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IN Step • LesBiCay Wisconsin's Community Newspaper • Founded in 1984 October 29, 1998 • Vol. XV, Issue XXII • $2.95 outside of Wisconsin

SECTION ONE: NEWS: Budget Shortfall at ARCW, full story on page 3 Politics: Action Wisconsin's Voters Guide PLUS: The Latest Dish • Qups E Quotes • Legally Speaking and Much More! SECTION Q: INTERVIEW: Sir Ian McKellen PLUS:Fun?Game • len Benka • Gordon Parks Retrospective • REVIEW:Pleasantville The (lassies • Ethan Green • Keepin' IN Step with lame • The Guide 11.

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ACTION WISCONSIN A Congress for Human Rights P.O. Box 342 • Madison, Wisconsin 53701-0342 (608) 283-3251 V [email protected] Grand Opening Set Shortfall Leads to Cutbacks at ARCW for Milwaukee by William Attewell According to internal ARCW memos obtained by IN Step, a effect of the IN Step Staff hiring freeze initiated in August of this year will remain in until Jan. 1, 1999. Other cost cutting measures outlined in an Community Center Milwaukee — A 4% decrease in revenue for 1998 and a pro- Aug. 14 memo include a freeze on the purchase of office equip- Center of Milwaukee — Two years of planning, jected deficit for 1999 has caused the AIDS Resource ment and supplies, program service provider, to 10 town hall meetings, 150 volunteers and Wisconsin (ARCW), the state's largest AIDS materials, and marketing. Addi- measures, including the 250 members later, the Milwaukee Les- implement a number of cost cutting tionally, ARCW's management bian/Gay/Bisexual/Transgender Commu- permanent elimination of seven administrative positions, in order staff saw a temporary reduction in nity Center will welcome the LGBT com- to avoid budget deficits. salary for the remainder of 1998. with HIV and AIDS. We will munity, allies and public officials to its "Our commitment is to people "I am determined that ARCW anything to assure we will Grand Opening Ceremonies on Tuesday, not let them down, and I will do avoid the mistake of other agen- HIV/AIDS community," Nov. 10, 1998 from 5:30 to 9 p.m. always meet our commitment to the cies that have incurred a deficit Resource Center "Community centers are the engine of Doug Nelson, executive director of the AIDS and taken years to recover," The our liberation. Milwaukee deserves a of Wisconsin, told IN Step. Aug. 14 memo from Nelson reads. eliminated was based strong safe home for its LGBT communi- The decision on which positions to be "Because of ARCW's diversified position would impair ty," said Carmen Vasquez, Director of on a functional assessment of whether the base of funding from the public Nelson. Among Public Policy at the Lesbian and Gay. services and programs to clients, according to and private sectors, we continue to Community Services Center of New York. be in a strong financial position Nelson "From the heart of the New York Center, ARCW executive director, Doug now and in the future." we extend our best wishes and congratula- "Our programs and services will Nelson indicated to IN Step that a number of factors were tions on your new home," Vasquez added. not be affected." responsible for the current shortfall. According to Nelson, AIDS Sheila Zelenski, Milwaukee LGBT Walk totals were down $130,000 in 1998. Additionally, private Community Center co-president said, sector and corporate donations also shrunk by 3.5%. "We invite the local community, allies and the positions eliminated are the Regional Director for the North- "We are in the midst of a change in the dynamics of AIDS our brother and sister centers across the east Region, the Director of Volunteer Resources for the South- funding," says Nelson. "But we have prided ourselves on sound country to join us as we celebrate this his- east Region and the Deputy Director of Community Relations. financial management." toric milestone. It is truly a significant ARCW currently has 130 employees. Nelson told IN Step that the agency has seen an increase in moment we can all take pride in sharing." "The reductions in force will ensure that ARCW abides by individual gifts and donations and expressed optimisim that "We have been motivated throughout the highest standards of cost effectiveness. Our administrative ARCW would increase its fund-raising revenue in 1999. He also this two year process by the support we and fund-raising costs are going to be lean and mean. Our pro- indicated a commitment to grow the AIDS Walk back to dollar have received from Milwaukee's LGBT grams and services will not be affected," Nelson added. levels achieved in previous years. community," said Neil Albrecht, Center According to Nelson, the force reduction will save ARCW "I hope that the gay community is reassured by what we are co-president. "The efforts of many dedi- $300,000 in 1999. While other cost-cutting measures imple- doing to avoid a deficit without reducing our service level, says cated volunteers now come to fruition. mented earlier will assure that ARCW does not run a deficit in Nelson. "It is what the community expects of us." Hundreds of people are coming forward 1998. ARCW's budget for 1998 is $8.5 million. to tell us `This is great, this is what the community needs, thank you,— said Albrecht. decision to come out because of what hap- The Grand Opening will be an oppor- Candace Gingrich Supports State pened. And other people begin to under- tunity for the community to explore the stand when they know someone who is gay. new facility, meet the Center Board of Then it was time for the endorsement directors, and welcome public officials and Democrats at Milwaukee Rally talks, and the crowd, about 100 or so, local personalities. In addition, representa- filled the two rooms and pressed around tives from LGBT community social and Braun," she said. the impromptu stage. service organizations will be on hand with On this tour her appearances are coor- John Griffiths of the Human Rights information about their organizations. dinated by the Democratic party, and she League, made the introductions. First off Albrecht noted, "The formation of will spend the last three days before the Julia La Loggia, owner of the bar, wished to this Center will benefit the community in election in Madison working for Tammy state her own endorsement of Jon. Richards countless ways, including the expansion of Baldwin. But her main job is as manager in his bid for an Assembly seat. Next came supportive services for people newly out, of the national Project for the HRL endorsement for Ed Garvey, run- youth services, and the establishment of the Human Rights League. ning against Tommy Thompson. one central access point for community "You don't come out one day a year," Garvey recounted a tragic incident members to learn about or become she said earnestly, "because every day of which, he said, changed his life. involved with other LGBT organizations." our lives we face coming out or not. Two of his Jewish friends, and their The new facility supports the Center's "Of course, Coming Out Day, the two children, were bludgeoned to death mission to provide a home for organiza- Conduce Gingrich. Photo: Dorothy Austin 10th anniversary, is pretty big. In San by a fanatic from the Aryan Nation. That tions, businesses, culture and diversity, Francisco we had thousands turn out, and forever changed his outlook, he said. advocate for and provide programs and by Dorothy Austin Ellen DeGeneres was there. Then Garvey declared that his long services to meet the needs of our commu- of the IN Step Staff "But we have to work at change all and uphill campaign had its good side. "I feel lucky, because through family nities and educate the public and our Milwaukee — Candace Gingrich, 32, the time," she said emphatically. support and friends, we have had a won- communities about our lives. nationally known gay activist and half-sis- She spoke of the agonizingly slow pace derful experience in going all over the "This Grand Opening has been made ter of Newt Gingrich, was devoting her of the social change which lesbians, gays, state. And we're talking about the joy ... of possible by the many pioneers in our com- energy in the last few days before the elec- bisexuals and transgendered persons need. munity taking back democracy from those who paved the way for this per- tion to getting out the vote. "The change ... is glacial," she said. She who manent have the big checkbooks. home," said Albrecht. Albrecht She plainly enjoyed her mission, her recalled a quote from Dr. Martin Luther, added Garvey that historically, this is the third chats with like-minded peers, and urged Jr. King, to the effect that change does not objected vigorously to attempt to form a center Thompson's recent for Milwaukee's her colleagues in the LGBT community happen overnight, but we must work as if statement that dese- LGBT cration of the flag community. In the 1970's, the Gay to work for candidates friendly to gay and it does. should be included in People's Union opened a site on Milwau- lesbian issues. "That's approximate, but that's the the hate crimes law. kee's East Side. In the With the early 1990's the As always, she had to get the inevitable meaning," she said. awareness that violence Cream City Foundation against opened a site in question out of the way. She is accus- She also recalled that a federal district gays is included in Wisconsin's Walker's Point, very hate crime close to the current tomed to hearing people ask about her court ruled on interracial marriage in law, Garvey said that Thomp- Center location. These son's previous attempts relationship with her half-brother, Newt 1958, and that the Supreme Court did statement was "an insult to us all." ware unable to maintain a Candace facility due to Gingrich, the formidable speaker of the not rule on what was then a highly con- Gingrich, when her turn came, lack of resources and volunteers. house. Of course, they are on opposite troversial issue until 1973. reminded the enthusiastic audience that The Milwaukee LGBT Community sides, but are polite to each other. Aware of the need to promote under- there was a time when blacks and women Center is a community-based could not organization "We see each other once or twice a standing, she declared that her personal vote, and that was not so long ago. represented by more than 100 volunteers year, at family gatherings," Gingrich told focus is on coming out, over and over. "This is 1988. And it is about time and over 250 members. For more infor- IN Step. She handles interviews, travels, makes that we stop thinking about voting as mation about the Center, call our hot line On Oct. 22, in the midst of a last- speeches and summons resources for something we can do or not do. Now it is at (414) 483-4710, or visit us online at minute electioneering tour, she was encouraging the coming out process. a duty, an obligation. www.mkelgbt.org. among the speakers at a rally sponsored by Asked if the recent beating and death When a particular group is marginal- the Human Rights League and hosted by of a Wyoming youth had a devastating ized and demonized, you don't have the Julia La Loggia, owner of Dish, at her les- effect on the coming out process, she said basic rights that others take for granted. bian bar, 235 S. 2nd St. the contrary seemed to be true. And you have critical decisions to make "In California I worked for Barbara "I don't think it was a setback for the on Nov. 3." Boxer, and in Wisconsin I'm working for movement. It helped raise awareness of She urged her listeners get out the vote, OUT Front: From Fun?Game, Russ Feingold, Tammy Baldwin, and what our lives are like, what risks we take by and to volunteer for worthy candidates. Male Models After Dark Lydia Spottswood, and tomorrow, I'll be being honest about who we are," she said. "You have a great chance to make his- tory," See story Page 31, Section 0 in Illinois working for Carol Moseley- Also, she added, people are making the she said. And her audience responded with shouts and applause.

IN Step • October ze—Novembei ii, ieel V. Ousted Reverend Spreads A Message at Milwaukee Church by Dorothy Austin She now has an ecumenical ministry, of the IN Step Staff which she -calls "Prism," and which she a1, began two weeks after her separation Milwaukee —.Coming Out Day at from her role as a Lutheran pastor. Cross Lutheran Church, 1831 N. 16 St., OW/ Her focus is ecumenical because the featured a sermon by a lesbian minister Cies need is there, and she does not have time and spirited songs of celebration, includ- Pot queers to "quibble over theology." ing some with a gospel beat. a World Her work includes counseling and The guest speaker and lesbian minis- whole spiritual guidance, hospital visiting, crisis ter was the Rev. Deborah Click, 37, of intervention, the full range of human rela- of Granvlle. Ohio, tions issues, with outreach to two nearby who was ousted towns and rural areas in five counties. Accommodations Guide from her parish She and her parttier, a Baptist minis- about a year ago 102,s, ter, plan social activities such as cookouts when her sexual Po4 Bookstore and festivals for gays and lesbians, since orientation was nobody else in the area is doing it. She has 'c'(‘14°'( 6s discovered. observed a hunger for a sense of commu- 2,4\- She had lived \Z- nity. Other recent programming has "in the closet" for included a seminar on thorny problems years. Always such as gay/lesbian financial planning, ‘1,4 wondering if taking into consideration a partner's well someone might being and a family's interests. notice some- ,ottp:Ilwww.damron.coni Deborah Click In Granville she has been accepted, thing, or if she • after considerable discussion, into the might say one thing too many. And one day Ministerium, a group of local ministers it happened. who meet once a month. She is not sure how, or who. But she "It took nine months," she said. "And was called in by her bishop, who noted it was entirely cordial, although there were that he had no fault to find with her work clearly different sides. The key issues were as a pastor, but that she was out of com- discrimination, violence and promiscuity. pliance with a U.L.C.A. church law, to At the end of nine months, they issued a the effect that gays and lesbians could be statement, a powerful statement." pastors providing they were celibate. Now she and her colleagues have "He said that I could resign or he reached a comfortable adjustment in her would press charges, (leading to) an eccle- membership, although they do not agree siastical trial," Rev. Click said. on theology. So, she was forced out. She does not conduct regular services She described what it was like to be for gays and lesbians because she does not ostracized, "In stores, people turned wish to compete with the Baptist Church, around and walked away." • which gave her an office after she lost her And she had sat with these people in pastoral post. funeral homes, giving comfort. And she had "They gave us sanctuary,' she said. celebrated the good events of their lives with But she does work at some traditional them. And suddenly she was a nonperson. ministerial services, such as memorial ser- But this day was a day of celebration. vices every six months for AIDS patients And a church full of people to celebrate who have died, a LGBT Sunday school with her. The occasion was the eighth class which she co-reaches, and a mid- annual Coming Out Day, with the week study group devoted to the Bible theme, " The Road to the Rainbow — and other readings. Celebrating our Lives Together." The "I feel like I am in the front trenches," Multi- ministers, Rev. Click and Rev. Joseph W. she said. Ellwanger, pastor of the church, wore She feels strongly that her present rainbow stoles over their robes. ministry is real, with the opportunity to The service was planned by Brad reach out to people with a freedom she Skilled Hauser, and a committee including repre- had never experienced before in a tradi- sentatives from Reformation, Pentecost, tional setting. Incarnation and Village churches. In her sermon, Rev. Click described her new ministry among gays and lesbians in east central Ohio.

date fund-raisers, among hundreds of other groups. Two Madison "The Cardinal and Ricardo are cen- tral elements for progressive politics. Whether it's a county board, state Institutions assembly, or a congressional race, pro- gressive candidates know they can go to Ricardo," said Mary Lou Keleher, a vet- Rely on the Reach eran legislative aide. David Smith, founder and owner of Barney H. Moore Four Star Video Heaven, has just the expertise of Phone: 414-536-7575 Crossroads announced he is selling the video store that has contributed immensely to the Barney Moore Agency Fax: 414-536-7581 by Mike Leon visible LGBT cultural presence in Madi- of the IN Step Staff son for 13 years. buyer Madison — Two institutions instru- Smith said he looking for a to bring all 7655 W. luscher Ave. • Milwaukee among the 40,000 active customers that (76th ft Hampton • Hampton Shopping Center) mental in mainstreaming LGBT culture in Madison stand at a crossroads, the he sent a letter out announcing lucrative business your insurance Cardinal dance bar and Four Star Video what appears to be a Heaven. opportunity. Celebrating its 90th anniversary, the "I place my trust in my customers and have been reward- protection historic Cardinal building houses the my community, and I wrote Smith FAMILY everybody-friendly Cardinal dance bar ed many times over for that," AMERICAN announcing his plans. "If you INSLJFFAINC4a — a fixture in numerous progressive in the letter together under are interested in taking over for me, I AUTO HOME BUSINESS HEALTH LIFE causes for the last 24 years. Next year, the discuss it with you." Cardinal bar will celebrate its silver would love to two institu- one roof. anniversary. Commenting on the Democratic political operative All Your Protection Under One Roof. Since former Madison alderman tions, "These places will con- Ricardo Gonzalez leased the tavern in Rex Loehe said, Call today. )q7 Arnewan Ehmtly Mutual InNuran..Compane and iu Sub. idarles tinue for a long time. I know that both HOT(' Office — Madiwn. WI 53783 1974, the Cardinal has hosted countless Imp://www.amfam mm the community are benefits for LGBT groups, Central Amer- the proprietors and ican solidarity causes, and electoral candi- proud of that."

