September 25, 2009 | Volume VII, Issue 17 | LGBT Life in Maryland

Press conference announcing introduction of Respect for Marriage Act.

Repeal of Special Discriminatory Theater DOMA Issue Introduced On September 15, the House of Rep- resentatives introduced the Respect for Marriage Act (RMA) which would repeal the discriminatory Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) and restore the rights of all lawfully married couples— including same-sex couples to receive the benefits of marriage under federal law. The bill also provides same-sex couples with certainty that federal ben- efits and protections would flow from a valid marriage celebrated in a state where such marriages are legal, even if a couple moves or travels to another state. The lead sponsors of the measure include Congressman Jerrold Nadler

Photo: Ryan Holbert (D-NY), Chair of the House Judiciary Subcommittee on the Constitution, Ben Ryland: It’s very exciting to have you coming to perform Civil Rights and Civil Liberties, Con- Funny & Hunky, Celebrity in Baltimore. gresswoman Tammy Baldwin (D-WI), Scott Nevins: It’s fun for me to do my live show. A lot of people in and Congressman Jared Polis (D-CO). Insider Scott Nevins to New York only know me as a host and TV personality so it’s fun to Gay activists have targeted the repeal show them I have this whole other side that they’ve never seen. For of DOMA as one of its key legislative Perform at Spotlighters Gay Pride NY I did a one-nighter at World Stages that sold out and initiatives. got amazing reviews and people were over the moon they were so “The Defense of Marriage Act excited. (DOMA) is a hurtful and cynical law The talented Scott Nevins will be taking his One Night Stand to the enacted to discriminate against loving, Spotlighters Theater to kick off its 48th season. He will perform for BR: You also do Mondays at Splash Bar on Musical Mondays committed same-sex couples,” said two nights—the evenings of October 16 and 17. Should these shows (Showtunes). How long have you been doing that? Human Rights Campaign President sell out, a late night show will be added on Friday, October 16. The SN: I produce it still and when I am in New York I host it and do guest Joe Solmonese. “It does real harm by event is a fundraiser for the venerable downtown theater. appearances where I come in for that night. denying thousands of lawfully-married Scott Nevins’ One Night Stand is a high-energy act filled with same-sex couples the federal rights insider Hollywood gossip and dish, hilarious personal anecdotes, BR: So what have you been doing instead? and benefits that only flow through plus Scott’s infamous vocal impressions. SN: I moved to LA because I am doing a TV show here called the marriage. Many of these include the Whether he’s cracking jokes every Thursday night on TruTV’s ‘Smoking Gun Presents’ Thursday nights at 9 on Tru-TV. I talk about protections couples turn to in times of hit show “The Smoking Gun Presents” or hosting the red carpet at it in my shows. The cast includes Danny Bonaduce, Leif Garrett, need, like Social Security survivors’ Hollywood events, Award Winning TV/Radio Personality Scott Nev- Todd Bridges, Tanya Harding a crazy cast mix. I am not sure where benefits, medical leave to care for an ins is taking showbiz by storm! I fall in there but I shot 2 episodes this morning at 8 a.m. I called the ailing spouse and equal treatment un- Baltimore OUTloud theatre critic Ben Ryland recently tele- producer and said, “who the hell is funny at 8a.m?” He said, “You der U.S. immigration laws. [This effort] phoned Scott in Los Angeles to discuss his upcoming visit to Bal- are, we’re paying you” and I said, “Oh yeah that’s right.” It’s their #1 to repeal DOMA is a welcome step, and timore, what we can expect from his act, and why this funny hunk rated show so they are thrilled. Plus I have hosted red carpet events -- continued on page 27 doesn’t consider himself a comedian. -- continued on page 27 The Rainbow Glass is Half Full Co-Publishers Jim Becker, Jim Williams What a vein-pop- cently saw the images of Ellen DeGeneres Lehtinen (R-FL) in the House with 117 origi- [email protected] ping summer! Such interviewing her guest Neil Patrick Harris on nal co-sponsors. The bill was introduced in Executive Editor anger, such hatred. her show. the Senate by Sens. Jeff Merkley (D-OR) Jim Becker [email protected] This vitriol is mainly It was a needed burst of fresh air for and Susan Collins (R-ME). Again, the Presi- Managing Editor centered on the tug- sure and a calming influence. Two out gay dent will sign the bill if it reaches his desk. Steve Charing outspoken of-war battle con- people on national television, comfortable in A bill to repeal the Defense of Mar- [email protected] cerning health-care their own skin and wildly successful both in riage Act or DOMA was just introduced in Production Director Steve Charing Hannah-Love Shibley reform. Other inter- their personal lives and professionally. They the House of Representatives by Reps. Jer- [email protected] est groups are still have reached the heights in their respective rold Nadler (D-NY), Tammy Baldwin (D-WI) Sales Director angry and frustrated careers and have broad appeal across most and Jared Polis (D-CO). Again, despite the Mary Taylor because their priorities haven’t been acted demographic groups. administration’s all-too-vigorous defense of [email protected] upon in the first 8 months of this adminis- And add the fact that Ellen has been DOMA during litigation, Obama had cam- Leather Columnist Rodney Burger tration. LGBT activists, immigration reform named as a judge on American Idol—the paigned to repeal the entire law. Gossip Columnist folks and environmentalists all have gripes highest rated show on TV—and Harris was This measure will have to navigate Sam Kunz with this administration and Congress. handed the high-profile hosting job at the through tricky terrain, however, as legisla- Contributing Writers It’s not a happy time with a slow econ- Emmys, following his splendid performance tors can and will be politically attacked for Josh Aterovis, Jeffrey Clagett, Chuck Duncan, Rickie Green, omy and joblessness serving as the back- emceeing the Tony Award extravaganza this supporting the weakening of the institution Jonathan Hernandez, Eva Hersh MD, Doug Ireland, Jay Loane, PS Lorio, Meredith Moise, Sandy Rawls, Bob Roehr, Ben Ryland, Gregg drop. And health-care proposals—fact and spring. Wow! of marriage as well as the other canards to Shapiro, Nate Sweeney, Larry Walker fiction—are keeping the dialogue hot. I reflected upon the progress that we are be expected during the debate. Writing Intern We hear the contradictory epithets of making when you see these two gay stars on Frankly, I am surprised this bill was in- Marty Hoegg “Nazi!” “Fascist!” “Radical!” “Socialist!” the set together during a popular TV show. troduced this soon. It could very well be as Graphics “Communist!” and “Terrorist!” Many nasty This would not have been possible 40, 30 a result of the anger that lgbt activists have Carol Baker, Bruce Garrett signs have been hoisted and yes, some or even 20 years ago. Is this symbolic of our levied towards the Obama administration Photographers Skip Koritzer, Harry Lowinger messages were racist—all being ascribed finally turning the corner and on the path to- and the Democrat-controlled Congress for Graphics / Photography Intern to President Obama. Some have even taken wards equality? We’ll find out, won’t we? scant progress. Michelle Alpert to calling Obama “homophobe.” It makes me Gay activists, impatient with the work- As reported in the Washington Blade, Sales Representative long for the days when “Liberal” was consid- ings of government and the political sludge Rep. Patrick Murphy (D-PA) expects that Lori Fortuna ered to be a dirty slur, the former ultimate that gums up the gears of progress, will be House hearings on the “Don’t Ask, Don’t Web Editor insult aside from “faggot.” taking to the streets at the National Equality Tell” policy will begin early next year. On the Aleksandra Saine [email protected] everyone is in a sour mood it seems, March on Washington October 10-11. Using Senate side, Sen. Kirsten Gillibrand (D-NY), Web Services including me because of the idiots dominat- Obama’s campaign pledges and the current announced plans this summer for a fall hear- Just Girl! ing the debate. But I was uplifted when I re- lack of substantive results as the fuel, the ing, according to the Blade. Rep. Barney 800-774-0953, www.just-girl.com marchers and dem- Frank predicts that Congress will repeal the Distribution/Circulation onstrators will be law in 2010. Jay Loane “Gay activists, impatient with the [email protected] calling for several These are all promising signs. None- Michael Serio workings of government and the main initiatives that theless, we must be cautious about our opti- National Advertising Rep are at the top of the mism because ENDA, for example, has been Rivendell Media political sludge that gums up the 908-232-2021 must-have list. languishing in Congress for three decades. gears of progress, will be taking to the Founders Among them is We need all of us to keep the pressure on Jim Becker, Joe Berg, Mike Chase, Lee Mooney (1959-2007), streets at the National Equality March the Matthew Shep- Congress and the President to act swiftly on Jim Williams pard Hate Crimes these measures. We must not let up. on Washington October 10-11.” bill. Introduced once But the prospects are certainly brighter Baltimore OUTloud P.O. Box 3640, Baltimore, MD 21214 again, the bill has today. Public opinion is on our side on all of 410-244-6780 passed both houses these initiatives and that helps our elected www.baltimoreoutloud.com in Congress and is officials who are not dominated by right-wing Additional Information awaiting a confer- dogma to make the right decisions. Baltimore OUTloud is published every other Friday by Pride ence committee to We have a President, who despite the Media, Ltd. in Baltimore, Maryland. Readers’ comments and unsolicited materials are welcomed and may be sent to: Publisher@ iron out the details. misplaced anger by some of our lgbt friends, baltimoreoutloud.com. All materials appearing in this newspaper are This should pass will do right by us. We have openly gay ce- the property of Pride Media, Ltd. and may not be reproduced without this year and the lebrities not just taking up our cause but the written permission of the editor. President will sign it. maintaining high visibility without threatened The Employee boycotts and other anti-gay backlash. Non-Discrimination At this point in time, I say our rainbow Act or ENDA was glass is half full, and filling up more day by also introduced in day, albeit slowly. the 111th Congress ©2009 - All Rights Reserved by Representatives Steve Charing’s OUTspoken blog is at Chair of the Board of Trustees Jim Becker President Jim Williams Barney Frank (D- www.SteveCharing.blogspot.com. Secretary and Treasurer Mike Chase Neil Patrick Harris being interviewed by Ellen DeGeneres MA) and Ileana Ros-

