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Copyrighted material Beautiful in God's Eyes.indd 3 7/11/17 9:18 AM Unless otherwise noted, all verses are taken from the New King James Version, Copyright © 1984 by Thomas Nelson, Inc., Publishers. Used by permission. Verses marked kjv are taken from the New Scofield Reference Bible, authorized King James Ver- sion. Copyright © 1967 by Oxford University Press, Inc. Used by permission. Versed marked NASB are taken from the Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB) Copyright © 1999, 2000, 2002, 2003, 2009 by Holman Bible Publishers, Nashville Tennessee. All rights reserved. Verses marked ESV are from The ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), copy- right © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. Italicized text in Scripture quotations indicates author’s emphasis. Cover by Koechel Peterson & Associates Cover Image © Yulia She / Shutterstock Acknowledgment As always, thank you to my dear husband, Jim George, M.Div., Th.M., for your able assistance, guidance, suggestions, and loving encouragement on this project. BEAUTIFUL IN GOD’S EYES Copyright © 1998 by Elizabeth George Published by Harvest House Publishers, Eugene, Oregon 97402 www.harvesthousepublishers.com ISBN 978-0-7369-7049-5 (pbk.) ISBN 978-0-7369-7050-1 (eBook) The Library of Congress has cataloged the earlier printing as follows: George, Elizabeth, 1944— Beautiful in God’s eyes / Elizabeth George. p. cm. Includes bibliographical references. ISBN 978-1-56507-782-9 (pbk.) 1. Women—Religious life. 2. Bible. O.T. Proverbs XXXI, 10-31—Criticism, interpretation, etc. I. Title. BV4527.G458 1998/2005 248.8'43—dc21 97-41991 CIP All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means—electronic, mechanical, digital, photocopy, record- ing, or any other—except for brief quotations in printed reviews, without the prior permission of the publisher. Printed in the United States of America 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 / VP-SK / 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Copyrighted material Beautiful in God's Eyes.indd 4 7/11/17 9:49 AM In loving memory of Lois George Onesti Godly mother to my husband, Jim, gracious mother-in-law to me, loving grandmother to our daughters, Katherine and Courtney. Because of her faithful obedience, we have known God’s ideal— a woman beautiful in His eyes. d We rise up and bless her! Proverbs 31:28 Copyrighted material Beautiful in God's Eyes.indd 5 5/31/17 1:32 PM Copyrighted material Beautiful in God's Eyes.indd 6 5/31/17 1:32 PM Contents An Invitation to Beauty........................ 9 1. A Rare Treasure—Her Character................. 11 Proverbs 31:10 2. A Sparkling Jewel—Her Value ................... 23 Proverbs 31:10 3. A Solid Rock—Her Loyalty ..................... 33 Proverbs 31:11 4. An Unfailing Prize—Her Contribution ........... 43 Proverbs 31:11 5. A Spring of Goodness—Her Mission .............. 53 Proverbs 31:12 6. A Fountain of Joy—Her Heart................... 65 Proverbs 31:13 7. An Enterprising Spirit—Her Provision ............ 75 Proverbs 31:14 8. A Pattern for the Household—Her Discipline ....... 85 Proverbs 31:15 9. A Field of Dreams—Her Vision.................. 95 Proverbs 31:16 10. An Eager Attitude—Her Work.................. 105 Proverbs 31:17 11. A Taste of Success—Her Confidence ............. 115 Proverbs 31:18 12. A Little Night Work—Her Diligence ............. 125 Proverbs 31:19 Copyrighted material Beautiful in God's Eyes.indd 7 6/19/17 9:37 AM 13. A Helping Hand—Her Mercy .................. 135 Proverbs 31:20 14. A Double Blessing—Her Preparation............. 145 Proverbs 31:21 15. A Tapestry of Beauty—Her Handiwork ........... 155 Proverbs 31:22 16. A Man of Influence—Her Husband.............. 165 Proverbs 31:23 17. A Creative Professional—Her Industry ........... 175 Proverbs 31:24 18. A Wardrobe of Virtues—Her Clothing ........... 185 Proverbs 31:25 19. A Law of Kindness—Her Words ................ 195 Proverbs 31:26 20. A Watchful Eye—Her Management.............. 205 Proverbs 31:27 21. A Cup of Blessing—Her Family ................. 213 Proverbs 31:28 22. A Crowning Chorus—Her Praise................ 225 Proverbs 31:28-29 23. A Spirit of Reverence—Her Faith................ 235 Proverbs 31:30 24. The Harvest of a Lifetime—Her Reward .......... 243 Proverbs 31:31 Notes ..................................... 249 Bibliography . 