September 2015

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Keep in Touch With God

In this digital age, we’re constantly in the first resort, not the last. And touch with our family and friends. let your kids hear you pray. Likewise, through prayer we have POWERSOURCE the privilege of 24/7 access to the  Share with your kids how you see one true God—the one who created God at work through your prayers. ASK GOD: and saves us. Prayer is a powerful Keep lists of answers you receive 1. To help you model prayer in your way to deepen our relationship with and other ways God speaks to you. God and grow our faith. home.  Pray as a family, but also encourage 2. To show your kids that prayer is Anyone can pray, even little children your children to set aside time to pray more than just making requests, (see Matthew 19:14). But kids—and on their own. adults—can often use some pointers it requires listening as well. about connecting with God. Jesus’  Use acronyms as reminders of how 3. To remind your family members disciples needed help learning to to pray, such as PRAY (Praise, to keep listening when answers pray, too! Repent, Ask, and Yield) or ACTS

to prayer don’t come right away. (Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiv- Here are a few tips for helping your ing, and Supplication). kids develop their prayer lives. If your family gets stuck in the prayer  Make prayer a regular part of your “doldrums,” try the ideas on the next home life—and not just at meals page to reinvigorate your communica- and bedtime. Turn to prayer as tion with God—who loves to talk with you.

Pray Without Ceasing

Prayer is an opportunity to talk with God at any time, for any reason. It’s also an attitude of always being aware of God’s presence, no matter our circumstances. When you talk to your children about prayer, remind them that talking to God isn’t an obligation but a privilege.

Because children’s perceptions of communicating with God change as they grow, use different approaches to prayer for different ages. Preschoolers enjoy saying and singing simple prayers together. Older kids can look up Bible verses about prayer and may benefit from reminders that no prayers are insignificant to God. Occasionally change up your approach to prayer by using these ideas. Never Busy Pass around an old “friends,” “animals,” “food,” phone, and discuss what it’s like to “hobbies,” “nature,” and so on. get a busy signal, an answering Play music as family members machine, or an “out of service” walk from square to square. When message. Read aloud Psalm 4:3. the music stops, have everyone Ask, “Why isn’t God ever too busy stop on a square and take turns PRAY & for us?” Pass the phone around sharing one item from that catego- PLAY again, taking turns saying one ry they want to thank God for. Offer thing you’d like to tell God. prayers of thanks for those things. Looking for a small group? Pray & Then play another round.

Play is a small group for FAMILIES. Mime a Message Form teams, and act out messages for one Adopt-a-Leader God tells us to Families who are part of Pray & Play another. Afterward, talk about what pray for people in authority (see 1 Timothy 2:1-4.) As a family, typically meet once a month, usually was difficult about acting out or the second Sunday of the month. trying to guess the messages. adopt a leader to pray for each 3:00 – 5:00 pm at a local park. Read Psalm 116:1-2. Say, “I’m so month. It can be a community leader, a government leader, or a glad we don’t have to act out our Pray & Play gives parents and children prayers. When we talk to God, he spiritual leader. Pray faithfully, and an opportunity to have fellowship and hears our message loud and send encouraging notes to let the person know of your commitment form friendships. Reasons to come: clear!” and that you’re praying for him or 1. By the time we go to church Mighty God With younger her. and Christian Formation, the children, sing this praise prayer to children have exhausted all the tune of “Old MacDonald”: Echo, Echo With young children, their good behavior and we do You, O Lord, are powerful. pray aloud—one brief phrase at a not stay to meet other children I’ve seen what you can do! time—and teach them to echo you. and parents. But even though you’re mighty As kids gain confidence, switch 2. Typically, we do not see people strong, roles and let them lead. from other services, except for You’re kind and loving, too! during Christian Formation. You help me out when I’m in need. Ways to Pray Pray together in a 3. Children need to burn energy Thank you, God, for loving me! variety of postures, such as kneel- and we typically go to the park You, O Lord, are powerful. ing, standing, lying down, lifting at least once a month. I’ve seen what you can do! your hands, and so on. Also vary 4. There is no food preparation or the volumes of your prayers, from house cleaning required – Prayer Squares Use chalk to draw whispers to shouts. Let kids lead come as you are! several squares on a driveway or the prayers, thanking God for sidewalk. Label each square with what’s important to them, even if Pray & Play meets September 13 at categories such as “family,” it’s stuffed animals or video games. Holy Cross Playground. Questions? Contact Patricia Strickland at [email protected]. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results. —James 5:16

