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I’ve talked to so many making Passover fun for kids and the money-making potential people who enrich both the Jewish and of Pesach cleaning make for interesting reading. general communities here, and our writ- "e Camps section reminds us how generations of campers ers keep sharing wonderful stories about have discovered their strengths, best friends and heritage at Jew- people they know. "e wealth of ideas is ish summer camp. And it shares information on many camps to almost an embarrassment of riches. help this generation do the same. Fortunately, I’ll have some help decid- We have stories about the elections in Israel, Jewish seniors ing as we go forward. Janet Arnold, who !nding a home, a !tness guru who learned her trade in Israel has written several articles on theaters and a best-selling novelist who researched her story in Phoenix and performers in our early issues, has accepted the position of and is now returning to share her new book. associate editor of Arizona Jewish Life. Her immersion in the Following on the heels of last month’s wedding section, this community is impressive. She has been involved with the local month we look at the joys of singleness and introduce you to our Jewish community since her family moved to Phoenix in 1957. new columnist Ellen Gerst, who shares ideas for !nding yourself Janet founded and led the Arizona Jewish "eatre Company before !nding a relationship. for 24 years. She was president of her chapter and the Phoenix My personal favorite this month, however, was my chance Region of ORT America, a Jewish organization committed to to talk “horse.” I had a great time connecting with our cover strengthening communities throughout the world by educat- subjects – a Jewish family comprising three generations of horse ing people against all odds and obstacles. She also served as lovers. Ever since I was a teenager showing Arabian horses in the executive director of the Jewish Community Center Early Michigan, I’ve heard wonderful things about “"e Scottsdale Childhood Education Department. Currently she serves on Show.” It was always too far for me to take my horses, and I the board of the Greater Phoenix Jewish Film Festival. "is never $ew in just to see the biggest Arabian horse show in the truly connected Jewish Arizonan is also a past president of the country. So it was a real treat for me to interview Kevin Rosen- International Association for Jewish "eatre. baum and his daughter Danielle, who have taken the horse show When Janet accepted this new role as associate editor, she world by storm. told me, “I’ve always thought of ‘community’ as my middle Enjoy! DESIGNER SHOE OUTLET GRAND OPENING of our exciting new location March 1st – 10th Raffle drawings everyday for E&J’s gift certificates We’ve moved from 8666 East Shea to: Present this ad for 6378 N. 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Phoenix, AZ 85028 ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 11 [UPFRONT] HONORING CHARLES ARNOLD PIONEER IN MENTAL HEALTH LAW By Elizabeth Schwartz “I think of myself as a mental health lawyer,” says Charles Arnold, when asked what kind of law he practices. “We de!ne our practice by the type of people we serve.” Arnold – “Chick” to his friends – is one of three recipients of the Arizona Region American Jewish Committee’s 2013 Judge Learned Hand Award for Community Ser- vice. "e award, bestowed annually on three members of the Jewish legal community, recognizes exceptional emerging leaders, public service and community service. "is year’s other recipients are Terry Goddard, former Arizona attorney general and former mayor of Phoenix (public service), and Phoenix lawyer Nicole Stanton (emerging leadership). According to an AJC news release, “AJC’s Judge Learned Hand award recognizes distinguished individuals within the legal profession. Established in 1964, it honors those who have contrib- uted meaningfully to the legal com- munity and whose work re$ects the integrity and broad humanitarian ideals exempli!ed by Judge Hand.” Arnold joined the !rm of Frazer Ryan Goldberg & Arnold, alization to a gradual integration of people with mental health LLP, in June of 2002; his area of specialization is mental health issues into the wider community. “When I became the public and elder law, and his clients are the developmentally disabled, guardian, it was a time when the deinstitutionalization process the mentally ill and the elderly. Arnold also served as the Mari- was in full swing,” Arnold recalls. “"e !rst step in that process copa County Public Fiduciary from 1980 to 1981; in that role, he was development of community-based services for people who’d was the guardian and conservator of approximately 600 mentally been in institutions; the second step involved releasing people ill adults in Maricopa County. Arnold is also the named plainti% from institutional care into an existing community support in a landmark class-action lawsuit to assert the rights of the men- system. In Arizona we jumped to the second step without doing tally ill in Arizona. the !rst. As public guardian, I became the legal caretaker of these Beginning around 1979, social policies across America regard- kinds of people.” "e need for laws addressing the rights of the ing the mentally ill shifted away from a pattern of institution- mentally ill emerged at the same time as Arnold’s stint as public 12 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE guardian. “I grew up with this area of law; it coincided with my career trajectory,” he explains. “Because it was new and I was in a high-pro!le position as public guardian, I was able to have an impact on the way the law here has developed.” In his job with Maricopa County, Arnold supervised the legal needs of more than 600 people with serious mental illnesses. Arizona’s traditionally Republican leanings toward less governmental involvement in providing human services, coupled with the fact that many people relocate to Phoenix alone, without their families or established communal support networks, made Arnold’s work especially challenging. “I helped draft legislation that is unique in the country; it states that everybody who lives in our state with a serious mental illness is entitled to a full range of community-based support. At that time, even Republicans recognized there was a de!cit in this area, and I’ve always believed that it was collective communal guilt that passed this legislation,” says Arnold. Spring is When the law passed, in 1980, it merely established these rights for the mentally ill; enforcing them was another matter. “Part of our community existed in what I termed a more mental health ghetto – a part of town with single-room-occupancy hotels and boarding Notes: homes, which were scary places.” One of the people under Arnold’s supervision was a man named John Gauss, who walked the streets of Phoenix every day because he was withwonderful friends, K afraid to stay in his home. “John’s residence, S & W boarding home, was notorious; it at Pueblo Norte. NA Y Lawn mowing NA M “I was the kid who always looked out or garden-growing? NA C NA Feeling the heat Colors for the underdog.” – Charles Arnold or cool by the pool? Staying at home had burned down two or three times,” said Arnold in an interview on the public televi- or staying social? sion program Arizona Horizon in May 2012. “John was ill; he wasn’t stupid … each day he’d stop at our o&ce downtown and visit me. He’d heard about the statute that was passed that gave rights to people with serious mental illness, and he wondered why nstead of worrying about home there were no services available for him. I was a lawyer; I was John’s guardian; my gosh, Imaintenance, what’s for dinner, or I simply connected the dots. "ere was a critical need to hold our communities account- getting to appointments, our residents able for the statutes that we had passed.” Arnold joined with the Center for Law and the enjoy Five Star living with friends, De:Ae:Date: mdk ( & / jm 02.09.2012 (0, Public Interest to !le a class-action suit, Arnold vs. Sarn, on behalf of Gauss and four exceptional care, and a calendar of other named plainti%s. Despite legal victories in Arizona’s courts, including the Arizona opportunities to experience spring Supreme Court, the demands of the lawsuit, which focus on the mandatory duty of the in full bloom. state to provide services enumerated in Arnold’s 1980 legislation, have still not been fully met. In 2000 Jane Hull, then serving as governor of Arizona, was added to the lawsuit CALL FOR OUR SPRING as a defendant. “"e terms of the legal statute aren’t being addressed, more than 30 years MOVE-IN SPECIALS! after we !led our suit,” Arnold explains. “It’s still going on.” RSVP FOR OUR Like many people who came of age in the 1960s, Arnold was determined to make the THIRD NIGHT PASSOVER SEDER world a better place, and viewed law school as a means to that end, rather than an end HELD ON MARCH 27TH in itself. “I had no intention of becoming a lawyer when I enrolled in law school at the University of Arizona,” Arnold explains. “I just thought a law school education would be invaluable for doing something to serve the greater good.” Arnold could not have PUEBLO NORTE predicted the convergence of mental health law with his own career path when he began SENIOR LIVING COMMUNITY practicing law in the early 1970s. However, his clear a&nity for the legal specialization Job#:Size:Publication: PUEB130104 Client: 2.35x9.938 Pueblo Norte he helped pioneer has another, more personal, component. “I had a profoundly disabled sister. So much of my cultural upbringing had to do with being responsible for others; I 7090 East Mescal Street was the kid who always looked out for the underdog, and I tutored disabled kids when I Scottsdale, AZ 85254 was just a kid myself.” 480-948-3990 For Arnold, the social justice aspects of his Jewish upbringing in Queens and later www.PuebloNorteRetirement.com at Temple Beth Israel in Phoenix, where his family relocated when Arnold was 14, are Pet ©2013 Five Star Quality Care, Inc. a central part of his world-view. “Helping make life better for those less fortunate is a Friendly critical aspect of our faith. "e experiences I had with my sister made me a better advo- INDEPENDENT LIVING cate in my work, and my work fuels a wonderful way of being a nice person while still ASSISTED LIVING O being a lawyer.” LONG-TERM NURSING Elizabeth Schwartz is a freelance writer and musician. ORTHOPEDIC/MEDICAL REHAB ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 13 LEGAL NOTICE To merchants who have accepted Visa and MasterCard at any time since January 1, 2004: Notice of a 6+ billion dollar class action settlement. Si desea leer este aviso en español, llámenos o visite nuestro sitio web. Notice of a class action settlement authorized by the U.S. District WHAT MERCHANTS WILL GET Court, Eastern District of New York. This notice is authorized by the Court to inform you about an FROM THE SETTLEMENT agreement to settle a class action lawsuit that may affect you. Every merchant in the Cash Settlement Class that files a The lawsuit claims that Visa and MasterCard, separately, and valid claim will get money from the $6.05 billion Cash together with banks, violated antitrust laws and caused merchants Fund, subject to a deduction (not to exceed 25% of the to pay excessive fees for accepting Visa and MasterCard credit fund) to account for merchants who exclude themselves and debit cards, including by: from the Cash Settlement Class. The value of each claim, Agreeing to set, apply, and enforce rules about merchant where possible, will be based on the actual or estimated fees (called default interchange fees); interchange fees attributable to the merchant’s MasterCard Limiting what merchants could do to encourage their and Visa payment card transactions from January 1, 2004 to customers to use other forms of payment through, for November 28, 2012. Payments to merchants who file valid example, charging customers an extra fee or offering claims for a portion of the Cash Fund will be based on: discounts; and The money available to pay all claims, Continuing that conduct after Visa and MasterCard changed The total dollar value of all valid claims filed, their corporate structures. The deduction described above not to exceed 25% of the The defendants say they have done nothing wrong. They say that Cash Settlement Fund, and their business practices are legal and the result of competition, The cost of settlement administration and notice, money and have benefitted merchants and consumers. The Court has not awarded to the class representatives, and attorneys’ fees and decided who is right because the parties agreed to a settlement. expenses all as approved by the Court. On November 27, 2012, the Court gave preliminary approval to In addition, merchants in the Cash Settlement Class that accept this settlement. Visa and MasterCard during the eight-month Interchange Period and file a valid claim will get money from the separate THE SETTLEMENT Interchange Fund, estimated to be approximately $1.2 billion. The value of each claim, where possible, will be based on Under the settlement, Visa, MasterCard, and the bank defendants an estimate of one-tenth of 1% of the merchant’s Visa and have agreed to make payments to two settlement funds: MasterCard credit card dollar sales volume during that period. The first is a “Cash Fund” – a $6.05 billion fund that will pay Payments to merchants who file valid claims for a portion of the valid claims of merchants that accepted Visa or MasterCard Interchange Fund will be based on: credit or debit cards at any time between January 1, 2004 The money available to pay all claims, and November 28, 2012. The total dollar value of all valid claims filed, and The second is an “Interchange Fund” – estimated to be approximately $1.2 billion – that will be based on a portion The cost of settlement administration and notice, and any of the interchange fees attributable to certain merchants that attorneys’ fees and expenses that may be approved by the accept Visa or MasterCard credit cards for an eight-month Court. “Interchange Period.” Attorneys’ fees and expenses and money awarded to the Additionally, the settlement changes some of the Visa and class representatives: For work done through final approval MasterCard rules applicable to merchants who accept their of the settlement by the district court, Class Counsel will cards. ask the Court for attorneys’ fees in an amount that is a reasonable proportion of the Cash Settlement Fund, not This settlement creates two classes: to exceed 11.5% of the Cash Settlement Fund of $6.05 A Cash Settlement Class (Rule 23(b)(3) Settlement billion and 11.5% of the Interchange Fund estimated to be Class), which includes all persons, businesses, and $1.2 billion to compensate all of the lawyers and their law other entities that accepted any Visa or MasterCard firms that have worked on the class case. For additional work cards in the U.S. at any time from January 1, 2004 to to administer the settlement, distribute both funds, and through November 28, 2012, and any appeals, Class Counsel may seek reimbursement at their A Rule Changes Settlement Class (Rule 23(b)(2) Settlement normal hourly rates, not to exceed an additional 1% of the Cash Class), which includes all persons, businesses, and entities Settlement Fund of $6.05 billion and an additional 1% of the that as of November 28, 2012 or in the future accept any Interchange Fund estimated to be $1.2 billion. Class Counsel Visa or MasterCard cards in the U.S. will also request reimbursement of their expenses (not including www.PaymentCardSettlement.com 14 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE the administrative costs of settlement or notice), not to exceed Class you cannot object to the terms of that portion of the $40 million and up to $200,000 per Class Plaintiff in service settlement. awards for their efforts on behalf of the classes. For more information about these rights and options, visit: www.PaymentCardSettlement.com. HOW TO ASK FOR PAYMENT To receive payment, merchants must fill out a claim form. If the IF THE COURT APPROVES THE Court finally approves the settlement, and you do not exclude FINAL SETTLEMENT yourself from the Cash Settlement Class, you will receive a claim form in the mail or by email. Or you may ask for one at: Members of the Rule Changes Settlement Class are bound by www.PaymentCardSettlement.com, or call: 1-800-625-6440. the terms of this settlement. Members of the Cash Settlement Class, who do not exclude themselves by the deadline, are bound by the terms of this settlement whether or not they file a OTHER BENEFITS FOR MERCHANTS claim for payment. Members of both classes release all claims Merchants will benefit from changes to certain MasterCard and against all released parties listed in the Settlement Agreement. Visa rules, which will allow merchants to, among other things: The settlement will resolve and release any claims by merchants Charge customers an extra fee if they pay with Visa or against Visa, MasterCard or other defendants that were or could MasterCard credit cards, have been alleged in the lawsuit, including any claims based on interchange or other fees, no-surcharge rules, no-discounting rules, Offer discounts to customers who do not pay with Visa or honor-all-cards rules and other rules. The settlement will also MasterCard credit or debit cards, and resolve any merchant claims based upon the future effect of any Form buying groups that meet certain criteria to negotiate Visa or MasterCard rules, as of November 27, 2012 and not to be with Visa and MasterCard. modified pursuant to the settlement, the modified rules provided Merchants that operate multiple businesses under different trade for in the settlement, or any other rules substantially similar names or banners will also be able to accept Visa or MasterCard to any such rules. The releases will not bar claims involving at fewer than all of the merchant’s trade names and banners. certain specified standard commercial disputes arising in the ordinary course of business. LEGAL RIGHTS AND OPTIONS For more information on the release, see the settlement agreement at: www.PaymentCardSettlement.com. Merchants who are included in this lawsuit have the legal rights and options explained below. You may: HE OURT EARING ABOUT <_b[ W YbW_c je Wia \eh fWoc[dj$ You will receive T C H a claim form in the mail or email or file online at: THIS SETTLEMENT www.PaymentCardSettlement.com. On September 12, 2013, there will be a Court hearing to decide ;nYbkZ[ oekhi[b\ from the Cash Settlement Class (Rule whether to approve the proposed settlement, class counsels’ 23(b)(3) Settlement Class). If you exclude yourself, you requests for attorneys’ fees and expenses, and awards for the can sue the Defendants for damages based on alleged class representatives. The hearing will take place at: conduct occurring on or before November 27, 2012 on your own at your own expense, if you want to. If you exclude United States District Court for the yourself, you will not get any money from this settlement. Eastern District of New York If you are a merchant and wish to exclude yourself, you 225 Cadman Plaza must make a written request, place it in an envelope, and Brooklyn, NY 11201 mail it with postage prepaid and postmarked no later than You do not have to go to the court hearing or hire an attorney. CWo (." (&') to Class Administrator, Payment Card But you can if you want to, at your own cost. The Court has Interchange Fee Settlement, P.O. Box 2530, Portland, OR appointed the law firms of Robins, Kaplan, Miller & Ciresi LLP, 97208-2530. The written request must be signed by a Berger & Montague, PC, and Robbins Geller Rudman & Dowd person authorized to do so and provide all of the following LLP to represent the Class (“Class Counsel”). information: (1) the words “In re Payment Card Interchange Fee and Merchant Discount Antitrust Litigation,” QUESTIONS? (2) your full name, address, telephone number, and taxpayer identification number, (3) the merchant that wishes to be For more information about this case (In re Payment Card excluded from the Cash Settlement Class (Rule 23(b)(3) Interchange Fee and Merchant Discount Antitrust Litigation, Settlement Class), and what position or authority you have MDL 1720), you may: to exclude the merchant, and (4) the business names, brand Call toll-free: 1-800-625-6440 names, and addresses of any stores or sales locations whose Visit: www.PaymentCardSettlement.com sales the merchant desires to be excluded. Write to the Class Administrator: Note: OekYWddejX[[nYbkZ[Z\hecj^[Hkb[9^Wd][i Payment Card Interchange Fee Settlement I[jjb[c[dj9bWii (Rule 23(b)(2) Settlement Class). P.O. Box 2530 EX`[Yj je j^[ i[jjb[c[dj. The deadline to object Portland, OR 97208-2530 is: CWo (." (&'). To learn how to object, see: Email: [email protected] www.PaymentCardSettlement.com or call 1-800-625-6440. Please check www.PaymentCardSettlement.com for any updates Note: If you exclude yourself from the Cash Settlement relating to the settlement or the settlement approval process. s INFO 0AYMENT#ARD3ETTLEMENTCOM ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 15 [PASSOVER] HOME HOLIDAY Observed at home, Passover is a great time to give kids a starring role make the bedikat chametz ceremony (the search for chametz on the night before Passover) more fun this year, assemble your kids into "e Chametz Squad! Parents, be sure to scatter small pieces of bread throughout the house before you deploy your team. Your mission: to seek and destroy all o%ending breadstu% throughout the house. Assign each team member a $ashlight (candles for older kids) plus a feather and spoon (when crumbs are found, sweep them into the “dustpan” with the “broom”). After the search is completed, place the chametz in a paper bag and burn it in the !replace (or outdoors). Be sure to recite the blessing before burning the chametz. Mission complete! Visit Chabad.org and Kveller.com for coloring pages with Passover themes that are simple to print; then let their imagina- tion run wild. Last year my kids raided their closet and costume