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july 1996 Quaker Thought FRIENDS and Life OURNAL Today ·Leadings · zn• LifoWVrk Strengthening Our Meetings through Feedback Thank Thee, Weighty Friend Editor-Manager Among Friends Vinton Deming Associate Editor Kenneth Sutton Assistant Editor In Loving Metnory Timothy Drake Art Director Barbara Benton ow's the Friends Journal Campaign going?" I have been asked frequently Production Assistant this month. "Very well indeed," is my response. It has been exciting to see Alia Podolsky H how many of our readers are making gifts to show their support. Since I Development Consultant have not written about the campaign for a few months now, allow me to mention two Henry Freeman particular gifts that moved me deeply. Both were memorial gifts. Both also were Marketing and Advertising Manager Nagendran Gulendran contributions of stock. Administrative Secretary The flrst was a gift from Irwin and Freda Abrams, Friends from Yellow Springs, Marianne De Lange Ohio. It was made in memory of Irwin's mother, Belle Victoria (Newman) Abrams. Bookkeeper When asking Irwin to tell me about his mother, I learned that she was born in April Nancy Siganuk 1880 in Grand Rapids, Michigan. The family moved flrst to Hamilton, Ontario, and Poetry Editor Judith Brown later to San Francisco, California, where Belle graduated from Girls' High School. In Development Data Entry 1902 she married Lewis Abrams, a San Francisco businessman, and they made their Pamela Nelson home there for their entire married life. Circulation Assistant Irwin describes his mother as a "voracious reader." The Abramses loved music Nicole Hackel and were frequent attenders of symphony concerts. Belle played the piano, and she Intern Cat Buckley made their home a place where music was present and appreciated. Volunteer Belle Abrams had a social conscience as well. When her son Irwin went to work Robert Sutton for the American Friends Service Committee in 1943, Belle showed her support by Board of Managers volunteering in the.Sah Francisco AFSC office, where she worked with war Irwin Abrams (Clerk), Jennie Allen, Lucinda Antrim, Paul Buckley, Susan Carnahan, refugees. She lived the last years of her life in Yellow Springs with Irwin and Freda, Sue Carnell, Elizabeth Cazden, Barbara Coffin, where she enjoyed seeing her grandchildren and meeting many friends and visitors Phoebe Cottingham (Treasurer), John Fanner, Deborah Fisch, Marty Grundy, Ingrid Holcomb, from the Antioch College community. She died there in 1978 at age 98. Robert Kunkel, Mary Mangelsdorf, Judy Monroe, The second special gift was from Roanoke, Virginia, Friends Bob and Susie Caroline Balderston Parry (Recording Clerk), Fetter. It was made in memory of Bob's great aunt, Olive Louella Whitson. "Ollie" Lisa Lewis Raymer, Margery Rubin, David Runkel, Larry C. Spears, Larry D. Spears, Whitson was born in Pennsylvania, the youngest of seven children and a descendent Carolyn Sprogell (Assistant Clerk), Robert Sutton, of early 19th-century Quaker Hicksite settlers in Chester and Lancaster Counties in Carolyn Terrell, Wilmer Tjossem Pennsylvania. In her early years she lived on farms near· Homeville and Atglen, FRIENDS JOURNAL (ISSN00 16-1322) was established Pennsylvania. After completing two years of study at West Chester Normal School in 1955 as the successor to The Friend (1827-1955) and Friends lntelligencer ( 1844-1955). It is in 1902, she taught school for a few years. Returning to college, she later graduated associated with the Religious Society of Friends. from Cornell University in 1910. Then, for over 30 years, she was one of the head • FRIENDS JOURNAL is published monthly by Friends workers at the Hudson Guild on New York City's Lower West Side. Her continuing Publishing Corporation, 1501 Cherry St., interest during these years was her work to improve the life of inner city children. Philadelphia, PA 19102-1497. Telephone (215) 241- 7277. E-mail: [email protected]. Accepted as Later, in the 1940s, Ollie Whitson worked with a Quaker program in the city second-class postage at Philadelphia, Pa., and assisting war refugees coming into the country. additional mailing offices. After living in Princeton, New Jersey, for a number of years, Ollie-then in her • Subscriptions: one year $25, two years $45. Add $6 per year for postage to countries outside the U.S., seventies-accepted an assignment at Quaekerhaus in Vienna for two years. She Canada, and Mexico. Individual copies $2.25 each. was there at a particularly challenging time, from 1955 to 1957, during the • lnfonnation on and assistance with advertising is Hungarian uprising. "At age 74," Bob Fetter told me, "Ollie was in and out of the available on request. Appearance of any advertisement does not imply endorsement by refugee camps, doing what she could to relieve the suffering." Bob describes his FRIENDS JOURNAL. great aunt as "a very disciplined