MEDIA MADNESS

CULTURE MOVIE MUSIC & TRENDS

Title: Fantastic Four Title: This Is Not a Test Reduce, Reuse Back-to-school Genre: Action, Adventure, Sci-Fi Artist: tobyMac spending is expected to drop this Rating: PG-13 Synopsis: This former member of DC year compared to last year, as Cast: Kate Mara, Miles Teller, Michael Talk has continued to top the charts— budget-savvy parents inventory their B. Jordan selling an estimated 10 million albums kids’ existing supplies and see what Synopsis: This is the latest superhero between his band and solo career. His can be reused. Experts say this series to get another reboot. After new album, This Is Not a Test, features applies to families with kids from being transported into an alternate strong beats, stronger lyrics, and guest elementary age to college age—and universe, the titular four return with stars—including Capital Kings, and a it includes high-tech supplies, too. incredible new powers—and must use reunion with band mates (nrf.com) them to fight Doom, a former friend and Michael Tait. turned evildoer. Our Take: One of tobyMac’s greatest Game Time The amount of time kids Our Take: The trailers suggest the strengths is the way he champions spend playing video games affects characters must wrestle with what their diversity. He understands that God’s kids’ behavior more than the type of responsibility is to humanity and doing love is global, and wants his listeners games played—a University of “good” now that they have superpow- to see that, too. His new album is Oxford study suggests. Kids who ers. Unlike the comic book, Reed and catchy, loud, and full of lyrics that play more than three hours per day Sue aren’t married, though the film sets challenge people to give themselves “are more likely to be hyperactive, them up as a couple. Based on recent completely to God. get involved in fights and not be Marvel movies, expect little in the way interested in school,” while those of sex and questionable language. who play less than an hour a day may actually improve in some social and academic skills. (videogam- Games, Sites & Apps er.com) Mario Party 10 NASA Kids’ Club Terraria The first Mario Party Space enthusiasts of all In this game similar to game for Wii U includes ages can learn about cur- Minecraft, you’re explor- QUICK STATS 50+ mini-games. The rent missions, play inter- ing, building, and craft- most unique new active games, download ing—and at night, bad feature is Bowser Party; puzzles and coloring things come to get you. Phone Home! According to a one player controls sheets, and vote in online It’s a side-scrolling game survey of nearly 2,300 parents, the Bowser, and others play polls. Educational material rather than first-person. average age of kids when they get against that person. As is tailored to various ages. Due to the 2D platform, their first cell phone is 6. The with nearly everything Find this site at room for creativity is majority of parents cited “security” as Mario-related, you can www.nasa.gov/audience/f limited. Some monsters the reason for the purchase. (vouch- play this game with orkids/kidsclub/flash/index might be scary for young ercloud.net) everyone. .html. kids but not for preteens. Kids vs. Goldfish Attention spans are dropping. In 2000, the average human attention span was 12 seconds. In 2015 it dropped to 8.25 This page is designed to help educate parents and isn’t meant to endorse any movie, music, or product. Our prayer is that seconds. In comparison, goldfish you’ll make informed decisions about w hat your children have an average attention span of 9 w atch, read, listen to, and play. seconds. (statisticbrain.com)

September Children’s Ministries

SUNDAY MONDAY TUESDAY WEDNESDAY THURSDAY FRIDAY SATURDAY 1 2 3 4 5

Acolyte Training is August 30 at 5:00 pm. For children 3rd grade and older. Contact Heather Devine with questions, [email protected]

6 7 8 9 10 11 12 8:00 am Service Labor Day 9:00 am Service 10:15 am Christian Formation 11:15 am Service 1:30 pm Service

Holy Cross Day 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 8:00 am Service 9:00 am Service 10:15 am Christian Formation September 13 is Holy Cross Day. Bibles will be given to 11:15 am Service those children beginning Christian Formation for the first 12:30 Parish Picnic 1:30 pm Service time, typically 3 years old, as well as other milestones. 3 – 5 pm Pray & Play

20 21 22 23 24 25 26 8:00 am Service 9:00 am Service 10:15 am Parish The Men’s Group is sponsoring a Parish Breakfast on Breakfast Sept. 20. There will be no Christian Formation. 11:15 am Service Children are welcome on the playground. 1:30 pm Service

27 28 29 30 8:00 am Service 9:00 am Service 10:15 am Christian Formation 11:15 am Service 1:30 pm Service

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