Our Brother Bruno
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Our Brother Bruno According to a very beautiful However, he lived events of his Hebrew expression, life in an existentialist fashion, as “Halach Bruno leolamo” he loved to say, and engaged with (Bruno went to his world) them with his whole person. He on February 8, 1996. remained humble before reality, changing or correcting according Bruno, our brother, our friend. to the needs of his personal way, Bruno, our guide in this great ad- but always with faith in the core venture of Neve Shalom ~ Wahat vision of his whole life, which he al-Salam, which crowned not on- summarizes at the end of his ly his life but also the full realiza- book, When the Cloud Lifted : “Not tion of his personality. destroying anything that has life in it. Loving, because loving is li- As an agnostic Jew, who was ving and creates life. Hoping...” educated without any religious knowledge, he encountered, at And it is thus that could be age 22, the figure of Jesus, son of born, exist and develop, Neve the Jewish people, so that the Shalom – Wahat al-Salam, this faith of the God of Abraham be- village of the impossible, it came his. This encounter allowed seems, this village of hope. him, some years later, to discover his own Jewish identity. It is thus Beyond the separation that that Bruno came to Israel in leaves us as “orphans,” to us, the 1953. children of his dream, remains the tough and exciting task to As a founder – a visionary, a continue the unfoldment. pioneer – he dreamed. Nothing and nobody caused him to depart This booklet does not wish to from the road that he took, until be other than a souvenir and a he judged that he had arrived at testimony to the memory of one his destination. “I have walked who has given us so much, and along each of the many varied who, we wish to believe, remains paths where the cloud has led with us. me, and lived for the end towards which it was guiding me.” Anne "Wisdom consists of attempting to see the signs of the times, of discerning the Spirit in certainties that are in the process of evolving; of clinging to cer- tain solid rocks that remain in the midst of this nebula. The most solid rock is brotherly love. There, we are sure not to be mistaken.” Bruno Hussar Accepting the A.J.C.F. award, October 1994. 2 Bruno has left us, silently, after quite a read a prophetic passage from the Bible - short illness. Hospitalized from the beginning “and from my flesh I shall see God...” (Job 19: of January, the final week was a time of grace, 23-27). Brother Daniel read from St. Paul: “I spent in the French Hospital of Jerusalem, to have fought the good fight, … (Timothy II, 7- which he had been moved, and where he re- 8)”. Abdessalam cited words of Muhammad. ceived the best and the most devoted care. Dafna moved us greatly with the poem There he was looked after also with the that she had written. tender and loving care of his friends and A great number of overseas friends, from companions from Neve Shalom. His old Germany, Italy, Holland and the United friends, especially, came many times to watch States, came to accompany Bruno one last over him at night. Anne was able to accom- time, speaking of their memories and men- pany him throughout and until the end of his tioning the profound respect and affection journey. that he had evoked in According to his Bruno, it suits you so poorly to be each. wish, Bruno was inter- confined to a box. The children, accom- red at Neve Shalom – That is why I want to believe that panying Ety on her guitar, Wahat al-Salam, in the your being, your neshama, is always sang a song that Bruno cemetery where we with us, and here lies only that had loved very much, “Me also wish to remain which remains of your body. and you will change the together. We are, you loved to say, enclosed in world.” (Arik Einstein / After a religious ce- a gradually changing chrysalis while Miki Gabrielov). remony at Isaiah we move towards the fullness of The casket was then House in Jerusalem on being. driven to the Doumia. February 11, Bruno's There were days when I would ask There, at the House of Si- casket was driven to you, “Bruno, will you become a lence, we stood for a long the village, and at first butterfly,” and you'd smile back at moment, before conti- we welcomed him at me. nuing towards the ceme- the school hall: such a We worked a long time together, for tery. It had been raining moving and significant 25 years, day after day, always all morning. Umbrellas of station! Under the di- heading towards the future. many colors provided a rection of Ety, the We worked for so many years with half-picturesque note. children prepared the our companions, day after day, Bruno would have smi- ceremony. The walls always heading towards the future. led…. were covered with Bruno, we accompany you still, you Spontaneously a friend drawings and affec- remain with us. chanted a pilgrim's song tionate, even poi- We continue. with a Hassidic melody. gnant, statements in Anne Anne addressed Bruno in Arabic and Hebrew. Hebrew and Eitan, in “Bruno, don't be place of a son of the fami- afraid, you are not alone,”, “Bruno, pray for us ly, said Kaddish, the Jewish prayer for the de- from there below,” “Bruno, we are with you,” parted. “Bruno, we love you.”… The casket was placed in the ground by Ahmad, as the elected head of the village, Ilan, Abdessalam, Kobi, Eitan, Boaz and Za- made a short speech: “Bruno, our father, you kariya - a friend from the Palestinian territo- supported us all, with the good and the bad ries. that is in each of us. Your soul will continue to Eyas awaited us with a basket full of roses live among us, to watch over us.” and each placed a flower on the tomb of our Jews, Christians, Muslims, we prayed one brother Bruno. after another, in Hebrew and Arabic. Shai He remains with us. 3 Our Bruno Our Bruno was a man of faith - in many Those who followed in his path and were ways. Not only was he a deeply religious man loyal to him did so on account of his love, his and served as a priest but he had the great caring and his every word. They wanted to belief that it is possible to put into action help him, and they followed him. every positive inspiration that suited his Regarding the strength of his faith, he was ideals, if only he wanted it sincerely and not a formalist. He saw mainly the essence of seriously. things; their internal side. Neither affiliation I never knew a man who loved to repeat as to frameworks nor acceptance of doctrines he did the sentence, “If you will it, it is no interested him. His faith was open, broad… so dream” and thus, Herzl and the founding of he could accept both “Neve Shalom” and its the state of Israel were for him a proof and a members as people of faith, as brothers from model that all is possible and given to the spiritual and interior perspective. Even if fulfillment, if we only truly want it. they did not behave or speak in the language This is the way he thought and believed, in of tradition or what is accepted by it, he saw every project he undertook, from the beyond the framework and knew its beginning of his way to the end. From his importance. involvement in the Nostra Aetate document Besides his being a man of faith, he was up to Neve Shalom / Wahat al-Salam. He also a man of dialogue. Bruno loved to believed with such conviction that everything converse with people, to listen to what they is given to attainment that he did not pay had to say. Even if he did not agree with attention to the formalities required when he everything, they saw that he cared very much began. He started with nothing and, with about what they were saying, and that he sustained and continuous effort, created attempted to relate to it seriously and help as something. The nothing did not bother him, much as he could. and the something, when created, did not But above and beyond everything, our invoke pride or cause him any diversion from Bruno was a loving person. He loved the the way he had chosen. people around him, those with whom he Our Bruno taught us that even in our spoke, and those with whom he lived. And material secular world it is possible to attain everyone felt his love. things with the power of faith. He showed And like all great lovers, his love was that, even in our time, there is still a power in accompanied by another trait: an enormous faith, and precisely in the simple, naive and modesty. He was not important in his own unsophisticated faith that was his. eyes. For himself, he asked nothing, and he His simple faith, his ability to find small was ready to manage with less than nothing. sparks of light and goodness everywhere and Deep faith and great love – these are the all the time, conquered hearts, endeared him characteristics of “our” Bruno.