WISDOM IN THE TIME OF CORONA: REFLECTIONS FOR 5781

1 WISDOM IN THE TIME OF CORONA: REFLECTIONS FOR 5781

As we prepare to celebrate the High Holidays, we're delighted to share an anthology of teachings given at our virtual UJA Community Pre- Gatherings. We're grateful to all of the wonderful leaders who participated in this series from March to July, which brought teachers and listeners of all denominations and backgrounds to learn together.

Here you’ll find a sampling of the beautiful and lessons that were shared over these past few months, covering an array of ideas. We hope you find meaning in the essays that follow, and that they continue to inspire hope, growth, and reflection during this time.

As Creditor movingly articulated at one of our pre-Shabbat gatherings: “We’ve gained lessons in the preciousness of unity, the vitality of keeping an open imagination so that we can come together as a community again. May we be blessed as we take these steps to learn well from each other, and maybe to record what we are learning so that we can move forward having internalized these lessons and pass them on to generations to come.”

You can view recordings of each week’s program featuring these and additional teachers on UJA’s Facebook page.

Shanah tovah. CONTENTS

FINDING MEANING Clocks and Clouds: Navigating Uncertainty by Dr. Erica Brown...... 1 Skin as a Divider and a Connector by Rabbi Jeremy Kalmanofsky...... 2 Give me Yavne: in Times of Destruction by Rabbi Joy Levitt...... 3 Koach and Gevurah: Strength and Resilience by Rabbi Shaul Robinson...... 4 Destruction and Rebuilding by Rabbi Ethan Tucker...... 5 A Time for Preservation, or Reimagining? by Rabbi Gordon Tucker...... 6

INTROSPECTION AND REFLECTION On the Other Side of the Door by Rabbi Menachem Creditor...... 9 To Be Without Elbows by Rabbi Josh Davidson...... 10 People of the Door: Making the In-Between Holy by Rabbi David Ingber...... 11 Tradition, Evolution, Love, and Dignity by Rabbi Amichai Lau-Levie...... 12 Finding Our Voices by Framing Our Places by Rabbi Isaiah Rothstein...... 13 A Lesson for the Jewish Community: Reconciling Multiple Truths...... 14 by Dr. Rivka Press Schwartz It’s in Our Hands by Rabbi Chaim Steinmetz...... 16

COMMUNITY Do You See Me? Zoom and Kiddush Hashem by Dr. Mijal Bitton...... 18 Make Sure a Crowd Seeks Your Welfare by Rabbi Angela Buchdahl...... 19 Uphill Climb by Rabbi Elliot Cosgrove...... 20 Sharing Crowns of Holiness by Rabbi Steven Exler...... 21 Good Habits for a More Connected Community by Eric Goldstein...... 22 Community Ties: Bound Together Within the Eruv by Rabbi Rick Jacobs...... 24 Inherent Interconnectedness by Rabbi Rachel Timoner...... 26 fffff

FINDING MEANING CLOCKS AND CLOUDS: NAVIGATING UNCERTAINTY Dr. Erica Brown, Mayberg Center for Jewish Education and Leadership, The George Washington University

Karl Popper, the great philosopher of science, In the desert, Moses asks his brother-in-law teaches the difference between two types of Hobab to accompany the Jewish people to . problems. There isn’t a clear reason why; perhaps it’s the general joy and generosity of the moment that “To understand a clock, you need only to take it spurs Moses to invite him. Hobab replies that apart. It is mechanical; you could remove each he won’t go; he will return to his own land. But small part and study it … by studying the pieces Moses asks him again to come, and we begin to you can understand how it works. In fact, it is understand there is a reason behind the request. predictable by design. If it breaks, you can find Moses tells Hobab that he wants him to come the problem and fix it.”Clock problems are because “al kein yadata chanoteinu bamidbar” easily fixable; there is an organized structure, — Hobab knows how to camp in the wilderness. an established pattern, and all you have to do is Unlike Moses, who thrives in an orderly world, fit the pieces in place. Hobab is experienced in the ways of the wilderness; he knows how to thrive in uncertainty “Cloud type problems, on the other hand, are — to address cloud problems — and Moses complex and dynamic. You cannot take apart wants him to serve as a guide. a cloud the same way you can take apart a clock. Clouds are unpredictable and constantly However, Hobab refuses to guide the Israelites changing. Since you cannot break it down and through the wilderness, and Moses ultimately look at each piece, you have to study it as a sends the Ark of the Covenant in front to lead whole … You have to look beyond the cloud to them through the desert. Not a person, but the understand the weather patterns [and other] Ark of the Covenant, which holds our tablets factors that created the clouds in the first lace.” — our law, our structure, our compass. Moses realized that in a time of uncertainty, we should be led by that which anchors us. That which “In a time of uncertainty, endures, which traveled with us to the promised land and turned into a magnificent Temple. That we should be led by that which, years later, turned into study halls and synagogues. The enduring impact of the Ark itself which anchors us.” has turned into the center of our Jewish life. Right now, we’re in uncharted territory, battling Today, we again find ourselves in a time of our way through a global pandemic. It’s a overwhelming uncertainty. But while our “cloud” problem, not an easy challenge to break synagogues and communal spaces were down into parts and solve. The pandemic and shuttered, we once again turned to that which its aftermath are something we are going to anchors us. We moved our prayers and be struggling with for a long time. Perhaps we communal gatherings online. We found new can learn from our ancestors and leadership in ways to connect to Judaism and to each other. the desert — the wandering in the desert As we grapple with this enormous cloud problem, in many ways represents the situation we find we must count on clear eyes and innovation, ourselves in now. grounded in the tradition we love, to guide the way and lead us through.

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 5.22.2020 1 SKIN AS A DIVIDER AND A CONNECTOR Rabbi Jeremy Kalmanofsky, Ansche Chesed

I’ve been thinking about skin and the way it can work socially and “I look forward religiously, positively and negatively. We Americans understand more than most societies how skin can divide people. We know to a day when the unique history of how Americans have dealt with people who look a certain way and the grim, terrifying legacy of racism. If you have a certain color skin, other people will hate you, and darker skin the lights has this pernicious and pervasive and persistent association with within us are economic discrimination. In this Covid moment, when we’re frightened for so many of our again able to loved ones, it’s impossible not to note that skin also correlates with how people are experiencing this plague. One in eight Americans shine through are African-American, yet one in four Covid cases are in the African- American community, and 38% of Covid deaths are in the African- American community. It’s impossible for us not to recognize that our skin.” skin still affects and determines often how we experience things, even this very universal human plague. In his song “American Skin,” written in 1999 after the killing of Amadou Diallo, Bruce Springsteen reminds us that “it ain’t no secret … you can get killed just for living in your American skin.” The song includes a heartbreaking story of a mom begging her son to “promise Mama” that if stopped by the police, he would “always be polite and … keep [his] hands in sight.” In this Black Lives Matter era, it’s a vivid and resonant image.

