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ON THE COVER | CONTENTS ALLY’S ANGEL CARD—This colorful nativity scene 5 CBS 60 MINUTES 23 ST. JOSEPH SCHOOL MURAL of the Guardian Angel hovering over Bethlehem was paint- Highlights St. Ann School Is Talk of the Town ed by Ally Fallon, who attends St. Thomas Aquinas School. Inside this issue Her joyful work won a nationwide contest sponsored by 6 PAX CHRISTI AWARD 25 YOUTH PAGE the Holy Childhood Association. Ally designed the picture To Fairfield Prep Senior “I Love Christmas” 4 Fr. Terry Walsh makes pilgrimage to Bethlehem as part of a class project to help poor children in mission

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WALLACE Conderino. “These been targeted toward them.” groceries to bring home and feed are people who Conderino says that people families. “Most of them are work- A growing number of people never needed help misunderstand the nature of ing people, many immigrant day who have never sought chari- before, don’t know homelessness in Fairfield County. laborers who we haven’t seen table support are showing up in how to ask and are While many struggle with sub- before and may not see on a soup kitchens, food pantries and sometimes ashamed stance abuse and chronic mental regular basis,” says Jenkins, who counseling programs provided to come forward.” health problems, others simply explains that many come in on by Catholic Charities across the After struggling can’t find housing they can months when their hours are cut Diocese of Bridgeport. with job loss and afford. and they can’t make ends meet. The lingering effects of the health care prob- “The perception is that people “We’re doing our job if they recession and unemployment, lems, many are aren’t working, but they are. come here to save money on their the high cost of housing and the simply tapped out They just don’t make enough to food budget and that prevents ongoing state and federal budget and have nowhere sustain themselves in an apart- them from becoming homeless,” cuts have left people struggling to else to turn. ment and pay for everything else. says Jenkins, who notes that stay afloat while there are fewer “We are find- You can’t find a one bedroom NCH serves almost 750 meals a resources available to help them. ing a lot of people apartment in Danbury for under day between its breakfast, lunch “Many people have gone under who timed out of $900.” and dinner offerings and its after- in the past year,” says Catholic unemployment and In Bridgeport, Merton Center school program for local children. Charities Vice President Sandy have burnt out all Director Mark Grasso says that Cole says the recent $63 mil- Cole. “When times got tough, other resources” he and the staff have seen a dou- lion budget cuts in mental health many of them went to their credit Conderino says. “In bling of the number of people services announced by the cards and then borrowed from the past, they would visiting the food pantry in the Malloy administration will lead friends and family to get by. Along have been caught HOMELESS OUTREACH— “These are people who past year. “That’s been kind of to a $57,000 decrease in Catholic the way, they’ve lost their jobs, by our prevention never needed help before,” says Michelle Conderino, a shocker for us. Now we have Charities programs that directly homes and emotional stability.” programs before of the newly poor and homeless served by the over 500 people coming in for serve the homeless and those Michelle Conderino, director becoming homeless. Homeless Outreach Team and Morning Glory feeding bags of food. We’re just seeing a suffering from chronic mental of the Morning Glory feeding The services just program. In the photo above Conderino, who serves lot more people who simply can’t illness. She says the cutback in program and Homeless Outreach aren’t there anymore as director of the programs, makes oatmeal for guests make ends meet, and the bad mental health services will be Team in Danbury, says that she to keep them from at Dorothy Day House in Danbury. “The services economy has finally hit them,” more expensive in the long run, just aren’t there anymore to keep them from falling has seen a 15% increase in the falling through the through the cracks.” he says. because many people suffering number of adults coming to the cracks.” At New Covenant House of from chronic illness who have Morning Glory breakfast program Many of the Hospitality in Stamford, Director functioned well with the proper at Dorothy Day House this year. newly homeless are likely to be very little, Conderino says. “They Brian Jenkins reports that his medication are no longer receiv- “We were kind of surprised over 50 years old and to have never thought they would be in food pantry has experienced an ing benefits and will ultimately because we thought most people worked their entire lives. Now, the position to need services, and increase of about 75 new people end up in emergency rooms and were over the hurdle,” says when they need help, there is the state’s services haven’t really a month coming in for bags for ➤ continued on page 10 “Blessed Gifts” for Christmas and all occasions BRIDGEPORT— Blessed ning meal for retired priests at the She made her first Blessed Gift Gifts launched a Gift of Giving Catherine Dennis Keefe Queen of when the program was launched Campaign for Christmas that Clergy Residence in Stamford. last Christmas and was very enables donors to send cards to “The response has been enthu- pleased by the response, so this friends and loved ones while mak- siastic,” Rittman says, “because year she looked forward to the ing gifts to support vital ministries people are looking for a way to new giving opportunities. and programs of the diocese. make a meaningful and memo- “Christmas changes a lot as “You can make a gift in honor rable gift that reflects the values we get older and it’s nice to place of or in memory of someone, or and faith of those who are hon- the emphasis on giving rather simply let someone know you’re ored by it.” than receiving—especially when thinking of them and supporting Patricia Thomas, a parishioner we have so much,” says Thomas, good works in their name,” says at St. Thomas Aquinas Parish who is vice president of the Pam Rittman, who is coordinat- in Fairfield, recently purchased Ladies Guild, which made and ing the effort for the diocesan a Blessed Gift in honor of her sold Advent center pieces this development office. father by purchasing grocery year to support parish programs. Rittman said that some of the bags to serve hungry families “This is a great way to help those most popular gifts cards this year who visit New Covenant House in need by supporting ministries are those that enable the diocese of Hospitality food pantry in that reach out to them,” she says. the card. Their gift is directed to opportunities for “All Occasions” to feed the hungry. Many donors Stamford. Donors simply visit the dioc- the appropriate ministry. Donors throughout the year includ- purchased $50 cards that provide Thomas says she likes Blessed esan website, select a gift to put can also shop through the enve- ing birthdays, Mother’s Day, Christmas dinner for two families Gifts because it gives her a way in their “shopping cart,” and they lope included in this issue of Father’s Day, anniversaries, at the Merton Center; $100 worth of personalizing the giving by can print or email a card to send Fairfield County Catholic. sympathy cards, weddings, First of groceries for families to take selecting to support an act of to a family member or friend to In addition to providing Communion, and Confirmation. home from diocesan food pan- charity that is important to her whom the gift is dedicated. If Christmas giving opportuni- (To shop on the Blessed Gifts tries; and $250 to sponsor an eve- faith. they prefer, the diocese will mail ties, Blessed Gifts offers giving website, go to www.blessedgifts.org.) n 4 December 2012 Travel Bethlehem, City of Bread and King of Kings