 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD september 25, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com descriptive information about alleged crimi- beyond the beltway nal conduct at the Atlanta Eagle Club. . . [T]he Police Department investigated the Compiled by Jim Becker complaints and during the investigation, po- lice observed criminal behavior taking place at the club. . .”While there have been allega- tions of improper behavior by police officers conducting the investigation, there have not been any official complaints filed with the Atlanta Police Department,” the statement concluded. (Seattle Gay News - James Whitely at sgn.org)

Forty years after Stonewall bar raids continue

Atlanta, GA - On September 10, The At- Obama nominates lanta Police Department raided the Atlanta, Georgia leather bar The Atlanta Eagle at ap- lesbian to federal proximately 11:30 p.m., during the Eagle’s ‘Underwear Night.’ A reporter from Atlanta EEOC Progressive News who arrived at the scene A LIVELY FESTIVAL just minutes after the raid had begun re- ported that 10 police cars pulled up to the Washington, D.C. - President Barack MARKETPLACE Atlanta Eagle and stormed the bar, arresting Obama announced Sept. 14 that he is nomi- multiple bar staff. It is reported that Eagle nating Chai R. Feldblum, a Professor of Law patrons were ordered to lie on the ground at the Georgetown University Law Center and were handcuffed. A police blockade was and an open lesbian, for Commissioner of formed around the parking lot so as to limit the Equal Employment Opportunity Com- the amount of patrons that could potentially mission. “This group brings a dedication and flee the scene. expertise in their fields that will serve this ad- A patron who claimed to be present ministration and the American people well,” during the bar raid sent an e-mail to Atlanta President Obama said in a public statement, Progressive News, claiming that everyone referring to Feldblum as well as nominees was searched at least once, and most pa- for other positions. “As we work to advance 250 Juried Artists in Person trons were searched twice. “Most, but not equal rights, keep our nation safe, and put all, of the officers were incredibly derogatory our country back on a path to prosperity, I NEW ◾ SPEED and insulting, whether they found evidence look forward to working with these fine indi- PAINTING of drugs or not,” detailed the patron in their viduals in the months and years ahead,” the 4 Shows Daily e-mail. According to multiple patrons, many President said. by were kept on the floor for over an hour. It is Feldblum, a leading expert on the Em- ƒ ANIMALS alleged that the police searched both cash ployment Nondiscrimination Act (ENDA), OCT 2, 3, 4, 2009 Maryland State Fairgrounds registers and ice machines. According to also has extensive experience with HIV/ ◾ one patron, the police handcuffed all Eagle AIDS-related law. She served as Legislative CHILDREN’S Timonium, MD (EXIT 17 OFF I-83) THEATRE Adults $8 at door - good all 3 days staff members and dancers, and anyone Counsel to the AIDS Project of the American Children under 12 & parking Free who was wearing only underwear. Civil Liberties Union, helped draft the Ameri- ◾ Live Music Fri. & Sat. 10-6, Sun. 10-5 The police released a statement the cans with Disabilities Act of 1990, and aided ◾ Craft Demos DISCounT TICKETS day after the raid. “The Atlanta Police De- in the passage of the ADA Amendments Act Show info & exhibitor lists ◾ Specialty Foods Directions and more at: partment conducts routine inspections of of 2008. Feldblum also founded the George- city businesses with valid alcohol permits. town University Law Center’’s Legislation 3UGARLOAF-OUNTAIN7ORKS )NCs   SugarloafCrafts.com The city received several complaints with -- continued on page 4

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD september 25, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q  beyond the beltway Early gay activist Cleve Jones speaks -- continued from page 3 and Administrative Clinic, a program that at PA college encourages students to become legislative lawyers. She received her J.D. from Harvard Philadelphia, PA - Gay activist Cleve Jones Law School and B.A. from Barnard College. visited a Northeastern Pennsylvania college Feldblum has also worked on advanc- September 10, relaying the lessons he’s ing lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender learned in his nearly 40 years as an activist rights and has been a leading expert on the to a large crowd of 500 students, faculty and Employment Nondiscrimination Act. As Co- staff. Jones, who was portrayed in last year’s Director of Workplace Flexibility 2010, Feld- hit movie Milk, about the life of pioneering blum has worked to advance flexible work- activist Harvey Milk, is also an organizer for places in a manner that works for employees the upcoming National March on Washing- and employers. She clerked for Judge Frank ton. Jones’ visit to Keystone College coin- Coffin and for Supreme Court Justice Harry cided with a three-day exhibit of panels of A. Blackmun. (Bay Windows - Hannah Clay the NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt, a Wareham at baywindows.com) project Jones created in 1985 to commemo- rate the lives lost to the disease. Jones, who grew up near Pittsburgh, talked about a range of lgbt issues and the progress the community has made over the past several decades. “I think it’s important for young people, gay and straight alike, to know our history. It’s not taught in a lot of schools yet, so I’m always grateful when schools provide opportunities like this,” he said. He has presented similar lectures at high schools and colleges around the nation. Many audience members were curi- ous about his work with Harvey Milk. Jones said it’s integral for lgbt and ally students to hear personal stories about Milk and other activists, and the struggles they faced, in order to help them understand where the Ben & Jerry’s community has come from and where it’s headed. “Young people need to know the celebrate marriage community’’s history and learn about these role models,” he said. Jones also geared equality part of his discussion toward next month’s March on Washington, D.C., of which he is a strong proponent. He said he supports Montpelier, VT - New England ice cream the initiative because he believes the lgbt mogul Ben & Jerry’s has revealed that their community should be looking to the federal popular “Chubby Hubby” ice cream will be —— not state —— government for lasting re-named “Hubby Hubby” for the month of change. “True equality can only come from September in honor of marriage for same- the federal government. For strategy, we sex couples in the state. The company is should look to 1963 and 1964 and the he- celebrating “the beginning of the freedom roes of the civil-rights movement, who knew to marry for gay and lesbian couples in Ver- they had to keep fighting in Birmingham or in mont,” a statement from the Ben & Jerry’s Selma, but that real victory could only come read September 1. from Washington. That’s where we are now.” “In partnership with Freedom to Marry, (Philadelphia Gay News - Jen Colletta at Ben & Jerry’’s aims to raise awareness of epgn.com the importance of marriage equality and, to show its support, will serve ’’Hubby Hubby’’ These news notes have been compiled, with permis- sion, from the on line version of various newspapers sundaes in Vermont Scoop Shops through- and other web sites. We thank these publications for out the month of September.” The state of allowing us to bring you their news stories. Usually Vermont began performing legal matrimo- the reports have been significantly edited and you can nies for same-sex couples September 1. read the full story by going to the web site mentioned following the item. Comments are strictly the opin- (Bay Windows - Hannah Clay Wareham at ions of Jim Becker and not of Baltimore Outloud or baywindows.com) Pride Media.