But skin doesn’t only have to be a divider; it’s also permeable — a connector. Think of all the ways that our skin enables us to take something in and let something out.

When Adam and Eve sin in the garden of Eden, God sends them off into the world, and God makes for them kutnot ’or, skins of leather, and garbs them. ’Or, the Hebrew word for “leather,” is spelled differently but sounds incredibly close to the word , the Hebrew word for “light.” A imagines that in an original Torah, it wasn’t written that God gave them clothes of leather, ’or with the letter ayin. It was written that God gave them coats of ohr with an alef — light. God garbed the original human beings in bodies that were luminous, that let all their inner light shine out. According to the teachings of , in this world, our bodies grew denser and more divided. Then the light, the ohr with an alef, disappeared behind the ’or with an ayin, the coats of leather that we wear nowadays.

But a different era is coming when our skins, ‘or with an ayin, will turn back into our skins of ohr with an alef. R. Shlomo Halevi Alkabetz, who wrote the poem “Lecha Dodi,” evokes this image in the line hit’oreri ki va orekh, “arise for your light has arrived,” poetically suggesting that the era of wearing merely leather skin will come to an end, and our ’or will become ohr again — that leather will become light again.

I look forward to a day when the lights within us are again able to shine through our skin.

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 4.24.2020 2 GIVE ME YAVNE: JUDAISM IN TIMES OF DESTRUCTION Rabbi Joy Levitt, Marlene Myerson JCC Manhattan

In the year 70 CE, the city of Jerusalem was on The commander agreed, and this is why fire. The Romans were breaching the walls and Judaism survived the cataclysmic loss of the Jews within the walls were about to die. The the Temple. I doubt that zealots understood this and believed that with understood the full weight of this decision or the Temple destroyed and religious life over, life its implications, and his deal was not without was not worth living. Those zealots perished, significant sacrifice. But Ben Zakkai was clear most of them in the flames. Had that been the about the core of Judaism and what was only response, the story of the Jewish people possible within the realities of the time. would have ended.

Another group fled the city for the south, “In the face of so much establishing themselves on Masada with the hopes of staving off the Romans as long as disruption...we will once possible. When it became clear that there was no chance of survival, they entered into a again have to focus on pact of mass suicide. Had that been the whole response, that too would have ended our story as a people. what really matters.” I think it’s fair to say that circumstances A third group fled north to a town called in Jewish history have made us a pivoting Tzipori. They essentially assimilated into the people. We’ve developed a muscle not just surrounding culture and while they survived, for surviving, but for animating our values in their Judaism largely disappeared. new ways with what emerges from tragedy. Three responses to crisis, all understandable: So perhaps this is our moment. In the face of die fighting, die by one’s own hand, or so much loss, so much death, and so much assimilate. Had these been the only responses disruption, we will once again have to focus to the destruction of the Temple, Judaism on what really matters, what can be saved would have died altogether. But there was one and what must be let go so that Judaism — its small group that took a different course which values and its path to help us be better, kinder, made all the difference. Rabbi Yohanan ben more generous humans — can thrive. Zakkai, a prominent leader in Jerusalem, came Even though Yohanan ben Zakkai was forced up with a plan. He would pretend to die, and to give up the most important Jewish place in his students would bring him out of the city in the world, the Jewish literature, tradition, and a coffin. He was snuck out of the city and met culture that had developed over thousands of with Vespasian, a Roman commander. He asked years persisted. So at the same time that we for a favor: “Give me Yavne and its sages.” must grieve for all that has been lost, we must Recognizing that Jerusalem was lost, ben think big and be clear about what matters most. Zakkai understood that Judaism wasn’t about We must find the strength within ourselves and a particular piece of real estate, but about the in our communities to move forward. continuation of study and teaching.

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 4.24.2020 3 KOACH AND GEVURAH: STRENGTH AND RESILIENCE Rabbi Shaul Robinson, Lincloln Square Synagogue

My teacher Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks defines managing to stitch together a just-about- Israel as the home of hope. Since the onset good-enough country, but to bring about the of the Covid-19 pandemic, our lives and our renewal of the Jewish people in every sense horizons feel very limited. For me, one of the of the word, shows us the importance of koach most challenging things to face about this and also of gevurah. pandemic is that Israel closed its borders to anyone who isn’t a citizen. Of course it is the right decision for public health. But this is the “In this time of the first time in my lifetime I can’t just get on a plane and be in Israel. pandemic, the Jewish Every year, we commemorate Yom HaShoah people and the and then celebrate Yom Ha’atzmaut just a week later, highlighting the resilience of the Jewish people and the transition from the Holocaust world at large will to Statehood. Somehow, this pattern seems to mirror the dichotomy of these days we’re living undoubtedly once in. In this time of the pandemic, the Jewish people and the world at large will undoubtedly again go m’Shoah once again go m’Shoah l’tkumah, from the depths of despair to the miracle of rebirth. l’tkumah, from the This pandemic is one of the first times depths of despair to humanity has confronted a shared enemy, where we’re not each other’s adversary. the miracle of rebirth.” Countries around the world are working together to pull humanity through this time. Gevurah is the strength we need today. The In the future, when the story of how we as a gevurah to be resilient, to carry on dreaming. human race climbed out of this abyss, among No matter how difficult these times are, we many other countries, the contribution of need to continue sacrificing to keep ourselves Israel will be found to have been pivotal. To get and our neighbors safe. And as we continue through this time though, we must be strong. sacrificing, we are in fact demonstrating acts of hope, acts of faith, acts we have seen in We have two words used for strong people: our lifetime, in our parents’ and grandparents’ koach and gevurah, often translated as strength lifetimes — the promise that from the depths and heroism. Rabbi Sacks makes a distinction of despair can come the most incredible between those two terms. Koach means to things that we truly need. We must never stop be physically strong. Gevurah means to be dreaming and never, ever stop hoping. resilient. Israel, its story of climbing from the catastrophe of the Holocaust and not merely

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 4.24.2020 4 DESTRUCTION AND REBUILDING Rabbi Ethan Tucker, Hadar