By FR. TERRY WALSH life. He teaches us that we must be “poor in spirit” —acknowl- “And you, edging our spiritual poverty—in order to receive the healing graces O Bethlehem, in the that come to us most abundantly land of Judah, are by through sacramental Confession and the Eucharist. no means least among We gathered in the chapel in the rulers of Judah; for the Shepherd’s Field for Mass and sang the Hymn of Praise, from you shall come a “Gloria in excelsis Deo!” in ruler who will govern the very place where it was first proclaimed. We sang with the Israel.” Matthew 2:6 angels, as Jesus was about to become present in the Eucharist Last month, the Bridgettine upon the altar here in the fields of Sisters, whose convent is in Bethlehem, “The City of Bread!” Darien, arranged a pilgrimage to After Mass, we made our the Holy Land in honor of the way up to the birthplace of our 100th anniversary of the re-consti- Lord, just as the shepherds had tution of the Order of St. Bridget done after they were greeted by of Sweden, as well as the “Year of the angels on that first Christmas Faith” pronounced by our Holy THE HOLIEST OF HOLY PLACES in Bethlehem, the spot where Jesus was born. The star-shaped silver marker is night. We met pilgrims from Father, Pope Benedict XVI. surrounded by devotional lamps and icons. around the world who had, like- I was invited to attend and wise, come to honor our Lord. eagerly joined the group of 27 for The Church of the Nativity, what would be my first visit to themselves. could become warm, so that love the Lord shone around them, and commissioned in 326 A.D. by St. Israel. We traversed the country After Mass, we made our and kindness could, with the help they were filled with fear. And the Helena, mother of the Emperor for 10 days. From Jerusalem we way to Bethlehem. We arrived of his grace, wash away fear and angel said to them, ‘Be not afraid Constantine, was built over the visited Galilee, Nazareth, and at the checkpoint guarded by despair and thereby heal spiritual . . . for to you is born this day in cave where Mary gave birth to Cana in the north, and Jericho soldiers wielding machine guns. infirmity. the city of David a Savior, who is Jesus. The Emperor Justinian in the east. We journeyed from As we crossed the threshold into The same seems true today. Our Christ the Lord’” (Luke 2:8-11). replaced Constantine’s church the depths of the Dead Sea to the Palestinian territory, there was Lord has come, he is in our midst, And there we were, stand- in 530 A.D., building the larger momentous heights of Mount a notable decline in economic yet “walls” of spiritual poverty ing in this holy place, seemingly church which still stands today. Tabor and Mount Carmel. Truly, prosperity. Many have taken flight abound. Bethlehem Roman Catholics, the Greek it was an unforgettable experience. from Bethlehem in recent years. reminds us that we Orthodox, and the Armenians Our overnight flight from I quietly wondered what sort of need to prepare a wor- control various parts of the New York to Tel Aviv landed “checkpoints” our Blessed Mother thy place for Him in Church of the Nativity. on a Saturday afternoon and we and St. Joseph might have had the “inn” of our hearts We entered the church went straight to Jerusalem. Upon to endure as they made their way and humbly beg him to through the “Door of Humility,” entering the City of David, the from Nazareth to Bethlehem for take up residence in our a small doorway that can only be city lights lit up the domes and the census decreed by Caesar souls and so heal us. entered on foot with one’s head the wall surrounding the Old Augustus. Did they have enough Early the next bowed. It was a gentle reminder City stretched around our view. food to sustain them throughout morning, we traveled to “bow” one’s heart, too, in this Our bus turned up one of the five their long and difficult journey? a short distance along holy place. We joined the long hills surrounding the city and we Were they able to have adequate the hillside down line of pilgrims who patiently arrived at the Bridgettine Convent. shelter? Were the people along into a valley of fields waited to enter the grotto and Our pilgrimage began and the way as cold-hearted as those where we arrived at venerate the very place where ended with Holy Mass at the con- they would later encounter in a chapel constructed Jesus was born. vent in the “City of Peace.” And Bethlehem? in the midst of sev- As the line moved through yet, in these tumultuous times, Indeed, after their long and eral excavated caves, the church, inching its way closer peace in the Holy Land seems so difficult journey from Nazareth, which had served to the steps that led into the fragile. Barrier walls have been Mary and Joseph were greeted as shelters for the cave, we passed beautiful icons constructed around the city, as with the frosty Wall of Spiritual humble shepherds depicting the Nativity. The most well as in various other places Poverty, closely guarded by uncar- and their sheep dur- unique icon, the Virgin Mary of around the country that serve to ing people who were suffering ing the time of our Bethlehem, depicted Mary smil- divide territory between Israelis the effects of hard-heartedness. Lord. It was here in ing as she held her newborn Son. and Palestinians. The Israelis call Although Mary was very near her these fields that man It is said to be the only icon in it the “Envelope of Jerusalem,” time to give birth, all they heard first heard the joyful THE ICON OF THE VIRGIN MARY of the world of Mary smiling. protecting the city from harm, was, “No room at the Inn!” exaltation, “Gloria in Bethlehem is said to be the only icon in the world The guard standing by the nar- while the Palestinians refer to it Little did the people of excelsis Deo!” depicting the Blessed Mother with a smile. row entrance directed pilgrims as the “Wall of Shame,” dividing Bethlehem know that the one who St. Luke writes: into the Grotto of the Nativity. families. Even in the Christian came to conquer the hard hearted- “And in that region There we knelt before the silver churches, there is division among ness of mankind was in their midst. there were shepherds out in unchanged from 2,000 years ago, star-shaped marker in the floor the Catholic, Orthodox, and Little did they realize he would the field, keeping watch in the pondering the joy of the shep- and prayed for a few moments, Armenian religions, dividing up be born into the world right here night. And the angel of the Lord herds. Indeed, the Prince of Peace contemplating how the whole “territory” within the churches in Bethlehem so that cold hearts appeared to them and the glory of had burst into the world to give ➤ continued on page 19 5 December 2012 Local News St. Ann school on 60 Minutes It started in a sixth-grade class- with Javell Watson, who had like these that give me hope for room and ended up on nation- grown up in poverty in Jamaica. the future.” wide television. Students from “I started to cry because I “He told me, ‘You’re one St. Ann School in Bridgeport could feel their pain,” recalls of the most active clubs in the were the centerpiece of CBS’s 60 Javell, now 18 and a student United States!’” says Pilotti. Minutes segment on a Free the at Bridgeport’s Central Magnet This summer the students’ Children project to build a school High School. fundraising efforts paid off when in Kenya. St. Ann’s has always aimed Gabby found herself, boots on Viewers couldn’t feel Africa’s to encourage initiative in its stu- the ground in Kenya, leading the stupendous heat, smell the dust, dents. Even so, Pilotti was sur- or feel the ache in young muscles prised that, during recess, several after a day spent mixing cement students were back at her door. and hauling concrete blocks. “They came to me and said, ‘We What they could see, though, have to do something. We have was the depth of commitment the to build a school.’” students from St. Ann’s brought The school featured on 60 A WIDE BAND OVER HER HEAD to their project. That commit- Minutes isn’t St. Ann’s first. The helps Magdalena Dutkowska distrib- ment extends to the entire school first one was in the African coun- ute the heavy weight of water on her community, which financed the try of Sierra Leone. Following back. Young women in Kenya carry water this way daily. Magdalena was project through bake sales and that, the students raised funds for part of a contingent from St. Ann handmade bracelets and a bevy of their counterparts in earthquake- School who traveled to Kenya to help fundraising activities. devastated Haiti. During the build a school with Free the Children. The journey from the 2010-11 school year, the new- She is joined in the photo at left by Bridgeport classroom to Kenya est crop of leaders—Gabriella some of the school’s new students, and on to nationwide attention Torres, now a sophomore at who might otherwise not gain the began when social studies teacher Lauralton Hall in Milford, chance of an education. The St. Ann students’ efforts were featured on the Dawn Pilotti showed her class Cynthia Rivera, a freshman at CBS television program 60 Minutes. Oprah Winfrey’s “Building a Kolbe-Cathedral High School in Dream” documentary about the Bridgeport, and seventh-graders school she opened for girls in Joey Hopkins and Magdalena delegation to help build their lat- is a real thing in the world. They the things you have.” South Africa. Dutkowska—connected with est school. need to know that not everyone Most of all, Joey told the “Our sixth-grade curriculum Free the Children. More than heavy work, heat, can just go downstairs, turn on a television audience—especially compares cultures,” explains When Craig Kielburger, dust—and the traditional Masai tap, and get a glass of water. Not the young—“They need to know Pilotti. “Oprah’s response to the founder of Free the Children, gift of a goat—the students everyone has a proper education. that they can be the change in the situation poor children suffer in spoke at the New Canaan Teen brought home some hard lessons. You should really be thankful for world.” n South Africa fit with what we Center last November, he referred “People need to know that teach about the Gospel values of specifically to the “extraordinary poverty is a real thing,” Joey told compassion, justice and service.” St. Ann’s School of Bridgeport.” the television audience. “Kids • Newspapers We are the proud printers of the The documentary hit home He told his listeners “It’s students starving at four or five years old Fairfield County Catholic for the past 20 years. • Publications St. Pius X Dinner Dance • Shoppers • Catalogs GALA EVENING— (l-r) Dr. Robert and Kathleen • Magazines Russo, Grace and Ruben Rodriguez, and Grace and Eugene Fairfield were present- • Directories ed St. Pius X Service Awards at the St. Pius X Faith Center • Coupon Books Dinner Dance Gala held at The Country Club of Fairfield. • College Course Parish Trustees Denis Sullivan and Ernest Pierson, along Catalogs with their spouses, served as hosts for the evening. 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By PAT HENNESSY returned with his father to run a because under Lebanese law a they pitched in to finish an basketball clinic for children at roof would make them perma- entire basketball court. “It looks David Maloof II, a senior at the camp. nent residences.” They can have like a full court in the U.S.,” Fairfield Prep and a member of David’s understanding of the a piece of tin over the top to keep David says. St. John Parish in Darien, has importance of service is woven out the rain, but that’s all. This year camp officials been awarded the Eileen Egan throughout his life. It began in his David points out that he grew invited David and his dad back Peacemaker Award from Pax early years at St. Aloysius School up in a generation that has seen to run a 10-day basketball clinic. Christi. David received the presti- in New Canaan and was fostered practically everything, thanks Although his sport of choice at gious award for his work in help- by the attitudes and activities to streaming video, the Internet Prep is wrestling, David had ing to create a basketball facility of his family, who have always and YouTube. Even so, “to meet played basketball at St. Aloysius, at a Palestinian Christian refugee been active in parish and com- people, to put myself in their and plays at the YMCA in camp in Beirut, Lebanon. munity projects to help the less Pax Christi (the words are fortunate. That understanding has Latin for “the peace of Christ”) matured at Prep, where a focus is a global Catholic peace move- on Ignatian Spirituality aims to ment with branches in more lead each student to become “a than fifty countries. The United man for others.” States branch has its headquarters “We want the guys to develop in New York City. Nationally- leading advocate for the abolition a mature theological approach to renowned winners of Pax Christi of the death penalty. social justice,” says Matt Tellis, Peacemaker Awards have The award was based on who teaches theology to juniors included actor Martin Sheen, David’s efforts, over the past and seniors at Prep. “We want whose passion for social justice several years, to create a basket- them to figure out what their comes from his Catholic faith; ball court and add a ping pong values are and how that impacts the celebrated Jesuit priest author table to the refugee camp. Before their lives.” and peace activist, Fr. John Dear, that, the only sports outlet for David’s journey to Lebanon A STRIKING CONTRAST: coached by Fairfield Prep senior David Maloof, youngsters at Dbayeh refugee camp in Lebanon energetically practice their S.J., who has also been nomi- children in the camp was a dirt and ultimately, to the Pax Christi basketball skills. Behind the court lies an abandoned prison. David has been nated for the Nobel Peace Prize; soccer field. This past summer, award began when his father Christmas-Canada 3.9X6_Layout 1 10/19/12 2:31 PM Page 1 named a recipient of the prestigious Pax Christi Peacemaker Award for his and Sr. Helen Prejean, America’s at the request of camp leaders, he (also named David) became work to build the basketball court. interested in tracing the family’s roots. David’s great-grandfather had come to America in an early position, to reflect that this would Darien. “We set up three teams, wave of Lebanese immigration, be your entire life, with very few taught them defensive drills, had arriving here in 1914. His father opportunities for anything differ- them practice free throws and run made contact with some cous- ent—they can’t become doctors layup lines,” he explains. ins still living in Lebanon and or lawyers. Even registering to Corey Dennis, a theology arranged for a visit. At that time create a business or get a drivers’ teacher at Prep and David’s wres- David was still in middle school. license is very difficult for them.” tling coach, has known him well “My dad felt that, with so Ignatian spirituality is some- over his years at the school and many issues going on in the times referred to as the “spiritual- is proud of his efforts to help the country, going just to the tourist ity for decision makers.” David youngsters at the Dbayeh camp. part wouldn’t help us understand couldn’t change Middle East “Dave doesn’t see this as service, the country,” he explains. politics, but in conversations he sees this as justice,” he says. So the elder Maloof contacted with camp directors he learned In the interest of making his Nov. 15 – Feb. 3 the Catholic Near East Welfare that American basketball was contribution more consistent in Association, a papal agency for becoming an international sport the future, David will be contact- humanitarian and pastoral sup- and was gaining a following in ing universities in Beirut in the port. They put together a tour Lebanon. This was something he hope of getting student volunteers that included both the country’s could work with. interested in continuing the bas- tourist attractions and loca- With the help of a Garage ketball clinics. The family hopes tions that highlighted tensions Sale at St. John’s, and two New to return to Lebanon in 2014. in Lebanon and throughout Year’s Day Polar Bear Swims David hasn’t yet picked the Middle East, including the in Newport, RI, (for one, David his college choice. He knows, Dbayeh camp for Christian and his sister, Julia, did the swim though, that he would like to refugees located just outside as Power Rangers; this year he study international politics, with Beirut. The injustice implicit in and his uncle did it at Batman an eye to working in the State the camp’s existence was an eye- and Robin), David raised enough Department or the U.N. “Your opener for a young man about to funds to build a basketball hoop whole life should be about help- enter eighth grade. at the camp and supply the kids ing others—it’s not something “They’re called refugees, but with basketballs, with money left you do on weekends,” he says. the Christian Palestinians have over for a ping pong table and “It started with my family, and been there for about 80 years,” equipment. Prep has really clarified this David explains. “The Lebanese David’s contribution snow- for me.” 1 State Street, New Haven 06511 have ruled that they can live balled. The Italian Embassy had David, along with other win- 203-865-0400 in these camps, but they can’t volunteered to build a water ners, will be presented with the kofcmuseum.org become Lebanese citizens. They tower for the camp. When they Pax Christi award at a formal Free admission & parking can’t build roofs on their houses, saw the kids playing basketball, ceremony in the Spring. n 7 December 2012 Catholic Charities Breakfast with Fr. Allen NORWALK— Saying Mass of the Mass unites us in love, every day and in many places charity and oneness with Christ.” around the world has been the In a talk that was humorous “greatest joy” in his life, Fr. and reflective, Fr. Allen men- Charles Allen, S.J., said at the tioned that he never gets upset 21st Annual Celebrity Breakfast of when people arrive late, because Catholic Charities. his father and family arrived late ENCORE! ­— (Above) Fr. Charles Allen, special assistant to The event, held at Shorehaven for Sunday Mass for years. “Our the president of Fairfield University, did the honors once again Country Club in Norwalk, raised church had an upstairs Mass and at the 21st Annual Celebrity Breakfast of Catholic Charities of Norwalk. With his mix of humor and thoughtful reflection, Fr. more than $12,000 for the behav- a downstairs Mass,” he recalled, Allen entertained and enlightened the gathering of 160 friends ioral health programs and Room “And my father waited outside of Catholic Charities. to Grow Early Childhood Center to see who was preaching at each sponsored by Catholic Charities one before he decided to go in.” WAITER! (left) Msgr. William Scheyd, pastor of St. Aloysius in Norwalk. Betty Hunter With his trademark humor, Fr. parish in New Canaan, wore the waiter’s apron and served of Norwalk, president of the Allen said wedding Masses are breakfast to the men and women at his table. He then got to col- Advisory Board, served as chair, among his favorite to celebrate, lect large tips to support the counseling and child care programs of the agency. Photos by Amy Mortensen while board member Ed Bagnulo but he often warns the bride to of Westport was the master of “beware of the flower girls, who ceremonies for the event. will upstage them every time.” Catholic Charities Catholic Charities of Norwalk “If I couldn’t offer Mass, I He described one recent wed- ing them all up. The congregation sponsors 33 social programs provides counseling, center-based wouldn’t want to do anything,” ding, where flowers were strewn reacted with laughter. throughout the diocese. Tintrup childcare adoption, and mental Fr. Allen, who is special assis- beautifully down the center aisle by He discussed memorable thanked the men and women health services to Norwalk, New tant to the president of Fairfield two flower girls while the youngest Masses in his life, including one who came to support the agency’s Canaan, Wilton and Westport. University, said. “The experience innocently followed behind pick- last summer at an orphanage for work in Norwalk. “What’s being The counseling and family ser- severely disabled young people in done in our name and in Our vice office is located at One Park Nicaragua, and one in a remote Lord’s name every day leads to St., Norwalk. Room to Grow Philippine village, where the a restoration of lives,” he told Childcare Center is located at 208 people lived without any modern them. “I’ve seen the healing that East Ave., Norwalk. technology or convenience yet takes place. We are grateful for (For more information on Catholic sang American Christmas carols your continued support for those Charities services in Norwalk, call as part of their recessional hymn. who are marginalized in this 203.750.9711 or email jgauthier@ Fr. Allen said that while cel- society.” ccfc-ct.org.) n ebrating Mass for young people in other countries, he often finds himself thinking of the children served by Room to Grow in Benefit Planning Services, LLC Norwalk and other diocesan pro- grams that serve young people in Fairfield County. Fr. Allen was introduced by COMMUNITY LEADERS—Betty Hunter of Norwalk, president of the Michael Tintrup, acting chief Catholic Charities Advisory Board, and Norwalk Mayor Richard Moccia get operating officer of Catholic together at the Celebrity Breakfast held at Shorehaven Country Club. 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Basically, we’re should not concern themselves invited to widen this concept to with predictions of the end of what makes for healthy living, the world, Pope Benedict XVI as it’s not just what you have in told his midday audience on your pocket.” November 18. The Pope’s com- He called Catholic Social ments focused on the day’s Teaching one of the most power- Gospel reading from Mark, ful tools for human development. chapter 13, particularly verse It provides, he says, “the basic 32: “But of that day or hour, no sense of human dignity which one knows, neither the angels in generates various forms of human heaven, nor the Son, but only the rights.” Father.” The Pope said that Jesus, in Rising number of Catholics speaking about the end times, in U.S. Congress “wishes to ensure that his WASHINGTON, DC— disciples in every age remain Pope Benedict XVI started tweeting in six languages from his own personal handle @Pontifex on December 12. Following the 2012 election, unmoved by dates and predic- the number of Catholics in tions.” The essential thing for Congress will rise from 156 Christians, the Pope observed, is takes on flesh and Jesus becomes the screen is refreshed. The Pope 42 years,” Rev. Gipson said. “I (29%) to 161 (30%). 56% of union with Christ. “the true firmament that guides launched his Twitter account on can’t imagine not being a priest. members of the new Congress In speaking about the end man’s thoughts and actions on Wednesday, December 12, in his I’m anxious to get back to priestly are Protestants: 14% are Baptists, of the world, Jesus uses Old earth.” general audience. He had been work.” 9% are Methodists, and 8% are Testament imagery to describe taking questions in advance on Presbyterians. In addition, 6% of “a future that exceeds our own Pope Benedict now tweets matters of faith via the hashtag Access to needs, not dollars, is members of the new Congress are categories of comprehension,” the VATICAN CITY—On #askpontifex. Many of those standard for defining poverty Jews, and 3% are Mormons. Pope said. Most important, Jesus December 3, the Vatican may be touched on in those first VATICAN CITY—Poverty In the 113th Congress, 54% reminds his disciples that their announced that Pope Benedict tweets. must be understood not only in of Catholics in the House of focus should be on “a new center: XVI will begin tweeting under The Pope’s presence on terms of a shortage of money, but Representatives, and 67% of Himself, the mystery of his per- the handle @Pontifex, a term Twitter is the latest initiative also in terms of a lack of access to Catholics in the Senate, will be son, his death and resurrection.” for the pope that means “bridge aimed to reach the Church’s 1.2 education, health care, and other Democrats. In Biblical language, the Pope builder” in Latin. Within hours billion followers, especially young assets, Peter Cardinal Turkson, continued, “the Word of God is of the announcement, he had people. “The Pope’s presence on the president of the Pontifical Swiss Guards release the origin of creation.” With the more than 250,000 followers, and Twitter can be seen as the ‘tip of Council for Justice and Peace, Christmas CD Incarnation, the Word of God the number increases every time the iceberg’ that is the Church’s told Vatican Radio. He spoke to VATICAN CITY—The Swiss presence in the world of new Vatican Radio ahead of the ‘Why Guards, in conjunction with media,” the Vatican said in a Poverty’ initiative that took place harpist Daniela Lorenz, have statement. ARSILLIO Rector of largest U.S. Episcopal M Television • Appliances S church became Catholic Sub-Zero • Wolf • Viking • Thermador HOUSTON, TX—Rev. 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It features five Swiss Pates of Des Moines, Iowa, chair- unharmed. as an auxiliary of the Shanghai ROME, Italy—”Catholic Guards and Paraguayan harpist man of the bishops’ Committee The monastery became a diocese in the latest in a series of and Muslim Cooperation in Daniela Lorenz performing well on International Justice and symbol of national pride after punishments for the bishop after promoting justice in the contem- know favorites such as “Little Peace, called for continued fund- Poles successfully defended it he resigned from the Catholic porary world” was the theme Drummer Boy,” Silent Night and ing of poverty-focused interna- against invading Swedish troops Patriotic Association. of the eighth colloquium of the Adeste Fideles as well as a num- tional assistance, which encom- in the 17th century. According Bishop Ma has been under Pontifical Council for Inter- ber of other German and Italian passes programs such as HIV/ to legend, the sacred image house arrest since his ordination religious Dialogue and the Centre carols. AIDS treatment, disaster aid, was painted by St. Luke and in July. At that ceremony he for Inter-religious Dialogue of the The CD is available at iTunes refugee services, health care, sup- helped repel the foreign soldiers. announced that he was leaving Islamic Culture and Relations and at several European online port for small farmers and aid to Solidarity leader Lech Walesa the Patriotic Association, and he Organisation (ICRO). The meet- vendors. orphaned children. kept his 1983 Nobel Peace Prize conspicuously declined to share ing was held in Rome from Such spending—totaling $20.2 medal at the monastery for safe- Communion with other bishops November 19-21. Church urges ‘circle of protec- billion in fiscal year 2012, com- keeping beyond the reach of the who were ordained without the Both sides expressed their tion’ for poor in budget debate prising about 0.6 percent of the country’s then communist rulers, Vatican’s approval. awareness of and concern for cur- WASHINGTON, DC— who regarded the award as part Bishop Ma had originally been rent challenges, including the eco- of a Western plot. ordained with the approval of nomic crisis, the environmental Thousands of Poles make pil- both Rome and Beijing. Chinese issue, the weakening of the family grimages to the monastery every authorities quickly revoked their as a basic institution of society year to see the icon. approval, however, after his high- and threats to world peace. The ly public rebuke of the Patriotic participants, recognizing both Catholic School in Quebec Association. Both the Patriotic areas of commonality and differ- loses religious freedom case Association and the bishops’ con- ence, focused on common ground MONTREAL, Canada—An ference, established by the gov- and shared values, including the appeals court in the province of ernment, have been denounced belief in one God. Quebec has ruled that a Catholic by Pope Benedict XVI as clear The next colloquium will take school is legally obliged to offer efforts to exert political control place in Tehran, Iran, in two a state-sponsored ethics course over the Church. years. n that conflicts with the teach- ings of the Church. The school, a Jesuit institution located in Montreal, had taken its case to court after the education minister Catholic social teaching’s concern federal budget—helps promote refused to allow the school for human life and dignity stood human development and builds to substitute its own ethics front and center as the role of the peace among nations, he said. course, taught from a Catholic federal spending was debated by At the same time, Fr. Larry perspective, for the government’s political leaders and assessed by Snyder, president of Catholic curriculum. the electorate in a presidential Charities USA, focused his Loyola High School first took election year. agency’s message to Congress legal action in 2008, when an Throughout the debate, the during the budget negotiations education minister refused to chairmen of two committees of on preventing drastic cuts in grant equivalency to the school’s the U.S. Conference of Catholic funding for social service pro- Morals and World Religions Bishops (USCCB) renewed their grams as well as protecting the course. The minister argued that call for a “circle of protection” charitable tax deduction that has Loyola’s course is taught from a around federally funded programs existed since 1917. “Our concern Catholic viewpoint, whereas the benefitting poor and vulnerable is that they don’t try to take the state course requires religions to people. easy way out, which is seen as be taught from a secular and reli- “Our ongoing concerns cutting the services to the poor,” giously neutral perspective. remain centered on the care for Fr. Snyder told Catholic News Marie Bourque, vice-pres- the poor and most vulnerable in Service. “That’s too easy, and too ident of the Catholic Parents society,” said Bishop Stephen E. often the poor become the folks Association of Quebec, said the Blaire of Stockton, CA, chair- on whose backs the budget gets decision infringes on the rights man of the bishops’ Committee balanced.” of parents to choose an educa- on Domestic Justice and Human tion for their children in line with Development. “We cannot Man hurls paint cans at their faith and values. Both the neglect them as we seek to stabi- Poland’s Black Madonna Catholic Church and the UN lize our political economy. WARSAW, Poland—On Declaration of Human Rights “While it is certainly a good to be December 9, a man hurled cans state that parental rights in edu- accomplished in terms of creat- of paint at Poland’s most sacred cation are essential and must be ing a more stable economy with icon in an attack that failed to upheld. a balanced budget, it would not damage the Black Madonna of Loyola High School is now be beneficial to have such efforts Jasna Gora but shocked many in weighing an appeal to the result in a wider gap between the staunchly Catholic country. Canadian Supreme Court. those who are rich and those The 58-year-old attacker was who are poor. The common good detained by guards at the monas- China punishes faithful requires that the people who tery holding the revered depiction Catholic bishop are hurting the most will not be of Mary and the baby Jesus in the SHANGHAI, China— hurting even more as a result of southern city of Czestochowa, China’s government-controlled efforts that are being taken to police said. Catholic bishops’ conference 10 December 2012 Local News St. Emery celebrates 80th anniversary On November 11, typical stuffed cabbage dinner Benedict Biro, O.F.M., the parish was served, including bread and was formed in 1932 and placed St. Emery Parish in butter, stuffed cabbage, kielbasa under the patronage of Saint Fairfield held its 80th and mashed potatoes, and end- Emeric (Emery) of Hungary. St. ing with honey cookies, tea and Emery’s Church was dedicated anniversary celebration, coffee. on November 5 of that year. an occasion which also Fr. Steven Balint, pastor of While St. Emery’s continues St. Ladislaus Parish in South to treasure its Hungarian roots, observed their patron Norwalk, the other parish in the over the years it has welcomed saint’s Feast Day, Diocese of Bridgeport boasting new parishioners of every ethnic of Hungarian heritage, said the heritage. Its association with November 5. grace in Hungarian. the Franciscan Order ended in The history of St. Emery’s 2011, and St. Emery’s became The celebration included a is the tale of Hungarian immi- a parish community under the Sunday Mass enriched by an grants who settled in this area Diocese of Bridgeport, in close honor guard from the Knights determined to build a church, a association with the Church of of Columbus. parish, and a community of their Holy Family in Fairfield. Fr. A luncheon followed in the beloved Catholic faith. Under Guido Montanaro, pastor of parish hall. 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By PAT HENNESSY to make a relationship better.” “In many ways it’s easier Wengan and the other for the boys,” observes Pavia. “It’s hard to be away from exchange students at Trinity also “They’re less inhibited. You see home at such a young age,” want to go on to higher education them with their teammates, giving says Anthony Pavia, principal of here. “Universities in the United high fives and slapping each other Trinity Catholic High School in States are the best,” he says. It’s on the back. Socially, it’s a little Stamford, speaking of the Chinese easier not only to get into an harder on the girls. I think that, exchange students at Trinity. American university but to suc- “You have to admire their cour- ceed there with a few years in age and their determination.” high school behind them. Eleven Chinese students “As little kids in China we arrived at Trinity this semester learned English but it was differ- through a program sponsored by ent from American English, and it Eduboston, which specializes in wasn’t useful,” explains freshman SAMPLING THE CAKE, (Above) Chinese exchange student Gabby Cui providing educational opportuni- Gabby Cui. “We learned grammar, enjoys an American birthday party with “sisters” (l-r) Gemma and Kirstyn ties in the U. S. for middle and and there was a lot of reading.” at Kirstyn’s 15th birthday. Welcoming host families are key to making the high school age students from She adds with a laugh, students’ experience successful. all over the world. Begun in “Sometimes, in class, we know THEY’RE ALL WINNERS! (Left) Rick Chen flashes a high five at an Massachusetts, the company has the grammar better than the impromptu Go Kart outing for Chinese exchange students at Trinity Catholic expanded to Connecticut for the American kids.” and their host family. first time this school year. Gabby’s dream is to attend This semester, Eduboston Colombia University in New and their host families provides only ones who has placed students not only York. Beyond that, her ambition outings that can focus on cul- benefit from the exchange pro- at Trinity but at Notre Dame will come as a surprise to those tural enrichment or something gram. “They bring a different Catholic High School in Fairfield who suppose all Chinese students over time, their academic success fun—like an afternoon racing Go perspective to the classroom. Just and St. Joseph High School in to be interested in math and sci- will help their social confidence.” Karts. Students and their families by being here, they make all our Trumbull. There are currently ence. “I love all things about The students and their may go to New York City during students more open to different 15 Chinese students studying in fashion,” she says. “My mom host families get strong sup- the holidays or visit Washington, cultures. They make Trinity a diocesan high schools through the wants me to be a designer.” port from Eduboston. “We try DC. Upcoming events might classroom of life, a classroom of program, with more to join them Other Trinity classmates are to see that they’re blending in include a Christmas Party. the world.” in the upcoming semester. still finding their footing, learning socially and academically,” says “All of it is new to them,” says (Eduboston is looking for host “America is the most power- to fit in with the encouragement Rose Nanista, a member of St. Nanista, whose family is hosting families who can give an interna- ful country in the world,” says of their host families. “I have a Matthew Parish in Norwalk, who two students in addition to their tional student a warm family atmo- Wengan Zheng, who is a senior good family,” says Tom Deng. is in charge of the Connecticut own teenage daughters. sphere for the upcoming semester. at Trinity this year, explaining “They want to learn about China exchange program. Pavia believes that the Interested families can call Nanista: why he made the sacrifice to and Chinese tradition. I was sur- A support group for students exchange students are not the 203.984.6541.) n study here. “I want to learn how prised about that.” the American people think and Tom and classmate Calvin Shi bring that back to China.” enjoy the additional benefit of The two elements that have friendships they’ve made as mem- struck him most forcefully are bers of Trinity’s football team. the independence of American “I’ve made many friends because students and the emphasis our cul- of the team,” says Calvin. “Some ture puts on relationships. “You of them have the same classes I do sit down at the table at dinner and the same homeroom. One of and talk as a family,” he observes. my friends lives near our house. “Outside of the family, you learn Sometimes his father will pick me how to communicate with others up and bring me over there.” Home Care on Call PROFESSIONAL CARE IN THE COMFORTS OF HOME Compassionate In-Home Care • Personal Care • Transportation • Medical Reminders • Meal Preparation for Shopping & Errands • Light Housekeeping

