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Page 16) Or Tackling Issues of National Secu- Sockeye Salmon Runs Rity on the U.S.-Canada Border (Page 44) THE UNSINKABLE LEGEND volume1issue2 BOSTONWHALERBOATSMAGAZINE www.whaler.com NAVIGATING AT NIGHT JUST GOT EASIER. New T-Series Thermal Night Vision Cameras Thermal Night Vision meets Touch Screen T-Series thermal cameras are the convergence of night vision and electronic navigation. Not only can you see in the dark, you can effortlessly control the night vision camera using a new thermal camera app and the super easy hybridtouch™ user interface of E-Series Widescreen. Camera Control See and Do More at Night T-Series cameras are engineered with the latest FLIR thermal imaging technology and deliver superior imagery and improved range over previous generation cameras. Combined with Raymarine’s best-in-class chartplotting, Your Vision radar and AIS technologies thermal night vision gives you the confi dence to navigate safely at night. Thermal Vision Learn more - watch the video online at www.raymarine.com president’s le)er Keeping the legend growing. President, Boston Whaler John W. S. Ward Vice President of Sales, Marketing & Customer Service Benjamin Cast WHALERMagazine President/Publisher Douglas Leik Account Executive Annie Brown Editorial Director Randy Hess Managing Editor Unsinkable Fun Jennifer Chesak Senior Editor The Boston Whaler legend of unsinkability Roger Kamholz Associate Editor has always applied literally to flotation, but often Elli Thompson Editorial Intern I can’t help but think the legacy runs deeper. Nick Weldon Creative Director Russell Duncan Yes, Boston Whaler has proven, with test after test, that its boats are unsinkable. We’ve Production Director loaded vessels beyond capacity, shot rounds of ammunition into their hulls and have car- Kraig Devenport Art Director ried on the tradition begun by Richard Fisher, the man who built the first Boston Whaler, Robyn Bendle of sawing our boats in half. Try as we might, our boats just won’t sink; but it seems Photographers Mike Calabro, Steven J. Conway, Whaler owners have a little extra buoy to their spirits, as well. Jamie Elvidge, Robert Glover, Our Boston Whaler rendezvous to Bimini proves the perfect example. While our Whaler Bill Schild, David Witty staff puts a lot into organizing such a trip, our customers’ enthusiasm is what makes the ad- venture something I greatly look forward to every year. Read all about the fun Uon page 38. And how’s this for Whaler fever? More than two decades ago, author John Mirassou took his 17-foot Montauk on an incredible journey around half of the country— Whaler magazine is published the famous Great Loop. Now he is considering a second epic two times a year for Boston Whaler trip, once again putting his confidence in the same trusty by Dino Publishing LLC. Any Boston Whalers are correspondence should be directed to: Whaler. Read about his escapades on page 34. Dino Publishing boats that can get 350 W. Hubbard St, Suite 400 Our customers’ stories attest that Boston Whalers are boats down to business, Chicago, IL 60654 that can get down to business, whether fishing one of the most Tel: 312-822-9266 whether fishing one Fax: 312-822-9268 fruitful sockeye salmon runs of the century off the coast of email: [email protected] of the most fruitful British Columbia (page 16) or tackling issues of national secu- sockeye salmon runs rity on the U.S.-Canada border (page 44). The opinions expressed in this magazine are not to be considered official expressions of of the century… Dino Publishing or Boston Whaler. The pub- Whaler provides a safe, reliable boat so that our customers lisher reserves the right to accept or reject all editorial or advertising ma.er. The publisher or tackling issues of have the freedom—and the buoyant spirits—to go out and start assumes no responsibility for unsolicited manuscripts, photographs, or artwork. Re- national security… their own legends. production in whole or in part of any text, photograph, or illustration without prior wri.en permission from the publisher is John W.S . Ward strictly prohibited. Printed in U.S.A. President — Boston Whaler Copyright © 2010 Boston Whaler. magazine Contents volume 1 issue 2 16 A Legendary Run A 305 Conquest and the salmon run of the century make for a memorable day on Vancouver’s English Bay. 22 Buona Pesce Boston Whaler hosts the esteemed Tuna Cup on Italy’s Adriatic coast. 28 Wide Open Spaces e new 345 Open serves up an optional Marlin Tower and an airy layout for the hardcore angler. 34 Only in a Whaler An author who traveled the Great Loop aboard his17-foot Montauk preparesfor another epic journey. 38 Bimini Blast Boston Whaler owners rendezvous in paradise. 44 On Patrol Boston Whaler boats play an Bimini Blast 38 integral role in national security. 