 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD september 25, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com from employment discrimination based on news // national sexual orientation and gender identity or news briefs expression because of their employers’ policies on diversity & inclusion, training Number of Top Rated and benefits. Federal law does not protect employees from discrimination based on real or perceived gender identity or sexual orientation, although many cities, counties Businesses for LGBT and states have such protections. Similarly, employer-based health insurance benefits typically don’t cover lgbt workers and their families. License Plate Workers Jumps The Corporate Equality Index 2010 re- port shows impressive gains in policies and Campaign protections across the board. In particular, The number of businesses with perfect rat- transgender workers have made major gains In partnership with the Maryland Mo- ings based on lgbt workplace policies and since the report was first published in 2002, tor Vehicle Administration, Equality benefits rose by twenty percent in the past when just 5 percent of rated businesses pro- Maryland, the state’s largest lgbt civil twelve months, according to a new report hibited discrimination based on gender iden- rights organization, is kick starting an released today by the Human Rights Cam- tity or expression. The Corporate Equality Equality License Plate Campaign. For paign Foundation, the nation’s largest lgbt Index 2010 reports that figure has increased only $50, you can trade in your generic civil rights organization. This is notable be- exponentially: 72 percent of rated business- Maryland license plate for a brand new cause it occurred despite the serious eco- es now prohibit discrimination based on Equality Maryland plate, displaying the nomic downturn. gender identity or expression. red and gold equality symbol. The 2010 edition of the Corporate In addition, the report indicated that 66 This is a special opportunity to Equality Index, which rates 590 businesses major employers — including eight of the advance equality through visibility in on a scale from 0 to 100 percent, reports 305 Fortune 20 and seventeen AmLaw 200 firms the “Free State” of Maryland. businesses achieved top ratings, compared — now provide transgender-inclusive health To request an easy to use form to 260 last year. The report is available at insurance that would cover sex-reassign- from the MVA to request an Equal- www.HRC.org/CEI. ment surgery and related treatments. This ity License Plate, please visit www. “The Corporate Equality Index 2010 component will be required, among other equalitymaryland.org/donate/license_ shows that, even in the most challenging new requirements, in two years for the Cor- plates.htm economy, leading employers are forging porate Equality Index 2012 report. ahead of federal and state law to recruit and “The Corporate Equality Index has pro- retain a diverse workforce — regardless of vided a roadmap for employers to address employees’ sexual orientation and gender their policies, benefits and other practices identity or expression,” said Human Rights broadly since 2002,” said Daryl Herrschaft, Campaign Foundation President Joe Solmo- These 305 businesses, and all employers director of the HRC Foundation’s Workplace nese. “While Congress considers a federal actively working to improve their rating, set Project. “The new criteria we announced law that prohibits workplace discrimination an example for all U.S. employers, including earlier this year define even better practices. based on sexual orientation and gender the federal government.” We look forward to working with employers identity or expression, businesses can take The 305 top-rated businesses collec- to implement these new best practices over immediate steps to ensure all employees tively employ more than 9 million full-time the coming years.” in their workforce are treated fairly today. employees. These workers are protected

Equality Maryland Lilli Vincenz at Welcoming Reception at PFLAG

New Office Space At the Columbia-Howard County chap- ter of PFLAG (Parents, Families and Equality Maryland held a Charm City Welcoming Re- Friends of Lesbians and Gays), erst- ception on September 17 at their new offices on 1201 while gay rights icon Lilli Vincenz (c.) S. Sharp Street near M&T Bank Stadium. Among the discussed the movement’s efforts in dignitaries attending were Baltimore City Council Presi- the 1960’s that helped pave the way for dent Stephanie Rawlings-Blake and Baltimore Ravens many of the rights gays and lesbians linebacker Brendon Ayanbadejo. receive today during the chapter’s “Gay Brendon Ayanbadejo recently wrote a piece in the Pioneers” program on September 8. lpert

A Huffington Post supporting same-sex marriage, and his She is flanked by other such pioneers appearance at the Equality Maryland event reinforced June Horner (l.) and chapter co-found- his position that gays and lesbians should have the same er and chairperson Colette Roberts, rights as everybody else. who are parents of gay children. Photo: Michelle

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD september 25, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q  during flu season because many people are more likely to become severely ill. immune response to be effective. Vaccines get sick, and some people get seriously ill Younger people, especially those 24 and are less effective for people with HIV and dr. eva and die. However, so far the H1N1 flu, also under, and women who are pregnant, CD4 counts under 400, but they are not dr. eva hersh called swine flu, seems to be less serious are at the greatest risk and are the most harmful to them. and less fatal than the usual strains of flu. important to immunize. All children should There will be 2 types of flu vaccine be vaccinated, starting at age 6 months. “Flu Vaccines Give Me the Flu” available this year. One vaccine will be for Children under age 10 need 2 doses of Some people feel as if they have the flu the “typical” or “seasonal” flu. That vaccine vaccine, 3 weeks apart. Adults and children after getting the shot, although they are` is available now. The other vaccine, for over 10 need just one dose. It is safe to get not actually infected. This occurs because swine flu, is not yet available. It’s expected both types of flu vaccine at the same time. many symptoms of flu are caused by the Open Wide to be available by late October. Typical flu vaccine is most important body’s immune response to the flu, and the for people over age 50 and people with immune response to inactivated virus is a Swine Flu vs Typical Flu chronic illnesses like diabetes, HIV, and milder version of the response to live virus. H1N1 flu: How In most years, over 35,000 people in the asthma or emphysema. Swine flu vaccine U.S. die of flu and complications of flu. is most important for children and young How to Avoid Getting-and Spreading- worried should I be? Most of them are over 65, and many have adults under 24, and for adults over 24 who the Flu chronic illnesses or are in nursing homes. live or work with children. These suggestions might sound silly, but Dear Dr. Eva, In contrast, less than 600 people have died they are the most effective things you can How worried are you about H1N1/swine flu? of swine flu in the several months since the Flu Vaccine and HIV do! Most flu is not spread through the air, How worried should I be? Is it really any epidemic started. What has made news Injectable flu vaccines, or flu shots, but by droplets from an infected person’s more dangerous than the regular flu? Are is the fact that those who have died have are made from inactivated (dead) virus sneeze or cough. The droplets get on your people with HIV more risk if they take the been different from the usual flu victims- particles. There is no live flu virus in flu hands, then are transferred from your flu shots, or if they don’t? they have been much younger, and not shots. Therefore, there is no risk of getting fingers to mouth, nose, or eyes-and then Also, I heard that the recommendations chronically ill. infected with flu from the flu shot, and it is you get sick. for who should get the swine flu shot are The last swine flu outbreak was in safe for people with HIV and other immune • Clean your hands very, very often. different from regular flu. Can you please 1973. People born in 1972 or earlier are deficiencies to have the shots. The inhaled Alcohol based hand sanitizers are explain that? likely to have been exposed to the 1973 form of flu vaccine, FluMist, does contain actually more effective at killing viruses —James, HIV positive and middle-aged form of swine flu, so they are likely to live attenuated (weakened) flu virus. People than soap and water. Get a few bottles, have partial immunity to this year’s swine with HIV and other immune problems including a small one for your pocket. Dear James, flu. People born after 1973 have never should avoid this type of flu vaccine. Use it by putting on enough to wet your As a doctor, I am always am concerned been exposed to this type of flu, so they All vaccines depend on the body’s -- continued on page 26

 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD september 25, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com people we like Jim “Fuzz” Roarke

/ By Jay Loane / heatre

As you may have noticed throughout this T issue, we are featuring theatre happenings within our community. I, of course, hopped on the bandwagon. So here is my part to the theatre world.