Ut October 29 —November it 1998 IN Step existing HIV prevention services for young gay men by engaging community organizations in the CAIR Receives planning and carrying out of intervention ele- ments. The researchers hope to build a network of News Wire Grant for community partners who can sustain comprehen- $2 Million sive HIV prevention efforts for young men after the research program has ended. 7th Annual Midwest Collegiate Youth HIV Prevention The study is part of a CDC national research trial that includes seven sites, including the Med- Conference at UW-Madison Milwaukee — A new study by the Center for ical College of Wisconsin. All sites will use the AIDS Intervention Research (CAIR) at the Med- same methods throughout the trial and the find- Madison — Feb. 19-21, 1999, has been slated as the dates for the ical College of Wisconsin will develop and evaluate ings from all sites will eventually be combined. 7th Annual Midwest Bisexual, Lesbian, Gay, Transgender College Confer- a large-scale HIV prevention program for young men who have sex with men. The study is sup- ence. The conference will be held at the University of Wisconsin at Madison. ported by a $2,225,000 grant from the Centers for More than a thousand people are expected to attend the annual Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). County Committee event, which is one of the largest and most significant campus gather- "AIDS increasingly affects people who are gays and lesbians in the country. younger and more disenfranchised than ever ings of before," said Jeffrey A. Kelly, Ph.D., professor of Approves Needle For information, email to: [email protected] or visit the psychiatry and behavioral medicine, director of Web site at: http://tps.stdorg.wisc.edu/mblgtcc CAIR and principal investigator of the study. "Young and gay men are among the people who are Exchange Funding MCC Youth Programs Get most at risk for HIV and AIDS." The three-year study will be undertaken in Milwaukee — "It's an investment that will save $100K Ford Foundation Grant Milwaukee and Detroit, and will involve large- lives, get people off drugs, reduce crime and save scale, community-level HIV prevention programs taxpayer dollars," said ARCW Executive Director Los Angeles — The Ford Foundation has awarded a $100,000 designed specifically for young gay men ages 15 to Doug Nelson as the Finance and Audit Committee grant to the Metropolitan Community Church (MCC) for its at-risk youth of the Milwaukee County Board endorsed 25. CAIR has developed partnerships with HIV programs. prevention service providers in each community to $100,000 in county funding for Lifepoint, assist with field data collection and delivery of the ARCW's clean needle exchange program. MCC officials said the Ford Foundation grant would be used to help intervention. In Milwaukee, CAIR is working with The committee rejected an amendment that underwrite the church's youth program in West Hollywood and to set up the AIDS Resource Center of Wisconsin (ARCW) would have struck the $100,000 from County similar programs for at-risk young gays and lesbians in two other cities, and in Detroit, CAIR's partner is the Midwest Executive Tom Ament's 1999 proposed budget. AIDS Prevention Project (MAPP). The amendment offered by Supervisors Richard which have not yet been determined. CAIR has also established collaborative rela- Nyklewizc and Mark Borkowski failed as supervi- tionships with other AIDS service organizations, sors Lynne DeBruin, Penny Podell, Lee Holloway South Africa's High Court community-based organizations and health depart- and Jim McGuigan voted to maintain the funding. Sodomy Laws ments in each of the two cities to provide a broad Supervisors Karen Ordinans, Robert Krug and Topples base of support for the intervention. Daniel Diliberti voted to approve the amendment Capetown, South Africa — The South African Constitutional One of the challenges of working with at-risk and eliminate the funding. The allocation will now go young men is developing strategies to reach persons before the full board of supervisors on November 9. Court has declared the country's same-sex sodomy laws unconstitution- at higher risk. For nearly two years, CAIR and its DeBruin, chair of the Finance and Audit Com- al, one of the most important steps forward the country was expected community partners have identified venues in each mittee, made an effective and impassioned plea to take in recognizing the civil rights of gays and lesbians in the coun- urging members to support the funding. Compar- community where young men meet. In addition, try in its post-apartheid era. the researchers have gathered information from the ing exchanging needles to taking car keys away men about their views on HIV prevention. from a drunk driver, DeBruin said the county must "Just as apartheid legislation rendered the lives of couples of differ- "We have talked with large numbers of young do all it can prevent lives from being claimed by ent racial groups perpetually at risk, the sodomy offense [built] insecuri- support was buttressed by Supervisor men and with representatives of service providers HIV. Her ty and vulnerability into the doily lives of gay men," the court declared. about what they thought is needed to improve Holloway's call for progressive and bold action in HIV/AIDS prevention," said David W. Seal, the face of the worsening HIV epidemic. Supervi- Activists in the country said the court's decision paved the way for Ph.D., assistant professor of psychiatry and behav- sor Podell commented that this funding was in the gays and lesbians in South Africa to achieve civil rights that have been ioral medicine and co-investigator of the project. best interest of the taxpayers of Milwaukee Coun- denied in large part because of the country's anti-sodomy laws, which "Their recommendations are helping us tailor the ty. intervention specifically to at-risk young men." "The leadership of the four supporters of nee- made them de facto criminals and was often cited as the rational for The intervention will last for two years and will dle exchange from this committee will be powerful restricting civil rights. include five elements. A social marketing campaign in opposition to attempts to eliminate this funding will be developed to advocate risk reduction behav- when the full board votes on Nov. 9," said Nelson. ior change and establish the program as an attractive ARCW has operated a needle exchange program `Ex-Gay' Ads Moving to TV activity for young men. Key popular young people since 1994. The one for one exchange of clean nee- will be recruited to conduct peer outreach and advo- dles for used, possibly HIV contaminated ones, Washington — The coalition of far-right religious conservative cate risk reduction to other young men. Social reduces the spread of HIV among injection drug organizations that backed a series of "ex-gay" ads in newspapers events, such as dances and music events, will be users and works hard to get users off of drugs and organized to provide opportunities for casual peer into treatment. Annually, Lifepoint exchanges over around the country earlier this year say they're now ready to run a outreach. In addition, the program will offer work- 300,000 needles annually, reaches 1,500 active injec- series of four one-minute television spots urging gays to "turn shops that incorporate risk reduction strategies into tion drug users and refers 150 users into treatment. straight." the discussion of other issues of interest to young men. These issues include dating, falling in love, Kristin Hansen of the Family Research Council said the TV spots school, and relationships with friends and parents. would be airing on a number of stations around the country in October Finally, the intervention will seek to strengthen "and possibly longer." The one-minute spots say homosexuals can change their sexual ori- entation — a fact fiercely disputed by rights activists and mental Chicago's Place For Leather health professionals alike. The far-right ads promote church-sponsored REAL ESTATE "reparative therapy" that psychologists say simply doesn't work. Activists say the TV campaign is simply a right-wing campaign Specializing in: aimed at influencing national elections in key campaigns. First Time Buyers Home Buyers French Domestic Partner Relocating Measure Sidetracked Move-Up Buyers Paris — Using a parliamentary procedure, the French National Sellers Assembly declared a bill that would legalize domestic partnerships in the country an "inadmissible" measure, thereby cutting off all debate on the bill and derailing it — at least for the time being. Rod Fortner French Socialist members of the Assembly dismissed the move as a "prank" and said they would reintroduce it in a few weeks when pas- Realtor sage would be more likely. The parliamentary move had been possible because so many Socialist members were absent from the Assembly at the time the bill IS012 came up for debate. Male Hide® Leathers, Ine. Affiliated CUSTOM LEATHER FOR MEN & WOMEN Briefs compiled by Keith Clark CALL: TUES-SAT NOON-8PM • SUN 1PM-5PM • CLOSED MONDAY of the IN Step staff 2816 N. 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IN Step • October t9 —November rt, r998 L5A national Republican congressional social policy. The ADF states that it is a, "... national alliance fund- UW System Fights ing the legal defense and advocacy of religious freedom, Seratti Prepares the sanctity of human life, and family values." It boasts of a coordinated national legal strategy. For Diversity The plaintiffs argue that their First Amendment right Anti-gay Ad Against to free speech and freedom of association is being violat- ed because a portion of their tuition is allocated to a pool of money from which student groups are funded. Assembly Opponent LGBT Students Under Legal Attack But its ideological hatred of gays and lesbians appears to be the compelling reason behind its litigation. by Christopher Ott by Mike Leon "I would rather not pay for-someone who is working of the IN Step staff of the IN Step Staff for something that is directly against my beliefs," said Southworth plaintiff Rebecka Vander Werf, a senior Madison — State Rep. Lorraine Seratti (R-Spread Madison — As one battle in its culture war, the reli- Eagle) has reportedly prepared a radio ad that makes sin- gious right is now taking aim with litigation as its weapon majoring in interior design. "It's clearly spelled out in the bible that homosexuality is wrong. Homosexuality is a ister implications about the support that her Democrat- at American universities and liberal arts colleges, where ic opponent, Pete Krolow, has received from openly gay diversity and tolerance of different sexual orientations are sin, I am not going to condone homosexuality, murder, theft or any sin." Madison-area Assembly candidate Mark Pocan. Pocan both prominent cultural features and official policy. faces no Republican opponent in the Nov. 3 election, In a decision that would affect all 26 UW System The A.C.L.U. of Wisconsin filed as an Amicus party to the Court against the Evangelical plaintiffs, and took and has been helping in other campaigns. campuses, the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Seventh Cir- The Capital Times reported on Oct. 26 that the tape cuit ruled Aug. 10 in the Southworth v. Grebe decision issue with their First Amendment analysis. "The students here are required to directly fund of Seratti's ad has been distributed to radio stations in that students' mandatory activities fees may not be used the 36th Assembly District, which is in northern Wis- to fund student groups such as those involved in assisting money to an organization they don't like. What they're doing is funding money to a funding pool, creating a consin. The ad reportedly says, "Madison area Assembly gays and lesbians on campus. candidate Mark Pocan, who is openly gay, may soon be Five Evangelical Christian UW-Madison students are public forum. Once you create this public forum of money, so long as the money is distributed to groups in knocking on your door. Why would a homosexual from plaintiffs in the case, aided by two religious right legal Madison be supporting Pete Krolow?" The ad says the foundations. an evenhanded way, the expenditure is appropriate, said counsel for the A.C.L.U. of reason is that Seratti "had the courage to introduce a bill Among the 18 groups objected to by the plaintiffs are attorney Jon Furlow, outside Wisconsin. "That's `public forum analysis'. Once you banning same-sex marriage in Wisconsin." The ad's title, the LGBT Campus Center, the Madison AIDS Support that public forum can be accessed which would not be broadcast with the ad, is reportedly Center and the Ten Percent Society. fund the public forum, linked with a particular group's "He's One of Them." The UW Board of Regents is petitioning the Court of without the funder being whole point here is to encourage and facil- Neither Krolow nor Seratti could be reached by press Appeals for the Seventh Circuit for a hearing en banc, a message. The itate more rigorous speech on all subjects, regardless of time for comment, but Pocan said that Krolow's cam- hearing before the full Seventh Circuit. Such petitions are their political or ideological view." paign got an advance tip about the ad from one of the rarely granted, but student LGBT leaders are optimistic Student leaders have expressed outrage at the South- radio stations that received the tape. Pocan said he offered that a hearing may be granted because of Southworth's Krolow and worth decision, and the religious right's attack on their work. not to help with Krolow's campaign, but that social repercussions and significant legal questions. Pocan's support. "The LGBT Campus Center deserves the unequivo- his wife have said they are glad to have For now, the current fee structure remains operative all Krolow campaigners were going to cal support of the university. It is the only resource on Pocan joked that and student groups continue to function. "Hello, my name is Mark." campus for students in the coming out process. Knowing wear stickers saying, The religious right legal foundations aiding the Evan- little guilty" about becom- the statistics for suicide among LGBT youth, it would be Pocan said that he "felt a gelical Christian are the Arizona-based Alliance Defense point of an attack against another candi- criminal for the university not to fund support for this ing the focal Fund and the Virginia-based Northstar Legal Center. and that he is trying to collect $104 checks on center," said Jason Rasmussen, co-president of UW's Ten date, The Alliance Defense Fund (ADF) is closely aligned statement against Seratti's anti- Percent Society. Krolow's behalf as a with the other major religious right organizations, includ- marriage bill, A.B. 104. Contributions to The LGBT community and other student groups on same-sex ing James Dobson's Focus On the Family and Don Wild- campaign can be sent to Krolow for Assembly, all UW campuses await the Court's decision. If the full Krolow's mods American Family Association's (AFA). County Rd. J, Tigerton, WI 54486. Seventh Circuit refuses the petition for an en banc hear- N3513 Wildmon has long been criticized for his anti-Semit- ing, the UW may petition the U.S. Supreme Court to ic and right-wing stances he has taken in his capacity as grant a writ of certiorari, to agree to hear the case. head of the AFA, formerly the National Federation for Decency. And Dobson exercises virtual veto power over

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• • • I It 4 ,1 41 I I I % % % % % • 0 I • I 'I '4 r • ' , ,,, • " ' i l l , I • HRL Holds Public Officials Reception by Dorothy Austin of the IN Step staff Milwaukee — Representatives from segments of Milwaukee's LGBT community gathered on Monday, Oct. 19, to thank public officials for their support in the past and We to encourage them to lend an appreciative ear in the future. Co-sponsored by the Human Rights League and the Milwaukee LGBT Commu- • nity Center, the reception gave public officials — elected and appointed —a chance •do - to express their views to their constituents — and the public at large —through the media representatives present as well as to leaders in the gay community. som ing Among the public officials in a group as television lights flashed were County Supervisor Dorothy Dean, a consistent ally of gays and lesbians, as well as County Executive Tom Ament, who has supported gay rights issues which come up before rea y 0 low! w

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Rodney Scheel House, American Cancer Society, Task Semi-finals will be held on Nov. 1,8, and 15, 1998, Force for Battered Women, AIDS Walk Wisconsin and between the hours of 6:30 p.m. to 10:30 p.m. Finals will New Harvest Annual PrideFest. These donations were only possible because of be held on Nov. 21, 1998 at 2:00 p.m at Odyssey Lanes. generous support of H.I.T. by the community. Over the Join Kat Country 98.1 FM WKTT radio personality Dinner Dance Celebration years, these donations have totaled over $20,000. Gwen Bowe, as she will be present for the entire contest. The 20th annual bowling tournament "Carnivale," Prizes for the finals will be announced at a later date. Madison — The New Harvest Foundation is pleased will take place Thanksgiving weekend November 26-29, The contest is to help people understand the impor- to announce that its annual "Black and White" dinner 1998. Entry deadline is Nov. 10, 1998 and cost per per- tance of knowing about AIDS and MS. Donations will Friday, Nov. dance will be held on 13, 1998, at the son is $75. AMF Regency on 76th St. and Florist Ave. be accepted throughout the entire contest. These dona- Monona Terrace Convention Center. A cash bar will will be the host bowling house, with the Milwaukee tions will be given to the noted charities. If you would open at 7:00 p.m. with dinner at 8:00 p.m., followed by Hilton as the host hotel. Registration begins Thursday like to contribute and are unable to attend the contest dancing until midnight. Cost is $40.00. evening at 5 p.m. the H.I.T. welcome show at Club 219 you may send your donation to: The AIDS/MS Benefit, The New Harvest Foundation is a nonprofit, benevo- will begin 10:30 p.m. (drag time); and bowling shifts are: Attn: Kevin, 412 E. Mill St., Plymouth, WI 53073. lent and educational organization incorporated in 1984. Friday 10:00 a.m. and 5:00 p.m; and Saturday 10:00 Its humanitarian mission is to raise and distribute funds to a.m., with the awards banquet following at 6:00 p.m. The benefit gay, lesbian, and bisexual causes in Dane County. weekend concludes with the farewell brunch Sunday at Rockford's Diversity Since its founding, the New Harvest Foundation has 10:00 a.m. at the M&M Club. For information call given over $200,000 in much-needed funding to numer- (414) 332-7142 or (414) 871-4172. ous groups that support and advance the gay, lesbian and Resource Center Relocated bisexual community. This record of philanthropy has been Rockford, IL — The Resource Center and Office for made possible entirely by the generous contributions of The Milwaukee Chapter Diversity of Rockford, Inc. has been relocated to 117 S. several hundred men and women in our community. The 3rd St. in Rockford. The Resource Center continues to be annual dinner and dance celebrates the donations and the open from 7 to 10 p.m. Monday through Friday, and is projects of the foundation's grantees. of OWL Schedules staffed by volunteers. For additional information or to reserve tickets, con- "The new location is nearly three times our former tact the New Harvest Foundation, (608) 256-4204 or Monthly Meeting space and will enable us to provide more services to the write: P.O. Box 1786, Madison, WI 53701-1786. gay and lesbian community," said Joe Like, Diversity Milwaukee — The Milwaukee Chapter of OWL President. "We simply outgrew our former East State (Older Women's League) will have their monthly meeting Street location." HIT to Host 20th Annual on Wednesday, Nov. 14, 1998, at Washington Park In addition to the evening hours, the Center is open Senior Center, 4420 W. Vilet St., from 1:00 to 3:00 p.m. for. teen drop-in activities each Thursday from 3 to 7 p.m. Bowling Tournament The general public is invited to this meeting. The Other social and support activities for teens and adults topic of the meeting will be Women, Work, and Money: are held. The Center, with various materials of interest to Milwaukee — The Holiday Invitational Tournament Improving the Odds for a Secure Retirement. the homosexual community, is open for members and is the oldest, and one of the largest nonprofit gay and les- The Older Women's League is a national organization non-members. A lending library is available for members bian bowling tournament, dating back to 1978. The that works to improve the lives and image of mid-life and and may be used in the center by non-members. entire H.I.T. board is made up of volunteers, who, col- older women. For information call (414) 963-4908. Volunteers who staff the Center have access to a file to lectively, donate over 5,000 per year to produce one of assist in referring individuals to gay or lesbian friendly coun- the most successful events of its kind. The board consists selors, financial planners, religious organizations etc. The of 20-25 individuals elected by the previous year's board. Karaoke Benefit to Aid Winnebago County Department of Health conducts free, That board, in turn elects the Executive Board. H.I.T. anonymous HIV testing once each month at the Center. also has hundreds of additional volunteers who assist in ARCW-Northeast Region Diversity of Rockford, Inc. is a not-for-profit; com- fund-raising events; and donate many hours of service munity-based organization composed of members of the during the tournament itself. In addition, many local Sheboygan Falls — DJW's Karaoke, Odyssey Lanes, gay and lesbian community as well as their families and businesses donate their time and products to ensure a and Kat Country 98.1 FM will present a benefit karaoke friends. Formed in 1993, it is dedicated to improving the successful tournament. contest for the AIDS Resource Center of Wisconsin- lives of the homosexual, bisexual and transgendered pop- H.I.T. has generously donated any surplus of funds to Northeast Region and the National Multiple Sclerosis ulations in the greater Rockford area. Individuals may call charitable organizations statewide, such as the AIDS Society, Wisconsin Chapter at Odyssey Lanes in Sheboy- the Center at (815) 964-2639. Resource Center of Wisconsin, Brady East STD Clinic, gan Falls.