bins and reenacted a battle of Egyptians versus Slaves. Shop local and support Arizona stores for all kinds of fun items to liven up your seder table. KidKraft makes a Passover playset that includes everything you need for the perfect pretend seder, including the a!komen, matzah cover, seder plate and even a bottle of Passover wine. For an inexpensive alternative, make a By Rich Geller seder plate out of construction paper, paper plates, glue and "e crack of that !rst piece of matzah, destined to become the glitter. Kids love to get crafty: Ask them to create art for the a!komen. Homemade matzah ball soup simmering on the stove, walls and decorations for the seder table. its magical aroma evocative of days of Pesach past. "e warmth As the Haggadah is the central text of the seder, what better of family gathered together. Is it any wonder that Passover is the way to make Passover more meaningful for your family than most widely observed Jewish holiday in America? to make your own Haggadot? In our home we use a wonderful Why is this night di%erent from all other nights? Unlike patchwork Haggadah that my wife, Leslie, forged from multiple most Jewish holidays, observance of Passover (or Pesach) takes sources, including the o&cial CCAR Haggadah published for place in the home rather than in the synagogue. For parents with the Reform movement, numerous children’s Haggadot, and young children this home-!eld advantage can be both boon and material culled from various seders we have attended in other burden. No need to worry about getting your kids to services people’s homes. You can visit your synagogue’s library or sister- on time. However, as leader of the seder, now it is up to you to hood gift shops to !nd kid-friendly Haggadot. Sammy Spider’s conduct the service in a way that captures the imagination of First Haggadah by Sylvia Rouss and !e Animated Haggadah your little kinderlach. (with charming illustrations lovingly rendered in clay by Rony As a Jewish parent during Passover, you are tasked with Oren) are both excellent children’s versions. teaching your children the epic story of the ancient Hebrews "e 10 biblical plagues sent by G-d to punish Pharaoh are and their journey from slavery to freedom. Growing up in New the perfect point in the seder for some silly fun. Each child at Jersey, I recall that our seders were warm family a%airs with our seder receives a groovy little goody-bag of plagues. For the delicious food, but the Haggadah readings were a little sti%. rivers of blood, we give the kids a kosher chocolate-covered Pesach and the ritual of the seder meal really lend themselves to cherry. For the plague of frogs, we give a small plastic frog. For Oregon’s thriving do-it-yourself culture. With a bit of planning, the plague of lice, we give the kids small bags of confetti to toss you can create Passover memories that will last a lifetime. in the air (beware: you’ll be picking it up for years!). For the As Pesach approaches, have your kids assist you in round- wild beasts and diseased livestock we give small plastic lions, ing up all the chametz (leavened products) in your home. With tigers and cows. Mini-bubbles represent the plague of boils, and their help, box it up and dispose of it or sell it to a neighbor. To a small bag of mini-marshmallows stands in for hail (many local 16 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE HappyHappy markets stock kosher-for-Passover mini-marshmallows). We give chocolate “bugs” for the locusts. Dollar-store sunglasses create the illusion of darkness. To represent the !nal plague, death of the PassoverPassover !rstborn Egyptian sons, we give skull and crossbones stickers. For the visit from Elijah, you can do everything from the ol’ disappearing wine trick to making/renting your own Elijah costume and really getting into character! After the seder why not snuggle up with your little ones for some Passover entertainment? Here are my top !ve picks for greatest kids’ Passover TV moments: 1 “A Rugrats Passover”: If you have small children, this Hymson Goldstein holiday classic is one they won’t want to miss. When Grandpa Boris and the babies accidentally get locked in the attic, it’s & Pantiliat time for a retelling of the Passover story, Rugrats style. With Attorneys, Mediators & Counselors Angelica as the Pharaoh and Tommy Pickles as Moses, you’ll be shouting, “Let my babies go!” 16427 N. Scottsdale Road, Suite 300 Scottsdale, AZ 85254 2 “The Prince of Egypt”: Sweeping visuals, a masterful 480-991-9077 | 480-443-8854 Fax score and a stellar cast will leave your kids mesmerized by this epic retelling of the Book of Exodus. www.scottsdale-Lawyer.com 3 “Shalom Sesame: Jerusalem Jones and the Lost Afikoman”: In this Passover themed episode of the Israeli version of Sesame Street, the afikomen goes missing! It’s up to Kippi Ben Kippod and Jerusalem Jones, ably played by a Tuesday, March 26th 6:30 pm young Sarah Jessica Parker, to save Passover. 4 “The Ten Commandments”: Best Passover movie ever! 7SLHZLQVPU/HYAPVUMVYH With Yul Brynner as Pharaoh and Charlton Heston as Moses, dazzling special effects and a cast of thousands, you’ll be Traditional Second Night Seder swept away like baby Moses down the Nile. 5 “The Animated Haggadah”: Companion to the aforementioned book. Classic stop-motion claymation really brings the story to life! Be sure to include an orange on your seder plate in solidar- ity with the girls and women at your seder, and place a Miriam’s cup !lled with spring water beside Elijah’s cup of wine. "ese Service will be conducted by our clergy contemporary customs honor women’s contributions to the Rabbi Judi Ahavah Del Bourgo survival and prosperity of the Jewish people and demonstrate and Hazzan Bernard Savitz that Judaism is a living faith. To that end, build on the themes of freedom and slavery that de!ne the holiday. Remind your 3PTP[LKZLH[PUNYLZLY]H[PVUZK\LI`4HYJO [O )V[OTLTILYZHUKUVUTLTILYZ^LSJVTL children that African-Americans were slaves less than 150 years ago and that around the world people are still held in captivity 7SLHZLJHSS9\[OH[[OL/HYAPVUVMÄJLMVYTVYLPUMVYTH[PVU and slavery today. "e point of the holiday is making history and ,;O\UKLYIPYK9K tradition come alive for your kids. If you make being Jewish fun, :JV[[ZKHSL(A you might never even hear the age-old plea, “When do we eat?” ^^^OHYaPVUVYN Rich Geller is a freelance writer and father of three children. ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 17 [PASSOVER] Carlos Galindo-Elvira blends his cultures in annual Jewish-Latino seder By Janet Arnold alking into the o&ce, one is He had been looking for more religious immediately drawn into the meaning in his life. He called Rabbi Andrew warmth radiating from the Straus, who was at the time the rabbi for Tem- colorful artwork and artifacts ple Emanuel in Tempe. Rabbi Straus suggested on the walls and shelves. Colorful Latino art that Carlos might be interested in taking a basic Wposters depicting animals, birds and nature, “Understanding Judaism” course. Carlos agreed, and wonderful Judaic handiwork: a menorah, and thus began his exploration. He appreciated a ceramic bowl with a “chai” in the center, it when Rabbi Straus told him, “You are the a wooden box with a bronze Star of David. driver on this journey. I am not going to call or "e juxtaposition seems to work perfectly, suggest or push. You are in charge.” particularly when you talk to the intriguing After reading in depth and taking additional man who has chosen these items to surround courses, Carlos knew Judaism was what he him at work. wanted in his life. He completed his require- Carlos Galindo-Elvira is the chief devel- ments for conversion and accompanied the opment o&cer for Valle del Sol. Generally rabbi to Saguaro Lake for submersion on June that title denotes the person in charge of 21 that year, “the longest and hottest day of the raising money for a nonpro!t organization, year,” he recalls. With them was a teenager who but in this case, it means a lot more. had received permission to convert as well. As In addition to raising money for the multifaceted organization, Carlos was coming out of the lake, he wondered why the young he is raising awareness and creating meaningful connections for man was still behind him, splashing away. He gave his hand to the his community – in fact, for both of them. teenager and helped him out of the water. Carlos is a Latino Jew… or a Jewish Latino. "is wasn’t always It seemed the young man could not swim. Carlos had saved a exactly the case. life – his !rst o&cial mitzvah. He says Rabbi Straus smiled and Carlos was born and raised as a Catholic. About seven years said, “You see, Carlos, G-d approved of your decision.” ago, Rabbi Robert Kravetz and Ken Smith invited him to spend In Carlos’ home the Galindo-Elvira family celebrates all the a week in Israel through the American Jewish Committee’s pro- holidays. His parents approved of his conversion when they under- gram called Project Interchange. stood that he still believed in G-d, in being his brother’s keeper, in Project Interchange is an educational institute of AJC, bring- providing service to others and in the all-important honoring one’s ing policy-makers and community leaders to Israel for a week of parents. “Once my mother understood that honoring one’s parents intensive travel and learning. Participants experience Israeli soci- also meant caring for them, she felt grateful that she could count ety, connect with their Israeli counterparts and learn about Israel’s on this son to take care of her in her old age,” he grins. extensive contributions in their !elds. About a year prior to his trip to Israel, Carlos was approached “Before the trip, I thought of Israel as biblically grand,” says by Ken Smith and Rabbi Larry Bell, then director of the local Carlos. “But when you’re there on the ground, you realize how AJC. "ey wanted to create a Latino-Jewish seder in the Valley. tiny it is, and that brings to focus so many of the social and politi- "ey knew that Valle del Sol sponsored the Hispanic Leadership cal realities.” It was an ecumenical trip; the tours included visits to Institute, which helps to develop leaders in the Latino community. major points of interest for all the major religions represented in It turned out to be the perfect partnership. the area. “When we went to Yad Vashem,” he smiles with modest "e two communities share a love and respect for family and pride, “I was the one chosen to lay the wreath.” And when they community. And Passover’s message of freedom and hope is one reached Masada, Carlos felt something special happened. "ey that resonates with both as well. Smith, a local philanthropist who had come down from the top of the fortress when he heard his passed away last year, had the vision to connect the communities name called. He looked back to see a group gathered around to move the conversation forward in a meaningful way. On March the $agpole, and he suddenly remembered the end of the !lm 14 the Eighth Annual Latino-Jewish Seder will be held at the “Masada,” which he had seen as a young child: the same scene, Arizona Jewish Historical Society’s Cutler-Plotkin Jewish Heri- around the $agpole. It seemed to Carlos that things were coming tage Center. full circle. Carlos is particularly pleased that the Center will be their new 18 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE home. “It’s perfect,” he says. “"e Center itself is a place that exudes injustice, xenophobia, discrimination, neglect of human needs appreciation of diversity, having been home to so many di%erent and neglect of our environment. "ese are accompanied by the ethnicities.” His reference is to the fact that the building began as traditional drops of wine and said with the hope that people will Temple Beth Israel in 1921, became a Chinese Baptist church in cast out these plagues wherever they are found. 1957, then a Latino Baptist church in 1981, and now has come While the seder is not meant to have political overtones, back to the Jewish community. He’s equally pleased that Rabbi Carlos knows that each year the topic of immigration will come Maynard Bell will continue to lead the service. up. He knows, too, that this year the discussion will be even more Attendance at this unique seder is by invitation only, simply to emphatic than usual. In fact, he laughs, he’s thinking of putting control numbers. Between 100 and 150 individuals attend, includ- another empty chair next to Elijah’s and labeling it “Immigration ing those from the Hispanic Leadership Institute, American Jewish Reform,” hoping that it too will walk through the door very soon. Committee and a variety of other community organizations. Carlos In addition to creating good feelings and warm friendships, the takes care to seat the Latinos and Jews in checkerboard fashion, in seder and the extended Latino-Jewish relationships it encourages case there are questions. have very practical bene!ts. Just a couple of years ago, the Ari- "e Haggadah for the seder is a lovely, full-color booklet that is zona Legislature was debating the birthright provision in the U.S. now in its second printing. Originally 8,000 were printed, and those Constitution. "e 14th Amendment ensures that anyone born in are now gone, since each participant is allowed to take one home. the United States is a citizen. Repealing or amending this right Included are the basics of any seder, but there are some special addi- would have devastating consequences in the Latino community. tions to this one. Fourteen rabbis – he repeats the number – wrote an editorial in “Kuanto fue demudada la noche la esta mas ke todas las noches” the Arizona Republic to stand up for the existing amendment. “It (Why is this night di%erent from all other nights?) is Ladino, the matters who carries the message,” he added, saying the support Sephardic Jewish language that combines Spanish and Hebrew. from the Jewish community was very signi!cant. "e four questions and an ancient poem, also in Ladino, are “It is in the interest of both the Latino and the Jewish com- included in this Haggadah. munities that we are friends and support each other. Maybe the "e Haggadah includes an interesting addition to the plagues. Goldberg will help the Garcia today, and tomorrow the Garcia Besides the 10 biblical plagues, this Haggadah contains modern- will come to the aid of the Goldberg.” And Carlos Galindo-Elvira day evils: hatred, violence, crime, fraud, political corruption, will be there at the forefront and on both sides. O Escape to a dude ranch resort Out Wickenburg Way! In less than an WHEN FIVE STARS ARE hour’s drive you will enjoy horseback riding, championship golf, spa, cookouts, trap and skeet and much more. Call today NOT ENOUGH for rates starting at $199.00* per night for two. Call for reservations: 1-800-684-5030 ranchodeloscaballeros.com HORSES | SPA | GOLF *Limited Availability. European Plan Rates. Rate does not include 8.3% tax and 15% gratuity in lieu of tipping. ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 19 [PASSOVER] Spice up your Passover with homemade Ge!lte S Fish and Persian Haroset CHEF’CORNER By Lisa Glickman Now, unlike your normal "sh, ge"lte "sh cannot be caught with a Every year when it’s time to shop for supplies for my Passover rod and a reel. !e art of catching ge"lte "sh was handed down for seder, I see the grocery store’s annual holiday display made up hundreds, maybe thousands of years. You go up to the edge of lake of boxes of matzah, potato starch, macaroons and potato kugel with some matzah and whistle and say “Here boy,” “Here boy.” !e mix. Invariably included in the arrangement of foodstu%s is "sh just can’t resist the smell of the matzah. !ey come en masse to the jarred ge!lte !sh $oating in murky liquid. Who actually the edge of the lake, where they jump into the jars and are bottled eats this stu%? In the words of my 12-year-old, it looks “a bit on the spot. sketchy!” Our good friend Dan, who is originally from New Funny story, but since we have no ge!lte !shermen in our York, told us the !sh is in fact a delicacy and that he once family and live nowhere near the Catskills, I prefer to make heard a funny story about where these ge!lte !sh come from. my own! Typically, because it’s more economical, ge!lte !sh is He relayed this story by Lawrence Sherry to us: made with two or three di%erent types of freshwater !sh such Many times I have been upset by people who seem to think that as pike, haddock and carp. I opt for !sh that are indigenous to ge"lte "sh is some kind of mixture you make in the kitchen rather the West Coast, like Alaskan halibut, lingcod and salmon. I than one of the Lord’s creatures. !is has led me to explain exactly utilize salmon for its beautiful color, fat content and richness, what a ge"lte "sh is. halibut for its creamy texture and cod for its mild $avor. In my Each year, as soon as the frost on the Great Ge"lte Lakes (locat- recipe melted leeks – which, when slightly caramelized, have a ed somewhere in the Catskill Mountains) is thin enough to break pleasant sweetness – stand in for the onions. For the poaching the surface, frum (observant) "shermen set out to “catch” ge"lte "sh. liquid, you can make your own !sh stock or buy a good-quality 20 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE take a small teaspoon of the fish and drop into stock. Let cook for GEFILTE FISH 2-3 minutes, remove, taste and adjust seasonings. Peel and slice Makes about 20 “egg size” fish balls remaining carrot into coins and drop into stock. Using wet hands, 1 pound salmon fillet, fresh if possible scoop about ½ cup of fish mixture and shape into egg-shaped balls. 1½ pounds halibut fillet Gently drop into hot stock in a single layer, trying not to let them touch. 1½ pounds Alaskan lingcod fillet Bring stock up to a gentle boil, cover, reduce to a simmer, and cook 3 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil for one hour. Check occasionally to make sure stock is not boiling too 3 carrots, separated rapidly. When cooked, carefully remove gefilte fish to glass baking dish. 3 leeks, white and light green parts, rinsed and finely chopped Extricate carrots and save. Pour stock over fish and allow it to cool 1 tablespoon sugar uncovered. Fish can be served chilled or at room temperature. 1 egg 2 tablespoons matzah meal ½ cup water PERSIAN HAROSET 2-3 teaspoons kosher salt 25 dates, pitted and diced 2 teaspoons Old Bay Seasoning ½ cup salted pistachio nuts, coarsely chopped 12 cups fish stock ½ cup almonds, chopped ½ cup yellow raisins Remove any skin and bones from fish and cut into 2-inch cubes. 1½ apples, peeled, cored and diced Using food processor fitted with a steel blade, pulse each type of fish 1 banana, sliced separately until ground and place in a large bowl. Heat fish stock ½ to 1 cup sweet red wine to medium high in a large skillet or Dutch oven with high sides and ¼ cup apple cider vinegar a lid. (You will probably need two.) Heat olive oil in a large skillet on ¼ teaspoon cayenne pepper medium high. Grate two of the carrots on the fine side of a box grater. ½ teaspoon ground cloves Place leeks in olive oil and soften slightly. Add carrots and continue 1 teaspoon cinnamon to sauté until carrots are tender and leeks begin to caramelize, ¼ teaspoon ground black pepper about 8-10 minutes. When cooled slightly, add vegetables to fish Mix spices together in a small bowl. Combine the fruits and nuts along with beaten egg, matzah, sugar, water and spices. Mix gently in another larger bowl. Add the wine and vinegar until a paste is but thoroughly. Mixture will seem a bit loose. When stock is hot, formed. Add spices a bit at a time until desired spiciness is reached. packaged one. "e trick to making moist, tender ge!lte !sh is to poach the pieces at a low temperature and not to let the stock boil too vigorously. It should just be bubbling gently at a simmer on the stove. Cooked too quickly, the !sh balls may not remain moist throughout. Serve chilled or at room temperature with red horseradish and garnished with cooked carrot coins. On the Passover seder plate, haroset symbolizes the mortar used by slaves in Egypt. "e classic Eastern European haroset features apples, honey, sweet wine and cinnamon. Although most American Jews are familiar with these ingredients, this is by no means the only combination possible. Walnuts, pine nuts, pea- nuts, pistachios or chestnuts can be mixed with apricots, coconut, raisins, dates, !gs and even bananas. Also intriguing are recipes with spices like ginger, cloves, cayenne and cardamom. Haroset is a tasty snack that can be enjoyed with matzah all week during Passover. Most families have a recipe they have been making for years. "is year, try adding just one new ingredient to the family’s Serving Breakfast All Day, Lunch & Dinner 7 Days a Week! traditional recipe. I borrowed my favorite ingredients from this Custom Catering for All Events & Group Sizes Joan Nathan recipe for Persian Haroset. I love the subtle sweet $avor from the banana and the little touch of heat from the black Huge Menu Including Traditional Jewish Favorites and cayenne pepper. O * iÝÊÈäÓ°Ç£ä°Ó£äÊUÊ-VÌÌÃ`>iÊ{nä°nÈä°ä{ÇxÊUÊ/i«iÊ{nä°xxÇ°äÇää >`iÀÊ{nä°În°ÎäänÊUÊ6>iÞ7`iÊ ÕÃÌÊ >ÌiÀ}Ê{nä°Î{n° /,ÓÓnÇ® Featured on Travel Channel’s Man v. Food Season 3 Lisa Glickman is a private chef and teacher, and she recently made a TV appearance on the Register for Chompie’s Rewards, join our Mile High E-Club and more at Cooking Channel’s “The Perfect Three.” She can be reached via email at [email protected]. www.chompies.com ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 21 [PASSOVER] Clean Up,Cash In Use Passover cleaning to declutter your life, aid others and get a bit of cash By Masada Siegel Clearing clutter and cleaning house is a Passover ritual. "e Jew- Family and Children’s Services, or log onto websites such as ish version of spring cleaning started a long time ago, when the volunteermatch.org to !nd out how to turn your junk into Jews had to leave Egypt on the run and without lots of stu%. other people’s treasures. Today, however, life is messy, and it’s so easy to keep collect- Many charities have drop boxes, while others have sched- ing more and more