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happily say this group effort has worked in the preparation of our summer issue. Deborah Join us as Alice Burke takes us through stunning castles and gardens in the . Joshua Parfitt introduces us to the Dutch hofjes and Anuja Tipnis- Randive leads us through an exhibit on Knights and Castles. Maybe you would like to give our ‘royal recipe’ a chance and share your experiences with us?

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Festival Mundial Finish of the festivalmundial.nl (Dutch only) Volvo Ocean Race volvooceanracedenhaag.nl/?lang=en 23 - 24 June – Tilburg 24 June - 1 July – The Hague Feel like something different? Fresh? Non-mainstream? This festival is it! Held every three years, this yacht sailing Cultural and musical diversity are key race has been making waves as the words to describe this laid-back event. world’s longest. After taking off from Featuring both emerging and estab- Spain in October, the Volvo Ocean Race lished artists, Festival Mundial offers will end in The Hague for the first time in plenty of opportunities to discover your its history, and you can be there to wit- next musical obsession while dancing in ness it! The race village offers activities the streets of Tilburg.

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15 - 17 June – The Hague De Parade deparade.nl (Dutch only) Originality and quirkiness guaranteed at this animated celebration of modern 29 June - 2 September (dates vary by city) Asian popular culture. Featuring cosplay, manga, games, special guests, and , The Hague, , Amsterdam much more. Choose from a huge list of events including competitions, music De Parade offers unique and exclusive music, theatre, and dance performances in a and dance, food and drink, lectures, and ­t­­­ra­velling festival format that visits all four major cities in the Netherlands. Children will speed dating! also not be bored with performances and workshops especially for them, and of course there is always lekker food and drinks. Which city are you going for this year?

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Kill two birds with one stone by visiting this great art exhibition and one of the loveliest villages in the Netherlands. Alongside paintings, photographs and jewelry, you can also enjoy works made with various materials: glass, bronze, ceramics, and more. As 60 artists will present their work, everyone is sure to find something to their liking. Be sure to combine your visit with a stroll through the cozy village of Woudsend; you will not be disappointed! PHOTO: JOEP VAN AERT VAN JOEP PHOTO:

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Kids Mud Run Drentse 4 Days Rotterdam Unlimited bijdaanevents.nl/kids-mud-run of Cycling rotterdamunlimited.com/en/ fiets4daagse.nl (Dutch only) 1 July – Emmen 24 - 28 July – Rotterdam 24 - 27 July Various locations in Drenthe Put on your dancing shoes and head to Rotterdam for this huge celebration of cultures. The streets of Rotterdam This four-day bicycle tour truly offers will be overwhelmed by 'a wave of something for everyone. Take an easy color, music and an incredible boost bike ride through one of the scenic of energy.' Picture yourself in the routes, go for a more challenging expe- Caribbean as you dance in the summer rience on your mountain bike, or choose carnival’s street parade and enjoy this another option from the cycling menu. street festival that combines a massive A wonderful opportunity to see Drenthe variety of outdoor stages, music and while celebrating the most Dutch means food. And all of this for free!! of transportation!

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The Kids Mud Run is an obstacle course Through 31 December – The Hague where children get an opportunity to challenge themselves by climbing, Thousands of photos covering two spaces give a strong impact of the magnitude of the d­igging, running through water, and refugee crisis today, while not forgetting that real people and real lives are at stake. As a more. Children ages 6 to 15 are wel- political refugee, artist Ai Weiwei has the experience of escaping one difficult place just to come to try it out, and parents can encounter new difficulties in another. All photographs were taken in refugee camps in the p­articipate with smaller children. Middle East, Africa, and Europe. There is no competition involved; it’s all about being active and getting dirty!

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Attracting large crowds, this is the Do not miss the unique up-close sight of hot air balloons floating above in the Barneveld 24th edition of this yummy festival. sky. This four-day event also features extraordinary balloons in non-traditional shapes that Restaurants from Haarlem and the are guaranteed to steal the show. Enjoy various activities on the ground while watching s­urrounding area present their best the balloons as you wait for the spectacular nightglow and laser show that closes each dishes in one location and for affordable day of this celebration. prices. It is an excellent opportunity to visit the beautiful city of Haarlem and sample some super-creative cuisine.

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The Royal de Luxe French street theatre is bringing its iconic giants to the European capital of culture! In this truly impressive event, 12-meter-tall giants are going to walk through the streets of BEN BL+ÑSS PHOTO: Leeuwarden. The giants are also going to be sleeping out on the street, so you Brabantsedag OVG Veerhaven can come sing a lullaby and even have brabantsedag.nl (Dutch only) breakfast with them! Concert veerhavenconcert.nl (Dutch only) 26 August – Heeze 25 - 26 August – Rotterdam Launched in 1958, this is the 61st edition of this special day that celebrates A special open-air performance of the Brabant’s folklore and culture. During Rotterdam Philharmonic Orchestra the day young and old can enjoy caba- and the Toonkunst Amsterdam Choir in ret, art, street theatre and music as they Veerhaven offers experiencing classical get to know a little more about the music in a different way. 130 musicians province of Brabant. The highlight of it take the stage on a floating pontoon, all is the cultural history parade where and spectators are welcome to view and floats and actors liven up the streets of listen from a boat or from the docks as Heeze like only Brabant can do! they float on the sound of music. PHOTO: ROYAL DE LUXE ARTCOMPRESS PASCAL VICTOR PASCAL ARTCOMPRESS DE LUXE ROYAL PHOTO:

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Castles and gardens of the Lowlands: Historical colour in a Dutch landscape

10 | ACCESS | SUMMER 2018 Castles and gardens of the Lowlands: Historical colour in a Dutch landscape

A land known for flatness and its pioneering jaunts to the New World is not necessarily the first place you’d think of when it comes to grand castles and lush gardens, but the Netherlands is a place of subtle mystery, and architectural and botanic beauty lies all around.

BY ALICE BURKE

Castles from many eras stand proudly in almost every province, with the most renowned being Muiderslot in Noord Holland and the strikingly decadent De Haar castle in Utrecht. The Japanese Gardens of The Hague and the cherry blossoms of the Amsterdamse Bos add even more colour to the Dutch palette. They offer a breath of fresh air as the spring tulips fade to make way for a (hopefully) bright sum- mer spent outdoors on the canals and waterways.

It would be impossible to cover the hundreds of Dutch castles and gardens here, but we’ve selected a few outstanding locations to introduce you to a lesser-known world just under your nose.

As you navigate the Netherlands on your quest to uncover these majestic buildings, you’ll notice the names change from province to province. A smaller,

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Groningen. These borgs were usually larger villas or Netherlands. The Royal Palace presides over strongholds belonging to noblemen and rich citi- Amsterdam’s Dam Square like a stately monarch zens. In Friesland, a borg becomes a “stins”, originat- itself. It was originally built as a city hall during the ing from the West Frisian “stienhûs,” or stone house. by Jacob van Campen and was said to be inspired by the town hall of Antwerp. Many of these borgs and stins were demolished due to This is not where the royals live, however, with high upkeep costs, but some still remain intact and the King choosing a much more scenic home. are generally used as museums. Good examples are the Fraeylemaborg in Slochteren and the Wedderborg The Netherlands’ King Willem-Alexander and family hotel surrounded by a moat in Wedde, where you can live in Villa Eikenhorst in The Hague, situated on a spend a night in a 14th-century room. forested estate near . The estate has been part of the holdings of the Dutch royal family since Kings of the castle the 1800s and is unfortunately not open to the public,­ Although not a castle, it would be remiss to not but you can wander around nearby in some beautiful include the current royals and the Royal Palace landscapes. There are many trails in the area, varying when talking about castle-related history in the in distance from 1 to 7.5 km, with se­veral of them also wheelchair accessible.