On one of the last days of summer, I Photo: Spotlighters met with Jim “Fuzz” Roarke in the lobby of The Audrey Herman Spotlighters Theatre on tor. In his spare time, he became involved St. Paul Street. Fuzz, as he is better known, with MCC Baltimore working in the technical is the Executive Director of the theatre. He booth. The best part of that year, he met his also directs performances at The Fells Point partner Michael. The couple recently cele- Theatre where Love Valour Compassion brated their 11th anniversary together earlier opened just last week. this month. He was born in Marion, North Carolina. In 2000, Fuzz joined the Spotlighters As a young lad of 5-6 years old, the school Theatre in the technical end. systems didn’t have a gymnastic program. It At Spotlighters, Fuzz worked with one was because of then President John F. Ken- show director by the name of Terry Long. It nedy, that The American Fitness Program was through this collaboration that these two started in schools. Though the choices were talents merged together with several proj- limited at the time to gymnastics or tap danc- ects with one of those pertaining to a show ing, gymnastics would fill up rather quickly. during the winter months of 2000-2004. This This left only tap dancing for Fuzz, which he play was entitled Rudolph the Red-Hosed fell immediately in love with. Reindeer by playwright David Cerda. “One During his teen years, he went on to of the things I liked about ‘Rudolph’ was that perform with the Carolina Civic Ballet Com- David allowed localized changes.” pany, a professional company that toured So, instead of having Rudolph at the in- during the summer months. CCBC intro- tersection of 42nd Street and Broadway, he duced ballet to people who would not nor- was now at Charles and Eager Streets. Hav- mally view this venue. For three years with ing seen the play myself, it was those little the company, Fuzz was the principal male touches that made the show. Unfortunately, dancer. “For nine weeks, I had a lot of fun,” Terry Long passed away last year. remarked Fuzz. Unfortunately the company Having both Fuzz and Michael work- closed in 1988. ing at Spotlighters (Michael is the Theatre Attending Francis Marion University, Director) this does not leave much free time Fuzz studied Sociology with a minor in the for them. However, when not at the theatre, Performing Arts. Thankfully the latter of the Fuzz and Michael enjoy cruising on board two won out – eventually. Carnival Cruise Lines. “It’s great to have a It was back in 1993 that Fuzz’s adven- cruise line that is only 15 minutes away. “ tures brought him to Baltimore; however, not They are also big fans of BBC America. “We for the theatre community. love watching Dr. Who, Torchwood and Top As the Director of Patient Services for Chef,” stated Fuzz. Glass Mental Health, Fuzz spent the next Spotlighters 2009-2010 season starts five years there. next month with “One Night Stand” featur- Then, in 1998, things turned around for ing the humorist Scott Nevins. For more in- Fuzz. He went on to work at The Ravenwood formation on Spotlighters Theatre, visit their Health System as the Geriatrics Administra- website at www.spotlighters.org.

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD september 25, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q  things Dr. Scholl’s just can’t correct. sam I would like to thank the very lovely Ms. Ada Buffet for the wonderful exchange on unfiltered Friday. Ms. Buffet who was feeling no pain, Sam Kunz messaged me to give her a call to chat. Ap- parently, the walls and furniture lost interest and the coat rack wouldn’t answer her. So upon receipt of her phone number I pro- So there I was, standing, helping a friend ceeded to call said number and gave my who shall go nameless pick up furniture usual greeting to people who wake up at from Value City of all places. I mean come 5a.m., “What the f@!# do you want you dirty on, Value City? Sitting there, watching bad whore!” to which a meek voice responded choice after bad choice go by, it was like be- ,”I’m sorry?” ing on a Baatan death march into bad taste. Apparently phone number dictation is What is it with my fellow gay brethren not her strong suit. My apologies to the girl I that think that a purple couch with brass ac- called a whore at 5a.m.; you didn’t deserve cents is acceptable? Is there a “Queer Eye that sweetie, if you ever see Ms. Buffet, for the Queer Guy”? please pass the message on for me. Seri- So who was that fool who made a com- ously though, we love Ada. See her at The plete ass of himself at P.W’s Sports Bar in Phoenix for some of Baltimore’s best cock- Laurel two weeks ago at karaoke attempting tails and conversation. to do a duet of “A Whole New World”? Lastly, but certainly not least I had the This guy. Right here. Guilty. honor of attending the weekly Drag show at What is it about booze, a musk ver- The Phoenix recently where a certain wed- sion of an old song and disco lighting that ding party was yanked from the ghastly white makes even the most amateur of amateurs monstrosity they called a limousine by a de- believe that he or she sound exactly like the lightful Anita Minute. I am not sure which next Frank Sinatra or Barbra was more impressive, that Streisand, or in my case, Clay Anita was able to sprint to the Aiken? car in heels and not break her Well, after the first verse ass or the fact that the whole was butchered, a very good drunken party rose out of the friend, Kimana, jumped up car enmasse with Jello shots on stage to save mine and ev- in hand. eryone else’s ear drums in the Note to most gay bars bar. Sorry Sara, I couldn’t pull here in Baltimore: if you want it off. To see me butcher your favorite songs, to learn how to make good Jello shots, just join me at PW’s in Laurel, Thursdays and ask a straight girl about to get married, I think Saturdays 10 – 1 a.m. Just follow the path of it’s encoded in their marital instinctive DNA. spilled beers and bad Sinatra to find me! The show that followed was one that rivaled And what is all this buzz I keep hear- most I have seen with the talents of the ing about the karoke at The Drinkery? You beautiful and talented Ms. Anastacia Tay- know me, I am a karoke whore, so you can lor, Rose Marie (Rosie) The Riveter from bet your little pink tutus I will be there with Highlandtown Hon (who looked exactly like bells on. my yenta aunt, all she needed was a bowling Also, I stopped in Leon’s for happy ball, a natty boh and blue hair curlers. hour and was elated to have my beer in can Well two outta three ain’t bad Rosie!), just like those hot beefy blue collar workers. Anita Minute, Ada Buffet and others along Now if I can only find my “It’s 5’o’clock some- with the very handsome Hunter whose birth- A bill that would repeal the current discriminatory Defense of where” beer coozy! day it was. Happy Birthday girl! oll Marriage Act (DOMA) has been introduced in this 111th Congress. Oh, this just in, which local title holder Now its time to embarrass someone

P was last seen walking down Charles Street, who needs no more embarrassment after (See front page story.) President Obama had campaigned to no shoes, looking like he just left a Toby’s au- that incident involving a jar of peach pre- repeal DOMA. What are the chances this measure will be enacted? dition for Jesus Christ Superstar? Let’s say serves, a bag of packing peanuts and a ews hello to our good friend Robbie, Mr. Phoe- poster of Jake Gyllenhaal, yes it was my

N • Very good chance nix! Apparently moving from one apartment good friend Dave! So good to see you come • Will not pass in Congress this year to the next he forgot his keys and locked out of your cave girl! You know, if he comes himself out. out of his cave and sees his shadow, it’s four • DOMA will never be repealed See, if you had left your keys in your more weeks of Michael Jackson coverage! loud shoes and hadn’t forgotten your shoes, you Poor Farrah, Ed and Billy, they didn’t stand To vote: visit www.baltimoreoutloud.com wouldn’t have had to walk into The Phoe- a chance.

OUT nix barefoot and end up in my column. Just Until next time kiddies, blue skies are be glad it wasn’t The Eagle, Robbie, Some gonna clear up! Sit on a happy face!

