond ri^t to privacy, it point to tiiose stoic vendois iidd captive endless is commingfed with virtue. I smiled at his htx. ic^vdfess of tiie destination. is only because tiie judidd system tias scrutinized houts in that snrtall patdi of pavement tiiat defines How shafl I descrilie iiim fbr you? Was he hand­ tiiat concept and tias appHcd it (or not) to various tiidrentcrpnse. I am not in a hurry. I have nowhere some, erotic, merdy young^ Yes, but also inno­ ^icdfic types of conduce In tiie past few decades, togp. Politicai Update cent. for exanqsfe, tiie Supceme Court tias tieki ttiat a Beyond some trees a Bxpfang banner catches So I flirted with him. I asked his name, his age. by Andrew Lee Gonstitutiond right to privacy exists with respect to my attention. I see a flat tat^ some books and He beamed in tiic warmth of attention. How long a woman's rig^t to use contraceptives, but lutf hdd pampii]ets,astringofg^eenandwiiitepennants.A he had been in tiie coimtry? Fifteen years. And so NYS gay rights bUI tiiat a constitutiond ri^ m privacy does noc exist yeac ago I bou^ one of tiMse flags, a souvenir CO I rcspooded tiie way l^irica do wiien tiiey licar I If die New York State Sexud Orientation Non- with respect to consensud acts of sodomy widiin <|f»a^ify^iff fny car. Later I g^ve ic to someone who heve been to tiieir coumry many times*"Aii» you Discrimination Bill were a person, it would be one's own home. fiked k. X dedde co get anodier. me iialf l^uksdL** It ts flMtecy tiiat works on me. old enough to voce. That's boch surprising and in'^8i*fc« K ^ dcckfed in 1977, die Supceme In the last fow yetrt one haa seen theae veodocs Ahmet's snak v»iidied» tm expcesakm steadied, scary, but it's true. Court tadd diat individuab tiave a constinirionatty in moat big dties. A kmc peaon sita ac a tdite, he looked evenly ac tne and sakl, *'No, I am Hie ball, odginttBy known as tiie Civil Rights Bifl, protected pcivacy t^^ to avoid disdosure of per­ acfiing tctfles and ficermtute. The metdums ace noc Oiedien." ins been in AflMuiy for wdl over 20 years, but New sond mactess. Folkiwing Wbttktty several courts IVMIM^ It took a while for me m teaMae diey xwece At tfaat moment I was lose A paicioc. A young Yodc, wiiich many view as ooe of the more pro- tiave tidd tiiat a petaon's medicd status, including pacdMot, pethaps lefogeea, ttietagmoney for die m«n devoted toacauae. Days later wlien I was ^essive states {just Hsten sometimes to how the a person's HIV scstus, is ttie soct of ''persond tnir diac has engulfed Chedienistan. tryif^ to focce n^ foeik^ into ocder; I wrote an radkd ti^ deinonizes ua) has yet to guarantee matter" ttiat ttie Omstitution protects fixxn Cbedienistan. I never pmnotnce it ooccectly, Amefkan fiiend tecountiog this adventure and tliat its citizetis ate feee ftom discrimtnatiofi on tiie nocKonscnsud dtsdoflMfe. people adc me to rqieac die tvocd. Then tiiey nod flhf 4 when iiad iie ktt fdt patriotic? I can recafl basts of sexud ociencatiocL tiowevcc, Wht^ also made it dear tiiat an AfewkocwoficfinmbcierrVbite&Odiccshcve bsiqgaf^y in my countiy^ I can cecal moments of Hie ttuly sutpdstng tiling for diose unfiuitiHar indtviduaTs privacy r^^ with respect to tier or tus iiodiMudofdiisplace;iif«iraildBmi9;Notnacie^ hope. I cannoc cecaB iasting pcide. I am alter all a with tiie Byzantine procedures ofthe New Y<3ck medicd status is noc atisohKe. Rather it is a Iwimapeenfi^igiedpeiMiMicfarnycariroKkw^ :;^' cidiesi ofdimioiahed staodio^ Sobeyond physical State LegUatuie is diat die reason the bifl lias not cooditiond right tliat may be uvercooie by ttie Iftktdiehodstotiieeastofnitkeybewitdih^ gmoe, I ccgwded a man of virtue. become few is noc liecause it has lieen continually govemment's interest in liaviog or using tiie kifbr­ Udb«iuttun, Kaxakliastaii, Kifg^tizatafl, He dkiDt speak nmdi Ea^fUb; my Tutitish is voted down. It hasn't been. Nor ia tfae reason mation. Moreover, if an indhriduaTs medicd coo- l^ricmeniMan. llie names «c« caocic. I fek fhac fcctale,dfdgpedmytmemhoidfOom,ameaLSo becauae there are xiot enough votes to pass it. dttion is at issue in a lawsuit, or if an itidividud wiqroBOeabouc latanbd^no^it's tt femiBsf to me aa people do iiere, in die cnidsc of ftnh and confu- There are. The reason the bifl tias not beotsme krer executes a wiicten conaent, ifae mdividud waives at my luaecovn. llie unknoim hoidi my iinae^ aioo,weaBCineadicMfacs^8eooyafiy;sieotmattify, ts tfaat the New Yock State Teg^hnire has yet to Ids (V tier riglbc CO pcivacy witfa respea m tits or tier oNkxtWhacwoaUI findinS«iMdcaDdl?Wdl.of buc pkatid widi die adacwcmeot of oor meetk^ vottoodieba. Por tfae hst fiveyears die Assembly odttte Ai^^iamttMi is a intgedy now, just cnbfaie. That n4|^ the difficuk thot^ acdved: what lias pMted this 14 but eacfa time ttie Senate Hvec pacsmdeep of one's coosiitutkmd t^ht Now, for die fim rime, Fm leading about diout tocoonow? I decided to eeiidt Ahmet, to Nfatodty Leader litt cefoaed to fet ifae lifl out of CO privacy with respect to one's HIV scMns were '^^m^^i^M^ OmfaeniMML Oipt oo tdevisioo diow cacsmis KiimJilMnyiiiciiti IwouMhringiiimtociicacaiMc cofiuiattecao tfaat thc cmireScoacc cap vote oo it* reiadfcly dear in 1992. Hiac ycai^ aocoidKig to — .. f^ ~ ,r^, .... ,. -^- trufci

tipir and hilf-tnidis tttve qwoog 1^ aroufid txai- an **inde3c" fund wboaeportfolkimaCcfacit tfaat of sGghtly danttaged Hie steering column was ciMied Court found, even if iNhWtdlaiAiflh^todiiBfe cfaoeaes CD waive dteiri^lhts ifiaipMtfic ooot^ Jc^in Doe and Jane Roe, dieir HIV status was and Jane (a.k.a. Marsh and ^leflSeU). As oaif^ tadlbii&Afldifyoiiwieretofoaowdieaedkdskius a ttfoad-based index fike tfae Standard & Poor's and die passenger lock ripped out. Nfypartnerjcmi Jane'sandJohn'tpdvacfi^^MHdiandSheffidd Noneilwlesa,diefecaaofdie«aaecompdkdd»! On Your Side disclosed witiiout ttieir consent (tio^ ttiese are not tiave been predicted, Jane and Jotm, whom Macsh kicai. you cooU fattft die pcogreat yoifre mdai% 500. ^0IMi an ttidex food, yoo mi^ not make any oppodte testsk-Hwre was no di^puce tfaat Mushes dtsavc mc to Geneva tiie tiext day to retrieve tfae tfaeir red names, fatut to prevent furdier uiuieces- tiad not asked fbr permission to uae dietr oafl^ac, coukl noc be pooidied foe doaog aa tcvWBidacItieviiig your &uBKkl gods. fa% kOing^, but yoa can be hkif coofideot that By Chrisdne Simons vioktion of Jane's andjofan's c^ to pdvacy was car. t could drive ttie car liome because tfae car sacy disclosure, the court records refer to ttiese were not so grateful fbr die Ackno^decigenM»t Hie Court based itaquiiSfi«diK»Hintty £nd^ Hefe are a few of d«e moac commoo pfeosa of your foncTtpcriiacmaaoe wil mtccor tlie mtckcc as dooe oot of gcatttiude, not maSce. Hiere was no VIolatkms started witfa a screwdriver. Hie key was useless. I itidividuals tiy these totallyuncreative pseudonyms). Instead, tiieir lawyer wxore to die xtd Macdi, on sevetd fects intfaeReaitd.lliesefectsindbded qoeatiociahfe «t^ — «id some suggesticns for a wtiole — andtftiatGanbeapcettygooddedfoc dispuie diar as aooa as Jane and Jofaa had bcoii§^ wore gloves and sat on a mat afl tfae way badt to At tfae time, both Jotin and Jane were HIV demaiafingtfaeimmedMrecessationoftfacmanuaFs tfaefottowii^ 1} Jane and John wvaeeexcremety you in the kx^ cun, because stocks histocically I am sure aU of you know thc old expression Mttah'^cgiqpoasetior to hef attrition, she took Roctiester. After tfae car gets rqiaired, I am going positive peopfe wfao were active in various HIV dtstrilHitson, the exctsno c^tiie natnes of pecMos active in ptomoting HIV pteveuilon awareness have ttended up. *Nriien ic cains it poucs." I volunteered at die speedy aod utieqdvocd actioo to icctify die mat­ *yoi>catti*tdyhwMJ^toomiich**-DrocrMfica- to get it deaned fitMn top to bottom. atid AIDS tsapjpon and advocacy orfflniaatjoos. in die AcknoOKitk,mQCiefCmdDettostxu- and diaae tfae 'tiot" fisods, dmae ifaat tumed in a so lieft at 9:45 p4n. My co-wocker Larry Wlute, lAidcy dicsc cfeaimrtances, how could a couct tnninn go ttiroi^ sucfa tielL" Afl I tiad taken from seminara were ocg^tfuzed fay ttie New Yodt Stare ttiougt only doee matniali were acmafly cemtned name in an educatiood videotape abogt HIV* -^ tncxita, etc. Bcaaxse timtttd fut»£i are tnade 1^ of sceSarpeafocmance ewer tfae pasc year and are now offered to walk me to my car. punish Miidi and Shetfdd for satigiis conadtn- me was my dad's cari I kept hearing my fedief say,. Department ofEdocation's HIV/AIDSpaegiratA, totiec;Shealsowtore an apology fetter toevciyone Fucdie^ die SecomtOKidt observed, vAien maaydlflfecentiriridge. I was ICXX) percent sure. I asaoocBtttBtundvioktionuCofisequently^ascourts have never to4d anyone, it is not too kre to get ticJp. Nforsh and wlio was SliefiBdd), and tfaey came out Onjan. 