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Couples Research & Therapy SIG Newsletter, Autumn 2010 Volume 16, No. 2 , Page 1 Couples Research & Therapy NEWSLETTER The Newsletter of the Couples Research & Therapy ABCT–SIG, Autumn 2010 CONTENTS OF THIS ISSUE COUPLES THERAPY IN ADVANCED CANCER: Couples Therapy in Advanced Cancer: Using Intimacy and Meaning to Using Intimacy and Meaning Reduce Existential Distress to Reduce Existential Distress Zaider & Kissane 1 Letter from the Editors 2 Talia I. Zaider, Ph.D. & David W. Kissane, M.D. Letter from the Co-Presidents 3 Department of Psychiatry & Behavioral Sciences Dixon & Gordon Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center Letter from the Student Co-Presidents 11 INTRODUCTION Fleming & Baucom “There are things that I feel we don’t talk about and…I understand why…but I feel like I – Media Coordinator Update 13 it’s something I’d like to – I would like to use some of our time…[pause] We don’t talk Poyner-Del Vento about me dying…and I’d like to” (Patient, Case 009) Lab Updates “We don’t talk about the essence of it …that this person that perhaps you love is not going • Christensen 2 to be here anymore. I hit the surface with you [turns to husband] but I can’t really talk • Córdova 15 about it with you because you talk me out of it” (Patient, Case 019) • Davila 15 • Doss 2 In each excerpt above, a spouse with advanced cancer makes a bid for open and direct • Epstein 10 acknowledgment of their likely death. Yet the grief and existential threat associated with such • Gordon 12 conversations can easily overwhelm the most well functioning couple, giving rise to a host of • Langhinrichsen-Rohling & dilemmas: How will we sustain and deepen intimacy while preparing for loss? How will we Stefurak 3 savor and enrich our present lives while acutely aware of an uncertain future? How will we • Mahoney & Pargament 15 preserving our identity as a couple and honor our history together when illness dominates our • Margolin 13 lives? How will we continue to give and receive mutually when our roles have become so • Markman, Stanley, Rhoades skewed? & Allen 11 • O’Leary 14 In this paper, we describe a brief model of therapy delivered to the couple coping with • Sayers 13 advanced disease, that we call Intimacy and Meaning Enhancing Couples Therapy (IMECT). • Simpson 14 IMECT aims to improve the adjustment and quality of life of patients with advanced cancer and • Snyder 12 their partners by strengthening the couples’ capacity to manage cancer-related concerns • Stuart 11 collaboratively, draw support from one another, recognize and reinforce shared sources of • Whitton 2 meaning. IMECT evolved from a phase of pilot work in which we tested a model of couples Treasurer’s Update 10 therapy for men with metastatic prostate cancer and their wives. An earlier iteration of this Clements-Blackmon model piloted with 24 couples was focused primarily on enhancing intimacy and communication. Preliminary data indeed suggested that this conjoint couples intervention was Kudos 14 associated with improved quality of communication (i.e., increased constructive Hot off the Press 16 communication, decreased mutual avoidance, decreased demand-withdraw). However, a In Memoriam 18 qualitative analysis of completed intervention sessions, as well as feedback from exit interviews Couples SIG Newsletter Editors: with participating couples, suggested that our initial focus on intimacy-enhancement was of Ellen Darling, B.A. limited relevance at this late stage of illness. Couples commonly presented with concerns about Amanda G. Harp, M.A. disease progression, loss, uncertainty, and difficulties communicating about sensitive topics. Clark University IMECT therefore evolved to include a dual emphasis on relational and existential challenges. Worcester, MA IMECT strives to optimize communication about these concerns, while helping the couple [email protected] identify, affirm and “keep in circulation” [1] sources of relational meaning that counter the [email protected] distress which these dilemmas bring. (Continued on page 4.) Couples Research & Therapy SIG Newsletter, Autumn 2010 Volume 16, No. 2 , Page 2 Letter from the Editors Lab Updates: Today’s Couples & Families Research Lab, University of Cincinnati Ellen and I are pleased to We asked, and you answered. Sarah Whitton, Ph.D. offer the Autumn edition of The Couples SIG has many highly the Couples SIG Newsletter. This year we have been accomplished labs. If you didn’t get a hard at work adding to the chance to update us in this newsletter, Couples domain--by please start thinking about Spring 2011. becoming officially married ourselves! Well, not to one Christensen Lab another, but to our University of California, Los Angeles respective partners. (Kudos to us!) Sarah Whitton joined the faculty of the This edition of the Psychology Department of University of newsletter features an Cincinnati this year, and has