In his essay “Churban U’Binyan,” or “Destruction This aspect of being created in the image of and Rebuilding,” Rav Nosson Tzvi Finkel explores God, and what makes us greater than the angels, what ultimately makes humans different from is that we, like God, experience loss. We, like other beings. He starts by citing a midrash in God, have the freedom to choose what we will which God creates the human being and shows do. We, like God, can destroy. Most importantly, it off to the angels, and God says to the angels, we are spurred to creativity by moments of “This creature’s wisdom is greater than yours.” crisis. Rav Finkel asks, how could that be so? In what way are human beings better than angels? He This theme of crisis and destruction ushering reflects on another midrashic tradition that talks in the next great chapter of human and Jewish about God in a very striking and surprising way, history is seen over and over throughout the that at the dawn of time God did not create just Bible and throughout history. Perhaps the the world we live in, but in fact, created many most powerful example is the mishkan, God’s worlds. Many worlds that did not find favor in house, which was built out of the moment of God’s eyes and were destroyed, until this world the golden calf. It is only after the corrupt idea was created and pleased Him. of worshipping God through an idol finds its place in the tragic annals of our history that we Mishlei, the book of Proverbs, says that God are able to figure out how to use gold to build a founded this world in wisdom. We can thereby house for God. deduce that those rough draft worlds that preceded this final draft were somehow part of Without the destruction, there would be no the fundamental wisdom of what followed, and rebuilding, no creating. This is true in all kinds the creativity of finding favor in God’s eyes was of ways. The great Chicago fire in the late also somehow spurred on by these earlier cycles 19th century ushered in a total architectural of destruction. revolution, and the buildings that we have today are only possible because of some that were destroyed. Covid-19 brought on a moment of “Most importantly, destruction of all kinds of institutions and frameworks. Somehow this destruction must we are spurred to lead us to a rebuilding. There is so much uncertainty in this moment. creativity by moments There are many worlds that are being destroyed, whether it’s the people we tragically lost or of crisis.” the ways we have assumed our lives and our communities are supposed to look. We hope Angels, at least as they have been classically many of those will return, but hopefully we understood, cannot go through cycles of will not just go back to exactly the way things destruction and rebuilding. In fact, angels cannot were. There is something about this moment cope with destruction at all. They are extensions of destruction that offers the possibility of of God’s will. They follow orders and to the extent reimagining who we might be as individuals and they grow in wisdom, they do so inexorably day as a community. after day. Human beings on the other hand, are created in the image of God.

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 5.22.2020 5 A TIME FOR PRESERVATION, OR REIMAGINING? Rabbi Gordon Tucker, Temple Israel Center of White Plains (Emeritus), Shalom Hartman Institute

The opening chapter of Pirkei Avot is neatly times. Simeon the Righteous was one of framed by two similar but very distinct sayings. the last remaining members of the Great The first is from Simeon the Righteous, who Assembly, facing the transition to the culture said, “The world stands on three things: of post-biblical Judaism. He lived in a time of on Torah, the worship of God, and deeds of rebuilding, a time of vision. The culture he and kindness.” The very last piece in the chapter his colleagues were creating was based on presents us with a different triad. Simeon ben collective acceptance of the teachings of the Gamliel taught: “The world is sustained by recently canonized Torah and ritual practices three things: justice, truth, and peace.” that would inculcate these teachings, which were grounded in the worship of Israel’s God They sound similar. So why do we need both and emphasized treating one another with of these three-pronged lists? And is the kindness and generosity. It worked because it difference between them significant? was accepted by members of that generation and subsequent generations as expressing The first distinction is that you have to the essence of who they were and who they be Jewish to appreciate what Simeon the aspired to be. Righteous says: he talks about Israel’s Torah and the worship of Israel’s God. You don’t have to be Jewish to appreciate Simeon ben Gamliel’s message — he talks about justice, “The world is sustained truth, and peace. by three things: justice, “The world stands truth, and peace.”

on three things: Simeon ben Gamliel lived through the Roman wars and the profound Jewish losses on Torah, the worship that resulted. There was so little left that he couldn’t be concerned with laying the of God, and deeds of foundation of a rejuvenated religious culture; he sought instead to hold on to a weakened kindness.” culture. And so he enumerated the sorts of things that in truth sustain any culture at all — a justice system to enforce the truths The late Robert Cover pointed out that Rabbi already accepted by the culture, and the Joseph Karo suggests what the contrasting preservation of peace. formulation might indicate. He explains that each sage taught in the context of his own

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 6.5.2020 6 In this way, the first chapter ofPirkei Avot “Will we look for presents us with two polar trends that recur throughout Jewish history. There are times of conservative, guarded, hope and vision, times when the future needs to be met with bold formulations of a vision, preservation...Or can ethos, and a set of guiding values. we believe and assert And there are times of fear — real or imagined — of dire threat of the reigning culture taking over. At such times, generally the dominant that the times call mood and agenda are deeply conservative ones. The result is an effort to preserve the for bold initiatives, existing order and institutions as much as possible. No new ideas are forthcoming; for revivification rather the premium is on justice, truth, and peace — on the already accepted truths and and reimagining of conventions. There’s no risking the discord that new conceptions might introduce into the what a more perfect fragile community. American union and And so, what are we to say today? What are we to say to citizens of this great but ailing republic? We, who are devotees of a Jewish what a more perfect state struggling with its own maladies — are we going to see our world as Simeon ben vision of Zionism Gamliel did? Will we look for conservative, guarded, preservation that gets encapsulated could be?” in slogans such as law and order, return to normal, remember the past? Or can we see it the way Simeon the Righteous did, and believe and assert that the times call for bold initiatives, for revivification and reimagining of what a more perfect American union and what a more perfect vision of Zionism could be? The first chapter of Pirkei Avot doesn’t decide this for us. It merely lays out the choice.

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 6.5.2020 7 INTROSPECTION AND REFLECTION ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE DOOR Rabbi Menachem Creditor, UJA-Federation of New York

As a child, I always wanted to be the one It resonates profoundly today, but it is to open the door for the Prophet Elijah on important to note that it is not only a Jewish Passover. It was always so exciting, so full of story this year. It is the world’s story. For anticipation. In later years, I recall children the past seven months, we’ve been largely sneaking out just before it was time to open the confined to our homes, concerned about the door, only to show up dressed like Elijah, ready pandemic spiraling through the world — just to surprise us. The laughter that accompanied outside our doors. Elijah’s entrance still rings in my ears. Doors can be wonderful. And so, as Rosh Hashanah approaches, we have another door before us — an opening to As an adult, I often think about the courage it’s a new beginning. There is a sense of hope and taken in different moments of Jewish history renewal as we in New York begin to return to to open the door to the world around us. Often, a semblance of normalcy, carrying with us the there have been frightening things lurking just lessons we’ve learned from living through a beyond. Doors can be scary. pandemic. As we approach the New Year, we muster the hope that the world and what lies ahead will be better than we expect, sooner “As we approach the than we expect. New Year, we muster The book of Malachi, the final book of the Prophets, criticizes the behavior of the Jewish people in post-exile Jerusalem for not being the hope that the faithful and just. But at the end of the book, Malachi shares a promise from God: One world and what lies day we will emerge from all suffering. On that day, God will send Elijah the Prophet to ahead will be better announce that “the great day” is coming. But what defines that great and awesome day is than we expect, sooner something we can all take to heart and learn from: On that day, we will return to each other. than we expect.” Generations will look at each other with love again. We will find light in ourselves and in one It is especially powerful today to think about another. We will be close together, once again. opening the door for Elijah in the global moment we are experiencing. On Passover, Friends, may we cautiously and hopefully step before the redemption and liberation of the through the door ahead of us into the New Jewish people, the Israelites were told, “Mark Year, and find each other in the light very soon your doors; shut them and stay inside. There is — a modern fulfillment of an ancient promise. something harmful outside.”