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10 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD september 25, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com Academy Awards and won six, including of Separation; Sleuth; Steel Magnolias; A lively arts // on the screen Best Picture. By contrast, 1985’s A Chorus Streetcar Named Desire; The Sunshine Line managed only three Oscar nominations Boys; Urbania (based on Urban Folk Tales); and no wins. Wait Until Dark. From Stage to Screen Hedwig and the Angry Inch (1998/2001) Other musicals that started on stage: began as an off-Broadway production in 1776; Annie; Brigadoon; Bye Bye Birdie; a nightclub setting as Hedwig (John Cam- Cabaret; Camelot; Carousel; Damn Yan- / by Chuck Duncan / iegoers, and the film didn’t score as well as eron Mitchell) related his/her life through kees; Evita; The Fantasticks; Fiddler on Keeping with this issue’s theatrical theme, expected at the box office. The film won an music in a concert setting. The film, which the Roof; Finian’s Rainbow; Gigi; Godspell; I thought it would be fun to take a look at Oscar for art direction (Depp was nominated also starred and was directed by Mitchell, Grease; Guys and Dolls; Gypsy; Hair; Hello, some movies that started their “lives” as for Best Actor) but failed to snag a Best Pic- really took advantage of the medium and Dolly; How to Marry a Millionaire; The Jazz Broadway shows. There have been dozens ture nomination, while the show won a Best totally opened up the story with animation, Singer; Jesus Christ Superstar; The King of Broadway plays and musicals that have Musical Tony Award, while Cariou, Lans- real locations and the addition of characters and I; Kiss Me, Kate; Mame; Mamma Mia!; been turned into movies, such as 1927’s bury, Sondheim and director Hal Prince all only mentioned in the show. Some viewers Man of La Mancha; The Music Man; My Fair Dracula (movie released in 1931), 1941’s Ar- won Tony’s in their respective categories. I were turned off by the film’s ambiguous end- Lady; Oklahoma!; Paint Your Wagon; Pal senic and Old Lace (movie released in 1944) still think the film is brilliant and if you haven’t ing but I enjoyed the performances and the Joey; The Pirates of Penzance; The Rocky and 1964’s Funny Girl (movie released in seen it and are a fan of Burton, Depp or mu- message that you have to be willing to love Horror Picture Show (from The Rocky Hor- 1968) which made Streisand a star. Holly- sicals in general, do give it a try. and accept yourself for who you are before ror Show); Rent; Show Boat; The Sound of wood has a history for bringing the best of Dreamgirls (1981/2006) was a very you can fully love and accept anyone else. Music; South Pacific; West Side Story; The Broadway to the big screen – sometimes loose re-telling of the story of the Supremes. Of course, not all stage to screen trans- Wiz. with decidedly less than stellar results – and That much is unmistakable, although it could lations are musicals. Many plays have also And let’s not forget the shows that start- now Broadway, in an effort to draw more have been about any girl group of the 1960s. made the journey to film, including Agnes ed out as movies and then became mov- crowds to the Great White Way, is turning The show starred Sheryl Lee Ralph, Loret- of God; Auntie Mame; Barefoot in the Park; ies based on the shows such as Hairspray, hit movies into large scale theatrical produc- ta Devine and Jennifer Holliday. The show The Boys in the Band; Bug; Cat on a Hot Little Shop of Horrors and The Producers. tions (Hairspray, Shrek and, yes, even Spi- won six Tony Awards, including Best Ac- Tin Roof; Closer; Come Back to the Five and Yes, Broadway and Hollywood have always der-Man!). Since the list is so long, let’s take tress in a Musical for Holliday and became Dime, Jimmy Dean, Jimmy Dean; Deathrap; worked hand in hand it seems, so if there’s a look back at some of the more recent films a worldwide sensation. The movie met with Frost/Nixon; Gaslight; The Gin Game; Glen- a show you’d like to see but can’t get to New that started out on the stage. a lukewarm reception, but it made a star out garry Glen Ross; The Goodbye Girl; Harvey; York or the touring company passes by your Doubt (2005/2008) starred Cherry of Jennifer Hudson with her show-stopping Love! Valour! Compassion!; Noises Off; The town, chances are there will be a movie at Jones as Sister Aloysius on stage while version of “And I am Telling You.” Interest- Odd Couple; On Golden Pond; Plaza Suite; some point. But remember, nothing beats Meryl Streep took over the role on film. ingly, Hudson won an Oscar (Best Sup- Proof; Rope; Shirley Valentine; Six Degrees seeing a show live on stage! Nominated for five Academy Awards (four of porting Actress) for the same role Holliday those were for the cast), the film’s controver- won her Tony, and both Sheryl Lee Ralph sial subject matter – did a priest overstep his and Beyonce Knowles were overlooked for bounds with a male student – was less of an their lead performances (Ralph was nomi- issue than Streep’s casting. Writer John Pat- nated while Oscar completely overlooked rick Shanley wanted Cherry Jones to reprise Knowles). her role but the studio insisted on a bigger Chicago (1975/2002) is probably the “name” in order to finance the production. movie that made movie musicals in fash- Streep lost on Oscar night but Jones won ion again. The show opened on Broadway a Tony for her performance. Jones, by the in 1975 and was a sensation. Jerry Orbach, way, just won an Emmy for her supporting Chita Rivera and Gwen Verdon starred in role as the president on 24. Bob Fosse’s masterpiece of musical theatre Sweeney Todd: The Demon Barber of and all were nominated for Tony Awards. Fleet Street (1979/2007) was a dark, dis- Unfortunately, the show wins the bad timing turbing, funny, bloody musical by Stephen award as it played during the same season Sondheim and starred Len Cariou and An- as A Chorus Line, which basically won ev- gela Lansbury at the barber and the meat erything. The movie, however, was a sensa- pie maker. The resurgence of the movie mu- tion and reinvented the modern movie musi- sical made this particular show a perfect fit cal by keeping the main story grounded in for director Tim Burton and his stars Johnny reality while all of the musical numbers were Depp and Helena Bonham Carter. played out as fantasies of the characters. The movie was visually stunning, but Audiences who couldn’t handle characters Sondheim’s music (he even helped re-write suddenly breaking into song in the middle and edit his original score for the film) proved of a scene found this device much more to be a bit challenging for mainstream mov- acceptable. The film was nominated for 13

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD september 25, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q 11 SPECIAL THEATRE SECTION

lively arts // on the stage The New Theatre Season in Baltimore Commences

/ By Ben Ryland / a 2 month+ run) or Although DIRTY BLONDE at Signature, RABBIT HOLE at Disney’s Mary Pop- pins (Kennedy Cen- Everyman and LOVE! VALOUR! COMPASSION! at Fells ter) and the tour only Point Corner Theatre have opened the 2009-2010 production of 101 season is slowly rolling out at other venues over Dalmations making a November stop at the next few weeks. At this point in time the jury is the Warner Theatre still out on the quality we are to expect especially in DC. But where is since many venues have truncated their roster of XANADU? Where is the return engage- shows because of costs and empty seats. Watch for ment of WICKED? deals!! Center Stage is all over the map The Hippodrome our premiere tour stop FRANKENSTEIN (with several members of including offering for national 1st company, direct from Broad- the original cast) and 2008’s Best Musical cabaret instead of Topol in Fiddler on the Roof way productions doesn’t open until late Octo- Tony winner- IN THE HEIGHTS. The oth- shows and Every- ber with the Topol Farewell Tour of FIDDLER ers on their list are fine (and repeats) but man is playing it safe again for all the repub- ON THE ROOF. There other two shows ar- not as exciting as JERSEY BOYS (about licans they cater to. Once again it takes Rep rive during the winter- Mel Brooks’ YOUNG to open at the National Theatre in DC for Stage in Columbia to bring the big city edgy shows to town. The Vags have the comfort food menu that often hit heights in their ver- sions and the Theatre Project offers the ‘heady’ City Paper approved slate of shows that no one has ever heard of. The aforementioned Kennedy Cen- ter has a great season for those with big bucks to spend on tickets (no Ticketplace discounts for that hall) with Cate Blachett in STREETCAR, August: Osage County, and a premiere of a new Terrence McNally opera themed work- THE GOLDEN AGE. Other area community theatres have some interesting fare. Dundalk Community College has two, count them TWO area Young Frankenstein premieres: the smash hit musicals ALTAR BOYZ and THE TAFFETAS both directly SHOWBOAT and the regional theatre pre- from off-Broadway. The Fulton Opera House miere of [title of show] which I can’t wait to in Lancaster (a new favorite of mine) has see. HELLO, DOLLY!, DRIVING MISS DAISY, Toby’s Dinner Theatre empire has and NOISES OFF along with several family opened with Disney’s AIDA in Baltimore oriented shows. By the way in case nobody and SWEENEY TODD in Columbia. Com- has noticed it will be the season of holiday ing up- ANNIE (I warned you) and other big productions of ANNIE, everyplace is doing musicals. Winter’s Lane Productions has the it (and thankfully few less A CHRISTMAS first community theatre production of RENT CAROLS’). scheduled in the fall but they have moved to Other out of town seasons include the downtown DC. Kimmel Center in Philadelphia with WHITE CHRISTMAS, THE LION KING, AVENUE For the complete season schedules, Q and the return of WICKED (oh there it and it will be the most comprehensive. is). Signature Theatre in Arlington contin- around check out my website-- ues it 20th Anniversary Season with a huge www.stagesbaltimore.wordpress.com