As you navigate the Netherlands on Muiderslot, or Muiden Castle, is located only 15 kilo- your quest to uncover these majestic metres from Amsterdam and was built in 1370 by Albrecht, the Duke of Bavaria. Muiderslot is listed buildings, you’ll notice the names as a UNESCO World Heritage Site and has been change from province to province. fe­atured in a number of television shows set in me­dieval times. Today, the castle is used as a national museum and is open to the public.

De Haar Castle in Utrecht is the largest of all the Dutch castles, and it’s stated that it began life as a structure as far back as 1391. The castle that stands today was not the original structure but Did you know... was built in the same location. Its restoration Gelderland has the ­ took place in the late 1800s and was funded most number of by the Rothschild family. The castle is open castles. to the general public but can only be v­isited as part of guided tours. Fairs and concerts are also held on the castle grounds throughout the year, including a beautiful Christmas fair and a fa­ntasy and cosplay event called Elfia, which attracts elves, pirates, and storybook characters from all over.

Visitors can wander through the castle’s grounds, and beautiful lakes and bridges can be found scat- tered throughout the property as well as an impres-

PHOTO: KASTEEL DE HAAR UTRECHT PHOTO: sive maze. »

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The gardens of Rosendael Castle are some of the oldest in the country, dating back more than 300 years.

Ammersoyen is home to an impressively complex and vertigo-inducing winding staircase and was built in 1350 near the Maas River. The castle has had a very complex history, serving as a convent for a time in the late 19th century and as a shelter for local villagers during World War II. The castle was later used as a village hall until it was purchased by the Gelderland Castle Trust in the late 1950s. It has since been restored to its former medieval glory.

Mentions of Rosendael Castle in Gelderland can be traced back to the early 14th century. In World War II, the castle was hit by a bomb. A stray V2 rocket also decimated part of the park. After the war, the prop- erty fell into ruins until 1977 when William Frederick Torck Baron Pallandtstraat donated the castle to the Geldersch Landscape. The gardens and the house were then partially restored. Both the castle and the PHOTO: M. M. MINDERHOUD park are among the top 100 UNESCO monuments in the Netherlands. Doornenburg Castle is a beautifully preserved 13th-century castle in East Gelderland. It’s composed The gardens of Rosendael Castle are some of the of several smaller castles joined together by a ol­dest in the country, dating back more than 300 wooden bridge and is also one of the largest castles years. There are more than 70 different species of More reading on castles and in the country. The castle was almost destroyed trees, herbs, and shrubs featured in the garden, and gardens of the d­uring World War II in a bombing raid in early 1945, more than 40 species of birds call Rosendael home. Netherlands but it was rebuilt between 1947 and 1968 and has since gone from strength to strength. Doornenburg And last in our concise list, Duivenoorde Castle is www.gardenvisit.com/ Castle and its tea rooms can be visited by the public. one of the oldest castles in the Netherlands, a truly gardens/in/holland Visitors can tour the courtyard for free but can only stunning and still-inhabited castle with roots as far en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ see the interior of the castle through a guided tour, back as the 1200s. Huge renovations have taken place List_of_castles_in_the_ which is highly recommended due to its detailed itin- throughout the centuries, with some of the most Netherlands erary, allowing you a good nosy look at the life of a famous Dutch noble families living there through www.everycastle.com Dutch castle dweller in medieval times. generations. The castle itself is open to visitors annu-

14 | ACCESS | SUMMER 2018 ally from April to October, but the surrounding estate is open all year and is ideal for walkers and hikers with access to neighbouring estates and beautiful grounds.

Gardens, parks, and recreation Clingendael and its complex history is one of the most fascinating parts of the Netherlands. The estate, located between The Hague and Wassenaar, has an eventful history. Since the 16th-century, various garden and landscape architects have contributed towards the look and atmosphere of this country estate.

Like many stately homes and gardens in the

Netherlands, the estate played its own role in World DUIVENOORDE - RENÉ ZOETEMELK PHOTO: War II and was seized by the Germans. The head of the Nazi-occupied Netherlands, Arthur Seyss Inquart, lived at Clingendael and built a bunker on Back up north to Amsterdam, we find the beautifully the grounds. To this day it still stands as a silent transient cherry blossom park of the Amsterdamse monument to lost lives and terrible power, although Bos. Only in bloom for a week or so, the park sakura now overpowered itself by Mother Nature as tree is a small haven located within the vast Amsterdamse roots envelop its concrete. Bos or forest. The 400 cherry blossom trees were a gift from the Japan Women’s Club of Amstelveen in The estate house is now home to the Clingendael 2000 to commemorate the 400th anniversary of the Institute of International Relations, but visitors are Netherlands Japan Friendship Treaty. Take a cycle free to wander the beautiful grounds and bask in through the forest before crossing the bamboo » their wonder and history.

Clingendael is also home to the Japanese Garden, a very magical place that opens for only eight weeks per year because of the delicate and fragile nature of the plants inside. The Japanese Garden was created in the beginning of the 20th century by the former owner of the Clingendael country estate, Marguérite M. Baroness van Brienen, also called Lady Daisy. Lady Daisy undertook several voyages by ship to Japan. She brought back to the Netherlands a num- ber of lanterns, a water cask, sculptures, the little bridges and possibly the pavilion.

The garden is open from 28 April to 10 June and again from 13 to 23 October in 2018. It is not possible to visit with prams, baby strollers or electric mobility devices,

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bridge to picnic under a canopy of pink p­etals: a rare and lovely treat, only blossoming at nature’s behest around mid-April each year.

The Hortus botanicus in is the oldest botani- cal garden in the Netherlands. The oldest section of the Hortus, dating back to 1590, is the current Front Garden. It has been renovated with new plants and in 2000; a new glasshouse was added to form the Winter Garden. The Clusius Garden gives an impression of what the Hortus was like around 1600, when the bonds between the Netherlands and Asia were formed. The exchange of plants and knowledge PHOTO: HERMAN BERKHOUDT between these cultures can be seen in the Japanese Garden. The Hortus’ pride, Victoria amazonica – a stunning water lily - can be admired in the Victoria Wageningen University, it is home to plant collec- Glasshouse. tions that are valuable for research or have a social or cultural-historical value. It has 1,500 species of The Belmonte Arboretum is tucked away in an estate rhododendrons in its collection, which is the largest near Wageningen and is a wonderful place to visit. collection of rhododendrons in the Benelux. Formerly a part of the botanical gardens of Additionally, there are cherry, apple, pear, hawthorn, rowan, magnolia, and dove trees as well as roses from Gelderland. The Hortus botanicus in Leiden is the oldest botanical garden in the There’s no lack of choice when it comes to finding a way to while away a sunny afternoon in a Dutch castle Netherlands. The oldest section of or garden. The Netherlands offers a refreshing vari- the Hortus, dating back to 1590... ety of shapes and sizes of castles -- from the neater borgs and stins to the traditional medieval keeps, showing a range of architecture not often seen in ­castle structures.

