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AUGUST 2019 CreateIt Sponsored by Carnegie Science Center PittsburghParent.com AUGUST 2019 1 Number 8 Volume 32 AUGUST 6 what’s inside your community 10 parenting resource for over 30 years! in this issue 1 CreateIt 6 CoverStory Water cycle in a bag activity Don’t divorce your kids 4 Editor’sNote 24 SteamForward Valuable skills to teach teens SciTech Days at Carnegie Science Center 5 EducationConnection 34 Around About August How much routine do students Calendar& of activities & events need? 18 featured topics 10 Money lessons to help kids avoid debts 12 Looking for a deal on school clothes? community spotlight 15 Pre-school prep for parents 11 Mars Bank is committed to your financial literacy 18 Concrete ways to help the new kid in school 19 Providence Heights Alpha School: Excellence. 27 Keeping kids active when they avoid team sports Innovation. Tradition. 31 Could your child’s reading difficulty be dyslexia? special section 15 - 33 Welcome Back To School on the cover Cover: Trey Thomas Images 2 AUGUST 2019 PittsburghParent.com PittsburghParent.com AUGUST 2019 3 Editor’sNote Patricia Poshard nywhere there are moms, there is conversation about parenting – the topic that always comes up is teens. Helping an adolescent become a caring, independent and responsible adult is no small task. Adolescence can be a confusing time of change for teens andA parents alike. But while these years can be difficult, there’s Pittsburgh Parent is published 12 times plenty you can do to nurture your teen and encourage respon- a year by Honey Hill Publishing, Inc. sible behavior. P.O. Box 674, Valencia, PA 16059 In an article titled “Valuable skills to teach your teens,” Monica Foley, M.Ed. in the Child Development Institute blog, suggests: 724-898-1898 • PittsburghParent.com “As a parent, your job is to take care of your children until the day arrives when they Office hours: Mon - Fri, 8:30am-3:30pm can strike out on their own. While they graduate from high school knowing how to read and write, other skills are just as critical that may not get covered in the classroom. Before your teen leaves home, ensure they’re ready to live independently while mak- Publisher: Lynn Honeywill-Norris ing a positive impact on the world. Take a moment to run down this checklist of essential [email protected] life skills your teen will need to learn before living on their own. Editor: Patricia Poshard Manage time – Be a positive role model for establishing priorities and dealing with dis- tractions. Show your teen how to use a calendar and work towards meeting a deadline. [email protected] Study efficiently – While your teen may not be enrolled in geometry classes much longer, Production: Kerri Lutz they will continue to benefit from knowing how to learn. Encourage your child to embrace [email protected] reading. Demonstrate how to recognize key concepts and design self-tests on any mate- rial. Marketing & Finance [email protected] Stick to a budget – The choices your teen makes today will help to determine how much debt they accumulate during college and what their options will be when they graduate. Web/ Social Media: Kerri Lutz Give them a head start on developing financial responsibility by assigning them tasks such [email protected] as managing their allowance. Eat well – Healthy eating habits start early too. Bring your teen along for grocery shop- Account Manager ping and invite him/her to join you in preparing dinner. Stress the importance of eating a Corina Shutack balanced diet rich in vegetables, fruits and other whole foods. Teach your child essential [email protected] basic cooking techniques. Editorial • Social Media Clean up – Kids who grow up doing chores are more likely to take care of their first apart- Maria Castello ment and personal possessions. Take the time to teach your kids how to vacuum, dust and do their laundry. Founding Publisher Marilyn McCabe Honeywill Stay safe – Talk with your teen about protecting themselves online and off. Provide common-sense warnings and share your own experiences. 