22,1887, the Second Circuit Court of namesandHIVstfttus inone fo«um,JaneandJotm offyou'H be, ti^^ Wrong. Hiere are severd good antee of future results. You stifl need to pay dose couldn't believe wfaat was tiappening. The tears oftendo^ dieSectxid Cttcuit couciiedits sidkjecttve AIDS Roctiester and tiie Gay Alliance have refer- in tiiese identities as HlVpositive individuaJs. Af^ieds t^iheki ttie eadier district court's decision mighchave waived ttidriightmprevent disdosure reasons fbr Hmiting the mimber of fiinds you own: attention to wtut's happening with the fund totky. ti^an to flow. What was so awful atxxit diis gut reaction in so-ca&d''objective" legd analysts td lists ofkxal tiierapists wtio are qualified to tie^ In tiie spfii^ and summer of 1992, Marsh (tiie to dismiss Jane and Jc^m's constitutiond daims. of their nanKs and HTV status in anotiier focum. •£%^&iiA«nr-Mutud futid inaiu^ers have a fltiite Docs it tiave a new portfbHo tnans^er? Has its experience was that it was my dad's car and I liad to reach tfae oiKcome it wanted you. red Macdi, noc tfae pseudonymous ^^irsh) wrote (Ifookalty, Jan. 22 is also the anmvcrsary of .^Zflf K The court did not find diat Jane and Jc^ tiad amount of stocks and bonds from which to build investment objective dianged? You must take afl just lost hitn. I fek like I was losing ham afl over In mjf (subjective gut reaction) view, thc out­ I would Hke to thank ttic Rochestcr and Geneva a manud fbr AIDS educatcMS entitied "Settii^i^ IP^,tiielandmadcdeciskxidcaHngwidt a woman's actually waived tiieir ri^t to fwivacy by dicir pre­ tiieir funds. Thus, many growdi funds wifl own ttie diese fectors — loi^-term performance, current again. come in tius pactkukr case was ccttxect. Wtiat is police, my parmer, co-woikcxs and espedafly Larry HIV Prevention Education Btigrams Including ptivacy lig^t to tiavc an abortion.) Unlike thc vious actions. The Court found neverthdess diat same stocks, bond funds wifl own ttie same t>'pcs management^ investment objective — into ac­ Five wondcrfol women at thc Downstairs Cat>a- also dear, however, is that ttic Court sugg^ted White, for tidping mc get throi^ diis recent Peopfe Lhting widi HIV/AIDS." She had been district court, die Af^jcab Court did not decide it was "objcctivdy reasonable" to condude that of bonds, and money-maricet funds witt own ttie count wticn making your fund choices. ret took mc in to ttie Cabaret's office and let tne use one way or anotiier wticthcrJoh n andjancactuafly strongly diat tiic nonconsensud disdosure ofa downpour. I am convinced dicrc are a lot of land prompted to write this manud by many requests John and Jane might have voluntarily waived their same types of stiort-^tetm securities. As a result, you ^As long aa tfae fund performa well, don't thc {^KMic. I wifl never fotget tiow one wotnan tiad a constitutiond right not to liave tiieir HIV person's HIV status was nfJt a constitutiond vio- pco{^ in ttic world. See yoo next montii. ftom seminar participants who worked in locd tidit to disdosc ttieir HIV status to locd educators may not see much difference in your tioldtngs if worry al>out expenaea** - A mutud fund's annud g^ve mc a hug and sdd, *lt wifl bc OIC" My co- status disdosed without their consent (dtiiough latioti. As a result, the CourtimpHcd, future viola­ schools ttiroi^out New York. Becatise Marsh in thc context of the pubhshed manual. you own sevetd funds ftom ttic same catcgot\'. c^>erating expense is repotted as a percentage of woricer was wonderful Hc drove me to dbe Lit>erty The Authentic Self thc Court hinted that they did). Instead, applying a tors of Jane's or John's — or anyone's — consti-- wanted to credit tiie people who had participated Thxis, dthou^ Marsh and Shcffidd violated Excessive pi^tenfork - Hie tnore funds you own, totd net assets, so ttie more your fund increases in Pole PcJice Section to file a report. Unfortunatdy, doctrine called "qualified immunity," the Court tutiond rig^t not to have their HIV status dis­ By Thomas Fronczak, in the seminars and had tau^t her how to imple­ (or, rather, might have violated, since thc Second the more taxabfe transactions youll tiave to track. value, thc logger the bite these expenses will take (gay community liaison) C^>Cain Ray Mosherwasn't held diat Marsh and Sheffield could not be sued for doscd wifl undoubtedly not he so lucky. And rhat ment die seminars successfully, she included the Circuit refiised to commit itsdf on this point), That means you'll iiavc a lot of foicms to dcsH with fixjm your earnings. For example, if your fiind on duty, but Officer Wade was very kind. As I sat CSW-R, ACSW violating Jane's and John's privacy rigJits even if outcome, too, would be correct. foUowing Acknowledgements in the manual: Jane's and John's constitutional ri^t to pnvacy, at cax time. ctiarges you two percent for opera ring expenses on there sobbing, the officer said, "Don't worry, Gone cyber they did have such a rigJit. both Marsh and Sheffidd were entided to "quali­ you'U get it back." He also verbalized wtiat I had **Men and women, young and old, living with Financial D^^kuify ftt trackit^ - To invest intdligcntly, you the Sl ,000 investment, the expense would be J20- Busy signals on AOL? (Though diankfiilly, with Hie qualified immunity doctrine shidds gov- fied immunity" wich respect to the privacy claims. been feeling... diat I had been violated. HIV, have OMne fonvard fiom the beginning of reafly need to know why you own a particular If it cams a 20 percent return in one year (1200), thc addition of extra modems in the Rochester emmentd actors (as Maish and Sheffield were In other words, conduded the Court, ndther this cfMdemic, knowing from certain knowledge planning investment, how it's performing and what its out­ then thc expense actually cost you 10 percent of I now have a smaU taste ofperson d vioktion. I area, the problem is resolving.) Everydiing imag­ because tficy worited for thcN.YS.Dcpartmentof Matsh nor Shcffidd could be punished for violat­ that their persond risk would have licen lessened look is. Hie more mutud funds you own, thc more your return. So pay dose attention to those oper­ can't imagine hein% rxpcd or sexuaUy abused and inable "dot.com?" Internet cafes (The Hub, Education) who violate a person's constitutional ing Jane's and John's constimtiond ri^ts, even By William E. Glave if someone had talked to tiicm about tiieir betiav- difficult it is to keep track of rhem. It's much easier ating expenses — they do rnake a difference. how diat must make women and men fed. Hicy Surfs Up), e-mail, Multicom, Netscape, rights fiom having to pay damages for the consti­ iors. Hiesc courageous people have enhanced assuming they were guilty of doing so. Mutual funds to keep do5;e tabs on just a few funds. Invest fot tomorrow — not today. Mutud are robbed of something much bigger. I have Microsoft, news groups, chat rooms, FTP, wotid tutiond violation \(4icn the govcmmcntd actors' HTV prevention cflForts immeasurably with tiieir Itis fair to ask (as it always is) whetiier the Court Mutud funds probably get more pubHdty tlian Is tliere an "ided" number of mutud funds to funds are a long-term investment. Wticn chosen known a lot ofwomen diroi^out tiie years wtio wide web, home pages, IRC. URL, TCP/IP, conduct was "objectively reasonable," based on passionate exhortations to afl of us to choose was correct. In my view, tlic answer is txKh no and any other investment on thc market. And smafl tiave? Sotne financid experts recotnnnend tiiatyou propcriy, they can hdp you achieve many ofyour liave suffered tiiis persond tragedy, and how it ISP, HTML, cylscrscx, "surfing," gifs, and Jpegs? thc state of law at tiic time ofthe alleged viokition. bdiaviors which minimize our risk of becoming yes. Hie Court, it seems to mc, was wrotig to wonder — there arc more than 8,000 funds to own no more than six to tO funds. And the less financid goals — a new h