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 6.5.2020 9 TO BE WITHOUT ELBOWS Rabbi Josh Davidson, Temple Emanu-El

Once there was a man, who, as Passover The man turned to Elijah and pleaded, “No, I approached, had the most unusual dream. He told you I cannot look upon this hell any longer. dreamt that Elijah visited his seder table and It’s too terrible.” But Elijah insisted the man took him to a mansion in a far-off land. Elijah examine more closely. To his amazement he ushered him into the dining room where around saw that these guests were not hungry at a great table sat many guests. The table was all but were instead smiling and laughing. piled high with delicious foods. When the man Because they could not bring the food to their looked closely at the scene, he saw the guests own mouths, they were reaching across the looked hungry, their faces lean and lined. He table and feeding one another. With that, Elijah couldn’t understand why, until he realized that took the man and led him back home. none of them had elbows. While they could reach the food on the table, they couldn’t bring Sadly, right now too many of us aren’t able to it to their mouths. The man turned to Elijah and bend the elbow to wrap our arms around the cried, “This is too ghastly to behold. I cannot loved ones and friends whom we had hoped look at it any longer, please take me away from to be together with this season. Nor can we here.” worship and celebrate in our typical way, in the physical presence of the communities sacred to us. This hour in history has taught “Because they could us what in truth we already knew — that physical distance need not separate us. We’ve not bring the food to discovered new ways to reach out and remain present in one another’s lives, to listen and their own mouths, they support, to cry and comfort, and even to laugh. The tale reminds us, too, that we must extend our arms even further to the most vulnerable were reaching across in our society, to those who cannot help themselves. The homeless and the hungry, the the table and feeding poor and the sick, the isolated and the lonely need us now more than any time in recent one another.” memory.

So Elijah grasped the man’s hand and whisked Like those with no elbows — if there’s one him away to another land and another dining lesson to be learned from this time, it’s about room in another mansion that at first appeared our own limitations and abilities. May we turn the same as the one they had just left behind. our shortcomings into gifts that can help us Around this table, too, also overflowing with and others get through this challenging time. food, sat many guests, again with no elbows.

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 4.3.2020 10 PEOPLE OF THE DOOR: MAKING THE IN-BETWEEN HOLY Rabbi David Ingber, Romemu

It is undeniable that we are the people of the So, it should not come as a surprise that God book. But I would like to offer another peoplehood speaks to Moses in the desert and gives us the definition to reorient ourselves toward where we Torah there. The midrash wants to know why it are right now, both in our trajectory Jewishly, and is so significant for the Torah to emphasize that also in light of current events. God is speaking to Moses specificallybamidbar, in the wilderness. Of course God is speaking to One of the most powerful moments in Torah Moses in the desert — where else would they takes place in chapter 12 in the book of Exodus, be? The Torah reminds us that the exchange with the Jewish people leaving Egypt. It offers took place in the desert to highlight that it was a moment to consider what the necessary not given in Egypt, it was not given in land of conditions were for us to become free people, to Israel, but it was given in the place between — be liberated from the shackles of slavery. What the “doorway,” as it were. is radically clear from that chapter and from the holiday that commemorates the Exodus, is that we are people who pass over. Although, truth be “We are forever the told, it was only God in that story who passed over. We are a people who passed through. people who know The signature event of the Exodus is the pascal offering, a willingness on our part to do what it is to make something very scary and very dangerous: to slaughter the God of Egypt and place its blood the between on the door posts — on the liminal space, on the place between. On the door that both held something holy.” the Israelites back from their liberty and also beckoned them toward their freedom. It was that Between one place and another, we are given act of courage and the willingness to do the most not just the Torah as we know it, but the Torah brazen, radically unheard-of thing, to slaughter of the wilderness of Sinai. A place of no man’s the God of Egypt, that forever became our calling land, uncharted and uncertain, where we built card as a people. It was our willingness to resilience. Sure, we are people of the Torah, but pass through from a place of fear to a place of more centrally perhaps, we are people of the possibility, from a place of degradation to a place door — of the place between, where we marked of dignity. with the blood of the thing we most feared, the possibility and the hope of what may come. That moment became seminal for us, and we mark it with a mezuzah, the emblem on Jewish Perhaps we find ourselves in a doorway now. doors, marking that we are people who passed Not in the height of the pandemic, but neither through. We are a people of the door. A door is are we free of it. As we stand in the between, something that is between; we are forever the it’s our opportunity to look back at the fear, the people who know what it is to make the between illness, and the loss, and channel that for good, something holy. for growth, and for rebuilding.

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 5.22.2020 11 TRADITION, EVOLUTION, LOVE, AND DIGNITY Rabbi Amichai Lau-Levie, Lab/Shul

How do we find the courage to change? How do we find in this “Sometimes and other challenges the ability to look truth in the eye and we evolve and realize what needs changing for good? While we’re in the middle of this global rite of passage, many of us are frequently asking, how can we be here for each other more? we change so For ourselves more? How do people in the Jewish community, in that human the global community, grow from here for good? We all turn to our elders and our teachers for insights. One of my dignity, all teachers was Helene Aylon, whom we lost during the Covid-19 pandemic. Helene was born in Borough Park 89 years ago in a Hasidic community. She grew up to become a matriarch, an humans, all important feminist artist, and a friend to many. During the High Holidays, Helene always sat in the front row of our shul, these last of us, as we years with a walker, and she will be very missed this year — like now know, are so many. Like so many, she leaves behind a legacy. Helene dedicated years to a project entitled “Liberation of G-d,” worthy of all in which she highlighted Biblical verses of controversy, where perhaps the lessons from the time of the Torah’s origins no longer hold up. They raise questions about ethical behavior and human the love and dignity, and her intention was always to discover God’s meaning.

dignity of the In Helene’s memory and honor, I want to explore a verse from the Divine Image.” Torah that is difficult for me and for many of us. In Parshat , the overarching teaching that God gives us is to live a holy life. Shortly after that commandment comes other verses, such as the one that says, “A man will not be with another man sexually as with a woman; it is an abomination.” I’m an openly gay man, I’m 51 years old, just a little older than Stonewall, and I was so lucky in my life as a gay man who grew up religious to have teachers who said, “We love our tradition, and we have the courage to look it in the eye and say sometimes we evolve and we change so that human dignity, all humans, all of us, as we now know, are worthy of all the love and dignity of the Divine Image.” It’s the challenge of evolution. The challenge of change, of adaptability — this relay race of tradition.