person, a real network person who loved to be in • Postmaster: send address changes to FRIENDS touch with others." He says too that she just kept on growing personally throughout JouRNAL, 1501 Cherry St., Philadelphia, her life. "Ollie once told me," he said, "that she learned more about the world and its PA 19102-1497. people between the ages of 40 and 60 than she had between 20 and 40." • Copyright © 1996 by Friends Publishing Corporation. Reprints of articles available at For the last 17 years of her life, Ollie Whitson stayed at the Friends Boarding nominal cost. Pennission should be received before Home in Kennett Square, Pennsylvania. She maintained an active correspondence reprinting excerpts longer than 200 words. Available on microfilm from University Microfilms and enjoyed visits with family and friends of all ages. She died December 10, 1977, International. at the age of94. PRINTED ON RECYCLED PAPER Our thanks to both the Fetters and the Abramses for their gifts. As other memorial gifts are received we will include briefbiographical sketches of those being honored. Moving? Let us update your subscription and address. FRIENDS JoURNAL, 1501 Cheny St., ~~')~ Philadelphia, PA 19102-1497 Next Month in FRIENDS JoURNAL: (215) 241-7277; Fax (215) 568-1377 On Revisiting the Apostle Paul E-mail: [email protected] The Second Luddite Congress A Special Selection of Poetry 2 July 1996 FRIENDS JOURNAL July 1996 FRIENDS Volume 42, No. 7 JOURNAL Features Departments 7 Leadings in Life's Work 2 Among Friends Judith Pruess What work am I so interested in that I will do it even ifI may not 4 Forum get paid? 22 Life in the Meeting 10 Not Going Anywhere 24 Reports Melinda Glines New understanding ofstability and permanence comes in the 25 News of Friends midst offeeling like a skipping stone on the surface ofthe water. 26 Bulletin Board 12 Eli's Place Kathleen Davidson March 26 Calendar Through Eli, they were able to meet in the eternal. 28 Books 14 Strengthening Our Meetings through 31 Milestones Feedback George Lakey 33 Classified An experienced nonviolence trainer suggests our meetings could benefit from better communication. Poetry 16 Thank Thee, Weighty Friend 17 My Feet Grew Old First Jhan Robbins Carmen Hayes Anderson Our most-admired Friends can be found in history books and religious tracts, at Quaker conferences, and in our own meetings. 18 Benjamin, the Meetinghouse Mouse Clifford Pfeil Our heroes attempt a daring rescue. (Part 5 of8) 20 Summer Puzzler Teddy Milne A crostic to jill your summer days. Cover photo by Susan Coffin FRIENDS J OURNAL July 1996 3 Forum In the news that university, I was amused to read in the wooden pail of hard, sugar candy the French local newspaper the following headline to a had included for us. I broke this open, got For those of us who come from countries write-up of the Penn-Princeton basketball down, and passed a handful of candy where Quakers are a tiny minority, it comes game: "Tigers Meet Quakers and Find They through the wire. She took the candy, did a as a surprise to find almost daily references Are Good." Did the tigers eat the Quakers little curtsy and a quick danken, and ran. in the national newspapers. The members of and decide that they were tasty, or did the Soon she was back with a dozen other Kenya' s various yearly meetings total at savage beasts come upon a meeting and find children. I fed ten pounds of candy that least 800,000, most of them centered in the our co-religionists virtuous and kind? As the Easter morning to a dozen hungry German densely populated Western Province. It is French say, it makes one dream. children. not, therefore, surprising to find them I told this story to an FOR group recently reported in the press. Janice Roddenbery and a German student who was a guest of a Today (February 23) is the day that Lawrenceville, N.J. member stood and said, "That little girl was secondary school examination results are my grandmother. I know because she was in announced. They cover the front page and Berlin at that time and she has told me this three inside pages of the Daily Nation. Top same story!" amongst Quaker schools mentioned is I hope the lady, now in her 80s, is still Friends School, Kamusinga, which placed living and remembers Easter of 1919 as 39th out of schools with over I 00 fondly as I do. I am in my IOOth year, am candidates. A number of other Quaker unable to read what I write, so please excuse schools are mentioned as well. its uniqueness. Otherwise I am well and well Much of the Quaker news revolves cared for. around Quaker politicians such as Joshua Floyd Schmoe Angatia, the minister of health, and Musalia Seattle, Wash. Mudavadi, the minister of finance. The latter is the Member of Parliament for Sabatia, and he recently addressed leaders at the Vokoli FGC in Canada Friends Church in an effort to get more Since Friends General Conference this support for the Jua Kali Association.