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Oct. 31. Suggested attire for this event is black, and all guests who are appropriate- OutReach Benefits ly dressed will receive a free drink ticket at the door, which opens at 8 p.m. The From Community highlight of the evening will be a special guest appearance by Tony Mills, the new Mr. IML `98. Patrons will have an oppor- Thrift Store Sales tunity to meet Mr. Mills and have their Birthdays Madison — OutReach, Madison's photograph taken with him as part of a lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered fund-raiser for the Milwaukee Eagles center, was the largest Beneficiary of Brotherhood Relief Fund. Community Thrift Store sales for the Mike Walsh, Milwaukee Eagles bar third quarter of 1998. The Community manager, said, "The Eagles Brotherhood Relief Fund is very important to us and dinners Thrift Store supports Madison commu- nity organizations with a customer-desig- was started because one of our regular cus- nated portion of their profits. tomers from Chicago, one who was very Through the hard work of dozens of important to us at Milwaukee's own anniversaries dedicated volunteers and generous PrideFest `98, was recently gay-bashed in donors, OutReach has received more than Chicago and suffered major head trauma. $1,200 from the Community Thrift store Though his prognosis is good, his physical late night snacks since its opening five months ago. Top- rehabilitation will take nearly a year. This ping off more than 40 area non-profits, is the least we can do to help a brother in OutReach has received the largest pro- need; and the least we can do is establish ceeds distribution every quarter since the an on-going fund raiser for those who store began operation and is fast becom- require some assistance." ing one of Community Thrift Store's most Proceeds of the photo-shoot will also important funding designations. be used to assist the organizers (who will Donors who want to support Out- be in attendance) of the newly formed Reach can bring in their sellable items and Mr. Wisconsin Leather Man Contest. luncheons donate them on behalf of OutReach. The purpose of the contest is to seek and When the items sell, OutReach receives the promote an appropriate candidate to rep- net profit from the sales. The Community resent the state of Wisconsin as its entry engagements Thrift Store is located at 1814 S. Park St. in the International Mr. Leather Contest, and accepts donations Wednesdays which will be held in Chicago during through Sundays from noon to 7 p.m. May of 1999. The Mr. Wisconsin Leather Man Contest will be held in the state of Wis- Milwaukee Eagle's consin on Saturday, Feb. 20, 1999, with the winner to be selected by a panel of judges. It is hoped that this candidate will " in Black" continue to represent, unify and promote Milwaukee — The Milwaukee Eagle, the Leather Community throughout the desserts Milwaukee's Levi/Leather dance bar is state of Wisconsin during the year of his proud to announce its plans for their first reign. We hope all will join us and enjoy anniversary celebration "Fantasy in Black: a piece of cake as we celebrate the passage an Un-Halloween Event" on Saturday, of out first year. happy hours l AA

am_ meaner or absolutely no excuse at all for great to honor the trust she placed in people, menu selections, atmosphere, service even relative strangers, knows what a Jan A. Radtke kind presence has passed from Wiscon- Jan A. Radtke, owner of the Cross- sin's rural gay and lesbian community. and locations; all surprisingly affordable. roads Tavern in Aztalan and Friends When listening at PrideFest this Tavern in Fort Atkinson, was gathered summer, festival goers could hear with her dearest friends and relatives at DykeAppella singing a Judy Reagan her home as she ended her long battle song found on their "At the Gates of with breast cancer on Oct. 17, 1998. Heaven" CD: "She had a Hollywood Born in Milwaukee on Jan. 15, 1945, Haircut/She wore black peg pants/Car- to Frank E. and Ruth E. (DeHorne) ried he cigarettes in her sleeve/She did- Radtke, Jan had served proudly as a n't much like to dance/And if that sergeant in the Wisconsin Army Nation- bulldyke, stone butch, diesel dagger al Guard up until recently. Her generosi- woman/Doesn't mean very much to you ty, compassion, and humor-loving dedi- today, sister/While you're walking on cation to life will be greatly missed by all the path from your oppression/Just the rural lesbians and gay men who came remember who pointed the way." ft to know and love her. Low-key Jan Radtke was such a pres- Surviving are her loved ones, Kirby ence. Jan, we know for sure that you are Cafe and Dr. George Gay, Brian Soper and now not just "At the Gates of Heaven"; you Patti Kruese, Kristy Braun and Don surely are embraced by the loving God you Knickerbocker Kassner, Terry Brown and Dove Carr, pointed to in your "God Corner" at Cross- 1030 East Juneau • 272-001 1 North Shore Kathleen Verg and Shirley Wickersham, roads Tavern in Aztalan during your long Mon. — Thurs., 6:30 am to 10 pm Loni Urbas and battle with breast Jim Wanke, Dean cancer. Rest in peace, Fri. & Sat., 6:30 am to I I pm BISTRO Giese and Elmo Quant, Rich Upsel and dearest Jan. Those who loved you miss you Ri verPoint Village Steve Thompson, and Michael Fox; greatly, but are comforted by knowing Sun., 9 am to 10 pm one you I-43 & Brown Deer Rd., • 351-6100 brother Frank (Marie) of Reeseville, and rest in eternal peace. many nieces and nephews. —Rich Upsel Mon. — Thurs., 1 1 am to 10 pm Anyone who came to know Jan and Fri. & Sat., I I am to I I pm 1>••k R Sun., 5 pm to 10 pm (p More Howard T. Ludin, PhD BANG —Horticulturalist— for your buck 11OO

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Republicans as using various Machiavel- TKing — the center of the Universe Who else would be so stupid as to lian techniques — especially lying in TV — at a time when most folks still thought name themselves after some antiquated ads — to undermine our system by dis- IN Step in terms of an earth-centered cosmos. system of building without a foundation? couraging mainstream whites, as well as Now you know why the traditional name women and black voters, from going to Vol. XV, No. XXII • VOTE!!! Louis XIV had mistresses and mistresses and more mistresses, and everyone knew for these backward-looking people is the the polls on election day. And, since the about it. Did anyone care? No! Now we "Know Nothings". You see, they can't Democrats are kissing so much corporate read. For them, part of the Preamble to IN Step World Headquarters have a peasant good-old-boy from ass (GATT & NAFTA), the DNC is The Northern Lights Building Arkansas with a slick zipper. 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The Republicans do not want you to William Attewell awarded the "Politician's Pinocchio Award that line there? go out and vote. If you stay home on Elec- editor-in-chief of the Decade." On the other hand, the TV Like that line on bumper stickers tion Day, just the right wing crazies will ads are funny; I hope the public forgets the about abortion: "If you don't like abor- vote and guess who has the most to lose?! Jorge L.Cabal candidate but remembers the humor. He tion, don't have sex with anti-abortion- Sadly, we don't have Ronny Greer to ists." The same goes for those Log Cabin kick around any more. It was so much arts editor gets my "Liar, Liar, Pants On Fire" nomina- tion. After all, Lydia Spotswood of Kenosha Retards: Give them the silent treatment. fun to bash to the biblically retarded. Not exactly an inclusive political Ed Grover sued him over his ads against her. She VThe local Log Cabin Republicans won the law suit, but he won the elec- move, but then, as Jean Paul in metro Madison have just elected a editor 4.1 book tion and didn't have to give up what he Sartre said: "Some people are person in real estate as their new chair, stole. unsalvageable." Even Jesus sug- president — whatever. Isn't real estate Dorothy Austin, Keith Clark, .One thing about Gov. Tommy gested in Mark 6:11 that in the "Second Oldest Profession?" I may didel hopeless cases, you brush the dirt be wrong, it could have been fund-raising. Scott Evertz, Kevin John, Thompson: We'll never catch him in bed with either a live boy or a from your sandals (an insult) VIn Milwaukee, the Boulevard The- Christopher Krimmer, Mike Leon, dead woman. At least we now and move on. They are more to atre's current run of "Six Degrees of Sep- Julia LaLoggia, Tim Nasson, have the relief of knowing be pitied than fretted over. aration" is like a tornado. 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k0A October 29—Nr,vcrnber II, 1998 • IN Step 1 .74.tz0 Letters Betting on the Impossible Commentary by Keith Clark America. As you stand irresponsibly I f I were a betting person, I might wager that State Sen.Tammy Baldwin will make history Neumann is a and unaccountably from your pulpits this November by becoming the first non-incumbent, openly gay person to be elected to Kick in the Ass denouncing gays and lesbians for one Congress. The odds are good in her favor for several reasons: she's running in a largely lib- illogical reason or another, plaster eral district; she has a solid track record as a state legislator; and the Democrats have tar- Dear Editor— newspapers with incredible stories of geted the 2nd Congressional District race as vitally important and have rolled out some Human Services Sec- I wanted to thank you for Mike former gays and lesbians or compare very big guns to campaign for her — from Donna Shalala, the Health and retary, to motorcylcle-riding former Texas Gov. Anne Richardson, to First Lady Hillary Clinton. Leon's "expose" of Mark Neumann us to pedophiles or kleptomaniacs, physically But to be honest, I wouldn't bet a dime on Baldwin winning. (Vol. Vol. 15, #21). But in my opin- you empower others to person (I'm not, but that's not the reason). The ion the article did not go far commit violence against members of The reason isn't that I'm not a gambling Americans are so profoundly screwy that it's risky to underes- enough. Leon's piece dwelt mostly our communities. reason quite simply is that some doing the improbable, unlikely and unthinkable — no matter how on the doctrines of the WELS Recalling how some African timate their capacity for church, and not enough on Neu- Americans took on the Ku Klux improbable, unlikely or unthinkable it is. rhetoric impli- would never have guessed that a jury would sentence Dan White to eight mann's own hateful opinions and Klan and won, your For example, I accessories of the worst years in prison for walking into San Francisco's city hall and assassinating Mayor George abysmal voting record. cates you as Harvey Milk some 20 years ago. I would have bet dollars to Mark Neumann has consistantly hate crimes of this decade. The Moscone and gay Supervisor Shepherd in on donuts against it — and I would have lost. voted against any legislation that blood of Matthew And I'd never have bet that a cynical, manipulative, power-hungry snake-oil crank like Pat even hints at equality for homosexu- your hands. to-run for dog catcher, let alone president als. He has made hateful and slan- Damiano locovozzi Robertson could ever be considered seriously enough boot. derous remarks to the press about Martinez, Calif. of the United States. But I'd have been dead wrong — and out some money to newspapers like the Seattle Times gay and lesbian people. In fact, he is And I'd never put a dime on the chances of nice, liberal another Jesse Helms in the making. or the saying that "merely" because a homosexual was savagely beaten to Evertz and the Neuman was quoted in The New death, strung up on a cross-hatch fence and left for dead in freezing cold Wyoming weather York Times Magazine as saying, " If I Tolerance country should "rush" to enact hate crime laws protecting homosexuals from anti-gay violence. was elected God for a day, homosex- But that's exactly what they did after the killing of Matthew Shepard, and I'd once again be out uality wouldn't be permitted." Dear Editor— of the game. It baffles me that there are peo- I read the article written by Scott I'd be the looser too if I bet that just days after Shepard's death, his brain so damaged by ple in our gay community who Evertz (OUTRight, Vol. 15, #21) the gun-butt beating he received that doctors said they couldn't even operate, students at a aren't fired up about this election. with some disgust. How can anyone Provo, Utah, school would cheer when a 13-year-old fellow student said his "wish" for the This is a clear choice between a sup- be so naive to think that liberals future would be that "gay men be crucified on Main Street and lesbians be burned at the stake." porter of equality and a viscious should be any more tolerant than I would also have bet that even 30 years ago two teen agers in Denver couldn't possibly stran- homophobe. Republican conservatives? What gle and kick to death a 21-year-old gay man and then play "patty-cake" on his lifeless body as they I am old enough to remember does this say about Evertz? He drove around town, showing his corpse to friends. But they did and nobody thought we should the 1970s, a time when everything believes that liberals should be more have hate crimes laws when Thomas J. Peters' body was found in a pond and the two teenagers seemed "OK" for homosexuals. The tolerant than Republicans, yet he who admitted the senseless killing said they picked Peters because he was a homosexual. supposed "acceptance" of the 1970's associates with Republicans. Evi- And I'd have lost my shirt if I had bet that one of the teens who murdered Peters so bru- quickly disappeared with the reces- dently, he doesn't value tolerance tally would spend only 11 years in prison while the other would be sentenced to just two years sion of the 1980s. Are we again very highly either, yet he spends a in juvenile hall. Because that's all the jury thought these two monsters deserved. entering such a time? whole column writing about it. It would also have taken incredible wagering skill to bet that the day before Shepard died I would hope the murder of In addition, those people with in a Fort Collins, Colo., hospital of the massive brain injuries he suffered when he was lashed Matthew Shephard might get a few whom he was visiting opened their to a fence like a scarecrow, a joint fraternity-sorority float in nearby Colorado State Universi- complacent people off their asses home to him and took care of him ty's homecoming parade would have included a real scarecrow with a vulgar and derogatory and into the voting booth this while staying there. How ungrateful anti-gay sign attached to it. Again, I would have bet good money that such idiotic nonsense November 3rd. The gay community to accept their hospitality and then couldn't happen — and I'd have been thoroughly wrong. can't afford to lose a friend and sup- criticize them in print. Like most activists as well as legal observers, I'd certainly have bet that the U.S. Supreme porter like Russ Feingold. And in Richard E. Evans Court would have tossed out Cincinnati's anti-gay ballot measure, Issue 3, as unconstitution- al. After all, in 1996 the same court had declared an almost identical statewide Colorado mea- this close election every vote counts. Minneapolis Tom Livieri sure was unconstitutional. But once more I'd have been dead wrong, because in fact the day Shepard died in Colorado, the court let the Cincinnati measure take effect, making it illegal Milwaukee for that city to extend any protections based on . IN STEP WELCOMES If I were a betting person, I'd probably also be inclined to think the two young men charged Burying Shepherd YOUR LETTERS: with first degree murder in the killing of Matthew Shepard will be convicted and either sen- tenced to life in prison or executed for the Dear Editor— crime. But frankly, like a growing number of gays and lesbians on the Internet are now suggest- It is with profound regret and SEND YOUR ing, there's no real reason to think these two accused young men may not get extremely light pain that we bury Matthew Shep- OPINIONS TO: sentences — if they're convicted at all. One woman in Laramie, who formerly worked with the herd, the latest victim of brutal prosecutor's office in a witness program, has already charged that the lead attorney who will be homophobia. prosecuting the case was instrumental in getting her fired because she is a lesbian. 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s k. Chomp! demanded — cyber and real. That "Lea DeLaria really went after was very strange. It was quite me [when I suggested `Ellen' had funny, but I kept on thinking, `Are moved too quickly with gay sub- you for real? You might be." ,.4-Aigf4iA,Avaar ject matter. She said] that I had —Netizen "Andrew," as quoted in an the IQ of a sea sponge and article entitled "Beyond Cybersex" in `Chastity Bono can bite my ass,' 's Gay Times. Are Hate Crime Laws which is probably the most repul- sive thought I can think of. Pissed Off There's no danger of that happen- ing." "I am so pissed off. I can't stop Really Necessary? crying. This is what I was trying to by Christopher Krimmer —Gay activist-writer Chastity Bono to stop — this is why I did what I did." of the IN Step Staff The Advocate. he shocking and tragic death of Chastity's —Actress Ellen DeGeneres at an Oct. Matthew Shepard, the young gay 14 vigil in Washington, D.C., in remem- man from Wyoming who was kid- Unfortunate Book brance of Matthew Shepard. naped, bound to a fence, beaten and left "If only Chastity Bono had stuck to writing for dead, has served as a catalyst for the about her own life. I mean, the lesbian daughter of Come Out Wherever You Are resurgence of more exhaustive and expan- Cher? Whom Cher chastised for wearing 'mannish, "I never came out as I was never in anything. sive hate crime legislation. clothes'? What's not to be interested in? I would buy True, my generation was taught not to discuss in The term "hate crime" is somewhat a Chastity autobiography if only to read about lib- public private life, no matter what it was. Today's misleading. A hate crime in itself is not a eral, feminist Cher's difficulty with having a daugh- Oprah world is like one vast AA meeting where peo- crime. Rather, hate crime legislation enhances the penalties of ter who didn't wear makeup — or Sonny's decision ple with nothing to say can go on about their resent- already established crimes (i.e. assault, battery, homicide). The idea to dress her, as a young child, in a miniature version ments and sufferings. They would be better occu- behind these laws are that criminals will think twice before target- of his own Pierre Cardin suit. Unfortunately, pied overthrowing the decadent police state that the ing a specific population for their victims. Chastity decided to write an edifying book in which United States has so rapidly become. But, you know, Currently, 41 states have hate crime legislation. However, only she interviewed dozens of terrifically boring gay I'm a universalist and subversive — not a sectarian 11 of these 41 states specifically include sexual orientation as a people and their parents in order to shed light on conformist." protected class. everyone's gay experience, not just her own." —Author Gore Vidal to The Advocate. Wisconsin is one of the eleven states that protects gays and les- —Donna Minkowitz reviewing Chastity Bono's new bians. Under Wisconsin's hate crime statute, a person who com- book, Family Outing, in New York Newsday. Celine Luvs Barbra mits a crime against a person in whole or in part because of the criminal's belief or perception regarding the race, religion, color, "She was sitting in the first row looking up at me Into Cyber [when I sang "Beauty and the Beast" at the 1995 "I met this guy who was really into the cyber- ] and I almost lost it. I love her, I world, and he was quite fun, and he was very admire her whole career." The term "hate crime" is some- romantic with it. There was a lot of cyber-kissing going on. He kept on arranging to meet me in dif- —Singer Celine Dion on Barbra Streisand, to Agence what misleading. A hate crime in ferent chat rooms. And then after a while he said, `I France- Presse. want to go cyber-steady with you.' I said OK, and itself is not a crime. he typed in 0 for a ring, and told me that it was for Quips and Quotes are compiled by Rex Wockner along with our crack eternity. ... We even created our own chatroom and news team from around the globe. Seen a good quip or quote? disability, sexual orientation, national origin or ancestry of that it was `our room,' and we'd talk about what our day Send it to [email protected] person will face additional penalties. The criminal defendant may was like. I was his cyber-boyfriend. Fidelity was face additional penalties even if the defendant's belief or percep- tion of the victim was incorrect (i.e. attacking a heterosexual man because the perpetrator believed that he was gay because of some Some of the important changes to Actaea will effeminate characteristic). service, which entails a more com- Opponents of hate crime legislation argue that such laws are be its day-spa Actaea Works coverage of salon services, such as mas- unnecessary and superfluous because sufficient penalties already prehensive exist for the underlying crime. Several conservatives on the air- sage therapy. "Our primary goal is to benefit our clients," waves can be heard alleging that if Wyoming had a hate crime law, Grand Opening Wedesky explained in reference to the new menu. it would have made absolutely no difference to the two men who "By offering these new services to our current have allegedly killed Matthew Shepherd. Under Wyoming law, a Benefit ARCW client base we hope to ensure greater saisfaction person who is convicted of first degree homicide may receive the to with our performance." death penalty. Given that these defendants may be facing a death by Joe Mays "I feel that new persons interested in what sentence, conservatives argue, what difference would a penalty 6 W ear Us Out," one of the catch- Actaea will have will be more than pleased with enhancement of five years make? 6 phrases for salon and day spa and services that we will soon offer." These conservative opponents are looking at the purpose of both the staff ActaeaWorks, LTD, nearly became explained. law in a very narrow and ignorant manner. Yes, under Wyoming he a reality for its owner, Jason Wedesky. Wedesky was The grand opening is scheduled for November law, if these two defendants are convicted of first degree murder, nearly "worn out" from the planning and develop- 14, and a fund-raiser with The AIDS Resource Cen- an additional five years would not make a difference. However, not ment concerning the expansion of his salon. ter of Wisconsin has been planned for the evening. all hate crimes are first degree homicides. The F.B.I. reported that "I nearly became the living embodiment of An art auction featuring the work of local there were 4,558 hate crimes in 1991 and 7,587 in 1993. Many of my own company's phrase." Wedesky said with a artists, wine-tasting, and live entertainment are these crimes were not homicides, but less serious offenses such as wry smile. some of the major events that will be featured at assault and battery or disorderly conduct. Under Wisconsin's hate Since the beginning of this year, Wedesky has the benefit. Raffles with prizes consisting of gift crime legislation, the fact that the victim of a disorderly conduct been hard at work at not only expanding Actaea packages from local business will also be featured. was a protected class could raise the offense from a Class A misde- into a full service day spa, but relocating his staff A tax deductible donation is required for atten- meanor to a felony. This is only one of many examples of where and business to a new location. Wedesky has dance, with all proceeds going to benefit ARCW's hate crime legislation does make a concrete and direct impact on a divided his time between running the current programs and services. criminal's life. salon and working with consultants concerning "One thing Actaea has done consistently over Hate crime legislation has much more value than just the the technical and non-technical aspects of expand- the years is donate to different non-profit organi- enhancement of a particular criminal defendant's penalty. It sends ing his business. zations, and we feel that working with ARCW on a message out to society that hatred for individuals who are "dif- "It's been a year of major changes for the com- the fund-raiser is a great way to contribute back to will not be tolerated if such hatred is demonstrated by vio- ferent" pany and I'm really excited to see the final results the community." Wedesky said. assaults. lent of all the hard work that has been put in." he said. Lisa Jean Mullen, who is serving as Actaea's Some conservatives will continue to argue that laws should not Some of those changes includes enlarging his Day Spa Director, has been aiding Wedesky in to merely send out messages to the public. These con- be enacted staff size, expanding his menu of services, and planning the technical details of the customer servatives reek of hypocrisy. It was not so long ago that many of remodeling and construction involving the loca- aspect of opening a day spa. Mullen managed an politicians passed a law entitled the these same conservative tion where the new spot will be located. overnight spa in Florida before relocating back to forbid the federal government Defense of Marriage Act which Actaea Works LTD., which is located in Shore- her hometown of Milwaukee. marriages. Yet, same-sex marriages have from recognizing same-sex wood, will be relocating to its new location at the Wedesky stated that although day spas are government nor was there a never been recognized by the federal corner of Capital Drive and Oakland Avenue. familiar sights on both coasts, it is a relatively new this Defense of Mar- bill in Congress for such recognition. Was Many familiar with the Shorewood and UWM concept in the Midwest. But he added that they it superfluous? Yes. Nev- riage Act necessary? Absolutely not. Was area will remember the location as the old Daily's are growing in increasing popularity. necessary to "send a ertheless, these conservatives believed it was Bakery. "Some of the larger Midwestern cities such as disgust for message out" to the nation that intolerance and even Wedesky explained that the high profile spot Chicago and Minneapolis have begun to see the to look at the two gays and lesbians is acceptable. One only needs was chosen for a specific reason. emergence of day spas," he said. "It seemed to be Shepard to know that men who have allegedly killed Matthew "We chose the new location because of its high the right choice to expand Actaea to include day such a message was received loud and clear. visibility in that area. There is a constant flow of spa services as well." de. pedestrian and auto traffic and we feel that relo- cating there will draw people's attention our way," he added.