12 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD september 25, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com BALTIMORE OUTLOUD september 25, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q 13 How did you do? Three, maybe four. Well when you lively arts // on the stage leave FIRST YOU DREAM you will have heard songs from (I counted) seventeen of their shows, TV specials and films. As you are seated in the theatre you will see a 19-piece Two Large Scale orchestra on risers on the stage Chicago-style—the show not the city. Overhead is a large screen with a picture of K & E which morphs into different pictures as their voices fill the Musical Revues of hall talking about their work. Downbeat of the overture into a musical medley of Cabaret and Steel Pier. What the hell is Steel Pier? It was a huge expensive horrible flop about Broadway marathon dancing and flying bi-planes years ago. Aren’t you sorry you asked? I was one who actually saw it and paid / By Ben Ryland / good money to do it. But on the whole I love Kander and Ebb shows and I BROADWAY’S BEST had the pleasure of interviewing them for MW Magazine over in DC when Kiss of the Spider Woman arrived. Director The American Music Theatre on Rt. 30 East of Lancaster Eric Schaeffer has use little originality in the staging; the is like a stranger in a strange land. It resembles a music First You Dream at Signature Theatre risers are so steep and tall I feared for the performers as the venue straight out of Branson or Gatlinburg hosting either strode up and down them all evening, the women in heels. celebrity performers or in-house production shows. They everyone away with, ‘Defying Gravity’ from WICKED. The The performers (all Broadway performs with multiple just closed ROCKMEN, a salute to Billy Joel and Elton John onstage orchestra and set are similar to the staging of the credits) are incredible from the goose bump resonance of and their annual, hugely popular Christmas show opens in Christmas show (without the trees and snow) but the use Norm Lewis’s vocal instrument to the fun of Heidi Blincken- November. of projections of the original casts in the shows around the staff’s vocal pyrotechnics. Julia Murney recently of WICKED During September into early October they are hosting stage are effective and unique. falls to rise to Heidi’s performance but can still sell a song their second incarnation of BROADWAY’S BEST. Performed It’s a fun show, especially the second half, and worth with flair. in a large balconied auditorium, a couple of lobby conces- your time especially if you take your parents for their birth- It appears that Signature is interested in taking this sion stands and a large gift shop you will swear that you’re in day or anniversary. The theatre will even announce your oc- show further, at least to license it to other venues according the Smokey Mountains. But no you are only about 45 miles casion to the crowd. to rumors but much work needs to be done. The static stag- north of Baltimore. ing is a polar opposite to quality of the material (mostly) and The first act is nothing special, material wise. The local Broadway’s Best - American Music Theatre, 2425 Rt. 30E, the performers (all). It’s a love letter to the composers (Ebb cast of 7 talented singers and 4 dancers in tuxes and formal Lancaster, PA | Tickets: www.americanmusictheatre.com passed away a couple of years ago) and at 80 years-old gowns take you though the Golden Age of Broadway musi- Kander, was able to finish their love letter show to showbiz, cals; highlighting Gershwin, Rodgers and Hammerstein, Ir- Curtains, which had a respectable run in NYC starring Tony ving Berlin and early Sondhiem/Berstein classics. The nine FIRST YOU DREAM winner David Hyde Pierce gathering many other nomina- piece orchestra with a brilliant arranger/composer attempts tions include Best Musical. to sell the songs; however, it’s nothing you haven’t seen Concert at Signature FIRST YOU DREAM is a classy show with the required before. tuxes and gowns, which seems to be standard equipment to After intermission it takes off in a more modern oeu- Theatre represent class. Unfortunately, this formality works against vre. Costumes appear, choreography abounds and Andrew the character and themes of most of K & E songs so much it Lloyd Webber, Les Mis, Phantom, Movie Musicals, Disney Now through Sunday only, the 2009 Tony Award winning Re- needs to be re-thought. on Broadway and currently running shows take over. gional Theatre presents a high caliber production show on The singers are capable and sell the songs to an appre- their main stage presenting the music of its mentors- John Signature Theatre - Arlington, Va | ciative audience of bus trippers and families who singalong Kander and Fred Ebb. Who? Through September 27th only | Tick- to all their favorites. But when the new shows appear, such That is one of the problems. Everyone knows some of ets: www.signature-theatre.org as JERSEY BOYS, MAMA MIA, RENT & WICKED they sit their shows but few know who wrote them or many of their back in awe. All of the performers are guilty of using only other creations. Stop for a minute and count how many you head-voice with the exception of Michelle Mishler who blows know before you continue………………….

14 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD september 25, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com lively arts // on the stage A Chat With the LOVE! VALOUR! COMPASSION!.... Boys!