clutter. But does more stu% make us happier? uled pickups in your neighborhood at set times during the On the contrary, clutter usually makes people tense and month. Donating your goods will also get you a tax break. stressed out. "ird, let technology do the work. Use a digital camera So while you’re scouring your home of chametz, it’s a great to take photos of the items and post them on eBay. You can time to do a little spring cleaning – make that Passover cleaning. sell pretty much anything on eBay, from clothes to house- A way to create new opportunities in your world is to clear wares. Be aware that eBay involves a little more e%ort than your mind, and one of the best ways to start is by clearing simply giving things away, and there are fees involved (in- your house. cluding a listing fee and a percentage fee if the item sells) – but if you have something people want, you can make a few bucks o% your throwaways. In order to turn your clutter into cash on eBay, do the research. Search the site to !nd out what sells and to see Donating your goods will the going rate for similar items. It is important to describe the item precisely and be honest about its condition. also get you a tax break. Most important, when setting a price, make sure you are being realistic. Bidding can start as low as a penny, but you might end up selling a $150 item for a dollar, in which case, is it really worth the e%ort? Conversely, if you start the First, look around the house and see what you haven’t used bidding too high, you could discourage bidders. or worn in a few years. Ask yourself, am I really ever going to If the ins and outs of eBay make your head spin, a wear this or use this more than once a year? If I’ve lived this long consignment shop might be a fun alternative. without it, do I really need it? If the answer is no, take the item Di%erent from thrift stores like Goodwill, consign- and put it in a “toss” pile. ment and secondhand shops usually sell more upscale and When you have a pile of things to toss, you can determine designer items. "ey will often give you store credit in what should be thrown away, and what could be used again by exchange for your clothes or will pay you a percentage after someone else. an item sells. At this point, make sure to congratulate yourself. You are on However, some stores are picky about what they accept, a path to a place where your life will be easier to navigate, and so you may have clothes left over when you’re done. now you have an opportunity to improve your world as well as Whether it’s cold hard cash, more peace and harmony Cimprove the lives of others. in your home or simply saving the planet by recycling, So what should you do with the expensive suit that has been clearing clutter is a win-win situation. And once you clear sitting in your closet for three years, or those handbags that are your clutter and can !nally relax before the !rst seder, you collecting dust and never seem to see the sunlight? "ere are will revel in the good vibes, knowing you’re doing a mitzvah many options. and giving to others. An added bonus: You’ll have plenty of First, and perhaps easiest, is to ask those around you – friends, room in your closet for a little something new. O neighbors, co-workers and people who work for you, like a house cleaner, gardener or au pair – if they would like any of the items. Masada Siegel is the author of the new novel Window Dressings, Second, pick up the phone and call charities such as Jewish available at masadasiegelauthor.com. 22 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE OR ADAM CONGREGATION Helen for HUMANISTIC JUDAISM Welcomes You to Our 2013 SkipAsk the post-seder analysis PASSOVER of everyone’s faults CELEBRATION ,UQV`^HYTMLSSV^ZOPW^P[O Dear Helen: MHTPS`HUKMYPLUKZJLSLIYH[PUNH TLHUPUNM\S/\THUPZ[PJ/HNNHKHO Please remind your readers about the etiquette of family events. 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Not turning up the heat on those *OPSKYLU`LHYZ c ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 23 [COVER STORY] horsing By Deboraharound Moon Kevin and Danielle Rosenbaum ride for the love of horses, but they’ve also won many national championships he genesis of 18-year-old equestrienne Danielle Rosenbaum’s 13 national Danielle Rosenbaum on Blue Viking (Vic). The pair won five championships extends back to decades before her U.S. National Championships and four Reserve National birth, to the summer her grandfather Carl Rosenbaum Championships. In 2011 alone, the two were the fell in love at camp – with horses. champion Arabian Reining Horse, 14-17; Arabian Reined Danielle won her !rst two national championships at the tender Cow Horse; and Arabian age of 11 at the Arabian Horse Youth Nationals in Albuquer- Reining Seat Equitation, 14- 17. Kevin Rosenbaum also que, NM, riding her purebred Arabian hunter in pleasure and won the 2010 U.S. National equitation. After that she shifted to western-style riding and Championship for Arabian began competing in reining, reined cow horse and horsemanship Amateur Reining on Vic. classes, in which she has won the balance of her national cham- pionships, in addition to 12 reserve national championships and numerous top 10 honors. 24 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE Kevin Rosenbaum and Tina Turnaround demonstrate the classic sliding stop for which reining horses are known. At the 2012 Scottsdale Show, they won the Non-Pro Half Arabian Reining Futurity. ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 25 [COVER STORY] Kevin Rosenbaum and Jackie O Whiz (Rita) win the Scottsdale Non- Pro Half-Arabian Reining Futurity. Last month, in preparation for the "ough results for this year weren’t available at press time, last year her father, Kevin, derbies put on by the NRHA (National won the non-pro Half-Arabian reining futurity on Tina Turnaround, who also was a Reining Horse Association), she rode her top 10 Scottsdale Half-Arabian junior horse. new Quarter Horse, Coronas in Hol- Two years ago at the famed Scottsdale show, Kevin won the non-pro Half-Arabian lywood, at the Sun Circuit reining show reining futurity on Jackie O Whiz (Rita), the !rst horse the family bred and raised. sponsored by the Arizona Quarter Horse Rita was the daughter of a mare the family bought as a broodmare. But when Rita was Association at West World in Scottsdale. just 6 weeks old, the mare died. Fortunately another nursing mare on the farm allowed She returned to West World Feb. 14-24 Rita to nurse alongside her own foal. to compete in the 58th annual Scottsdale It was the !rst time any of the Rosenbaums’ horses had even been seriously sick, Arabian Horse Show, the largest event of and it hit them hard. As successful as Danielle and Kevin have been in the show ring, its kind in the world, drawing more than they say they consider their horses family pets. “"ey know us when we get to the 2,200 horses from across the country. barn,” says Kevin. “It’s about loving riding. Showing is fun, but on Saturday it’s about sitting around on a horse talking with your friends for three hours.” It’s a natural progression from Carl’s love a%air at camp long ago. Carl’s love for horses led him to buy an Appaloosa gelding when Kevin was about 6. Kevin spent many summers at the same camp his father had attended – Greenwoods Lake of the Woods in Decatur, MI. He says it was popular with his Jewish friends in Chicago who enjoyed getting out to the country for water sports and horseback riding. “From that point on I loved horses and did shows all over the Midwest,” says Kevin. His bar mitzvah gift was a hunter/jumper that he showed till near the end of high school. But Kevin quit riding for about 20 years while he helped run his family’s record store in the Chicago area, where his dad also Kevin and Danielle Rosenbaum in the early days of their riding partnership. worked as a concert promoter for 27 years. "e family enjoyed escaping to Phoenix for vacations every year, and Grandpa Carl started to tell Danielle he would buy her a horse. When technology changed, Carl and his wife, Joanne, closed the record store and moved to Scottsdale. 26 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE Kevin Rosenbaum competes at the 2008 Scottsdale Classic. !rough the years Kevin has divided his time between aiding his daughter’s riding career and coaching his son’s baseball teams. !ey also joined Temple Solel, where Danielle and Matthew attended Sunday school and Hebrew school. ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 27 [COVER STORY] “Danielle is a really genuine person and a hard worker. She works hard for what she has … that’s nice in a young person.” – Trainer Crystal McNutt "e Rosenbaums are still in the ing,” says Danielle. “Crystal makes music business, selling CDs and it so much fun.” DVDs to big retailers from Top Kevin agrees: “Crystal has made Hits, their family business head- the entire experience fun and enjoy- quartered in Chicago. When tech- able.” nology enabled the family to run Crystal specializes in Arabians the business largely online, Kevin and reining horses. In 2011 she was and his wife, Marianne, brought inducted into the Arabian Profes- Danielle and her older brother, sional & Amateur Horseman’s Matthew, to Phoenix. At Grandpa Association’s Hall of Fame the Carl’s urging, the two youngsters same year she was named APAHA’s began to take riding lessons when Horsewoman of the Year. Danielle was about 6. Kevin says Crystal says Danielle, who was that as soon as Matthew discovered Danielle Rosenbaum on Kona, a Half-Arabian. nominated for APAHA Junior horses involved mucking out stalls, Working Western Rider in 2011 he turned his attention to baseball. and 2012, has earned all of her Meanwhile, Carl ful!lled his promise and bought Danielle her victories. !rst horse, a small Arabian named Form VanRaf. "e !rst time “Danielle is a really genuine person and a hard worker,” says Danielle showed “Peanut” in a big show, her legs were so short Crystal. “Every time she comes out, she wants to get better. She they didn’t reach below the saddle pad. works hard for what she has … that’s nice in a young person.” “I was kicking the entire class,” says Danielle, noting Peanut Crystal also praises Kevin: “He’s a very supportive person. just calmly carried her 7-year-old rider through the class at a "ey got into it so they could ride together. "ey ride for the slow walk. love of the horse.” "rough the years Kevin has divided his time between aiding Crystal took 40 horses to this year’s Scottsdale Arabian his daughter’s riding career and coaching his son from T-ball show. “Scottsdale is the highlight of the year for Arabians,” says through high-school baseball. "e family also found time to join Crystal. “It’s an event. "e Arabians put on a great show.” Temple Solel in Paradise Valley, where Danielle and Matthew According to an article by Linda White in the Arabian attended Sunday school and Hebrew school until Matthew’s bar Horse Times, the Scottsdale show is “the largest equine event mitzvah. Danielle says she enjoys celebrating all the holidays, of its kind in the world, with more than 2,200 horses coming especially Passover, when the family gathers for the seder at her to town to compete for over $1 million in prize monies. And if grandparents’ home. that isn’t enough, some 300,000 people from 50 countries come "ough Danielle’s mom, Marianne, is afraid of horses, she to Arizona’s Valley of the Sun to participate, to spectate, buy and enjoys watching the shows and every year accompanies Danielle sell horses, make new friends and have even more fun than they to Nationals for a 10-day mother-daughter getaway. ever imagined. Arabian horse enthusiasts everywhere plan far in While Danielle was competing on her Arabian hunter, Kevin advance for the annual pilgrimage.” became interested in reining horses. Danielle was riding at one So if you missed the show this year, be sure to put it on your stable, and Kevin had his reining horse at Crystal McNutt’s calendar for next February. "e 11-day extravaganza also in- Performance Horse barn. Soon Danielle was tagging along cludes Shopping Expo, featuring one-of-a-kind sculpture, jew- and riding the reiners too. Now all eight of their horses are at elry, artwork, footwear, hats, clothing, tack and fencing as well as Crystal’s barn. real estate agents knowledgeable about equestrian properties in "ey still own Eddy, an 18-year-old that Kevin calls his !rst the area. really good horse. Kevin bought SR Desperado (Eddy) nine And you’ll be able to see Danielle compete in her !nal year years ago, after Eddy won the Half-Arabian reining national as a youth competitor next year. After considering three colleges, championship that year. Soon Eddy became his daughter’s horse, she chose to attend Arizona State University in Tempe so she and, though Eddy is now retired from showing, Danielle says he can keep riding and showing. She received an academic scholar- is still the !rst horse she rides when she gets to Crystal’s barn. ship and plans to major in biology, with thoughts of medical “Had I not been with Crystal, I probably wouldn’t still be rid- school or veterinary school in the future. O 28 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE SC OTTSDALE’S PREMIE R ASSISTED LIVING HOME! 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For two months! sent my beloved horse to the glue factory; I even Two months! "at was a really long time for included the somewhat predictable epic about the my 9-year-old self to be away from home, and I violent kidnapping of my one and only camp friend, wasn’t ready. a loner from Pomona with a propensity for lice I spent a good portion of that summer sob- infestations and with whom I shared all of my hats, bing alone in my upper bunk. I wanted to go home. I remem- hairbrushes and pillows. ber promising my dad that if he’d just let me come home, I was I sent a letter a day, every day, for eight weeks. "e thing amenable to all sorts of torturous events. I would do the dishes is, it started to be really fun. I liked sending my daily trea- after every meal. I would snow blow the walk every single tises, imagining my parents’ faces as they perused each letter, time it snowed once winter arrived. I would even let my cloy- not quite sure if it was real or a mere !gment of my tortured ing Aunt Frieda hug and kiss me to her heart’s content. But imagination. I started to share my letter writing escapades no dice. My parents stood !rm. I was there for the duration with my cabin mates. "ey thought it was fun too. Every day whether I liked it or not. after lunch we would retreat to our cabin for rest time, and I I went back to overnight camp a second summer. It was en- would regale my compadres with various Linkletter entries. tirely against my will and I literally went kicking and scream- "en we would vote on which one to send to my poor unsus- ing. My mother insisted I go. pecting parents. Certain she wanted me gone A funny thing started to happen to me that summer. I so she could take over my started to connect to people, to make real friends, friends who closet with her over$ow- thought I was funny and clever and just a little bit quirky. I ing collection of expensive had found my !rst audience and I was loving it. Suddenly designer togs, I set out to camp became a special place where I could let my hair down, make her summer every be myself and explore my newfound creativity. bit as miserable as I was I grew to love my summers in Eagle River, WI, and went sure mine was going back for 10 consecutive years. My parents forgave me for tor- to be. turing them. My mom even started to laugh about the letters Armed with a stack I’d sent that second summer. of Holly Hobby My 12-year-old son, Levi, !rst ventured to overnight camp stationery, a package when he was 9 years old. He !rst went for 12 days and was im- of Bic pens and Art mediately smitten by the energy, joy and Judaism that de!nes Linkletter’s newest Jewish summer camps. He went back the next two summers book, Letters From for equally wonderful 12-day sessions. Still scarred by my own Camp – a twist on eight-week camp stretches, I never pressed him to go longer. his bestseller Kids But this summer he’s going for a full month. He couldn’t be Say the Darnd- more excited. est !ings – I was My youngest son, Eli, always insisted that he would never determined to have leave home, a declaration I was pretty sure he’d outgrow, but my mother crying since you can never be sure, I did have some concerns. When for mercy as she and talk of summer came up this past fall, Eli surprisingly decided, my dad hopped the with a bit of parental nudging, that he too would like to $y !rst plane to Wisconsin up to wine country and experience life away from home for a to save their youngest few days. He’s attending a short, 12-day camp session in June. 32 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE He’s de!nitely more apprehensive about it than his brother ever was. But just beyond the fear, I can sense an excitement about venturing o% on his own and experiencing what his brother has labeled “the most incredible place in the universe.” I still have my collection of Art Linkletter books packed away in our garage somewhere. It might be fun to pull them out and share my mischievous letter-writing escapades with my kids before their summer sessions begin. But, come to think of it, that might inspire copycat behavior that would ultimately bring me down. I realize now how precious those camper letters really are to parents. Just a few scribbled words before running o% to play Sports mean more than any kid can imagine. I tell my kids that they don’t have to write me letters from camp. "ough I write to them daily. It’s a habit I started the !rst summer Levi went away. But I want them to have fun, to be happy and carefree. "e last thing I want to do is saddle them with the responsibility of having to write home. Plus, maybe I’m just a little afraid that there’s a heap of karmic mail $oating around in the universal post o&ce that really does deserve to !nd its way back to my doorstep as some kind of payback. So I think I’ll keep my Linkletter books safely packed away and my Allan Sherman CD with the infamous “Hello Muddah, Hello Faddah” song locked in my armoire until they’re a few years older, say maybe in their 30s, with kids of their own. After all, it’s not until then that we start to really appreciate our own parents and feel sorrow for the silly, stupid, sel!sh things we did when we were little. O 2013 Camp Dates June 16-29 June 30-July 14 July 15-28 8-Day Camps: July 15-21 & July 21-28 Debra Rich Gettleman is a mother and blogger based in the Phoenix area. For more of her work, visit unmotherlyinsights.com. Now Enrolling For 2013! Be a Star! Sign up today! FUN Our Early Childhood Center fosters each child’s intellectual, physical, emotional, social and language development. Music, Science, Spanish, Hebrew and Creative Movement enhance a curriculum that prepares children for their journey ahead. Nurturing and Loving Environment Small Class Ratios Highly Qualified Staff Part-time and Full-time Hours (Infants - Pre K) We welcome new students and would be pleased to show THEATER WORKS you our school. Contact our Early Childhood Center At Peoria Center for the Performing Arts Director, Debbie Glassman, at 480.951.5825 www.templekolami.org/early-childhood-center SUMMER CAMP Temple Kol Ami Welcome 2013 Camps templekolami.org Sing . Dance . Act . Play … Be LIVE @LHYYV\UK[OLH[YLWYVNYHTZHUKZ\TTLYJHTWZ MVYHNLZ¶ `LHYZVSK ;VYLNPZ[LYWSLHZL]PZP[^^^[OLH[LY^VYRZVYN VYJHSS[OL)V_6MÄJLH[ ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 33 [CAMPS] BB Camp cultivates confidence By Suzye M. Kleiner Camp is about activities, friendships, the great outdoors, skill building, self- management, leadership, building community, Shabbat walks and havdallah, songs and spirit – it all adds up to a lot of fun. Beneath the fun, an important quality is helping to shape individuals. imply put, camp boosts con!dence. Layers of di%erent camp experi- ences help foster con!dence, which Sis something that helps kids resist peer pressure, work toward goals and become open to change. B’nai B’rith Camp has been fostering these positives since 1921. According to the American Camp Association’s 2011 research report: .' of campers say camp helped them feel good about themselves; ,) of campers say they tried things at camp that they were afraid to do at !rst; and ,% of parents say their camper gained self-con!dence at camp. “Camp is an opportunity for kids to be kids, delve into new experiences and do it on their own terms. "ey not only learn who they are, they create who they are while strengthening their Jewish identity,” said Michelle Koplan, executive BB CAMP REGISTRATION Visit bbcamp.org to register for camp. director of BB Camp. “Kids Check out the new track programs not only gain con!dence held during the one-week Maccabee when they master a skill, but session for basketball or theater open they are building con!dence to fifth- to eighth-graders. along the way.” BB Camp helps train counselors to recognize campers’ strengths, using a variety of programs centered on building self-con!- dence in campers. Much of the counselor training is focused on teaching valuable life skills, such as problem solving and negotiating situations. The high-ropes course “I like to loan kids some con!dence till at BB Camp instills they grab their own,” said Vicki Gordon, confidence and waterfront director 2012, who !rst came teamwork among to BB Camp in 1979. Her favorite part of campers. 