It’s also lovely to see that not all flowers are tulips, and the botanical lushness of the Netherlands is as wonderful and varied as its people. So get reading, get planning and get visiting castles, borgs, stins and blossoming gardens—and soon—because as we all know too well in the Lowlands, winter is coming. «

About the author

Alice Burke is a writer and editor based in The Hague. Find her

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A lost garden: can it be regained?

Imagine, a magnificent castle surrounded by against the former owner, because he knowingly grabbed the piece of land. With this ruling, the for- beautiful gardens. Each garden with its own mer owner may initiate proceedings against the unique theme but so large that the owner is not new owner in order to claim back the piece of land. In such a procedure, the judge may dismiss the claim able to to admire them all on a regular basis. and stipulate that in its place, compensation is to One day he discovers that, years before, a be paid. neighbour grabbed a small piece of garden from New cases, not clarity him. Even though the neighbour knew that it was Since the ruling mentioned above is contrary to established practice, it remains to be seen how not his, he claimed ownership of it! judges will deal with it in the future. In one case, the Court of Rotterdam recently only awarded com- Is this right? And what can the owner do about it? pensation and rejected the claim for the return of the piece of land. In another ruling made by the Court of , the judge rejected the claim BY DANIËLLE While the neighbour is correct in his assertion that for compensation as well as the claim for the return VAN DEN HEUVEL he can be the owner of the piece of garden, provided of the piece of land. According to the judge in the that it has been in his possession for at least 20 years, ­latter case, there were different circumstances than from a legal point of view, ‘being in possession of’ in the case submitted to the Supreme Court. also means that he must have acted as if he was the rightful owner. ... the ruling ... is What the courts say contrary to established Until recently, the former owner in this case would practice, it remains to be not have been able to do anything about this. However, a ruling made by the Dutch Supreme Court seen how judges will on 24 February 2017 has led to a change. In its ruling, deal with it in the future. the Supreme Court judged that the neighbour who 070 361 5048 had grabbed the piece of land had indeed acquired www.legalexpatdesk.nl ownership of it. However, the Supreme Court also It is therefore too early to say that once ‘lost’ a piece declared that the former owner could claim back the of land can be claimed back or even that compen­ piece of land. After all, the neighbour in this case, sation must be paid. Thus it remains possible that the ‘new’ owner had acted unlawfully all these years the lovely piece of garden would be, forever lost. «

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Here in the Netherlands, it seems there is a surge Tuning in with in the popularity of English-language radio pro- grammes and podcasts and a definite appetite for the information and service that such forums provide. Internationals We decided to tune in and hear all about these inter­ national voices of broadcasting who are making (air) waves all over the country!

Back in the 1980s, the Buggles When you choose to make your home in a foreign land, it does come with its own set of hurdles. Next proclaimed that “Video Killed to the stress of actually moving are fresh challenges the Radio Star”. But in hindsight, relating to language barriers and navigating your way around a new place. But here is where radio can really perhaps they were a tad too hasty. come into play with local broadcasts delivered by informed internationals who know what’s going on in your area and the topics, issues, and events that are BY TRACEY TAYLOR relevant and important to you. Let’s meet some of them!

Here In Holland

Andy Clark has been an expat in the decided to leverage his own experience Here In Holland podcasts are recorded Netherlands for almost 20 years and is and background and generate a series of in Leiden once a fortnight, run for about originally from Middlesborough in the his own. 30 minutes and can be found online or northeast of England. A happily married via Spotify. A neat twist is that listeners chap with three daughters, Andy found Andy is a one-man team and has been have the chance to become patrons of the himself listening to a lot of podcasts and making Here In Holland podcasts for over show. Folks can signup for various pack- a year, meeting all sorts of ages including the Stroopwafel and Big weird and wonderful Cheese! people along the way! The subjects of the podcasts generally “The main driver was to focus on life with the Dutch and sharing offer a platform for fel- those stories that we can all relate to… low internationals in the Stuff to make you laugh, cry, and pull your country” says Andy, “and hair out! to help people in a simi- lar situation feel more at www.hereinholland.nl home by creating a feel- www.patreon.com/hereinholland ing of community.”

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Broadcast Amsterdam

Cathy Leung, a UK national, has been in the Netherlands casts a week including a drive-time show from 17:00-19:00 about nine years. She is founder and executive producer of and a lunchtime show on Fridays. In short, lots and lots Broadcast Amsterdam, which is a 24/7 internet radio station h­appening in the Dam! featuring both talk and music and providing a platform to local podcasters to share their content with the community. www.broadcastamsterdam.nl She would encourage podcast producers to get in touch. www.facebook.com/broadcastamsterdam

Though Broadcast Amsterdam make their programmes in English, the team still try to “build a bridge” to Dutch where they can. The team is also keen to ensure the right mix of content for listeners, and based on recent surveys, it seems the desire for hyper-local news is high.

“Our main focus right now is to build our audience” says Cathy, “and if people don’t like what they hear, then they should tell us. We are a work in progress after all!”

Broadcast Amsterdam has a small team of volunteers but they are always looking to get more individuals involved. Going forward, the hope is to eventually do six live broad-

DutchbuzZ She is founder, editor, producer, and presenter of DutchbuzZ, which has been the English-language radio broadcast for listeners in the Lily-Anne Stroobach is Dutch but lived in South Africa for the best Hague for almost eight years. The show airs live on Den Haag FM part of 40 years. She is now back in the Netherlands and home is 92.0 every Tuesday from 22:00-23:00, along with a live webcam the vibrant city of The Hague. feed. The live show is then converted into a podcast which is availa- ble as of noon on Wednesdays. A polished process in operation!

The DutchbuzZ team is well established and appropriately repre- sented by members of the international community. Last count showed they had seven nationalities onboard which makes for a nice blend of accents onair. “DutchbuzZ is the voice of internation- als in The Hague” says Lily-Anne, “and the key is to pick up what happens locally and determine whether it has an impact on the international community”.

Given its large following and Lily-Anne’s strong background in radio journalism, DutchbuzZ looks to be in very good hands going forward! www.dutchbuzz.nl - www.denhaagfm.nl

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Molly Quell hails from the USA but relocated to the Netherlands about six years ago. She and her Dutch boyfriend recently signed off on their first house so it would seem that Molly is here for the long haul!

With a background in digital journalism, Molly began working for DutchNews as a contributing editor and Did you know... soon had the idea of creating a podcast for internation- The word “broadcasting”­ als. She hatched a plan and the result is a 30-minute was originally an agricultural term for news wrap with interviews, discussions and tips for the scattering of the weekend. Twitter to get ideas from listeners about seeds! what they want to hear about.” A fun element about the podcast is that it’s all recorded in Molly’s walk-in closet at her home in ! Presenter Always on the lookout for ways to target the inter­ Molly is joined every Friday by co-hosts Gordon Darroch national demographic, DutchNews had a stall at a and Paul Peeters and together they record and edit the recent IamExpat fair in Amsterdam where Molly was DutchNews podcast so that it’s readytogo by 14:00. approached by a listener and asked for her autograph!

“Although we are very serious about the content of Who says radio isn’t cool? the show” says Molly, “we still try to keep it light and entertaining. And we often post on Facebook or www.dutchnews.nl - www.soundcloud.com/dutchnewsnl

And last but not least, a special mention for The The Maastricht Edition Edition, an English language radio programme with fun chat, lively guests, local news and funky music that airs live on Thursdays from 19:00-21:00 on RTV Maastricht 107.5 FM. You can also listen back via podcast. Tune in with your hosts Matt Williams, Jo Stephenson, and Tracey Taylor for their upbeat and popular weekly magazine radio show broadcast from the heart of South Limburg.

