PreparingPreparing forfor DeathDeath andand HelpingHelping thethe DyingDying by Sangye Khadro HAN DD ET U 'S B B O RY eOK LIBRA E-mail:
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[email protected] ii CONTENTS Preface To The Revised Edition ...... v Introduction ...... vii Buddhist Perspective on Death ● Death is a natural, inevitable part of life ...... 1 ● It is very important to accept and be aware of death ...... 4 ● Death is not the end of everything, but a gateway into another life ...... 6 ● It is possible to become free from death and rebirth ...... 8 How to Prepare for Death ● The four tasks of living and dying ...... 10 ● Live ethically ...... 13 ● Study spiritual teachings ...... 15 ● Cultivate a spiritual practice ...... 15 ● Become familiar with the stages of the death process ...... 19 iii Helping Others who are Dying ● Working on our own emotions .....