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EDITORIAL CHRISTMAS MESSAGE Tough Choices Christmas in the Year of Faith Advent was days away and Christmas lights were already lend- “In the sixth month, the Angel Gabriel was sent from God to a town ing cheer to dark streets when the State of Connecticut announced a of Galilee called Nazareth, to a virgin betrothed to a man named Joseph...” budget that would cut food stamps, aid to needy families, and mental health programs. (See the story on page 3.) (Luke 1:26-27) Large deficits have left the state to face difficult choices, and the cut- Have you noticed that many of the symbols that we have backs challenge Catholics and all people of goodwill as we prepare to associated with Christmas over the years are now called by celebrate this most joyous season. secular names? Christmas trees are called Holiday trees, Christmas We decorate our homes at Christmas, defying the darkest time of year. We visit and exchange gifts, sharing warmth and love. In every church greetings and cards are Holidays greeting, and most public displays at every Mass around the entire world, Catholics will pray for the poor are now just lights and Santas. Nativity scenes outside homes have and afflicted, and most importantly we will celebrate the birth of the been replaced by countless holiday lights and blowup Santas with “King of Kings,” who humbled himself to be born a little baby: home- no hint of a symbol related to the birth of Christ. We adapted many less, cold, and vulnerable. symbols from pagan cultures a long time ago and made them holy. There are other babies out there. If Christmas means anything, it Now it seems like we are giving in to the new pagan cultures of means we can’t ignore them— not-yet-born babies carried in their political correctness and secularization. mothers’ womb, little ones still needing baby food, kids in troubled The symbols we associated with the birth of Christ, like any families that need a little counseling to keep things together. symbols, helped us express the true meaning of Christmas beyond words. They helped bring us to a reality Christmas carries a challenge this year. The Babe of Bethlehem far deeper and considerably more meaningful than words can express. Not unlike any master painter or calls Catholics to read the news, plow through the statistics, become sculptor, we could never truly capture with our Christmas symbols that which we all hope for with great involved in the budget process, make our voices heard. It’s not fun, anticipation, the birth of our Lord. Nevertheless those inadequate symbols and their specific association it’s not tinsel. It is a part of the real work of Christmas as we celebrate the light of Christ in the world. with Christmas brought us great joy. Ironically the so-called politically correct secularized names of the symbols today feel empty. This should be of no surprise. A symbol that is no longer associated with our Lord and is now meant to stand alone will be nothing more than a fleeting pleasure, a generic object. Christmas Blessings As with all pleasures, they are temporary, come to an end, and in many cases make us feel empty and desiring more. The diocese comes to life in a very special way at Christmas each The secularization of our Christmas symbols easily leads to a devaluing of the Feast of the Nativity. year. People are busy making preparations; parishes are hosting advent This is clearly demonstrated by the fact that we now refer to Advent as the “Christman Season” and we prayer services and concerts; social concerns committees are ready to completely abandon any observation of the real Christmas Season, celebrated in our Liturgy through the reach out by feeding the hungry and delivering presents to the poor; Epiphany to the Feast of the Baptism of the Lord. How many Christmas trees go up on the weekend after and our priests are in full swing with the myriad of parish activities Thanksgiving and come down on December 26? We are now asking each other, “did you finish your that make our lives more fulfilling and joyful. Christmas shopping?” rather than asking, “What are you doing this Advent to prepare for Christmas?” Blessings abound in our diocese, and we have so many gifts to put The answer to the first question is inconsequential. The answer to the second question gives meaning under our tree: vibrant parishes, remarkable schools, compassionate to our life in Christ. social services, devoted priests, deacons, sisters and religious, and the During this Year of Faith we are being called to revisit our Catholic faith by studying it, embracing shared expression of our deep and abiding faith together—all the mak- it and living it. This will lead us to take up our journey of faith with the Lord all over again. For many ings of a great Christmas. Perhaps Christmas has even more meaning because it is nurtured of us the secular world has ground us down and we’ve forgotten the sustaining joy of Christmas. May by the generous and faithful giving by so many throughout the year. I suggest that, based in prayer, we tell the real story of Christmas because it is the greatest story ever told. On behalf of the diocese, we thank you for your support, and wish our May you have a Blessed and Merry Christmas and joyous New Year. readers and their families a very happy and holy Christmas.

