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TES Fest Schedule Gril 6.23019 Schedule - Updated 6/30/2019 SUBJECT TO CHANGE Thursday, July 4 Vending Hours: 2:00pm-8:00pm Registration/Customer Service Hours: 1:00pm-8:30pm TIME Salon A Salon B Salon C Salon D Salon E Boardroom A Boardroom B Lounge Courtyard Pool Restaurant 1:00pm - 1:30pm Volunteer Orientation Orchid Sir Vice & soumise Raven Kaldera VintageKinkyDoll Nookie Notes Dee1234 AskJeeves 2:00pm-3:00pm Strap-On For All Going Primal- Risk Assessment For The Beauty of Sexy, Safe and Pain-free Anal Mental Health and Kink Kinky Creativity Gender Identities RRAWWR!! Masters Objectification Mistress Sky D20domme & BoundtoFly NauttiBoy Carnal_Knowledge Madeline & Alex Unequal Partnerships: A Luckypuppy 3:30pm-5:00pm Rope 102 Sensual Steel- The Art Points of Interest Doll Play Collaborative Model of Dominance/ Sissification For Harnesses and Hog Ties of Erotic Knifeplay submission Newbies Ma’am Karen & RoseofSalt NookieNotes BumperBootblack Sir James & slave wendy Beyond the Kitchen Femdom: The Corset Class…. Madame Tak Carter Brulee Geezers and Groaners: Aging and 5:30pm-6:30pm Table: Modes and Finding Your How and Where to Buy, How Fetiquette Fucking With Gender Disabilities in Master/slave Models of Parallel Feminine to Tie And How to Correctly Relationships Polyamory Leadership Style Wear a Corset! 7:00pm-8:00pm Dinner Dungeon opens for play at 8:00pm Special Event: 8:00pm-9:00pm LGBTQ+ Meet & Greet Special Event: 9:00pm-10:00pm Novice and Newcomers TENTATIVE (NEED HOST) Special Event: 10:00pm - 11:00pm Special Pool Party Event: Queer 11:00pm-12:00am 12:00am-1:00am 1:00am-2:00am 2:00am-3:00am 3:00am-4:00am Friday, July 5 Vending Hours: 10:00am-8:00pm Registration/Customer Service Hours: 9:00am-8:30pm TIME Salon A Salon B Salon C Salon D Salon E Boardroom A Boardroom B Lounge Courtyard Smoking Area Pool Restaurant 7:45am-8:45am RITL Thista BoundtoFly Lee Allure Communicating Risk: Orpheus Black Heavy Duty: Using Hypnosis to Volunteer Orientation 9:00am-10:30am Creating Informed Art of Erotic Healing Suspending Larger Control Arousal, 10:00am - 10:30am Consent People Orgasms and Chastity Simone B RoseofSalt Raven Kaldera & Sasori_D Lee Allure Wax Play-Artistic, Sir Vice Polyamory and Power Dinosaur 11:00am-12:00pm Joshua Tenpenny Not So Random Acts of Negotiating While Sadistic and Ownership 101 Exchange Blood Choking 101 Emotional Edgeplay Sadism Fractionated Cheaptastic Relationships 12:00pm-1:00pm Lunch Carter Brûlée & D20domme & Ma'am Karen & Kinkerbelle Dex Luckypuppy Bumper Bootblack Thista Orpheus Black Mr. Taqtiks 1:00pm-2:30pm Get Switchy With It: Techniques For Play High Protocol: Verbal Aria's Sing Along “Smokin’ Hot!” Cigar Intro to Needles Ritual Binding Interrogation Navigating Play With a Singletail Restrictions and Play and Cigar Service Dynamics As a Switch Positions for Everyone! Raven Kaldera & Dinosaur & Master Griffin & slave Joshua Tenpenny Boymeat Mr. Dream & Lady Steele Dex Special Event: Lip Switcheroo VintageKinkyDoll Rebecca The Far End of M/s: Flogging 101 - If GleefulAbandon The Halo Above Your Whip Service and Dirty 3:00pm-4:00pm Putting a Fine Point On Bottom of the Slash Kidnapping Without The Consensual Non- Boymeat Can Flog, So Introduction to Erotic Heart: Collars and Practice in the Words: BDSM and Kink It: Pressure Points For 101 in 24/7 Life Jail Time Consent, TPE and Can You! Hypnosis Collaring Courtyard Writers Circle Kink Internal Enslavement NauttiBoy Lady A Master Griffin & slave D’Artagnan Jewelweed Madam Tak Dubious Dee1234 Fireplay: Turning 4:30pm-5:30pm Breathplay 101: Just Rebecca Atmosphere, Mood and Introduction to Facial Building a Better Kit Woven Harnesses Rope Bottoming 101 Up the Heat The Basics Erotic Wrestling Tone Torture 90 minutes Raven Kaldera & Joshua Tenpenny SirJames & slave Lady Steele Power, Surrender, and AskJeeves wendy Orchid Sasori_D Somersettop Special Event: 6:00pm-7:00pm Non-Monogamy and Safety: Negotiating Hypnosis For Non Using Your Voice in Violet Wand Play Intro to Sadistic Rope Comedy Condoms Littles Picnic the Law Unequal Relationships Hypno fetishists Master/slave When You’re Gender Relationships Transgressive Special Event: 7:00pm-8:00pm Dinner Rainbow Dinner! Opening Ceremony - 8:00pm - 8:30pm 8:30pm - 9:30pm Volunteer Ice Cream 8:00pm-9:00pm Social (Volunteers ONLY) Special Event: Special Event: 9:00pm-10:00pm Dominant Ladies Meet Introvert Recharge & Greet Special Event: Kinky 10:00pm - 11:00pm Speed Dating! Special Event: Hypno Lounge Special Event: 11:00pm-12:00am Fetish Workers Special Event: Meet & Greet Pool Party Special Event: Go the 12:00am-1:00am Fuck to Sleep/Midnight Snack 1:00am-2:00am 2:00am-3:00am 3:00am-4:00am Saturday, July 6 Vending Hours: 10:00am-8:00pm Registration/Customer Service Hours: 9:00am-7:00pm TIME Salon A Salon B Salon C Salon D Salon E Boardroom A Boardroom B Lounge Courtyard Smoking Area Pool Restaurant 7:45am-8:45am RITL Dinosaur & Underground Sea Blackestbrown soumise Mr. Dream & Switcheroo Marty Mc_Fry Creative Sadism Antonia/thrash 9:00am-10:00am Compression: The Art Service: What is it and Perfectmonster Rough Body Play and Conductive Rope Taught by a Transformation of the Squeeze Why do People Crave it Hypnosis and Bondage Wrestling Masochist Dex BoundtoFly Lee Allure Carnal_Knowledge Mistress Sky Lady Estrella Advanced Whip Playing with Gravity: AnyaDemure Drugs, Potions, And Special Event: Puppy Deep Cleaning Your 10:30am-12:00pm Relationship Mean-eedles Techniques For Partial Suspensions For Intro to Rope Bondage Knockout Powders, Oh Mosh Filthy Whore with a Contracts Dungeon Play Fun and Torture My Pressure Washer 12:00pm-1:00pm Lunch Ma’am Karen LadyA Carter Brûlée VintageKinkyDoll Genital Play or “How to Breathplay 201: Boymeat Mr. Taqtiks Lady Steele Ian Michaels 1:00pm-2:00pm Invisible Bruises: 1950’s Living in Real Play With the Naughty AKA Don’t Tell Jay Foot Torture Multilevel Mind Games Protocols 101 Sensual Fireplay Emotional First Aid Life Bits” Wiseman d20domme & AnyaDemure & Sir Vice & soumise Lee Allure Luckypuppy Madeline & Alex Marceline_VQ Orpheus Black Special Event: Light BoundtoFly 2:30pm-4:00pm Playing When Health is Memory Play and Bosom Buddies: Tit Electric Staple Gun Play Simple Physics For Advanced Flogging Daycare Water Bondage a Hard Limit Amnesia Torture For Advanced Rope Beginners Dee1234 NookieNotes Lady Steele Raven Kaldera & Rollercoaster of Play: The Alpha Submissive- Dubious D’Artagnan Antonia/thrash Ian Michaels 4:30pm-5:30pm Successful Sex in The Joshua Tenpenny The Psychology of How To Yield Your Mermaid Ties Hypnosis For Fear Play Animal roleplay Advanced Fireplay Age of SESTA, FOSTA Real Service Subspace and Strength Subdrop 6:00pm-8:00pm TES Fest Annual BBQ Dinner in Courtyard Special Event: Oral Recitation of Great Special Event: POC 8:00pm-9:00pm Literature and Meet & Greet Pornography Special Event: M/s 9:00pm-10:00pm Meet & Greet Special Special Event: Event: Special Event: TNG Memorial for Paul Board Game Social 10:00pm - 11:00pm Special Event: Hypno SSASE Meet Meet & Greet Nyghtowl Lounge & Greet 11:00pm-12:00am Special Event: Cigar Social 12:00am-1:00am 1:00am-2:00am 2:00am-3:00am 3:00am-4:00am Sunday, July 7 Vending Hours: 10:00am-2:00pm Registration/Customer Service Hours: 10:00am-12:00pm TIME Salon A Salon B Salon C Salon D Salon E Boardroom A Boardroom B Lounge Courtyard Pool Restaurant 9:00am-10:00am RITL Jewelweed Past is Prologue: AskJeeves Underground Sea Comtesse Aurora & Tea Service Somersettop Madam Tak Increasing Marty McFry 10:30am-11:30am Leather Histories For Getting What You Want Saying Yes to Saying Kilimanjaro Dan Class 10:00am - The Arse Class Your Accuracy Violet Wand 101 Modern Kink Without Going to Jail No Ballbusting 11:20am Communities 12:00pm-1:00pm Lunch Lunch Lunch Lunch Lunch 11:45am - soumise LadyA Boymeat 2:00pm Power Exchange and Carnal_Knowledge Sexual Assault and NookieNotes Playing Without a Bumper Bootblack Special Event: 1:00pm-2:00pm Communication Sex Toys For All Kinds Sexual Violence: Let’s Cuckolding for Couples Toybag - Punching, Bootblacking 101 TES Fest Kinky Through Ballroom of Boys Talk About Consent Slapping, Kicking Tea Dance-Titillating Tango NauttiBoy Thista AnyaDemure Underground Sea Wielding Steel: An Madeline & Alex 2:30pm-4:00pm Cathartic Flogging Introduction To Self Put Heaven at Your Advanced Knifeplay Pallet Wrap Suspension Suspension Feet Experience Mr. Dream & HouseSlave2000 Orchid Sir Vice GleefulAbandon Two Decades Plus of Marty McFry 4:30pm-5:30pm Forced Orgasms and Fear of Asking in Hypnosis For the Black Male Violet Wands 201/301 Orgasm Control Submissives Dominance and Submissive Experience Submission Family-Friendly Dress and Vanilla behavior required in 6:00pm-8:00pm Dinner these areas of the hotel (1:00pm onwards) 8:00pm-9:00pm 9:00pm-10:00pm 10:00pm - 11:00pm 11:00pm-11:59pm.
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