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About the author

Tracey Taylor is an Irish gal living in Maastricht. She’s a writer, radio co-host and foodie, and lives with boyfriend Dave and their fancy cat, Tubbs.

ACCESS | SUMMER 2018 | 21 Education | Partner Feature

Building the OasISH Island An Art meets Science Community Project

Behind the beach of Kijkduin, lies a beautiful and Observations to Benefit the Environment) to join in “open door” creative workshops to explore expanse of dunes, hosting sport fields and the potential of designing our own green spaces, protected natural areas. designed to be not only beneficial to health but also imaginative and aesthetically pleasing. A working group was soon formed of Science and Art teachers, students and the student-led association, ISH Enterprises. Partnered by local artists Annechien Meier and Gert Jan Gerlach from Laboratory of Microclimates, they explored the question, “If you could make your own oasis, what would it look like?”. Many ideas were explored in a variety of ­locations and, in the end, the amazing OasISH Island was created: a floating, man-made island in the ISH pond.

OasISH Island is a self-regulating ecosystem that will host a variety of flora and fauna. The relationship between the island and its natural and man-made surroundings will help address and promote impor- BY ISH ENTERPRISE The dunes themselves, referred to by the locals as tant issues, such as ecological versatility and balance, ASSOCIATION “Puin Duinen” (rubble dunes), were constructed from sustainability, and the management of water and post-war debris but today remnants are difficult to energy. As for the design, OasISH is more than spot. Preserving the nature in this area is very impor- merely a garden on an island. Students from the ISH tant to the International School of The Hague (ISH) Art and Design departments worked together with and we try to incorporate that in the outside space at the artists to come up with solutions that are both all times. Our exciting new ISH community initiative practical and aesthetically attractive. called OasISH Island does just that. The care of the OasISH Island will rely on the ISH Collaborative minds c­ommunity and relationships with internal and 070 328 1450 Elisabeth Chute, an ISH art teacher, started the ball external experts. One of the aims of OasISH is www.ishthehague.nl rolling by inviting students, teachers and community ma­king important issues visible and tangible to organisations within ISH, including GIN (Global t­he community. Only then will members of the com- Issues Network) and GLOBE (The Global Learning munity feel stimulated to work towards solutions. «

22 | ACCESS | SUMMER 2018 Travel A new life for old churches

According to census data, it all started to go downhill for religion in the Netherlands around 1869. That’s the year that more than 1% of the Dutch population identified itself as non-religious. So, what’s a country to do when they spent the last few centuries building churches but now has no one who attends? Perhaps turn those beautiful buildings into hotels. Or office space. Or a restaurant. Or even a private home.

BY MOLLY QUELL The trend towards atheism and agnosticism may identify as non-religious. In that time, nearly half have started in 1869 but it took until 2015 for more of the country’s churches fell into disuse. And that than half of the population of the Netherlands to trend is projected to continue. In fact, another 1,000 Catholic churches and 700 Protestant churches are predicted to fall out of use in the coming decade. Architect Almaz Paalvast, who wrote her thesis “Experiencing the Atmosphere” on the re-use of churches, points out that this trend doesn’t merely create empty buildings. “Neighbourhoods will be confronted with these empty churches, which for many centuries have been the centrepiece of Did the community. Especially in small towns, you know... The Netherlands is­ often consisting of only a handful of public home to more atheists buildings and a few houses, the abandoned than religious churches form a big hole in the town people? ce­ntre,” she writes.

As these buildings usually have a historical or architectural value, it is often expensive and difficult to repurpose them. Many have been protected as rijks­monumenten or national monuments, greatly restricting what can be done to the construction of the building. Despite these hurdles, many former churches in the Netherlands have found new lives

PHOTO: PLANET JUMP PLANET PHOTO: as all sorts of establishments. »

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“ Neighbourhoods will be confronted with these empty churches, which for many centuries have been the centrepiece of the community.“

The Lord’s Home Is Now Your Home For the very extravagant, how about turning that church into a private home? At least two former churches in the Netherlands have been transformed into single family dwellings in the past few years. The St. Jakobuskerk in Utrecht stopped holding ser- vices in 1991, then became a showroom for antique furniture. In 2007, it was purchased by a private f­amily and over two years ZECC architects turned the spacious church into a family home. They tried to change as little as possible of the church aesthetics while creating a functional space. In Rotterdam, Oh, Holy Night another church, unused since the 1960s, was also If buying or renovating an entire church is out of your converted into a family home by Ruud Visser Architects. budget, how about staying in one for a night or two? According to the architectural firm, the owners felt The Kruisherenhotel Maastricht is the site of a former the space was much too large for a home, but due to monastery and church which now houses guests the building’s historical nature, they couldn’t reno- in its hotel and welcomes diners in its restaurant. vate the façade. Instead, a separate home inside the It’s one of several hotel properties owned by Camille church was constructed, leaving the church’s arched Oostwegel, according to Anniek Wilms-Bemelmans, room but creating a more reasonable space. Operations Manager for the hotel.

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Located in Maastricht, the hotel sits on the grounds Though its former inhabitants may have taken vows of a 15th-century abbey, founded by monks from an of poverty, hotel guests won’t have to. The hotel was order in Utrecht. Oostwegel first opened a hotel in a awarded a five star rating by the European Hotel nearby former castle and then found the Kruisheren Classification organisation. cloister complex was for sale. The local government initially rejected the renovations plan, but, after A Blessed Meal r­edoing the designs to maintain more of the external The Kruisheren Restaurant is not the only dining structure of the abbey, the plans were approved and e­stablishment housed in a former church. Restaurant the hotel and restaurant opened in 2005. De Basiliek, located within the Nicolaaskerk in Appingedam, was bought by catering company De Vesting in 2017. Prior to that, it had housed a ­cafeteria run by Stichting NOVO who employed p­eople with disabilities, allowing them to gain work experience. The company set up De Basiliek, serving modern Dutch fare and even keeping the p­revious employees on staff. The chef, Willem Bos, has no star ambitions for the restaurant but wants to make food the neighbours can enjoy and you can enjoy a five-course dinner.

In Schipluiden, near Delft, you can find Hodenpijl, a restaurant serving local and organic food in a former church. The complex has four buildings and large

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which was also used as a base of resistance during WWII, has even been turned into a villa you can rent for a special occasion.

P.J.H. Cuypers, the same architect who designed Amsterdam’s central station and the Rijksmuseum, also designed the Posthoornkerk. Its use as a church spanned 100 years, from when the church was f­inished in 1889 until 1989, when it was decommis- sioned and turned into a space to be leased for busi- ness and social occasions. You can still get married here, but you can also throw a party or host an exhibition.