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tion that is identified with Jesus: Another dear friend, the Aelred told me. By the sixth “O Wisdom…, O Adonai…, late Brother Aelred Seton, was century, when Pope Gregory A Woman’s View O Root of Jesse…, O Key of equally helpful to me in learn- assembled the O Antiphons, these David…O Radiant Dawn, Rising ing more about the origins of were, in a way, a patchwork By Antoinette Bosco Sun…, O King of Nations… O the Advent/Christmas season. quilt of references from Hebrew Emmanuel…” and thus, they are “In the first three centuries, the scriptures. They are drawn called the ‘O Antiphons,’ feast of Christmas wasn’t cel- from Exodus, Isaiah, Genesis, Antoinette Bosco is a member “It’s the ‘O’ that touched me, ebrated at all. It was around the Habakuk, Wisdom and others. of St. Marguerite Bourgeoys like a cry of wonder that a child fourth century that the feast of “In the Middle ages, churches might express,” this nun artist Christmas came into being. This in Germany and Paris some- Parish in Brookfield. said, revealing she was moved was prompted by the Ayran her- times added two or four more to translate these titles for the esy which denied the humanity O Antiphons, like O Virgin of Christ-to-come into an art form. of Christ. It then became logical Virgins… O Gabriel, Messenger very year, a week before I was visiting Mother Placid, “These symbols themselves, like to celebrate a feast that brought of Heaven… O Jerusalem… O the coming birth of the a nun friend at the Abbey of the star, the rising sun, even the Christ’s humanity to the fore. King and Peacemaker… O Lady Christ Child, I begin my Regina Laudis in Bethlehem, key, are archtypes—images that “Interestingly, the Emperor of the World,” Brother Aelred Ecelebration of the “O CT, sadly recently deceased. She come through time, preparing us Aurelian had established a said, adding his own belief that Antiphons.” And just about every and her neice, Mother Praxedes for who Christ is. They’re very pagan feast, Solis Invictus, ‘the the O Antiphons are “wonderful year, when I mention this to Baxter, both acclaimed artists, rich in that sense of preparing us feast of the unconquered son,’ because they derive their imag- someone, I get asked, “What are were making some eye-catching for Christ who is coming.” on December 25 in their calen- ery from both our Jewish and they?” And I answer: stained-glass pieces in their black- Going on, Mother Praxedes dar, which tied into the winter Christian heritage.” Truly—they “The O Antiphons are verses smith shop. When I asked her told me the O Antiphons had solstice, the shortest day of the are—as we can read: that link the Old Testament what these were, she smiled and Benedictine roots. “The prayers year. Since it made sense for prophesies of the Messiah with told me they were “O Antiphon were probably written in the the Church to capitalize on December 17: O Wisdom, the fulfillment of these in the symbols.” I admitted I had never fourth century, compiled from ‘Christianizing’ existing pagan who came forth from the mouth birth of Christ—and they are heard of these. Hebrew scriptures. But it was feasts, the Church introduced the of the Most High, stretching meant to be read, one each day, So, Mother Praxedes Pope Gregory the Great, who feast of the Nativity on that day.” from border to border, arranging during the last week of Advent.” explained to me that they were had been a Benedictine monk, The first reference to Advent all things firmly and pleasingly, I have to admit that I “prayers directly linked to the who introduced these prayers as “occurs in Spain in about 380 come to teach us the way of pru- was unfamiliar with the “O Hebrew scriptures prophesying O Antiphons into the Roman A.D. Christians were told dence. Antiphons”—despite my many the coming of a Messiah.” And brieviary (priests’ prayer book) that from December 17 to the December 18: O Adonai, and years of Catholic education— she went on, explaining that each in the sixth century. That’s how Epiphany (January 6), they leader of the House of Israel, who until some 20 years ago, when verse begins with an exclama- ancient these prayers are!” shouldn’t miss church,” Brother ➤ continued on page 17 The fine art of delayed gratification Halloween on this one buddy. ideals of either temperance or worth living. But it’s not the main You can wait that long for some- justice or devotion, never mind thing. Not even close. A Dad’s View thing you really want, right?” all three. If I could do this even Fr. George Rutler, who is No kid wants to hear this. for a single day I’d dance a jig. the pastor of the Church of Our By Matthew Hennessey Not at Christmas time. I confess Successfully pulling off the hat Savior on Park Avenue in New to not being very good at delay- trick over the course of a lifetime York City, recently wrote that ing gratification myself. Most of seems a tall order for all but the “Advent is awkward because its Matthew Hennessey and us are pretty bad at waiting for holiest among us. mysteries of Death, Judgment, the things we want. This is true I recently heard a busy and pop- Heaven, and Hell are not the sort his family are parishioners whether we want a big promo- ular writer describe his daily despair of things counter-tenors dressed of St. Aloysius in New Canaan. tion, true love, or a Shrek cos- at having to respond to an inbox full as elves sing about.” tume. It’s just tough to wait. of emails. Every day, he said, feels Taking our faith seriously in I feel for Paddy, though, like putting a canoe into a stream. a world of instant gratification is y son Paddy tells me dis time,” he says. because I remember what it was The water’s current immediately awkward for sure. Focusing on he wants Santa to “I know you are. Even so, he like. As a kid, you want what begins carrying you backward. You God while everyone else is focus- bring him a Shrek cos- doesn’t bring us everything we you want when you want it. You paddle all day against the current ing on tablets and smartphones Mtume. Paddy is four. ask for.” need what you need when you and, if you’re lucky, you end up is bound to set us apart. But fol- “A costume is really a “Yeah, I know dat,” he says, need it. Waiting is hard. back where you started. lowing Christ is no day at the Halloween kind of thing, don’t eyes suddenly narrow. “The fing For Catholics, Advent is all The cultural current during mall. We endure the suffering you think?” I say. is, I really want a Shrek costume.” about waiting. It’s a hopeful wait- Advent is strong. It pulls us all and pain, the setbacks and turn- “Well, yes, but, I really want Putting aside why anyone would ing, but boy is it hard. It takes toward instant gratification and arounds, because we know that dat for Chrissmas,” he says, eyes want to dress up like a giant green real effort. As Saint Paul said, we the empty trappings of what so our reward lies not in this world wide, brows raised. Paddy’s diction ogre for Christmas, I thought this must train ourselves “to live tem- many simply refer to as “the holi- but in the next. is not always so good. He some- little exchange a fine opportunity perately, justly, and devoutly in day season.” Black Friday. Wish It’s a hard paddle upstream. times sounds like Dean Martin to introduce my boy to the concept this age, as we await the blessed lists. A great picture of the kids to Especially during Advent. If after a late set at the Sands. of delayed gratification. Learning hope, the appearance of the glory put on a card. It’s so easy to get we’re lucky, we’ll end up back “You know that Santa doesn’t to delay gratification is the key to of the great God and of our sav- swept away by the current. Don’t were we started. bring us everything we ask for, happiness, they say. The earlier ior Jesus Christ” (Titus 2:13). get me wrong. Trimming the And if Paddy’s lucky, he’ll eat right?” I raise my own eyebrows. you master this, the better. I don’t know about you, but tree and watching the kids open Christmas dinner dressed as a “But I’m a really, really good boy “I think we should shoot for I’d count myself lucky to live the presents is part of what makes life giant green ogre. n 16 December 2012 Advent/Christmas Knights of Columbus Canadian Crèche Exhibit

By JOSEPH PRONECHEN standard materials, such as ing figures a honey tone and an wood, cloth and ceramics, not incredible smoothness. A few Advent and Christmastide to mention resin that appears to individual examples even resem- in Connecticut this year brings be stone, porcelain, painted plas- ble ivory. the eighth annual Christmas ter—and even a stable made of Among these sets are ones Crèche exhibit at the Knights moose horns. from Antonio Caruso. Italian- of Columbus Museum in New The crèches come in different born and now a resident of Haven. This time the museum is sizes. Some can easily fit a space Canada, Caruso is one of presenting over 80 examples of the size of a dinner plate, while Canada’s finest professional art- crèches from our neighbor to the the largest spans an entire wall of ists. It’s no wonder when you north in a show called “Joyeux over 15 feet in one of the four gal- see his exquisite and intricately Noel Christmas in Canada.” lery rooms filled with the crèches. carved figures that look as if As ever, the crèches bring a It’s no surprise there are quite they’re ready to move about. sense of joy, wonder, and in some a few examples of crèche figures One of Caruso’s prime exam- cases, awe. Some bring unexpect- carved from wood. Canadian ples is the scene with shepherds ed smiles for a number of reasons, woodcarvers represented in this and sheep in awe of baby Jesus such as the simple scene with fig- show are masterful artists, work- and presenting gifts of fruit to the ures made from potato paste. ing mostly in their preferred It’s one of the most unusual pine. But don’t envision the typi- examples; many other crèches cal knotty pine here. The kind or representations of the Holy of pine they use gives the Holy Family are made of much more Family and all the accompany- The Apostolate Some of the crèches er goes about his chores while of African Americans are a true surprise to us another approaches the babe in is hosting a day to celebrate south of the Canadian the manger. The scene is like a our Cultural Diversity and Gifts border but are likely famil- Canadian Currier and Ives set in iar to those in the north- the 1940s. Saturday, December 29 starting at 3:00pm ern climes of Canada. The largest display is the Holy Family. Jesus, Mary and Among the most prominent are the panorama of Christmas in a Blessed Sacrament Church Joseph appear to be carved from Inuit Nativity scenes. Naturally, the Canadian Village that stretches a single piece of the wood. His 275 Union Avenue, Bridgeport Holy Family are Eskimos, the stable the entire wall of one exhibit even more elaborate 25-figure becomes an igloo, Jesus is on a sled, room. All the townspeople, small scene is carved meticulously in and the sheep turn into seals and a ceramic figures known as san- The day will feature: every detail and set in and around polar bear. tons, seem to be celebrating the a cave of driftwood. Similarly, there are American birth of Christ at Christmas. They Kwanzaa Celebration Yet another artist’s “Shepherd Indian crèches, represent all kind African Drummers Boy Visits the Holy Family” is as too. Everyone is of people and masterful a carving in pine as you dressed as Native occupations in Celebration of our elders can find. The simple wonder of Americans, the village. MAAFA21 the shepherd boy and joy of the including an This diorama occasion is captured without lots angel that flies is one of many A talk about Our Lady of Kibeho of intricate details. over the tepee in on loan from A few quite large sculptures adoration of the Riviere-Erernite’s and many fun activities for the kids of the Holy Family—they stand Christ Child. crèche museum three or more feet high—come Other sur- in Northern We will end the day with a light traditional meal. from another of Canada’s top art- prises come from Quebec. The ists, Timothy Schmalz. His stylis- the number of town is known tic Holy Family groupings show Nativity scenes as Canada’s To join us in the celebration please R.S.V.P. to Fr. Reggie the closeness, the unbreakable set inside cutout “Bethlehem.” [email protected] bond of the Holy Family in the ceramic jugs or Another major way Joseph puts his arms around (Reservation is required so that enough food can be prepared) eggs. These containers are color- portion of the crèches is on loan Mary who encircles or holds the ful and decorative, almost like a from the Oratory on St. Joseph’s baby Jesus in her arms. Such a Fabergé egg. on Mont Royal in Montreal. Kwanzaa celebrates seven core principals (Nguzo Saba): circular grouping radiates protec- Grandmaster wood carver (A fine show for the Christmas Unity, Self-determination, collective work and responsibility, tion and the feeling of serenity John Schnerger traces his family season, Joyeux Noel Christmas in and the peace of Christmas. carving roots back to the 18th cooperative economics, purpose, creativity and faith. Canada runs through February 3, Most of his sculptures form century, and the three dioramas 2013. Bonus exhibits include the what appears to be a circle sug- by him in this exhibit are detailed 12th annual Christmas Tree Festival gesting the eternal bond of the scenes placing the Nativity on a featuring Christmas Trees decorated Holy Family. That idea comes Canadian farm. The Holy Family by school children. For details, call through whether the sculpture is comfortable in a barn, animals the Knights of Columbus Museum: pictures them sitting or standing. feed in the wintry yard, one farm- 203.865.0400.) n 17 December 2012 Advent/Christmas Ally’s Angel card reaches the Pope

By PAT HENNESSY and religious, sick chil- dren, and the poor in their When Pope Benedict community. By eighth grade, they will under- opens his Christmas cards stand their baptismal call this year, he’ll see one to respond to the needs of the world through social that was designed by Ally justice activities, includ- Fallon, now a seventh- ing making a dinner for nearby Project Hope soup grader at St. Thomas kitchen and helping at the Aquinas Catholic School local YMCA. In the seventh grade in Fairfield. this year, Ally and her classmates learn about the work of Catholic special celebration held December Ally’s design of the guardian THE FALLON FAMILY, including prize winner Ally (center) attended a Charities from Richard Madwid, 8 at the Shrine of the Immaculate angel hovering over the stable special celebration in Washington, DC. director of behavioral health in Conception in Washington, DC. in Bethlehem won a nationwide the Bridgeport office (and a St. Ally’s card was prominently dis- contest sponsored by the Holy help children in mission countries the table every night at dinner, Thomas alum), and organize played in the Shrine. Childhood Association, part of throughout the world. and I force myself to drink it. I a mitten and hat drive for the Through this Christmas and the Pontifical Mission Society. “I The association recently know she puts it there because families served by Sr. Theresa beyond, Ally’s guardian angel like angels because they’re pretty changed its name to the Missionary you need milk; it’s nutritional. In Tremblay in Bridgeport. will be a visible presence when and, like—powerful,” says Ally, Childhood Association. The some countries, kids have only Meantime, this holiday season she goes to bed each night. “I explaining her choice of subject. change emphasizes its care for the dirty water to drink.” has been an extraordinary one for keep a picture of my drawing in “They look after you and show childhood in mission areas with Just as Ally’s prize-winning Ally and her family. The entire my room, and I look at it before up when you need help.” stress given to those areas of great- card did not happen in isolation, family, including her sisters Kelly I go to sleep. It gives me comfort, “This is a huge honor,” says Fr. est poverty. The association has her awareness of the plight of and Molly, was invited by the knowing that my angel is watch- Frederick Saviano, diocesan direc- developed activities to teach young- other children comes as part of a Pontifical Mission Societies to a ing over me.” n tor of the Propagation of the Faith, sters in the United States about planned development that begins another branch of the Mission the needs of the world’s poorest very young. “At St. Thomas, ser- Advent Symbols from page 15 Society. “There isn’t a first, sec- children and invites them to pray vice begins in kindergarten,” says appeared to Moses in the fiery flame the shadow of death. ond and third place. There’s only and to offer financial help. In this Principal Patricia Brady. “Our of the burning bush, and gave him December 21: O Radiant one—and it’s the one the national way, students in the U.S. as well as kids understand that service is not the Law on Sinai: Come to redeem Dawn/ Rising Sun, brilliance of director of the Pontifical Mission children in the missions learn that merely a program, it’s a call from us with outstretched arm. Eternal light and sun of justice: Societies, Fr. Andrew Small, OMI, they are all part of the one Body of our baptism.” December 19: O Root of Jesse, Come, and enlighten those who is using as his personal Christmas Christ. Kindergartners learn the value who stands as a sign of the people, sit in darkness and the shadow of card, including the one he sends to “We had little boxes to put of the elderly, starting with their in whose presence the kings of the death. the Pope.” money in,” Ally explains. “It own grandparents. First-graders earth will remain silent, whom the December 22: O King of Although Ally (the oldest of would go to the missions for milk grow in compassion by corre- peoples shall entreat: Come to free Nations, and their desired one triplets) is interested in art, draw- or pencils. A dollar could buy, sponding with elderly parishio- us, now do not tarry. and cornerstone, who makes both ing was not the central focus of maybe, 75 pencils in countries ners. By the second grade, they December 20: O Key of one: Come, and save man whom the project. The heart of her sixth- that are really poor.” are creating decorations for the David, and staff of the House of you formed from slime. grade service program was con- A year spent thinking about residents at local nursing homes, Israel, who opens and no man December 23: O Emmanuel, cern for poor children worldwide. poor children made Ally look at and visiting them for a social. closes; who closes and no man king and lawgiver, desire of the Her class cooperated throughout her own life through new eyes. “I Through the years the aware- opens; Come and bring forth nations, Savior of all people, come the year with The Holy Childhood don’t really like milk that much,” ness of St. Thomas students from the prison house the one and set us free, Lord our God. Association to learn about and she admits. “My mom puts it on expands, taking in retired priests who is bound in darkness and in Joyful Christmas to all! n 18 December 2012 Feature The young Sister and the iconic Chinese Cardinal