By Ben Ryland When Terrence McNally’s epic work, Love! Valour! Com- passion! captured the Tony Award for Best Play of the Year in 1995 the theatre world was stunned. Three acts, 7 actors playing 8 gay characters who love, appear ‘natural’ on stage, enjoying (for the most part) their visits together and a running time of way over 3 hours. WOW! LVC is loved by many people both straight and gay but rarely attempted by community theatres; it’s a mammoth production to stage. Thankfully it has now opened at the Fells Point Corner Theatre for a limited run. The published play has been a big seller since it was original available in bookstores in a reading edition and after seeing the show live you might want to get yourself a copy too. The story revolves around these characters friendship- some in relationships, some with HIV, some with humor and others with cynicism. The play is set at a country house far from their lives in New York City where the group assembles over the three summer holiday weekends. I recently sat felt I needed to do for myself. when certain events occur throughout the show. It’s a jour- down with members of the cast at Fells Point prior to a re- Director (Fuzz Roark): It is Love, Valour, Compassion. That ney for him to darker places than he’s ever been. hearsal and discovered how important this story is to them giant beast of theatre. It’s not just about the friendship. It’s Richard: There are two moments in the show, the Perry and and their director. about how true they are to each other and reality. This group Buzz scene and John’s monologue to his brother James, I is not complete without them all. think, one of the power moments, and I don’t want to give Ben Ryland: Why did you want to perform LVC? Bobby (Drew Gaver): I love being challenged as an ac- anything away. Gregory (Richard McGraw): It is actually one of my bucket tor, and the opportunity to realistically play a blind person Originally I wanted to play Perry and then James just to list plays, because it is such a human play. I appreciate the was very enticing. In the past I’ve had to play mentally chal- play those two moments. fact that we learn from this that sexuality is not an issue, lenged, play female, even play Chinese (including learning Tony: For my character one of the moments that I realized emotion is the same across the board. Gay or straight we all Mandarin and Cantonese). It seemed like a great chance to who my character is and why he does what he does is when believe the same way. There is this tremendous peek into challenge myself again. Plus, I think most people are used to he and Perry are in the canoe and he is talking about “do the souls of those of us who always seem to be wearing seeing me in comedic character roles. This role is definitely you feel guilty?” masks. more dramatic. Arthur can’t do what he wants to do for his friend Buzz, Arthur (Tony Viglione): I never saw the actual stage pro- he just can’t do all the things he wants to do. duction. I like it because it’s not about being gay but friends BR: Are there scenes that are especially important to Drew: This show is all about relationships with friends and and their actions. you as an actor or person? lovers, and how you need that support when life becomes Ramon (James Macon Grant): I had two reasons for doing James Grant: What has stood out to me [are the characters] difficult. It’s really helped me realize the importance of those it. I was familiar with the play as a theatre student under the frailty. The audience thinks- why would you say that? Why relationships in my life and not to take anything for granted. file of the cannon of great plays you read but I also remem- did they do that? All of these people have human limitations. 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18 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD september 25, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com Adam. The people and culture there really form the basis for lively arts // books the stories. It’s changed a lot since I was a kid, as more and more people move there from more urban areas, but even Josh Aterovis: now, Eastern Shoreman are a pretty distinct group. SC: Has anyone in your own life inspired you to formu- late any of the characters in your books? Mystery Man JA: I try hard to avoid doing that for the most part. It was a conscious decision I made early on and I’ve never regretted Since the spring, Josh Aterovis has been a stellar addition it. I never use real people in my stories, although certain to the staff of Baltimore OUTloud. Readers may recall his people may have inspired the germ of the idea for certain outstanding interviews from top nationally known models characters. The best example is the character of Judy. She’s to local poets and musicians. Josh’s very popular “Single a small character in Bleeding Hearts, but she returns in All Black Sheep” column featuring his own witty rules of gay Lost Things and becomes a pretty substantial character as dating has not only been informative but it also puts a smile the series progresses. The idea for some of her characteris- on your face. tics came from my real-life aunt, Barbara. Judy has evolved An accomplished, award-winning author, Josh has writ- very much into her own person, but the original idea was ten several novels in the Killian Kendall (a gay teen sleuth) inspired by my aunt. mystery series, including Bleeding Hearts, and Reap the Whirlwind, and his new book, All Lost Things, is due out in SC: Tell us a bit about your new release, All Lost Things. October. The Eastern Shore native also pens short stories What’s it about? and contributes to AfterElton.com, an entertainment news JA: All Lost Things starts off with a reoccurring nightmare website owned by MTV’s LOGO network for and about gay that Killian is having about a gruesome ax murder. Eventu- and bisexual men. ally, a teenage boy is accused of killing his abusive father in In advance of the release of All Lost Things, OUTloud’s a real ax murder. The details of the murder line up eerily with managing editor Steve Charing decided that it’s time for Killian’s dreams, and despite himself, Killian finds himself Josh to be on the other side of an interview to find out his drawn to the case. insights on writing mysteries and what his new book is all There’s also a subplot about Killian’s surrogate parents, about. be a Young Adult series. I’ve always intended to have Killian a gay couple, buying an old mansion to turn into a bed and grow and mature along the way. He ages with each book. I breakfast, but the house comes with a couple surprises... Steve Charing: At what point did you realize that writing didn’t want him to be static like Nancy Drew, who is forever like a ghost or two. There are definitely some supernatural novels was in your future? eighteen, or Kinsey Milhone, Sue Grafton’s protagonist in elements being introduced in this book. They were hinted at Josh Aterovis: When I was a kid, I always wanted to either her Alphabet series. I’ve always felt like those characters in Bleeding Hearts, but really come to the forefront now. It’s be a detective or a writer. I kind of get the best of both worlds and their stories get stale after a while, because they never perfect reading for October! now and write mystery novels. [laughs] I’ve always loved really change. books and reading. I started writing my own stories when I Sure, Killian is sixteen in the first novel, but he’s eighteen SC: How does All Lost Things compare to your previous was around eleven or twelve. They were awful Nancy Drew in All Lost Things. We get to follow along as Killian figures works, Bleeding Hearts and Reap the Whirlwind? knock-offs. I think I still have them somewhere. out who he is, matures, and goes through all those things JA: The first two books, while still mysteries, were really that everyone experiences as they go through their teens more coming-of-age stories. They were as much as the SC: Why murder mysteries as opposed to, say, romance and twenties. It’s such a fascinating time in our lives. I don’t coming-out process as they were about the murders. All novels? think most people really know who they are until they’re in Lost Things is, in many ways, the first book in the actual JA: The first books I really fell in love with was the Nancy their thirties, and some not even then. [laughs] I’m still figur- mystery series. Drew series, followed closely by Agatha Christie’s great ing it out! classic novels. I was an avid reader and would just devour SC: What about your upcoming book release party? entire mystery series, one author after another. I like the SC: How much of Josh Aterovis is embedded in the JA: It’s my first ever book release party, and I’m really ex- serialized aspect of a mystery series, where you have self- principal character in the series, Kendall Killian, or any cited. It’s on October 7th, 9 p.m., at Grand Central Station contained stories, but overarching themes and continuing character in your novels for that matter? here in Baltimore. If all goes according to plan, I’ll have the characters. I was a pretty lonely kid, so the characters were JA: There are some elements of myself in Killian, I’m sure. I new book on hand for signing. Keep your fingers crossed. almost like my friends. Generally, the longer a series was, don’t think it’s possible for something of a writer not to creep It’s going to be a close call. the happier I was. into his characters. I think the thing I have most in common When I started writing Bleeding Hearts, my first book, I with Killian is his Savior Complex. It’s something I’ve worked SC: Will you continue the Killian Kendall series down hadn’t planned on it being a mystery. I didn’t have any par- hard to overcome, but Killian has a long way to go yet. the road or will you take a turn in that road and try an- ticular genre in mind, but as I was writing along, all of a sud- A dear friend read Bleeding Hearts recently, and the other type of novel? den, I had a dead body on my hands. I was as surprised as first thing she said to me when she finished was, “You are JA: I definitely plan to continue the series as long as people anyone else. [laughs] It just kind of evolved from there. so Adam.” It had never crossed my mind, but now that she’s want to read them. I already have contracts for two more said it, I can definitely see it, especially in that particular books in the series. I will have some other things here and SC: It makes sense that your books are geared to the book. He might be the character who is the most me in the there along the way, though. I also have a contract for a ro- young adults since you are in that demographic your- series. mantic comedy called Breaking Masks, due out in 2011. self. Is there another reason why you prefer that audi- ence? SC: To what extent do your teenage experiences grow- SC: Besides being a terrific author, you are also an art- JA: [laughs] I am definitely no longer a young adult, but ing up on the Eastern Shore factor into your books’ ist and a photographer and Lord knows what else. If you thank you for that laugh. I was when I started the series ten plots? could be the world’s preeminent author, artist, or pho- years ago, though, so I guess that was part of it. My idea for JA: Quite a bit, actually, especially in the first few books. tographer, which would you choose and why? the Killian Kendall series, though, has never been for it to The Shore is as much a character as Killian or Asher or -- contined on page 27

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22 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD september 25, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com gel, whatever. A salve from the last two songs, is Whitney’s lively arts // tune in or tune out rendition of Leon Russel’s “A Song For You.” It’s a song that has been done many a time, but given an unsuspected twist here. Much like “I’m Every Woman” (her cover of the 1978 Whitney Houston Chaka Kahn song), what was a faithful cover of the original becomes a dance anthem at the 1:30 mark. It works. Sort of. I still prefer the slow, stripped beginning, but she shows how - I Look To You capable a singer she is here and the beat is nothing to raise your chin at. / By Jonathan Hernandez / “I Didn’t Know My Own Strength” is a Diane Warren We live in a strange world, where comebacks are a dime penned track. It’s pretty cheesy, as Diane Warren’s songs a dozen. It sometimes feels as if it’s all a marketing ploy: tend to be, a little too focused on being empowering to the artist creates havoc only to rehab themselves back to the point that it is, at times, lyrically sloppy — especially when it number one spot. It works, it sells. But what’s called a come- gets to the chorus. “Worth It” picks up the slack of the previ- back for most artists nowadays can generally be called a ous track. It’s a feel good mid-tempo number, and while it’s 3-4 year hiatus to break down, experiment, and Full Monty nothing special in terms of production and presentation, and your respect down the limelight-clogged drain (I’m looking seems to drag a little bit, it’s not a wasted listen. Speeding at you, Spears). Whitney Houston, however, is deserving of up the tempo is “For the Lovers,” which seems to follow the the word “comeback,” and her latest album I Look To You is same cue of “Nothing But Love,” with its synthesized beat. a true-to-form return for this Billboard favorite diva. The song is hot, she sounds great, and it is definitely wel- It’s hard to believe that Whitney has been missing from come after the more-than-apparent slow down of the previ- the music scene for almost seven years, especially consid- ous tracks. ering how much media we’ve had on her. One drug habit, Two of the best tracks close out the album, the Akon- one failed and offensive reality show, a million jokes later, produced track “I Got You” (which thankfully is not another Whitney has decided to take back what was once hers — awful duet), and the second venture with R. Kelly “Salute.” her dignity, her place in music. What I like about I Look To best of her limitations over a futuristic beat. It’s a high road The former is this album’s version “My Love Is Your Love” You is, for the most part, how personal and how organic the affair, and an overall fun one. (as stated by the diva herself) in the sense that it’s about un- album feels. Even with the new sounds that scream single Then we get to one of the albums shining gems, “Call dying love and provides a reggae vibe. The song is weaker and radio ready, this is still undeniably a Whitney album with You Tonight.” It features a stronger-voiced Whitney letting than the source she was drawing from, and because it is its roots planted in R&B and big dance anthems. With some loose and breezing through beautiful written verses on a so close to it lyrically, it takes away from the final product. of the biggest names in music producing her and supporting more traditional pop/R&B ode to a lover. Its one of my favor- Still, it’s a good song that shouldn’t be compared for the full her cause, Whitney may just be able to reclaim her fame... ite tracks, and it seems more fitting for her than the previous effect. and regain the respect of a judging world. two tracks. It’s almost like she never went anywhere. “Salute” is my second favorite song on the album, most- The album kicks off with funky “Million Dollar Bill,” an But almost as if I was having too much fun listening, ly because of its haunting piano. It feels personal. It’s not Alicia Keys-produced 60’s and 70’s disco fuse. The song is “I Look to You” rears its ugly head. The first of two R. Kelly the only time that I Look To You feels personal, but it is the fun and easygoing with an infectious bass line and winning written tracks has Whitney enunciating the hell out of the only time you truly get a mental of image of what she’s refer- bridge. While this second single is filled with personality, it song, as if she were learning to read for the first time. Hi, ring to, making the song all the more powerful and honest, can’t hide one thing: her voice seems worn and tired. Where I’m Whitney Houston, and I’m hooked on phonics! It also which is I suppose is why it’s the album closer. It undoubt- the old Whitney would’ve riffed and soared through a song unfortunately shows off how tired her voice feels. It’s a true edly sounds like an R. Kelly song and gives us Whitney’s like this, she seems limited here, and held back. It’s this fact ballad, and the very first to really showcase how far she is rawest moment on the album. that brings you back to reality. from where she used to be. Notes seem unreachable on this It took me a while to write this review—almost a month. Whitney doesn’t have the vocal chops she used to. song, where an old Whitney would’ve soared to the heavens I know that sounds like the by- product of ADD or mild re- She’s still a great singer — it’s an unbreakable talent. It’s just just to bring back a note that would leave you gasping for tardation, but the truth is at first I just couldn’t separate what not as polished as it used to be. This shows on the album’s air. Whitney should be and what she is here. It wouldn’t have next track, “Nothing But Love,” the slinky anthem produced “Like I Never Left” is a mess of a song that has Whitney been a fair review. What we have here is the product of a by Danja (Timbaland’s protégé). It’s a powerhouse track paired up with Akon...because someone thought that’d be a woman who unfortunately went through a time in her life that has Whitney addressing her “haters” while belting to the good idea. Akon can sing…sure, yeah, the voice of an an- -- continued on page 26