34 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE camp has always been “skill builders” because of the con!dence that comes with mastering a new skill. "e ropes course is an obvious camp activity that instills A summer of Jewish, outdoor, and recreational activities on the con!dence. It is a challenge by choice opportunity where a Oregon Coast major component is peer encouragement – it’s teamwork. "is team approach plays out throughout the BB Camp experience, First Time Camper? whether it’s on the water, performing, cleaning cabins or leading a Maccabiah team. Up to $1000 Grants Available! “I try to instill a sense of encouraging ‘spirit’ and it has a domino e%ect. I cheer on a camper, care about the camper, other kids see a camper be successful, and then everyone starts to feel it,” said Jason Arch, 21, a counselor who started at BB Camp at age 8. Camp empowers kids to feel a di%erent comfort level than they feel in the real world where they are bombarded by homework and other commitments. Every type of personal- ity bene!ts from the camp experience, and kids attempt things they would never try at home. “Volleyball has become such a positive aspect in my daugh- ter’s life, one she wouldn’t have found without BB Camp,” said Emily Bauman, a parent. “A counselor recognized a spark of an interest and taught her techniques that gave her the con!dence to try out for the volleyball team at school.” For 2013, BB Camp will be o%ering new immersion basketball and theater track programs for its one-week Macca- bee session. Registration is now open for the entire summer. O Suzye Kleiner resides in Scottsdale, AZ, and loves spending her sum- mers at BB Camp. She has enjoyed the positions of camp store man- www.bbcamp.org ager, photographer and writer. ESCAPE TO CAMP ALONIM alonim.com (877) 2-ALONIM in Southern California SUMMER 2013 Session 1: June 18 - June 30 Mini Cam p: June 23 - June 30 Sess ion 2: July 2 - July 21 Session 3 Grades : July 23 - August 11 CIT 2-11 : June 17 - August 11 Activities Include: Arts & Crafts Soccer Organic G Camp sh Drama ardening uttle Baseball Horseba Israeli Da ck Riding a ncing Basketball Te vailable from Ad va (Nature & Hiking) venture Course Archery Rad Creative Writing io Broadcasting Tennis Mountain Biking L Cooking Y AX oga Music Gaga Swimm and ing Overnights Burbank SCHOLARSH IPS AVAILABLE! ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 35 [CAMPS] News CAMP STEIN WELCOMES NEW DIRECTOR Congregation Beth Israel welcomes Brian Mitchell as the new director of Camp Daisy and Harry Stein for summer 2013. Brian is originally from St. Louis, MO, and graduated from Indiana University in 1999. For the past year and a half, Brian has been the director of the University of Missouri Hillel at Columbia. He previously was the senior assistant director of the Union for Reform Judaism’s (URJ) Crane Lake Camp in West Stockbridge, MA. Brian has also been a member and standards visitor of the American Camping Association. He has been involved with Jewish camps all his life. Brian says he can’t wait to get started. "e public is invited to the Prescott camp for an open house on Sunday, March 31, from 10 am to 2 pm. RSVP online by March 24 at campstein.com. Top left: If a camper brings a guitar to FRIENDLY PINES CAMPERS GET BROAD BLEND OF FUN Camp Alonim, counselors will teach him how to play a Hebrew song. Top right: An Arizona tradition since 1941, Friendly Pines Camp turns childhood moments Water sports are popular at Friendly Pines into life’s rich memories. High in the heart of the cool, pine-clad Bradshaw Moun- Camp near Prescott. Above: Three-year- tains near Prescott, AZ, the camp o%ers over 30 activities for both girls and boys, olds enjoy varied activities at Temple Kol ages 6-13, in June and July. Campers from around the world choose from a list that Ami’s summer camp for preschoolers. 36 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE includes horseback riding, waterskiing, rock climbing, sports, performing arts, !ne arts, pets, hiking, canoeing and kayaking, (YPaVUH»Z7YLTPLY and much more. With its low camper to sta% ratios, Friendly 1L^PZO:\TTLY6]LYUPNO[*HTW Pines provides a safe, well-supervised environment where kids can enjoy all the wonders of childhood. For more information, visit friendlypines.com. KOL AMI CAMP CHANGES WEEKLY FOR PRESCHOOLERS Temple Kol Ami in Scottsdale gears up for another fun summer for infants through pre-kindergarten. "e 10-week camp pro- gram includes a variety of activities with exciting weekly themes that o%er challenging and innovative learning opportunities: music, creative movement, science, Spanish, water play and Shabbat. Weekly fees are available for part-time and full-day programs. For more information, visit templekolami.org. CAMP ALONIM CREATES SPARKS Camp Alonim strives to spark a love for Jewish culture, tradi- tion and community in campers by exposing them to a multi- tude of ways to be Jewish. Camp Alonim sta% see every activity as a “gateway” – a means by which to engage with being Jewish. By starting with activities a child already enjoys, counselors show him or her how that activity might be Jewish, thereby making it a gateway to a Jewish connection. For example, a camper who brings his electric guitar to camp will learn to play a Hebrew song. A camper who loves to play basketball will learn about Jewish values such as teamwork, humility and fair play while she is on the court. Jewish camping has been found to be one of the most e%ec- tive methods of Jewish education, ensuring a Jewish identity in adulthood. It is so e%ective because it is a complete immersion experience where Jewish values are lived and modeled by the sta%, the rhythm of the week is anchored by Shabbat, and Jewish culture is brought to life through song, dance and experiential education. A program of the American Jewish University, the camp is set in Simi Valley, CA. "e picturesque grounds include a climbing wall, basketball courts, Ga-ga pit, swimming pool, sports !elds and a beautiful Havdallah garden. JUNE 12 - JULY 30 For more information, visit alonim.com. THEATER WORKS EXPANDS YOUTH PROGRAMMING "eater Works, located in Peoria, AZ, is proud to present a summer day-camp experience like no other. Unprecedented demand for "eater Works Youth programming in its one-of- a-kind, state-of-the-art performing arts venue prompted the program to expand its youth programming. Campers experience a topnotch summer theater camp in a facility that was built for actors and audiences. Choose from a summer camp series that o%ers a full-scale musical production, a comedy slapstick play and three one-week workshops. Prices have been restructured to be more family- LIVING JUDAISM friendly and we now o%er a variety of dates that are sure to summer of fun meet the needs of even the busiest vacationers. Break-out work- shops will place kids with their peers for more age-appropriate Lifetime of Memories training. Professional artists will guide the way in this non- -VYTVYLPUMVYTH[PVUJVU[HJ[+PYLJ[VY)YPHU4P[JOLSS competitive, safe environment. Campers can design their own H[JHTWKPYLJ[VY'JIPHaVYNVY summer program based on what they love about theater. For more information, visit theaterworks.org. O ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 37 [CAMPS] Jewish camps change to CAMP meet the needs of each new era City youth head off to Camp Judaea. By Eileen R. Warshaw, Ph.D. Jewish summer camps are a uniquely American invention, an invention that over the years has changed the lives of countless Jewish youngsters. Founded in 1883 by the Jewish Working Girls Vacation Society, located in New York, the first Jewish summer camp was a girls’ camp. 38 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE "ere is broad agreement about the power of all summer camps as a transformational experience for chil- dren, but that has been especially true at Jewish camps. "e e%ects of camping on Jewish identity are well documented. Jewish Camping 2000, by Gary Tobin and Meryle Weinstein, cites an Atlanta Federation study that showed that adults who attended Jewish camp as children are more than 50% more likely to belong to a synagogue than those who did not attend camp. Over the centuries, Jewish camps have evolved to meet the community’s Campers enjoy Camp Charles Pearlstein (now Camp Stein) in Prescott, AZ, in 2011. most pressing needs. No longer focused on providing refuge from the squalor of the inner city, today the Jewish camp- ing experience may be speci!cally “Going to Jewish camp has made me a prouder Jew because focused on celebrating the art of Yiddish, computer science being at camp just makes me feel more spiritual in general with and the Kabbalah, kosher cuisine or Jewish ethics Judaism. It has changed me for the better to grow and be a better in the teenager’s high- tech world. leader to everyone I love. It has changed my life positively; it has Today, with brought me my best friends, family and the love of my life.” synagogue member- ship dwindling, the – Brooke Wolinsky, Camp Daisy and Harry Stein (formerly struggle to instill Jewish leadership in the next genera- Camp Charles Pearlstein), 2004-2012 tion is a daunting task. "e Jewish camp of today is one of the crucial tools being utilized to build pride of heritage in today’s youth, the Jewish "e concept expanded widely at the turn of the 20th century as a means of giving leaders of tomorrow. inner-city youth, many of whom were European immigrants living in the squalor of Camp programs have de!nitely settlement houses or orphanages, a chance to breathe the unpolluted air of the country- changed, but yesterday and today Jewish side. Focused on social services, some of the camps directed their programming as a way campers still sit around camp!res in the to accelerate new immigrant children into the American Jewish way of life. same camps their grandparents attend- In the polio epidemic of the 1940s and ’50s, many inner-city youth were sent to ed. Campers still !ll the night skies with summer camps in the belief that the fresh air and camp activities would help to stop the Israeli songs old and new. Jewish camps spread of the crippling disease. continue to build Jewish pride, com- In the 1950s and ’60s the focus of the camps shifted from social services to edu- bat assimilation and build friendships cational experiences and Jewish identity. "ese fresh-air programs blended spiritual, that last a lifetime. Sometimes those educational and recreational components. "e campers were Jewish, and the camps were friendships become a Jewish family and run by Jewish communities with Jewish counselors, in a nurturing and supportive Jew- the next generation of Jewish campers. ish manner. "e camps o%ered common Jewish experiences, building lifelong friend- "e statement above proves that while ships in the fun of the outdoors. Jewish camps will continue to adapt to “Summer sleepover camp is where I learned con!dence and forged lifelong friend- our community’s needs, some things ships,” states 1950s camper Dr. Barry Friedman, of Tucson. “It taught me to ‘give it a stay eternally the same, and the mission shot,’ I couldn’t fail. My experiences at camp, what I learned there about myself and life of the Jewish camp is ful!lled today as it in general, have been instrumental in directing me along a Jewish life.” was yesterday. O ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 39 [FOOD] Where do JEWISH PEOPLE EAT? By A. Noshman as barstools – with a sleek hardwood interior design and modern Remember when pizza was kid food? It was the most antici- !xtures. pated lunch in the school cafeteria, and in Arizona, it was a real It’s a beautiful night and the windows are open. "e sounds treat to go to Shakey’s or Organ Stop Pizza. At home, Mom and smells of the restaurant spill outside. It’s kind of a loud would make the dreaded homemade pizza from a box or, almost place; alternative music is playing, but it’s happy people talking as bad, frozen pizzas that really didn’t taste much like pizza at and eating that makes most of the noise. all. "ere were a few neighborhood places in Phoenix like Red "ere are 16 draft beers on the menu, a nice wine list and Devil Pizza, where you could phone in an order but you had to some very interesting cocktail specialties. We settle in for our pick it up yourself. "en came Domino’s with home delivery and dining experience with a great deal of hope, which is kind of Pizza Hut, but for the most part, all of this stu% was doughy dashed by a waiter who doesn’t know too much about the menu. bread with canned tomato sauce and melted mozzarella. Fear not though, the food speaks for itself. Here’s what we had: Yet, we ate it because pizza shares the same quality that all ideal foods do. No utensils are required. ODELL MYRCENARY DOUBLE IPA SNIFTER $5 It is served in a brandy Today, there are gourmet pizza shops, take-home-and-bake glass to allow the $oral aroma and citrus $avors to breathe and pizzas, thin crust, deep you to breathe it in. Look out, dish, white pizza, Greek though, it has a 9.3% alcohol pizza, fried egg pizza and content; maybe the small just about any kind of glass is a good thing if you’re pizza you can dream up. driving. Because we are hard- wired from childhood to CAPONATA BRUSCHETTA $7.50 adore pizza, the disap- Sweet and Sour Eggplant/ pointment of biting into Roasted Peppers/Pine Nuts/ a mediocre slice is just so Currants/Herbed Ricotta sad for me. I’m constantly Spread I am a sucker for looking for a delicious roasted peppers and love egg- pie, and I have found it plant, so this one was an obvi- at a restaurant called "e ous choice; it was scrumptious. Parlor Pizzeria – a name Crispy bruschetta mounded that honors the beauty with sweet, smoky herbal parlour that occupied yumminess. It was comforting that space for 58 years, and complex and delicious. Salon de Venus. ARANCINE $8.50 Crispy Sa"ron Risotto/Provolone/ The Parlor Pizzeria $$ Pomodoro 1916 E. Camelback Rd. Out came three meatball-looking (it’s Phoenix, AZ 85016 not meat) fried rice balls swimming in theparlor.us a red sauce that just screamed “eat me.” "ey were crispy on the outside, but tender Gone are rows of hair dryers and the ladies with on the inside, and not their shampoo sets. "e restaurant has been beautifully the least bit greasy. "e made over into a trendy, hipster joint that combines pomodoro was fresh cool original features of the ’50s-era building – like the and $avorful. "e two see-through block wall in the front and the salon chairs of us looked at each 40 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE other when it came down to the last rice ball and no words needed to be said. It was cut into equal halves because no one was going to o%er to give up the last bite. MIXED GREEN DINNER SALAD WITH WHITE BALSAMIC VINAIGRETTE $5 FINALLY... I had a confession to make. I have never heard of, let alone tasted, white balsamic vinegar, so this I had to have. It was truly delicious. "e salad was cold, crisp and fresh, perfect AN ALTERNATIVE! really, and the dressing was out of this world. White balsamic is lighter and not as sweet as dark balsamic, which makes it an excellent and aesthetically pleasing ingredient for a dressing. I am going to look for this in the store. FUNGHI PIZZA $8 (8” PERSONAL PIZZA) Roasted Mushrooms/ Goat Cheese/Tru#e Oil/Chives "ere is a list of house specialty pizzas or you can build your own. "is one sounded delicious, as I am a fan of the mushroom in or on anything, so I went with it. It’s a thin crust pizza (not a cracker), and it arrives hot and loaded with a variety of mushrooms that taste like they were sautéed before they were baked on the pizza. It is fresh and wonderful. "e crust is golden brown from the wood-!red oven, and at this price it really can’t be beat. Abe’s of Scottsdale Deli and Restaurant belongs to a very different ARTICHOKE HEART AND SPINACH PIZZA $8 (8” PERSONAL PIZZA) delicatessen era, the glamorous age of 1930s Times Square delis "is was a build-your-own a%air and, like the other pizza, where Broadway performers ducked out between shows for a pastrami came loaded with toppings. "e artichoke hearts were huge on rye. Abe’s of Scottsdale is pleased to open this fall in the Acacia but invisible under the generous serving of fresh spinach leaves. "e menu says that they use a house blend of cheeses, Creek Village Shopping Center at the southwest corner of Scottsdale and I’m not sure what it is but it works! Road and Gold Dust Avenue behind California Pizza Kitchen. BREAD PUDDING $6.50 House-Made Brioche/Roasted Chestnuts/Dates/Tuaca Custard My friend, who for the past 15 minutes has been saying how stu%ed she is, orders dessert. What’s that about? She goes for the bread pudding, and it is elegantly served on a large plate in a pool of custard sauce. "e bread pudding has a crispy, powdered sugar-coated crust. It falls apart in chunks in the shape of croutons under the pressure of our fast-moving forks, and she says, “I think these are croutons.” It wasn’t your traditional bread pudding, but I can report there was none left. "e custard sauce was heavenly and reminded me of warm rummy eggnog. It was worthy of spooning up after the bread pudding was gone. "ere was one disappointment. As I mentioned earlier, the cocktail specialties looked interesting and I felt like having an after-dinner drink. "e one I ordered, a rye and apple bitters with cinnamon, apparently was a “seasonal” drink and no longer available. I asked the waiter to please double check because he hadn’t been that knowledgeable about the menu before, but, darn it, he was right this time. "is is a pet peeve of mine. If you don’t have it, don’t put it on the menu. Kids grow up and I guess pizza does too, and 10050 N. Scottsdale Road, Suite 127 that’s why there was tru'e oil on mine. "e Parlor is a charming place with very good food Scottsdale, Arizona 85253 at reasonable prices. I will go back, though not on Sundays, when they are closed. I still want TEL: (480) 699-5700 that drink! O www.abesdeliscottsdale.com Contact A. Noshman at a.noshman@azjewishlife. com. ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 41 [FOOD] Demystifying the Grape By Mark Gluckman So my editor asks me to write an article about wine – maybe something about kosher wines? During a Torah class I attend, the subject of kosher wine comes up at times. OK, I’m in the wine business, and I’m curious about what is considered kosher wine. A quick heads up, I am a very secular Jew. In one sentence, a kosher wine must be produced, handled and supervised from the beginning by Shabbat-observant Jews and must contain only kosher ingre- dients. "at said, here is the wine version of the typical Jewish answer to almost any question: it’s a kosher wine if … however it "ere’s a simple answer. Sweet is adding could be kosher when …, but then maybe it would be considered kosher at times. Got four tablespoons of sugar to your iced tea; that? Neither do I, but that’s the beauty of Judaism – the discussion, the arguments. fruity is biting into an apple or orange. Unfortunately, in the Phoenix market a consistent source of good kosher wines ex- People confuse wine that is fruity, like ists not. Trader Joe’s had a wonderful kosher tempranillo from Spain for about $5, but sauvignon blanc or chardonnay, with they no longer carry it. Costco had a lovely Italian kosher moscato for $6, but it’s hit wine that is sweet, like Concord grape, or miss which Costcos have it. AJ’s and Whole Foods also have an array of wines, but white zinfandel or moscato. In fact, there again each store has a di%erent selection. So I switched subjects – good wines under is a huge di%erence. A wine can be dry $12, that’s easy. As I started the hunt, I realized it’s too subjective. What’s good? I’m and fruity, or sweet and fruity but not not going to drink a $5 moscato, white merlot or riesling, and there are people who dry and sweet. A grape is normally fruity, would never drink a big earthy $7 Bordeaux that needs two hours out of the bottle to while the grape that becomes a raisin is breathe. sweet; drying the fruit concentrates the "en it occurred to me: Ask my clients. I had them each write one question they residual sugar. A dry wine is a wine that would love answered about wine. I carried a notebook with me and queried more than isn’t sweet – nothing more complicated 100 people. Here is a smattering of the questions: than that. Most of the wine sold in the Aren’t corks better than screw tops? I don’t think cork is better than a screw top, U.S. is dry, and that holds true be it and neither do some very prominent wineries. Tests have shown that in the short term, red or white. Dryness is the absence of meaning 10 years and under, screw caps were as good a seal as cork for wine, if not sweetness, so white wines can be just as better. Researchers at U.C.-Davis will test the e%ects of various types of seals on 600 dry as red wines. Remember, when you bottles of Sauvignon Blanc including natural cork, screw caps and synthetic cork. "e add lemon to that sweet iced tea, it is results will not be known until the summer of 2013, when a chemical analysis will be now sweet and fruity. O conducted on the wines. So it seems the only reason to prefer corks can be summed up perfectly by Tevye: “Tradition!” In the early 1970s while spending a year in What’s with the ratings and what do they mean? Europe, Mark Gluckman began his oenology A wine with a higher rating is normally more expensive than average wines, al- education when he decided wine was both though this is not always true. Some ratings take price into consideration, much like an economical and legal intoxicant. When he Consumer Reports does when assessing a car or washing machine. A major drawback returned to the U.S., a wine guru named Ralph to wine ratings? "ey’re absolutely subjective, and the taster’s opinion is colored by at Trader Joe’s guided his love of the grape. various factors: mood, food, company. With movies I will ask people or read reviewers Ralph pointed to a $1.99 1971 Saint Emilion whom I know have similar taste, and I do the same with wine. My friend Amy loves and a 1975 Nuits-Saint-Georges and explained gory slasher horror !lms (I don’t), so I would not ask her about !lms, but I would trust they were either $12 wines (a fortune at the her implicitly with picking out a great Gevrey Chambertin. On the other hand, my time) or great vinegar. Since then, Mark has Aunt Jewels has impeccable taste in foreign movies; however, I would not ask her to worked in restaurants as a waiter, busboy, recommend wines. She slugs Manischewitz Elderberry while watching Akira Kuro- wine steward, wine buyer and even as an sowa’s “Rashomon.” owner. You can email your wine questions to What’s the di%erence between sweet and fruity? Mark at [email protected]. "is concept is the biggest cause of bewilderment in the neophyte wine drinker. 