Doing The Lord’s Work Want to grab a cup of coffee with the founder of a cool new startup while standing in a beautiful old church? Rent a space at the St. Annakerk in Breda. The neo-gothic church was built in 1905 and reno-

PHOTO: ST PIETERSKERK ST PHOTO: vated by the Monumentenfonds Brabant in 2005 to offer nearly 3,000 square meters of office space. The former church now houses three companies and It isn’t all hotels and restaurants also leases spaces to entrepreneurs and freelancers. You can also rent the entry hall for special events. either. There are lots of creative solutions for the 2,000 something More Good Deeds It isn’t all hotels and restaurants either. The Sint- former churches in the country. Bernadettekerk in Maliskamp is now a supermarket. Publisher De Tijdstroom has its offices in the former Janskerk in Utrecht. If you’re looking for something the grounds and also maintains an event space, to do with the kids, try an indoor skatepark in a for- which can be rented for weddings and other happen- mer church in Haarlem or try the indoor trampoline ings. In a fitting nod to the importance of Sunday in park Planet Jump in The Hague. You can buy reli- the Christian tradition, the restaurant serves a special gious books (and all other kinds) at the Bookstore chef’s menu on the day. Dominicanen in Maastricht. Lots of creative solu- tions for the 2,000 something former churches in A Church Wedding the country. « Pieterskerk Leiden will welcome you for your wedding. But also for your dinner, exhibition, and concert. There’s even an escape room on the premises. About the author Founded around 1100, it’s the oldest church in Leiden. It lost its religious function in 1971 and was Molly Quell is a writer and journalist living in the Netherlands. She is a contributing editor at DutchNews.nl, where you can transferred to a foundation which could manage the find her analysing Dutch politics and writing about beer and space for cultural uses. The former sexton’s house, animals (together, if possible). @mollyquell

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How will the new location be structured? Expanding the HSV International Department was initiated by the City of The Hague as part of the Dutch Government’s expansion of (subsidised) International Education in the Netherlands. The building is located on Van Heutszstraat 12, The Hague, and will be known as the VHS location.

For the HSV International Primary School, the new Helen Claus location means increasing intake that will help reduce the significant waiting lists, especially for the Judith Preston younger year groups. The HSV International Primary School currently houses three locations around the centre of The Hague, making VHS its fourth. Another bonus to this particular location is that the school will offer a foundation class. As Head of School Judith Preston explains, “Our foundation class will cater for the very young children who may otherwise International have to wait almost a year before they can start school.”

For the Three Little Ships International Preschool Primary and Lighthouse Special Education, the move to the new location means enriched inclusion. Interim Director Helen Claus says: “The relocation of the Education Lighthouse and Three Little Ships Preschool classes is a very exciting development in the history of the school. The classes will be situated within the same HSV’s new location provides a unique opportunity building as the HSV International Primary School, enabling children with educational needs to learn for families looking for a number of educational alongside typically developing children. This inclu- solutions under one roof. sive environment will give opportunities for all ch­ildren to learn about our diverse world and develop tolerance and understanding. It will also give chil- Finding the right school for expat families in dren with educational needs opportunities to learn The Hague is not always easy, especially for parents from their peers in a natural way.” « of children with both special and mainstream ­educational needs. That is, until now. From August How to Apply: 2018, the HSV Primary School Foundation (Stichting • The Three Little Ships International Preschool Haagsche Schoolvereeniging) will be opening its (for children with and without special needs): www.threelittleships.nl doors to a new location in the Bezuidenhout neigh- www.threelittleships.nl www.lighthousese.nl bourhood, offering international preschool and • Lighthouse Special Education: www.lighthousese.nl www.hsvid.nl ­primary school education for both children with • HSV International Primary School (foundation to and without additional needs. year 6): www.hsvid.nl

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health, the empty nest syndrome, and w­orries about Letter writing how they will adjust to a more sedentary life once the exciting expat life is over. the expat way In the second part of the book, experts share their advice concerning the major topics raised in Jo and Terry Anne’s emails.

Monday Morning Emails is more than the exchange • Becky Grappo provides food for thought regarding family cohesion and dealing with challenging of emails between two friends li­ving the expat life a ­living conditions. continent apart from each other. Jo Parfitt, editor • Ian Moody addresses education issues and strate- gies promoting family cohesion. and author, and Terry Anne Wilson, a traveler, offer • Amanda Graham emphasises the health aspect, a “window into their journeys of transition.” giving tips to keep calm during intense phases of change and transition. (Marilyn Gardner) • Lesley Lewis outlines therapeutic approaches help- ing expats to deal with more profound problems. • Colleen Reichrath-Smith covers the topic of a BY UTE Both authors are experienced expats who have been place-independent career. LIMACHER-RIEBOLD on the international journey since their mid-twenties, • Ellen Mahoney addresses Identity Identification have lived in 12 countries and raised five sons in for Adolescents and Young Adults (ATCK). total. In their emails, • Nell Smith gives insights into considerations when they share their wor- internationals repatriate. ries about their adult • Ruth van Reken focuses on the third phase of inter- sons, aging parents, national life, when moving to multiple countries and the imminent end has an end, revealing how one can prepare to have of their nomad life in a a smooth transition back “home.” refreshing and honest manner. They openly This book combines first-hand experience and expert talk about incisive advice in a new way. It is targeted for everyone who childhood experiences, has embarked on the international journey as an identity, rootlessness, adult, raised children abroad, has aging parents and Third Culture Kids, is considering repatriation. « faith, anxiety, and depression. They di­scuss their fa­milies’

About the author

Publisher: Summertime Publishing Ute Limacher-Riebold is an expat since birth. She is a language (February 13, 2018) consultant and trainer, an expert in bilingualism and interna- Pages: 332 Paperback and Kindle tional life coach. She offers courses in a range of languages on www.mondaymorningemails.com international life and parenting Third Culture Kids. You can find her at Ute’s International Lounge www.utesinternationallounge.com

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The 2014-2015 exhibition “Culinary Secrets of Chef Pierre Amory was the chef of choice for the family van Zuylen van Nijevelt van de De Haar” (a magnificent castle near Utrecht) Haar. During one month a year for 40 years, revealed delectable recipes, a kitchen laden he cooked for the baron and his family. with copper pots weighing up to 25 kilos, One of Amory’s secrets was partially revealed and photos of cooks and various luminaries in a simple “recipe” card, proclaimed to be the baron’s preferred recipe. The big secret though labouring and dining in this “château.” was that there is no recipe – only the ingredients. We challenge our readers to prepare this recipe, send us photos and comments, and the best contributions will go onto the ACCESS Facebook BY THE EDITORIAL TEAM page. «

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A journey through the medieval times

When we talk about the medieval times or the Middle Ages, we often imagine them as gloomy and melancholic. Darkness and death prevailed among the masses, men battled and died in wars, and women and children starved.

BY ANUJA TIPNIS-RANDIVE

However, the Museon in The Hague takes a refresh- ing look at this period. With the exhibition “Knights and Castles,” Museon puts the Middle Ages in a whole new perspective.

What’s ‘Knights and Castles’ about? An interactive and informative exhibition brings to visitors the life story of seven unique and interesting characters who played a ­pivotal role and defined life and culture during the Middle Ages.