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One local woman cruise throv^ Have fiin surfing and ifyou find needs to indude the oppottunity to question, pram.vDlunt»eroys8ntntion. HPA raises and distributes fends to suooort DnMrams fha* memtiets and fiiends may wdl be prejudiced. But Smem. 442-2220. AiGSAodwMw, 1350 (Wid Whhmio) A»-fcmale peHbrmance liapptlystiared tier moving out CO San PrandsGO to ottier sites of interest, pass them onl doubt, and oqplore afl aspects of being a lestMan in before you can cope with bdiers'bdiefs, you must U>«Mni|r Av«. ARI ado haa other MT- 8roiip«235-4IKL bc with a wtxnan slie met onHne. ttiis cukurc. One way to become consdous atxxu v(c»a fiDr>«V poaMvw ataman. t!^^!^^>^!::t't^:£:^f^^ f^^ndtngtspr^SS^^'iSSSK^ One of the most impressive sites locally is first bccoinc aware of your own. If^'llMpf Productkm*. Lesbian- vyww^gayiocfaeaterxofnwliidinowofifeis fiames the attitudes and bdieifo that yoo^ere tat^t and % Hie relationships which are fottnitigorilifie are Hie term "homc^obia" was first coined in CMntaw^ HtJHWi Natworfc. 758 based odmpmjr offm B», ipeakOTY* re- afld complece resource t3pdates, cc»iiing out infor­ have imcmalized is to think aliout ttie tilings you ftyAKwieo of dio Ge«»w^ Valley peer ««dlitators can p»wide reie^ significant, and due to the nature of sudi connec­ 1973 by Gcotgc Weinberg to describe tiic irratio­ South Ave 244-9000. Sniipart group «or treass, tti^ons.fesbia n pefformers, special mation, personals, and even local movie Hsdngs. leamed about le^iians ficom your fiaimily, religion, tions, often cxccptionafly tiotiest For many ttiere nal fear, hatted, and intolerance of homosexual HIV poaWve women. 'Tlakinf Conn«:. events. Write PO Box 254, Rochester NY Mulacom-4, Rochester's gay, lesbian, and bisexual and sodety. Consider liow much you fctdicvc each seems to bc a sense of safety in sdf-disclosing men and women. Homophobia functions on a tions." Contact Lyn Blackburn. Meets fim 8460I-02S4. BBS is located at wwwjatuldcoin.org. Of inter­ idea. Wtiich lieHe& are n^ativdy affe:cting your personal infonnatkm based on ttie environment sodal levd as wefl as incemally as a defimsc mecha­ and if)irdMonda9i«.>JI»-l J am. Pre-lnter- SFORTS: SII2Ji£S!2!2j^Sfl2**^ l855W.tiainSt.rundiroM^Monroe ofthe online oqierieticc. Hiis aflows an oudet for est to ttiosc wtio travd across ttie txMxkrisTotxmto's comfbrt in identifying yourself as a feslaian now? vicwre<|ubied.'*MoiittEiic"si^pportpoup nism. CuJtuiaUy, it is a bcHef system that justifies Lionotf Pride Motorxydo Cfub* resource Hbrary. Sue Cjowell, (716)464-5928 (V/TTY). sharing wtiich may not occur in one's smafl tiome- gay web page at www.^ytotonto.com which is DistinguistiingtietweenwhatyouVebeentai^t discrimination based on sexual orientation. Inter- for alt famaie caregivers: comact Sydney Meets tfiirdWednesday s and Saturdays in town, espedafly if cMie is not out yet. Gay teens, an outstanding site, induditig pictures and mp^ and your actual experiences can tie^ you bcccxne Meti;ger. CHN tas many other fbcus nally, homophobia is thc acceptance within of ahxsmate mondis. GAGV Community Cen- once isolated, have cybcr-fiicnds afl over the coun­ fifes (movies), as wcfl as a chat room, not tt? dear alxHit your own bdiefe about yourself. You croups and services fer HIV positive these negative attitudes. Hie Digressive and preju­ l»r. 179 Adantfc Ave. Weds: 7 pm. Sac S try who offer support and encours^;rf»eftoer AIDS brt^^ mended in stiaring any personal informadon with ti^ become popular ttirougji the web by major are in a stronger position to deal with homc^hobic and insidious forms are less easy co identify and arc 1172;office(315)331-117l:fex(315)331- Wonnen^s Resource Center. a "stranger," as being online allows one to misrep­ magazines: Out magazine: www.out.com; Genre attitudes in ottiers. Knowing wiiat you believe 1189. often e3^>ressions of uncf^isdous homoptiobia. YWCA, ! 75 N. Qinton Ave. 54^7740. resent oneself. Magazine: www.^enteinaga2dne.com; Hie Ad­ vaHdaces your eaqieriences and he^ you fed com­ Some of ttiese fess-obWous c^qsressic^s of inter­ l»OjLrnCAL: Slkft of Ufe Caie. Feminist vefetarlan vocate: www.advocate.coin; and fiom NYC thc fort in your lesliian identity. Hiis opens die possi- Wtiife I do not tiave specific data, I would go as nalized homophobia ate fear of discovery; dis- Wom«i A«aStHt a Viofent Envi- restaurant 742 South Ave. 279-8010. fiv as to si^gesttliat Muhicom (the local Roctiester Vfllage Voice is found atwww.vilLiigevoice.oom. tiflicy of Hving a fesbian Hfe to its fullest comfisrt lietng pubHdy around other fesbians who JWiment (WAVE.) la«Ms of violence Wonrten** Conmnunity Pros^iun- GA/(B) BBS; 756-4300) and such ISPs as AOL A new resource is www.plarietout.oom, wtiich Paula deCtidly, FhuD., is a psydiothcn^t in at>insti^fonicn. PO Box IS650, Rochester arc "out^'andvisilife; feding siqieriorto and reject­ ing. 454-^30 or 464*0771. MonreeC^wi^ tiave helped diose wtio fird isolated, dqicesscd, Hscs news tqidates, shc^jping and classifieds. private pcactice spedalizing in wotnen's issues. IMY 14^. 234-9709.wvw.rocheswr.edu/ ing heterosexuals; tlie bcHef tiiat lesbians are not CoeiidoA fer iMbbui VWbHity. Di­ counM«i««CMr HIV and other sexuaHy transmitted dbeases. (716) 274 6146. and pethaps even suiddal when loneliness may SBA/95-7S/wav.html HIV/AIDS infomiation is easily accessibdc at difficrent fiomtieterosexual women; an uneasiness CoknwM Gontlniiod on p. Bll verse group of women hosdng monthly cause such pain for them. Hic act of connecticm is thc following sites: AIDS Rochester: '' *^ad«nalO<'!ganixatfenferWomen podocks/socials tn Rnger Lakes area. Sec­ Strof^M^iwrtri Hospital provktes a com^^ _ somedung we afl need, and whife online rdanon- www.&r^K.com/ aiiiMst; Centers for IMsease (Gr«M*r RochMter NOW.) PO Box ond Saturdays. Call Becky Bly, (3IS)539- «>cp^irnemal treatment protocols, and HIV testine^ Abo pravkies IndMdual and aroup pg^^jodwapy. Traink^ of health car«prof«tskMiab abo avattabte. lnlec0ousDlwaseainkU7l6) s/i^ptf mmy not tte ofttw^ .'?-«h. tfaey c-r^^Miniy coti- Control: w^n^w.cdc.^ov; POZ magazine? ^;27i. " ;- mrmi;—(rumTrmr: E-miu: 275-0526. Otrmrtm^nt €P^ Psychiatry, (7tS) 275-3379. AiiX Ti^^nA^/V«vecic (7t^} 27S^SA93 tied human beings to otiier human beings. Such www.poz.com; AIDS Tteatment Netwt»k fiw r [email protected] Web .page: Check ttur twmthfy atui ottgoing cafettdars Planned Pm^tn^^k^oad of Rocfiester mmd Cenesee Vaifey otfRsra tescirw and fcifefniacton an act of connection has been known to afiect, in great fact stieets on medications and viral load 1 -www.rochester.edu/SBA/95-7S/ fbrttntre wt)meti*sgroups attti evettts, attdcaU (716)546 2595. a positive way, dc^nession, isoladoti, and a sense of ^te GaySoutce ItvfiOne fbr mierrah, at 244- testing at www.aid8nyc^org; GMHC: WiUiam A. Kelly, CSW rochnowJitml Threshold Youth Cefftter provkies confkfendai testing^ young peoples^ 12-25. Fees on personal wefl bdng. www.gmhc.org, and Project Inform at AASECT Certlfled Sex Hkerapist/Sttperviaor CULTURAL: 8640. Attd send us yaur ittfbrtnatkmi sliding scak>, no one denied sten^e. Threshold Center for Akematiye Youth Services, 80 St Paul Hie online experience also aflows a safe place 'www.oonfide.oom and WVTWJiomeaocea3.Gom. Rochtufier Women's Community St 454-7530. for individuals co practice new tx^viors. Some­ Safer sex education lias even taken to die web ac Chorus. 473-73«5. (See Ogaik^ catendbr. Carole J. Camp, RN, CSW, CAC Pbnger Lakes FamKy Care wii provkie confklentaJ or anonymous free cestirtt in Ontario/ one who is shy may find it easier to assert them­ www.tbetiody.coin; and wv7w.saferaex.ofg. An 31.) AASECT CcrtHsed Sex Therapist VS^yne Counties. 1-800^50-9653. sdves Ofiline, and then aflow such bdiaviors to excdlent updated artide on thc risks of HTV trans- carry over into ttidr day to day life. Hie medium missicMi of HI\^ with oral sex cafled **Hic Great Adion Front Center (Actk>n fora Betcer Conmmnity.) Provides HIV preventkxi educate case management senses. Trainingand technical assistance to servkes provkted can also allow those who find it difficuh to discuss FeUatio Debace" by Mark Sctioofs can be found ac ^ Refaittonships/Fanilly Issues open to publk:. AH services free and confidential. MuldcultunJ and bik^ual staff. Rudy Rivera, w"ww.thelK>dy.com/vvacliooflhtmL sexual thoughts, feelings, and fimtasies an oppor- • Alcohol & Drug Related Concerns pTQ^am manager. 150 N.Clinton Ave. Hours 8J0-5 pni, Mondbiy^rkliy. 