04 10 12 14 Navigate Adventure Quality Satisfaction Unsinkable adventures, A lifeguard relieson the e 320 Outrage Cuddy Whaler showsitsgreen night vision, Whaler unique geometry of his pleases the angler and side in order to protect the babies, boat-show bliss trusty Whaler to lead him cruiser in equal measure. wild blue yonder. and more. to shore through dense fog. : Geared to fish, the 370 Outrage makes an outrageous impression on the hardcore angler. Cover Photo by David Wi y Experience the Shady Side of Boating The SureShade automatic sunshade system contributed to the 370 Outrage winning a National Marine Manufacturers Association (NMMA) Innovation Award at the 2010 Miami International Boat Show. Keep your cool while cruising, fishing, or lounging with the SureShade® retractable sunshade system. SureShade provides hassle-free shade on-demand® for sun protection, comfort and convenience.The SureShade’s integrated, self-supported framework design looks like a natural extension of your boat and won’t get in the way of fishing rods.The robust framework can sus- tain 50-mph winds, allowing the shade to be deployed at any time, even when your boat is underway.Automatic (as shown here on the Boston Whaler 370 Outrage) or manual shade deployment options are available enabling a shade solution that fits every budget. Automatic SureShade ManualSureShade system system on 370 Outrage on 285 Conquest SureShade is an available option on all types of new and used Boston Whaler boats. For more information, visit www.SureShade.com or contact a Boston Whaler dealer at www.whaler.com. hooks, news, gear and info volume1issue2 Boston Whaler Owners Club Join a unique community of boaters and receive exclusive offers THE BOSTON WHALER COMMUNITY is unlike any other in the Boattrader.com and many more. You’ll also receive news and boating world. The Boston Whaler Owners Club (BWOC) entitles updates about Boston Whaler specials and events, such as the you to exclusive benefits, opportunities and support when you annual Bimini rendezvous. (Read more about this year’s excursion join. Club members receive special offers and discounts from on page 38.) leaders in the marine industry, including Mercury Marine, the National Marine Marketing Association, Shurhold, Pure Fishing, For more information and to sign up for the BWOC, visit the new www.whaler.com. 4 T| vol. 1, issue 2 | www.whaler.com , Boston Whaler designed the new 345 Open for boaters wanting to feel the wind in their hair. The 345 comes standard with dual 300-hp Mercury FourStroke Verado® outboards (with triple engines as an option), but don’t let those horses fool you; the silent-running Verados give you peace and quiet even at full thro3le. Reel Check out a complete breakdown of the powerful yet airy 345 Open on page 28. Assurance BAnd for more on Verado’s soundless strength, visit www.mercury.com. OWNING A BOSTON WHALER means more than having an unsinkable boat; you’ve made an investment in the Whaler lifestyle. And like with anything of value, it’s something Made in the Shade that you want to protect. Have the peace When it comes to fishing, not everything is a sure thing; some days the weather of mind that not just your boat, but also doesn’t cooperate, other times the fish just won’t take. But when you do hit the water, your gear and fishing equipment are covered, you can count on a hassle-free SureShade sunshade system to protect you from harsh rays without interfering with your fishing. There’s a SureShade for any size no matter how rough it gets out there. boat; the Automatic Tele-frame system is perfect for larger crafts, while the With $500 personal property coverage from economical, lightweight Manual Tele-frame system (which extends and retracts Boater’s Choice free of charge, you get protec- in seconds with an easy-to-use hand lever) is a great fit for a tion for everything you bring onboard, so Manual SureShade installation range of small- to medium-sized at Whaler dealer Nautimar in you canfocus onwhat really brought you out boats. SureShade works directly Dominican Republic to the deep stuff—the opportunity to crank with dealers, making the process ina whopper. of outfitting your Whaler with the right sunshade for you a Visit www.boaterschoiceinsurance.com smooth one, whether you want or call (800) 768-2121 for a free quote or to it pre-installed or are looking to learn more about boat-coverage options. add it after-market. It’s never beeneasier to have it made in the shade. Contact your local dealer for more information. @ > It’s Show Time! Navigation technology leader Raymarine is now a part of FLIR Systems Inc., AS THE FALL BOAT SHOW SEASON KICKS INTO the innovator in commercial thermal imaging technology. That means youcan gear, it’s time to find out where you can catch a glimpse get exciting thermal imaging technology, which creates images based on heat of the new 345 Open and all the other new things detection, integrated right into your Raymarine multifunction display.
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