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The Social Psychology of Love and Attraction Faculty Mentor: Cheryl Boudreaux, Ph.D McNair Scholars Journal Volume 14 | Issue 1 Article 2 2010 The oS cial Psychology of Love and Attraction Princess Braxton-Davis Grand Valley State University Follow this and additional works at: http://scholarworks.gvsu.edu/mcnair Recommended Citation Braxton-Davis, Princess (2010) "The ocS ial Psychology of Love and Attraction," McNair Scholars Journal: Vol. 14: Iss. 1, Article 2. Available at: http://scholarworks.gvsu.edu/mcnair/vol14/iss1/2 Copyright © 2010 by the authors. McNair Scholars Journal is reproduced electronically by ScholarWorks@GVSU. http://scholarworks.gvsu.edu/ mcnair?utm_source=scholarworks.gvsu.edu%2Fmcnair%2Fvol14%2Fiss1%2F2&utm_medium=PDF&utm_campaign=PDFCoverPages Table of Contents McNair Scholars 2010 6 Princess Braxton–Davis The Social Psychology of Love and Attraction Faculty Mentor: Cheryl Boudreaux, Ph.D. 13 Joi Dupler Exploring Men’s Intimate Relationships (with Feminism): Another Side of Feminist Consciousness Faculty Mentors: Rachel Campbell, Ph.D. & Danielle DeMuth, Ph.D. 23 Andrea Gómez Cervantes Breaking Stereotypes by Obtaining a Higher Education: Latinas’ Family Values and Traditions on the School Institution Faculty Mentor: Lisa Hickman, Ph.D. 55 Nathaniel J. Hansen The Geomorphic Settings of Known Archaeological Sites in the Lower Grand River Valley, Ottawa County, Michigan Faculty Mentor: Patrick M. 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Sparks Applying Anthropology to Water Quality Assessment: An Investigation of pH and Nitrates in Drinking Water Faculty Mentors: Elizabeth Arnold, Ph.D. & Heather Van Wormer, Ph.D. 111 About TRiO Programs 5 VOLUME 14, 2010 The Social Psychology of Love and Attraction Abstract Love and attraction appear to be univer- Love is a universal emotion that has become sal emotions. Romantic love has been the the basis of marriage and family for many societ- norm since eighteenth-century Europe, ies, which researchers continue to explore. This when we began connecting marriage with research will add to the knowledge of interper- romance (Lamanna & Reidmann, 2009), sonal romantic attraction, further exposing love’s but confluent love is on the rise in Western complex nature. Dr. Earl Naumann’s (2001) society (Giddens, 1992). Romantic love re- survey in his book, Love at First Sight, served fers to that which perpetuates gender ste- as a model for the survey utilized in this study. A reotypes of the breadwinning father and total of 206 students at a Midwestern university homemaking mother; these roles remain were surveyed. Midwestern university students persistent throughout the relationship. It were sampled in two ways: first an e-mail was is a love that is supposed to stand the test sent to the professor of every third class from the of time, enduring all hardship. Romantic Spring semester schedule with at least 10 students love emphasizes being in love with a cer- in each class, and second, students were asked to tain individual, “the one.” On the other participate in the study around campus. Students hand, there is confluent love that is more Princess Braxton–Davis flexible with the roles that individuals play, McNair Scholar were at least 18 years of age. They were asked to identify what characteristics drew them to their and it emphasizes a relationship in which partner or person of interest. the growth of each person is important. The process of two individuals connect- ing in a meaningful way is particularly fas- Keywords: interpersonal romantic relation- cinating. Love and attraction in the West- ships, romance, attraction, love, dating ern world is seen as foundational to the formation and continuation of family, the basic bond between families. An ideology common to Western society is “Love at First Sight.” While the majority of Americans believe in this phenomenon, those with higher levels of education are least likely to believe in and have this experience. Dr. Earl Naumann (2001) illustrated this point in his book, Love at First Sight, based on research on a sample from the general U.S. population. Cheryl Boudreaux, Ph.D In order to form a relationship, there Faculty Mentor must be some type of attraction, either physically or on a personality level. Ini- tial attraction to a potential mate is highly associated with physical attractiveness. Many researchers have found this physi- cal trait to be a major determinant in the dating and relationship process (Luo & Zhang, 