546-618^^546-5669^ tunityto practice such new bdiaviorsdthcr through Aflow yoursdf to get tangjed in thc web. Enjoy ^ Sexiud Functionii^ & Sexiud Conq>ulsivtty Free anonymous HIV testk^ on vvalk-in basis, Thurs^ 9 am-4 pm, provkied throi^ cytierscx or phcmc sex. Variant sexual rofes can bc afld explore. Hiere arc some pretty explidt [^loto • HIV/STD Rebited Issues CHN at Action Front Center, 242 Andrews St Carmen Hau, 262^330. played out in cyticrspacc as a rehearsal for ttic in- sites as well I was going to list a few, txtt figured you Catholk Oiarides Al DS Services. Provkies ynkaga with other service provkiers, transpor­ vivo sex experience. Sexual fimtasies ttiat may bc already had yours bookmarkedl Wlufe surfiti^ 496 White Spruce Boulevard tation and finandai assistance for housing. Monday4Vkby 830 am-4>I0 pm. 1150 BulE^ unsafe as fiu-as transmission of HIV, can lie played dieck out my own ofifedng at Rocbester, New York 14«23 Offlmunity Heoith Netwoik ofks o fiili range of 3210. out in fufl in cyber space, giving room for d^ http://membera.aoLcom/t)£toticxak/ (716)327-2121 expression of such feelings and fantasy, and is IndexJitm. c medicol ond supfXMt setvices in one amvenient (Across fron Monroe Conummity CoUege) considered "safe sex." Researdi shows us ttiat Hiomas Fronczak, CSW-R, ACSW is a NYS ioration. We prowde this core regardless of your wtien such feelings and utges can be expressed, it certified social worker specializing in the fidds of Profeastoaals covered by most bealtli care programs insuronce coyeroge or your oiNiity to pay for is kss Iikdy ttiey wifl be acccd out in real Mt. rdationship and sexuaHty concems, HIV/AIDS, Looking for some extra income^T. x Someone tliinking at>out comity out can come out atid diemical abuse/addiction. He can be con­ services. HCR Home HeaMi Agency | onflne and gain not only si^sport and cncouo^- tacted at tiis pnvate practice at (716) 258-3399 or is conducting FREE home health aide tnent, tiut a sense of mastery over tlie ezpedence, by e-mafl at IJFronczak^aoicooL If you hove HIV, or think you might, ceil us. Moke makingiteaaier to doihteallifis. Hie benefits of ttie training classes. on oppeiiHment to meet our airing stoff. Youll BiM see ivJiy CHN is Rochester's HIV spedoiist. HCR offers: CANT AFFORD - Flexible schedules A MAMMOGRAM? James M. Haitz, MSW, CSW - Competitive wages - Part aiKl full-time positions NO COST New York State Lioenaed - Health/dental insurance MAMMOGRAPHY - Overtime pay SCREENING* 11, - Mileage reimbursement MMT-OaMsArubfafe Providing private and confidential rrr-iittil V Pwiiihiii BfTMi TT ir ^Tiftirn Tprfny Hoafccd psychotherapy and opunseliiig services and QHWE aad F J. TIIMI^MM Hatkb Symm, Iw. j|{ •t^^tmimMm^^m^ Catt Unbty for mare infonnation. Early Detecdon is youfc^^^,^ .i H«dth lamua. A]»(y, DeproflsoQ Deb Smith BEST PROTECnON^p^ Unleash the heitBi^ p^mttatrnxi.- Rccniitmcni CooftKitalor CALLNOW! youvpMt. 272-1930 |L""jy ATPOfKnarfTS AND INPORMA-nON IndivklusJ, oatyte, and feiaUy aeaaiow avi^^aMc by -YATIS COUNTY rUMJC HEALTH SOVICIS 1-800-299-2995 020 South Winton Road 111 Rocfcview rerrmat, Kociieslir, WY 14606 HCR Home Heahfa Agency Near Monroe Avenue 716. 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Iheibitfth Aanoal Coofoenceon Aettovkuaes kisodiceoalbibtttrittfonBPsrSQrclsac,In«lditkMi, tfae CSonfeeence coneemed new amivisab soon to an iodfaddntf a tceatmenc bisaocyy oe a ^t»g TARA tful .Ppjpottanisdc itffecdoos pcesented data •cgilmen chtt k difflcoic to matolaitt. New dieie aie pacts of dse bbcfy, sodi as die Gemial be n¥siln>i' /and the data sfaowii^ wfaidi ok tt a ^W^EDNESDAY 2 for 1 AVell Ana Domestic Beei- Opwt to l*>n impact eo ckar die vkus. indinaviT(Ccixivan) or Abbott*sritonavir (Norvir), growing number of options bccocning known as THURSDAY 2 for l MoulsonV, OoUen, Ice, anat die cost of Dc Ho is' contkaiiog an ea^ientnent to see if and wfaen taken in combination witfa dtfaer AZT "rescue diecs^Mcs" (or sahr^ tfaeiapies). lliesc csfl^Ag forpeop k wtdi HIV if deereasing wh^ people can even«tia% stop cocnbiziatiOa literxpy pKis 3TC or ddl plus D4T, many people can lower include combinatioos induding two pirocease in- FRIDAY 2 for 1 BUZZYTS HAPPIEST HOUR Spm to 7pii. p^i^pfe used staoog attthwal diCQ^^ witfaoiicthe vi^ cetumin^but itwfflbe soOiedme tfaeir viral load by over 99 percent. Tfae most hSMtors, or cocnbinadons itiduding a protease FRIDAY AND SATURDAY NITE'S / FREE ENTERTAINMENT ^dttwo oew ftiMiviieab (one a psoiease tnhthi- befoce tfae^ beSievc ir wtB be aafe enot^ to aHow common side effect of nelfinavir (reported by vip inhitxtor and a non-nuke. There are also a number tor) expected to nxdve ^pcoval in die next few voluoteets to discontiinic treatrnetit This arid simi­ to a quarter of tfaose taking it) is diartfaea. of new drv^ tfaat wiB not bc ready for approval fbr 2ND FIwOOR mondis, and opdmistk xeposts oo several odiets, kr expetiinettts ace in^ioctant because if tfae virus As witfa all otfaer antivirals, tfae vsrus can mutate ac least several montfas tfaac appear very protnising, the best news is thtt a number of new comlnna- can be deaCed, the stcoc^est comlstnation should and become resistant to nelfinavir, but it devdops and may bc used in combination to serve as rescnic tkms m$if%dp dx>9e i^iiiose pccvious combina- be stuted as caidf as possft^ He warned diat until resistance at a different point £rom other protease tfaecapies. Witfa so many dri^ Hkdy to bc available dojttdbsve&fled dearaooe ts a viable option, anttvitab need to be infaibitors. Tfais may mean tfaat peo|7le wfao are widiin about a year, h is very itiyoctant tfaat indi­ Hie Gonfefoncc announced many successes^ chosen witfa an eye towaxd keeping dietn woildr^ resistant to nelfinavir can go on to use otfaer viduals strategizewitfa tfaetrphysiciacu on faow best butaocaldie news wasgoodDt.Pft«erPk7^ ofthe as loc^ as posdble, and leaving otfaer optiotis open protease itifaibttocs (Pis), and vice-versa. It will to use tfaem. In tfae paat, too many people uaed Jomt UN ptogram on HIV/AEDS, sounded a wfacci tfaey no longer worlc;. The best way to keep take mote data on actual cases (as opposed to lab up their opdottm by tiair^ druga one at a time sc^sedngnotr ^^len he teminded thc Con£cxct\oc diese combinadons working is to do \(^iatevcr it cspciimcnts) to establish its imf^ications. Nelfinavir (rrKmothcrapy) or using d»eni in combina- diat the thergfttcs that arc dosr^ so much in North takes toget viralload CO an undetectable leveL If in is available in a powder form for children and irutial tioras with other drugs tbat veece no longer America and Europe are ut&avatiablc and tfae end viral deacance is not possibie, kee(»ng te^ts show tc is well tolerated. Data on ics impact on woddng. With die new opdons coming on unaffonkfale in most of die wodd. For this tcason aadviials wocking wiH bc tfae course to follow. viral load was limited to only two children, biu Hue, it ia vecy impoctanc not to repeat dioae and more, thcic is uKceased interest in finding a Rcseardiers ace also learning how die immune looks to be promising. Thc only other PI in mistakes. Tfae next "Reasons for Hope" column pccventtve vaccine for AIDS, systexa reacts when it is relieved of tfae constant children's formulation, dtonavk, may not bc as wiD explore faiiir^ protease combinadons (known The Test drUme attack by the virus. Several studies released at tfac wdl tokrated, but again it is too cad>' to show how as "protease failure"), induding w^iat causes it, Dt. David Ho of Aaron Diamond AIDS Re­ Conjfetence show dtat people who succeed in these drugs comp>arc over all how to avoid it, and whac can he done if it does search Center, 7tttteA&^ga^me'f}A3it\ of the Year for keeping ciown tfaeir viral load (tfac amount of virus Nelfinavir is also bdng Cried out in conibirEadon occur. 1996,wa8dxekeyno(espeaker. Can HIVbe deared in tfae bloodstream} to undetectabk levels are with Roche's protease inhibitor saquinavir This year's conference didnot diange tfac rules, &omankifoaedpcnon*sbody?'*Wedon*tknow/* seetfl^ significant increases in T-ci^ and otfaer ((iivirasc). Thc eady results, while not as good as but it did hdp to refine tfaem. Thc message re­ said Dr. Ho^ as he rec^iped his fincfing^s tfaat thc s^ns of resfiocatton of tfae immune systetn. How­ for ntonavir phis saquinavir, may be good cnoi^ mains, ifyou have a high viral load, talk widi your virus does nor fiedorman t in the body. From the ever, this potential £t>t impcovement is noc abso­ to be a choke for people who have used up other physidan about a powerful antiviral cc»nbinatsad to bdow detectable are oonstaotfy battfitig. A bcffion or more viruses different infections. HIV infection gnuluafly de- new studies, on tfae combination of ritonavir and levels to avoid rcsistatice. Make suae to take the ace created cadi day with a similar oumber bdng cteascs tfac mimber of tfaese specific T-oeOs, even- saquinavir. antivirals according to schedule, and make sure ciknkMaiM(cfaM^ed>.