42 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE #SFBLGBTUt-VODIt%JOOFS tFalafel t#VSHFST 4BMBETt8SBQTt4PVQT t4IXBSNB 1J[[Bt1BOJOJT t4IJTI,BCPC Fresh Challah Every Friday! t4IBCCBUUPHP 7116 East Mercer Lane, Scottsdale Arizona BNoQN.POo5IVST BNoQN.POo5IVST 8 a.m. – 3 p.m. Friday 8 a.m. – 3 p.m. Friday Saturday Night 1 hr after Shabbat Saturday Night 1 hr after Shabbat 480.609.3879 480.948.3776 mozartscottsdale.com paprikascottsdale.com ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 43 [ARTS AND ENTERTAINMENT] The Storyteller Since Valley residents shared their stories with her, novelist Jodi Picoult shares her new novel in Arizona By Debra Rich Gettleman t’s a bit intimidating to !nd yourself on the other end of the telephone with one of the top-selling novelists in the world. But when she’s as bubbly, personable and unassuming as Jodi Picoult, you quickly forget about her multiple No. 1 best-sellers and !nd yourself enjoy- ing the chat as if you were longtime pals catching up on old times. Picoult’s novels My Sister’s Keeper, Van- ishing Acts, !e Tenth Circle, House Rules, Handle with Care and Lone Wolf are just some of her New York Times best-sellers. Best-selling author IBut we’re not talking about her admi- Jodi Picoult speaks rable achievements, impressive academic credentials or numerous honors and awards on her new novel, today. What brings us together today is The Storyteller Jodi Picoult her newest book, scheduled for release Feb. 26. Called !e Storyteller, it’s about TUCSON a beloved 90-year-old man, Josef Weber, Tucson Festival of Books their daughter on her next visit. Weiser and his unlikely friendship with Sage, said his !rst conversation with Picoult was a young woman who works in the local March 9, 1 pm at University of wonderful. “"e next thing I knew she New Hampshire town’s bakery. Josef has Arizona; Student Union, was over at the house, and we spent hours a strange request for Sage: to help him Ballroom, 1303 E. University talking about the history, possible story die. “It’s what I deserve,” he confesses, and Blvd., 2nd Floor lines, viewing photos ...” brandishes a photo of himself in an SS Contact: 520-954-3300 Wieser explains that Picoult eventu- o&cer uniform. Complicating things just a ally connected with Peter Black, head wee bit more is the fact that Sage’s grand- PHOENIX historian at the USHMM. He helped mother, Minka, a Holocaust survivor, has a March 10, 1-3 pm at her enormously with details and accuracy. surprising connection to Josef. Congregation Beth Israel, Picoult also worked with someone in the Sage struggles to comprehend her special investigations o&ce – a real live 10460 N. 56th St., Scottsdale grandmother’s story of survival and how Nazi hunter, whose job it is to !nd and she was able to live a peaceful and produc- Contact: 480-947-2974 prosecute former Nazis. According to tive life after the brutality and horrors she Pre-event: Private reception Picoult, the road to prosecution is tough, endured at the hands of the Nazis. But hosted by ADL: 602-274-0991 since you cannot prosecute genocide in Sage also is plagued by how a respected this country unless perpetrated by Ameri- elder who coached Little League and cans against Americans. “"e only way taught German at the local high school to punish former Nazis is to catch them could have committed acts of unthinkable on immigration violations,” she explains. evil. In !e Storyteller Picoult takes readers into the mind of a “"en you can extradite them and hope that their home country Nazi, o%ering his own rationale to justify his acts of horror. She prosecutes them.” also draws us into the heart of a remarkable survivor whose path Picoult also spoke with several local survivors. “Every single to forgiveness has taught her how to go on living. Holocaust survivor is inspiring,” she insists. But she especially Picoult did extensive research for this novel here in the Valley. connected with Mania Salinger, spending the most time and She spoke with several survivors as well as Paul Wieser, a local e%ort getting to know her story. “Mania reminded me so much Holocaust historian and Mandel fellow of the U.S. Holocaust of my grandmother,” says Picoult. “I’m so grateful she allowed Memorial Museum. Picoult’s parents heard Wieser speak at a me to ri$e through her memories.” Picoult says she and Salin- Jewish !lm festival in town and asked if he would meet with ger have become good friends, and she praises Salinger for her 44 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE commitment to telling her story to young people and speaking religious and philosophical debate about whether or not some- to school groups. one who commits brutal acts of hatred and violence can ever be One of Picoult’s greatest compliments on !e Storyteller came forgiven. For Picoult, “"e Holocaust represents the greatest act when she sent Salinger several chapters of an early manuscript to of evil in our history.” "us it provided a perfect environment to read. Salinger read the !rst chapter about the Jewish ghetto and explore the issues of good versus evil and forgiveness. had to put it down before going on. “She told me it was too real,” While Picoult admits to having a personal connection to the says Picoult. “She had to work up the courage to read the second subject because of her Jewish heritage, she reminds us, “Jews chapter.” "at gave Picoult faith that she had accurately depicted were not the only victims of the Holocaust’s genocide. Lots of the horrors of that devastating period in history. other people were grievously a%ected by the Nazi regime.” !e Storyteller raises questions about the absolute nature of "e relevance of hatred is still palpable for Jews and people good and evil. According to Picoult, “No one is ever black and throughout the world. No one knows that better than the Anti- white. "ere are always extenuating circumstances. You can’t look Defamation League, which !ghts anti-Semitism and all forms at good or evil in a vacuum. You have to see the world as it is.” of bigotry in the U.S. and abroad through information, educa- Picoult’s research has also taught her to avoid absolutes and tion, legislation and advocacy. "e ADL has joined Congrega- generalizations about any group. “It’s a mistake to assume that tion Beth Israel to promote Picoult’s visit to Phoenix on Sunday, all Nazis were evil. "ere were individuals who did something to March 10. She will speak at Congregation Beth Israel from 1 to save lives.” She also points out the error of the belief that Nazis 3 pm. ADL is sponsoring a pre-event private reception. who refused to kill Jews were shot for insurrection. “"at’s just Bill Straus, Arizona Regional Director of ADL, says, “We are not true,” Picoult recounts, “a Nazi wouldn’t have been shot on connected to Jodi Picoult both through her parents (who live the spot if he said no to harming Jews.” here) and through the ongoing education ADL does with regard Picoult was raised in a Jewish family but doesn’t consider her- to the Holocaust. Ms. Picoult’s research for this book included self a practicing Jew. She did have relatives who died in the Ho- a survivor who lives here in the Valley, and also Paul Wieser, locaust. Beyond her personal connection, however, Picoult was who for years was our director of education here. As one of this drawn to the subject through Simon Wiesenthal’s compelling region’s most knowledgeable authorities and educators on the book, !e Sun#ower, in which Wiesenthal recounts his experience Holocaust, Paul’s contribution to the writing of the book created in Lemberg Concentration Camp in 1943, when he was sum- a natural tie to the work we do in this area.” O moned to the bedside of a dying Nazi to o%er forgiveness for the man’s heinous crimes against Jews. Wiesenthal’s book sparked Debra Rich Gettleman is freelance writer and blogger based in Phoenix. ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 45 [ARTS AND ENTERTAINMENT] From Shul David was associate By Janet Arnold artistic director at Actors "eatre of St. Paul from avid Ira Gold- 1983-86 and also served stein’s theatrical to Stage as a consultant for the career began in National Endowment for the shul where the Arts (NEA), travel- he became a bar mitzvah. He ing to various theaters Dwas a teenager in the Jewish throughout the country suburb St. Louis Park in and writing reports on Minneapolis and his temple the strengths and needs was putting on that mainstay of regional theaters. In of community musicals, “"e this capacity he was also Music Man.” David won the able to expand his net- role of Mayor Shinn, and his work of colleagues, which career took o% from there. in turn, led to invita- “My shul is a bit famous,” tions to direct at theaters David adds, “not because of across the country. ‘"e Music Man’ for sure, but He has directed in because it is the same one theaters from Alaska to used in the Coen brothers’ Florida and most places movie, ‘A Serious Man.’” in between. Before com- Now in his 21st year as ing to Arizona "eatre artistic director of Arizona Company, he was as- "eatre Company, David sociate artistic director at looked back at his entrée ACT "eatre in Seattle. into the theater world with In 1992, he had come a nostalgic grin. "e sole After catching the theater bug as a teen, David Ira to Tucson to direct “Oth- member of his family to be Goldstein grew up to lead Arizona Theatre Company er People’s Money” for intrigued by the arts, David Arizona "eatre Compa- nonetheless received great ny when he was asked if support from his parents and he’d like to apply for the siblings. While they might The Sunshine Boys position of artistic direc- have preferred he go into law PRESENTED BY: Arizona Theatre Company tor of ATC. He jumped or medicine, they accepted WHEN: March 2-23 in Tucson, March 28-April 14 in Phoenix at the chance, though the fact that he had a pen- he did have to have a WHERE: Temple of Fine Arts, 330 S. Scott Ave., Tucson chant for the arts, attended suit sent from Seattle his shows and encouraged Herberger Theater Center, 222 E. Monroe, Phoenix by FedEx so he could his drive. He received his DETAILS: arizonatheatre.org look presentable for the bachelor of !ne arts degree interview. Since that time and started in the theater he has produced more as an actor, but he eventually realized that he was even more than 190 mainstage plays, workshops and presentations, includ- interested in directing. ing acclaimed appearances by the Royal National "eatre of Great After acting at various venues around the Twin Cities, he Britain and the "eatre Royal Bath. He received the 2010 Leader returned to school at the University of Minnesota to earn of the Year Award in Arts and Humanities from the Capitol Times a master’s in !ne arts, with a directing emphasis. He soon and the 2003 Governor’s Arts Award as Individual Artist for his discovered that while his potential career as an actor might not contributions to the arts in Arizona. be successful, his future as a director was very bright. He’s been David recently was able to cross one desire o% his bucket list: to steadily employed as a director ever since. direct “Fiddler on the Roof.” “With such a terri!c book and won- 46 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE derful music, ‘Fiddler’ is a joy to direct. We had only three Jews in the cast at Village "eatre (Seattle), so we brought in several rabbis to help with background. I’ve always wanted to be able to bring this show ‘To Life’ and had a great time doing it.” Not wanting to be type-cast as a director of just “comedies” or “musicals,” David directs them all, including Shakespeare. While he has directed intimate, small shows, he prefers to direct a large-cast show, such as a musical or Shakespearean produc- tion. His training emphasized this kind of work, and David !nds it both challenging and rewarding to paint the large pictures on the stage. When directing for ATC, David wears dual hats as the stage director and company artistic director, which gives him great authority and also great responsibility. As artistic director, David chooses the season. "is year he has included the Neil Simon classic “"e Sunshine Boys,” which he will direct himself. “I think of ‘"e Sunshine Boys’ as a bridge play between Simon’s earlier comedies and his later, more signi!cant works. I’d count it among his top !ve plays, alongside ‘"e Odd Couple,’ ‘Brighton Beach,’ ‘Broadway Bound’ and ‘Lost in Yonkers.’” Written in 1972, “"e Sunshine Boys” tells the story of the vaudeville comedy team of Lewis and Clark. "ey’re aging and haven’t performed together for 11 years, mostly because they can’t stand each other! "ey agree to reunite for one last TV performance, if they can manage to get along long enough for the taping. It is most likely based on the comedy team of Smith and Dale (born Sultzer and Marks), who performed with heavy Jewish dialects and memorable one-liners. Simon may have also been in$uenced by Gallagher & Shean. Shean was born Albert Schoenberg and was the brother of Minnie Marx, the mother of the Marx brothers. “"is play has a great mix of comedy and pathos. Simon got the mix just right,” David opines. “It’s very honest and touching. Simon knows this world. "eir bickering is so Jewish. "e play deals with issues of aging, friendship, resentment and reconcilia- tion, all wrapped up in the comic genius of Neil Simon’s writing.” In 2011 ATC produced “Lost in Yonkers.” For the part of the crotchety grandmother, they brought in Judy Kaye from New York. Judy is a two-time Tony award winning actress who was born and raised in Phoenix. And now, for “"e Sunshine Boys,” 520-622-2823 | www. arizonatheatre.org ATC is bringing in David Green, who happens to be Judy’s hus- band, for the role of Al Lewis. David was seen on the ATC stage last season in “Sherlock Holmes and the Adventure of the Suicide Club” and has extensive Broadway credits as well. Nemesis Willie Clark will be played by Peter Van Norden with Bob Sorenson, a Valley favorite, in the role of Ben Silverman, Willie’s nephew. Also appearing is Phoenix actress Lillie Rich- ardson, University of Arizona student Caitlin Stegemoller and Seattle-based Jon Lutyens, fresh from his role as Mendel in the 602-256-6995 | www. arizonatheatre.org “Fiddler on the Roof,” which David recently directed. Putting on his stage director hat, David looks forward to yet another project. “You learn something about life and the human condition from each play you delve into. You !nd the themes, the Production Sponsor metaphors, the honesty. And I have a marvelous cast to add into the mix.” ATC is perhaps the only professional regional theater to produce in two cities. "e show will rehearse in Tucson and open there at the Temple of Music and Art on March 2. Assuming, of course, they can stop laughing long enough during the rehearsals to get the real work done. O ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 47 [FITNESS] Fitness Former Israeli aerobic dance champion now inspires Arizonans of all ages to stay fit Knows No Age Limit By Debra Rich Gettleman aerobic dance in 1993 and 1994. She represented Israel in the Every year at Passover we tell the story of the Jews leav- world championship in 1995. She also served in the Israeli Air ing Egypt. Whether you take that story to be a literal tale Force and was a !tness trainer for combat soldiers. She had a of a people moving from slavery into freedom, or a symbolic good life in Israel. representation of a massive psychic shift of consciousness, But after attending a seminar by People Unlimited in Tel in retelling the story it bene!ts us to look at our own lives, Aviv, she found a community of like-minded individuals who confront the issues that hold us back and !nd new ways to free shared her beliefs about agelessness and wellness. So she packed ourselves from the self-imposed limitations that curtail our up and moved to their headquarters here to Scottsdale. growth and impede our personal progress. Two years ago she opened her own gym, Enerjoy Fitness, to Ilana Arzt, founder and owner of Enerjoy Fitness in inspire people around her to move and stay healthy. Scottsdale, is the perfect person to help you challenge those “"is belief that you have to slow down as you age,” counsels old limiting patterns. As a daughter of Conservative Rabbi Ilana, “is simply not true. You actually have to speed up. But you Raphael Arzt, she grew up in Israel and found it curious that have to be smart about it. I’m inspired to move. So my clients “Jewish people were always so focused on the mind and the are inspired to move. We propel each other.” spirit. It was like they tended to ignore the body, to negate its Ilana’s clients range from people in their 20s to octogenar- importance.” Ever since Ilana can recall, she’s been educat- ians. She works with them on diet, exercise and overall well- ing people about the body and ness. In fact, six of her “masters” (age inspiring others to move beyond 60+) competed in last year’s Natural the limitations they often set for Figure and Body Building competi- themselves. tion in Mesa, AZ, an event attended “"ere is a common agree- by more than 300. Isa Parrault, 62; ment in society,” explains Ilana, Cheryle Piatelli, 64; Sandy Felkins, “that once you hit 40 you start 60; Christi Christians, 62; Christina declining. But that isn’t inevi- Iriza, 71; and Sara Goldenberg, 66, table.” She recognizes that the ac- donned string bikinis and brought cumulation of years and wear and the audience to its feet when they tear on the body is real. But with were introduced at Mesa Arts Center. the proper components, Ilana "eir beauty, vibrancy and con!dence guides people to replenish their was overwhelming. Like Ilana, these bodies and limit their discomfort women challenged the myths that from aging and disease. insist growing old means looking Ilana taught aerobics in Israel Ilana Arzt’s master bodybuilders range in age from 60-71 old, feeling old and thinking old. “It’s and have fun with their fitness. and was the Israeli champion in unheard of for women in their 60s 48 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE plus to look and feel this good,” says Ilana, “so we were excited to break new ground.” “Physically,” says Isa Parrault, “I am in better condition than I’ve ever been in my life.” Christi Christians agrees, adding, “I want to give the mes- Happy sage to people that we never have to give up, that we can be !t, beautiful and attractive at any age.” as a Ilana is proud of her masters team and the progress they have made. “I felt they could reach places they never dreamed of,” she con!des. “I knew it would give them a feeling of being unlimited Lark. and not giving in to the way that people think about aging. 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Boulder. Named for and taking some of its architectural styling cues “Wayne and I loved La Siena immediately, and I knew it was from the Italian city of the same name, La Siena, at 909 E. a new home I would enjoy,” says Joyce Stutzer. “It’s such a lovely Northern Ave., is just four years old, and in that short time has place, and the people here are marvelous.” already received !ve silver awards from the National Council of "e Listons moved to the community in September 2012 for Senior Housing. In addition to its design excellence, La Siena the same reasons: “We thought it was the best location and we o%ers Stutzer, the Listons and their neighbors resort-style living wanted to stay in the area where our children grew up,” Seema to meet their individual needs. says. Married for nearly 56 years, they have lived in Phoenix for On !ve acres, in view of Phoenix’s second-highest point, 50 years, where Herbert practiced podiatry for 30 years. Piestewa Peak, the four-story, 190-unit community o%ers "e couple has three children: Aaron, who lives in Corvallis, residents outstanding accommodations, premier community OR; Sally, who lives in Glendale, CA; and Elaine in Los Angeles. amenities, friendly neighbors and the opportunity to celebrate "ey have four grandchildren who are working or in colleges here their Jewish heritage. in Arizona and California. “I didn’t live too far from here – and I am happy I moved on One of 17 communities operated by SRG Senior Living, my own choice and not my children’s,” says Stutzer, who moved based in Solana Beach, CA, La Siena features “destinations to the Valley 36 years ago from Minneapolis with her husband, within the community” that encourage and enhance resident Gerald, who died a few years ago. For years, they ran a retail socialization, explains Mary Poisson, the community’s director of clothing business in McCormick Ranch. sales and marketing. She and one of her sons, Wayne Stutzer, a !nancial planner "ese spaces include the 41-seat surround-sound movie and senior vice president of RBC Wealth Management in the theater where residents can also watch sports events or the news Valley, chose the community late last year because of its conve- and even play Nintendo Wii’s bowling game. "e second-$oor nience, the option of either independent or assisted living, and clubhouse has an extensive library, where Stutzer and the Listons 50 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE can also play bridge or mah-jongg and discuss books with other residents in the community book club. And, in the craft room, the community schedules Monday and Friday morning ceramic classes and greeting-card creation and painting sessions "ursday afternoons. Salon PS, a full-service salon and spa, o%ers manicures and pedicures, massage therapy, facials, makeup application and hair and barber services. “"ey really know how to deal with an older person there,” Stutzer says. Dining o%ers two options: the formal Grande Canal restau- rant, with outdoor seating, and the more casual bistro. Here, too, is the always stocked Bud’s Pub, named for Bud Brown’s Barn, which once occupied the site. "e community also employs an onsite !tness instructor, who coordinates activities in the heated pool: “Our residents love do- ing laps and water aerobics,” Poisson says. In addition, there’s yoga, workouts in the fully equipped gym, shu'eboard, the Dance Studio or the putting green. Within three miles are the Moon Valley and Phoenix country clubs, both with 18-hole golf courses. "e community o%ers its challenging Brain Fitness classes designed to help reduce short-term memory loss. “"ese signature programs can often help rejuvenate your memory,” she explains. Stutzer and the Listons are enjoying their homes, with features such as granite countertops, stainless steel appliances, Your lifestyle continues here. washer and dryer, walk-in closet, covered patio or balcony and climate-control settings. "ey are also happy to live in a mainte- nance-free community without the burdens of household tasks. “A lady comes in once a week to clean,” Stutzer says, “and I Where you’ll find a distinctive blend of don’t have to worry about paying bills such as the electricity.” exceptional service, supportive health Seema adds, “"is gives us the opportunity to do the things we want to do without chores such as grocery shopping or even tak- and well-being programs and spacious ing care of appliances.” residences all designed to fit your lifestyle. Stutzer uses this time to go to the nearby Paradise Valley Mall and take part in the community singing group, "e Hipsters. She Come discover the full-service lifestyle also attends services whenever she can at Temple Chai, where she has been a member for 15 years. With La Siena’s program direc- awaiting you at La Siena. tor, Logan Johnston, she is also discussing enhancing La Siena’s gift shop. Call to schedule your personal tour today. Seema, who has a little more mobility than Herbert, takes education classes at the Women’s Jewish Learning Center at "e !"