By FRANK DeROSA Before he was sentenced to life of prayer, on October 11-13. The imprisonment in 1960, he defi- hope is that the next diocesan The thirty-something antly told the chief prosecutor: bishop will officially open the Chinese Sister, wearing a modi- “I am a Roman Catholic bishop. cause, Msgr. DiGiovanni says. fied habit, was eager to chat If I denounce the Holy Father, There’s a further connection as my wife and I settled into not only would I not be a bishop, between Cardinal Kung and our seats behind hers in the I would not even be a Catholic. St. John’s. It was there that his Vatican’s Pope VI Audience You can cut off my head, but you funeral Mass was celebrated Hall about a half-hour before can never take away my duties.” March 18, 2000. At the end of Pope Benedict XVI’s weekly After his release from an ordeal the days of prayer in October, audience. Attracted by our that included stretches of time in the parish was consecrated to speaking English in the midst of isolation, he was freed in 1988 the Immaculate Heart of Mary, a multi-lingual sea, she quickly to come to the U.S. for medical as the Cardinal had done for the struck up a conversation. Her reasons, with the help of the late Diocese of Shanghai. own English was impeccable as Bishop Walter Curtis. He lived his While the Chinese Sister in she explained that she was in declining years in Stamford, dying Rome claimed not to recognize Rome en route to her homeland there in 2000 at age 98. Cardinal Kung’s name, we found for ministry in a parish after I thought about Cardinal Kung POPE JOHN PAUL II embraces Cardinal Kung at his consistory in Rome. her devotion to her vocation clear studying theology in the United as we talked with the Chinese and impressive. What a challenge States for a couple of years. Sister about her work. Did she alive spiritually. Archbishop St. John the Evangelist Basilica it must be to work in an environ- An engaging and cheerful minister within the Patriotic William E. Lori, now in in Stamford, to take initial steps ment so hostile and restrictive model of a happy woman reli- Association or the outlawed Baltimore, when he was still toward beginning the cause for that would attempt to extinguish gious, she occasionally inter- underground Church? I think I Bishop of Bridgeport asked Msgr. Cardinal Kung’s canonization. It the memory of a brave man of rupted our back-and-forth, while knew, but I didn’t want to make Stephen DiGiovanni, pastor of began this year with three days faith. n we awaited the Holy Father’s her uncomfortable with a pointed entry, by standing up to aim question. So I asked generally her digital camera and click off about the two strains in China’s images of the stage decorations Catholicism. Diplomatically, she and the faces of pilgrims to show replied, “We all pray to the same her folks back home. God.” I asked one more question: Our exchanges triggered “Have you ever heard of Cardinal thoughts in my mind of how the Kung?” After a pause, she said faith is practiced in China, what no. I left it at that. with six million Catholics torn I repeated the exchange for almost fifty-fifty between those Joseph Kung, the Cardinal’s who tolerate the Communist nephew, who maintains contact government-approved Chinese with the Catholics who practice Catholic Patriotic Association undercover in China and in CHRISTMAS and those who defy it as mem- whose Stamford home his uncle bers of the illegal underground lived until his death. “I’m disap- Saint Theresa SCHEDULE - 2012 Church. Where, I wondered, did pointed,” he said, “but I’m not ROMAN CATHOLIC CHURCH Sacrament of Penance the Sister fit? surprised.” The Mother Church of Trumbull Saturday, December 15 I’ve had a long curiosity about But the persecution the 3:00-4:15pm the Church in China, from the Cardinal endured under the Rev. Brian P. Gannon, S.T.D., Pastor Friday, December 21 brilliant and prophetic way the Communists isn’t forgotten Rev. Michael Flynn, Parochial Vicar 4:00-5:15pm; 7:00-8:00pm 16th-century Italian Jesuit mis- among those who practice sur- Rev. Karol Ksiazek, Parochial Vicar Saturday, December 22 sionary Fr. Matteo Ricci laid the reptitiously, says Msgr. Nicholas Deacon Salvatore M. Clarizio 11:00am-12:00 noon; 3:00-4:15pm foundation for Catholicism there Grieco, the retired pastor of Dr. Carolina Flores, Director of Music Monday, December 24 and whose cause for canonization St. Francis of Assisi Parish in 10:30am-12:00 noon began in 1984, to the pioneer- Weston and founding editor of ing Maryknoll missioners like Fairfield County Catholic. “There, Masses Brooklyn-born Bishop Francis he’s an icon.” Christmas Vigil X. Ford, who preached the faith Efforts have been made so Monday, December 24 there for three decades before that the memory of the deceased 4:00pm, 6:00pm and 12:00 midnight dying in a Chinese Communist prelate wouldn’t fade. Joseph Christmas Carols precede the Midnight Mass prison in 1952 and whose canon- Kung formed the Cardinal Kung Christmas Day ization cause has also begun. Foundation several years ago Tuesday, December 25 7:30am, 10:00am and 12:00 noon Likewise, I’ve been fascinated to provide spiritual and finan- by the riveting story of the coura- cial support for underground New Years Day geous Cardinal Ignatius Kung priests, seminarians and religious. Feast of Mary, Pin-Mei, the Bishop of Shanghai, Msgr. Grieco is a board mem- The Mother of God who was arrested in 1955 and ber. Remarkably, it currently Monday, December 31 spent three decades in prison for assists materially almost 100 Vigil Mass at 5:30pm refusing Communist demands to seminarians who are studying for Tuesday, January 1 7:30am, 9:00am, and 12:00 noon renounce the pope, sever ties with advanced degrees at universities 5301 Main Street • Trumbull, Connecticut 06611-4195 Rome and give allegiance to the in Rome, Spain and France. Catholic Patriotic Association. And his name is being kept 19 December 2012 Travel

Bethlehem from page 4 world changed the moment Jesus have gone on to have children. was born in this sacred place. Others have been cured of various There was a smaller niche diseases. Indeed, through the inter- adjacent to the spot where the cession of Our Lady of the Milk, manger was kept. Imagine the there have been more than 2,000 Blessed Virgin Mary kneeling testimonies of miracles in recent there, adoring her son! “And she years. A church was built over the gave birth to her first-born son cave in 385 A.D. and wrapped him in swaddling As twilight approached, we cloths and laid him in a manger visited the Bridgettine Convent in because there was no place for Bethlehem, and from its rooftop them in the inn” (Luke 2:7). Jesus gazed upon the city, wondering has come to feed the world—if when the walls of division would only man would receive him. finally be conquered. From there, we visited the (Fr. Walsh is parochial vicar and “Grotto of the Lady Mary” or DRE at the Basilica of Saint John “Milk Grotto,” where it is believed the Evangelist in Stamford. His pil- the Holy Family stayed on their grimage memoir continues in THE flight into Egypt during the slaugh- EAGLE, the monthly journal of the ter of the Innocents. While Mary Basilica. Read it online at www. was nursing Jesus, a drop of milk stjohnsstamford.com/the-eagle.) n ALL VISITORS to the Church of fell to the ground. A white pow- the Nativity in Bethlehem must enter der then covered the cave. Since through the “Door of Humility,” then, many infertile couples have STEPS LEAD DOWN to the Grotto, bowing their heads. come to consume the powder and the cave where Jesus was born.

Saint Thomas Aquinas Church 1719 Post Road • Fairfield, Connecticut 06824 • 203.255.1097 Rev. Victor T Martin, Pastor Christmas 2012 Schedule Advent Penance Service Tuesday, December 18 – 7:30 pm Daily Mass on Monday, December 24, 7:00 am ONLY Christmas Eve Masses Monday, December 24 4 pm - Children’s Mass; 6 pm - Children’s Mass 8:00 pm Christmas Eve Mass; Adult Choir Concert 11:30 pm; and 12:00 am - Midnight Mass Christmas Day Masses Tuesday, December 25 7 am, 10:30 am, and 12 noon No 7 am Mass on Wednesday - December 26th Feast of Mary, Mother of God New Year’s Eve - December 31 – 5 pm Mass New Year’s Day Masses Tuesday - January 1, 2013 7 am, 10:30 am, and 12 noon 20 December 2012 Advent/Christmas Feed My people MONROE—“Just over two items didn’t sell from the day-old to bring to soup kitchens. At do,” the gregarious Banville says, transplant from his wife who just years ago my buddy was work- shelf.” first, Banville started doing it by “I was able to get several guys happens to be visiting my wife ing part time at Stop & Shop,” Banville checked with the himself about three times a week, from St. Jude’s to help out. Now downstairs with the other ‘girls.’” recalls Hank Banville, a member manager, and found that his going to The Thomas Merton we have enough men to cover the The men’s favorite stop is of St. Jude Parish. “He told me friend’s account was indeed accu- Center and Bridgeport Rescue whole week! One of them comes a visit to Homes for the Brave that they had to throw away a lot rate. The manager was happy to Mission among others. in from Milford, in gratitude for on lower Park Avenue. The of food every day if the bakery let Banville have the baked goods “Talking it up—which I can being able to receive a kidney organization provides housing,

St. James Church Saint Pius X Parish 2110 Main Street, Stratford, Connecticut A Roman Catholic Community in Fairfield 203-375-5887 - www.stjamesstratford.com 834 Brookside Drive, Fairfield, Connecticut 06824-2420 Rev. Thomas F. Lynch, Pastor Tel. (203) 255-6134 | Fax (203) 255-5232 | Web Site www.st-pius.org COMMUNAL PENANCE SERVICE Pastor: Reverend Michael Dogali | In Residence: Reverend Monsignor Ernest Esposito Wednesday, December 19 – 7:30pm – Church Individual confessions will be offered at the end of the service. Children’s Christmas Pageant & Dinner Theater Saturday, December 15 – 6:30 pm – Religious Education Center BLESSING OF EXPECTANT PARENTS Saturday and Sunday Masses, December 15 and 16 Children’s Christmas Pageant & Blessing of the Crèche A blessing will be given to those awaiting the gift of a child. Sunday, December 16 – 4:00 pm – Religious Education Center CHRISTMAS MASS SCHEDULE All Christmas Masses will be celebrated in the church Monday, December 24 – Vigil Masses: 4:00pm and 6:00pm A Mass in celebration of the Lord’s birth at 11:00pm Christmas Eve Masses - 4:00 pm, 6:00 pm, 8:00 pm & 11:00 pm Tuesday, December 25 – 7:30am, 9:30am, and 11:30am Christmas Day Masses - 8:00 am, 10:00 am, 12:00 pm THE HOLY FAMILY OF JESUS, Solemnity of Mary, The Holy Mother of God MARY AND JOSEPH Monday, December 31 – Vigil Mass at 5:30 pm Saturday and Sunday Masses Tuesday, January 1 – Holy Day Masses: 8:30 am and 11:00 am December 29 & 30 Families will have the opportunity The Epiphany of the Lord to write their name on votive candles as a way Saturday and Sunday, January 5 and 6 – Receive of thanking God for His presence in their a blessing for your home at all Weekend Masses. family in 2012 and asking for a greater openness to Him in 2013. Baptism of the Lord Sunday, January 13 – Children baptized in 2012 will SOLEMNITY OF MARY, receive a special blessing during the 9:00 am Mass. MOTHER OF GOD Monday, December 31, Vigil Mass: 4:30pm Holy Day Masses – Tuesday, January 1, 2013, 7:30am, 9:15am, and 11:00am SAINT JAMES NEW YEAR’S DAY OF PRAYER Sunday, January 1, 2013 1:00pm-3:00pm Eucharistic Adoration in Parish Center Chapel REMEMBERANCE FOR CHILDREN WHO HAVE DIED Saturday, January 5 – 8:00am Mass A special candle will be lit in remembrance of the children who have gone before us in faith. All parents who have lost a child are encouraged to attend. FEAST OF THE EPIPHANY God’s Word is among us - A celebration of our commitment to open our hearts to God’s word by reading, studying, and praying Sacred Scripture daily Saturday, January 5, 2013 – Vigil Mass: 4:30pm Sunday, January 6, 2013 – 7:30am, 9:15am, 11:00am, 12:45pm, and 6:00pm 21 December 2012 Advent/Christmas vocational training and job place- needy families among their “Then I tell them about Sr. ment and others services to help parishioners. Theresa Tremblay at the day care veterans, leave homelessness The men call their program center as she saw two large sheet behind. “The vets especially enjoy Feed My People. “All the guys cakes that I brought her,” he goes the pastries,” Banville reports. get great satisfaction doing it,” on. “She said, ‘Oh, that’s wonder- The men have also donated Banville says. When he bags ful! We’re having a birthday party bakery items to eight churches of the bread and pastries at Stop for one of the children tomor- different denominations, includ- and Shop, Banville explains row…. And the family is too poor ing the Church of the Blessed to shoppers that these items to afford a birthday cake!’ Sacrament, St. Charles Borromeo would be thrown away if the “Many of the shoppers choke and St. George, all of which have men weren’t picking them up. up on that, as do I.” n

The Cathedral Parish 170 Thompson Street, Bridgeport, Connecticut 06604 203.368.6777 and 203.335.0106 - Parish Offices • 203.690.1491 - Rectory • 203.368.6386 and 203.335.0107 - Fax Saint Augustine Cathedral Church Saint Patrick Church 359 Washington Avenue 851 North Avenue

Rev. Peter F. Lenox, Administrator Rev. Peter Ha Dinh-Dang, Rev. Sean R. Kulacz, Rev. John Pius Mwago Parochial Vicars Rev. Gustavo A. Falla, Rev. Jean-Ridly Julien, Rev. F. John Ringley, In Residence Rev. Mr. Alix Africot, Rev. Mr. William J. Bissenden, Rev. Mr. Santos Garcia, and Rev. Mr. William A. Koniers, Deacons David F. McCaffrey, Director of Music Christmas Season Mass Schedule Regular Sunday Vigil Masses of Christmas 12:10pm English Mass: St. Patrick Upper Church 12:15pm Spanish Mass: St. Augustine Cathedral Church Mass Schedule Monday, December 24th Vigil Masses: 4:00pm English Mass: St. Augustine Cathedral Church Vigil Masses of the Solemnity of Mary, 4:00pm English Mass: 5:30pm English Mass with Organ and String Quartet/Mass with Mother of God St. Augustine Cathedral Church the Living Gospel portrayed by the children of the Parish: 4:00pm English Mass: St. Patrick Upper Church Monday, December 31st: St. Patrick Lower Church 7:00pm Vietnamese Christmas Pageant: 8:00pm Vietnamese Mass: St. Augustine Cathedral Church St. Augustine Cathedral Church 10:00pm to 11:00pm Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament: Sunday Masses: 8:00pm Vietnamese Mass: St. Augustine Cathedral Church St. Patrick Upper Church 7:00am English Mass: 9:00pm Christmas Carols and Organ works: 11:00pm English Mass: St. Patrick Upper Church St. Augustine Cathedral Church St. Patrick Upper Church 8:30am English Mass: 9:30pm English Mass with Organ and Choir: Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God St. Augustine Cathedral Church St. Patrick Upper Church Tuesday, January 1st: 9:00am English Mass: 11:15pm Christmas Carols and Organ works: 9:00am English Mass: St. Patrick Upper Church St. Augustine Cathedral Church St. Patrick Upper Church 10:00am English Mass: St. Augustine Cathedral Church 10:00am English Mass: 12:10pm English Mass: St. Patrick Upper Church St. Augustine Cathedral Church Solemnity of the Nativity of the Lord 12:15pm Spanish Mass: St. Augustine Cathedral Church 12:10pm English Mass: (Christmas) 5:30pm English Mass: St. Augustine Cathedral Church St. Patrick Upper Church Tuesday, December 25th: 12:15pm Spanish Mass: 12:00am Solemn Midnight Mass with Organ and Choir: St. Augustine Cathedral Church Rev. Msgr. Jerald Doyle, celebrant. St. Augustine Cathedral Church 2:30pm Vietnamese Mass: This Mass will be broadcast by radio St. Augustine Cathedral Church on WSHU 91.1FM and on WICC 600AM 5:30pm English Mass: 9:00am English Mass: St. Patrick Upper Church Merry Christmas St. Augustine Cathedral Church 10:00am English Mass: St. Augustine Cathedral Church to o n e a n d a l l ! 22 December 2012 Advent/Christmas Joyful healing

