A Compendium of Positive Psychology Quotations
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A Compendium of Positive Psychology Quotations Marcello Spinella, Ph.D. Richard Stockton College of New Jersey Version Updated: May 17, 2012 1 Contents* 1. Wisdom and Knowledge – Cognitive strengths that entail the acquisition and use of knowledge ● Creativity [originality, ingenuity]: Thinking of novel and productive ways to conceptualize and do things; includes artistic achievement but is not limited to it ● Curiosity [interest, noveltyseeking, openness to experience]: Taking an interest in ongoing experience for its own sake; finding subjects and topics fascinating; exploring and discovering ● Judgment & OpenMindedness [critical thinking]: Thinking things through and examining them from all sides; not jumping to conclusions; being able to change one's mind in light of evidence; weighing all evidence fairly ● Love of Learning: Mastering new skills, topics, and bodies of knowledge, whether on one's own or formally; obviously related to the strength of curiosity but goes beyond it to describe the tendency to add systematically to what one knows ● Perspective [wisdom]: Being able to provide wise counsel to others; having ways of looking at the world that make sense to oneself and to other people 2. Courage – Emotional strengths that involve the exercise of will to accomplish goals in the face of opposition, external or internal ● Bravery [valor]: Not shrinking from threat, challenge, difficulty, or pain; speaking up for what is right even if there is opposition; acting on convictions even if unpopular; includes physical bravery but is not limited to it ● Perseverance [persistence, industriousness]: Finishing what one starts; persisting in a course of action in spite of obstacles; “getting it out the door”; taking pleasure in completing tasks ● Honesty [authenticity, integrity]: Speaking the truth but more broadly presenting oneself in a genuine way and acting in a sincere way; being without pretense; taking responsibility for one's feelings and actions ● Zest [vitality, enthusiasm, vigor, energy]: Approaching life with excitement and energy; not doing things halfway or halfheartedly; living life as an adventure; feeling alive and activated 3. Humanity Interpersonal strengths that involve tending and befriending others ● Capacity to Love and Be Loved: Valuing close relations with others, in particular those in which sharing and caring are reciprocated; being close to people ● Kindness [generosity, nurturance, care, compassion, altruistic love, "niceness"]: Doing favors and good deeds for others; helping them; taking care of them ● Social Intelligence [emotional intelligence, personal intelligence]: Being aware 2 of the motives and feelings of other people and oneself; knowing what to do to fit into different social situations; knowing what makes other people tick 4. Justice Civic strengths that underlie healthy community life ● Teamwork [citizenship, social responsibility, loyalty]: Working well as a member of a group or team; being loyal to the group; doing one's share ● Fairness: Treating all people the same according to notions of fairness and justice; not letting personal feelings bias decisions about others; giving everyone a fair chance. ● Leadership: Encouraging a group of which one is a member to get things done and at the time maintain time good relations within the group; organizing group activities and seeing that they happen. 5. Temperance – Strengths that protect against excess ● Forgiveness & Mercy: Forgiving those who have done wrong; accepting the shortcomings of others; giving people a second chance; not being vengeful ● Modesty & Humility: Letting one's accomplishments speak for themselves; not regarding oneself as more special than one is ● Prudence: Being careful about one's choices; not taking undue risks; not saying or doing things that might later be regretted ● SelfRegulation [selfcontrol]: Regulating what one feels and does; being disciplined; controlling one's appetites and emotions 6. Transcendence Strengths that forge connections to the larger universe and provide meaning ● Appreciation of Beauty and Excellence [awe, wonder, elevation]: Noticing and appreciating beauty, excellence, and/or skilled performance in various domains of life, from nature to art to mathematics to science to everyday experience ● Gratitude: Being aware of and thankful for the good things that happen; taking time to express thanks ● Hope [optimism, futuremindedness, future orientation]: Expecting the best in the future and working to achieve it; believing that a good future is something that can be brought about ● Humor [playfulness]: Liking to laugh and tease; bringing smiles to other people; seeing the light