^thtbenfewantiydg^ ttiaSy cfiminaiitig some of tfaem. Wfaen all the T- Besides Nelfinavir, many expect die FDA co tfaey are workit^ by cfaeddng your viral load every nadons available during the past year, we have cdb assigned to apardcular infectioa are gpnc» it approve thc drug delavirdine (Resciptor). tfatce or fbur mondis. Tfae cfaoice of tfae best leacnedafotaboutwhathippeiisdudngdiepetfod - may not bepossiile topcoduce any more of tfaem, Delavirdine, like the previously approved tfacrapy depciKls on your medkal history, indud­ whendie Junmune system geca die Uf)perhatid over kavi^ pcciple especially susceptible to theae in- nevinqiine (Vkamune), is a Non-Nudeo^de Re­ ing wfaat antivirals you faave used in tfae past. Thc the iriros witfa die he^of dv dnigs. fections. When an individual's T-odl kvds be­ verse Transcriptase Inhibkor (usually referred to tnessage of tfae conference was that die combina­ It is important to tcmcmbc^r that antivirais don'c come too low tfaey may need preventive treatment as noo-nukcs carNNRTls) ,Thc data on ddavirdine tions aiready availabk^ arc savtng lives, and tfaat dtreoly tifimiiiateth e virus; theystop k from repro- (known as prophylaxis) foria£cctioas such as PCP. is ttot AS strong as other andviraJs^ buc for pcopdc tfaeie are etrtct^xig possibilities even for diose \vhosc opdons hav^prc%riousjlybectt rnore Itniecd. who are already resistant to some antivit^^ there Tbt Bosttm AIDS Writen Gvt^ tottsists t^ Robert are some new combinations tfaac include a non- FoiattmtdUttPtsmtfACTUPBostm;DaMStmdrta, nuke to consider. A small trial of indinavir/ Rsbett KrthSi Dettk lJbb)t, attti IMTTJ Brtssktar jiftim nevirapinc/3TC and tfac cotnbinatk>n of ddl plus Search For A Cttrt ami Jeff Terty. Tbe Retmm Paitei Because rt |g important to be underetood... IMT appear to be as good as tfae better known tottsistft^Dr. CaiCttbett, Research LHreaort^CRI, Ni» combinadctfi of nukes, AZT plus 3TXI. This is Ef^iarui;Dr. KenMajter^ THrect&rtfTbeBrtmm Unitfer- imporcant because many people who have been using AZT/3TC for some time, later added a sttyA/nSPtvgmm Dr. Siepeti BosmeU, MetBati Dhrdor Thomas Fronczak, CSW-R. ACSW protease inhibitor, but foutKl it dkl not work for at TheFaanatfCemmtoa^Heaith Cettter;SteitiartLantiert, very long. Because thc virus Ijccomes resistant to Semttr CmtttitoMt afjabtt Sitoa^ Ittc;JdmJames, ESior tfac double nuke combination after a time, people antiPsMsbert^AIDS Ttta/ittettt Nemt; and Dr. A^ DtMariot Assiskatt Commsskmer, AlaaaebuseHs Dt- On^lng Gtr>up3 are advised to discuss witfa tfaeir physician vi^hctfacr • \r\dh/idiia\. Couple, & Group tfaey sfaould diange tfae nukes tfaey use v^icn parmtnfofPMkHeaitb m Psychotherapy. b^;pnning a protease inhibttor. In other wocds, The itkmrc^ssetim ibis artick at9 those ^ibeBtufm - "Intimacy Between people v^io have uaed aotne nukea in tfae patt AEJtS Wtiters Gtmf> attd tio rntt tteeessarify t^cet the 8 HIV/AIPS ieeae^ Men** " Men'© ^roup may have to awitcb to a protease inbifatorplu» tfitiiem eftbe Retiiem Pattel Sexuaitty Conceme - <5ay Fathere Group a difiefcnt oomMnatkm of nukea» wfaen ihey TheAlDSWtiiersGrot^iscoordittaiedbySamhJor ace ceady to hcf^ pcoteaae t^netapy. 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Cotne )oin us afePlex Cytn fbci-Al!^: t^eceictiockOf 1& Son —- but your pcc^ fim^Jancc HkcyooVenevetseienlirfbce, gptaoi|uakited with tfac Sttabfercontki- Ifae focua of thiB ycar^ event wfll be OTIHER four v«el^ he^BS^s arwki^, -iocialcecciiictliatkicnoalibecaiedchw thisiH^ be«caiE^^«^ gent of our tnembccB who faad hotn die date, Macdi 22, ^ s^die pcevkw hcvwto bcifld better cdackicishlps, wfaile dance class. Ihe class begms onMacch diat understands the unique spicicuality ijtQiidiofdvf border (poe U5.-Cana£^ S A 1 L A • OUT HAVI H G ^ UH '•irLiJ?T: A'!"'jp•• •'S--^:. r'.^'* ^.••''''- '^ 'Hi * •' ^'' pkqjokiQc^spedfic baxneiQi tint seacual ^^^j^h9X^^T^iiuf9d^ atid God faas given yoi:^ a chuicfa tfaarfaas GOUpfewhoaiiDeady'cnct attest summec's tAamtstkJm&h^iteilB^ continues on Tiiursday nigfats to Apcil compassion fbr your stiffecing caused fbr fuli drams. To ciw dib. cbckm jocies Pood Qannc Car %c]rw vnU lost pactidpate we had ashed oor ^im dbtm as die band feanc for Les­ non-g^ ecnpkqne^ The evenmg wiH 17. Ihe dass is ftomS «D 8x30^Jn.^t ny cocidetntiation ftom furdly, cd^jon, k»ve youiMCskfe^boaelbit jM ciiact Ibe GIT' lil^BiKe^ be giettkig bade acound then from a sioiial ccpcesentatcves, and k was die bkn and Gsy Brads of Amecka. Tfae icicludfsim aiid an icitecactb^ dttiogue Flex on the iCDcher'l>f Atlantic .aod society—or even &>c^ your own si^* mondw-''-'^^ '' ' sncnao^, vwastiot^ ^ j^ Wjeq^ For Itepidi^ofOfi&miatfattcaraetia^^ goes DDOMV wkfa bur maest nieakecv as well as die I ^tdvcr Asrtis^ No partner is necessary, Thatis why we know yoult ti^t to Af^ every concert tfaere is tfae op­ thgwugjMlriaihri cQoce d^a3a„ contact oor chapter poeai- lbcas,inclu(fingd>eMayorofSaRl^aci- the pttknce to teach dmiaof as etOk but pce-r^;istcatton is required. There experience our CbtntnunalPenanccCd- portunity to joui us fbr die next one, dcxit,Rob,ac22M)769. who have never totKhi^ a flsg or nfle as gi^ £"e^ other emi^loyces in ftank discusskins of is a 2S-person hnoit. Call Sue at 244- dbcadon on Marcfa 20 at 7 pjn. at Sc wfaidi diis year will bc on June 14. A BT faas a gcett swing season planned belbte. We ase vecy hicky to hs;ve Chcis be held on Tliittsday eveningii u the kubepoup^soerildieGi^AliBiceas Apdl S is thc date of our tfakd antuial issues that ace relevant to the woricplace 7159 for registcation ioformadon. Luke-St. Simon Cyrenc. YouH have an special attraction is tfaat wc sfaall ^ of perfocming standards soch as In ooQSttten^ make tn fed Ife we are GAGV CosttmicutyCeci&er, 179 iU- socia as possUe at 244-4640 toftsetve auction to bene& tfae club, open to tiic of today and tomorrow. opportunity to give aptivate confession recording some of die June music ftir pcdiik: a« wdl as members, and takkig Tfae Mood," "Tfae, Girl from acooinptohing narades. lantic Ave., beginning Miudi 27. Kodak CEO Geocge Fisher will be Dignity-Integrity to an cnlig^icened dergy followed by a our new CD. So if you »e ftee on pbce at lAte GAGV Conimunity Cen­ IpatMsna'* and '^Stocnpin' tt tfae Sa­ Witfa onfy doee tnondis tintil l^ide Tfae 8tc>V ^ ^ ^ N^ ^^"^ c^^P*^ on hand once i^ain tfais year to sfaace his In His final days on earth, tfae Lord general ahsokidon. Tuesday evenings and would fike to voy." We ace ako going to intcgeate our enced ficifitttotB who will create a safe P^arents CSriHqi ter, lt9 Atlandc Avc^ b^juining at 7 Jcsus Cfazist was hated, reviled, re­ faavcyour dulcet tones inunortalizcd on Season we faave a lot of weak to do, vision of tfae Kodak woriqjiace witfa Youll be uplifted by die pagczntty feyoeke concert band music induding and supporthw aeitaig in whkh to ex­ IhinldcigabciatadopdoiifbascicirsQre pjn* Once agaki, facMnetnade goodies jected of men. Hc was spat upoti, a recording, jom us for die spting. Come induditig ceccoiting new mecnbecs* We respect to divcc^ty atid Kodak values. and music ofour Palm Sunday service well known sfaow tunes fiar our L3ac plore fedbqg* and gBifaer kifbrmation. whecetobcgui?Findkigkdialtei]gkig WtH entice atid our intrepid auctioneer stripped, stabbed and tiailed to a cross. forvoiceplacctncntonApcdl (nojoke) arepkuinkiga ineetingttSdiooi#l 2on We are also vcry exdtcd to have Hcatfacr — and thc joy and tdilmph of our Festivd Concert in May. Injanuary tfae toco-ptteotwithacelativdiynewpart- will entertain as a wide assortment of And all fbr wfaat? Sitnply for being at 6:30 pjn. at tfac Downtown United Mardi 10 at 7 pjn. inviting anyone in Wisfaik as our guest speaker. Ms. Wisliik Easter mass. I%is, youll have fun too, band was asked to play fbr a pcivate diat is relevant to the opmit^ out pro­ ner and needing siQipon? Wanting to goods crosses tfae block. We ace scddng wfao He was, \^o He is, and who He Presbytcrtan Cfaurdi, 121 N. Fkzfaug^ dieconaminitywitfaanincrsestinmacdi- is tfac author ofthe book endded, Sexstai