started up the article by Talia I. Zaider, Today’s Couples and Families Research Program. The lab’s research is focused on Ph.D., and David W. better understanding and supporting modern Kissane, M.D., presenting couples, especially those who do not live in Intimacy and Meaning traditional first marriages, such as couples Enhancing Couples forming stepfamilies and those in same-sex Therapy (IMECT). Please Andrew Christensen, Ph.D. relationships. We are currently in the process of read further to learn more developing a relationship education program about their model of Graduate Students: Katherine J.W. Baucom, M.A., C.Phil, Meghan M. McGinn, M.A., Lisa A. Benson, M.A. for couples in stepfamilies, which we hope to therapy which emphasizes pilot soon. We’re also working on a both relational and We at the Christensen lab are enjoying a very busy fall! comprehensive review of relationship/family existential challenges faced Katie is now actively recruiting low-income couples for her education programs for stepfamilies, as well as by couples coping with NRSA-supported study of a slightly adapted Couple CARE basic research on the factors that place advanced stage illness. for Parents of Newborns (Halford, Heyman, Slep, Petch, & “stepcouples” at heightened risk for Creedy, 2009) during the transition to parenthood. relationship distress and breakup. The research Additionally, we introduce Meanwhile, she is also writing her dissertation on changes team is also completing a pilot study of a same- you to our newest segment in linguistic and observed behavior over the course of sex relationship education program for gay in the Couples SIG therapy and follow up in the IBCT clinical trial. Meghan is male couples marrying in Massachusetts, and is Newsletter, Lab Updates. also beginning recruitment for her NRSA project, actively collecting data for a study on the links It has been fascinating to examining pre- to post-therapy changes in marital between dating activity and depressive read what each of these labs satisfaction, physiological reactivity, and health outcomes symptoms in young adults of different sexual has been attempting and in older couples participating in IBCT. Her dissertation orientations. concerns change processes in IBCT, looking at both accomplishing. Graduate students on the research team include therapist and client behaviors in-session and changes in We invite SIG members to clients’ behavior outside therapy. Additionally, both Amanda Kuryluk, a first year at UC, and Brian Buzzella, a graduate student of Boston send us ideas for article Meghan and Katie are applying for internship this fall. University currently on internship at UCSD. topics for future newsletters A major project in our lab is a NICHD grant to lab-alum Our website is: and to contact us if you Brian Doss, now at the University of Miami, as well as http://homepages.uc.edu/~whittosh/TCF/Home.html would like to contribute an Andy, for creating a website-based version of IBCT. Lisa is article to your SIG working with Andy, Brian, and the rest of the UM team to Doss Lab, University of Miami newsletter. Are you develop content for the site; we look forward to pilot-testing Brian Doss, Ph.D. choosing a new book to it next year. Andy and Brian are also writing a new edition read? Perhaps one that of Reconcilable Differences (Christensen & Jacobson, Brian Doss' lab, now at the University of Miami others are wondering if 2000), intended in part as a companion to the online (FL), has been working this year to develop an they should bother reading? program. Meanwhile, Lisa, Meghan, and Andy are revising IBCT-inspired, web-based intervention for We invite you to submit a paper for the special section of Behavior Therapy on couples with problems in their relationship. As your review to the next common factors in couple therapy. Lisa is also preparing part of this five-year grant, and in Couples SIG newsletter. manuscripts based on work she presented at ABCT last year collaboration with Andy Christensen's lab concerning change in mental health and attachment styles (UCLA), we have written and pilot-tested Best wishes for a wonderful during couple therapy. material which will be built and further tested autumn and a successful In addition to the website project, Andy has begun a major in a large, randomized trial this upcoming year. ABCT Convention! project training VA therapists from across the country in We're also happy to report that we wrapped up Amanda Harp & IBCT as part of the VA’s rollout of empirically supported our two-year study examining couple and treatments. He has also collaborated with SIG members coparenting interventions over the transition to Ellen Darling Don Baucom at UNC and Doug Snyder at Texas A & M as parenthood and will hopefully be getting those well as many others on a grant application for a 4 site study results out soon. We're lucky to have had of the impact of couple therapy on adult anorexia.