Families Face New Pressures As Price of Gas and Food Rises ANSAS CITY, Kan
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WWW.THELEAVEN.COM NEWSPAPER OF THE ARCHDIOCESE OF KANSAS CITY IN KANSAS • VOL. 30, NO. 1 JULY 4, 2008 FOOD or FUEL? Families face new pressures as price of gas and food rises ANSAS CITY, Kan. — An increasing num - ber of families now find themselves in a K terrible place: between the rock of rising food prices and the hard place of soaring gasoline prices. These families’ budgets are stretched to the point of breaking, said Tamra Brandes, director of emergency assistance of Catholic Charities offices in Johnson County. “When I talk about a stretched budget, I mean a budget that just doesn’t have any wiggle room,” said Brandes. “[It’s a budget] where you can just cover all of your expenses as long as nothing goes wrong, but the reality of life is that that’s a rarity.” See “Food” on page 4 Story by JOE BOLLIG Photo illustration by TODD HABIGER CMathOolMic CSharHitieEs’LMoPthIerN-toG-MoMtheOr pMro -S THheAGaMrneMtt KEnigRhts oTf CIoMlumEbus PYopEeABeRnediOctFXVIShaTs .dePdicAatUedLthis year gram partners a mother who requires some took up their hammers and nails to St. Paul, marking the 2,000th anniver - kind of support with a mentor mother who and gave back to the community sary of his birth. The focus on the apostle is has the skills to guide and support her. So by building a new porch for an only one indicator of the pope’s passion for far, the results have been wonderful. elderly couple. evangelization. Page 3 Pages 8-9 Page 16 2 LOCAL NEWS THE LEAVEN • JULY 4, 2008 JULY 4, 2008 • THE LEAVEN SECOND FRONT PAGE 3 Don and Marilyn (Knight) Murray, Carolyn Sue (Carver) and Marvin members of Leonard Archdiocesan native ANNIVERSARIES Immaculate Sommer, mem - Joseph Jean and Beverly Jean Hays, Conception bers of Good ordained a priest members of Holy Parish, Shepherd OXNARD , Calif. — Brother Angels Parish in Michael Stechmann, OAR, was or - MOMS HELPING MOMS Leavenworth, Parish, Basehor, will cel - celebrated their Shawnee, cele - dained a priest By JILL RAGAR ESFELD ebrate their 50th 50th wedding an - brated their on May 22 here, Special to The Leaven wedding anniver - niversary on June 50th wedding for service in the sary with family 21. The couple anniversary on Order of OLATHE — Six years ago, Sara Lopez, and friends on was married on June 14 with a Augustinian her husband and their young son immi - July 5 at Christ June 21, 1958, at Sacred Heart Church, blessing at the 5 p.m. Mass, followed Recollects. grated to the United States from Mexico. the King Parish in Leavenworth. Their children and their by a reception and luncheon on June Brother Employment opportunities brought Kansas City, Kan. spouses are: Laura and Randall Beeves, 15 hosted by their children. The couple Michael attended them to St. Paul Parish here, where the The couple was married by the groom’s Basehor; Pamela and James Grosdidier, was married at St. Peter Church in Sacred Heart young mother struggled to settle into a newly ordained brother, Father Edward Leavenworth; Brad and Laura Murray, Jefferson City, Mo. Their children and School in Kansas new community and a new culture. Hays, on June 28, 1958, at Blessed Father Stechmann Leavenworth; and Bryan and Julie their spouses are: Diane and Robert City, Kan., and The greatest barrier to successful ad - Sacrament Parish in Kansas City, Kan. Murray, Lee’s Summit, Mo. They also Carlson, Steven and Dalonna Sommer, St. Joseph Elementary and High justment, she found, was her inability to Their children Pat, Tim, Kathy, Mike, have 11 grandchildren. The couple Stan and Brenda Sommer, Douglas School in Shawnee. He attended speak English. Although she was eager to Dan and Tom and their families will marked the occasion with a family vaca - and Donna Sommer, Shari Sommer, Donnelly College as a postulant fol - learn, she didn’t know who to ask for gather for a dinner and Mass, which will tion. and Debra and John Hileman. They lowing entry into the monastery of St. help. be celebrated by Father Hays. Also at - also have 16 grandchildren and five Augustine in Kansas City, Kan., in “One of my [English language] teach - tending will be the couple’s 14 grandchil - Don and Carolyn (Rohlfs) great-grandchildren. 