Here’s a brief description of who those seven p­eople were: • Knight (Ridder): The knight, one of the important and indispensable persons, was taught to ride a horse and fight in battles at the young age of 10 and officially became a knight at the age of 18. PHOTOS: MUSEON RIDDERS & KASTELEN

32 | ACCESS | SUMMER 2018 • Monk (Monnik): The monk’s primary responsibility tunity to gain knowledge about the Middle Ages was to pray and preach good values. There were in an interesting way. This is a fabulous method For visiting monasteries where the monks used to pray, write, of engaging children to explore and learn. Museon eat, and sleep in separate dedicated rooms. Stadhouderslaan 37 Craftsman (Ambachtsman): The craftsman was Attracting internationals and children • 2517 HV, Den Haag mainly responsible for the construction of cathe- The Middle Ages were actually a time of great drals using different types of stones. ­i­­nv­entions and discoveries, with major impacts on Phone: +31 70 338 1338 E-mail: [email protected] • Minstrel (Minstreel): The minstrel or musician science, culture, Christian values, administrative used to travel from castle to castle, playing his organisation and the boundaries of today’s Europe. www.museon.nl/en/exhibi- instrument, telling stories, and singing songs Although this period is long ago, its remains and tions/knights-and-castles at parties and festivals so people could dance. inventions still matter to our daily existence. Opening hours until • Peasant or Farmer (Boer): The peasant provided 2 September 2018 crops, vegetables, and other sources of food to the What makes the exhibition of special interest to Tuesday – Sunday: 11 am to 5 pm people, working hard day and night at his farm internationals is that it takes visitors back to many with his family. centuries ago. It leaves them with a vast scope of • Lady (Jonkvrouw): The lady, even in the olden days, exploration and knowledge, not only about the was considered the prominent member of the ­people living, but also about the culture, ways of household whose job was to take care of her home, s­urvival and relationships among people which is husband, and children. relatable to our lives today. • Tradeswoman (Koopvrouw): The tradeswoman did something which, in those days, many women For children and individuals keen on exploring were prevented from doing – handle trade and European history, this exhibition will never leave business, ­pay bills, and manage finances. you disappointed!

Connecting with the people “‘Knights and Castles’ is highly appreciated by While we witness and read the enchanting stories of the public as an exhibition where surprising info­ these seven people and their lives in medieval times, rmation about the Middle Ages is given in an the exhibition takes us back in time to get a closer appealing way. This atmospheric exhibition gives picture of them through various ancient artifacts a new perspective on a period that is often incor- used during the era. rectly portrayed as a dark time with few innova- tions,” says Rob de Winter, Communication The exhibition has preserved ancient property: Manager at Museon. “The creativity and ingenuity the knight’s armor and swords; the instruments of man in this time is central. Ideal to visit with used by the musicians; the vessels used by the far­ fa­mily and friends,” he adds. « mers to prepare food; some ancient coins used in trade; medicinal plants used by the monks to cure diseases; books used for writing; magnificent paint- ings made by artists.

An interactive experience What makes the exhibition tour most attractive is how it is innovative and interactive. Various computer About the author screens allow visitors to play quizzes and games Anuja Tipnis-Randive is a freelance writer and blogger. You can read her writings at every step of the exhibition, giving them an oppor- wordsandimaginations.wordpress.com or follow her on Instagram at @anujatipnis112.

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Teachers’ stories: the international school experience

Four teachers who have taught at an international school in the Netherlands share their experiences with ACCESS. Their diverse backgrounds, their passion and commitment help prepare stu- dents—both Dutch and international—for f­urther studies at universities around the world.

Kenneth Muller, American International School of Rotterdam Kenneth Muller started his 25-year teaching career in New Jersey in the US. In his 20s, he decided it was time for a change. “I wanted to stay in teaching but wanted to do the inter­national bit,” says Muller.

The Antwerp International School was his first international school. Since then, his teaching jobs have taken him around the world. “I worked at the American School of Casablanca and Copenhagen International, and I also worked at the Caribbean School in Puerto Rico,” he says. BY OLIVIA VAN An international school DEN BROEK-NERI Muller admits that before his teaching jobs, environment is one of the he knew nothing about countries like Lebanon PHOTOS BY SIERHUIS most culturally integrated, or Norway. That changed during his time in FOTOGRAFIE Antwerp. “…The families are very much involved challenging, and rewarding in the schools, and you get lots of invitations to places to work and study. go to the country with the kids,” he says. “I was invited to Lebanon for the wedding of a student!” Various backgrounds,

ethnicities, languages, and Muller currently teaches at the American International School of Rotterdam (AISR). perspectives among students, He says, “Here in Rotterdam, the parents are teachers, staff and parents more hands-off. The kids are given a much greater degree of independence. The parents make for a rich and dynamic are there to support you but let their kids have learning atmosphere. their own experience.” »

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“ One of the great things about Stark spent nine years teaching English in a Dutch bilingual school and is now in her second year tea­ international teaching is that when ching at the International School Breda. “The ISB you are ready to move on, there is is an incredibly pleasant place to be,” she says. “The students come from many different back- always an adventure waiting!” grounds, and are all friendly, respectful, and d­etermined to succeed. This forms the perfect basis for teachers and students to work together Although happy with his position, Muller admits to reach our full potential.” that there are downsides to teaching abroad: “I did have bouts of homesickness in the beginning,” he Ohad, St. Louis School, Milan, Italy says. To help ensure a positive experience for those Ohad, who grew up in the US and Israel, started his considering teaching abroad, Muller recommends teaching career after graduating from The Royal doing plenty of research before accepting a position. Academy of Art in The Hague in 2009. “I was look- ing for additional sources of income and started Jess Hills, Haagsche Schoolvereeniging doing some substitute teaching at The American Jess Hills moved to the Netherlands from her native School of The Hague in 2011-2013,” he says. Considering Canada in 1999. Being from outside the European Since completing a Postgraduate Certificate in teaching? Union made it more difficult for her to remain in Education (International) from Nottingham Advice to those who the Netherlands, but eventually she obtained an University, Ohad has worked as a teacher. He cur- want to go into teaching Irish passport, allowing her to work here. rently leads a department of four Theory of “Be yourself, lead by the example you want to set Knowledge teachers, and teaches International and believe in setting In Canada, she taught in the public school system, Baccalaureate courses and a Cambridge International and care for the people where she would have 30 to 35 students in one class. General Certificate of Secondary Education course at around you, mainly your students.” – Ohad Now she sees the benefits to having smaller class the St. Louis School in Milan, Italy. Before that, he sizes and a bigger budget here in the Netherlands. worked at the Almere International School. “Working with students But there are more benefits: for example, teachers also teaches one humil- ity and compassion, two in the Netherlands have the ability to take free days. “The student body and staff attitude [at AIS] was very things that we some- “Everyone is informed and it works quite well,” down to earth and straightforward in the wonderful times lose sight of as she says. However, “In Vancouver teachers are way Dutch mentality can be,” says Ohad. “Being in adults.” – Dr. Masoni paid much more,” she says. “They have very strong a bit more noisy environment now in Milan I really More about education unions.” The negative is that there are a large miss those morning walks to school from Almere in the Netherlands n­umber of burnouts amongst teachers there. Poort train station, even when it was pouring rain!” Visit access-nl.org/ education-netherlands “Right now teaching is ideal for me!” she says. “I see The St. Louis School has had the title of “Highest myself retiring in this position.” scoring International Baccalaureate Average school in continental Europe” for the last three years with Alison Stark, International School Breda an average score of 37 out of 45 points. “Clearly such Originally from Cornwall, UK, Alison Stark worked an achievement comes with a lot of hard work and in the operations departments of multinational also a set of expectations,” says Ohad. “Being co­mpanies upon graduating. “When I no longer results-driven is not necessarily a negative thing but enjoyed this, I returned to what I had always wanted in the Dutch international schools I worked at, I was to be: a teacher,” she says. “I went back to university lucky to see student growth and development that is and retrained, and haven't had a single regret!” focused on a more holistic approach, which I cherish.”

