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SPECIAL: HOME & GARDEN our lives Experts Share Latest Trends | Spring Planning Ideas March LGBT IMMIGRATION RIGHTS & April Congressman Mark Pocan and Representative JoCasta Zamarripa 2014 ol on the issue’s impact in both Washington and Wisconsin Madison’s LGBT&XYZ Magazine BUILDING THEIR DREAM HOME Dino Maniaci & Jason Hoke OURLIVESMADISON.COM >> Connect Our Community >> FACEBOOK.COM/OURLIVESMAGAZINE EAD MAN D ALKING WAn American Masterpiece Music by Jake Heggie Opera Libretto by Terrence McNally n P o r Based on the novel by Sister Helen Prejean s e i m d i a e r April 25 & 27, 2014 | Overture Hall M e A Sung in English with projected text “Dead Man Walking makes the most concentrated impact of any piece of American music theater since West Side Story.” – The Guardian (London) Since its premiere in 2000, Dead Man Walking has become a modern classic, one of the most important, powerful operas ever written. Based on Sister Helen Prejean’s book that inspired the movie of the same name, it tells of a nun’s journey as the spiritual advisor of a convicted murderer on Louisiana’s death row. From its shocking beginning to its emotionally searing final scene, this opera changes everyone who encounters it. Its stunning score and intense story combine into a work that “must be reckoned something of a masterpiece – a gripping, enormously skillful marriage of words and music to tell a story of love, suffering and spiritual redemption” (San Francisco Chronicle). Starring Daniela Mack, Michael Mayes, and Susanne Mentzer Conducted by John DeMain | Directed by Kristine McIntyre Extending the Stage: Madison Opera is partnering with several organizations to present an array of activities in March and April. Ranging from panels to previews, films to museum tours, and culminating with a discussion between Sister Helen and composer Jake Heggie, we are truly extending the stage into our community for this emotionally stunning opera. To learn more about Dead Man Walking and the Extending the Stage events: madisonopera.org | 608.238.8085 | Sponsored by The Ann and Gordon Getty Foundation Parental advisory: This opera contains nudity, graphic violence, and explicit language, and is not recommended for anyone under age 18. For more information about the opera, or if you have any questions about the age appropriateness of Extending the Stage events, please contact Madison Opera at 608.238.8085. Opera tickets madisonopera.org | tickets: 608.258.4141 | start at just $18! MARCH / APRIL 2014 3 contents olour lives Madison’s LGBT&XYZ Magazine Patrick Farabaugh Publisher / Editor-in-Chief Emily Mills Editor Kelly Murray Copy Editor Contributing Writers Michael Bruno Charlotte Detra Sue Gill Linda Ketcham Tami Lax 22 Dino Maniaci David Rhode Mark Pocan HOME & GARDEN MARCH / APRIL 2014 Richard Wagner Carrie Waters Schmidt Audrey Wax DEPARTMENTS COMMUNITY QUALITY OF LIFE Laura Webster Caroline Werner 6 EDITOR’S LETTER 8 OUR ARTISTS 36 OUR PETS Karin Wolf 7 CONTRIBUTORS & Karin Wolf speaks with Jill Casid How Audrey Wax found a Editorial Facilitators GIVING BACK about her provocative work, furry best friend in rescue pup Linda Lenzke theory as practice, and learning Madison May. Tim Lom to live her dying. FEATURES 38 OUR REPRESENTATIVE Ryan Petty 10 OUR ENTERTAINERS Contributing Photographers 22 THE HOUSE DESIGN BUILT Rep. Mark Pocan and State Rep. Michael Bruno catches up with JoCasta Zamarripa on LGBT- Eric Baillies Dino Maniaci and Jason Hoke actor Richard Ganoung. identified immigration reform. Eric Tadsen renovate a mid-century ranch Tami Lax into a modernist urban dream. 12 OUR STORYTELLERS 40 OUR INTERSECTIONS Business Manager 23 WHAT’S TRENDING: Patrick Farabaugh shares how Linda Ketcham examines issues Matt Jelinek HOME & GARDEN he learned the meaning of of racial disparity in Dane County. National Advertising Sales “home is where the heart is.” Rivendell Media Inc. LGBTQA experts talk what’s 42 OUR ISSUES new and next. 12 OUR ATHLETES Dr. Sue Gill on suffering, 28 THE STIR-STICK RANCH Get to know the Honeymooners grief, betrayal, and hope. bowling league. Laura Webster and Jill Munich 44 OUR ELDERS build their dream home. 16 OUR CALENDAR Caroline Werner outlines her Subscribers in 32 OUR HISTORY: Janet Mock, Conference on work as an LGBT senior advocate. 250+ Wisconsin LGBT Homelessness A WISCONSIN FAIRY TALE 46 OUR MONEY cities & towns Dick Wagner on the 18 OUR EVENTS Financial advisor Carrie Waters bipartisanship that won OPEN Dinner, Camp Bingo, Schmidt on long-term care early victories for LGBT Wisconsin LGBT Leadership insurance. ©2014 All Rights Reserved. rights in Wisconsin. Conference March/April 2014 Volume 7, Issue 5 48 OUR TASTE Life in the Middle Publishing, LLC Learning to love the community Patrick Farabaugh & Joseph Patane, of ice fishing and shanty culture Publishers. 215 Martin Luther King Jr Blvd., with Tami Lax. 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Spring is finally, finally in the air is the Vice President of StageQ’s board of directors. and I can’t think of a better way to kick He was the artistic director of WhoopDeDoo off the season than with our Home & productions for the last 10 years and has produced, Garden-themed issue. The pages are full directed and acted in over 100 productions since of inspiring ideas for ways to personalize returning from the west coast in 2001. He can be seen every “Every patient deserves to receive your living spaces, both outdoors and in, Friday on WISC-TV Channel 3’s Live At Five, giving his weekly high quality health care without and come from a wide variety of creative entertainment picks on Bruno’s Best Bets. He is happily partnered to judgment, assumptions, or bias. amateurs and professionals alike. It’s yet his fiancé of three years, Yannick. I am committed to making you more evidence that our community is a feel comfortable and earning strong and colorful one! Dr. Sue Gill – Our Issues your trust so that together we Me? I’m a renter, so the idea of owning Sue is a psychologist in private practice in Madison, can achieve your health goals.” a home is still a fantasy I’m not sure I’ll where she has lived and worked for the past 15 ever get to live, but I’ve still taken so many great ideas from our years. In Sue’s spare time, she is dedicated to - Michelle Thomas, MD contributors about things I can do now and things I can explore in the spreading the word about Lyme disease and other GHC-SCW Family Medicine Provider future. Feeling comfortable—really at home—is something the vast tick-borne illnesses. More people need to be aware majority of us want for ourselves. What form that takes, though, is that testing for Lyme is unreliable and treatment different for everyone. Some of us define home in a physical space: a can be difficult. Sue and her partner have two dogs named Pip and Visit ghcscw.com to learn about house, an apartment, a boat, a yurt! Some of us find a sense of place Maslow. Maslow comes to work with Sue on most days, and is Dr. Thomas and more exceptional in other people, or in a particular community. Still others feel the pull an excellent office greeter. Pip the mini doxie has recently begun Primary Care Providers at GHC-SCW. of wanderlust and make the whole Earth their home. to learn agility which is fun to watch because she has the world’s What’s important is that we all have the opportunity to make a shortest legs. place for ourselves in this world, whatever and wherever that might www.angelswish.org be. Those of us who identify as part of the LGBTQ spectrum too often have a far more difficult time of it, though. 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