1972. He graduated from the ers told me about Mother-to-Mother, and dren and one great-grandson. Kuckelman, University of St. Mary in Leavenworth I went just to experiment and hear the members of Most with a bachelor’s degree in sociology people speaking English,” said Lopez. James E. Jr. and Barbara Pure Heart of and completed his master’s in educa - “Now I have a good friend.” (Gellings) Mary Parish, tion at Loyola Marymount University That friend is Church of the Flory, members ANNIVERSARY POLICY Topeka, will cele - The Leaven only prints 50, 60, 65 in Los Angeles. Ascension, Overland Park, parishioner of Christ the brate their 50th and 70th anniversary notices. While at Donnelly, Brother Chris Malmgren. At the same time Lopez King Parish, wedding anniver - Announcements are due by 5 p.m. Michael was assigned to the retreat Malmgren was looking for help with her Topeka, cele - sary with a family eight days (Thursday) before the ministry at the monastery. Following English, was looking for a way to give brated their 50th desired publication date. gathering in San his formation year as a novice, he back to her community. And she spoke wedding an - Announcements must be Antonio. The professed religious vows in 1974. Spanish. niversary on typed. They are for parishioners of couple was married on July 4, 1958, at Catholic parishes in the Archdiocese Shortly after, he was assigned to the It took Catholic Charities’ Mother-to- June 28 with St. Ann Church in Effingham. Their chil - of Kansas City in Kansas. educational apostolate in schools Mother (MtM) program to get the two their family. The dren and their spouses are: Kathy and Information to include: staffed by the Augustinians, serving young women together, but they have couple was married on June 28, 1958, Bruce Woolpert, Topeka; Susan Send notices to: The Leaven, 12615 as a teacher and principal. since established a friendship that has at Church of the Assumption in Topeka, Parallel Pkwy., Kansas City, KS Morrison, Lee’s Summit, Mo.; Tom He was ordained a transitional lasted to this day. with Msgr. Eugene F. Vallely officiat - 66109, attn: anniversaries; or send L At a play date in the park, partner Mom Kuckelman, San Antonio; Sara and Sam deacon in November 2007. ing. Their children and their spouses an e-mail to: [email protected]. If Sara Lopez (left) talks with her mentor, Chris Criswell, Forney, Texas; and Tim and Father Michael returned to his are: James III and Jennifer Flory; Todd you would like your photo returned From mentor to friend Malmgren, as her year-old daughter Leslie Lauren Kuckelman, Reedley, Calif. They to you, please include a self- home parish of St. Joseph, Shawnee, and Nancy Flory; and Sheila Flory. plays ball with Hayley Malmgren. also have 13 grandchildre n and two addressed stamped envelope. to celebrate a Mass of thanksgiving MtM is a mentoring program that They also have two grandchildren. on June 1. L great-grandchildren. matches a partner mother, who requires As part of an ice-breaker at this month’s some kind of support, with a mentor Mother-to-Mother meeting, mentor mom mother who has the skills or experience Kelly Daugherty gives three adjectives to de - needed to improve the lives of the part - scribe herself to other partner and mentor ner and her children. moms. The coordinator of the MtM program in Johnson County, Carla Golden, said that when she matches up mothers, she a wide range of backgrounds and experi - looks at their interests and backgrounds, ence.” as well as how the mentor can help her The mentors receive two hours of partner. training at their initiation. At the core of “I was paired up with Sara to cross the training is a discussion of the need to that language barrier and help her assim - set boundaries and the difference be - ilate to the community and that sort of tween “helping” and “rescuing.” thing,” said Malmgren. “But anymore, I “The goal of the program is to help partner mothers grow in their self- don’t think I help her that much — it’s ways a play area staffed by volunteers, just the friendship — but I think that’s sufficiency and self-esteem, enhance their decision-making and problem- where moms can leave their children. important.” Lopez said the monthly meetings are To support MtM as a volunteer And the friendship goes both ways, solving skills, and strengthen their par - or through a donation, contact the enting skills,” said Golden. one of her favorite aspects of the pro - Malmgren said. She and her children, gram. nearest MtM office: Olathe: (913) Drew and Hayley, have been enriched by Many partner mothers are referred to 782-4077; Lawrence: (785) 841- Golden by case workers at Catholic “Sometimes they have speakers who their interaction with Lopez and her chil - talk about things like nutrition, and 0838; Topeka: (785) 233-6300. dren — Jorge, and his little sister Leslie. Charities. Other referrals may come from social workers, postpartum support sometimes they have programs on beau - “My son is going into third grade and ty or different things,” she said. “I’ve groups, school counselors, teachers, “That, along with being emotionally hers is going into fourth, so they have a learned a lot, and my son loves being churches, and hospital birthing centers.