Carrie E. Tompkins Elementary School - Parent Information -

©2015 Olweus Prevention Program, U.S. 1 www.clemson.edu/olweus Dan Olweus, Ph.D. Sue Limber, Ph.D.

Program Developer U.S. Developer

©2015 Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, U.S. 3 www.clemson.edu/olweus Program Components

©2015 Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, U.S. 4 www.clemson.edu/olweus OBPP is . . .

• a systems change program • designed for all students (K-12) • preventive and responsive • focused on changing norms and restructuring the school setting • research-based

©2015 Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, U.S. 5 www.clemson.edu/olweus OBPP IS NOT... • curriculum (a set of lessons to teach) • conflict resolution or peer mediation • classroom management technique • anger management program • suicide prevention program • short term effort (1 or 2 years)

©2015 Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, U.S. 6 www.clemson.edu/olweus Olweus Definition of Bullying:

“Bullying is when someone repeatedly and on purpose says or does mean or hurtful things to another person who has a hard time defending himself or herself.”

©2015 Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, U.S. 7 www.clemson.edu/olweus Three Key Components of Bullying Behavior

1. Involves an aggressive behavior

2. Typically involves a pattern of behavior repeated over time

3. Imbalance of power or strength

©2015 Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, U.S. 8 www.clemson.edu/olweus Types of Bullying

Direct Indirect • hitting • rumors • • exclusion •

©2015 Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, U.S. 9 www.clemson.edu/olweus Children Who Are Bullied • Cautious, sensitive, quiet, & withdrawn • Anxious, insecure, have low self-esteem • Physically weaker than peers (boys) • Physically mature earlier (girls) • Have few friends--find it easier to associate with adults

©2015 Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, U.S. 10 www.clemson.edu/olweus Effects of Being Bullied

• Lower self-esteem • & anxiety • Absenteeism & lowered school achievement • Thoughts of suicide • Illness

©2015 Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, U.S. 11 www.clemson.edu/olweus What Roles Do Students Play In Bullying Situations?

Start the Dislike the bullying, bullying and A G Students Who Bully help or try to help take an active Defenders the bullied student part Student Who Is Take an active Bullied part, but do not start the B Followers bullying H

Support the bullying, but C Supporters do not take an active part Dislike the bullying Passive Possible and think they ought Supporters Defenders F Like the bullying, D to help, but don’t do it but do not display open support Disengaged Onlookers TG, p. 24 E ©2015 Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, U.S. Watch what happens, 12 www.clemson.edu/olweus don’t take a stand about bullying •We will not bully others. •We will try to help students who are bullied. •We will try to include students SP who are left out. TG Doc 8 •If we know that somebody is being bullied, we will tell an adult at school and an adult at home.

©2015 Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, U.S. 13 www.clemson.edu/olweus Community-Level Components

©2015 Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, U.S. 14 www.clemson.edu/olweus Community-Level Components

1. Involve community members on the BPCC 2. Develop partnerships with community members to support your program 3. Help spread anti-bullying messages and principles of best practice throughout the community

©2015 Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, U.S. 15 www.clemson.edu/olweus Remember…

• Stopping bullying takes a team effort.

• You play a critical position on the team.

• Change happens in small increments but can have positive long-term impact for us all!

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