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You short bio by Dec 1, 1998 to: Jim Proven- may also send a check or money order zano 382 Lily St. San Francisco CA (credit cards can not be accepted) to Alli- Keep OUT! 94102. son Phillips, c/o The Dramatic Arts A 60-year-old alumnus of Bob Jones Department, PO Box 2000, Kenosha, WI University, a fundamentalist Christian 53241-2000. college, recently received a letter from the Porn's Jack Wrangler dean of students informing him that "as long as you are living as a homosexual, Happy Homemaking you, of course, will not be welcome on the Sues NYC for campus and would be arrested for tres- Will & Grace Picked Up on Dawson's Creek passing if you did visit." Wife's Accident NBC has picked up a full season of its The school lost its tax-exempt status in Jack Wrangler, a notable gay porn The Oct. 21 episode of Dawson's 1970 because it banned interracial dating Monday comedy Will & Grace, the net- Creek revolved around a class assignment icon from the 1970s, has filed a $2 million IP" work's first new show to get a full-season and marriage. Wayne Mouritzen, a lawsuit against the city of New York for based on the microeconomics of "alterna- retired minister and the alumnus who order this fall. tive" family units. Each student needed to the loss of sexual services after his elderly received the letter, responded to the letter by wife, singer Margaret The comedy, about a gay man and a pick a name from a hat and the teacher Whiting, tripped straight woman who are best friends and bringing attention to the status of the school's on a downtown street and broke her knee. assigned a certain situation that they were museum of religious art, which remains tax- roommates, stars Eric McCormack to research and for which they were to cre- Wrangler, 52, said the city, along with ("Lonesome Dove: The Outlaw Years') exempt. The university then informed Consolidated Edison and a paving firm, ate an annual budget. Mouritzen that he may visit the galleries. and Debra Messing ("Ned & Stacey"). Students are assigned to represent sin- were jointly liable for the accident that left gle mothers, wealthy couples and working him without "conjugal fellowship and sex- class marrieds. Then one male student ual fulfillment" with his wife. Bobby Sherman's Whiting, a popular Broadway singer Lather Me Up! picks another male student's name. At The University of Wisconsin-Parkside first, they react as if they don't have to do who got her start with the big-band sound of Drama Club is proud to present A Soap the assignment, but the teacher says, "You Belt Buckle the 1940s, and Wrangler married in the late and Whiting eventually Opera Auction on Saturday, November 14 will be a well-to-do same sex-couple." The Was it Alan Seus' tinkle? Lily Tom- 1970s, convinced Wrangler to abandon his gay porn career. from 12 noon to 4 p.m. at the Communica- two guys are alarmed and ask, "What do lin's ringy-dingy? Paul Lynde's Holly- tion Arts Theater on the UW-Parkside Cam- you mean same-sex?" wood Square? Velma's turtleneck? The Wrangler appeared in several gay porn films, including "Raunch pus. 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Milwaukee Ballet Season Opener The 29th season of the Milwaukee Ballet starts out innocently enough on Thursday, Oct. 29, at 7:30 p.m. Young couples, in the blush of first love, flirt and frolic in Frederick Ashton's Les Rondezvous. After their romp in the park things really heat up in Carmen, based on an original opera by Georges Bizet. A fiery tobacco worker, Carmen, pays the ultimate price of playing two rivals against each McKellen other. In a Milwaukee premiere, Carmen show- by 17m Nasson cases the choreography of Jimmy Galmonte De of the IN Step Staff Los Heros, whose own Latin blood flows through hile Oprah may be the front every pulsating passion. runner in the Best Actress For tickets and more information, please call Wcategory, for her role in "Beloved," odds are that Sir Ian McK- the Milwaukee Ballet at (414) 643-7677, or the ellen, (knighted in 1991), one of the Marcus Center at (414) 273-7206. You may also few openly gay actors working for Hol- use TicketMaster to charge your tickets by calling lywood today, will be in the lead for the (414) 276-4545. Best Actor category. The question does not seem to be if, rather, for which role and in which film Gay Historian at will be nominated? Borders Books For quite some time, Ian McKellan, (not really a stranger to film) was Martin Duberman is one of the most distin- known best for his roles in theater. guished historians writing today. He is the author McKellen's passion for and lead role on stage in "Richard III" led to him help of seventeen books including his recent autobio- create and produce one of 1994's most ingly play someone 30 years my senior. being nominated for one of the roles is graphical volume Midlife Queer, published by the critically acclaimed films. McKellen's He asked me whether I had seen "Cold the talk of Hollywood at the moment. University of Wisconsin Press. On Friday, Nov. 6, fantastic performance in "Richard III" Comfort Farm," in which I answered Such a question is like asking a mother solidified his career as an actor in Hol- yes. `Do you remember the Hellfire which of her children she likes more. at 7 p.m., Gay Historian Martin Duberman will lywood. He was recently seen in "." read from Midlife Queer: Autobiography of a preacher character?' he asked me," says "I'm not going to answer that, if you McKellen will soon be seen in not McKellen, chuckling. "`I envision the don't mind," he says politely, but with Decade, 1971 - 1981, at Borders Book Shop & one, but two, films that are sure to cat- role of Dussander in "Apt Pupil" to be just enough surprise in his voice to let Cafe, 3416 University Ave. in Madison. apult him to the top of every director's somewhat like the character of the Hell- me know that it was probably the most `must work' with list. fire preacher,' Singer went on. He want- foolish question I have ever asked any- In this book Duberman creates an evocative In "God's and Monsters," (opening portrayal of the 1970s that weaves together per- November 6), a biographical film, sonal and public concerns. The volume spans the McKellen plays gay director , who was best known for his B- "If they see an undercurrent between a 16 era that includes the early years of gay liberation movies, "Frankenstein" and "Bride of after to the first public reports of AIDS. Frankenstein." Retired and slowly year old boy and an 85 plus year old man, In his characteristically lucid and incisive style, becoming incapacitated, he falls hard for his straight, albeit slightly mentally well, good for them..." Duberman has captured the atmosphere of the deficient, hunk of a gardener, played era, but also created a moving testimonial of his brilliantly by Brendan Frasier. ed to know whether I thought I could one when interviewing them. In director Bryan ("The Usual own experience of the decade. Sus- play a role like that. When I told him "I'll say this," he goes on, in his self- pects") Singer's "Apt Pupil," which that I was Hellfire preacher in "Cold deprecating style. "Oscar, I think, is less opened on Oct. 23, McKellen Gallery 218 Plans stars Comfort Farm," he almost fell off his important to the actor who wins it than opposite 16 year old , and chair." Needless to say, it was there and to the film in which one wins for. I am plays Kurt Dussander, a 10th Annual Feliz former Nazi then that McKellen got the role. in two films that are being released by who single-handedly was responsible For eighteen months, ending in two different studios and would be elat- Navidoodads! for the exterminations of thousands of August of this year, McKellen spent his ed if either of them get a little boost Jews and other unfortunates committed time in a house rented in the Holly- from any nomination that comes either Gallery 218 is accepting entries for their to his concentration camp. wood Hills, working on films for the film's way. But really," he adds, "Nomi- 10th Annual Feliz Navidoodads!, a holiday art In "Apt Pupil," Renfro's character big screen and HBO. nations are not even announced until Todd uncovers the deadly secret which sale and open house, which will take place at the "I am glad to be back home. From February. I would think that the film's leads to a psychological war that spirals Gallery Dec. 11. 12, and 13. now until March, I will be working on fates will have been sealed by then." out of control. three plays for the West Yorkshire Play- For those who see "Apt Pupil," one Sponsored by the Walker's Point Association Speaking from his home in London house that includes Noel Coward's "Pre- may wonder how McKellen was able to recently, McKellen talked about "Apt and Gallery 218, this event features fine arts and sent Laughter" and "," he unleash such fury and evil into the role. Pupil," his extensive career in theater, crafts by area artists, with special shopping says. "Many publicists and movie people The tip of the iceberg are the scenes in and his aspirations of becoming a hard- are excited, and hot under the collar which he goes into gruesome detail hours, refreshments and entertainment. Booth er working movie actor. anticipating the releases of the two films about how he exterminated many in is limited, so early sign-up is encouraged. "Being cast in "Apt Pupil" came I have finished; I am glad that I am camp. "I've played worse people," he about pretty easily," says McKellen. The booth fee for all three days is S45, S40 for removed from that aspect of the films." says. "I have played and " [who also happens to be gallery members. For a complete entry form Not phrasing the question I wanted Richard III. Although they are openly gay] and I met for a breakfast at fictional to ask in the manner I had intended, I characters they send a SASE to Feliz Navidoodads! c/o Gallery the Four Seasons. He had just seen me are pure evil. I had the asked McKellan which of the two films most trouble, in "Apt Pupil" trying to 218 at 218 S. 2nd in a Nazi uniform in "Richard III" and St., Milwaukee, WI 53204. he was most proud of and whether he play someone 30 years had a feeling that I might be right for my senior. It was thought one or the other was more also difficult getting his new film. He was a little hesitant the accent to be deserving of an Academy Award nomi- though, wondering if I could convinc- nation for him, seeing that talk of he Continues on Page 25 gained their trust and was able to shoot beautiful and touching por- traits of them. Included in the show are portraits of Ingrid art REVIEW Bergman and Roberto Rossellini, Alberto Giacometti, Alexander Calder and Marcel Duchamp, as well as socialite Gloria Vanderbilt, musicians Duke Ellington and Louis Armstrong, and others. Blurring The Boundaries In 1961 Parks ventured into the Deep South, where he pho- can Jensen has gained a reputation as an educated connoisseur tographed an eloquent story about and an aggressive dealer. When he helped pioneer Milwaukee's segregation in the U.S. He did his Historic Third Ward with an upscale gallery, Jensen demonstrat- first film, "Flavio" in 1964. This D film is a documentary based on a ed a foresight that at the time could only be called daring. The recent photographic essay of Flavio Da relocation of Dean Jensen Gallery to North Water St. has people won- Silva, a young boy he met in the dering if Jensen is once again being shrewdly visionary. slums of Brazil. Photographs were For Jensen, a man never shy of financial reward, it's simply a taken against the cosmopolitan backdrop of Rio de Janerio. matter of demographics. Not only is this new gallery in the heart of at Stromboli, Italy, 1949. Photograph by Gordon Parks. Parks has published numerous the city's financial district, it is nearer the convention center, the River- volumes of poetry combined with walk and gadzillions of new condominiums and apartments. What's photographs. His films for MGM include, among others, "The more, he has increased exhibition space to include a lower gallery, Gordon Parks Retrospective Learning Tree" (1969); "Shaft" making it possible to mount two completely different shows without (1971); "Shaft's Big Score" Half Past Autumn: The Art of move with him to the Office of visual confusion. (1972); and "The Super Cops" Gordon Parks opens at the Mil- War Information, where he was (1972). Other films include As multitudes searched for. Dean at his former location this past waukee Art Museum on Nov. 20, assigned as a war correspondent "Leadbelly" (1976); "Solomon Gallery Night, a smaller coterie of cognoscenti enjoyed the inaugural 1998, and will remain on exhibit to the 332nd Fighter Group, the Northrup's Odyssey" (1984); and exhibition at Jensen's new location. For admirers through Jan.. 10, 1999. This retro- first black air corps. He then fol- "Martin" (1989). of Chicago art star spective has created a tone-poem lowed Stryker to the Standard Oil Ed Paschke, the opening was more than just another visual treat. There will be a Member Pre- that impressionistically tells Parks' Photography Project and made view on Thursday, Nov. 19 at Paschke was physically present: smiling, shaking hands, and eagerly own story, and will bring together some of his most striking and 5:30 p.m., and a Public Book discussing his art. As an artist of international renown, he greeted vis- for the first time more than 200 influential work during this time. Signing of "Half Past Autumn" on of his photographs along with his In 1944, Parks was hired by itors with a humble, even shy, demeanor. Friday, Nov. 20 from 1:30 to 3 films, books and music. Vogue magazine to shoot a collec- p.m. The exhibition is accompa- Paschke first came to national attention in the late 1960's. Heavily Parks bought his first camera tion of evening gowns and con- nied by a 360 page book by Parks, influenced by Pop Art, he developed his own unique style for energiz- at a pawnshop for $7.50. He had, tinued to work for the magazine published by Bullfinch Press/Lit- ing images drawn from print media and television. Employing subtle he said "... bought what was to for the next few years. He also tle Brown and Company ($65 become my weapon against pover- photographed fashions for Glam- HC, $40 SC) available in the gradations of brilliant color, Paschke's work has the look of expertly ty and racism." By 1941 Parks our magazine. During this time Museum Shops. Admission to the became the first photographer to Parks published his first two sprayed aerosols and air-brushes. Surprisingly, these blurred bound- exhibit is $5, $3 for seniors (65+) aries of color are in fact created by painstaking application of oil paints. receive a fellowship from the books on photography. By 1948 and students. Members are free. Julius Rosenwald Foundation. He Parks approached Life magazine Paschke's brush creates images reminiscent of those viewed on mal- Milwaukee County residents are chose to work with Roy Stryker at and asked for a job photograph- admitted free on Wednesdays and functioning video monitors. His work melds the pointilistic techniques of the Farm Services Administration ing the gang wars in Harlem as Saturdays from 10 a.m. to noon. Seurat with the static-charged distortions of the electronic age. (FSA), a government agency well as fashions in Paris. He was For more information on the designed to call attention to the hired to do both. "Suddenly for exhibit call (414) 224-3200. Never totally abandoning his early themes of violence and plight of the needy during the me," remembers Parks, "two aggression, Paschke's show is replete with gun imagery. A small ink Depression and to create an his- extremely diverse worlds were and pencil handgun is simply titled Private Dick. In La Mondo Pon- torical record of social and cultur- about to converge — one of al conditions across the country. crime, the other of high fashion." derosa two guns are aimed at completely random angles. A hand In 1934, when the FSA was In 1950 he moved to Paris as floats above the figure of a cowboy, with the title of the work spelled dissolved for political reasons, a European correspondent, where in lettering at the tips of its fingers. The hand evokes a chart used in Stryker arranged for Parks to he was given access to celebrities, palmistry. Gun violence and fate are inextricably linked. More interestingly, Paschke blurs the boundaries between the sexes jected above the stage in Uihlein Hall with the New FOCON system recently purchased jointly between in paintings that delight in gender enigma. Fishstkks depicts a man kiss- Florentine Opens with the Florentine Opera and Milwaukee Symphony ing an androgynous looking being. On each side of the embracing cou- Orchestra. ple, two fish make an obvious reference to the Pisces astrological sign. New this season is the Florentine Opera's Pre- The opposing directions of the fish bring to mind the oriental philosophy `Cavalleria Rusticana' Opera Buffet offered to all ticket buyers before Fri- day evening performance in the Bradley Pavilion. of yin and yang. Sexuality becomes not only the meeting of male and The cost of the Italian themed buffet offered on female forces, but the inevitable merging of them. and `I Paglicacci' November 13 is $20. Force of Nature weds the themes of violence and gender. A crouch- Single tickets prices range from $20-$90 and are The Florentine Opera begins its 1998-99 season available through the Marcus Center box office by ing figure, looking much like Grace Jones (it is not, according to the with two highly dramatic one-act Italian operas, calling (414) 273-7206 or toll-free 1 (800) 472- artist) is flanked on one side by a pistol. The gun is aimed straight Mascagni's Cavalleria Rusticana and Leoncavallo's 4458 (TDD 414-273-3080 for hearing impaired). I Pagliacci. Performances will take place on Novem- through the androgynous figure's body to a rainbow-colored poodle on Tickets can also be purchased by calling Ticket-mas- ber 13, 14, and 15 at Uihlein Hall of the Marcus ter at (414) 276-4545. the other side. Above this frightening scenario the words "Natural Center for the Performing Arts. Friday and Saturday Selection" might cause a shiver to run down your spine. The painting performances begin at 7:30 p.m. and Sunday's mati- becomes more than a comment on race, gender, and violence. It ques- nee performance begins at 2:30 p.m. Joseph Rescig- no will lead an internationally acclaimed cast and the Chamber Theatre tions the fragile condition of civility in a barbarous world. Milwaukee Symphony Orchestra, while Marc The most technically interesting piece in this show is Verzatt of the Pittsburgh Opera makes his Florentine No Fumare par Favore (No Smoking Please). Paschke's video imagery directing debut. Stages 'The Old Settler' Pietro Mascagni's most noted work is Cavalleria is proud to present has made the leap from canvas into a truly high-tech medium. The Rusticana, the one-act opera telling the story of love, Milwaukee Chamber Theatre Wisconsin premiere of John Henry Redwood's work is a Rotated PHScologram, a process that creates the appearance jealousy and murderous vengeance. The themes of love the comedy-drama The Old Settler, which will open in and jealousy continue in Ruggiero Leoncavallo's I Pagli- of a three-dimensional work on a flat surface, much like a hologram. the Studio Theater of the Broadway Theater Center acci. As Silvio, a villager, kindles an affair with Nedda, at 8 p.m. on Saturday, Nov. 7, and run through Sun- Run in a limited edition, No Fumare has already been snatched up by a member of the traveling troupe of actors and the wife day, Nov. 29, 1998. collectors such as Elton John. of Canio, the troupe head, tragedy is foreshadowed in A winner of the 1997 American Theater Critics the play they are presenting to the villagers. Ed Paschke is a stellar artist with which to inaugurate the new Award, and one of the Nation's top-10 produced Florentine Opera Artistic Advisor and Principal The Third Ward will no doubt survive the loss of plays in 1998, the play has been noted as "a crisp Dean Jensen Gallery. Conductor Joseph Rescigno returns to Milwaukee to heart-warmer of a play that succeeds remarkably — one of its best galleries. Unfortunately, for those of us who walk lead this stellar cast and the MSO in these perfor- big yucks in the first act and laughter through tears mance. While in Milwaukee, Mr. Rescingno will between exhibits on Gallery Night, the walk has just been made a lit- in the second." An uneasy truce between two mature make radio appearances on WFMR (98.3 FM) and tle longer. But if the Ed Paschke show is any indication, the extra foot- sisters living a quiet, church-oriented life in Renais- WHAD (90.7 FM). sance Harlem of the 1940s is broken when a young steps are worth it. —Waswo Performance times for Cavalleria Rusticana and I male border from the South comes to stay. All sorts Pagliacci are Friday and Saturday, Nov. 13, and 14 at of emotions about the past, present, and future are 7:30 p.m. and Sunday Nov, 15, at 2:30 p.m. Pre- Ed Paschke, Paintings, is on view at Dean Jensen Gallery, stirred and rise to the surface. opera talk will be given by Professor Corliss Phill- For tickets or more information stop by the 759 N. 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October t9 —November ii, 1998 • IN Step 0 n Li 0 `3 'D 5 Stop by for one of our famous specialty margaritas! their bigoted parents discovered they Our NewPatio Is Now Open! Jocks: True Stories of were gay (Such parents preach but don't practice family values). But more often, America's Gay Male Athletes he presents the love of sports that " by Dan Woog enables gay men to develop their own esteem and prowess so they can better cope in a hostile environment. More few people sneer at Oprah and the impressive is the fact that some of these talk shows, but many more watch gay athletes have changed their environ- them. This book is like a good A ment so that it is not as hateful as it was. talk show, with the guests being gay men Woog has chapters on Jason, who who are athletes and athletes who are played tennis in Milwaukee and Noah, men; it is a look at the non-famous. gay who wrestled at the University of Wis- because most athletes begin train- .. ,, And, consin. There are chapters on two mem- U bers of the Boston Strikers (a gay soccer team). He might have included a chap- ter on Rich Tafel, who was a powerful defender on that team, but is better known as the founder of the Log Cabin Republicans. I used to play against all of them, for I was one of the original mem- Mexican Restaurant bers of the New York Ramblers, the first gay soccer club in the world. There is coverage of the from its Authentic Mexican Cuisine inception in San Francisco, in 1982. Woog should have included informa- We use only vegetable oil and no animal fat! tion on the gay softball leagues, which 'true kmerica's athletes are so important in our community. He could have included gay bowling leagues Weekday Lunch Specials and FrontRunners. He might have included more on the history and theory of the body, sex, gays and athletics. But Starting at $3.95 by even with the absence of such topics, he has produced a useful book. In telling the stories of individual HOURS: Mon— Thurs: 1I am to 10pm, Fri. & Sat. 11 am to llpm, Sun. 12pm to 10pm the author is not trying to force ing when they are young, this is also a athletes, their stories into a particular ideological Free Parking • Minutes from Downtown • Casual Setting book about gay youth, of coming out, of mold. True, he has his own views, and Located in the Heart of Historic Walker's Point gay coaches, and of anti-gay administra- short afterword that tors, coaches and athletes. expresses them in a Dine in or Carry Out includes recommendations for organiz- Each individual's story is but five or 10 when Woog inter- pages, so one encounters numerous indi- ing. One senses that 816 S. 5th St. • 383-8816 viewed the numerous subjects for this viduals as they cope with common prob- Located just south of National Ave. 5 lems. Some of these athletes are out, some project, he allowed them to speak for L_ 0 13 are not and some are in-between. Some themselves. Undoubtedly to reduce the darT3 have won acceptance from their team- dulling repetition of the written inter- view, Woog athletes' views mates, some were so isolated that they quit presents the sports altogether, while others changed and their life stories in a narrative format. from one activity to another sport they Woog has written a simple presenta- believed would be more tolerant. tion of the difficulties gay athletes face Woog's sample of gay male athletes is — some within a homophobic athletic not "representative" of all America, or of community, some with gays who deride all athletes. Each story included con- Always the very best in all gay male athletes in America. Instead, he centers, like athletics in general, on tributes to a cumulative effect. After young, healthy people. Because he is a reading this book one acquires a greater soccer coach in New England, that area understanding of the courage displayed of the country is over-represented; the by gay athletes. This book should be South is under-represented, and most of required reading for all high school and the athletes included are white. Woog college students. (Alyson Paperback, describes individuals in track, football, ISBN: 1-55583-399-3, $12.95). et 2:utheit hockey, swimming, volleyball, basket- —Hugh Murray ball, soccer, etc. He is especially good when discussing the problems of gay male athletes in high school and college. The author describes some brutal assaults by bigots on gay athletes — and even upon a straight one whose coach is gay. Woog notes two examples of boys Miss... who were forced to leave home when Don't Karoke • Nov. 1st Singsational • Nov. 7th J&M ACCOUNTING AND TAX SERVICE