not only at tfae cc^igenial after-mass parcy at Powder Mill Park Lodge. Itwas cess sudi as undcrstandtngai%d defitiing meet otfaer leslMgay pacents to social­ donadons, so check those attics, base­ shall forever more shall be: Jesus Christ St. Can die ChorusHnc at 42S-0650 for Bassically ing in one or any of our Pnde Facades. Orientation attd Identity: Heter&sexttais Ljts- sodal hour every Sunday wfaere ddi­ a gcett c^3porcunity fbr us to come to­ one's sexual idcndty, coming out to ize witfa, so tfaat your kid doesn't tfaink ments and garages. Icems welcome in­ our Savior, and Son of thc Living more infortnation. ROTC-Rochescerisinvolvedwitfamote Natt, Gqjt and BisexttaiJotrrmjfS. Sfae will dous reftcsfaments are served, but at gedier and do our fevonte tfain^ whidi fiunily and fidends, and finding one's you are the only queer mom or gay dad dude tools, videos, beefcake magazines God. Treblenriakers tfaan just parades, but for 1997 this will present an exdting program focusing our special potluck dinner on die tiiird Two new members who jomed us kl is to piay music for an appredative^ plaoe witfain tfac gi^ comnamity. in die wodd? Here's die ^oup fbr and calendat^, anuques, auto parts, Ekio't miss id **Switlg^lg into Spring be our main focus. on die vahie of building posidve work­ Many pcof^ today are also perse­ Sunday of March January werc inadvertently utiacknowl- audience. faouscwarcs, car books and brocfaures, '9r'will be fadd on March 9 at 4 p.m., Tliis year ROTC-Rochcster's sched­ Tfae ceg^stracion feefbr tfae entire six- you. place rdadonships and overcoming cuted simply for being who thcy are — cc^ed in last mcxith's arride. So witfa small appliances and more (a word to And here's a great way to CSCJ^ tfac tt Qub Atlantis, 10-12 Wasfait^gton Hope to see you at Club Atlantis on ule may indude marching in Bosf?on, week session is on a s&ling scale feom Tfae ficstplatiningmocdngofthenew barriers. induding we homosexual men and sqxjlogies and warm wdcome, we say tfae wise; last year a member donated a wmter blafas: MARCH MADNESS! St. Last year's event was such a suc­ Mardi 9. You can get your dckets (f 5) Buffalo, Cleveland, Montreal, Rodies­ S25 to (50, but no one wifi bc tutned year saw new fiices, new kkas, and new women who arc as much God's chil­ faello to Ruben Canm and Terry Neilon. delidous dessert which was ptomptly Hckets arc $30 each, and include Yes, on March 15 at Ihe Top of tfae cess witfa tfae fadp of tfae Oub Atlantis fiom any band member or at die door. ter, Totonto, and/orWashington,D.C. away due to a lack of funds, lliere is energy. Gtot4> members are consider­ dren as anybody else. Tliank God there Finally, HELP! Our ptoducer, Dave bou^t by tfae auctioneer and shared dinner. Tliis event ts open to Kodak Plaza, Dignity-Integrity will be hosting staff tfaat we are repeating it again tfais If you would like more infortnation We have a flexible roster of membets limited space in tfae gcot^ so caH tfac ing establisfamg an ongoing montfaly are churches today d^iat don't rcjccrc us, Pdlow, works tnirades all die time, but witfa thc biddcrsi) To miake a donadon enq>toyees and dieir partners. For more a dinner dance from 6 p.m. to 11 pjn. year. So come out and siq>port our about any ofour events or joining our wfaomardiwlKn tfaey can. Besides look­ Gay AlHance as soon as possible tt 244- sodal/support gtoup for parents of but embrace us. Thank God for ft>r this production, faeneed s some fadp. or fortxioceinfotmation, callour Metidly informadon call Lambda Voice Mail at Ihe tfaeme: '*Suminer Beacfa Party." community's band. community band, pieasc call Tim at ing fbr Bags and simulated rifles, we also 8640 to ccflerve a space* churches like Dignity-Int^rity. Ifyou would like to work backstage at raictionecr. Bill, at 436-9187. 234-4388 and leave a message. We will (SmilcO 242-0237. need membecs for color guard. Tfae and people coosidcckig pacentfaood. Dignity-Integrity is a community of tfae concert on Marcfa 22, hc would On Jan. 20, tfae Lesbian and Gay Permanent retum your call So for worship and fellowship — BassicaUy Treblemakers Band has Tlieiiexttzx«tic^!ssdiedtdedfbrMaccfa gays, lesbians, bisexuals, ttansgender deady love to hear from you at 232- Bands of America, induding 18 mem­ join us! For information on MARCH ROTC- Rochester picked ics music fbr diis yearns parades, 9 at 4:30 pjn, at tfac GAGV Cocmnur Lambda Kodak people and friends who worship in thc 181Z beis of BT, pecfocmed on tfae steps of Partners MADNESS, pieasc call Pat at 385-2^\ indudii^'TLoveLucy,""RockAn3und nky Center. Call 244-8640 fbr moce Ifae Lambda Network at Kodak will Episcopal and CadM>lic traditions. And tfae Federal Trade Commission Build- Four members of ROTC-Rochcster Tfac Gay Alliance's Penteattemt Parttters Forallotherinformarion, call 262-2170. ici^inWasfaii^ton,D.C.aspartofPccsi- yoincd members ofWashington D.C/s dicaodt,"aridMackdieKm£e,"wfaidi group is an e^t-week structnccd infbcmadon. bold its tfaird armual Educadonal A groi^ for lesbian/gay ardsts (or wc invite you to join your fdlow Chris­ Wbnnen's Chorus dent Clinton's Inai^;uraJ Celebradon. Different Drummers Flags and Twici- we v(^ marcfa to v^ien wttfa tfae batid. gtoup fbr same-aex couplcffwfao wotdd Event witfa Management on Marcfa ftiendly), to bind together, to sfaare tian hotnosexuals and cdebrate tiie Pas­ Men's Chorus The director of the Rochester Lambda Car Cliib knowledge, resources, make ftiends, Besides performing fiom 9-30 ajn. to ers phis "San Frandsco Cheer" in In May ROTC-Toconto is planninga like to cnfaance and accengtfaen dieir 18, ftom 5'JO to 9:30 p.m., at the sion of Christ during tfais Holy Easter The March concert of tfae Rocfaester Wotnen's Commtmity Cfaorus faad tfae faave some fun and wfao knows? As a 2:30 pjn., tlic massed bands created Washington for the ''97 Prcstdcndal drill camp and will be inviting tfae otfaer celationsfaip. Tfacgroi4> vdill b^^i on Whik we wait for tfae cmset of Apcil Harro East Ballroom, 400 Andrews season. Please come to our masses in Gay Men's Cfaorus promises to bc a privilege of attending tfac annual group get our own sfaowing? Any level, smaller bands and perfbcmcd at tfac Inaugural. members of tfac Intemadonal Gray Marcii 30 and will meet tt die GAGV sfaowers to wash the sak off tfae roads, St. Mardi fadd Sundays at 5 p.m. in Sc real boot, otic of die wackiest, gayest GALA director's conference recently. TriangU BaU and tfae Califbmia BalL After three days of rdieacsing to­ Coips. We faope to cake a contingent to Cotnmunity Center foreag^t consecu­ tnembers of thc Fk^cr Latfies Chapter Tbe NecwDtk seeks to make Kodak a any disdpiine more tfaan wdcome. Luke-St. Sitxion Cyrenc Cfaurcfa on 17 S. events in our brief 14-year existence. (GALA is an acronym for thc Gay and / When subnuttir^ our application to getiier, the auxiliary groups put on a Toronto tfais spring to leam tfae latest dvc Sunday evenings. of tfae Lambda Car Oub faave devised place wfaere employees of aU sexual Hease call Mac at 442-5907—better Ht2hug^ across thc street ftom thc To quote one Chorine. 'This concert Lesbian Assodarion of Choruses of lOkM onencadcMis can acfaieve tfadr highest yet, come to our first meeting on March Motiroe County Office buildit^ has so much schlock, you can stir it GnN^m continuod Oct ttext'