I hope during this time, we all rise to the challenge to look in the eyes of truth, of status quo, of life as we know it, and figure out how we can change so that all are included and everybody lives the better life these verses promised us.

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 5.1.2020 12 FINDING OUR VOICES BY FRAMING OUR PLACES Rabbi Isaiah Rothstein, Jewish Federations of North America

Our sages teach us that Torah reading is meant Rav Soloveitchik suggests that each of us to be read b’zmana, at its set time. For example, is able to keep our voice intact in the desert there’s a reason the Torah reading for Passover once we frame our place in society. In the includes topics related to Passover. There vastness of the desert, we find our positions is a reason why before Purim we read about and our identities based on our backgrounds, Haman’s ancestor, Amalek. on our families, and on our ancestors.

Nachmonides and other commentators share My ancestors include Carole Robertson, my that each parsha reflects what is happening cousin who was killed with three other girls in b’zmana, in this moment in time, too. the Birmingham Church bombing of 1963, and Charles McGruder, a stud who was used for So what does the Torah tell us about what slave breeding. I have thousands of black (and has been happening in this time? Throughout white) cousins from his seed all with the last the book of Bamidbar, the book of Numbers, name McGruder. the wondering and wandering Israelite nation of the desert reaches adolescence and new While I grew up in the Jewish community in maturity. But how did they get there? What Monsey, reconciling my mixed-race identity helped them survive the desert experiences? has certainly played a part in defining my How did they find their voice(dibbur) in the position in the wilderness that is the world. desert (midbar)? But it’s not my responsibility more than anyone else’s to address racial justice. The book of Bamidbar opens describing the physical positioning of the shvatim, the tribes, Each and every citizen has a role in fighting in their camp. They position themselves racial injustice and dismantling racism l’mishpichotam, l’beit avotam, according to their and bigotry in this country. Addressing the families and according to their houses. killing of black people in America is all of our responsibility not only because we should see this as a civil rights issue or a race issue, but “Each of us is able because injustice and discrimination based on the color of skin is a human rights issue.

to keep our voice One lesson we can take from Bamidbar and the Torah portions we read in this book is to intact in the desert look at who we are, where we come from, and once we frame our how that shapes who we want to be. place in society.”

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 6.5.2020 13 A LESSON FOR THE JEWISH COMMUNITY: RECONCILING MULTIPLE TRUTHS Dr. Rivka Press-Schwartz, SAR High School

Why is it that as Jews, and especially within the We need to understand that our story is not Orthodox community, we have such a hard time everyone’s story, and we have to therefore really, seeing structural racial injustice in America? really hear, study, listen, and learn other people’s stories to understand their experiences. I think there are real reasons why many in the white-appearing Ashkenazi Jewish community But there’s something even further than that. have a hard time seeing and understanding There’s a feeling that acknowledging the the structures of racial injustice that Black “other’s” story takes away from my story. If I Americans know all too well. Only if we start to acknowledge that my grandfather, when he came think about the blind spots that prevent us from here from Eastern Europe, through no planning, seeing those structures of injustice, can we do fault, or design of his own, ended up the heir to a something and finally start to see them. Only racial scheme that with his white skin conferred in seeing can we take the actions we need to privilege and advantage upon him — to say that address them. sounds like I’m saying his accomplishments are less, that he built less, that he achieved less on his own. I think for many of us, it feels like that “We have to give takes away from our families’ stories — those boot strap stories, the “making it” stories of ourselves permission to which we’re so proud. know that we can hold We have to give ourselves permission to know that we can hold multiple truths at once. We can know that our grandparents worked, strove, multiple truths at once.” and accomplished, and can take pride in that — and still know that other people’s grandparents The first and lowest stakes piece is this: the worked hard and strove and were prevented from Black American story is so different from accomplishing by structures that disadvantaged our American story that for us it doesn’t them and didn’t disadvantage our grandparents. compute. My grandfather came here from Once we recognize that we can hold multiple Poland in the 1930s, served in the American truths, we can move on to the next issue. army during WWII, came home, built a life for Which is that it’s very hard for us as Jews — himself, established a business, and left a even in America and with the blessings America legacy (material and financial) to pass on to has given us — to see ourselves as being in a my mother. This is what the scholars call the position of power. That has become even harder intergenerational transfer of wealth — from over the past few years as anti-Semitic attacks being an immigrant off the boat to building and have proliferated. The security around our shuls, passing on material advantage to his children. schools, and houses of worship has increased Because that’s our American story, it can be our sense of vulnerability, and the threat is all the hard for us to assimilate and take in what the greater. story of African-Americans has been.

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 6.5.2020 14 Given all that, it really is hard for us to think of ourselves as occupying a position of power. “Anti-Semitism is true You may say, “But I feel so vulnerable. I feel so nervous walking to temple or taking my child to and real and present their day school.” But let’s return to the notion that we can acknowledge that two things can be true at once. Anti-Semitism is true and real and more frightening and present and more frightening now than it was fifteen years ago. It’s also true that when I now than it was fifteen get pulled over by a police officer and they look at me in the car, they see a white person and years ago. It’s also that changes how they relate to me. true that when I get The last and most difficult thing that keeps us from hearing and seeing is the extent to which we as beneficiaries of these racist pulled over by a police systems are implicated in them. If we have accumulated wealth through systems that have officer and they look advantaged some people and disadvantaged others; if we have built institutions, structures, at me in the car, they and communities; if we have gotten our education and our jobs, not in ways that see a white person simply reflected our merit, our bootstraps, our effort, but also reflect profound societal systems and structures that helped us and and that changes how disadvantaged others, what does that say? How does that make me feel about myself and they relate to me.” my community? Sometimes I think it makes us so uncomfortable we just turn away. “I’m a We as a Jewish community don’t need to feel nice person, I’m not a racist, so I don’t have to threatened by this. We need to know that we can get involved.” But this isn’t about our personal hold our stories and our truths and our veneration goodness, or lack thereof. It’s about structures of our ancestors and still hear other people’s that have been built and maintained. Sometimes stories. We can retain an awareness of the ways these are structures we didn’t build, but slid and the places in which we are vulnerable and into. Sometimes these are structures we even powerless, and nevertheless, acknowledge unconsciously reinforce without realizing, and the ways and the places in which we have and we have to own when these are structures yield power. To know that we may not be solely we actually helped to build because they responsible for creating systems of oppression, advantaged us without our thinking about but that we have lived in and often benefited how they were disadvantaging others. Entire from them. This gives us an obligation to look at structures in the United States that have been them, identify them, face them, and think about built by the law and enforced by the law that what we’re going to do to dismantle them. we have to face and acknowledge in order to be able to start thinking about how we can dismantle them.