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IN Step • October 29 —November ii, 1998 Kothy's Nut Hut (Milwaukee, WI): Stammers! SI -1 p.m. to 2 a.m. Cheesecake, Cherry lifeSover's and Viagra shots. Midnight. Free Continental Breakfast Sunday Morning. Wednesday, November 4 Kirby's Klub (Madison, WI): Every Thursday Night is 20's Night! Party Kathy's Nut Hut (Milwaukee, WI): Pull tabs! 5 to 7 p.m. Milwaukee Eagle (Milwaukee, WI): Open 8 p.m. Levi/Leather. Bar- Frontiers Goy/Bi Men's Group - Film Circle (Madison, WI): MORE TALES to the hottest rock all night. SI rail, SI shots, 50( tops. Listen to our The Kloset (Beloit, WI): Happy Hour Drink Specials 4 through 7 p.m. tender's Special from 8 p.m. to close. The Shaft Bar opens at 10 p.m. OF THE CITY. Part One at 7 p.m. FMI call David at (608) 214-5959. new DJs Todd & Shown. Dress Code enforced. DJ spinning the hits starting at 8 p.m. 51.50 bottles and 51 shots Friday, November 6 The Kloset (Beloit, WI): Happy Hour Drink Specials 4 through 7 p.m. (Liquor and Schnapps). OH ZONE (Rockford, IL): $1.50 shot specials. DJ/Dancing. After 7 p.m. It's Ladies Night Out! 53 pitchers, 51.50 bottled beer and Reeling '98: Chicago G/L International Film Festival - Opening Night M&M Club (Milwaukee, WI): All you can eat Fish Fry and other great Ray's Bar & Grill (Madison, WI): DJ Tyrone. Buy your first drink & get This two-week festival will run 75( tops. (Chicago, IL): through November 12, specials. your second one FREE at the Back Bar only! 1998. The first movie of the festival, titled, EVERYTHING WILL BE FINE, M&M Club (Milwaukee, WI): Double Bubble with complimentary Hors Mama Roux (Milwaukee, WI): Fish Fry 4 to 10 p.m. Open menu spe- Scooter's (Eau Claire, WI): All chilled shots only $1.50 - 9 to 11 p.m. by German director Angelina Ma«orone, will screen at 7 p.m. at the D'oeuvres 5 to 7 p.m. cials. DJ & dancing starting of 11 p.m. Music Box Theater (3733 N. Southport), followed by an Opening Night Party hosted by Circuit at 3641 N. Halsted St. This opening event is Mama Roux (Milwaukee, WI): 2/4/1 drinks 5 to 7 p.m. Special Man's Country (Chicago, IL): Male Strippers and Porn Stars. Show at Station 2 (Milwaukee, WI): Hot Sex $1. per person. Films are generally S7 per program. For more infor- appetizers by Stan. Midnight. 525 The Boll Game (Milwoukee, WI): 801 tap beers, S2 Bloody Marys, mation and a complete list of films call (312) 409-4919 or go online Man's Country (Chicago, IL): Half-Price Night. Rooms $10, Lockers $7. Milwaukee Eagle (Milwaukee, WI): Open 8 p.m. Levi/Leather. 2-4-1 Screws, Greyhounds. All until 6 p.m. at www.chicagofilmmakers.org/reeling/. Milwaukee Eogie (Milwaukee, WI): Open 8 p.m. Levi/Leather. Tex- mixed drinks from 8 to 10 p.m. The Shaft Bar opens at 10 p.m. Dress The Milwaukee Eagle (Milwaukee, WI): 8 p.m. to close Bartender's Saturday, November 7 Men Night! 51.50 bathes of Corona. Code enforced. Special! UWM Fine Arts - Free Film (Milwaukee, WI): Cinemas of the Scattered Noplese Lounge (Green Boy, WI): Pull tabs! drinks as low as 25( 3 to ZONE (Rockford, IL): $1.50 shot specials & import beer specials. The Office (Rockford, IL): Rockford's Best Dance Party! DJ's Jerry & 7 p.m. DJ/Dancing. African Diasporas will show AVA & GABRIEL, a love story that sparks Jess One! intense racial & cultural clashes. Showing at 4 p.m. in the UWM Union OH ZONE (Rockford, IL): 51 bottle beer. 50( drafts. Bar Roy's & Grill (Madison, WI): Fish Fry $6.95 for all you can eat! Woody's (Milwaukee, WI): Badger Game Day. Free shots for Badger Theater. FMI call (414) 229-2931. Ray's Bar & Grill (Madison, WI): Happy Hour from 4 to 7 p.m. 52 Happy Hour from 4 to 7 p.m. Butch Nite at the Bock Bar only! 50( off scores. Tuesday, November 10 Export & Corona beer 9 p.m. to close. all drinks for those in leather. Nothing To Hide • Cable Channel 4 (Madison, WI): The 4 p.m. show South Water St. Docks (Milwaukee, WI): 2-4-1 cocktails 3 to 8 p.m. Scooter's (Eau Claire, WI): $I domestic bottles 9 p.m. to close. BAR EVENTS: presents Ed Anderson's Journal. The featured guest is the Englishman, 75( taps from 9 p.m. to close. South Water Street Docks (Milwaukee, WI): 2-4-1 cocktails 3 to 7 Andrew Sullivan, Editor of The New Republic. Also Gay Art History in the p.m. Friday, October 30 Station 2 (Milwaukee, WI): Beer, wine & rail 2-4-1 all night! 19th & 20th centuries with Chicago scholar, Professor Jim Wickliff : a Dish One Year Anniversary Party (Milwaukee, WI): Get ready for Glo- The Ballgome (Milwaukee, WI): $1.75 rail drinks 9 p.m. to close. Station 2 (Milwaukee, WI): Dr. McGillicudy $1.50. Pumpkin Pie 51. tape from 1981, Gay Horizons Conference, Northwestern University rious fonfor3e and the party of the year as Dish celebrotes with a Cus- titled BOYS BATHING. FMI (608) 241.2500. Milwaukee Eagle (Milwaukee, WI): 8 p.m. to close - Bartender's Special! The Milwaukee Eagle (Milwaukee. WI): 8 p.m. to close - Bartender's tomer Appreciation Party. Complimentary hors d'oeuvres from 7 to 11 Special! p.m. Roller Skating Waitresses! Wednesday, November 11 The Office (Rockford, IL): Beer SI Well drinks $1.50. The Office (Rockford, IL): Best Dance Party! DJ Cris. Frontiers Gay/Bi Men's Group - Film Circle (Madison, WI): "More Tales The Trading Company (Eau Claire, WI): Super Bust! 9 p.m. Sunday, November 1 to close. S8 of the City. Part Two of 7 p.m. FMI roll David (608) 274.5959. rail, S10 call mixers, 512 top-shelf mixers. The Trading Company (Eau Claire, WI): All chilled shots $1.50 - 9 to Club 5- Sugar & Spice All-Male Revue (Madison, WI): Three HOT Beefy Stud 11 p.m. Triangle (Milwaukee, WI): Happy Hour- 5 to 9 p.m. 2-4.1 drinks! S6 Pups from Colorado will entertain the crowd beginning at 10:30 p.m. Bar MUSEUMS & GALLERIES All-U-Con Drink Roil Bust! Triangle (Milwaukee, WI): Happy Hour - 5 to 9 p.m. 2.4-1 drinks! opens for Packer game hour before game. Restaurant open from 5 to 9 p.m. Woody's (Milwaukee, WI): Cocktail Hour - 4 to 9 p.m. Saturday, October 31 Woody's (Milwaukee, WI): Cocktail Hour 4 to 9 p.m. FILM, TV, VIDEO E RADIO: la's (Green Boy, WI): S6 Super Bust. DJ Mork spins. Saturdays: Villa Terrace Decorative Arts Museum Halloween Storytelling & Song (Milwaukee, WI): Lee Murdock presents a narrated piano concert fea- Barracks - Levi/Leather (Madison, WI): Levi/Leather/Uniform Night! Friday, October 30 Fridays: turing songs of supernatural legends and spooky tales from Great Lakes 50( off every drink for proper attire. (In the Barracks only at the Bar- Charles Allis Art Library Movies In Old Vienna (Milwaukee, WI): As a lore at 4 p.m. in the Great Hall facing Lake Michigan. 57 pubic, 55 Barracks - Levi/Leather (Madison, WI): 2-4-1 Happy Hour on all drinks tender's Discretion). tribute to the 150th anniversary of Emperor Franz Joseph's ascension up to 53.50. All other drinks are SI off from 4 to 8 p.m. After 8 p.m.: FOVT, kids free. FMI call (414) 211.3656. Cell Block (Chicago, IL:): Open ot 2 p.m. Saturday Night Riot 'til 3 a.m. to the throne, THE KING STEPS OUT, with Grace Moore and Franchot Boot Camp Saloon (Milwaukee, WI): Cocktail Hour 4 to 8 p.m. Holding Cell opens at 10 p.m. Freddie Bane DJ. Tone, will be shown in Rahil Great Hall at 7:30 p.m. FMI & ticket Sunday, November 1 prices call (414) 278-8295. Cell Block (Chicago, IL): Fetish Night! Check your Monthly Planner. Chicago Eagle (Chicago, IL): Drawings for Eagle Leather all night. Pit Saint John's Uilein Peters Gallery Opening Reception: Karidis & 5100 drawings. Holding Cell opens ar 10 p.m. open. Saturday, October 31 Poehlmann (Milwaukee, WI): There will be a Reception at 1:30 p.m. far a retrospective & new collages by Jerome Karidis. Also new works Chicago Eagle (Chicago, IL):Club Night. Chicago's Leather and S&M Club 219 (Milwaukee, WI): 5 p.m. to 10 p.m. Tea Dance. Free Eats! Madison Gay Video Club - Halloween Videos (Madison, WI): Screenings by Joanna Poehlmonn. The show will be up through 11/30. This Clubs welcome. Pit open. of LOVE BITES, THE ROCKY HORROR PICTURE SHOW and GAYRACULA Dish (Milwaukee, WI): The new night spot for women! Join DJ Amber gallery is only open on Sundays from 1:30 to 3 p.m., or by appoint- at 10 p.m. FMI roll (608) 244-8675 (evenings). Club 5/Planet 0 (Madison, WI): 2-4-1 Happy Hour from 4 to 8 p.m. for dancin' & romancin'. ment, and is located at 1840 N. Prospect Ave. on roils, domestic bottles of beer & taps of Miller Lite. All other drinks UW-Madison - Free movie (Madison, WI): The movie's at Vitas Hall in Jo'Dees International (Racine, WI): Vanilla & Original Doctor's, Cherry Tuesday, November 3 - 51 off. From 8 p.m. to close: the Parliamentary Room, 4010, at 7:30 p.m. Taiwanese film by direc- Cheesecake, Cherry lifeSover's and Viagra shots - $2.50. 51.25 Tap tor, Edward Yong: MAHJONG. In o trendy bar haunted by prowling Milwaukee Art Museum - Music in the Museum (Milwaukee, WI): Jef- Club 219 (Milwaukee, WI): 5 p.m. to 10 p.m. Cocktail Hour 1/2 Price MGD & Miller Lite, $1.15 Pints of Leinie's Red, $2.50 Pints of Hacker- executives, con artists, foreign flotsam and aspiring super-models fery Hollander will feature piano portraits of composers, their music and Drinks. Male Strippers. Pschorr Weisse. make up the setting for o drama of crisscrossed destinies. the lives they led at 5:30 p.m. Large Heroic works of Frederick Chopin Dish (Milwaukee, WI): The new night spot for women! Happy Hour 2- Kathy's Nut Hut (Milwaukee, WI): Short beers 2 for 51.50. will be featured. FMI & prices call (414) 224.3200. 4.1 5 to 7 p.m. Join DJ Amber for dancin' & romancin'. Sunday, November 1 *ma Roux (Milwaukee, WI): Bar opens at 3 p.m. Early Bird Specials Thursday, November 5 Emeralds (Milwaukee, WI). Friday Night Dance Parry with DJ Bange. 3 to 6 p.m. Grill hours from 4 to 10 p.m. WORT Radio 89.9 FM - Lesbian Radio (Madison, WI): Her Turn: No cover before 9 p.m. Women's news and Information by and about women from 11 to Milwaukee Art Museum Furniture Lecture (Milwaukee, WI): American Mon's Country (Chicago, IL): Mole Strippers and Porn Stars. Show of 11:30 a.m. Followed by Her Infinite Variety: Women in Music from furniture expert & author Myrna Kay will present a lecture to help you Fluid (Milwaukee, WI): Happy Hour - 5 to 8 p.m. 11:30 a.m. to 2 p.m. All genres and styles. Interviews, live guests and identify antique American furniture at 6:15. There is a reception for Koy Jo'Dees International (Racine, WI): Bring on the Bears and Bikers! announcements for the Womyn's community. FMI call (608) 256- at 5:30 p.m. Regular museum admission, free to members. FMI call 51.25 Tap MGD & Miller Lite, $1.75 Pints of Leinie's Red, 52.50 Pints 2001. Monday, November 2 WYOU-Cable 4 - Free Speech & Dyke TV (414) 224-3200. of Hocker-Pschorr Weisse. 52.50 Vanilla & Original Doctor's, Cherry (Madison, WI): Gerald Ford's AMERICA, WE DO THE WORK-repetitive Friday, November 6 strain injuries, MOMENT UTOPIA, a documentary by Kenji Williams of the rove culture. Starts at 7 p.m. Dyke TV, a 30-minute show for les- Milwaukee Mt Museum First Fridays Jazz (Milwaukee, WI): The piano trio bians is produced in . Shows 10:30 to 11 p.m. Forte, featuring guitarist Mike Stondal, formerly of Oceans will play from 5:30 to 8 p.m. in the Vogel/Hefner Galleries. Have a cocktail or a glass of wine Tuesday, November 3 from the cosh bar, and enjoy on assortment of antipasto from Kenosha's Man- Nothing To Hide Cable Channel 4 (Madison, WI): The 4 p.m. show girt Restaurant. $7 general, 55 members. EMI call (414) 224-3200. presents Brian McNaught's, GROWING UP GAY. FMI (608) 241.2500. UWM Union Art Gallery- Opening Reception (Milwaukee, WI): Enigmatic Truth, featuring a variety of works by UWM art students will run through 12/11. The reception is from 5 to 7:30 p.m. FMI call 229-6310. Tuesday, November 10 Milwaukee Pubic Museum - Lecture Series (Milwaukee, WI): Mark Warhus will explain how Native American Maps give insights to Native Like a brother? Photo by Jamie @ 219 Show off. Photo by Jamie @ 219 American history & culture. Lecture at 11 a.m. with an optional guided ti tour and a buffet lunch in the Erwin C. Uihlein Gallery. FMI, reservations & price call (414) 278-6170. THEATER ARTS:

Thursday, October 29 Milwaukee Ballet - Season Opener (Milwaukee): Two ballets open the season at the Marcus Center. Frederick Ashton's LES RONDELVOUS and a Milwaukee premiere of CARMEN, based on the original opera by Bizet. Curtain time is 1:30 p.m. Also on 10/30 at 8 p.m. & 11/1 at 1:30 p.m. FMI & tickets call Milwaukee Ballet at (414) 643-7677 or the Marcus Center at (414) 273-7206. Curie of the Week. Photo by Jamie @ Ray's Friday, October 30 Early Music Now - Concert (Milwaukee, WI): British viol consort, FRET- WORK, will play Renaissance and Baroque music at St. Paul's Episcopal Church, 914 E. Knapp St., at 7:30 p.m. FMI & advance tickets, call (414) 225-3113. Couch potato. Photo by Jamie @ Fluid Madison Repertory Theater - Drama (Madison: In collaboration with Mil- waukee's Next Act Theater, Madison Rep presents HOW I LEARNED TO DRIVE, at 8 p.m. tonight through 11/22 in the Isthmus Playhouse of the Madison Civic Center. FMI 608) 266.9055. Pabst Theater - Swing Music (Milwaukee): The authorized GLENN MILLER ORCHESTRA will perform one night only at 8 p.m. Hear original swing music from the 1930s & 40s. FMI call (414) 286-3663.