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22. We {slao ioset«pcar-poofing» fes^F- Ifae Marcii Measuiemems event be- vfaicfa tfac Rocfaester Wotnen's Om­ waid to futute running waDdng^ and frontmnners tt^ at i^ipsoatftnaiafy noon aod return- ii^hekiMttdi^wabenefitdieOpen munity Cfaorus is a member.) social events wtdi our sisiEr dub in Rochester Frontmnners will wdcome DoorlSfisskmSamatitanHoose.lt wfll Ihe conference was fadd in Atianta, BufiUu. re andpatdc^teintfaekidc-ofFofRoch- diae, we wil be sii^btseein^ shoppn^ besaifaeBadidorPoiomoiiUfiEvecsiiy Ga. Music directors &om almost 50 ester Frontwalkers, a new groi;^ tfaat Open Arms MCC dittitil^ and generally enjoyic^ a day of A'S!e«from4p^m.tttSpuaLAlp«oceedB di£Eerent cfacHuscs ancrnkd tfac event, from dds event wiS be dliectea to die will meet and faoJd regular walks in Open Anns Metsopolttan Commu­ FUNt SK>nG Tfaese cfaoruses included men's, Rocfaester. nity Cfaurdi* as widi all Christian OpeaDoorl^swon^semetgemyhons- wcxnen's and mixed gKwps. As usual Do iein ua; all peopfe are wekame at cfaordies, is r^t tn the midtUe of tfae ic^ pcopam fer homdeas men. Don'k tfae event vras an eacceDent oppommity Like many Frontrunners groups afl wocrfy services, dtscuariongyoops, season of Lent. We believe Lent is a wocty». wete oo^ measodng the laq^ fbc networidng and disccyvering ^^lar around tfae world, tfae Rocfaester sodal acdvities^ and ai otfaer dtandi rffl^ dme of prepatatioa and seeking God diiBSsrcnt gay, ledana and g^r'^vfipon- Ftootrunnezs wiB faavea'VaOcecs " con­ fbactbns.Wemeetat3Q2N. Goodtnan 139 State Street in ali ttiingi^jand IKK necessarily a time to ownl Wete pmoMag some giMaat ive sing^lggFoup8 are doing aD ovet dbc tingent tfaat wattes widi die regular run­ St, Suite 306. God blessi a -. ^ to be solonn* IheiMsae^jeach Sunday pictes Ibr dl dmae winning body pasdt oountry.TfaerewasevenadiiectorfitMl ners ginop. Frontwalkers wifl alao par* Rochester, NY at 10:30 a.in. yoo wifffetdoargiowiug Rar^gers as IMA as mttpcib prizes for tfae 50/50 Scodand wtK>made sure to^pearakik to ddpate in all sodal aiKi community oof^r^ation cdebratiiig in worship; The Rocfaester Raogers would Hke to and tfae Trivia Contesd So jom us and 262-2650 Saturday evening's special evend events of tfac Frontnnmers dub. Ifae kick-off of Rochestcr Frontwalkers is celebratiz^ our spiritualicy; eddirat- armounce an on-going 50/50 rafBe to see if jAT measure t^ Rocfaester Women's Community scheduled for March 15 at 8:30 aun. at ixtg our lives as gpiy men^ ksHans^ benefit The Outreach Program at QurWd>stBeatb^//fimgg:.cni^/ Cfaorus singers are invited to tfac leader- tfae parking lot of tfac Geotge Eastman bisexuals, txatt^endered pcof^, and AIDS Rochestcr. Tickets arc $1 each, "^tnt^^efs is cotistantly bdng.updatcd sfaip conferetKc in Toronto to bc l^dd House (900 East Ave). enli^itened h^erosexuals; and cd- no limit, and available at ail Ranger and expanded. Watcfa for fintfaer de­ over Labor Day weekend. At die dme Have You Heard About Cyberhair? Frontwalkers will meetat the same cbfittit^ourdEvexseocsrmKvutyoffrsdL events and at Antfaony's 522. Tfac tails on our Iipcoming events in tfae singers from all over thc country will Spedal activities and events are al­ drawing is fadd every Sunday at 4 psn. New Special ''Every Day"^ time said locadon as the Frontrunners Ete^ Omti on our intesnet Websiie, IVe been in the hair replacement business in Rochester for join together atKl refaearsc and dKn give ways a part of our diurdi life. During at Antfacwiy*s 522. TTic winner tiecd group. Both groups wiQ take off to­ on Muhi9om4 local events listii^^ and more than 20 years, and this is the best product IVs ever an en masse concert to close out the March, wc continue to move diroc^ not bc present to win. So, when at our gether, and meet afterwards for social­ on our posters and flyers. Anyone inter­ conference. the Lenten season with a discussion events or Anthon/s, invest a dollar or seen. Why? ifs simple. izing and fcUowship. The n^jular tneets ested in knowing more can write to tK RWCC is excited about its spting group centered on thc boc4t, *5csus fbr two to hdp The Outreach Program • Cyberhair gives you a compieteiy natural looic and feel. • fr>rbothgroi]^ are Tuesday evenings at at 1361 Rkjgeway Ave, Rochescer, NY Dollar Hovur conoertwhicfawillbehcIdonMay31 at Our Time." Thc gtoup fadlitator says and who knows? Maybe you could bc 6 p.m. and Saturday mornings at 8:30 14615-6788 or email rochestcr it's easier to care for than real hair. • You can wear the Eisenhart Auditonum on East Ave. thc group is full, but odier gioi^ will be the next winner! ajn. The running and walkers route will [email protected]. Rcmembcrour Cyberhair around the cloclt, seven days a weelc. • You can The oxiccn will take you back to thc fbrmit^ later. Lent culminates in HcAy p^ 9pin - IOpm be along East Ave. for a total of about EXie to the recent resignations of our motto **You Hc^ Us Hdp Odicra." Jazz Age and swing you to the likes of Wcckbcginningon PalmSunday,March even wear it for swimming, bildng, or anything else. fbur to five miles, or as ^ as individuals only female members, wc are conduct­ Duke Ellington. With a quick st<^ - Our Sodal Ministry is again in full Martii 18 at 7 p.m. in the Albion area. vi. our dub off the ground. Wc look fbr- tt^ to NiagaucaFaQs, scheduled on March

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Sex and L«r«« Addk:ai AiioaynKNaa Community Centet^ 179 Atlantk Ave. Uca< 2 pm, Sacred Heart Cadiedral, 296 Center forIndependen t Livitig, (RCIL) dumerdflnce,6-l 1 pm,TopoftfaePbat. March 22,7-JO pm. 654-7709. gjRN^i foe people newly coming out Chmch, 17 S. Itefac^ St Evety Mondiy, 7 ptn, GAGV Comnmnity Gay Attanoa of die Geneaee Valky 730 pm. PO Boot 10366, Rochester Flower Park. Preskkr and homxHst: 758 South Ave. 12:30: NCBI work­ AU men wdcome. •*Summcr Beach Part/* theme. For in­ SATUKDAY22- Sunday. Poduck (finner after Maas Cemei^ 179 Atfaoiic Ave; ROB^ 473^407. board of ditectara Mcetii^ seoond NY1461O036d aa2*4-a64Xttoa^utt. every dtifd Simds^. 3^-9758. Wednesdays, 7 pm, 179 Atkntic Ave. Matthew R dark, Bishc^ of Roches­ shop; 5 pm: &CC commtmity dinner, 6 Cinderella: tbe Real Trae Stofy. formatkm can Pat, 385-2609. COAP l^ght Out widi Dave. 10 Catagivcta SimxMt Group Sming naiirtHaaiwtaa^ FourTbuca- f^P. Dttfi^ School), Soodi Ai^ oppo- Gay AloolMrittca Anonymoua seriously S. 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For itifor- Also March 15,7:30 pm. Writers & Books, 740 University Ave. Community Prt^;ramming presents a Hnger Lakea Gay-Leabian Social &n|>ty Okiaet mailing potty. Bulk St Luke*s/St Simon Cytene Leab^m Wfitcra Gtoa|» ery Wednesday, noon to 1 pm. ESPA Lobby I}^ in All>any. Ex­ tnation call Eric Joncison, RCIL, 442- Jacques Brel Is Alive itcati Wefi and For tickets, infomiation, call 244-8640 GtOIBp worfcshc^ for women fiDm noon to 7 maiHt^ of April issue. 7-9 pm, GAGV ChurcK 17 S. Fitzhu^ St 830 pm, 7 pm, GAGV Communtty Center, Partnera of (Inoeat) Survivois I^isr Fridays and tiiiid Tuesdays. Cal (315) 6470. Living in Paris. Shoestring Theater, press your views to your elected repre­ or 654-7709. To benefit an NCBI Wei- pm at Rochester Center for Indepen­ Community Center (upstairs), 179 At­ 232-6720. 170 Atiantic Ave. Ren; thiid Moffxhys. Anonymoua 12-Step meetitig 536-5573 and adc forSa m Edwards, or SUNDAY 9 sentatives; let them know they have gay Monroe Community College* 8 pm, |5. comii^Dtverstty/Buikito^Community dent Living, 748 South Ave. Free, open lantic Ave. 244-9030, A whirlwind of G«Qr» Leatyian* Biaexiial TUESDAY Women's biformation Center, 601 write PO Best 941, Geneva NY 14456. and Frienda Aaaociation Rocheater Gay Men*8 Chorua ABen St, Symcuse. Wednesdays, 6-8 constituents! CaU Cheryl Camillo, 271- COAF boviiing. 2 pm, Joe M., 288- Partial proceeds to benefit AIDS Roch­ Workshop at the GAGV. to women over 16.454-8930. sodaHzii^andfon... Men'a Socisd (GLBFA) Downtown United Presbyterian pm Kerry, (315)451-7123. SCCOIKI Satunlays, 7 pm, GAGV Con>- 2420. 3313. ester. Other performances March 15, MONDAY 17 Stars Ablate. Rochester Gay Mcn*s COAP Little movie ni^^ 9 pm, U. of Rodiester. Sundays, 5 pm, Church, 121 N. Fitzhugh St 7-930 Siq^>ort Crtoup for Parents znunity Center, 179 Atiantic Ave. 244- 8:30 ptn, and March 16,7 pm. Tickets FRIDAY 7 Parent Group. Meets 4:30 pm, COAPdixmer. 6:30pm, Patrick,442- Chorus spiing concert, 8 pm. School of DaveU^8-ff75a Motey401. 275-9379. pm 423-0650. Who Have Loat CfaOdxen 8640. available at Village Green, Paridci^ COAP d^ nigfat. 8 pm, T<»n, 232- GAGVCommunityCenter, 179 Atlan­ 0458. die Arts, 45 Prince St. Tickets $8-$12: Open Arma MCC Good Friday BiGALAPlua Sexual Compulsivea Anonu First, diird Wednesdays, 11 am-12:30 Community Christian Fellowship AIDS Rrt GtXMMp 7-9 pm. Matge, 787-9254; Tom, 475- Thufsdays smd Mondays, 7-9 pm. 'IhM Fccsbyterian ChuKch, 4 Me^ St 3791. Downtown United Pttshytajsui 8:30 sun fiin run. A-fcet pariong Joc of SATURDAY 5 Hrsc and third Mondays, 730-9 pm, Ffonetunneia Church, 121 N. Fitzht^ St Ramona, Gcoigc Easttnan House. 461-4246. Lambda Car Qub auction. 7 pin, 271-6513. 6 pm foun run. Meet patidi^ lot of 244-1640. 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Q^jWPM.taltL^DIWI^ an, dark«• , mnuwrntandiome.c fo•»r Weekday mornings wd aflenwons. #I3|* SBiWM 3B, tlim. attncuve. eanr. leroiB. dominwu SM/P. Race uoiitt- «37C9 Open MBIWM. 43. ISO C/S's fur sensual, advcnturnusv open minded, pqrtMt. *3> dcan.cxploring'. ISO Bi-curious WC isi:fT?ii'si2rK!St?d''#•5^3 Gi^.