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 6.5.2020 15 IT’S IN OUR HANDS Rabbi Chaim Steinmetz, Congregation Kehilath Jeshurun

Each Friday night, we raise a glass to say There are, of course, heroes who are battling on Kiddush and sanctify the Shabbat, marking the front lines: doctors, nurses, hospital staff, it as a special day. On its face, it’s actually a ambulance drivers, and volunteers strange ritual. Sundown to sundown on the working double time to combat the disease. seventh day of the week is Shabbat — with or Thousands of healthcare workers who came without us making a declaration that it is so. out of retirement to join the fight. But even But our sages insisted that we say Kiddush, those of us not on the front lines can take that we affirmatively declare that we are matters into our own hands. We can call sanctifying this holy day. I believe what the people who are vulnerable or lonely. Connect intended to convey is that on this day with those who may be anxious or scared. of rest, a day that is inherently passive, we Go grocery shopping for elderly neighbors. must never forget that even Shabbat is in our We need to use this time to spread more own hands. love to our families, to our friends, and to our acquaintances. We need to build the morale of our community so that together we can fight “The question is: what the virus. That is in our hands and we must grasp it.

will we do to make Judaism is a religion of action. We’re not just given Shabbat to receive and enjoy, but we act sure its effects — not on it to accept it and make it ours. It’s a holy day in and of itself, but we also take measures least of which, loss of to feel its holiness — through reciting the Kiddush, enjoying festive meals, through life and time — are special prayers. not for nothing?” Somehow like Shabbat — this pandemic is something that happened to us. It’s a reality Shabbat may arrive on its own, but the quality independent of ourselves. The question is: of how we experience Shabbat is up to us. what will we do to make sure its effects — not This lesson is more important today than it least of which, loss of life and time — are not ever was. We’re confronting the greatest for nothing? That can turn this into something health crisis in the last 100 years and perhaps positive. the greatest economic crisis in the last 90 years. We can’t walk into our offices, or go In years to come the coronavirus crisis will be a visit our friends. In many ways, life has turned distant memory. We’ll look back at this time and upside down. We must remember that how we hopefully take pride in what we did for others encounter this crisis is in our own hands. and what we did to fight this disease. Hopefully, we can look back and say that for us, this was our finest hour.

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 3.27.2020 16 COMMUNITY DO YOU SEE ME? ZOOM AND KIDDUSH HASHEM Dr. Mijal Bitton, Downtown Minyan

A few weeks into the pandemic, I noticed that “Here I am. I want to invite you to see me in my before any Zoom meeting, I’d spend a bit too fullness and to inspire me to be a better person, much time thinking about the bookshelves the person that I want to be.” behind me and what books I wanted people to see. When I realized what I was doing, I considered that much of our lives right now “Living among others have become very curated. Each of us presents ourselves through this small digital Zoom and having people screen, and we get to show others very minimal, specific things we want them to see. see us as potential We have a concept in Jewish tradition of Kiddush Hashem, sanctifying God’s name. One representatives way the rabbis explain this idea is that when a God-fearing person showcases positive of God helps hold actions, it causes others to see their actions as reflective of God’s teachings and thus to love God, too (TB Yoma 86a). us accountable,

This leads to a sociological experience for motivating us to be the those seeking to sanctify God’s name: living among others and having people see us as best people we can be.” potential representatives of God helps hold us accountable, motivating us to be the best We can invite others to see us more fully and we people we can be and to live up to our values. can make an effort to see others. Through Zoom When we walk into shul, or to work, or even the we can see each other’s faces, but do we spend supermarket, when we know we are seen by enough attention trying to really see each other others who see us as God’s representatives, we fully? Do we notice the expressions, the eyes, the are moved to behave closer to our better selves. smiles. Do people seem O.K.? Can we pick up the phone after a Zoom call and say, “Hey, I want to The embodied dimension of Kiddush Hashem know what’s really happening in your life? How highlights one of the challenges that we can I be there for you?” have right now. Through our virtual realities, we get to curate very specific and artificial If we do this, we’ll be engaging in bringing about representations of ourselves and thus miss out a Kiddush Hashem in which we work hard to see on the opportunity to become better people each other, one that will inspire us to be kind, to since we don’t feel the pressure of others’ give, and to be there for each other. My blessing gazes inspiring us to enact a Kiddush Hashem. for all of us is, God willing, we will get through this time and be able to look back and be proud Despite these challenges, I believe that the of the people that we’ve been, people who can concept of Kiddush Hashem can help us explore increase the holiness in this world through our what it would mean to overcome the artificiality actions and by seeing each other fully. of Zoom. What would it mean to, instead of curate, make ourselves vulnerable, to say,

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 5.8.2020 18 MAKE SURE A CROWD SEEKS YOUR WELFARE Rabbi Angela Buchdahl, Central Synagogue

Sometimes you find a text that is 2,000 years old, and you feel like “You’ve got it’s written just for us, today. a Jewish We’re in a time of uncertainty, and that uncertainty is based on real things that are scary — about our future, our job, our health, the economy. In many ways, fear is an imagination of what’s going to community happen in the future. The Talmud, recognizing this as human nature, looking out for shares a relevant thought. A passage on Yevamot 63b says, “Do not suffer from tomorrow’s your welfare, trouble. That is, do not worry about problems that might arise in the future, as you do not know what a day will bring. Perhaps when tomorrow comes, the individual who was so worried will not be you’ve got a among the living, and he was consequently upset over a world that federation is not his.” It’s not the most cheery way to think about the passage — that of Jews of all “maybe you’ll be dead tomorrow, so don’t worry about the future!” I don’t think that was the intention. Rather, perhaps the intention is stripes who that none of us know when our last day will be on this earth. If we’re constantly worrying about what might be, we’re not living in the say: We are present moment, and we’re living in a continuous state of fear. Fear in some ways is an imagination of what might be. To worry with you in this, about that is its own kind of insanity because it hasn’t happened yet. Now, that’s different from taking precaution, and different from and you’re real danger. Real danger you stay away from, but fear is a choice — and that’s what the Talmud is telling us. We’re living in hard times, and there is truly danger out there and we need to take precautions. not alone.” But the Talmud is telling us, do not live in a state of fear.

Now what I love is the very next line of the Talmud. While the first part tells us not to fear the imagined threats, the second instructs us to still be responsible. It says, “Prevent a public crowd from inside your home. Do not let many people enter, and do not even bring all your friends into your house. Make sure, however, that a crowd seeks your welfare, and that you have many allies.”