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MIN INN NMI ION NM Saturday, October 31 Monday, November 2 . University Congregational Church - Worship Service (Madison, WI): Week- r II ly services ore at 10 a.m. at 1127 University Ave. FMI (608) 256-2353. Irish Cultural & Heritage Center - Phantom Phovorites (Milwaukee, Borders Book Shop & Cafe - Games (Madison, WI):An evening of word WI): A Halloween organ concert with selections from PHANTOM Of THE games with David Friedman of Vandedey Games, at 7 p.m. FMI call Monday, November 2 I I OPERA and other best-loved music from horror movies and seasonal (608) 232.2600. BRASS - Weekly Meeting (Appleton, WI): The Bisexual, Gay, Lesbian I I favorites at 7 p.m. Come in costume d you choose. 55 donation at the Harry W. Schwartz Bookshop - Author Appearance (Brookfield, WI): and Straight Society meets every Monday at 1:30 p.m. in Room 109 door. Susan Chernak McElroy shares her lifethanging encounters with Gni- of Coleman Hall at Lawrence University Memorial Union, 615 E. Col- I I Sunday, November 1 mols and discusses her new book: ANIMALS AS GUIDES FOR THE SOUL, lege Ave. FMI call Irene (920) 722.7572, Bernie (920) 982.0220, at 7 p.m. FMI call (414) 797-6140. or Harriet (920) 749-1629. UWM Fine Arts - Chamber Music Series (Milwaukee, WI): PARISIAN I Halloween 1998 I PROMENADE, featuring music of French composers will be presented at Friday, November 6 Gay AA/Goy Al-anon - 12-Step Meetings (Racine): These recovery groups meet every Monday ot 625 College Ave. at 8 p.m. FMI call Art 3 p.m. in the Fine Arts Recital Hall. FMI call (414) 229-4308. Borders Book Shop & Cafe - Author Appearance (Madison, WII: Gay I I at (414) 694.0115. THURSDAY, OCT. 29 Monday, November 2 historian Martin Doberman will read from his new book: MIDLIFE QUEER: AUTOBIOGRAPHY OF A DECADE, 1971 -1981, ot 7 p.m. FMI Gay/Bi Men's AA - Closed Meeting (Madison, WI): The group meets at I Boot Camp Saloon - Pumpkin Carving (Milwaukee:WI): I Wisconsin Conservatory of Music - Concert (Milwaukee, WI): Join WCS call (608) 232-2600. 8 p.m. at the University United Methodist Church, 1127 University Ave. The Boot Camp Saloon will be doing their annual pumpkin for an afternoon of music in the Recital Hall. MUSIC FROM THE FMI call (608) 222-8989. I carving starting at 9:30 or 10 p.m., depending on how I BAROQUE TO THE ROMANTIC. Will be presented by guest artists at 3 Wednesday, November 11 soon someone arrives to be creative. p.m. FMI call (414) 276-5760. WISH - Generic M 12-Step Meeting (Madison, WA: The group meets Borders Book Shop & Cafe - Fiction Group (Madison, WI): The group weekly at 6 p.m. at the Atwood Community Or, 2425 Atwood Ave. I Club 5 - Holloween Weekend Kick-off (Madison, WI): I Thursday, November 5 will discuss Lorne Moore's WHO WILL RUN THE FROG HOSPITAL at 7 FMI toll (6081 249-5096. Michael's Thriller '98 with appecrances by S Susie 5, Ging p.m. FMI call (608) 232-2600. I Vitis, Vicki C., Kelly Cameron & Mitch as Michael plus many I UWM fine Arts - Concert (Milwaukee, WI): MUSIC FROM ALMOST YES- Tuesday, November 3 TERDAY will be presented at 7:30 p.m. in the Fine Arts Recital Hall. more. This is a.benefit for AIDS Network in memory of Jim FMI call (414) 229-4308. COMMUNITY MEETINGS E Boyz Nite ARCW - (Milwaukee, WI): The group meets every Tuesday I Christian. Showtime is 10:30 p.m. I from 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. Assemble Safer Sex kits and other prevention Saturday, November 7 EVENTS: materials. It's a place to hang out with other goy men and just dish. I FRIDAY, OCT. 30 I Movie night is on the first Tuesday of each month. All ages welcome. Alverno Presents - Latin Music (Milwoukee): Boston's SOL Y CANTO will Thursday, October 29 perform for one night only at Wehr Holl, 41st and Morgan on the Alver- FMI call Chris (414) 225-1556 or Andy (414) 225-1502. I Cell Block - Holl-O-Weenie Weekend (Chicago, IL): There's I Diversity G/I. Resource Center (Rockford, IL): Located at 610 E State St. -Stop Party! Tonight Black Out in the no Campus. FMI (414) 3826044. HIV/AIDS Support Group Fox Cities (Menasha, WI): Free, confidential Going To Be A Non Open from 4 to 9 p.m. Teen Drop-in Hours. FMI call (815) 964-2639. at 2 p.m. with a Bloody and open to any person living with or affected by HIV/AIDS on the 2nd I Cell Block! Saturday they open I Milwaukee Chamber Theater - Opening Night (Milwaukee, WI): THE Mary Dress code strictly enforced for Holding (ell & Gay AA/Gay Al-anon • 12-Step Meetings (Kenosha): These recovery and 4th Tuesday of the month. The meetings take place at Family Bar! OLD SETTLER by John Henry Redwood will open in the Studio Theater Yard. Check your Monthly Planner. of the Broadway Theater Center of 8 p.m. The production will run groups meet every Thursday at the Unitarian Universalist Church, 5810 Resource Assn. of Fox Valley, Midway Rd., 1488 Kenwood Drive from 7 I I through 11/29. Tickets ore available at the box office or by calling 8th Ave, ot 7:30 p.m. FMI call Bill or Art ot (414) 694-0115 to 8:30 p.m. FMI call (920) 739-4226 or Sylvia at 1-800-675-9400. Club 5 - Devil's Night (Madison, WI): For A Hell Of A Good Boogie the (414) 291-7800. Goy/Lesbian AA Closed Meeting (Madison, WI): Meets weekly at 8 LGB Campus Center'- Boy-Oh-Boy Men's Social Group (Madison, WI): I Time, Dress Up As your Favorite-Evil Entity & I FMI call Night Away. Bar opens 0)11 a.m. Happy hour 4 to 8 p.m. Monday, November 9 p.m. at the First Congregational Church, 1609 University Ave. This social group for ages 18 to 25 meets every Tuesday at 7 p.m. at (608) 222-8989. South Madison Health & Family Ctr. (Madison, 406 W. Gilman St. FMI call (608) 265-3344. I DJ begins at 10 p.m. I UWM Fine Arts- Woodwinds Arts Quintet (Milwaukee, WI): The Quintet will WI): Free, anonymous walk-in HIV testing from 5 to 7:45 p.m. Locat- Madison Community Health Ctr. - HIV Testing (Madison, WI): Free, Douglas Dunes Resort- Halloween Weekend (Douglas, MI): perform at 8 p.m. in the Fine Arts Recital Hall. FMI call (414) 229-4308. ed at 2202 South Park St. FMI coil (608) 261.9270. I I anonymous, walk-in HIV testing from 3 to 5:45 p.m. at 1133 Join in for a Witchy Weekend! There is a great party on St. Camillus HIV/AIDS Ministry • Lecture Series (Milwaukee, WI): Jef- Williamson St. FMI call (608) 255-0704. Saturday night (10/31) with prizes for the best costumes. BOOK READINGS, fery Miller will be the facilitator at the first session of this free lectures I Located at 333 Blue Star Highway and they're open all I Northland Goy Men's Center - Open Discussion Group (Duluth, MN): series titled, THE TRUTH ABOUT HIV, from 7 to 9 p.m. at the St. Comil- winter. FMI call (616) 851-1401. CLASSES, E CLUBS: The group meets weekly from 7 to 9 p.m. at the Center, 8 N. 2nd Ave lus Health Center in the Education Room. FMI call (414) 259-4664. I I East, Temple opera Block, Suite 309. Topics include coming out issues, M&M Club - Halloween Frightful Nights (Milwaukee, WI): Thursday, October 29 South Madison Health & Family Ctr. (Madison, WI): Free, anonymous support & resources. No age limits. FMI call (218) 722-8585. I This year spend a couple of nights with your favorite Ghouls I walk-in HIV testing from 5 to 7:45 p.m. Located at 2202 South Park on Friday and Saturday, 10/30 & 10/31. Borders Book Shop & Cafe- Author Appearance (Madison, WI): Margaret PUG - Meeting (Appleton/Fox Cities): This group meets the third St. FMI call (608) 261-9270. Storbird discusses her new book: GODDESS IN THE GOSPELS: RECLAIM- Tuesday of the month. FMI write PO Box 195 Neenah, WI 54957- I SWS Docks - H.I.T. Halloween Spooktacular (Milwaukee, I ING THE SACRED FEMININE, at 7 p.m. FMI call (608) 232-2600. Third Thursdays - HIV Self-Help Group (Boraboo, WI): This group spon- 0195 or call the helpline at (920) 722.1572. WI): Party from 8 p.m. to Midnight. $2 cover charge sored by persons living with HIV, Sauk Prairie Memorial Hospital & the includes a raffle ticket for this H.LT. event. Costume judg- Friday, October 30 UHS Counseling & Consultation Services • Sex Out Loud (Madison, I I AIDS Network meets every 3rd Thursday from 1 to 3 p.m. in Baraboo. inprgizebsegins at 11 p.m. with S75 first and $50 second place WI): This discussion group for Gay/Bi students meets in the Memorial Afterwards Book Store - Author Appearance (Milwaukee, WI): It's time Refreshments are served & transportation assistance is available. FMI for a Halloween Party featuring Elaine Bergstrom, author of THE DOOR Union at 12 p.m. every Tuesday. FMI call (608) 265.4901. I I & location call (608) 643.7241 or (608) 643- 7583. Triangle - Holloween '98 (Milwaukee, WA: Come to a Born THROUGH WASHINGTON SQUARE & SHATTERED GLASS, at 7:30 p.m. Womonsong - Rehearsal (Madison) The group meets at Beth Israel Cti. Triangle Coalition - LGB Support Group (Rockford, IL): Meet to establish I Dance You won't Forget! Costume judging begins at I FMI call (414) 963-9089. at 7 p.m. FMI call (608) 222.2987. and explore friendships & relationships. Discuss a variety of topics 11:30. $500 in cash prizes It's all hosted by Lona St. Borders Book Shop & Cafe - Author Appearance (Madison, WI): Susan every Thursday ot 8 p.m. FMI call (319) 583.1834. Wednesday, November 4 I James, I Chernak McElroy shores her life-changing encounters with animals and discusses her new book: ANIMALS AS GUIDES FOR THE SOUL, at 7 Women's Consciousness Raising Group (Madison, WI): Meets weekly Diversity GI. Resource (tr - Coming Out Support Group (Rockford, IL): I SATURDAY, OCT. 31 I p.m. FMI call (608) 232-2600 at 5:30 p.m. at 122 State St. Suite 403. FMI call (6081 250-6775. The group meets every Wednesday at 610 E. State St. from 7 to 8 p.m. FMI call (815) 964.2639. Harry W. Schwartz Bookshop - Author Appearance (Milwaukee, WI - E. UU Church Lesbian Support/Discussion Group (Rockford, IL): The I Boot Comp Saloon - Halloween (Milwaukee, WI): Just I Webster Pt): Art & Physics author Leonard Shlain will discuss THE group meets weekly from 7 to 8 p.m. at 4848 Turner Rd. FMI call Gay/Bi Men's Alanon Group (Madison, WA: Meets at the University another name for Fetish Night! ALPHABET VERSUS THE GODDESS: THE CONFLICT BETWEEN WORD (815) 636-7298. United Methodist Church, 1127 University Ave. every Wednesday at 6 I The Barracks Men's Bar - Leather Holloween (Madison, I p.m. FMI call (608) 256-4107 or (608) 846-2860. AND IMAGE, at 8 p.m. FMI call (414)332.1181. Friday, October 30 WI): Come dressed in leather and get 50 cents off of every HIV/AIDS Support Group - (Green Bay, WI): Free, confidential and drink all night long. Saturday, October 31 G/L/B/T Youth Group Meeting (Kenosha): This group meets the first I I open to any person living with or affected by HIV/AIDS on the 1st and & third Fridays of the month from 7 to 10 p.m. at the ARCW Offices, Club 5 • Holloween Night! (Madison, WI):All the Ghosts Borders Book Shop & Cafe - Storytelling for Adults (Madison, WI): Eliz- 3rd Wednesday of the month. The meetings take place at Renaissance abeth Matson performs TALES OF MYSTERY AND ENCHANTMENT at 1212 57th St. FMI call 800.924.6601. and Goblins and creatures of the night will gather at Wis- I Healing Arts Or., 311 S. Jefferson from 7:30 to 9 p.m. FMI call (920) consin's newest hot spot! Costume judging at Midnight, 7.30 p.m. FMI call (608) 232-2600. High Teo & Talk - Senior Men's Group (Madison, WI): High Teo & Talk is 437-4325 or Sylvia at 1.800.675-9400. I with $150 First Prize, 575 Second, and $25 Third. Bar I an organization-free (no long associated with SAGE/Done) opportunity for LGB Campus Center - Queer Chicks Social Group (Madison, WI): This opens at 4 p.m. Happy Hour 4 to 8 p.m. Restaurant open senior men and their friends who enjoy the company of other men to gath- social group meets every Wednesday at 7 p.m. at 219 N. Hamilton St. 5 to 10 p.m. DJ Starts at 10 p.m. er on Friday afternoons. The group meets at Monty's Blue Plate Diner, I I FMI call (6081 265.3344. 2089 Atwood Ave, from 3:30 to 5 p.m. and is wheel choir accessible. Club 219 - Costume Contest (Milwaukee, WI): Prizes for Madison Vet (enter - GO Veterans Meeting (Madison, WA: The group I full costume (other than drag) with over 51,000 in cash I 1GB Campus Center -Speak French (Madison, WI): There's a fabulous French meets every Wednesday at 147 S Butler at 5 p.m. FMI call (608) and prizes (including an open bar from 10 to 11 p.m. 1/2 Table. Bring your lunch. All levels of French speakers welcome. Located at 262-7084 or (608) 264-5342. I price drinks from 8 to 10 p.m. I 406 W. Gilman St. from 11 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. FMI call (608) 265-3344. Dish - Halloween Costume Contest (Milwaukee, WI): Join Northland Gay Men's Center • Weekly HIV/AIDS Social Group (Duluth, Thursday, November 5 I Dish for a costume contest with cash prizes and a raffle. I MN): The group meets from 5 to 8 p.m. at the Center, 8 N. 2nd Ave St. Camillus HIV/AIDS Ministry Lecture Series (Milwaukee, WI): David East, Temple opera Block, Suite 309. This is an opportunity for all men Huibregtse will be the facilitator at this session of this free lectures series I Frontiers Gay/BI Men's Group - Party (Madison, WI): Join I with HIV/AIDS to socialize and find support. FMI call (218) 722-8585. titled, LIVING WELL WITH HIV, from 7 to 9 p.m. at the St. Camillus other members for o spectacular Halloween Bosh. Cos- tumes ore encouraged, but not required. A buffet (this is SAGE-Milwaukee - Men's Discussion Group (Milwaukee, WI): This Health Center in the Education Room. FMI call (414) 259-4664. I I not a potluck) supper and cocktails will be served. This group for goy seniors meets at Lake Pork Lutheran Church, 2647 N. Saturday, November 7 . should make a great pre-bar party. FMI call lorry at (608) Stowell Ave. in the SAGE Room of 6 p.m. FMI call (414) 643-8330. I Bi Definition Social/Discussion (Milwaukee, WI): The group meets at 244-8675. Saturday, October 31 the BEST() Clinic at 7 p.m. FMI call (414) 212.2144. I Full Moon Productions • Womyn Only Halloween Event (W- I AIDS Network • HIV/AIDS Support Group (Madison, WI): This group aukee, WI): The 11th Annual Halloween Dance will take meets from 10 a.m. to noon at UW Hospital, 600 Highland Ave. in Monday Nite Irregulars I place at the Transit Center's Harbor Lights Ballroom, 909 E. I K6/Rm. 280, 2nd floor. FMI call (608) 252-6540 or 1.800.486-6276. Michigan Ave. at 8 p.m. Prizes for scariest, most original GLB AA - Open Meeting (Madison, WI): This meeting takes place every Bowling Standings I and best group costumes. 58 at the door. I Saturday at 6 p.m. at The United, 14 W. Mifflin, Suite 103. FMI call GAMMA • Party (Glendale, WI): There will be a member's (608) 255-8582. As of Oct. 26, 1998 I Holloween Party starting at 7:30 p.m. FMI call Doug & I Northland Gay Men's (enter - Social Night (Duluth, MN): Meets every I John at (414) 540-1202. I Glamour Girl Photo by Jamie @ La Cage Saturday. Activities include games, videos and other social events from 1 .M&M No Dick, No Dollar Jo'Dees International • Halloween party (Racine, WI): 6 to 9 p.m. at the Center, 8 N. 2nd Ave East, Temple opera Block, Prizes to the best costumes! Drink and shot specials. 10 Suite 309. FMI roll (218) 722.8585. 2 .JoAnne Worley For The Block p.m. until closing. I Transgender Issues - Workshop (Madison, WI): The time is yet to be 3. We're Not 20 Anymore I Positive Voice - Halloween Party (Kooken°, WI); The party I announced for this workshop on: HOW TO ACHIEVE A FEMININE VOICE, will be at Liberty Hall from 8 p.m. to midnight! FMI call which will take place ot OutReach (formerly The United), 14 W. Mifflin 4. Seamen From Docks (920) 435.4404. St. FMI call (608) 255-8582. I I 5. This Is It Triangle • Halloween '98 (Milwaukee, WI): Guess the Sunday, November 1 Perla I Weight of the Great Pumpkin & win a $75 bar tab. SI a I 6. La chance, 6 chances for 55. The next closest wins a S50 bar Angels of Hope MCC - Religious Services (Allouez & Appleton, WI): Ser- tab and the 2nd closest wins a S25 bar tab. Proceeds go vices are held every Sunday at 11 a.m. at 3607 Libol St., Allouez, & at 7 .Harvey's Ballbangers I I to BESTD Clinic. 5 p.m. at 815 N. Richmond St., Appleton. FMI call (920) 991-0128. 8. HD On Meinecki I Woody's - Halloween Night! (Milwaukee, WI): Trick or Bi Youth Milwaukee Support Group (Milwaukee, WI): This group meets I 9. MCC A Touch Of Heaven Treat! There will be a Costume fontest from 7 to 8 p.m., every other week at BESTD Clinic at 1 p.m. FMI call (414) 272-7144. I with over $500 in prizes I lames Reeb UU Church - Worship Service (Madison, WI): Services ore 10. Designing Men 10th Frame Chokers from 10 to 11 a.m. at 2146 E. Johnson St. FMI call (608) 242-8887. 11. 1 Don't Know I Perfect Harmony Chorus - Rehearsal (Madison, WI): Meet and sing 12. Betty Ford Drinking Team every Sunday at Grace Episcopal Church on Capital Square from 7 to 9 I I p.m. Enter from the West Washington side of the court yard. FMI 13. It Could've Been "U" (608) 232-0528. I 14. Flaming Fluid I Seeking Sobriety Non-Religious Recovery Group (Milwaukee) This recovery group meets at 6 p.m. every Sunday at BESTD Clinic, 1240 15. Boot Camp Barbies I I E. Brady St. (use side door). FMI call Danny at (414) 540-0961 or 16. Richard at (414) 442.1132. SWS Docks Ball Boys I I Steve-a-vino! Photo by Jamie @ Woody's a. INN NMI O= MEI k3A IN Step • October 19 —November ri, 1998 as a prop, of a woman "up a tree," just for the view; next, of a happy crafter, using wood in ingenious ways, carving for the joy of it. S Jen Benka But not all the tree stories are pleasant. One tells of a girl's terrible experience, being tied to a tree, arms pulled back, wrists bound, by Dorothy Austin warned to keep her eyes shut. And being of the IN Step staff saved, somehow, from something not he stage set is small and spare, but the experience is described, by some uncommonly kindly rich. Told with poetry, songs and slides, "Tree Sto- chance. Tries" by Jen Benka is for anyone who loves trees, and And one poem wins audible recognition the sad and funny adventures of the human heart. The from the audience, as it did in one performance show runs 45-minutes, and offers uncommon glimpses as part of Riverwest, when the poet read: from a woman's life. "I could be losing it. On the stage at Pengalin, 808 E. Locust St., are three I could be falling apart." chairs and a stepladder. Benka begins with a poem about her grandfather and Something like a sigh comes from the his special tree, while tree slides flash and flicker on the audience, as if in recognition and agreement. screen which forms the backdrop of the stage. Earlier, before the performance, Ms. Another creative venture is her series of five comic Benka described her two lives, her desire to keep them books with a "Manya" theme, depicting the adventures of My grandpa didn't go to church. separate, and her experience as a poet, musician and per- a character of the same name. The books, on which she He went to a tree, former. works with a collaborating illustrator, so far have not been And old red maple Professionally she is director of development, a full available in Milwaukee but have been popular in many Down the roadfrom his house. time job, for Nine to Five, the National Association of other cities, including Madison. A university professor ...And at night Grandpa said Working Women. there has ordered a number of copies of Manya books to a breeze would come through "I like to keep that separate from my other work in use in his classes. the tree and carry his prayer the arts," she said. For her full time job as director of development for Up to heaven. Between the two, she works most of the time. And Nine to Five, she writes grants, works with donors, and He hung his hopes, fears and thoughts sometimes goes back and forth between poetry and directs outreach programs On its branches like Grandma hung the music. She has not made up her mind which she prefers. "I do my writing (of poetry) and music on evenings Bed sheets and undershirts "It's something I discovered in adolescence," she said. and weekends," she said. On her laundry line." "And it is something that has stayed with me. " "Working in so many media, I have not decided Other poetic and musical tree tributes follow, some She is tall, slender, 30 years old, and a 1990 graduate which is primary. Is it music? Is it poetry? At times I work read by Ms. Benka's colleagues. Jen Moore and Anina of Marquette University in journalism. Her poetry has in one, alone, and not the others. Or I may start in one Bacon, both dancers with the Dance Works Performance been published in feminist journals and in small literary medium, and then involve the others. Company, rising from their chairs to stand in the spot- journals. "I do know that performance is important to me. I light, or sit on the ladder. Among memorable fragments: Most of her poetic themes, while not strictly autobio- like the audience response. That's what make it interest- I feel like a tree... graphical, so far have reflected the experiences she has had or ing. If you're not trying to communicate, why write in the Somehow I feel like a tree that's lucky to be a tree... the people she has known, evoking memories of times past. first place?" I feel beautiful, like an undeveloped rain forest of trees... She describes her music, which she composes on her guitar, as "mostly folk-pop. " And she also uses slides in Then come other glimpses and moods, inspired by some performances, as in "Tree Stories." memories first of a tree house; then, with the stepladder "I do a lot of stuff," she said, and clearly enjoys all of it.