2009; Simon, Aikins, & Prinstein, 2008; Langlois, Rogmann, & Reiser- Danner, 1990). Even during the earliest stages of life, infants show a preference for attractive faces (Langlois, Rogmann, & Rieser-Danner, 1990). Smith (1985) demonstrated similar results by showing that preferential treatment was shown to- ward the prettiest preschooler peers. Syn- 6 The Social Psychology of Love and Attraction GVSU McNair Scholars Journal der, Berscheid, and Glick (1985) showed sites at times do attract, but people who traction. The surveys he implemented evidence that high self-monitors showed share similar ideologies not only attract, integrated items that called for infor- more interest in the physical appearance but tend to have longer lasting and more mation about what attracted each indi- of their potential mates. For example, harmonious relationships than those who vidual to the person he or she fell in love high self-monitors would be very self-con- do not (Buunk & Bosman, 1985; Lemay, with at first sight. These items included scious about their own appearance and Jr., & Clark, 2008). Leitner and Klion physical attractiveness, similarity, ethnic- would try to look their best at all times, (1986) extended this finding to individu- ity/race, education level, personal demo- whereas low self-monitors typically would als with similar levels of self-esteem for graphic information, and so forth. The not care as much. Clothing and cosmetics those who had high self-esteem. People present study used a modified version of can enhance one’s physical attractiveness, who share attitudinal similarity in essence the survey that he utilized to gain more in turn creating a greater commodity on share similar behavioral patterns. For in- comprehensive insight into how students the dating market (Williamson & Hewitt, stance, individuals who have a sedentary became attracted to their potential mates. 1986; Buss, 1998). Physical attractiveness lifestyle may be overweight and seek out The results of this study from a sample has a strong impact over the lifespan, af- an overweight partner, just as an athletic of Midwestern university students will be fecting love and attraction. type may seek out another athletic type, compared to his findings. Aging is negatively associated with the especially for younger and elderly couples We predicted that physical attractive- physical attractiveness. Margolin and (Schafer & Keith, 1990; Kalick & Ham- ness and similarity would be the strongest White (1987) demonstrated that hus- ilton III, 1986). Similarity proves to be predictors of attraction, in that order. bands actually become less attracted to another great promoter of attraction. Personality is developed through a per- their wives as their beauty fades, which What influences attraction between son’s identity, which is shaped by his/her negatively affects men’s sexual and over- two individuals cannot be understood perspectives on life, so we expect two peo- all relationship satisfaction. While physi- without identifying the context in which ple who share ideologies will have similar cal attractiveness is valued highly by both it occurs. The context can be seen among personalities. Similarity is also measured sexes, males show a higher preference for nations or within one’s own culture. Tang through demographic information about beauty than do females (Stiles, Gibbons, and Zuo (2000) illustrated this point by the participants and the person they fell Harardottir, & Schnellman, 1987; Buss, revealing that Americans are more likely in love with. 1998; Townsend & Levy, 1990; Feingold, to begin dating earlier, date more often, 1990; Margolin & White, 1987; Sprech- and become sexually active with their er, 1989; Nevid, 1984). It is evident that partners than are the Chinese, suggesting Methods physical attractiveness influences who that the Chinese have a more restrictive Participants dates whom, but by no means is it the sole attitude toward their youth being involved A total of 206 university students at a force of attraction. in intimate relationships than do Ameri- Midwestern university who were at least cans. Oner (2000) found that Turkish There are a multitude of other factors 18 years of age participated in the study. university students who exhibited more that contribute to love and attraction be- One survey was discarded because the future orientation reported less relation- sides physical attraction, including physi- person reported an unrealistic response ship satisfaction versus those who were
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