The Talmud is telling us that while we shouldn’t live in fear of what could be, we also shouldn’t be cavalier and irresponsible when it comes to the real dangers presented to us. The second half of this line says, “Make sure you have a lot of allies, that you have a community that’s paying attention to your welfare.” Just because we might need to be physically distanced right now doesn’t mean we aren’t together. You should know that you have allies out there — family and friends who are caring for you. You’ve got a Jewish community looking out for your welfare, you’ve got a federation of Jews of all stripes who say: We are with you in this, and you’re not alone.

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 3.27.2020 19 UPHILL CLIMB Rabbi Elliot Cosgrove, Park Avenue Synagogue

There’s an old joke about the difference between an optimist and a pessimist. The pessimist says, “This is beyond anything “The hills we could have imagined — things couldn’t possibly get any worse.” To which the optimist smiles and responds, “Sure they that we have could!” to climb I feel these days like that optimist. Here we are, facing trouble after trouble, one anxiety after another. And in this unnatural virtual, solitary reality. With fears for our health, jobs, families. are made Concern for our neighbors. Marking one holiday after the next from our homes. What sort of humanity is it, separated one from surmountable another? by way of I read a journal article from a social psychologist on a fascinating study that talked about visual perception — the way connection that our psychological resources impact how we see things. This particular study was on how we see the steepness of a hill and relation in front of us. The subjective measure of how steep the hill is, is affected by our psychology, our physical fitness, our age, by with other whether we have a big backpack on our backs, by all sorts of things. The article goes on to say that participants who thought people.” of a supportive friend during the task of looking at the hill saw a less steep hill than participants who didn’t think of someone they loved. In other words, the hills that we have to climb — and there are more than we can count right now — are made surmountable by way of connection and relation with other people.

While we would never have chosen the circumstances of the last six months, right now people are seeing past each other’s quirks and failings, realizing that relationships are more important and letting bygones be bygones. We’re expressing concern for each other. Most importantly, we’re realizing that in addition to exercising, eating right, and social distancing — we’re each better off by having one another. When we reach out and connect to each other, when we realize that even in this most inhuman condition, we can lean into our shared humanity and know we are capable of transmitting far more than a deadly virus.

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 3.27.2020 20 SHARING CROWNS OF HOLINESS Rabbi Steven Exler, Hebrew Institute of Riverdale - The Bayit

What does holiness look like in a pandemic? I think the most basic message of this We are bereft of gathering in our holy spaces, midrash is that holiness is not just something our synagogues, bereft of gathering together which is shared; holiness is sharing. Holiness for holy moments, sharing lifecycle events. is understanding that if I have three of Bereft of opportunities for chesed and raising something, I keep one and I find two other voices for justice in person together. worthy recipients. Reaching out to each other and making sure that if we have some of God commands the Jewish nation in the desert: something, we give just as much, if not more, “Be holy.” But what remains to create holiness to others who may need it. This is holiness, in our lives during this time? Rabbi Abin, a and we all give and receive. figure from the period of the Talmud, offered a parable: The citizens of a province provided Holiness is sharing, but what is shared? three crowns for their king. What did the king What are the crowns? “Kadosh, Kadosh, do with the three crowns, having only one Kadosh, Holy, Holy, Holy.” The crowns are head? He didn’t place two away for later, rotate words. Pieces of speech that come forth from their wearing, or try to wear them all at once. the mouths of the angels and take shape Rather, the king wore one and bequeathed the and begin to glitter, becoming gifts to God other two crowns to his children. and gifts to human beings. Holiness comes through words, and this is a time of words. “Holiness is understanding In the absence of being physically together, in the absence of shared physical, communal spaces, we resort to words. And those words that if I have three of are crowns. After a long day when my phone beeps and I see “Thinking of you, how are something, I keep one you managing?” Or I get a text in the middle of the day that says, “I’m putting in an online and find two other shopping order, do you need anything?” I can feel those crowns being placed on my head worthy recipients.” and I try to keep one and distribute two more, reaching out to others with words to crown Every day the angels crown God with three each other with strength, and connection, sanctities: “Kadosh, Kadosh, Kadosh, Holy, Holy, and holiness. Holy is the God of hosts.” Receiving those gifts of holiness, what does God do? God keeps one measure and crowns us — God’s people, and perhaps all people — with holiness. That’s why the Torah mentions we are “a holy nation,” “…Because I the Lord, your God, am holy,” and then gives us the commandment to “Be holy.” With all of God’s holiness, God keeps one portion and gives us two.

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 5.1.2020 21 GOOD HABITS FOR A MORE CONNECTED COMMUNITY Eric S. Goldstein, UJA-Federation of New York

One of the most famous and frequently quoted In many ways — perhaps surprising considering lines of the Torah is “Love your neighbor as the growing divisiveness we’ve been grappling yourself.” We generally cite this principle with for some time — Covid has given us new on its own, as a stand-alone concept. But opportunities to connect and engage. if we look in the Torah, it’s actually not an independent idea; it comes at the end of a much larger passage about human interaction. “Amid all our

The passage in Vayikra, Leviticus 19, begins: disjointedness and “You shall not commit injustice in judgment … You shall judge your neighbor with discombobulation righteousness. You shall not gossip. You shall not stand idly by … You shall not have hate in your heart. You shall confront your neighbor ... in this moment, the You shall not take revenge… You shall not bear a grudge …” And finally, “You shall love your pandemic has shown neighbor as yourself.” us just how truly In laying out these guidelines, the Torah recognizes our human tendencies. It connected we are.” recognizes that conflict among neighbors is inevitable, that we’re inclined to differ, Over these last months, while we haven’t been to judge, to grow angry, and even — when able to be together in the same place — sit pushed to our limits — to be hateful. But the side-by-side, let alone share a hug — we’ve Torah here is seeking to create a process, found time to Zoom with friends we don't a progression by which we can move from speak with often, and check in with elderly those natural human tendencies toward family members, friends, or neighbors. We’ve love — or, if not love, then appreciation and held virtual family reunions and tuned into understanding. interesting online opportunities taking place

all over the world. One of the great ironies Looking at the context for this tenet to “love of Covid has been that while we’re more your neighbor as yourself,” one guideline physically isolated than ever, in many ways, for stands out. At the root of the progression those fortunate to have access to technology, is the instruction “You shall confront your geographic barriers have been diminished. neighbor.” Among the warnings against hate and vengeance, we are commanded to Amid all our disjointedness and engage with the other. Even if we disagree, discombobulation in this moment, the we can never disconnect. pandemic has shown us just how truly connected we are.