«..5ocwma5wfrtemtehip.nomtMcLTH. *43»« n&S"^''^'""'-^!? GWsi^^i^»^»;M 37, ^fwd looking, masculine«, tUmimmi BM« mid-4(rs. ISO .tbort, fnutual cnjoymcnL weekday mom- IwC wtik M i-itflBW F ISO BiF, CMM ISO aWwwmai mtxmmen. ing. <«riy aftemoons. #1222 wiih BiM for fun. f^Luy cxplnra' ifferttonaie. clean shawen, twowiV petite, submissive TV (!R-3<)>. tions and cnciwfucrs_^ #3S4l |5*"+. (22 30), for frwKWrip ftm, Bior«na SWF. quiAi sized. ^. Slll!SS!!l;^JrSnl^^!!iic^ nK«Iy by phone. po«ibly in pmiw. I Ihem who knows. Diaeay frefctWj brown.Cuban:lSOnuiA:ulinc.(>>mi- Naufibty girls nwd in be tauphi the GWM 2S. Kicks daytime fun WIUJ fwnt M (2ll-57>. Must hc tnm. ak;fr nipcs afid di«iplinc, »37fc2 GM'.'.. DisLTc(«>n a.-wuird. cxpetled. Attrm-tivc M ISO one IH two, pass- lAUrwtfTc. ;«•">• slender F. S'S". ow WF 00.45) for fantaiy futnil- ihk' CD':^ wbtVd hke to Iv S|)oilcd r—T—--• M61M SSO CS^iF^CD* fof fan- hul and dmg fnx. glSrS ^ft,H(ho«e, ciirto«i MM, very dis^ *?* UoncbkMMtMr. nSlbt..lSOatoi- •nw aad fmndittip. »3m from head m UK. »35J* M ISO j«k*ui food Bha*«,w^m* ^'^, '^ ilMl S»»« ISO WC (!«+> forfun and CTw*,foodloakin|;.goodbody.above Bhc«ii«« WM, 40. tall, well ,.^„ ,^, ,„,,^ , Ider. votMs. feminhK F for cwkwinr MBraforfaBlasyai- brnwn/MtK. WFiaaU nve. for faot ttmes. #434S fantasy ftfirtllmem. #1147 •«cra«e. Hkes tn be servitxd. Diacrc ixiuippcd. ISO Bi-curioua TS/TY for •T'''^'/': • ,.1 «. Iftimfeinatt, »4f»i «53B3 431S1 conMen. ITVB&HM.99. MWM, vcry Bt^^^na, ISO S/ MirW MWivH^b mon^'^ ti«n,»^t.ban,olw^ w-«stobci«*«baw.opfc«^ li^prp^^ribjy^^ tasy fun widi diKKet,stifflBiM3MV WTV ISO M/TV/CD'a for fantuy ^«ei. W»»i «19M #734 fuiriilment. Very discreet »T7^ AtkrwriHw M ISO experiences with |undeT3»)foraewc»prrict>ces.#3M7 Iwwwae lo be lived. •OU. WFM37,«*2", 197»s..k»«kingfor IMWF SO wwr (wder 23) for WFasaWnc MTs only for intimaie ;r;i2jZfi>ft, w^ ,««,';;;:nn5S *****iI!?*i^;l2S»*^Si- MWM 43, yr-, 150 iba.. brown/ WM, ilw*«a. 5*9-. 145 Iha.. 25. re ^'^*' ^^^.J°' '""' *^2S' bairl.iBOMStaclc.lSOM/SMforspe- cent (o area. h*Ml eyes, misa; ISO mc™ "o"«;o«««3 »•»« M OA-^n ia>lo mcd)ca! exams and LTC »OW j« tiVthm-Id warm con^^ SSli^tv^^ **'^ #«3afJ M2Si,iiiU[dKiaupaMllin|etieJSO cial utwes and get logcihera #3iS wsli cquipprd. domiMm M (2,V35) StiMrtmtva SWM ISO dominan* M exam mow lantasiCT «3aZ2 AttKtfwC>lale2ffk.fun.weahMiH. **«* ^*^ fHlfiUment. SWF, 22, aeeking F for M:»««»»!0?^ !!«* FciMiK. yr M wanted hy with lott of character «id cwaiiiiiy (45-60) hi setvc. hotter, obey and GWFM 41^ beard, mcuttache, good ISO BiBF. wri! buih. for fm tineS SMlwdaiil II n MWM ISO WM'« for lMBBcrtewHdtSOnwrain$ramasy ILIWM A% f^..«rly «u^m,>B ^firr- Must bc inasculine and tnra. #3752 pteMw, ffSMS )t-)oking. ISO imeresting gentieman friendship and fw. ??51 feminine iwtasy fuErillmcni. Must iwidneweipen«ttca. Must be good Inr (un and games. You won't be Oty^ISOniociMn^fcr/uoand he ^facregc ctean. w^J #4325 firifltWni with G/BiM. dominam, aoon weekday ftw^ #3*3 GWM 37, S'T', }6S lbs.. browW DumAawic WM, 35. ISO submissive kwfcinE. well butH *J43g sorry' Give i( « Uy. rnxmtiatt as- Iiim ID mediam buik^ *^^^ Ubcnm MWM ISO monriDL fan- brown, Hnooth. mascuhne. aflcct™ TVf2l 25>. #35?7 Basy WPtOf, iMetlicew. cvlle^ Mu- ^"^ '^^ FcBriMtt M wanied by Bi-cwioaB »3Wl. «IMT7 lanrt. 19. ISO xMMone fw to fo AnrKtfT*, BI<«rhNB BF ISO F MWM. 43. for earty rooming. afkr- lasyc«lo«UKn»ithaHrVtive.dis- "le. °2«^«U?us. ISO M*s(3(rs) EkMic BIF ISO for fun and WF(18-24)forLTfriemMi!p.nunrbc timeft. #«Mi (or discreet cncounicrs. #1 iSfe [fantasy. Call i>ow. #2SB3 rowe Very aahaalRtfvc ei-corious WM, MWM37.1SOsybmia8iveFformleBn'»^37,5T,bn>wn/bniwfljiMn Enioya stockings and lingerie Looks MWM 29. seeking M/Ps for exotic Vcry •nracfln, Bft-cmrlmm WF aitd 3king. nuuculine. S^Tl?';??**^;.^^!??!^ *S l^»»wd ex(«si Race unimpwtaw- toot times, mc mwnpiTTtam. Vqy loan only ple«. #WB dnpely. very cleao and discwet; ISO MWM 32, tooking for new cxperi- _„ .: ^IT <«- E^c Ik. i.r.i—f Siijot any race. Musi tte CKSB aiw g2!ysmm i aflecikmaie. 5^'. 165 lbs., bnmn/ diacreet ^^ ^ *Bm IsBF ISO SBF fcr frinidifeip only. •letactive BiF for ftm and fnendshtp. cDcca. Age, not ummponanL Must xJisciteL #3M« M MO M (IS-30) fbr hot, kittky brvwn, sttwolh; lSOmaactiliiie.danii- BiWM 19, CUK. fonny,' ISO G/ #M1 . #3B«3 be take cmrje! MMa M ISO MBIWM 42. ISO Bi^M for cvty pknw eACOumers ur fet lofcihers. nam M(2&-37) who's affectiOMiCii/ Vary lile BiWM's (18-21) who's cvie and iGWr Invktae for MtMne P adw M-ra>r»—, idtrKllv* WF, early MWM 42, good sbafae. ISO aimc- ^^___ #i.3a» d. akohol frte. trim. »d»44 eS!*^ «3I1 fmmy.IbrpgrtiNeialmian#ip.«»»ft "«*»«. •**«««• *«kday fun Idoeani mind bein| pamprsed, Willi dttt, ISO serious F who's dttcnci. tive. youitMr, musculsr Ms wto'd mas M-cwtew WM, 37. ISO BiM3M/C WM 42. tookmi for sweet, pmty, WWM, S'***, 550 lbs.. 35. very j^^^ mwctdar WM, 32. ;;T; I better tfainti dial life haa to ofler. for hnami, to get to know each 0^0^ IftetobepkwiedbyaiKddBrM. Yo« for new adveslurei ami fim. WittiiiL feminine TV/7S«:D with smoock an^jothJSOgoodtooking.sflwoihG/ very good looking, ISO wry s^h^nis- £^*1JS SSJlSllS^S'.il^ IhmeA, loving mlaiionaMp. A kit to •STSi wtmlbeawry! #4*37 body, for a tol of fim mid aJweniMt- BiM who's trtm. *S37» B^BoooATyomip^.maiculm'W/ ***• l"^.??'5*J??!?!^.~i'T'7 abte to leam. needa a iimciief.#l^ ; jBOG/BiWM (1S-2S) Wfdi IdO^ hi tove. CTtt AMKtfvu MC socking BiF, pomi- Ifcnlliil W8ta CWM, 29, yio*. WrV ISO clean cut M with own AMwhocrnii : aoMl do anything MWM 42. anhmiisiw. JSO domt- good toofcs. fmiid and jane iMBream. yinfclii^ti losdOataatod - bly C, fbr manally saiitfyia« fnUQr 140 IEL. bavwaMifes, ISO M'a (IS- GWM, 4 J min II al, avr. i9S lba.. tame, ftw special wnAgemcm lad they're loW oMi BiM^r* wto Bke tote semced. IbrCrtanmih^puiaihfcLTB wi»ililmhmM,tBa4Hnmii.dBy- for bol tsKic*. Imoc wmMtHwnwt. tairy.«.wicniJ*»h.tso»oodfeiot-.«=r=r=L==5!^r» **VTV -.«,„ ,» ,^„ [Bnny. ISO Ct/ |faHt( owt wWi nAtf k«vc wont ftm. U««ke wTfiwii^i.. CHanvci, IHKIIE MWWM 41, ISO Bi/GM (or cs^ •1«S7 ing. well twikM IMMdncipline.fan- v«ry lit iiliil n M ISO versatile BiWWI'« IiV21) who's culc and fCWF luaaJ*a tor feninlne F w£o Mtewclftv* WT, eariy M^M 42, good imapc, :SO tOnt^ V^^a^ f?*?! fimny .forpowibte relsSioMimrg2ffH monring. aflenionn wecjLday fun Idoeani miad being pampesed, wiih 3CJfa. ISO Aioitt F wfco-s dimwet. iJwe, yomwr. mMCtllv Ms who'd 4*33 Sl.«ltrto«cs WM, 37. ISO Bi/GM/C WM 42, looking lot vmv^ preuy. WWM, S*9*\ 150 Iha., 35. very fSLdimlBMmi. moacuUr WNI"r jbeUer tluags dut Hie haa tooAcr. fm honest, u get to know essch Mhor lilte to be pleeaed hy an older M. You GAM 2d, college student. 51tV M5 hmkett. loving Rtattanahtp. A lot to for new advemures ami fut. 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Diacreel. diaetae *** ** °***- •"" *mimpflri«c #3*r3 •iBSt "V* **^ ^"'^^ ^ "*^ discipline. Can- Q^^ SWM IHSO hady aod foot worship. fMBS GWF, 42, e«|oys kmg free. MSlB MWM SB, bmwn/brown, 51t', t:<) lbs.. diacrert.afTectknale. generous: ISO M lor daytime, weekend fun |Alfrikc«v*WCtlue2Qrs,tSOammc^ walka,namaittk,diflKra.aiiieltimes GWM33,mwcHlar.aiiiBctive,seKy. ^^f^ *'***'i?^-*v -*^ naoe »wwyunw«. ^^iS KL more; fun loving, active; ISO M. ISO A/HM for fun times and imuasv »33»t li«« BIWF to ^mm good UmBiXoiH at home; ISO howfi. tovmg, femi- JSQ simtlar M for friendship, po*- *2i.T?Sl?f * 2?^' h««, emly 40^ 6'4-. #aaj» fntfiUmenL #24H SWM tonhh^ for SWM (23-25) for M. wen w^PPd iKefar mhatoiMii^ Loag Imir a ptoa.f3ttr» Trf ^raiJii. infiniigiii n nn GM( a) for discreel ftw tiawM.d3i272 ,-iWfV, HMI Ban 1 5^, 130 fm« stupe aad nice hody. for db- forfmi. 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Mr. RighL who's, mandiiir. seam- SateiAm«v« TV ISO dmn who wiH fawaay faifiBmeat. #tS»l nnasivc hTs fcr aftemoiw weekday Kmr new^toahyv mikaai B» Ihf.kadWTf.domia—8M(25-45)f0f GWFM SX H1V<*). aittactive. dhumiKAdftea. BglBi faa. MaAhedAdfice. •2TSB Iheacii, nm, honaaty. dfrnmsi daachi^ dhEmet. r\ niamg immmtwi. ftace laaMky.KO; •K for fim lines aad S!*J™ii!~**''*"*'"'lS£"^**""****»**«*''^^ MWM 4^ toves to wearhnwie aad [PAdlto, I^S r BO Maimi* who's imtiwrtcj hi mitotpofmaft. #4IB1 Meadahlp. ByatamaaL _ WW WM4 )« acrvicaj by M's (4rK). Ct/rV» AtkcHaaaCc M tooka^ for ^iec- I Aana^vu GW. icn cam. ISO wcB iihdiklag oa ttm wMfaemds. Mkes to MMWM SB's, ISO C or wet] SGWM 34. LSO BM (35*-) fer good weteome. #!»» tk»me,diacieet M who's tookiac for GWM », Bt. ia5 lba.. 6*2". 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