side; making (not necessarily telling) jokes ● Religiousness & Spirituality [faith, purpose]: Having coherent beliefs about the higher purpose and meaning of the universe; knowing where one fits within the larger scheme; having beliefs about the meaning of life that shape conduct and provide comfort 7. Other Related Topics ● Benefit Finding & PostTraumatic Growth 3 ● Flow ● Savoring ● Meaning & Purpose *Quoted from the The VIA Institute Classification of Character Strengths: http://www.viacharacter.org/VIAINSTITUTE/Classification.aspx Wisdom and Knowledge Creativity “Creativity is allowing yourself to make mistakes. Art is knowing which ones to keep.” —Scott Adams Adams, S. (1996). The Dilbert principle. Boxtree. p.324. "Imagination is more important than knowledge. Knowledge is limited. Imagination encircles the world." —Albert Einstein Vireck, G.S. (1929). What life means to Einstein : An interview by George Sylvester Viereck. The Saturday Evening Post, 202, p. 117. 26 October. "Genius means little more than the faculty of perceiving in an unhabitual way." —William James James, W. (1892/2001). Psychology: The briefer course. Toronto: Courier Dover Publications. "The way to get good ideas is to get lots of ideas, and throw the bad ones away." —Linus Pauling Brian, Denis. (2000). The voice of genius: conversations with Nobel scientists and other luminaries. New york: Basic Books. "Imagination is better than a sharp instrument." —Mary Oliver Oliver, M. (2003). Yes! No! Owls and other fantasies: Poems and essays. Boston: Beacon Press. "Discovery consists of seeing what everybody has seen and thinking what nobody has thought." —Albert SzentGyorgyi 4 Good, I. J., Mayne, A. J. & Maynard Smith J. (eds.) (1962). The scientist speculates: An anthology of partlybaked ideas. London: Heinemann. 5 Curiosity "An intellectual is someone whose mind watches itself." —Albert Camus Camus, A., (1963). Notebooks, 19331942. (P.M.W. Thody, Trans.) New York:Alfred A. Knopf “Not to know is bad, but not to wish to know is worse.” —West African Proverb Gleason, N. (1992). Proverbs from around the world: 1500 amusing, witty, and insightful proverbs from 21 lands and languages. Secaucus, NJ: Carol Publishing Group. “I have no special talents. I am only passionately curious.” —Albert Einstein Letter to Carl Seelig (11 March 1952), Einstein Archives 39013 “Curiosity is lying in wait for every secret.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson Emerson, R.W. (1897). Progress of culture, in Works of Ralph Waldo Emerson. London: George Routledge & Sons. “Discipline and concentration are a matter of being interested.” —Tom Kite Benson, M. ed. (2008). Winning words: Classic quotes from the world of sports. Lanham, Maryland: Taylor Trade Publications "How many common things are trodden underfoot, which, if examined carefully, awaken our astonishment?" —Augustine of Hippo Augustine. (2004). Confessions and letters of St. Augustin with a sketch of his life and work. (P. Schaff, Ed.) Whitefish, Montana: Kessinger Publishing. 6 Judgment & OpenMindedness "Where observation is concerned, chance favors only the prepared mind." —Louis Pasteur Pasteur. L. (1854). Lecture, University of Lille (7 December). "Sit down before fact as a little child, be prepared to give up every preconceived notion, follow humbly wherever and whatever abysses nature leads, or you will learn nothing." —Thomas Henry Huxley Huxley, L. (2000). Life and letters of Thomas Henry Huxley: By his son. Volume 1. Chestnut Hill, MA: Adamant Media Corporation. “Loyalty to petrified opinion never yet broke a chain or freed a human soul in this world—and never will.” —Mark Twain Twain, M. (/1991). Consistency, in The Complete Essays of Mark Twain. Charles Neider, ed. Da Capo Press. (Original work from 1884). "The rule is perfect: In all matters of opinion, our adversaries are insane." —Mark Twain Mark Twain. (1907). Christian science. New York: Harper & Brothers. “He who knows only his own side of the case, knows little of that” —John Stuart Mill Mill, J.S. (1859/1991) On liberty. Gray, J. & Smith, G. W. eds. London: Routledge. "Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrowmindedness, and many of our people need it sorely on these accounts." —Mark Twain Twain, M. (1911). The innocents abroad. New York: Harper. (Original work from 1869). "The problem with certainty is that it is static; it can do little but endlessly reassert itself. 7 Uncertainty, by contrast, is lull of unknowns, possibilities, and risks." —Stephen Batchelor Batchelor, S. (2010). Confession of a Buddhist atheist. New York: Spiegel & Grau. "The truth you believe in and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new." —Pema Chödrön Chödrön, P. (2010). The wisdom of no escape: And the path