December 31,1986
r • December 31, 1986 Vol. XXX. No. 54 The weekly newspaper serving the towns of Bethlehem and New Scotland •: Family traditions bring the holidays home By Lorraine C. Smith family, the birth of a tradition began with started passing the candlesticks around, ilver icicles, still sparkling, the death of their parents, the death of and what started out as a joke evolved as •• now but a carpet trail of their father just two years after their the perfect solution. The one who hosts Christmas past. The candles, mother. In years past, the two brothers Thanksgivingdinnerhasthecandlesticks_ last week tall, slender, and two sisters had always gathered all year long. fragrant...S low, spent, but a suggestion of together at their parents' home for Now Thanksgiving and the candlestick holiday's flicker. Falling needles from Thanksgiving. tradition bring bring the four children the tree, leftover cakes, the decorations ... At the table, always, there had been the and their families from Rome, from one by one the lights grow dim. silver candlesticks. When their mother Rochester,from Buffalo and Slingerlands, died, an aunt had expressed interest in together. Already, the next generation, bringing them to her house. Their father their children, talk of exchanging the Thanksgiving, Christmas, Hanukkah. had said no, he wanted to keep them in candlesticks when the reunions become Another year, again, with only memories his home. Then when he died, the their tum. to bum brightlyoffamilytradition. With l a foundation of religious observance, children wondered, What do we do with For Betty and Alan Guard of the candlesticks? Delmar, the leave taking of r nativity scenes, festival of lights, family reunions, favorite foods it is our "Nobody would say they wanted them.
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