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~bitauo 6unba!' Vtribune ''-a!' 20,1928 5 HOW TO CHOOSE A • f}31V' Do RIS WEBSTER.a.nd HUSBAND - By Doris Webster AND Mary Alden Hopkins (Continued from page jO'UT.) KEY NUMBER 25. to be in trouble. Remember how difficult 0. woman I-IOW TO CI-IOOSE A HUSBAND 'I-J "-lOPKINS You will pick a good husband if you decide for MARY ALDEN finds it to return or. exchange a man after she has married him. yourself. You are in danger of being unduly in- '. fluenced by some one who speaks firmly but not KEY NUMBER 5. wisely to you. Quietly select your own hats, hUI!- Can you ha ve harmonious business or social rela- You may not be a large woman physically, but, band, and cooking utensils. Give in to others if There' s Just One tions with uncongenial people? you are mentally. You are the kind that runs or- you wish on politics, religion, and such matters. Have you' changed your views on politics, re- ganizatione efficiently and sees to it that every You will make a good wife and a happy one for ligion, or morals within the Iast five years? one in the organization knows his duty and does it. 'almost any man who shows you a good deal of Man for You, Whether You will not change, so you must be careful to attention. GROUP 4. marry the right man-one who admires your ap- KEY NUMBER 34. Do you desire an "addre88 of distinction "t preciation of the really worth while things in life You are by no means ready to marry, for at pres- and who will 110t find your missionary spirit trying. You're Blonde or Does china which doesn't match di!ltret18 you? ent you care too much for the things you think a Do you enjoy a day's shopping'! You might make an excellent wife for a minister, husband will give you and consider too little his Are you unhappy when your friends have better but not if his parish were in a large city. side of the bargain. It is possible, however, that Brunette, Solemn or things than yours? Perhaps a man doing social work among those you may change, your most hopeful eharacteristie Is a new car worth' an extended family argument? submissive enough to accept criticism meekly wouId being a. certain mental flexibility. find you an ideal mate. Would you like to be presented at. court? Put off marriage until you have more sympathy Does it spoil your good time when you've worn KEY NUMBER 12. for men and realize that their work takes out of Gay~.Young or Older- the wrong dress to a party? , You have grasped the great truth that nothing them a great deal of that healthy strength that GROUP 5. matters when you have had twelve children and makes a brisk young man one of the most charm- ing sights in the world. And Here's the Way Do you keep the same friends for many years? been dead 100 years. If you can find a man who Are you saving money? feels the same way, you will have a satisfactory KEY NUMBER 35. Do you go to the dentist before your tooth starts marriage. Luckily for you and for your husband, your de- troubling you? ~ Avoid men who want household matters to run cisions are usually wiee and unselfish. Be sure the to Find Him. / like machinery or who wish to climb socially, for Are you usually satisfied with the shoes you buy? man you marry is wilting to have you exercise this CIENTIFIC inquiry hall always been frowned Can you give up present pleasures for a future you are not especially interested in the first nor . ability of yours in mutual affair!!. Avoid a man limber enough for the second. You are best in upon. Galilee was put in jail for saying that desire? whose ego demands that he be master at home as routine life and in an accustomed environment. the earth moved. Harvey was considered Are most of your men friends sensible? well as at business. S sacrilegious for discovering the circulation of Do you mend a hole in your stocking when it's KEY NUMBER 13. Be on your guard not to intrude your excellent the blood. little? Your judgment is so strongly colored by what advice where it is not wanted. Your common sense Agait18t the vociferous objections of the older KEY NUMBER O. you want that you might not be able to get an is the finest dowry a \vife can bring. generation, the girl of today has undertaken heavy You have in you the makings of a Joan of Arc impersonal view of the man you consider marrying. KEY NUMBER 45. research into the nature of man-no, men. She or a Carrie Nation, and your husband must be You are one of the few people who might do well utilises all modem inventions like the automobile, You will choose an excellent husband, and it will either an easy-going individual or a tyrant with l\ to ask advice of disinterested outsiders. be well that you don't hear people saying, "He'll the night club, and the telephone to aid her search lash if there is to- be peace in your home. You 'If you take it-that is, if you avoid an obvious- too good for her." Afterward you will choose the for data. Criticiem does not deter her. Her Jeal couldn't live harmoniously with an ordinary man, Iy unsuitable marriage-e-you are likely to be happy; house, make the vacation plane, and take charge of is fanatiea1. but you might get on with one who admired your for,\though you like to lead your own Hf~, you are spending the money. The following analyses merely point the direc- strength enough to forgive you your frequent un- also ~iIling to let your husband lead hIS. More- Your not unreasonable excuse will be that you are tion in which young women of v~rring tempera- wiee use of it. Be good to the children. over, ~u will not demolish the bank account with good at choosing houlles-as well as husbands-and ments should oarry on their investigation. The a fur coat. KEY NUMBER 1. making plans. By all means select a man of a printed word cannot take the place' of eye-to-eye KEY NUMBER 14. and hand-to-hand scrutiny. Many a dancing shoe The best thing for you to do is not to ehooeo wealthy, conservative family who is used to the You cannot have a husband who satisfies you must be worn shabby ere 0. search ends. but to be chosen, for, although you will deny it idea that women must have what they want. All over the world this restlere seeking for mates indignantly, you are not a particularly good judge entirely, for you have conflicting wishes yourself. Then, with your perfectly good efficient mental goes on, and it i8 a solemn thought that it does of character. If you have a suitor who adores you, If you get one who lets you have your way, he equipment, work out a plan determining what al'f' not always end at marriage. consider him seriously. will fulfill one of 'your deepest needs. your affairs and what are his. Don't tell him about So much .edvice is available to girls who are Your own contributions to a happy marriage You mustn't expect to have also a good house. this, but use it 'to help you to keep in your own earnestly trying to fall in love that we make only are your willingness to accept people as they are perfect service, a smart car, and two lovely children, back yard. two suggestiona: first, IItudy his faults; second, ob. and your unworldliness. The thing you must guard the Bider one being a boy. You are not, however, KEY NUMBER 123. serve him when he ie angry. against is your desire to run everything-and not a discontented woman, even when life refuses you many things you want. You are likely to make the best of a bad husband Under the firet head list his failings and decide' too efficiently at that. if you have such a one, just as you make the beIlt whether or not you can endure them; for, while KEY NUMBER 2. KEY NUMBER 15. of all the unpleasant occurrences in your Iife. his charm may disappear, his imperfections wm The trouble with you is that you do not know You are a person of good sense, who would not Your general technique is good and you are more remain. Decide whether or not you can live with what you want. The danger may be that in select- marry a man because of his neat mustache any content with little than are most women. If your him for fifty years. Do not make the common ing a husband you may confuse yourself with 80- ./ more than you would buy a house for its attractive head ruled your heart, you would obtain more lux- mistake of thinking that you can reform him, even many arguments that you will be as tangled as a latch. Your only possible danger is that in your uries but less love. Be sure to find a man who wiIl in tiny matters like flicking cigaret ashes on the kitten after playing with the yam. Try to let zeal to do good you might marry a man to reform not take your mistakes very seriously.