BRIDGEPORT—“Tuesdays at Christ the King Parish in doned or use- are days of joy and healing Trumbull. A retired priest, Fr. John less. You have for the residents of Bridgeport is always on the go. You will find been called by Manor,” says Cristine Francoeur, him visiting the sick in hospitals, in Christ and are the director of the recreation nursing homes, hearing confession, his living and department of the nursing home. with the youth, and above all at the transparent Every Tuesday, residents celebration of the Mass. image.” eagerly await the celebration of Fr. John holds close to his At the 9:30 am Mass with music, heart the words Blessed Pope Bridgeport songs, and readings. It gives them John Paul II (then Cardinal Manor, Fr. John is assisted by Ann Parish in the Black Rock Together they, and all who a sense of life, comfort, hope and Wojty) wrote to the poor, the the dedication of volunteers, section of Bridgeport (at right), care for the sick and elderly, above all closeness to the Lord. sick, and the suffering at the close including (at left in photo) Robert and Sisters of the Missionaries of embody the words of the familiar The Mass is celebrated by Fr. of Vatican II: “Know that you Jordan of St. Theresa Parish in Charity, whose convent is in St. saying: “Those who give love John Punnakunnel, who resides are not alone, separated, aban- Trumbull, Robert Rouse of St. Peter Parish in Bridgeport. gather love.” n

Saint Mary’s Church “The Mother Church of Norwalk” | 669 West Avenue, Norwalk | Est. 1848 | www.stmarynorwalk.net | 203.866.5546 Pastor: Fr. Greg J. Markey • Parochial Vicar: Fr. Richard G. Cipolla • In Residence: Fr. Paul N. Check, Director of Courage • Deacon Stephan Genovese • Choirmaster: David J. Hughes Music for the 9:30am Sunday Solemn High Latin Mass December 16: Third Sunday of Advent - Messe de Toulouse (anonymous, XIV C.); Beatus Joannes (Guerrero); Alma Redemptoris Mater (Ockeghem); organ works of Bach Christmas Schedule December 23: Fourth Sunday of Advent - Missa O Virgo simul et Mater (Palestrina); Ecce Virgo concipiet (Byrd); Veni Domine et noli Special Events: tardare (Guerrero) Posadas, December 15-23, 7:00pm The Midnight Mass of Christmas - Missa Nasce la gioja mia Christmas Lessons and Carols, (Palestrina); Psallite unigenito (Praetorius); Hodie Christus natus est December 14, 7:00pm (Poulenc); Verbum caro factum est (Lassus); O magnum mysterium (Victoria) Sacrament of The Mass of Christmas Day - Missa Dies sanctificatus(Palestrina); Confession: Viderunt omnes (Pérotin); Puer natus est (Byrd); Iam nubes / Iam Monday-Friday, December 17-21: novum (anonymous, XIV C.); Dies sanctificatus(Palestrina); organ works of Bach and Widor 11:30am-12:00 Noon December 30: Sunday in the Octave of Christmas - Missa O magnum Wednesday, December 19: 6:30-6:50pm mysterium (Victoria); Pastores loquebantur (Clemens non Papa); Et Saturday, December 22: 3:00-4:30pm venerunt festinantes (Clemens); organ works of Tournemire and Messiaen Monday, December 24: 2:00-4:00pm Tuesday, January 1, 5:30pm - The Octave Day of Christmas - Holy Family and New Year’s Missa Quaeramus cum pastoribus (Morales); Mirabile mysterium Christmas Eve Masses: Eve Masses: (Willaert); Noe, noe psallite (Mouton); organ music of Grigny Monday, December 24: 8:00am, Monday, December 31 - THE FEAST OF THE EPIPHANY — SUNDAY, JANUARY 6 — 9:30am 4:00pm and 7:00pm (Spanish) 8:00am and 12:10 Noon, Solemn Pontifical Mass at the Throne celebrated 11:00pm Rosary by the Creche 7:00-12:00 Midnight, by His Excellency Athanasius Schneider Auxiliary Bishop of Astana, Kazakhstan Ecce sacerdos magnus (Hassler); Mass for Five Voices (Byrd); The Gregorian Mass 11:30pm Christmas Carols Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament of the Epiphany: Ecce advenit; Videntes stellam (Lassus); Cum natus esset Jesus (Morales) 12:00 Midnight Mass Benediction at Midnight Reception in the Extraordinary Form aint ary s ookstore 203.854.9013 Solemnity of Mary/ S M ’ B Christmas Day Masses: New Year’s Day masses: Offering a wide selection of books, crucifixes, rosaries, sacramentals from Italy and the Holy Land, First Communion and Confirmation gifts, and more. Tuesday, December 25: 8:00am, Tuesday, January 1: 9:30am (Latin), 11:30am, 8:00am, 12:10pm, 5:30pm (Latin), HOURS: Saturday 10am-4pm | Sunday 9-9:30am, 11am-2pm | Monday, Wednesday and Friday 12:45-2pm | Tuesday 11-11:30am and 12:45-2pm | Thursday 12:45-2pm and 3:30-5:30pm and 1:15pm (Spanish) and 7:30pm (Spanish) Located in Parish Center building behind Saint Mary Church | VISA/MC ACCEPTED 23 December 2012 Advent/Christmas Lobby mural brings out school spirit

By BRIAN D. WALLACE izing the fruits of knowledge. and joyful and thought about creating a mural Msgr. Walsh says that the shows off what with children for St. Joseph’s, Who would have thought diverse group of children pictured the school is all where he has been a long-time that a new lobby mural could in the mural reflects the multi- about—family, parishioner. energize an entire school and cultural heritage of the school. learning and love The 72-year-old artist is leave people feeling even bet- Palumbo also worked two of his for Jesus.” pleased by the reception his ter about their faith and about grandchildren into the mural. Palumbo said mural has received but says his Catholic education! St. Joseph Principal Victoria he offered to paint first love is sculpture, prefer- That’s what happened recently Rossi said the mural moved the mural as a ably working in wrought iron. at St. Joseph School in Shelton her to tears when she first saw form of thanks Visitors to St. Margaret’s Shrine when Shelton artist Armando it because it spoke to her of for his wife of 50 in Bridgeport are familiar with Palumbo unveiled his painting, his 20-foot “Gateway to Heaven” “Jesus and the Little Children,” cross sculpture, among other based on the passage from the works he has completed. Gospel of Matthew, “Let the The mural took six months children come to me and do not to complete, and in addition hinder them, for the Kingdom of to Palumbo’s generosity, other heaven belongs to such as these” parishioners stepped forward to (Matthew 19:14). help with the framing, lighting Msgr. Chris Walsh, pastor of SCULPTOR Armando Palumno donated his painting and installation. St. Joseph Parish, is delighted of “Jesus and the Little Children” to St. Joseph School. His work has earned much by the gift from Palumbo and praise, but he says the “thank the excitement it has caused in years, Rose, was born in Troia, Italy, and you” that has meant most to the school community. “It was whom he is the descendant of artists. As him has come from the children really a gift out of nowhere,” first met at young boy, he and his brother themselves. Msgr. Walsh says. “We always the parish. would go out into the fields “The greatest gift ever has say it’s hard for an 80-year-old Rose is a and fashion fresh farm clay into come from the kids. Each one school to compete with the flashy graduate of figures for the presepio, the tradi- from first to eighth grade sent new buildings of public schools, St. Joseph tional Italian nativity scene. me a thank you card, which they but when you walk in now and School, as His grandfather painted a made with crayons. To me they look at the painting, it sums up everything that is good about are the couple’s two grown sons. mural of Joseph the Carpenter are little masterpieces. I put them Catholic education with our Lord the school. “It really stands for Palumbo, who worked profes- in the Troia Cathedral, and all together and will cherish them at the center of the lives of the what we’re all about: Christ and sionally as a commercial artist, Palumbo himself had long the rest of my life.” n children.” the children. And everybody’s The life-size mural, measuring included in the painting just as SHARE (Sacred Heart Adult Religious Education) 70 by 80 inches, was completed the children are all included in for the Diocese of Bridgeport is a four-year certificate program created through a partnership between using tempera and pastels on Christ’s love. Our school is a Sacred Heart University and the Diocese of plaster. Jesus and the children big family with children from Bridgeport. This theology program for adults will help Catholics understand their faith and empower are pictured in a beautiful field Columbia, China, Africa and so them to put it into action. SHARE has a no-test of wild flowers, birds and ripe many places,” she says of the format. Students can take one or more classes, or complete the entire four-year certificate program apples tumbling off a tree symbol- nearly 200 students in Pre-K from SHU and the Diocese. through grade eight. Principal Rossi said that the It can be a perplexing book, and is one of It is a work that demands and repays children were so excited about Spring 2013 the most misinterpreted books of the Bible. study. It makes a distinct contribution Regency the picture after it was unveiled Most Catholics are unacquainted with this to one’s understanding of Jesus and the that she could hear them asking SHARE last book of the Bible. However, this “most Christian life. Use this course as a Lenten Limousine their parents to come into school for the neglected book of the Bible” is a magnifi- spiritual opportunity. cent literary creation. At first the book may and look at it with them. Diocese of Bridgeport • 8-week course: Saturdays, Inc. Angela Mantero, enrollment appear somewhat bewildering and forbid- courses ding, but it is worthwhile to wrestle with it February 2, 9, 16, 23, March 2, 9, coordinator for St. Joseph School until it opens its riches to one. The course 16, 23 (inclement weather makeup and the mother of two St. Joseph Sacraments of Healing: With this will help one to understand the baffling but date: April 6) students, said she enjoys seeing course, we will study the theology and also beautiful symbolism in which the book • Time: 10am to 12noon Door to Door the students gathering in front history of the Sacraments of Reconcili- abounds. It will unravel the general mes- • Location: Sacred Heart University, 24 Hours a day of the mural and socializing ation and Anointing of the Sick. sages of the book, e.g., the cosmic battle 5151 Park Avenue, Fairfield before and after school. “It just between good and evil, the final victory of • Instructor: Dr. Thomas Hicks All Airports, Piers, and Theatres changes the whole feeling of the • 4-week course: Wednesdays, good, how we conquer through suffering, the • $280 New York City - January 9, 16, 30, February 6 victims become the victors, self-sacrificing school. We had been talking for love is the ultimate power in the world, etc. Corporate Accounts (inclement weather makeup date: To register: www.sacredheart.edu/share. some time about brightening the February 20) The Book of Revelation is made up of 22 Wedding & Special Occasions For more information, contact Gina lobby, not knowing exactly what • Time: 7:30pm to 9:30pm relatively brief chapters. As one gets into the Donnarummo, Director of Adult Formation: White Limousine, we wanted to do, and then Mr. • Location: Sacred Heart University, book, one usually finds it absorbing. 203.416.1446 / [email protected]. Chauffeured Lincoln Limousines Palumbo came forward. What he 5151 Park Avenue, Fairfield & Regency Town Car Sedans did was amazing.” • Instructor: Msgr. Christopher Anytime, Anywhere She says his colorful mural Walsh, PhD. Visit us on the web for more information 1-800-243-5606 replaced a dusty old trophy case • $140 www.regencylimousine.com that people stopped noticing www.sacredheart.edu/share long ago. “Now we have a front The Book of Revelation: The Book Licensed by CT D.O.T. hallway that is more welcoming of Revelation stands at the end of Bible. 24 December 2012 Sports Trinity Catholic starts anew

By DON HARRISON try,” Walsh recalls. “We had new Jones and Dave McClure) and kids coming in but…” The words the prestigious Gold Key Award It’s all a matter of perspective. end, but the meaning was clear. from the Connecticut Sports A 19-7 won-lost record and a Trinity Catholic didn’t quite jell Writers’ Alliance last January, second-place finish in the confer- and finished behind St. Joseph— the new season presents chal- ence would be reason to rejoice the ultimate Class LL state cham- lenges as well. for the majority of the state’s high pion—in the FCIAC Eastern Four important faces from last school basketball teams. Not so Division. season have departed—but two for Trinity Catholic and Coach “At least we kept it in the were unexpected. Jason Boswell, Mike Walsh, who had won the diocese,” the coach says with a the 6-foot-5 junior who averaged CIAC Class M state title the pre- chuckle. 17 points per game and was an vious winter. No, they deemed For Walsh, whose credentials All-FCIAC selection, moved the 2011-12 season a minor disap- across 32 seasons encompass 542 to Greensboro, NC. Seven-one pointment. victories, six state titles, a multi- Paschal Chukwu, a sophomore “We were very talented, but tude of All-State players (includ- who was beginning to refine we didn’t seem to have chemis- ing three-time picks Rashamel his court skills, transferred to

erhaps the greatest joy in retiring is knowing you can live life to its fullest. SENIOR CO-CAPTAIN SHADRAC CASMIR, a fleet 5-10 guard, was a P second-team All-Stater as a sophomore. He, with classmate and co-captain Tremain Frazier, coupled with Brandon Wheeler’s abilities at forward, present Maintaining your indepen- a solid foundation for Trinity’s Crusaders. dence and helping you enjoy life is our only goal at Carmel Fairfield Prep. seniors, and junior Neno Merritt. Ridge and Teresian Towers. “We lost four of our top The 6-2, 230-pound Sean Brown Located on the grounds of seven players,” says Walsh, rushed for 242 yards and four who also said goodbye to touchdowns in the 49-28 loss to St. Joseph’s Manor, our captain Kevin Epp, the 2012 North Branford in the quarterfi- unique retirement commu- class salutatorian who entered nal game at Guilford. nity provides the support and Notre Dame University, and “We’re hoping their success security you may need to live guard Kevin Leumene, now in football will carry over to bas- at Eastern Connecticut State. ketball,” Walsh says. “They’re life to its fullest, including “At least we developed him good athletes, but they’ll need 24-hour medical and security for somebody else,” he says of some time to get into basketball services, nursing staff, shopping Chuckwu. shape.” The proverbial cupboard Walsh, now 65, considers transportation, and optional isn’t bare, though. The back- himself a lucky man. A basketball meal plan. Day-to-day living is court of Shadrac Casmir and aficionado for as long as he can enhanced by an on-site chapel, Tremain Frazier, coupled with remember, he played the game 6-4 Brandon Wheeler’s abilities at at then-Stamford Catholic and library, recreation hall, crafts forward, present a solid founda- on the freshman squad at Iona room, swimming pool, and tion on which to build. Shadrac College, before financial needs nearby golfing. and Tremain, who were named forced him to leave the team co-captains, are seniors and three- and take a part-time job. He year starters. spent a few seasons at his alma “Casmir was a second-team mater as assistant coach to Gary We would like to help you All-Stater as a sophomore. He’s Liberatore before taking the reins make the next years the finest very quick with the ball and led in 1981. of your life. To receive more us in assists; he also shoots the It took a while for his three,” Walsh says. “Frazier is a Crusaders to win their first information or to sched- shooting guard who had a lot of state title (1996), but they’ve ule a visit, call 1-800-852-3866 in Connecticut or 203-261-2229 from out of playing time last year and got bet- since come in rapid succession state. Units from $58,000. Inquire about our Rental Program starting from ter as the season progressed.” (1999, 2001, 2003, 2004, 2011). $995 per month. The squad has been bolstered Trinity Catholic is now one of by the arrival of four members of Connecticut’s dominant pro- Trinity Catholic’s Class S state grams. quarterfinal football team—the “I’ve got a loving wife (Lisa) Teresian Towers/Carmel Ridge Estates Crusaders’ first state playoff of 37 years, five kids and three 6454 Main Street • Trumbull, Connecticut 06611 appearance in 19 years. Their grandchildren. I love what I A non-denominational facility owned by the Diocese of Bridgeport. Professionally managed by Winn Residential. names are Dan O’Leary, Sean do,” Walsh says. “I’m really Brown and Pat Kineally, all blessed.” n