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ritten and directed by Gary state of Pleasantville. Where The Truman , Pleasantville stars Tobey Show (the mirror to which Pleasantville is W Maguire as a teen-ager who most often held up) is "real life" desper- escapes his dreary 90s existence through ately trying to masquerade itself as repre- an addiction to 50s television. During a sentation, Pleasantville is a representation desperately trying to be real life. That last is a much more problematic bit of sorcery to pull off, primarily because it has the effect of naturalizing representation. Thus where The Truman Show gets you thinking about constructed selfs and ide- Friday, Oct. 30th ological state apparatuses, Pleasantville makes it seem as if the paths the awak- ened Pleasantvillians travel on from PARTY EVENT of the year! under 50's repression are their (often bio- logical) destinies. i YEAR ANNIVERSARY CUSTOMER It's important to note that it's not the intrusion of some post-Kennedy headline APPRECIATION COCKTAIL PARTY! or technological innovation that colors Complimentary hors d'ourvres ypm to npm Pleasantville's world but rather female sexuality. Witherspoon plays a self-pro- Roller Skating Waitresses! fessed slut who can't resist fucking the • hunky basketball team captain. Oh sure, 4o he enjoys it for the duration but freaks out in disgust immediately afterward. The next day, he recounts this first Tobey Maguire. Photo: Ralph Nelson instance of sex in town to his horrified teammates and whaddayaknow — not a marathon of his favorite rerun, "Pleas- single one of them makes a basket at antville," a TV repair guy (an absolutely practice seconds later, where before their gorgeous performance by the great Don record was perfect. Tsk, tsk! Knotts) comes to the door and gives him And then mom, after questioning her a magical remote that transports him and daughter's practices, becomes flush with his sister (Reese Witherspoon) into the enough color to give Norma Desmond b&w television world of "Pleasantville." apoplexy. Unlike the basketball team cap- They get Ward and June Cleaver-type tain, she accepts sexuality with no com- parents (Joan Allen and William H. plexes. She discovers masturbation in the Macy) and a perfect universe sans fire, bathtub and submits her nude body to subversive books and basketball game the impressionist strokes of budding losses. But the '90s ways of the two trans- artist Jeff Daniels. Maybe she could turn portees eventually seep into the town and The Truman Show black and white. those citizens influenced by the future get Because Pleasantville oppressively colorized. And soon the perfect balance insures that women stay tied to "natural," of Pleasantville is upset by rampant prej- sexual selves, there's really nothing new or udice and witch hunts. life-affirming in its metaphors. And that's Pleasantville is an undeniably riveting not to mention the racial metaphors that watch. The interaction between B&W are explored without the messy appear- and color characters is a marvel to regard. ance of non-Caucasians. Or the inability There are some nice messages about the for Hollywood screenwriters to imagine need for tolerance and to feel pain and to the '50s having a negative effect on the break up soul-sucking habits and such. '90s. Whew! It's smelling worse and Best of all, cultural aptitude is rewarded worse by the second. above all other proficiencies. Maguire's —Kevin John character is a quintessential child of the 90's whose immersion in simulacra makes him a prime candidate for anomie and the unemployment line (or worse). Here, though, he uses his prodigious Nick at Nite knowledge to maneuver his way through the Twilight Zoney situa- tion. Nothing on the SAT could have Saturday, October 31 prepared him for it, which feels like a coup for this low scorer. Costume Contest, Cash Prizes, Raffle Yet something smells rotten in the

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All those pup- dog is much more intense. As I write this brunch during a Packer game just in time Sunday, November 1 pies? I'm proud to column, Chloe is sitting in the chair right to see Boo Boo, drop her pants to show announce that Josh and I are the proud behind my neck. I was a bit worried that it everyone her "I'm behind the Pack' draw- Help celebrate Dish's One Year Anniversary parents of a 10 week old pure-bred English would be hell trying to writing this col- ers. Chi Chi was also there servin' up cock- with 2-4-1 Drinks all night. Prizes too! Springer Spaniel. umn and pay attention to Chloe but at tails. I think I would be lost without Her name is Chloe Marie Parker Tay- this point she is behaving. I was wonder- brunch at M&M. Sunday, November 1 lor. Her colors are silver and white and she ing if I would either have to crate her or be The Libra Party at Fluid turned out In Madison, Colorado's male dance com- is s0000 cute. 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OK, not for me but for cocktails and (very) naughty strippers to enormous jugs of Honey Brown! picked up a book a few weeks ago and read a guy Josh works with, Wyatt. He came keep the crowd entertained. Any other Friday, November 6 up on Springer Spaniels. The book down from Hartford, and we took him details have been sworn to secrecy. explains how to take care of them and that out on the town. We stopped at In On a sad note... late word came that Rolling Rock and the Triangle will hold a Springers are "content being couch pota- Between, Woody's and finally the Wreckroom's last owner, Bill Kindt toes." That Rolling Rock Party with Prizes and did it for me. I don't care much LaCage. Wyatt was hit on several times died this past week. I know he'd moved up for those hyper, noisy little dogs that don't and seemed to handle things pretty well. north after selling the bar, and was enjoy- Giveaways from 9 p.m to close. Plus... shut up when someone sneezes. I couldn't make it to Triangle's ing his retirement. $1 Rolling Rock Taps all night long. As I said, I thought about it before Autumn Fest but from I hear it was a certi- Lake County's Emerald City Night- deciding to Saturday, November 7 get a puppy. When I told my fied Texas-sized success! If you haven't club has closed and gone straight. Mean- friends I was getting a puppy, most of stopped by Triangle lately to check out while, in Madison a new women's bar has them told me to think about Popular favorite singing group, Singsa- it before I their fall decorations, its sure worth the opened up. CE's is located at 2415 Win- actually got one. Of course I replied with stop. While you're there you can guess the nebago St. tional will make one of their regularly "I really have thought about it." weight of their GIANT pumpkin. Guess That's about it for this issue. If you're scheduled appearances at Milwaukee's Well, let me tell you, having a puppy is the weight a win a bar tab and the proceeds not sure about your Halloween costume, much more work than I had anticipated. M&M Club. to the BESTD Clinic. Come Thanksgiving how about Edwina from Absolutely Fabu- They are not shy or by any means what I that's going to make one Godzilla-sized pie. lous? Have fun and as always slower traffic would consider innocent. You have to con- In fact, everywhere you look there are big keep right. tinuously monitor what they are doing, pumpkins. Ballgame and even LaCage

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Oakland Ave, 53211 694-6800 e-mail [email protected] Reiki Master/Wm Jacobs Contact Annie 315-8656 La Fuente web http:www.jackhsmith.com (energy balancing) 668-8860 Shoreline Country Dancers 625 South 5th St, 53204 271-8595 Financial Planning Services 445-5552 Side by Side (performers) 961-2135 PO Box 92273,53202-0273 10 M&M/Glass Menagerie (lunch, dinner, Sunday brunch) Theodore I. Friedman, PhD (Psychotherapist) Diane Bloom/Sandy Lewis Silver Space (Group for Older Lesbians) 124 N. Water 53202 347-1962 2266 N. Prospect, Suite 206 53202 272-2427 Jeanie Simpkins, (MS), (counseling) 282-6160 c/o Counseling Center, 2038 N. Bartlett 271-2565 North Shore Bistro 272-0111 Full Moon Productions (Women's Music Promoters) Jack Smith (Realtor) 962-4413 S.O.S. (Alcohol/Addiction Recovery) 442-1132 Riverpoint Village, 1-43 8 Brown Deer 351-6100 N235 Co Hwy W, Campbellsport, 53010 home/voice mail 224-1452 UJIMA, Inc. (African Am. Support/Sociol) Silver Dollar Cafe Gay/Lesbian International News Network (GLINN) Streff Advertising/Sandy Lewis 771-8300 2821 N. 4th Street, 53212 263-5330 831 South 16th Street, 53204 645-8860 PO Box 93626, 53203 (Fax 289-0789) 289.8640 7600 Harwood Ave., Wouwatosa, 53213 FAX 263-5530 Sunset Boulevard (Coffee House) 271-2786 GLINN Voice Mail 289-8780 Travel Directions (Travel Agency) WI. Leather Mens Assoc. Inc. 2323-N. Murray Ave. Rod Gilbert (Prudential Real Estate) 515 Glenview, Wauwatosa, 53213 774-2174 PO Box 897, 53201-0897 Walker's Point Cafe (10am-ofter hours) 784.9360 Travel Experience (Travel Agency) 744-6020 RELIGIOUS 1106 S. 1st St. 53204 384-7999 Voice Mail 797-7600 Wauker Photography (Portraits, Commitments, Advertising) GLINN Network One (Internet Access, www.gnl.net) By Appointment Only 383-0740 Cross Lutheran Church (Reconciled in Christ) HELP LINES 1618 N. Jackson, 53202 .-7) 289-8640 Wells Ink, Advertising & Design (Advertising, PR) 1821 N. 16th St. 344-1746 e-mail saleagn1.net 1661 N. Water St., Suite 411, 53202 272-2116 Dignity (G/L Catholic Church) The Force 276-8487 Horizon Travel (Member IGTA) RETAIL PO Box 597, 53201 444-7177 (referrals to GBLT counselors) 53051 . . .255-0704 Gay Information Svcs. N81 W15028 Appleton, Men. Falls Lutherans Concerned Hume, Attorney Kathleen Argosy (Gifts 8 Decorative Accessories) PO Box 1616, 53201 372.9663 (referrals) 444.7331 18900 W. Bluemound Rd., Brookfield, 53045 .821.6900 ARCW Spiritual Care PO Box 92481, 53202 225-1565 Milwaukee Metropolitan Community Church UFM(C) PO Box 1421, 53201-1421 332-9995 Pentecost Lutheran Church (Reconciled in Christ) 5226 W. (Weigh St 445-2696 Plymouth Church-UCC (Open 8 Affirming) UENCH 2717 E. Hampshire 964-1513 YOUR DESIRE The Sanctuary (Ecumenical, nondenominational) 1636 W. Notional 647:9199 St. Camillus (Interfaith AIDS Ministry) 10101 W. Wisconsin Ave., 53226 259-4664 St. James Episcopal Church 833 W. Wisconsin Ave 271.1340 First Unitarian Society (Unitarian Universalist Church) - 1342 N Astor 213-5257 Village Church (Reconciled in Christ) 130 E. Juneau Ave. 273-7617 MEDICAL AIDS Resource Center of Wisconsin . 820 Plankinton Ave., 273-1991 www.arcw.org (800) 359-9272 Mark Behar, PA-C (Family/ Primary Care) Family (are Center, 1834 W WI, 53233 933-3600 BESTD (Brady East STD) Clinic (STD diagnosis and treatment; HIV tests) 1240 E Brady 53202 272-2144 BESTD Womens Clinic 1240 E Brody, 53202 272-2144 133e, Gay Mens HIV+ Support Group BET') Cinir 272-2144 Gay Men's Support Group for Partners of HIV+ Men BESTD Clinic 272-2144 Health Options (Holistic Health Services) 823 N. 2nd Street, #811, 53202 225-9303 xi Dennis C. 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Farwell Ave., 53202 273-3777 UWSP, Stevens, Point, 54481 346.4366 Club 94 (MW, DJ) W4387 120th Avenue, Maiden Rock, 54750 448-4302 Clinton Street Antiques LDS Brotherhood (Gay Mormons) 9001 120th Ave (Hwy C8. 1-94) GLOBE (Campus LesBiGay group) 1110 South First Street 647-1773 P0 Box 152, Wausau, 54402 848-0343 Kenosha 53140 851-9958 105 Garfield, 132 Davies Ctr, Eau Claire 54701 (hangin' Times Mod Hatter (MW, DJ, V) Doggie Style (Pet Grooming) JP Creations (WEB Design) 477.8802 932 E. Brady St., 53202 281-7473 320 Washington, Wausau 54401 842-3225 6828 Sheridan Rood, Kenosha 53143 657-5667 The Trading Company (MW, (11) Constant Reader Bookshop HIV/AIDS Spiritual Support & Education JoDee's (MW, DJ) 304 Eau Claire Street, Eau Claire 54701 838-9494 1627 E Irving Pt, 53202 291-0452 2108 4th Ave, Stevens Point 54481 345-6500 2139 Racine St (Hwy 32) Racine 53403 634.9804 The Main Club (MW, DJ) Designing Men (cards, t-shirts, jewelry, leather, etc.) Marshfield Goy lesbian Organ. 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Rusk Ave., 486-9416 Wausau Narcotics Anonymous UW-Whitewater G/L Student Union Rainbow Club (social/support for LGBT youth) Mega Discount Nursey (ask for Gay meetings) 536-LIFE 309 McCutchen Hall, Whitewater 53190 472.5738 P.O. Box 11, Eau Claire, WI 54702 836-7710 1901 E. Rawson Ave., Oak Creek 53154 571-6565 Women's Resource Center UWSP Diamond Hill Inn B&B Scooter's (MW) Out of Solitude Jewelry 336 Nelson Hall, Stevens Pt. 54481 346-4851 W1375 Hwy 11, Spring Prairie 63-4421 411 Galloway St., Fax Claire, 54703 835-9959 918 E. Brady St., 53202 223-3101 Wychwolde (Jewelry & Gifts) Trio (Wm) Outpost Natural Foods NORTH CENTRAL (715) 8321 Antioch Rd (Hwy 83), Salem 53168 .843-4209 820 Tower, Superior, 54880 392-5373 100 E. Capitol Dr., 53212 964-7789 Twin Ports Pride exchange@execpccom AIDS Resource (enter of Wisconsin P.O. Box 3198, Duluth, MN 55803 (2181128.5825 Red Wheelbarrow Bookshop Oneida County Health Dept. (715) 369.6228 UW Stout 10% Society 1213 E. 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Box 390, Stevens Point, 54481 Shirley: 458-2506Corolyn:467-0422 AIDS Resource (enter of Wisconsin—Eau Claire e-mail: ALLIANCE@uwolattedu (715) 592-6245, extension 5920200 Sheboygan Antiques 505 Dewey Street S., Suite 107 Eau Claire 54701 836.1710 Cavalier Lounge (MW, Joseph T. Choinacki, PH.D (Psychologist) 336 Superior Avenue 53081 452-6757 Wesley United Methodist Church (Reconciling Congregation) (800) 750-2431 114 N. Sth St., LaCrosse 54601 782-9061 Marshfield Clinic, Marshfield, 54449 387-5442 (hela and Rose's B&B and Forest Retreat 735.4829 The Edgewater - Inn & Resort 823 Union Avenue, Sheboygan 458-4889 AIDS Resource (enter of Wisconsin—Superior 1507 GALAXY (Gay Alliance of La Crosse Area Youth) Eagle River, 54521 1-888-334-3987 Tower Ave., Suite 230, Superior 57880 394-4009 (877) 242-0282 P.O. 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