257 Copyrighted material Beautiful in God's Eyes.indd 8 5/31/17 1:32 PM An Invitation to Beauty have a real love for the book of Proverbs in the Bible… I because that’s where I first met “the Proverbs 31 woman” (Proverbs 31:10-31). She’s the incredible woman who models for all women—young or seasoned, married or single—all that is beautiful in God’s eyes. Since first discovering the treasure of the Proverbs 31 woman, I’ve tried to model my life after her. I have sought and prayed to duplicate her actions and attitudes in developing strength of character and pursuing the responsibilities, opportunities, and goals God gives me. And I’ve tried to follow after her wisdom in creating a home-sweet-home, nurturing my marriage, and raising my children. And you’ll fall in love with her too! In this remarkable woman you will find instruction, encouragement, a model to follow, and the motivation to keep you looking to God for a lifetime. And most important of all, you’ll find out about true beauty— God’s kind of beauty! I’m glad you’re joining me in scaling the heights of this godly beauty. God’s excellent woman is someone we can follow with- out hesitation. And, my friend, you will never be the same after moving verse by verse through Proverbs 31:10-31! You’ll grow personally and spiritually as you discover what God consid- ers beautiful—and then apply it to your life. To help you, I’ve included practical How-To’s of Beauty in each chapter. And, for 9 Copyrighted material Beautiful in God's Eyes.indd 9 5/31/17 1:32 PM 10 Beautiful in God’s Eyes even greater progress (for you or your study group), I recom- mend the book Beautiful in God’s Eyes Growth and Study Guide. As you know, you and I cannot be who God wants us to be on our own power, so each chapter ends with An Invitation to Beauty reflective section. This “look in the mirror” gives you an opportunity to gaze into God’s eyes, search your heart, and seek God’s beautiful will for your life. My heartfelt prayer as we begin, dear friend, is that you will… = let God use this teaching about His kind of beauty to transform your heart and your life. = share this picture of beauty from the Bible with your friends, daughters, and anyone else who is interested in God’s brand of beauty. = truly desire to become like the woman of Proverbs 31—a woman who is beautiful in God’s eyes. May it be said of you, “Many daughters have done well, but you excel them all” (Proverbs 31:29)! In God’s beautiful love, Copyrighted material Beautiful in God's Eyes.indd 10 5/31/17 1:32 PM 1 A Rare Treasure HER CHARACTER d “Who can find a virtuous woman?” PROVERBS 31:10 (kjv) ave you ever felt overwhelmed by a larger-than-life chal- Hlenge you suddenly found yourself facing? Well, I expe- rienced such a moment as our tour bus drove into the hotel parking lot at the base of the massive natural fortress called Masada. Jutting straight up from the shore of the Dead Sea, these fortifications built by Herod the Great towered some 1300 feet above us. It was already casting its dark and foreboding shadow over our group as the guide told us to get a good night’s rest to prepare ourselves for the 7:00 a.m. climb up this ancient won- der the next day. I felt as if I were standing at the base of Mount Everest! “What am I doing here?” I wondered. “How did this happen? I’m just a wife who came to the Holy Land with her husband to study the Bible ! I never bargained for this!” But now I was expected to climb up this steep mountain with the rest of the much younger group! 11 Copyrighted material Beautiful in God's Eyes.indd 11 5/31/17 1:32 PM 12 Beautiful in God’s Eyes And, my new friend, I want to quickly admit that I have all these same feelings again as you and I stand at the beginning of this book about being beautiful in God’s eyes, looking up at her—the beautiful (and successful and wonderful and perfect) woman of Proverbs 31. She certainly appears to be larger than life. She’s “up there,” so far away, so far removed, so beautiful, so superior, so impossible. Or so it seems…. But wait! Let me finish my story about Masada. I dutifully ate a healthy dinner and went to bed early, just as the guide had instructed. But I also worried all night long—Should I eat or not eat before such a strenuous climb? Should I wear jeans or hiking shorts? How much water should I carry?…On and on my thoughts and fears churned. I definitely didn’t get the pre- scribed good night’s sleep! Finally it was 6:30 in the morning—time to act. I threw on my clothes (shorts because of the brutal heat), grabbed the larg- est water bottle (I skipped breakfast), opened the door of our room, walked to the footpath—and I climbed Masada! I didn’t want to, but I did it.