25 December 2012 Youth I absolutely love Christmas!

By ANDRE ESCALEIRA becoming yet another ordinary enormity of Christmas, to see day, except that it has lots and them miss the importance of such Black Friday, Cyber Monday, lots of gifts. Everyone gets excited a monumental day is saddening. Holiday Doorbuster Deals. This for these gifts, and not for the Jesus Christ came into the world is the “new” Christmas, or so right one: the gift of a savior! on Christmas! Just thinking about we’re told. But Christmas is so As a teen, I see this con- it makes me grin from ear to ear! much more than just the time to sumerized mindset a lot, not To see people miss the real mean- get a good deal at a department only in peers but in adults, too. ing behind Christmas is sad, espe- store. Christmas is the celebra- Christmas seems to be becom- cially in my peers. tion of the birth of our Lord and ing less about CHRIST and Combating this consumerized Savior, Jesus Christ, who came more about where to get the mindset is tough and it’s a defi- into the world to be like us and to best gifts, how much you spend, nite challenge that we teens have save us. It’s the most wonderful and where to shop. This con- to face. If we don’t stand up for time of the year! sumerization brings us “Happy the true meaning of Christmas, Christmas is my absolute Holidays,” too. Since Christmas it’ll just disappear, because we are favorite season of the year. It’s is no longer about Christ and is the future! This Christmas, let’s great! Not only is there no school instead about money, gifts, and place the emphasis on Christ, not for a week (which is great in materialism, there’s no signifi- on gifts, because Jesus is the rea- and of itself), but everyone’s so cance behind the “holiday,” and son for the season! happy, and not with a meaning- it becomes just that, another Merry Christmas everyone! less, fleeting happiness, but a Halloween and Santa comes almost two full days!). Instead holiday. (Andre Escaleira, a member seemingly inexplicable joy that soon after; an average person of Christmas being the religious, It’s frustrating to see it hap- of St. Andrew Parish in Bridgeport, radiates from within. Plus, there’s will spend about forty-two hours family-oriented celebration that pening. To see people misun- is a senior at Kolbe-Cathedral High time to spend with family that preparing for Christmas (that’s it used to be, it has changed, derstand the great dignity and School.) n you might not see for the rest of the year, not to mention that Jesus is born! Honestly, I absolutely love Christmas. Everyone is so joy- Reality check at St. Joe’s High School ful, people come together in the TRUMBULL—Chris ESPN featured his journey in “Christmas spirit” to help those Herren, former college and the film “Unguarded.” in need, kids are excited for NBA standout, spoke to St. It was after first seeing this film Santa; it’s just awesome. During Joseph High School students that St. Joseph’s athletic direc- Christmas time, everyone radiates and the greater St. Joe’s com- tor, Jim Olayos, was prompted joy, a joy that seems inexplicable, munity in November about the to make contact. “Chris is a real but that actually comes from difficulties of drug and alcohol life testament to the addiction knowing that your savior is going addiction and how much more and recovery process—and proof to come into the world! You get difficult those troubles are when that anyone can fall prey to these to celebrate this awesome day begun in the teenage years. challenges. If he’s able to help one with your family too! “I know you don’t want individual—just one family—then I know that there are family to be here,” he began. “I sat he is making a positive change,” members that I might not get to where you are when I was 18. says Olayos. see all year, except for Christmas ‘What am I going to listen to, Echoing the sentiment, Dr. time; my Tia is a perfect example. another drug addiction story?’” William Fitzgerald, president of She’s my great aunt and I very Herren said, he too, given St. Joseph High School, says, “I rarely get to see her. She’s a typi- his privileged beginnings, remember watching Chris play at cal, lovable, eighty-seven year old thought he was always above B.M.C. Durfee High School in Portuguese avó. When she gets the wasted lives he’d seen and Fall River. He was a wizard with to see all of us, like at Christmas heard in those student assem- a basketball. However, what he time, she lights up, happy to see blies. He wasn’t. It took him 14 is doing with his life today is far all of us. Her joy at seeing us years to finally walk away from more meaningful than his best makes us happy, too. Being able the addiction that began at age day ever on the court. He’s paid a to see family, like Tia, makes 18, took away his scholarship high price, but what he gets from the day so much better. I love to Boston College, ruined his saving so many kids from his mis- Christmas! career in the NBA, and left him takes must be very satisfying.” Unfortunately, though, many sleeping between dumpsters It was a both a compelling and people don’t seem to understand behind the 7-Eleven. heart-rending few hours Chris the true meaning of Christmas; Sober since 2008, author of Herren spent with the commu- people don’t experience the pro- (memoirs), and nity. The students—many moved found joy of Christmas. Year Basketball Junkie founder of The Herren Project to tears by his blunt honesty and after year, stores open earlier on as well as Hoop Dreams, candor—erupted into a standing Thanksgiving and stay open later Herren today travels across the ovation at the end of his speech. MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER Chris Herren takes time to speak informally on Black Friday to accommodate nation to share his story with Herren’s parting advice to them: with St. Joseph seniors. Students, parents and area residents filled St. Joe’s Christmas shoppers; companies gym to hear Herren’s talk on drug and alcohol addiction. Following the high schools, youth groups, “Conquer you before you con- encourage millions to spend talk, students lined up for forty-five minutes to thank Chris personally. He professional and athletic orga- quer anything. Be a pro at being countless hours online shop- stayed and chatted with every one of them. (l-r) Ben Carapezzi, DJ Jones, nizations. yourself.” n ping; the mall decorates before Herren and Troy Deering. 26 December 2012 Obituaries Deacon Barton, 92 Sr. Sara Mooney, OSU, 91 STRATFORD—Deacon John “Deacon Barton took his expe- East Patchogue, NY—Sr. Sara Mooney died October 12 at Brookhaven Hospital, Barton, age 92, a former deacon rience in life—being sick for years NY. Born in 1921 in County Monaghan, Ireland, she entered the Congregation of of St. James Parish, died on as a young adult and losing his son the Ursuline Sisters of Tildonk in Blue Point on Long Island in 1940 and professed November 27 at his home. at a young age and, with God’s her final vows five years later. She received a bachelor of arts degree in education He graduated from Central power, transformed these wounds from Manhattan College and her master’s from St. Rose College in Albany, NY. High School and into a gift of heal- Sr. Sara ministered for many years as a teacher in New York, principally in was a World War II ing for the sick and Queens and Long Island and in Connecticut. She taught at the former St. Maurice U.S. Army veteran, those who have lost School in Stamford from 1959-62. Following her years of teaching, she ministered serving as a medic a loved one,” says for several years from 1977-89 as a home healthcare aide. in the European Fr. Thomas Lynch, In 1998, after many years of active service, Sr. Sara retired to the St. Ursula Center in Blue Point, Theater. Injuries pastor of St. James. where she continued in a ministry of prayer. sustained during “This became his A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated for Sr. Sara on October 15 at the St. Ursula Center his military service ministry and his pas- Chapel in Blue Point, followed by internment at the cemetery of the Ursuline Sisters there. n led to three years sion in life.” of hospitalization Deacon Barton is at the Newington survived by his wife, Veteran’s Hospital. Dorothy Snurkowski Deacon Barton, Barton and daugh- Sr. Marie Julie Condon, 83 who worked for ter Deborah Ann WILTON—Sr. She earned her bach- In 1982, after earning a master’s Avco-Lycoming in Stratford for Barton. He was predeceased by his Marie Julie Condon elor’s degree in educa- degree in counseling from the 32 years, was a member of the son, John. died of cardiac arrest on tion from Villanova University of Bridgeport with a Disabled American Veterans and Deacon Barton was received November 3 at Lourdes University in 1957. Sr. focus on geriatrics and gerontol- the Raymond Goldbach VFW into St. James Church at 4 pm on Health Care Center in Marie Julie taught in ogy, Sr. Marie Julie focused her Post 9460, and a 4th degree mem- November 30 for a parish wake. Wilton. She was 83 Philadelphia and New ministry on pastoral counseling. ber of the Knights of Columbus. A Mass of Christian Burial was years old. York before coming In 1986, she returned to the He was in the first diaconate pro- celebrated for him the following Gerardine Marie to the former St. John Wilton motherhouse to assist the gram of the Diocese of Bridgeport. morning, December 1. Msgr. Condon was born in School in Darien where elderly sisters. She served there Ordained in 1978, he was assigned Jerald Doyle, diocesan administra- 1929, in Boston, MA. Upon grad- she taught from 1964-68. before retiring in 2001. to St. James Parish, where he tor, was the principal celebrant. uation from high school in 1946, When her years of teaching A Mass of Christian burial was established their “Coping” Fr. Lynch delivered the homily. she entered the School Sisters of concluded in 1976, Sr. Marie celebrated for Sr. Marie Julie on bereavement program. He also He was interned with full mili- Notre Dame. She was given the moved to Wilton to serve the November 6 in the Chapel at Villa served as a member of Hospice tary honors at Gate of Heaven religious name Marie Julie. She Sisters living at Lourdes Health Notre Dame. Burial followed at through the VNA of Stratford. Cemetery in Trumbull. n professed her final vows in 1955. Care Center and the Motherhouse. 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y verdadera navidad es la que Porque Cristo al hacerse olumnista nvitado recuerda y celebra el nacimiento hombre rescató nuestra digni- C I de Jesús entre los hombres. dad humana. Dios siendo Dios Por El Diácono Juan Acosta Quevedo Durante estos domingos de aceptó hacerse hombre para Adviento, tiempo de preparación compartir nuestros sufrimientos y para la navidad, la Palabra de enseñarnos que para Dios todos El Diácono Acosta, colombiano, un diacono transitorio de la Diócesis Dios nos ha propuesto una serie somos iguales, para liberarnos de Bridgeport, está acabando sus estudios teológicos en Mount St. Mary de reflexiones en torno al mensaje de nuestras esclavitudes y here- Seminary, Emmitsburg, MD, en preparación para su ordenación profético sobre la esperada venida darnos el Reino que se nos fue del Mesías; a través de signos prometido desde antiguo. Este al sacerdocio el año que viene. sobre la proximidad de los últimos es el misterio más grande que tiempos, de la llamada a la con- celebramos en la navidad y por el versión y de la figura del mensaje- cual cada gesto, signo o palabra ¿Por qué la navidad no tiene expresiones de fe y devociones estas. Para algunos navidad se ha ro, somos invitados a prepararnos debiera rescatar el centro de nues- ese impacto espiritual que debiera tales como el rezo de la “novena convertido en época de adornos para recibir a Cristo, quien está a tra fe y esperanza, Jesucristo. tener? de aguinaldos”, “las posadas”, por doquier, culinaria, regalos la puesta esperando una respuesta Quizás esta no sea la invi- Sin duda alguna la navidad villancicos y peregrinaciones, y para complacer a los seres que por parte del hombre. tación que nos hacen las propa- se ha convertido en una de las con esto, celebramos que Cristo apreciamos y queremos, incluso, Dios no nos pide que aban- gandas de televisión durante la épocas más esperadas y especia- se hizo hombre para salvarnos; emoción por la llegada de “Santa donemos nuestra vida ordina- navidad ni la motivación que nos les para la mayoría de nosotros, Él es el precio de nuestra alegría Claus”. Para otros, navidad es ria, pero sí nos pide un cambio lleve a celebrar esta época de gran especialmente porque es una y libertad. Sin embargo, con el sinónimo de tráfico y largas filas, radical en nuestro interior, un valor para los cristianos, pero sí época animada por festividades, pasar de los días, el verdadero endeudamiento, fiestas, borrach- cambio que exige en sí mismo el lenguaje por el cual compar- alegrías, regalos, vacaciones y sentido cristiano de la navidad se eras, resacas, accidentes, que- apertura a su palabra y a su timos la angustia que nos toca buenos recuerdos tal y como lo ha ido deteriorando para muchos mados, vacío interior, tristeza, y mensaje. Por eso, en medio de vivir, plagadas de sufrimientos, fue desde sus orígenes en contex- hombres y mujeres quienes claro está, compras, compras… nuestras fragilidades y de una fe gemidos, dolores y desesperan- tos paganos. Para nosotros los experimentan en su diario vivir y más compras. quizás inmadura es lógico pensar zas, especialmente para aquellos cristianos, la navidad tiene un las secuelas de una sociedad cada No pretendo juzgar nuestros que aún podemos reunirnos en quienes su fe es mucho más frágil significado aún más importante vez más secularizada y alejada de pensamientos o la sociedad a la familia en torno a la mesa, al y por los cuales muchas veces nos porque esta época del año nos los planes de Dios. que nos estamos acostumbrando árbol, al pesebre y a los regalos alejan de Dios y de la verdadera recuerda el evento del nacimiento Si preguntáramos cuál es la a vivir, ni tampoco se trata de para celebrar la navidad con razón de ser de la navidad. Pero de nuestro Salvador Jesucristo. primera imagen o significado que juzgar nuestras creencias, pero gozo y alegría reconociendo que en medio de esta realidad de Por muchos siglos y años los viene a la mente cuando escu- este es un espacio oportuno para en nuestro interior Dios mismo nuestra propia humanidad somos cristianos han dado significado y chamos la palabra “navidad,” de hacer un alto en el camino y es quien nace para hacernos invitados a meditar sobre la li- sentido a la navidad a través de seguro habría variedad de respu- preguntarnos a nosotros mismos libres. bertad prometida: “levanten la por qué la navidad no tiene ese Desde el punto de vista eti- cabeza porque está cerca su liber- impacto espiritual que debiera mológico, la palabra navidad sig- ación…” (Lc 21,28b). Con estas Deceased Clergy of the Diocese of Bridgeport tener en nuestros tiempos actu- nifica “nacimiento” y para nadie palabras el evangelista Lucas December 16—January 12 ales. El propósito es rescatar las es un secreto que nacimiento es pone en boca de Jesús el llamado enseñanzas de nuestros abuelos sinónimo de nuevos tiempos, a la esperanza, la cual es posible y no dejar en el olvido lo que de algo que ha salido a la luz y si interpretamos los signos de los November Year ellos mismos nos transmitieron empieza a existir. Entonces es tiempos que vivimos reconocien- 28 Deacon Wayne E. Malloy...... 2011 con tanta devoción y dedicación, momento que Dios mismo sea do en ellos la presencia y el paso porque en su sencillez y “sim- la luz que deba nacer en nuestro de Dios porque esto es navidad, December plicidad” nos dieron ejemplo de interior, la nueva esperanza que la única y verdadera “fiesta” que 3 Msgr. John E. Gilmartin...... 2011 una fe fundada en los principios nos lleve más allá de nuestros recuerda la presencia de Dios 17 Rev. Kieran T. Ahearn...... 1997 morales y cristianos; en su senci- apegos humanos y rescate el ver- hecho Hombre entre 19 Rev. Philip Morrissey...... 2008 llez nos enseñaron que la única dadero valor de nuestra vida. los hombres. n 26 Rev. Vincent P. Cleary...... 1965 27 Rev. Ignatius Baraniak, O.F.M. Conv...... 1980 29 Msgr. James H. Grady...... 1967 30 Rev. M. Joseph McCarthy...... 2006 Feliz Navidad January In the nativity scene on 1 Rev. Michael J. Flynn, C.S.Sa...... 1995 display at St. Mary Parish 2 Rev. Robert J. McDermott...... 1989 in Bridgeport, Mary and 3 Msgr. Pierre A. Botton...... 2010 Joseph adore their newborn 6 Msgr. William J. Fox...... 1962 baby while the village life of 7 Rev. Walter E. Bozek...... 1995 Bethlehem swirls in anima- tion around them. Visitors 8 Rev. Mr. Edward R. Kovacs...... 1999 see a steam rising gently Rev. Joseph P. Biondino...... 2001 from the pot on the fire, 9 Rev. Gerald T. Devore...... 2011 while a man noisily chops Rev. Mr. Hugh Sweeney...... 1990 more wood and others go Rev. Robert Nemeth, O.F.M. Conv...... 1998 about their daily tasks. The 13 Rev. Daniel J. Deehan...... 1976 display draws crowds of 14 Msgr. Joseph A. Sullivan...... 2001 admirers every year. 28 December 2012 Column The Power of Prayer