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 5.1.2020 22 UJA’s pre-Shabbat programs have been one In all the unease, people reached out to others platform that allowed us to connect from and asked about one another. The city known a distance. We brought together teachers for its gruffness and bustling was infused with and community members from across all a shared sense of purpose and community. But denominations to learn together, often it lasted all of six months, and then we went featuring Jewish leaders that some may back to our old ways. otherwise never have had the opportunity to hear. These sessions have been a shining So how do we make sure the meaningful light for so many in our community, a moment changes we’re experiencing now will last? of peace and inspiration amid the chaos and When we return to normal, God willing, how uncertainty that has interrupted our lives. do we sustain all the beautiful connections that our community has been forging during this time? Tal says that the answer lies in “So how do we make establishing regular rituals, which is the key to creating lasting habits.

sure the meaningful We need to establish practices that allow these behaviors of outreach and connecting changes we’re to become a steady part of our communal calendars and routines. A return to normal experiencing now will social interaction cannot and should not replace the new and improved ways of last? When we return communication and connection we’ve established — online and off. to normal, God willing, Especially in divisive times, as the Torah how do we sustain reminds us, we need to work harder to “love your neighbor.” My hope is that we’ve formed good habits these last six months. all the beautiful And that newly appreciated sense of mutual responsibility will help us sustain an even more connections that our vibrant, diverse, and strong Jewish community community has been long after this crisis is over. forging during this time?” At a virtual program UJA held in April, Tal Ben- Shahar, the renowned professor of happiness and positive psychology, reminded us that in the aftermath of 9/11 in New York, there was an enormous wave of kindness.

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 5.1.2020 23 COMMUNITY TIES: BOUND TOGETHER WITHIN THE ERUV Rabbi Rick Jacobs, Union for

I received a call a number of years back The streets, the homes, and the people within on erev Rosh Hashanah from Rabbi Jake the eruv are linked to me. They become an Rubenstein, of blessed memory, who was extension of my personal, private life. It’s a then the rabbi of Young Israel of Scarsdale. remarkable Jewish practice. For those of us He excitedly told me, “I convinced my who have had our worlds confined to home colleagues to change the path of the eruv to and Zoom for the last couple of months, take include Westchester Reform Temple. I wanted a moment to reconnect to the public spaces to make it easy for people in my Orthodox in our community and to the many people synagogue to celebrate with our friends at we’re not sheltering with. WRT.”

It wasn’t that my congregants especially cared about the borders of the eruv. It was “What have we that Rabbi Rubenstein drew a map of his Jewish community and he deliberately done recently that made sure we were part of his circle of responsibility and relationship. I thought, expresses even a “What have we done recently that expresses even a fraction of that remarkable love and fraction of that inclusivity?” remarkable love and The eruv — the boundary that is literally put around the Jewish community — sometimes inclusivity?” just a little fishing wire, somehow ties us together. On Shabbat an eruv allows me to carry my tallis, my keys, push my stroller. It Who’s in my eruv? Jews who think like me, also allows me to participate with a placard at vote like me, pray like me, and believe just a protest in my community, a protest against like me? Yes, there are plenty of people like the endless killing of Black and Brown people that. But it has got to go broader. Particularly, by law enforcement. You may wonder, is we need to focus on Black and Brown Jews this an appropriate Shabbos activity? Is it who are in our eruv. Do we see them? Do permitted? I would ask — is it not required? we know them? Are they in our leadership? Do we know why many are not active in our Now let’s just think for a moment about an communities? These questions are always eruv. An eruv is a ritual construct that joins important, but especially now. my home to my surrounding community, my private home to the public space.

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 6.5.2020 24 Inside our eruv, let’s be proud of our Jewish institutions, “We cannot institutions of learning, spirituality, and activism. But within each and every one of them is also narrow- distance mindedness, intolerance, bigotry, and, I’m pained to say it — racism. We cannot distance ourselves from those hard ourselves from realities in our community. Let’s count our blessings, but let’s also be accountable and honest about what we are those hard not facing.

realities in Let’s also use our time this shabbat to think about those within our eruvin whom we do not see, but they are there our community. and yes, a part of us. Black and Brown people who are not safe walking to their houses of worship even though they Let’s count our are within our eruvin. Some of those Black and Brown people are members of our Jewish community and many blessings, but do not yet feel included, valued, and understood.

let’s also be Fundamental to being a person of Jewish commitment is to be an ohev ha’briot, a lover of human beings; it also accountable and means to be antiracist.

honest about Black and Brown lives have been devalued for centuries. Yes, there’s an eruv in New York, Minneapolis, Louisville, what we are not Atlanta, and it includes a whole lot of Black and Brown people along with plenty of Black and Brown Jews, and facing.” many others. And because we in the eruv join our personal space to the neighborhood community space, their well- being is our responsibility.

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 6.5.2020 25 INHERENT INTERCONNECTEDNESS Rabbi Rachel Timoner, Congregation Beth Elohim

In some sense, this time of forced separation dependent on one another’s health and our and seclusion is also a time of forced well-being is dependent on one another’s reflection for all of us. In a way, it has a taste well-being. We are only as safe as the most of Yom Kippur. We are required to refrain from endangered among us, and we are only as well all sorts of things, which naturally brings us to as the sickest among us, and when there are reflect about the way we’ve been living and those in our midst who do not have what they the way we want to be living. need — food, shelter, healthcare, or health insurance — it actually puts us all at risk. The Torah gives us a list of mitzvot, which are the highest call to an ethical life. Leviticus I’m reminded of a piece of commentary by 19:9-10 tell us, “When you reap the harvest of Rabbi , who notes that in the your land, you shall not reap all the way to the aforementioned verse, pronouns go from edges of your field or gather the gleanings of plural to singular. He suggests the plural at the your harvest. You shall not pick your vineyard beginning, “When you (pl) reap the harvest of bare or gather the fallen fruit of your vineyard. your (pl) land,” teaches us that the land being You shall leave them for the poor and the reaped doesn’t truly belong to the landowner. stranger. I, Adonai, I am your God.” None of us actually own what we think we own; what’s mine is really not mine — it’s ours. We shouldn’t think that we’re giving to the poor “When there are those person from our own property — we’re giving from our collective property. But in the second in our midst who do section when the pronouns change to singular, we understand the act of giving is personal, not have what they from one to another.

need, it actually puts We might think that behind the fences of our field or behind the closed doors that now us all at risk.” separate our spaces more severely than ever, This reminds us that we are we are not actually connected. But what we profoundly interconnected. We are in a web of are finding in this time when we are forced mutuality and this is something that I think, to be separate is how much we yearn for that ironically, we are being reminded of in this connection, how much we need each other. time of separation. When we cannot touch How much what’s mine must be shared as each other, when we cannot gather with each much as I am able, because my well-being other, we are more aware than ever of how depends on your well-being, and your well- much we need each other. We’re more aware being depends on my well-being. We need that we are one: that actually our health is each other and we are profoundly one.

Adapted from UJA virtual pre-Shabbat gathering on 5.1.2020 26