#.$%".!&%$ New Shul. And, there are regular community excursions to venues and events such as the Phoenix Art Museum, Desert Botanical Garden, Herberger "eater Center and Chase Field to see the Arizona Diamondbacks. All three say they appreciate the many opportunities La Siena provides for them to enjoy their religious and cultural heritage, INDEPENDENT & ASSISTED LIVING RESIDENCES with events such as Rosh Hashanah services onsite and orga- nized trips to activities at the Jewish Community Center in !"! East Northern Avenue, Phoenix, AZ #$"%" Scottsdale. SRGseniorliving.com “"is Hanukkah season we had Linda Feldman, the fantastic daughter of La Siena resident Ann Robin, who was a big part of our scheduled events,” Poisson says. “We lit the menorah and Commission for enjoyed the holidays in a very comfortable setting,” Seema adds. Ask how you can benefit from a CARF the Accreditation of On the !rst Friday of every month, a Shabbat dinner and accredited retirement community! Rehabilitation Facilities service is led by cantorial soloist Patricia Bruner. “It’s very nice, and Cantor Bruner is very good,” Stutzer says. “I wish we would O do it every week!” AN SRG SENIOR Your comfort. LIVING COMMUNITY Our privilege. David M. Brown (azwriter.com) is a Valley-based freelancer. ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 51 [SENIORS] Dear Kim, Last week I was grocery shopping with Helping Aging Parents Tackle Finances my 80-year-old mother and I noticed she was having trouble !lling out the check to pay the bill. When we got home, she told With each passing year, baby boomers increasingly me she couldn’t get her checkbook to bal- ance this month. For someone who was are called upon to aid their aging parents with meticulously organized with her doctor’s appointments, her medication and even everything from home repairs to health care. my appointments, her behavior caught me totally o% guard. Do you think I should One of the touchier topics tends to be !nances. help Mom with her money? How do I even begin to discuss the issue with her? As the author of the upcoming book "e Boomers’ Signed, Guide to Talking to Your Parents About "eir Devoted daughter Dear Devoted Daughter, Money, Kim Rosenberg has a few tips. 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Premier Sponsor of the Valley of the Sun Jewish Community Center in Scottsdale ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 53 [ISRAEL/AN ISRAELI IN AMERICA] The Israel National Trail Left: Nadine Nahome enjoys the view from a mountaintop on the northern stretch of Israel National Trail. Right: Hikers, such as Sharon and Nadine Nahome, are smart to pack swimsuits to take advantage of the many water features along the trail. By Natalie Nahome and around the monasteries on its peak, near the remains of an- "e Israel National Trail, listed in National Geographic’s 20 cient walls, corner towers, caves, exposed antiquities, spring blos- most “epic trails,” is a hiking trail that crosses Israel from south soms and views in any direction from the sides of the mountain. to north. Beginning at the Gulf of Aqaba in Eilat, it runs north TZIPPORI STREAM (LOWER GALILEE): Along the trail are streams of to Dan, near the Lebanese border crossing approximately 1,000 $owing water, improvised water pumps and a castle named "e km (620 miles) long. "e Israel National Trail has been de- Monks Mill. You can see the remains of another impressive scribed as a trail that “delves into the grand scale of biblical land- gristmill at the Alil ruins. scapes as well as the everyday lives of the modern Israeli.” MA’APILIM/NAKHASH STREAM (CARMEL): A walk along Nakhash Unfortunately, I have not yet had a chance to enjoy the trail, Stream provides a complete representation of the Carmel’s but my sisters Nadine and Sharon went on a three-day trip along hidden treasures: From the top of the trail and while walking the northern section of the trail. "ey enjoyed it so much they down the ravine, you can see an impressive view of the Northern plan to return and continue on from their stopping point. "e Coastal Plain and the Galilee. trail provides an amazing way to experience Israel through its SHAYAROT RANGE (JUDEAN MOUNTAINS): A trip to the Shayarot Range nature and history, and it o%ers splendid views. provides views down to the Coastal Plain and up to the Judean Because the hike is so long, hikers often seek help from “trail Mountains, walking routes, caves and an abundance of $owers in angels” who o%er “lawns to sleep on,” “a room with a shower” or the spring. "e trail passes through the famous “Burma Road.” “a pickup from the trail.” MAMSHIT AND MAMSHIT STREAM (NEGEV): "e trail passes through For example, at Kibbutz Yagur, a soldier leaves the key to the ancient city of Mamshit – its alleys and churches, remains of her room for hikers who need a place to sleep, and a farmer in stables, houses and administrative structures. Hadera Forest o%ers sleeping quarters in exchange for a day’s MITZPE RAMON AND RAMON CRATER (NEGEV): "e town of Mitzpe work. So as long as you plan your trip in advance, you won’t be Ramon is a meeting place for artists, a station for people going left sleeping outside unless you want to. You can do part of the south to Eilat and a base for visitors to the Ramon Crater. Ibex trail or be ambitious and do the whole trail at once. For most roam free on the cli%s, and the colors of the crater change at people traversing the entire trail takes about two months. di%erent times of day. "e Israel National Trail includes 11 sections, each unique in KISUY STREAM AND OVDA VALLEY (NEGEV): Near Ovda Valley are sand its own way: dunes like those found on the beach or in the Sinai. Ancient NAFTALI RIDGE AND RAMIM CLIFFS (UPPER GALILEE): "is area begins at remains include temples, ritual locations and interesting struc- a deserted sandstone quarry above Kiryat Shmona, at the height tures near the sides of the roads. of 280 meters above sea level, and stretches south toward Yesha SHKHORET STREAM (EILAT MOUNTAINS): "e Eilat area features Fortress. di%erent shades of sandstone, granite in varied shapes and KADESH ILI STREAM AND YESHA FORTRESS (UPPER GALILEE): Along the dark colors, plaster ornaments on the rock TKadesh Stream, hikers can climb rock steps up the stream’s and colors galore. southern bank to view the ravine from above. To read answers to some travelers’ ques- MERON STREAM’S PARKING LOT TO EIN ZEVED AND SHEMA RUINS (UPPER tions about the trail, visit wikitravel.org/ GALILEE): In spring you can see a variety of rich blossoms in- en/Israel_National_Trail. O cluding orchids. As summer approaches, $owers color the area yellow. Natalie Nahome is the Israeli Shlicha (emissary) to MOUNT TABOR (LOWER GALILEE): "is trail takes hikers up the Tabor the Jewish community of Portland. 54 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE [ISRAEL] Lifeon the Other Side by Anne Kleinberg Ah, the joys of Passover prepara- tion. For anyone celebrating this may be – this is the hardest holiday of all, and it always falls on a holiday with some semblance of woman’s shoulders. Do you think that God decided he would test observance, the arrangements every modern-day woman to see how devoted she is – by making required to ready the house often her shlep, scrub, shop, cover, wrap and unpack? seem like an additional plague. But there’s good news. You get to buy new lipstick. "at was As I scan my brain for early the treat in my home, new lipstick (I was always considered too recollections, I can feel the young to wear it, but Pesach brought an opportunity to enjoy backaches coming on. Not to Yardley Happy Pink). You also get new toothpaste (kosher of speak of the aching feet and course), new toothbrushes and, best of all, new clothes. "at meant steel-wooled hands. La- a trip to New York’s Lower East Side to Berent & Smith – every dies, this is not the time Jewish girl’s favorite clothing store, where you were nobody if you to consider a manicure! didn’t get to pick up a few designer numbers for a great discounted "e preparations (of course) price. And new patent leather shoes. Ooh, I loved these always start parts of the holiday preparations. with shop- "ere were lots of fun food products that I adored (even ping. Huge though we were supposed to be making do with less during these quantities of times). "ere were Horowitz-Margareten chocolate chip cookies, stu% invade the house – and they stay in their bags, away from for instance. I think the main ingredient was some sort of talc, the chametz products of everyday life. In my home it started with but I loved them. And there was chocolate-covered matzah and cleaning products, shelving paper, aluminum foil and potatoes – Barton’s chocolates and ice cream (that was a really special treat). don’t ask me what the potatoes were for. And almond kisses, and macaroons and chocolate-covered jellies If you want to do it right, counters have to be scrubbed, and chocolate-covered orange rinds (still don’t get why people like re-scrubbed and then totally covered with aluminum foil. Range those). Now that I think of it, Pesach is a chocoholic’s dream of a burners have to be disinfected to the point of nearly burning down holiday. the house. "en you have to cover them with tinfoil too. Ovens On the one hand I can’t stand the thought of so many women/ have to be stripped bare, down to the primary coat of enamel. people having to go through the di&cult preparations this holiday Refrigerators have to be totally emptied. (Ah, so that’s where I left requires. Isn’t the fact that one has to eat matzah for an entire the sun-dried tomatoes!) And they too have to be scrubbed down week enough? If you’re Sephardic, at least you get to eat rice and – best if you just throw it out and buy a new fridge. legumes (and I have it on good authority from a converted Ashke- Every crumb that has ever entered your home must be searched nazi woman that in general Sephardic food, especially on Pesach, out and zapped. Nuke ’em if you can – just get them out of there. is better). But perhaps all the fuss and hellish preparations make Because then, on the eve of the !rst night of Pesach when you the holiday feel like a more special time. conduct the Bedikat Chametz ceremony, there must not be even And maybe all this food one is “forced” to eat is really an enjoy- microscopic evidence of the nasty leavened products. Except, of able part of the ritual. And maybe course, for the big chunks that you hide and then have to !nd with that refrigerator really did need a feather and a candle. (I love that hide-and-seek adventure.) cleaning out. Every shelf you intend to use during the holiday has to be Good luck – I’m thinking covered. Wax paper was the covering of choice in my youth. And of you. O every shelf that you don’t intend to use must be covered, wrapped, hermetically sealed – whatever – just so long as you don’t see Anne Kleinberg, author of Menopause what’s sitting on it. in Manhattan and several cookbooks, And then, after you’ve schlepped up hundreds of heavy cartons left a cushy life in Manhattan to begin a from the basement – all illegibly marked – and unwrapped all the new one in Israel. Now she’s opened a dishes, cutlery, pots, pans, utensils, etcetera that you will use for boutique bed and breakfast in her home exactly one week, you get to relocate it all in the newly covered on the golf course in Caesarea. For drawers, cabinets and shelves. I am telling you right now – anyone details, visit www.annekleinberg.com who wants to disagree with me is welcome to, however wrong she and www.casacaesarea.com. ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 55 [ISRAEL/AN AMERICAN IN ISRAEL] traordinary success of a !rst-time party whose 19 newly elected legislators have never served in the Knesset. "e morning after the election veteran columnist Dan Margalit wrote in the pro-Bibi paper Israel Today, “"e Likud su%ered a decisive political blow. "ey ran a $awed campaign from the moment they joined forces with Yisrael Beiteinu all the way to the ridiculous recruit- Israelis bet new party’s vision ment of Kahlon.” (Two days before the elections, Bibi By Mylan Tanzer attempted to appoint Moshe Kahlon, the popular Likud o"ers brighter future minister who had announced he would not continue in the next government, to chair the Israel Lands Authority to oversee reduction of outrageously high housing prices.) "e Likud-YB made many errors, four of them disastrous: R5Ļ 5&&#( with Yisrael Beiteinu alienated many Likud voters who do not identify with YB leader Avigdor Lieberman’s Russian immigrant agenda. R5 #%/ ]- intensely negative campaign against Naftali Bennet, the young and energizing new leader of the right- wing nationalist religious Bayit Yehudi (Jewish Home) party, turned o% potential Likud voters who in turn voted for other parties – mostly for Lapid, ironically. R5 #%/ ]- $awed primary system created a list of right- wing extremist candidates, who ousted almost all the well- respected party veterans, including Menachem Begin’s son, Benny. Binyamin Netanyahu, right, retained leadership of Israel’s Knesset, R5 #%/ completely missed the boat by not focusing but Yair Lapid’s new party, Yesh Atid, was the big winner. on the issues that concern the public. Security issues, the Palestinian problem and even Iran were not at the top of the public’s list. Netanyahu chose to focus on security to the In the run-up to the elections, the vast majority of media com- exclusion of intenal problems. "ough these issues are press- mentators and so-called experts relentlessly classi!ed these ing, most Israelis realize that we must deal with our internal elections as the least interesting and most lackluster in recent problems to be strong enough to cope with external existential memory. "is is the ninth time I have witnessed an Israeli challenges. All the Likud campaign could muster was the slogan, election campaign in all of its sometimes wondrous and often “Netanyahu, a strong leader.” Aluf Benn of Haaretz summed it questionable glory. While I am far from an expert, I scratched up when he said, “"e Likud ran a very poor campaign. "ey my head at the media’s dismissal of the interest in these kept showing shots of Bibi at the borders, with the bomb draw- elections due to their potentially game-changing rami!cations ing at the U.N., at the Western Wall with a kippah, but this time for Israeli society. the voters were concerned !rst and foremost with issues other It was a foregone conclusion that the recent Likud-Yisrael than a united Jerusalem, Nasrallah or Ahmadinejad.” Beiteinu alliance would gain the largest amount of seats and While the tent cities and 500,000-strong protests of dis- that Binyamin Netanyahu would form the next government. gruntled Israelis are no more, the high cost of living and the "is created an illusion of apathy and set a trap that the hyper- inequitable burden on the middle class remains, as does the alert Israeli media generally avoids. "ey should have thought political system that allows a government to arrogantly maintain of basketball: When a team leads by 20 points at halftime, the 34 ministers (half of the coalition members are ministers). "ose false sense of security can lead to an upset by the time the !nal ministers not only fail to solve the problems of the majority, but buzzer sounds. From the moment Bibi Netanyahu called for they cater to sectors who do not serve in the military, and they early elections, every move he and his party made smacked of turn a blind eye to extremists. the arrogance of the overwhelming halftime lead, followed by More astonishing than the result itself was the failure of the the panic of not knowing what to do when the opposing team experienced pundits to recognize this resentment was still brew- gains momentum. ing and would come out on election day. Yes, the Likud-YB coalition won the most seats, but the Given this state of a%airs, it is surprising that Likud-YB did number plummeted to 31 from the combined 42 seats in the not lose even more seats. Netanyahu and the Likud-YB were the outgoing Knesset. "e Likud itself will have only 20 seats, just clear losers in these elections, and centrist Yesh Atid – and to a one more than Yair Lapid’s Yesh Atid ("ere Is a Future) party, lesser extent the right-wing Bayit Yehudi and left-wing Meretz unanimously regarded as the election winner due to the ex- party – were the winners. "ese elections transcended and I56 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE maybe shattered the traditional right-wing, left-wing paradigm, translate his electoral success and ful!ll Yesh Atid’s agenda because the issues of these elections obliterated party lines. "e will determine whether these elections will truly be a water- record number of 46 new Knesset members attests to the desire shed event or yet another disillusioning failure of a centrist for change. party. Netanyahu will be the prime minister, but Lapid has Nahum Barnea wrote in Yediot Ahronot: “It started in the the power to call the shots in forming the government and 2011 summer protests. Come fall, the tents were removed; the become its moving force. Netanyahu needs Lapid almost general feeling was that the protest was dead and buried. "at more than Lapid needs Netanyahu. was wrong. "e seeds were sown and waiting for the rain to Lapid’s success was based on his tenacious repetition of the sprout. "e rain arrived. "e protest demands were not met and four main tenets of the Yesh Atid platform: No more religious the token steps that were taken helped the ultra-orthodox more exemptions from military or national service, electoral reform, than the young middle-class majority. "e feeling of disgust lowering the price of housing and a reduced government. from the rules of the political game did not die, they got stron- He must immediately succeed on the !rst issue and at least ger. "ey transcended Facebook and in$uenced not only the one of the other three. "e religious parties completely reject urban younger generation but impacted other age groups and compulsory service for yeshiva students. For Yesh Atid, it is layers. "e votes of disgust went to Lapid and the other parties the do-or-die issue. "e brutal coalition negotiations must who represent something di%erent.” deliver a written agreement with Netanyahu that a meaningful Ben Caspit of Ma’ariv commented, “"ere is no King Bibi compulsory service law for all 18-year-olds will be put forth (referring to the Time magazine cover last year). We are not a when the government is sworn in. Without this, Netanyahu banana republic, not a monarchy. Lapid might be a new driver, will do to Lapid what he has done often in the past. but Bibi is a drunk driver. Let them drive together. "e public Sima Kadmon quotes an anonymous source: “When said that you (Bibi) won’t be alone at the wheel any longer.” Netanyahu needs someone, there are three stages: He woos Channel 2’s political correspondent, Udi Segal, was no less and charms them with promises, telling them everything blunt: “"e voters said you are Prime Minister, not King, and it’s they want to hear, then exploits them and in the end betrays not forever, and as we cannot rely on you and we don’t think that them.” She adds, Netanyahu will probably !nd in Lapid “a you’re a strong leader, we are going to tell you who your coalition much tougher and less naïve !gure than he appears to be.” partners will be and what the agenda will be.” I hope Lapid has the foresight to !lm coalition negotia- On election night, when the !rst returns bore out the exit tions. In the world of Israeli politics, where truth is some- polls, Netanyahu and Lapid ended up addressing the faithful times in short demand and spin doctors are everywhere, it at their respective headquarters at the same time, which the could be valuable evidence if Yesh Atid does not join the networks covered with a split screen. government and instead ends up leading the opposition. Sima Kadmon, writing in Yediot, described the moment: “On Likud, the ultra-orthodox parties and all of the old order the left side of the screen, Lapid. On the right, Netanyahu. On will attempt to cause the failure of the 19 Yesh Atid Knesset the left, the future. On the right, the past. "ere is no other way newcomers, who will aggressively practice their campaign to put it. "e public performed a no-con!dence vote in Netan- slogan, “We have come to change.” Add this to the pressure yahu and not only in him. "e public showed their disgust in of coalition negotiations and one gets a feeling for the uphill the entire political system and proved that they want new faces battle that Lapid and his party will have to !ght to impact without connection to their political a&liation.” Israel’s future. Whether or not they join the government, they "is is the true revelation of the 2013 elections. "ey were can create a more civilized model for Israeli politics, one that possibly as dramatic as the 1977 elections, which saw the his- will not be based on the old, bitterly partisan lines. "e fact torical victory of Menachem Begin and the Likud. that none of the 19 have served in the Knesset before o%ers Lapid has ridden the wave of the Israeli public’s desire for hope that this might be possible. resolution of social issues to overwhelming success. If he joins "e curtain has come down on the !rst two acts of the the government and cannot deliver, he, his party and this rare Israeli democratic process. "e campaign was a worthy warm- opportunity to change the system could be vanquished for a up to a very good election. Now the third and !nal act of long time to come, perhaps until it is too late. the show – the coalition horse-trading – begins. Like most Nahum Barnea writes, “"e success at the ballot box creates Israelis, I wish for the sake of my children and for all of Israel huge expectation amongst the voters. If in a matter of weeks or that the hope of the 2013 elections is at months these expectations are not ful!lled, they will not want to least partially ful!lled. hear about him (Lapid); 19 seats will evaporate. Until election Born in the U.S., Mylan Tanzer moved to Israel day, Lapid was a national darling. "e darling status ended with in 1981. He was the founding CEO of the first the counting of the votes.” Israeli cable and satellite sports channel. Or, as Channel 2 pundit Amnon Abramovitch put it by play- Since 2005, he has launched, managed and ing on the name Yesh Atid, “"e di%erence between there is a consulted for channels and companies in Israel future and there was a future is about one day.” and Europe. Tanzer lives in Tel Aviv with his As I write, the coalition negotiations are just beginning and wife and five children. He can be reached at the structure of the next government is not set. Lapid’s ability to [email protected]. ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 57 [SINGLES] ROCKING the single life: what is right with you! By Masada Siegel o it’s a new year, Valentine’s Day has come and gone funds. If you wake up one morning and decide you want to surf, again, and you are single. You most likely have had you can go take lessons. A painting class might be a great way to enough of those concerned, pitying looks that silently spend your Sunday afternoons, so just go ahead and sign up. !e say, “Oh, you are single, at your age.” You know they world is your oyster, and if you want to learn how to dive and are secretly thinking, “What is wrong with you?” !e "nd your own pearls, it is just a phone call away. fact is, everything is right with being single. Let’s take a moment 3. Be happy about your life. I know family members might be to point out all the positives of bugging you about “project grand- Syour single life. children.” And if it’s your mom who 1. First of all, you are free as a has done the world for you, appease bird, and you can travel the world. her and go to singles events. (I know, One of my favorite things is to I know – but all you need to do is travel solo. !e truth is, when you meet one person.) Otherwise, your travel alone you are never alone. job is to enjoy your life. You see, People "nd you, gravitate toward happy people attract happy people. you and want to protect you. So the only way to meet the person When a couple travel together, of your dreams who is optimistic they tend to be more insular and and enjoys life is to be that way spend time only with one another, yourself. !erefore, your obligation is which makes them more alone to bask in your wonderfulness. than a solo traveler. 4. One of the best parts of being Traveling solo also makes you single is about the dishes, laundry more interesting and alluring. and vacuuming. You might have People love to hear your stories, to do all these chores around the and they put you in a special class house, but seriously, if you are single where you are seen as an inter- and not in the mood to deal, no one national man/woman of mystery. cares if they are done immediately. Now that should put a smile on If you don’t feel like picking up the your face. magazine o# the $oor, no one is 2. 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Talk to any of your married friends; they always !nd your life interesting. "ey remember the days when people $irted with them and their concerns were not married people dilemmas, which often focus on dishes and diapers. Whether it is true or not, they see your life as !lled with possibilities and the freedom to do as you please. So while you might get annoyed or upset when people look at you as if being single is synonymous with being a leper, it’s not, it just means you are fabulous and enjoying your life. "e reality of your singlehood is the following: You have something to look forward to because if you do want to !nd a life partner, statistically speaking, the odds are in your favor. At some point the right person will surprise you, and then you might have a wedding or some sort of celebration to plan. So your future looks bright. You should enjoy every moment of be- ing single – because even if it feels never-ending, it’s not going to last forever. O Masada Siegel is the author of Window Dressings, available at masa- www.casacaesarea.com dasiegelauthor.com. ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 59 [SINGLES] Searching for Love in All the Right Ways By Ellen Gerst you thought were so important may get relegated to gesting speci!c actions you can take to the bottom of your list when you encounter a person see a myriad of options for dating; hone Welcome to our new to whom you connect on a higher level. the vision of your true self; determine the To recognize the type of person who would make an type of partner you seek; jump-start your feature about love: how to appropriate new partner, you also need to determine dating career; and, once you !nd love, !nd it and how to keep it who you are. If you’ve recently ended a relationship, have a successful and healthy relationship. you’re probably not the same person you were at the I hope to open your eyes to seeing the alive and vibrant. I hope this inception of this past relationship. If the last time you world of love, dating and relationships in column will pave the way for dated was many years ago, you may have an outdated new and di%erent ways. mental picture of yourself. In both these instances, Some columns will feature questions you to !nd the love you seek. your concept of self may need some readjusting. from readers such as the following: 2. WHAT concrete steps are you going to take to meet So many people are successful using When it comes to relationships, if you want people; for example, will you join an Internet dating online dating as a way to meet people. to be terri!c, you need to be speci!c; this is site, go to a matchmaker or start hanging out at Why am I having such a hard time? actually great advice for any endeavor you Starbucks? If you’ve just ended a relationship, what It’s probably because you haven’t undertake. steps have you taken to grieve this loss before you learned to use this venue in an e%ective Can you assess with speci!city where you look for a new partner? What result will you consider manner. Here are six rookie mistakes. are in life and de!ne the places where you a success? 1. Without any forethought, you wrote your online profile. It has typos, grammatical errors and mis- aspire to go – physically, professionally and 3. WHEN will you put your plan into action? Will you spellings. It’s also boring and reads like every other personally? If so, have you made a checklist give yourself a deadline to complete various steps; for profile with statements such as, “I like sunsets and of the steps to reach these places? Or does example, how soon will you post your profile on the walks on the beach.” Remember that you only have your list only include the things you don’t Internet? one opportunity to make a first impression, and want while the things you DO want remain 4. WHERE are the venues you intend to use to meet your profile is it! nebulous? prospective dates? Are they online? Are they local, 2. You didn’t upload a picture, or you’re using one To obtain what you want and to get such as meet-up groups or professional networking that doesn’t capture your best qualities. It’s outdat- where you want to go, you !rst have to outlets? Are you considering looking for a long-dis- W ed; blurry; too small; and the background is telling de!ne the what and where. You also have to tance romance? When you do meet dates, where will a wrong story about you. know why you want what you want. these get-togethers take place to ensure your safety? Knowing why moves you forward. With- 3. You’re rigid in your age parameters of prospec- 5. WHY do you want to start dating? Do you want a out a list of good reasons, it’s easy to make tive dates. life partner, to have fun or just lessen your boredom? excuses for not taking action. After all, why Determining your why allows you to be clear in your 4. You’re basing your interest and willingness to would you vigorously move toward a goal agenda – and, yes, everyone has some sort of agen- meet solely on physical attributes. when you don’t even understand why you da, which does not necessarily have a negative con- 5. You’re waiting around for someone to contact want to reach it? notation. It might not be fair to date those who are Once you determine your what, where you instead of searching for those who fulfill your looking for a serious relationship when you are only criteria. You know best and why, the next issue to address is how. interested in casual dating. Someone is going to get the type of person who Although many !nd these questions hurt in that scenario. interests you. easier to answer in their professional life, it’s equally important to de!ne your personal 6. HOW are you going to prepare for success? If your 6. You’re sending out previous efforts have not been fruitful, you might want goals, especially at the inception of dating or bad karma by not be- to do some research to learn how to approach dating a new relationship. ing courteous. If you’re and relationship development in the most effective To begin this process, I suggest you not interested in a per- manner. You could speak to friends, read books, take son, at least write back complete an exercise I call Be a Reporter of a class or consult a professional. Your Own Life. Ask yourself the six basic with a “Thanks, but no thanks.” O journalistic questions so the answers can In the coming months, I will help you become the core of an action plan to focus answer some of these questions by sug- on your goals. HERE ARE SOME SAMPLE QUESTIONS: Ellen Gerst is a relationship and grief coach, author and workshop leader. 1. WHO will be the participants? A helpful starting Using a combination of her personal experience as a young widow and her pro- point is a “wish list” of the characteristics you are fessional expertise, she helps people look at challenging life circumstances from searching for in a mate, which may be refined as you different perspectives to enable them to move gracefully toward a renewal of life meet prospective partners. While it’s good idea to and love. Visit LNGerst.com or follow her on Facebook at facebook.com/Find- make this list, try to be flexible. Sometimes features ingLoveAfterLoss. 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S singles.indd 1 1/21/13 12:30 PM [TRAVEL] oming from a generation whose !rst impressions of Russia were molded by early James Bond !lms, I hope I might be excused for having a soundtrack of Bondian music running through my head the day I risked all by breaking away from my o&cial tour group to enjoy a few glorious hours freely wandering the streetsC of St. Petersburg alone. I knew the rules, but getting an “independent” visa is so expensive ($230) and convoluted that I’d opted for the “all-inclusive” shore excur- sions departing twice daily during the three days my Baltic-cruising ship, the Crystal Symphony, was docked in St. Petersburg. Assured of having a $oating hotel and ample sightseeing opportunities, I nevertheless longed to explore a bit on my own. Great Choral Synagogue destination Story and photos by Joseph Lieberman RUSSIA Jewish St. Petersburg The Nevsky Prospekt Bridge crosses the Moika Canal. 62 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE At left, Joseph Lieberman in the sanctuary of the Great Choral Synagogue. Below, Cantor Gregory Yakerson performs for a tour group at Great Choral Synagogue. Perhaps the inspiration to “go rogue” came to me when we visited a young couple American dermatologists with their wives struggling to regain their Jewish roots during Crystal Cruise’s “Jewish St. Petersburg” aboard our ship, and almost all were tour. Against the odds, and certainly to the surprise of their parents, Dima and Rivkah Jewish. Others joined in, so we ended up Krasilshikov had joined a growing movement to resurrect the small surviving Jewish !lling two busloads. community there. Another stop was the Great Choral “During the Soviet era of our parents and grandparents,” Dima explained, “being Synagogue, a majestic building construct- any religion was frowned upon, but being Jewish carried more historical baggage.” ed in Moorish style between 1880 and Rivkah, his wife of just one year, added, “In my family, we lost all sense of Judaism. I 1893. It’s the second-largest synagogue in wouldn’t want our kids, should we have any, to grow up that way. More and more young Europe, and one of the most ornate, with people feel as we do, as we create a support network.” a cupola reaching a height of 154 feet and When Rivkah started serving light drinks and snacks, some in our group quietly a prayer hall holding 1,200 worshipers. slipped a “donation” into Dima’s pocket, knowing that his job !xing computers and Next door is a small Chabad shul and, their modest apartment were not evidence of untold riches. beside that, a shop that sells kosher food One might think there wouldn’t be many people on a luxury cruise opting to and gifts such as Jewish versions of those spend half a day focused on such a small niche of Russian culture, but there were 40 famous Russian “matryoshka dolls.” ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 63 [TRAVEL] While two armed policemen stood guard across the street, representatives of the Jewish community told how the syna- gogue managed to remain open for prayer even during the di&cult Stalinist period. "e climax of our visit was a performance by the synagogue’s cantor, Gregory Yaker- son, backed by a keyboard player. Yakerson sang three religious and three traditional folk tunes with an operatic skill worthy of the !nest concert halls. Other shore excursions in St. Peters- burg were not Jewish-oriented, but several had Hebraic elements. I especially enjoyed visiting the tsar’s former Winter Palace, now the Hermitage Museum. It’s A Chabad Rabbi in St. Petersburg. the second-largest art museum in the world, after the Louvre. A woman named Svetlana (meaning “Sweet Lana,” she kept reminding us) guided us through innumer- shopping along bustling Nevsky Prospekt, able Baroque halls and throne rooms !lled with priceless masterpieces by classical and the main commercial avenue. Making Impressionist painters and sculptors. "e Rembrandts included a sympathetic “Portrait excuses, I committed the ultimate tourist of an Old Jew,” and the Old Testament themes “Abraham and Isaac” and “Haman taboo and broke away to explore parks, Realizes His Fate.” waterways and decorative bridges on my Moses appears in mosaic wall tiles at another landmark, the spectacular “onion- own as a free agent. domed” Church on the Spilled Blood. "e “blood” refers to that of Tsar Alexander II, For lunch, I headed to another who was assassinated at the site landmark, the classic Grand Hotel Eu- on March 13, 1881. rope, an Orient Express property and the Scores of Jews also had their most magni!cent accommodation in St. blood spilled during dozens of Petersburg. Manageress Irina Khlopova pogroms and similar persecutions, let me view the fabulous Fabergé, Pava- but that kind of dark history is rotti and Romanov suites, each named for little noted here. "ere are no the esteemed guests who had lodged here. Holocaust memorials, but there What my stomach wanted, however, are plenty of monuments to Rus- was a chance to try authentic Russian sian royalty, many of whose lives dishes that had in!ltrated American- ended badly. Jewish kitchens via thousands of immi- A twist on that theme is seen grants – familiar comfort foods such as at another palace, famous for a blinis (potato pancakes) or borscht (beet grisly murder. "e “mad monk” soup) with smetana (sour cream). Grigory Rasputin gained enor- “Unfortunately, we serve that only at mous power over the tsar’s family night,” Irina said, “so for lunch, I’d recom- using “deception and occult arts.” mend a delightful sea bass with sa%ron.” In December 1916 Prince Felix "at got no argument from me, but Yusupov and his friends murdered before long I had to hurry back to rejoin Rasputin and threw his body into my compatriots to re-board the Crystal the canal that still $ows outside Symphony. I had not accomplished all my Yusupov Palace. goals, but I’d certainly enjoyed a wonder- Tsar Peter the Great designed ful slice of life in old St. Petersburg. O St. Petersburg in 1703 to rival the great capitals of Europe, and so Joseph Lieberman is a freelance travel writer. it does. Wanting to see more of Top: Jewish matryoshka dolls. Bottom: Rivkah and that city unhindered, the next day Dima Krasilshikov share their story of helping revive I made my “great escape.” Our Jewish life in St. Petersburg. excursion group had stopped for 64 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE -HZLVK+LVWRU\0XVHXP 5th Annual JEWISH STORYTELLING FESTIVAL Tucson, Arizona The 5th Annual Jewish Storytelling Festival is dedicated to the memory of western historian and writer Mark Dworkin THE DEFINITIVE BIOGRAPHY OF THE JEWISH WOMAN BEHIND WYATT EARP LADY at the O.K. 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CALL: ADVERTISE: EDITORIAL: (602) 538-AZJL (2955) [email protected] [email protected] For your complimentary subscription log on to www.azjewishlife.com ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 65 [VOLUNTEER] Volunteering: YOU GET MORE THAN YOU GIVE B y A my H irshberg Lederman I started with what I knew and felt most comfortable with The year was 1976: America celebrated its 200th birthday, – food. As I shelved and bagged organic products at the food Alex Haley published Roots, the Dow Jones closed at 1004, co-op, I met wonderful people and learned more about Tucson and I arrived in Tucson with a backpack, a college degree than any guidebook could ever tell me. Next I volunteered at the and $80 in my pocket. My parents were less than thrilled Second Street School, where I heard about another volunteer opportunity working with kids at a counseling center. "at posi- with my postgrad decision to hitchhike across the country to tion actually led to a paying job when a parent asked me to work “find myself.” privately with her disabled daughter. We didn’t call it network- Tucson was, and still is, a truly welcoming community, and ing in those days, but that’s exactly what it was: a pathway to the it didn’t take long to feel at home. "e mountains and desert people, places and opportunities that would indelibly a%ect my air intoxicated me in a way I hadn’t felt since my junior year in e%orts to de!ne myself and determine a career. Israel. Everyone I met o%ered help and suggestions about places "e most signi!cant experience was my volunteer stint as an to live, jobs to !nd and the best places to eat under $3. intake-receiving o&cer at the Juvenile Court Center. "is re- But it didn’t take long before my wanderlust turned to won- quired extensive training from some of the !nest professionals in der-lust. I wondered, long and hard, about what I would actually the juvenile system, and while the hours were long and the work do with a bachelor’s degree in psychology and no real skills other demanding, the rewards were great. It was in those o&ces in the than waitressing tables and acquiring a serious tan. fall of 1976 that I decided to apply to law school so I could bet- I don’t remember much from my 20s (not because I didn’t ter understand the legal system, with the hope that I might help inhale, but because my memory is getting hazy), but one thing those who entangled in it. stands out: volunteering did more to positively direct and "e concept of helping others, of giving of our time, re- in$uence my choices than almost anything else. It may be the sources, talents and money to those in need, is one of the pillars best-kept secret of all time, one that deserves a great big shout of Judaism, based upon core values like chesed (compassion), out for most of us who struggle to !gure out who we want to be tzedek (justice) and tikkun olam (repairing the world). "e idea “when we grow up,” but it’s true. that we are partners with God in the continuing creation of the world and therefore have an obligation to repair what is broken informs much of the work of Jewish philanthropy. ARIZONA GIVES DAY At a time when funding for so many of our community needs This March, every single resident in Arizona (this means you!) – from healthcare and education to employment and housing – is being asked to do one simple thing – give. is being cut, resulting in serious sta% and service reductions, it is On March 20, all Arizonans will be asked to participate in the more important than ever to volunteer. Yet, according to a recent first-ever Arizona Gives Day. study by the National Conference on Citizenship, 72 percent of Americans report that they have reduced the time they spend Beginning at midnight on March 20 and continuing until 11:59 volunteering, largely as the result of the recession and a need pm, Arizonans can go online at AZGives.org to give where they live and support a local nonprofit in their community, or pledge to look out for themselves. "e !ndings amount to what the their financial support to one of the hundreds of nonprofits report’s authors called “a civic depression.” across the state. Arizona Gives Day, presented by First Bank, "e paradox of volunteering is this: the more you give, the will focus on giving back to the organizations whose invaluable more you are given – personally, psychologically and profession- efforts have helped empower communities and provide ally. Helping others who have problems or needs greater than services, products and more to those in need. your own can provide a perspective about your own life that Donations will help the state’s nonprofits: rally volunteers; contributes to a more positive attitude or sense of self-worth. change lives; build leaders; develop networks; fight for rights; Informal networking can lead you in new directions and open create scholarships; and champion critical community causes. doors you never knew existed. It is truly a win-win situation as everyone – the giver, Giving is as easy as 1-2-3! the recipient, those inspired by your e%orts – 1. On March 20, visit AZGives.org comes out ahead. 