became a little fearful, but of Medical Center where I met Dr. One of my sons, an attorney, course I didn’t call 911, convinc- Alan Gass, head of the transplant had a contact in Mexico City and Guest Columnist ing myself that this would pass. unit. He explained the transplant he emailed him and asked him Even so, it became somewhat process to me, including the need to arrange for a Mass to be said By Martin Tristine concerning, so I prayed to Jesus to be approved by the transplant for me and Dr. Gass’s patient and Our Lady and immediately committee to be put on the trans- at the Basilica of Our Lady of felt totally at peace even though plant list. I was told that because Guadelupe. The Mass was said Martin Tristine is assistant the symptoms continued. of my blood type, I might have to on a Monday, and when I asked to the superintendent of diocesan The next day I went to my son, wait as long as two months. Dr. Gass how his patient was a physician, who examined me and The next day, my young- doing, he told me he started to Catholic schools. immediately sent me to a cardi- est son’s wife brought with her improve that same day. ologist. A heart biopsy confirmed pictures of my family and a After I arrived at Westchester, sarcodosis of the heart. Sarcodosis beautiful poster of Our Lady of I had to remain flat on my back f you were like me, you I was reasonably healthy, of the heart is an extremely rare Guadelupe. Our family has had and could not move my right leg. learned your prayers at an took pretty good care of myself, disease that has affected very few a special devotion to Our Lady Because the poster of Our Lady early age. We learned by although I could have exercised men. It is so rare that the treatment since my oldest grandson was was always in my vision, I was Imemorizing the words. We more. I never had a heart problem. protocol is still trial and error. In diagnosed with leukemia at the peaceful and even joyful. I felt the didn’t necessarily understand the On April 23, Holy Saturday my case it didn’t work. age of two and a half. My wife lack of mobility was a privilege meaning behind the words and that year, I was shredding some A week later I was taken to had acquired a beautiful framed and the time passed quickly. quickly fell into the habit of saying old documents. I was at it for two St. Vincent Medical emergency poster of Our Lady which we A few weeks later, on June 8, the words—not praying the words. hours, when I began to experi- room, barely able to breathe or hung in my grandson’s room. Dr. Gass was in my room next Recently, I had an experience ence heaviness in my chest and walk. Tests determined that my Over several years he was cured. to my bed watching the monitors that demonstrated to me how dizziness. I stopped the shred- heart was barely functioning. I So Our Lady secured a special as we talked. Suddenly, I nearly powerful prayers are and how ding and rested for the afternoon. was put into ICU and arrange- place in our hearts. passed out and received a power- responsive Jesus and Our Blessed The symptoms went away and ments were made to transport me Dr. Gass came in that day and ful blow in the back. I had just Lady can be. stayed away Easter Sunday and to Westchester Medical Center the asked who the poster represented. suffered a ventricular fibrillation I am a 67-year-old man, Monday. On Tuesday I went next day. I overheard a nurse dis- I explained the story of Our Lady. and Dr. Gass told me the blow assistant to the superintendent of to work and again experienced cussing my condition and stating I As many of the floor nurses came was from the defibrillator, which Catholic schools in the Diocese heaviness and dizziness, but in could die that night. When I asked into my room to ask about the started my heart again. Dr. Gass of Bridgeport. I am married to an typical male fashion I ignored the the staff doctor to confirm that, he poster, I explained the story many had still been a little uncertain extraordinary woman and togeth- symptoms and went about my did. Again, I started to pray and, more times. Dr. Gass asked me to about giving me a transplant up er we have four married children, business through the whole day. again, I felt complete and total pray for a 17-year-old transplant until then, but the episode con- whose spouses have fit perfectly That night the heaviness became peace, no fear, almost joy. patient who was not doing well vinced him I needed a heart. into our family and have given us more severe as did the dizziness. The next morning I was taken and asked me to put him on the The next day, the transplant 11 grandchildren. It got to the point where I by ambulance to Westchester prayer lines I was on. coordinator called to tell me they

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as first streaks of light were in the outside the Swirl ice-cream shop like one of the luminous things sky. The world seemed hushed in Redding. We watched a family in life. Potpourri and waiting. Then a robin called, enter the shop; a mother, father, In her Story of a Soul, Therese a tentative call as though asking and two young daughters. of Lisieux noted that “life is often By Thomas H. Hicks who else was awake. How fresh The mother was stunningly burdensome. What bitterness, it all was, how pure. Then came beautiful. The father had a tall, but also what sweetness.” To be the roseate hues of dawn. The athletic figure. His face registered human is to take on the weight clouds were edged with crimson patience and tolerance. His clean, of suffering, separations, failures. Thomas Hicks is a member just before the sun rose. I sensed tieless white shirt open at the col- We can feel we get nibbled to the sheer wonder of creation, felt lar and expensive-looking tailored death by the world. But to be of St. Theresa Parish in Trumbull. thanksgiving for existence. The black pants gave the impression human is also to rejoice and live world appeared like a precious of a prosperous business man in wonder. The world has sweet gift. I felt so glad for life. recently returned from work. flavors to offer. It can give so owso’er it be, that accompanies the conquest of I had an exquisite moment at From the daughters one heard much bounty. life is good.” a skill: mastering riding a bicycle, a family Thanksgiving gathering. excited squeals and girlish giggling. Psalm 90 says: “Give us joy to (Goethe) being able to completely play a After the meal, the family had Emerging with their ice- balance our affliction.” And pos- “H An uncle piece of music, etc. Exercising a gathered in a circle, and such a cream, the family sat at a picnic sibly God does. There is an ebb once told me that “we are boats skill easily and well is one of the sweet sociability prevailed. There table. In the lovely blue twilight and flow. in a storm. You just ride it out great joys in life. There is the sen- was such a depth of harmony. they clustered together. The I like something St. Gregory and hope that the boat holds sation of happiness that accompa- Conversation was easy and natu- daughters debated a bit who was the Great wrote: “The present together.” Shakespeare put it nies some earned success. ral, making a kind of music out “squishing” whom. Silhouetted life is but a road by which we his way when, in King Lear, he The lives of all of us contain of the different voices. A fire was against an opal sky, the fam- advance to our homeland. We wrote of how we “bide the pelt- these types of moments of exhila- crackling in the background. There ily seemed as though they had are subject to frequent disturbanc- ing of the pitiless storm.” ration, instants of the joy of life. was such a sense of belonging and achieved some maximum fam- es so that we do not have more Surely, there is too much pain There are some moments in peace, a feeling of calm and safety; ily compression. Just for a time love for the journey than for the and weariness in life, too much my life that I would have frozen a strong sense of belonging with now they were all together; they destination.” loss, too much fear. We all meet if I could. They encapsulate being my own people, in my own space. seemed so happy. We can be so charmed by the our difficulties, disappointments, “alive to happiness.” I had such a simple sense of hap- Eventually, they would dis- beauty of the journey that our tragedies—all the ills that flesh is There was a certain sunrise, piness, indeed, a sense of being at perse. The daughters would grow steps are slowed. It is for this heir to. I see the Cross everywhere. an experience of the magical first home in the world. up, leave home. But on a tender reason that the Lord makes the However, despite everything, light of day. One spring morn- Another moment was the twi- July afternoon, in the lovely blue path through the world difficult. there is the delight in being a ing I was up before sunrise and light of a lovely mid-summer day. of the soft dying day, they were Otherwise, we might want to stop human being. What life gives us stepped out onto my deck. The The sun was setting, tranquil and still molded, it might seem, for- by the roadside for a picnic and a is often beautiful. stars were just beginning to dim sated. I was with a friend in a car ever together. It all seemed to me sleep in the sun. n There is the ordinary human happiness we find, e.g., in times of completion, the last stroke as you complete painting a room BY ED WALDRON or a fence, the final sentence on SAINTLYLIVES a term paper, attaching the last shelf of a bookcase you have built. There is the joyful moment

Guest Columnist from page 28 had a heart which looked to be a good match. It was 20 days after I had been put on the transplant list. Dr. Gas said they had never had a heart for my blood type become available so fast. When I thanked him for all he had done, my Jewish doctor turned to the poster of Our Lady of Guadeloupe and said “It was her, not me.” I had the transplant on the evening of June 9. The recovery and rehab went so well that I was released on Father’s Day June 19, just ten days after the transplant. I am back at work, loving my family and appreciating life more than ever. When I pray, I don’t just say the words—I pray them. I have personally experienced the love of Jesus and our Blessed Mother. n 30 December 2012 Bits & Pieces Televised Mass HURRICANE SANDY TOY “WE CARE” PERINATAL soon.) DRIVE sponsored by Al’s Angels GRIEF support group meets CURSILLO ULTREYAS is taking place now through the third Wed. of each month are held at locations around Thurs., Dec. 20. Drop off new, (Dec. 19; Jan. 16) from 7-8:15 the diocese: Mon., Jan. 7, at unwrapped toys at 1175 Post Rd., pm. The group is for those griev- St. James Parish, Stratford at 7 Westport, 2nd floor, rear entrance ing the loss of a baby through pm; and Thurs., Jan. 17, at St. parking. Toys go to NY tri-state miscarriage, ectopic pregnancy, Mary Parish, Bethel, at 7:30 pm. areas hit hardest by the hurricane. stillborn, or newborn death. No For more information, contact To make a financial donation, go charge; no registration required. Jeanette: [email protected]. to www.alsangels.org. For more For more information, call Sr. FAMILY SUPPORT information contact Al DiGuido: Arthur Marie: 203.576.5110, or GROUP is offered at St. 203.254.1759. Marilyn Faber: 203.576.5716. Vincent’s Medical Center, TONY MELENDEZ YEAR OF FAITH: St. Philip Bridgeport, first Tues. of each CONCERT to benefit St. Parish, Norwalk, is holding month (Tues., Jan. 8,) from CHRISTMAS MASS will be televised on WWOR, channel 9, Benedict/Our Lady of Montserrat a Vatican II discussion group 4-5:30 pm for adult patients, fam- at 8 am on Christmas morning. The Mass will also air on Parish will be held at West Hill the third Thurs. of each month ily members and friends who are WLNY, channel 10/55, at 9 am. Throughout the year, Sunday High School, Stamford, on Sat., (Dec. 20; Jan. 17) from now coping with a diagnose of: leuke- Mass is televised on the following stations: WNYW, Channel Dec. 15, at 7 pm. Tickets: $20. through June, from 7:30-9 pm. mia, lymphoma, multiple myelo- 5, at 5:30 am; ABC Family, 6 am; and WLNY, Channel 10/55, For more information, call the The Dec. topic will be Lumen ma, and Hodgkin’s disease. No 9 am. In addition, THE NET Vigil Mass (formerly The Prayer parish: 203.323.7379 or email Gentium (On the Church). For reservation required. For more Channel) Time Warner, Channel 97; Cablevision, Channel 30, [email protected] or sha- more information, call the parish: information, call 203.576.6158 or has a televised Mass at 6 pm on Saturdays. [email protected]. 203.847.4549. email [email protected]. CONNECTIONS, a new spiri- THE JOURNEY FOR tual and social opportunity for CONTROL, an interactive director of the diocesan Respect MASSES OF HEALING SHOP ST. MARY’S singles 35 and over, will launch monthly diabetes education Life Ministry, will be the guest AND HOPE sponsored by the BOOKSTORE for the finest on Sat., Jan. 5, at Holy Family workshop will be held at at speaker. For more informa- Charismatic Renewal Office will Catholic gifts for Christmas: Parish, Fairfield, following the St. Vincent’s Medical Center, tion, contact Eileen Bianchini: be offered Mon., Jan. 21, at St. books for all ages and a wide 4:30 pm Mass. Its mission is to Bridgeport, the second Thurs. of 203.847.5727 or stmarygols@ Lawrence Parish, Shelton, with range of rosaries, crucifixes, bring together singles 35 and older the month (Jan. 10) from 6-7:30 aol.com. Fr. Ed Nadolny; and Mon., Jan. artwork, and more. Open for friendship, social get-togethers, pm. Space is limited. To regis- OPLATEK (CHRISTMAS 28, at 7:30 pm at Christ the King daily after the 12:10 Mass spiritual talks, and community ter, call Diane Sheehan, APRN: WAFER) DINNER will be Parish, Trumbull, with Fr. Larry until 2 pm; Sat. 10- 4 pm outreach. Connections will offer 203.576.6168. held at Holy Name of Jesus Carew. For more information, and Sun. 11- 2 pm. 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There was much to remember and be thankful for as nearly 200 parishioners of The Cathedral Parish braved the chill and persistent rain for a prayerful and joyous Remembrance Tree lighting on December 7 at St. Patrick’s Church in Bridgeport.

For the first time, the annual tree lighting ceremony included members of the combined par- ish that brought together parishioners from St. Augustine and St. Patrick parishes. The grounds of St. Patrick’s Church on North Ave. were graced with a beautiful nativity, angels, and a Remembrance Tree to celebrate the birth of Christ. The large, living spruce tree on the front lawn was surrounded by four decorated dogwood trees and angels. A beautiful nativity, which was built by the parishioners, was proudly displayed. The lights on the tree represent parishioners and friends of the parish, both living and deceased. Individual and family names are displayed on a banner in the church printed in a Remembrance Book and commemorated in a bright light on the tree. The Christmas Tree lighting was held after the 5:30 pm Mass celebrated by Fr. Peter Lenox, administrator of The Cathedral Parish. The Knights of Columbus served as honor guards for the ceremony, held on the anniversary of the attacks on Pearl Harbor in 1941.