36 | ACCESS | SUMMER 2018 Ohad will return to the Netherlands this year to begin a Research Masters in Cultural Analysis at The University of Amsterdam. “My wife and I have… friends and colleagues and a wide network of con- Dr. Masoni taught at the American International nections that overall makes us feel really at home School of Rotterdam from 2012 to 2016. “AISR is a there,” he says. very unique place, full of extremely dedicated faculty and administration,” he says. “Its small size means Dr. Bradford A. Masoni, Chinese International that everyone wears multiple hats, but it is one of the School, Hong Kong most supportive, kind, right-thinking places I have Dr. Bradford A. Masoni’s teaching career began ever worked.” while he was a graduate student in the mid 1990s. The City University of New York hired students as He has been teaching at the Chinese International teachers at one or more of its satellite or community School in Hong Kong since August 2017. Although colleges. At 21 years old, Dr. Masoni found himself he and his wife love living in Hong Kong, the amount teaching courses that he had designed himself to of time they will remain is unknown. “One of the students his own age. “As time went on, I realised great things about international teaching is that that I was actually getting more pleasure from when you are ready to move on, there is always an the teaching than I was from my academic work,” adventure waiting!” says Dr. Masoni. « he says.

In 2003, with the help of an advisor, Dr. Masoni found a position in an international school in Rome. About Author

He has taught in international schools every year Olivia van den Broek-Neri is a native of California and is currently Project Coordinator for since. Communications & Events at Holland Expat Center South in Eindhoven.

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ily joining in on classes at DISDH. It is a pleasure to Friendships see familiar faces at the numerous events throughout the year. The school’s Study and Career Fair invites DISDH graduates to return to give tips and words of advice. At sporting events, former st­udents come hold strong back to cheer on their old friends. The ties to the school are most vividly displayed at the graduation Traditions at the German International School ceremony at which each year, graduates and past The Hague accompany children and pupils st­udents come to honour their friends and join together as if they had never parted. throughout the school year. At the end of the academic year, a school-wide assembly brings Saying “goodbye” at DISDH is really just saying “see you later”! The school wishes all its families the student body together one more time before lovely school holidays and new beginnings to those heading off for the summer holidays. leaving, wherever in the world that may be. The doors remain open and the school looks forward to wel- coming back those who have parted whenever their It is a time to look back and review the months that paths may cross through The Hague again. « have passed, a time to highlight students’ achieve- ments and a time to take leave from those moving away from The Hague. The gathering of students and teachers Assembled as one The gathering of students and teachers pays tribute pays tribute to the role to the role each and every student plays in the school each and every student community. As the assembly closes, parting students are individually called up to receive a rose. It is a plays in the school moment that cherishes the thriving friendships that community. have developed and will continue even after distance has come in the way.

The close-knit school community holds together 070 354 9494 well after students and their families have left the www.disdh.nl Netherlands. Through common interests, commit- ment and activities at school, friendships among p­arents are as strong as they are among students. DISDH provides a “home away from home” for all its families.

Alumni as well Past students and their families are always welcome. When on holiday from their new schools, students come back to see their friends and teachers voluntar-

38 | ACCESS | SUMMER 2018 ACCESS News ACCESS, part of a bigger picture

For 32 years, ACCESS has been at the forefront of We are encouraged by the feedback we receive that suggests what people, in particular our volunteers, easing the transition of expatriates to the have learnt with us can help them as they move on to Netherlands. Providing volunteering opportunities new locations. as a way of allowing people to find a community Global ‘sister’ of peers; being available to answer the myriad of We know we are part of something “global.” That who we are, and who we serve, are largely people on questions people have as they arrive and settle in the move. For this reason, ACCESS has in the last few the Netherlands; offering an on-call Counselling years been drawn to the mission of a sister organisa- tion: Families in Global Transition (FIGT). Like us, Network for when the ”going gets tough” and FIGT is also a volunteer-run organisation. Like us, simply sharing experiences. they strive to support individuals, families, crossing borders and cultures. What we offer locally, they offer globally through their membership. Many have been introduced to FIGT during their annual confer- While this has always been done on behalf of and ence, which for the last three years has taken place for internationals relocating to the Netherlands, we in the Netherlands (2016 in Amsterdam, 2017 and know that within this broad community, there are 2018 in The Hague). Now many of the resources they many for whom this may be one of many relocations. offer can be easily found on their website www.figt.org. For anyone preparing for a move to a new location, in search of support or information related to a new country, or the challenges of crossing cultures and borders, their member directory will offer some s­olutions. As will their bookstore, where books on a myriad of subjects related to global living can be found. Looking to build a broader community of peers? Becoming a member is also an option.

Congratulations In this their 20th year, ACCESS salutes FIGT for all it has accomplished and the mission it continues to carry forth. We are happy to be a local partner of this global journey. « PHOTO: FIGT-CONFERENCE-2018 PHOTO:

ACCESS | SUMMER 2018 | 39 Health & Wellbeing Keeping the ro mance alive

BY DEBORAH VALENTINE Anyone who has lived in a community of expatriate couples has witnessed it: the couples who thrive and those who do not in their new location and new lives. There is no “magic formula” for why this is the case, and each couple is as unique as the individuals involved in the relationship. So how can one find the missing key to ensuring the relationship is not undermined or overly tested by the challenges of taking it to a new setting?

According to Angelika Matthias, an EFT (Emotional Focussed Therapy) practitioner, it is about finding a way of communicating which is respectful, loving and allows each individual in the relationship to be “heard.” On the surface, this seems fairly obvious, clear, and even “easy,” yet Angelika points out “accessing each other’s emotional language is in fact ACCESS CSN much like learning a new language.” It requires a reprogramming of the brain to find words which The ACCESS Counselling Services Network (CSN) supports the mental health requirements of allow each to express the emotion which is triggered the international community in the Netherlands. One member, Gary Fishbein, has also written on this topic: see ‘Expat couples: baggage handling’ in the Autumn 2011 issue of the ACCESS by a certain situation, versus focussing on the actual Magazine. The CSN on-call service can be reached, in confidence, via ­on-call.access-nl.org. “thing” that may have happened.

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What lies beneath the surface 50 years’ experience Much like the cultural iceberg model, which shows EFT “is a structured approach to couples therapy” that much of what we need to understand about a that has been researched and proven highly effective culture lies unseen, beneath the surface the bonds in assisting couples to reconnect and improve their of a couples’ relationship are also hidden. Buried ability to communicate lovingly and respectfully. inside emotions, which in a familiar environment are Started in Canada, EFT has been enthusiastically comforted and supported by social networks, famil- received in the Netherlands. In fact, Angelika iar settings and norms and values are known and pointed out that within Europe, the Netherlands understood. When one relocates though, much of has embraced the approach the most. Asked why those comfort settings are challenged, and the time she believed this to be the case, Angelika suggested it takes to build a new social network can stress a it was perhaps related to three aspects.