2. Click on “Donate” Winston Churchill said it beautifully with these words: “We make a living by what 3. Choose your nonprofit of choice and give away we do, but we make a life by what we give.” Provided by Arizona Gives Day Committee Today, more than ever before, we should heed his message. O Amy Hirshberg Lederman is an author, Jewish educator, public speaker and attorney. Her columns have won awards from the American Jewish Press Associa- tion, the Arizona Newspapers Association and the Arizona Press Club for excellence in commentary. Visit her website at amyhirshberglederman.com. 66 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE [HAPPENINGS] Honoring a Legacy of Living Jewishly By Michael Rosenthal lay leadership partners, their Jewish If you are one of the lucky 1,000 bar or service has been !lled with positions bat mitzvah students they tutored, or a ranging from teacher to youth director, witness to the Jewish sustenance they and from religious school principal to bring to the residents of assisted living board president. "e Adelmans moved centers, honoring Hannah and Phil to Phoenix in 1981 when Hannah Adelman will come as no surprise. On became the principal of the religious April 6 Temple Kol Ami will recognize school at Temple Beth Israel. Hannah and Phil Adelman’s love of In 1985 the couple’s direction took serving the Jewish community in cities a wild detour when they became bakers across the nation – and the world – for and opened Hannah’s Donut Shop. more than 50 years. "eir lifelong commitment to tikkun "ey met at a BBYO Sweetheart olam (repairing the world) remained a Dance in Denver, then married as huge part of their mindset. Hannah’s teenagers one year later. Wherever they Donut Shop gave generously to food went, Hannah and Phil, who see the From Bermuda to Vietnam, and all across the banks, missions and a school serving world through Jewish eyes, improved U.S., from youth to the elderly, Hannah and Phil underprivileged students. the lives of the people they encoun- Adelman have helped shape countless lives. Hannah and Phil found their ulti- tered and left a trail of new religious mate Judaic home at Temple Kol Ami. schools, social action programs and lives saved. Since joining in 1992, Hannah has never stopped teaching Phil joined the U.S. Air Force soon after high school and religious school and Hebrew School, and is a bar and bat eventually became an o&cer. His career in the Air Force lasted mitzvah tutor extraordinaire. She is cherished by each and more than two decades. Phil had an extremely varied Air Force every student. It is mind-boggling to try to calculate the career, including serving as a bombardier, navigator, pilot, number of students Hannah and Phil have taught over the teacher, $ight instructor and commander. His most di&cult last 50 years. "e Adelmans’ refrigerator remains wallpapered – but most gratifying – time came when he was stationed in with invitations and notes of heartfelt thanks. Phil currently Vietnam. Although leaving Hannah and three young children serves on the board of Kol Ami and was highly e%ective as behind was di&cult, Phil saved many lives as he piloted and board president. coordinated more than 100 rescue missions. He retired as a Children are not the only ones who have bene!ted from lieutenant colonel. Hannah and Phil’s dedication. Hannah noticed the incred- "roughout their years in the Air Force, Hannah and Phil ible void that exists for seniors throughout the Valley, who moved more than 20 times. In every city, Phil, Hannah and their are in senior centers that provide no Jewish activities for their three children, Eddie, Danny and Tova, were integrally involved residents. She created a program – Al Tashlichenu (Do Not in the Jewish community. If they were stationed at a location Forsake Us) – to !ll that void. For the past 15 years Hannah, that had no synagogue, they formed their own. Phil and Hannah with the support of Phil, her current students at Kol Ami and became lay leaders for Jewish military families. While stationed her friends, has brought Jewish lay services to 14 indepen- in Bermuda (rescue pilots get some exotic assignments), they dent-living and assisted-living centers throughout the Valley. started a religious school for 10 children who lived there. "rough te!llah, songs, yiddishkeit and food, our parents and Phil and Hannah have always stressed the importance of grandparents bene!t through Hannah’s actions. education. "ey both went back to college as adults. Hannah For all of these reasons, we honor Hannah and Phil Adel- earned her degree in Jewish studies (and celebrated her bat man for their immeasurable contributions and their tireless mitzvah) in her mid-30s, in Salt Lake City. Phil earned under- support of Temple Kol Ami and the Jewish world they nur- graduate and graduate degrees before his Air Force retirement. ture. You can be a part of an evening that celebrates how their He then began a second career as a college professor, which he lifetime of work has made the world a better place. For more continues to this day. As lifelong Jewish educators and universal information, contact Temple Kol Ami at 480-951-9660. O ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 67 [HAPPENINGS/FACES] 3 2 1 Centennial Celebration Finale – On Feb. 1 10 the Arizona Jewish Historical Society hosted Marshall Trimble, Arizona’s official state historian, at its closing program celebrating Arizona’s Centennial. The event also featured local artisans who displayed their works and a performance by local women of “For Better and Worse: Jewish 4 Marriages in the Arizona Territory.” Photo by BonnieJeanne Photography BBYO Convention – Carly Weintraub and Josh Sandquist, 5 2above, coordinated the annual BBYO Spirit Conven- tion Jan. 18-21. The event brought together more than 150 teens from across the region (Arizona, Nevada and Utah) for a weekend of chapter spirit, Judaic education and brother- hood/sisterhood programming. The BBYO convention was held at the Holiday Inn in Mesa. This year the theme was “Mountain Region and the Heroic Hunger Games.” Festival of Trees – The Jewish National Fund Tu B’Shevat 3F estival on Sunday, Jan. 27, at the Scottsdale Civic Cen- ter drew approximately 2,000 attendees. Children learned to plant trees and met Smokey the Bear, who accompanied the US Forest Service Fire Truck to the event. Participants also en- joyed live music, wine tasting, arts and crafts, 20 retail vendors, Musical Shabbat – Cantorial soloist Todd Herzog is joined and Israeli food and dancing. JNF sold 300 trees to be planted 5by children and families for a musical Shabbat experience. in Israel. While the biblical Shabbat Shira (Sabbath of Song) occurs once a year when the Torah reading includes Shirat Hayam, the song NFTY Weekend – Members of National Federation of Temple the Israelites sang after they crossed the Red Sea, Temple Solel 4Youth organize medical supplies as part of a Jan. 18-21 has expanded the idea. About four times a year this Reform Southwest Region Social Action Weekend. Other social action congregation in Scottsdale celebrates a Shabbat Shira, which activities included: making fleece blankets, working at Wilson draws about 300 to 400 people. Building on the success of the Elementary School, playing at the Boys & Girls Club, and help- Shabbat Shira service, Temple Solel added the Shabbat Lounge ing at St. Vincent de Paul food bank. The weekend included two for young singles and couples to gather. About 100 people friendship circles, a Shabbat service, Torah study, a workshop on ages 21-45 typically stay after services for the Shabbat Lounge, mental health, and a dinner - dance at Temple Emanuel in Tempe. which has an open bar, music, food and a relaxed vibe. O 68 MARCH 2013 | ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE [HAPPENINGS] MARCH CALENDAR Through March 13 Tucson at the Temple of Fine Arts and in Phoenix at March 7-10 “Visions of the West,” the latest collection of the Herberger Theater Center. arizonatheatre.org Worlds of Wonder featuring “Rite of Spring” is photographs by local artist Edlynne Sillman, is on presented by the modern dance group Center Dance display in the fine art gallery of the Tucson Jewish March 4 Ensemble. It’s been 100 years since Igor Stravinksy Community Center, 3800 E. River Road, Tucson. New Readers Theatre Group for adults, four Monday shocked the world with the 1913 premiere of his Taken in June of 2011 at the historic Mantle Horse nights – March 4 and 18; April 8 and 22 – 6:30- “Rite of Spring.” CDE commemorates with Frances Ranch, Sillman’s photographs explore landscapes, 8:30 pm at Har Zion Congregation in Scottsdale. Smith Cohen’s acclaimed interpretation, plus horses and cowboy culture in a contrasting visual Facilitated by Janet Arnold, former producing her look at the “Worlds of Light, Love and Loss.” landscape. 520-299-3000 or tucsonjcc.org director of Arizona Jewish Theatre. For men and Herberger Theater Center, 222 W. Monroe, Phoenix. women; no prior experience necessary. $30 for 602-252-8497, centerdance.com March 1-17 Congregation Kehillah or Har Zion Congregation “Maple and Vine,” a dark comedy starring AZJL’s members/$35 non-members; registration own Debra Rich, runs at the Theatre Artists Studio, required. 602-369-7667 March 8 4848 E. Cactus Rd., No. 406, Scottsdale, at 7:30 Objects d’Art Auction is an evening of visual art pm, Fridays and Saturdays, and 2 pm Sundays. March 4 showcasing the work of Arizona artists. Proceeds Fed up with their stress-filled and time-challenged 23rd Annual Brandeis Book and Author Event includes benefit the Herberger Theater’s arts education lives, a couple decides to leave modern society boutiques and book sales starting at 9:30 am, and outreach programs for youth. 6 pm at 222 W. behind and join a 1950s re-enactment community. program at 11, and lunch at 12:30. Sean McLaughlin Monroe in Phoenix. 602-254-7399, ext. 105, or Come to the corner of “Maple and Vine,” where “The from KPHO, Channel 5 News, is the moderator, herbergertheater.org Twilight Zone” meets “Ozzie and Harriet!” Also stars: presenting nationally known authors. Proceeds Maureen Dias, Dale Nakagawa, Radford Mallon support the work of Brandeis University. $115 at March 8-10 and Brad Bond. Tickets: $10-20. 602-765-0120 or Phoenician Resort, 6000 E. Camelback Road, The Scottsdale Arts Festival has been recognized thestudiophx.org Scottsdale. 602-315-1595, brandeisphoenix.com for its high-quality fine arts since 1971. The festival showcases nearly 200 jury-selected artists from March 2 2013 Educators Conference on the Holocaust is an throughout the United States and Canada who work Phoenixphriends is holding a reunion for those from annual full-day program to help local teachers learn in painting, sculpture, glass and ceramics, jewelry, the Jewish community who graduated from a Valley both facts and sensitivity regarding the Holocaust. photography and more. Works of art are available high school in the 1960s. The 2000 reunion drew The keynote speaker is Doreen Rappaport, author for purchase directly from the artists and through over 200 people from around the country. 5 pm at of Beyond Courage, The Untold Story of Jewish the Festival’s online art auction. Food and music the Arizona Jewish Historical Society, Cutler-Plotkin Resistance During the Holocaust. Participants too. Scottsdale Center for the Performing Arts, Jewish Heritage Center, 122 E. Culver, Phoenix. can earn six hours of continuing education credit. 7380 E. Second St., Scottsdale. 480-499-8587, phoenixphriends.org Sponsored by the Bureau of Jewish Education and scottsdaleperformingarts.org the Phoenix Holocaust Survivors Association in Ladysmith Black Mambazo, the Grammy-award- conjunction with community colleges and state March 9 universities. 7:45 am at the Valley of the Sun winning South African choral group performs Speakeasy is a Prohibition-era-themed event to Jewish Community Center, 12701 N. Scottsdale at Scottsdale Center for the Arts, 7380 E. 2nd celebrate the 83rd anniversary of Congregation Road, Scottsdale. 480-634-8050 or jewished@ St., Scottsdale, $39-$59. 480-499-8587, Anshei Israel. Jeepers creepers! If you’re hip to the bjephoenix.org scottsdaleperformingarts.org jive, you’ll want to be there, dressed in ’30s garb (cash prize for best costume). The event includes March 2-23 in Tucson March 7 gambling, “hooch,” jazz and silent auction. 5550 E. March 28-April 14 in Phoenix The Lady at the OK Corral, a book about Josephine 5th St., Tucson. 520-745-5550, ext. 242, or caiaz. Marcus Earp, is celebrating its Arizona release. org “The Sunshine Boys” by Neil Simon brings us the Author Ann Kirschner will sign and talk about the comedy team of Al Lewis and Willie Clark, who kept book. Josephine was Jewish and married legendary audiences in stitches for decades. Though they’ve “You Say Tomato, I Say Shut Up!” is a new comedy Wyatt Earp. The evening is dedicated to the by award-winning comedy writers Annabelle been estranged for 11 years, they agree to reunite for historic research and memory of Marc Dworkin, a one last TV performance. Can they get through their Gurwitch and Jeff Kahn, presented as a special event researcher for the book and docent at the Jewish for Invisible Theatre. One night only at the Berger most famous sketch one last time without killing History Museum in Tucson. Free. 7 pm at the Tucson one another? Reconciliation and friendship battle Performing Arts Center, 1200 W. Speedway Blvd, JCC, 3800 E. River Road, Tucson. 520-670-9073, Tucson. 520-882-9721 invisibletheatre.com grudges and resentment in this comic masterpiece jewishhistorymuseum.org about growing old. Arizona Theatre Company in ARIZONA JEWISH LIFE | MARCH 2013 69 March 9-10 March 13 March 21 Devoured Culinary Classic is the region’s premier “Zadie’s House” is a new interactive exhibit exploring Book Discussion: Jews and Words by Amos Oz and annual culinary event, hosted by Phoenix Art the Jewish home of the 1950s, opening at 1 pm at the Fania Oz-Salzberger. Through a blend of storytelling Museum, Local First Arizona and Devour Phoenix, Jewish History Museum, 564 S. Stone Ave., Tucson, and scholarship, conversation and argument, father showcasing the fine food and drink producers and $5 general admission, free to members. 520-670- and daughter tell the tales behind Judaism’s most purveyors of Arizona. “Devoured” features culinary 9073, jewishhistorymuseum.org enduring names, adages, disputes, texts and quips. curators and purveyors who support the Arizona This month’s discussion leader is Rachel Leket-Mor, food, wine and restaurant industries. Starting at 11 Phoenix Holocaust Survivors Association’s Jewish Studies librarian at ASU. 7 pm at Arizona am each day, tickets are $49-$59 with proceeds Café Europa luncheon includes the Broadway Jewish Historical Society, 122 E. Culver, Phoenix. to benefit the Phoenix Art Museum and Local First Babies providing entertainment. 1 pm at Beth El RSVP to 602-241-7870 or [email protected] Arizona. Phoenix Art Museum, 1625 N. Central Ave., Congregation, 1118 W. Glendale Ave, Phoenix. RSVP Phoenix. 602-257-2124, phxart.org to Edie Wade at 602-944-8809 or [email protected] The Power of Community is the Jewish Community Association’s Mega Event for 2013. The keynote March 10 March 13-April 7 speaker is Bruce Feiler, a best-selling author and Planting a Seed and Watching It Grow is this year’s “La Cage Aux Folles,” one of the great Broadway national columnist/commentator for NPR, CNN theme for the annual Gala for Pardes Jewish Day musicals, is playing at Phoenix Theatre. Based on the and Fox News. Feiler, the author of five consecutive School. This don’t-miss event features delicious food play “La Cage Aux Folles” by Jean Poiret, “La Cage” is best-selling books, is one of America’s most popular and drinks and will take place from 5 to 9 pm at the a tuneful and touching tale of one family’s struggle to voices on faith, family, and finding the meaning in Tempe Center for the Arts, 700 West Rio Salado stay together, stay fabulous and above all else, stay everyday life. He is known for living the experiences Parkway, Tempe. Tickets are $150-$250 to benefit true to themselves! With a glorious score written by he writes about. 7 pm at the Arizona Biltmore, Frank the school. pardesschool.org Jerry Herman of “Hello Dolly!” and “Mame” fame, and Lloyd Wright Ballroom. jewishphoenix.org, or call a humorous and poignant book by Harvey Fierstein, 480-634-4900, ext. 1129 Passages Lecture Series: “Corruption at the United “La Cage” exemplifies once again the Jewish influence Nations: An Ongoing Enigma. Is It Solvable?” Speaker on Broadway. Phoenix Theatre, 100 W. McDowell, March 25 Claudia Rosett is a journalist-in-residence at the Phoenix. 602-254-2151, phoenixtheatre.com Erev Pesach, first seder at sundown. Passover Foundation for the Defense of Democracies, a policy extends for eight days through April 2. Specialty institute based in Washington, D.C., 7:30 pm at Jess March 15-April 6 mock seders, such as women’s seders or chocolate Schwartz (East Bldg.) on JCC Campus, 12701 N. “Musical of Musicals – The Musical!” June can’t pay seders, are held throughout the community during Scottsdale Road, Scottsdale. bjephoenix.org the rent. Will the evil landlord evict her? Can her the month of March. Check with a temple or JCC to handsome leading man come to the rescue? It’s an find out about offerings near you. Yo Gabba Gabba Live presents “Get the Sillies Out” oft-told tale, and in “Musical of Musicals” it’s told with new music and surprises for the whole family at five more times, in the styles of America’s greatest March 28 Comerica Theatre, 400 W. Washington St., Phoenix, musical-makers: Rodgers & Hammerstein, Jerry Community Feasts in Antiquity, a talk by Gloria $25-$45. 602-379-2999, comericatheatre.com Herman, Kander & Ebb, Stephen Sondheim and London, Ph.D. Over 25,000 cracked animal bones Andrew Lloyd Webber. One of these is not Jewish – and many cooking pots, the residue of feasting, were March 11 know which one? Theater Works, 8355 W. Peoria Ave., found in a repository near a 13th-century B.C.E. Shaol Pozez Memorial Lecture Series: “Who Is Not A Peoria 85345. 623-815-7930, theaterworks.org house at Tell al-’Umayri near Amman. 12:30 pm Jew?” Speaker Matt Goldish, director of the Melton in the Vista Room at the U of A Hillel Foundation, Center for Jewish Studies at Ohio State University, March 16 Tucson. 520-626-5759, judaic.arizona.edu is presented by the Center for Jewish Studies at the Sandra Bernhard comes to her hometown of University of Arizona. 7 pm at Congregation Anshei Scottsdale to perform “I Love Being Me, Don’t You?” Through March 31 Israel, 5550 E 5th Street, Tucson 85711. 520-626- This provocateur and graduate of Scottsdale’s Saguaro Arizona Renaissance Festival is back to celebrate 25 5758, judaica.arizona.edu High School is backed by a band for a no-holds-barred years of cheers. With several acres of a medieval- night of cutting-edge irreverence and high-energy themed festival including jesters, jousters, shops, March 12 performance. $49-$79 at 8 pm at Scottsdale Center music and more, this is a fun trip back in time. “A Taste of Passover,” a film hosted by Theodore for the Performing Arts, 7380 E. 2nd St., Scottsdale. Saturdays and Sundays at Renaissance Festival Bikel, includes sacred traditional music and favorite 480-499-8587, scottsdaleperformingarts.org Grounds, 12801 E. U.S. 60, Apache Junction, Passover drinking songs, silly seder songs in $11-$21, 520-463-2600, royalfaires.com/arizona homespun and concert versions and a demonstration March 17 of the perfect matzah ball. Free. 7 pm at Arizona “Jewish Soldiers in Blue and Gray” is an award-winning Cactus League Baseball is here! Spring Training Jewish Historical Society’s Cutler-Plotkin Heritage documentary from the National Center for Jewish games for most of the major league teams are Center, 122 E. Culver, Phoenix. RSVP to 602-241- Films being shown by the Jewish History Museum and available every day. Fifteen teams train in the 7870 or [email protected] Tucson JCC. 2 pm at the JCC at 3800 E. River Road, Phoenix metropolitan area from Goodyear to Tempe. Tucson. 520-670-9073, jewishhistorymuseum.org Check it out at mlb.com or cactusleague.com March 12-17 “Fiddler on the Roof,” the Tony Award-winning musical March 19 that has captured the hearts of people all over the Break the Silence on Ovarian Cancer is an informative world with its universal appeal, embarks on its North session on this disease. 6 pm at the Tucson JCC, 3800 American tour. No other musical has so magically E. River Road. 520-299-3000, ext. 193, or llambert@ Want to have your event listed woven music, dance, poignancy and laughter into tucsonjcc.org such an electrifying and unforgettable experience. here? Please email March 12-13, Mesa Arts Center, 1 E. 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