1931 - 2013 Handle emergencies – Does your teen know what to do if they have a fender bender or there’s a severe storm in the forecast? Review how to respond to common emergencies. Clarify core values – The values your teen chooses will guide their behavior. Point them Follow Us on Social Media in a promising direction by ensuring they can articulate their beliefs and put them into action. facebook.com/pittsburghparentmagazine Give generously – Your teen is more likely to succeed if they help others to do the same. Encourage them to share their resources and volunteer their services. instagram.com/pghparentmag Manage stress – Developing mindfulness will help protect your teen from depression and pinterest.com/pghparentmag anxiety. They can also learn to relax by engaging in physical exercise and/or working on a hobby. twitter.com/pghparentmag Master phone etiquette – Even if your teen spends much of their waking life on the phone, they may not communicate effectively. Train your kids to identify themselves and speak clearly. Rehearse scheduling appointments or calling a professor. www.PittsburghParent.com Talk face-to-face – Your teen may be more comfortable on social media than having a conversation in person. Hold regular family meals where they can practice having real- @ Sign Up For Our E-Blast at time conversations. Make it a family rule that no devices are allowed at the dinner table. PittsburghParent.com Supportive relationships are vital to health and wellbeing. Coach Cultivate relationships – Pittsburgh Parent is distributed monthly to over your teen on how to make friends and network. 600 locations in and around Allegheny, Armstrong, Be assertive – Help your child to develop healthy self-esteem and practice advocating for Beaver, Butler, Washington and Westmoreland themselves. Knowing how to share their wants and needs will bring them closer to fulfill- Counties. Distribution of this magazine does not ing their goals. constitute an endorsement of information, products You can help ease your teen’s transition into adulthood. Protect your children when or services. The publisher reserves the right to reject any advertisement or listing which is not they’re young, and then gradually give them more responsibility so they can acquire the in keeping with the publication’s standards. The skills they need to live on their own when the time is right.” entire contents of the publication are copyrighted Remember, teens learn how to behave by watching their parents. Your actions gener- and may not be reproduced or copies in any form ally speak louder than your words. Show your teen how to cope with stress in positive without the permission of the publisher. Copyright ways and be resilient. Be a good model and your teen will likely follow your lead. n Honey Hill Publishing, Inc. 2019. All rights reserved. 4 AUGUST 2019 PittsburghParent.com EducationConnection Peggy Gisler and Marge Eberts Dear Teacher Angella Di How much routine do students need? How much routine should we have in our family on school days? I don’t want Angella Di is a fashion and design company every minute of the day to be organized for our children. – For Some Routine that features bold colors and unique pop-art Q: style designs printed on white canvas shoes. • Two feature patterns: Lipstick and Bubble Gum. • Bubble Gum shoes can be worn as a “mommy and me” matching moment to remember! • Available in a select number of children and adult sizes. • Available on Amazon. There are no hard and fast rules about how much routine children should have during the school year. Routines need to reflect each child’s personal- A: ity and needs. For example, a child with ADHD will definitely profit from quite a bit of structure while one who seems to have a built-in organizer can function with far fewer routines. angella-di.com There is a need to have some routines in every home just to make things func- tion smoothly. This should include a morning routine that will have a time for getting up and dressed, eating and for leaving the home with everything needed for school. Most homes also have homework and bedtime routines to give a sameness to every day. No routine should cover every minute of the day. Free time needs to be part of every routine. Basic routines need to be written out and displayed. Pictures can be used for young children. And there is another thing about following routines, they need to be flexible. They will change as activities are added or eliminated. When routines are disrupted by outside events, such as a traffic jams, dinner and homework projects, they can be changed. To help some children follow rou- tines, especially early morning ones, a kitchen timer can be used to show when a particular activity should begin or end. Rewards can also be used if they are an effective tool in encouraging children to follow routines. Finally, if a routine doesn’t seem to be working, change it. And the older your children get, the more input you should get from them. n Parents should send questions and comments to dearteacher@dearteacher. com or ask them on the columnists’ website at www.dearteacher.com. PittsburghParent.com AUGUST 2019 5 Don’t your kids! DivorceBy Ann K. Howley t’s over. Your marriage went awry and divorce looms before you. Whether you feel relieved or shattered, your life is going to change. You will face new and unexpected challenges and be forced to make tough choices. If you have children, the next days, months and years will be stressful for them as well.