relationship and trigger different emotions. Each The fact that by nature the Dutch are more Did individual in the romantic relationship will go experiential; there was already openness you know... EFT Therapists world-­ through their own learning and discovery process. to systemic work upon which EFT is wide can be found on www And this may or may not be matched, nor in sync based; and, since the Dutch are comfort- .iceeft.com with one another. Whether a couple is mono-cultural able following English-language train- or bi-cultural, the change in their surroundings is ing, it was easy to bring the training what they share, though how they deal with the s­essions to the Netherlands. change may differ s­ignificantly. Supportive networks will take time to build. Social codes, values, norms Speaking from the heart will be new. Navigating the changes together can EFT therapists are not “problem solvers” according be strained. Understanding the emotional impact to Angelika: “our goal, and intention, is to help of the change on oneself is one thing; finding a way ­couples understand the dynamics of their relation- to understand and communicate about how it is ship, and find the most supportive way of communi- affecting one another is the challenge. cating their emotions such that they can rely upon one another, and sustain the romantic re­lationship, Angelika is convinced that using EFT helps couples while moving to, or living in a country new to them.” « to find a way to communicate how one is affected by or feeling about the changes, which is key to ensuring the romantic relationship can thrive despite the changes. “It is not about blaming one another, but about understanding what is happening inside, em­otionally, and appreciating the external changes are the triggers. When a couple has a strong and About the expert safe bond, they can overcome the challenges of new Angelika Matthias is a Psychological Counsellor and certified EFT Therapist, who offers coun- environments, for instance. The more they fight, or selling and psychotherapy for individuals and couples in German and English. She has expat disagree the less confident they are in the bond.” experience and practises from The Hague. You can find her at www.balanceforyourlife.nl.

ACCESS | SUMMER 2018 | 41 THE EXPAT’S The Expat Centre Leiden off ers services, information and provides a network for GUIDE TO internationals in the Leiden region. THE SOUTH Our website contains useful information NETHERLANDS on daily life issues like getting around, how EINDHOVEN • MAASTRICHT • TILBURG to fi nd a house or a job and things to do. It also contains a list of Expat Centre Leiden’s current partners. ANY QUESTIONS? CONTACT US TODAY! expatcentreleiden.nl r +31 (0)40 238 6777 ExpatCentreLeiden @ExpatLeiden Expat Centre Leiden hollandexpatcenter.com Dutch Lifestyle At home in a hofje

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In today’s digital, compartmentalised life, loneliness breeds in flats where neighbours know not each other’s names. Seeking old solutions to a modern problem, the writer slinks into a hofje to witness a 350-year-old “village in a city.”

BY JOSHUA JAMES There’s something secretive about hofjes. They reveal Westeinde—a concrete monolith—broods over PARFITT themselves to the initiated, like a Masonic hand- the compound like a jealous lover; inside, four shake. At least that’s how the Hofje van Nieuwkoop walls of terraced houses with rosy-cheeked shut- feels. I have lived in The Hague for seven years but ters gaze lovingly upon an acre of oasis. One hears never noticed this enclave shaded in plain sight on only a d­unnock crooning in the chestnut tree. the Prinsegracht. I arrive at my inside source’s house, finding the Part stately home, part workhouse, street-long door open and a half-drank cup of tea on the table brick walls enclose the rectangular compound on in the sunshine. The next house along also has its all four sides, culminating in the triumphant regen­ door open, keys in the lock. No sign of anyone, or tenhuis (regent’s house). Outside the hofje, the HMC any concern. »

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I think I understand her Lord of Nieuwkoop. Dying childless, his will stated his intention to build an almshouse for poor and fascination: this place needy widows—no matter what their denomination. holds the memory of 350 After subsequent constructions, the Hofje van years of Dutch history Nieuwkoop boasts 62 huisjes. There is talk of it being the largest in the Netherlands. According to Genoveva, there used to be 700-odd hofjes in “She’s just inside, she’ll be out soon,” calls a loung- The Hague at the beginning of the 20th century. ing neighbour. Sure enough, as I take a seat in the Today, only 115 are left—but they are changing. April sun, out comes my interviewee—longtime ACCESS volunteer Genoveva Geppaart. “At the beginning only women were allowed in [to the Hofje van Nieuwkoop], and the minimum age I make my routine apologies, but Genoveva puts was 30,” says Genoveva. “When I came in 1989 I up a gentle hand. “I have all the time you need,” was too young—27—but they let me in. Now they she reassures. I glance at fellow residents relaxing allow men in as well, and we have a mix of all ages.” around the courtyard. A wood pigeon shakes some summer snowflakes from the blooming cherry tree. Thanks to this mixture, residents refer to this place I rest into the atmosphere. as ‘a village in a city’. Genoveva tells stories of bor- rowed kitchen utensils with hearty potato stews Genoveva has rested here for 29 years. shared in return, and of well-worn neighbours keep- “I like old houses,” says Genoveva. “They are not pre- ing watch over one of the hofje’s first new-borns. dictable like modern houses...they have surprises.” With a few couples in their twenties, Genoveva also Within a swift removal of a straw hat, she leads me expresses hope that the idea of hofje-culture is having into the cozy front room crowned with a wood- a renaissance. beamed ceiling. “This is the kitchen,” she says, showing me an inconceivable space tucked beneath Alas, the time comes to say my goodbyes. I walk out the steep staircase. “But it used to be a bedroom. past Dutch doors with top-half wide open and the In other houses you can still see they have a cupboard sound of onions frying. I feel an impulse to rest my under the stairs, and if you open the doors, you see forearms on the door. Not for any reason in particu- a shelf—in Dutch we call it a bedstee. It’s traditional. lar. Perhaps just to natter about the blessed weather, My grandparents grew up in them.” and to be met with a smile.

As Genoveva takes me past the blocked-up hearth You can book a hofjeswandeling tour with Gilde Den Haag and through secret doors, I think I understand her —they are twice weekly and in Dutch, unless booked in fascination: this place holds the memory of 350 years advance. On Monumentendag (8 & 9 September 2018) of Dutch history—all in one 4x4 square-metre, three- many hofjes, including the Hofje van Nieuwkoop, will throw storied huisje. open their doors to the public. «

Akin to nunneries and monasteries, hofjes do not always have religious origins. At least, not function- About the author ally. The Hofje van Nieuwkoop was built in 1661 at Joshua James Parfitt is a freelance journalist based in The Hague. Reach him at the behest of Johan de Bruijn van Buijtenweck, www.joshuaparfitt.com.

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Dictionary of Dutchness Courtesy of DutchNews.nl

For fun, and to help internationals relieve their frustrations over Dutch acronyms and puzzling terms… CARTOON ©BOB POWERS CARTOON

NAP (cartoon) BN’er Achterhoek NAP stands for Normaal Amsterdams BN’er stands for Bekende Nederlander, or The Achterhoek (literally, back corner) is the Peil or the normal water level in famous Dutch person. It is the title given to name given to the far eastern part of the Amsterdam, which is slightly lower a host of soap stars, entertainers, and other province of Gelderland which stretches than sea level. NAP is used as a base to personalities who fill the gossip columns into Germany. It lies between the IJssel and measure how high or low water levels and turn out in droves at film premieres. Oude IJssel Rivers and is predominantly are. So when the Rhine River is high, Top-ranked BN’ers include football wife rural with lots of farms and forested areas. it is described as a certain number of Estelle Gullit, reality soap star Barbie, The towns of Doesburg and Zutphen are metres ‘above NAP’. The lowest point a­ll-round entertainer Linda de Mol and TV old Hanseatic cities with well-preserved in the Netherlands, in Nieuwerkerk aan show host Paul de Leeuw. The quickest centres. As far as Amster­dammers are con- den IJssel, is 6.76 metres below NAP. way to become a minor BN’er is to date a cerned, people from the Achterhoek are ste- Scary. former soap opera star. reotypical country bumpkins.

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