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD september 25, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q 23 to avoid I wrote about in Rule #8, but I think sit down and talk to one of those couples, with someone only to find out you’re not sex- single it’s important enough to merit its own rule. In I bet you’d find out that, while it might have ually compatible. That’s a whole other can of the last column, I mentioned dating someone seemed like love at first sight, they actually worms. black sheep who definitely tried to rush things. In reality, spent a lot of time and effort getting to know So slow it down, already! If he or she Josh Aterovis I dated a string of guys who wanted to skip each other and fashioning a successful is really “the one,” they’re not going any- the whole getting-to-know-each-other stage relationship. where. For the record, that was just a figure and get right to the old-married-couple part. It’s a lot like building a house. You can’t of speech. I don’t really believe there is only One guy was planning what dogs we just skip the foundation because it takes too one true love out there for each person, but were going to get the first time we met. The long. If you do, your whole house will fall my point is the same: Take your time and do Rules of Gay next guy wanted to have an intimate dinner down around you when the first storm comes it right. This might be the only chance you at his house that ended in his bedroom for along. get with that particular person. Don’t screw our first real date. Another guy started talk- Now, every relationship is different, so it up by skipping the foundation. Until next Dating #9: ing about my moving in with him and intro- what kind of foundation you build and how time...Happy Dating! duced me to his parents on our second date. long it takes will differ from couple to cou- That same guy also changed his relationship ple. One thing they will all have in common, * * * * Where’s the status to “in a relationship” after that second though, is a period of time where you get to (and last) date. It just doesn’t work like that, know each other. What ever happened to Have a question about dating or relation- guys. There’s no such thing as an instant re- courtship? It seems like such a quaint, old- ships? Or maybe you have a crazy dating Fire? lationship: Just add water! fashioned concept in our modern, fast-pace story to share. If you have a question or sto- Why are we in such a hurry these days? society, but there’s something to be said for ry, email me at singleblacksheep@joshat- In Rule #7, I referenced the old lesbian U- Where’s the fire? Is your biological clock taking the time to woo the object of your af- erovis.com. If I use your story or question in Haul joke, but let’s be honest, it’s not like gay really ticking that loudly? I understand that fection. And come on, who doesn’t want to be a column, you’ll go into a drawing for a copy guys are any different. And I’m sure there deep down we all want to be loved, and wooed? Take a little time to get to know each of my new book, All Lost Things, due out in are many straights who would freely admit love in return, but strong relationships take other before declaring yourself boyfriends. October. they’re not much better, either — although time to develop. We’ve all heard stories of And while we’re on the subject, don’t they do tend to have the whole straight-guy- love at first sight, or couples who met each necessarily rush into bed either. Nothing afraid-of-commitment thing going on. Over other and just knew, but there’s a difference complicates a relationship faster than sex. Sign up online now for free all, though, I’d say rushing is one of the sur- between attraction and building a relation- Give your budding bond a break and bide a est ways of dooming a relationship. ship — or, for that matter, even between love bit before biting the bullet. But don’t wait too home delivery of OUTloud. Rushing was actually one of the things and a successful relationship. If you really long...you don’t want to fall head over heels www.baltimoreoutloud.com

24 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD september 25, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com those of white men and women, thus the are all too familiar. It’s almost a “have your whole. unboxed name of this article, “The Big Show” be- cake and eat it too” situation. We get to enjoy We need your voices. Show Up. I re- cause until blacks begin to “show” up we will the freedoms that come along with the fight; member how proud I felt when Barack w/ ajar continue to be an easy target or scapegoat. i.e. the club and gay pride celebrations, but Obama won the election ‘cause in that mo- larry walker The sad truth is that black gay people when there is work to be done we don’t show ment I could be and do anything, only to be seem disengaged when it comes to conver- up. In order for many of us to show up we will reminded that as a black gay man in this sations of equality and marriage; thus if the first need to grow up in the way that we see country I was once seen as less than a citi- gays aren’t engaged it can only be assumed ourselves and want more for our lives. zen with merely three fifths of my rights in that the black straight people aren’t either. Another growing fad amongst black tact. Christianity has been used as a way to gal- gays is that of “acting straight.” This is gen- We have to show up because until we The Big Show vanize people against gay marriage; we all erally regarding the level of masculinity that do we are visitors in our own home. have heard the saying “God created Adam a man has. Yet if you’re a person who en- and Eve, not Adam and Steve.” Given the deavors to “act straight” the last thing you In a post-Prop8 world there has come a time fact that blacks are largely Christian it isn’t would do is show support of a gay cause. that as a community we all must show a col- hard to believe that some people connected Many of us belong to churches that on a lective face when it comes to issues of equal those dots, and have come up with a picture weekly basis fill our heads with anti-gay rhet- human rights for all people. It has become a that justifies blaming blacks for Prop 8. oric, that at the end of the day has us feel- convenient vice to “blame the blacks” for the In no way do I believe that blacks are ing that being gay is a sinful condition and, Proposition 8 decision. It’s a rationale that solely responsible for the calamity in Califor- therefore, we don’t deserve equal rights. I couldn’t be further from how I feel about this nia, but the fervent protests that came out of have heard some of the mostly spirited op- situation, though I can see the logic. many black churches against gay marriage position to gay marriage from gay religious Now many of you will read this state- were a destructive force. Just as destructive, people, black and white. ment quizzically, wondering how I can see however, was the silence and inaction that This leaves me to question “Who is this logic in blaming blacks for the reversal of came out of the black gay community. Yes, God that wouldn’t want happiness for all of marriage rights to Californians? The reason silence can be just as bad as opposition. his children?” that this isn’t strange to me is that there is a It has become a growing trend amongst I’m not a religious person, but the God large disparity between blacks and whites in black gays to separate ourselves from the that I know wouldn’t damn me to a life of the area of gay activism. larger gay community when it comes to lend- emptiness and promiscuity, a life of perse- When there is a gay cause to be cham- ing our voices to the fight for freedom and cution and sub-humanity. That isn’t God. It’s pioned, the faces at the forefront are often equality—a fight that we as black people the status quo. God wants you happy and

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This prelim clubs in attendance. else someone else’s hands have to the Mr. Mid-Atlantic Leather Contest held (If you don’t have touched. If this makes you look like a each January in Washington, D.C. is always your club colors with germ fanatic, well…this is an appropriate a first-class event. This year John Truzzo- you, should you be time to be a germ fanatic! lino of New York, who also has a vacation in the parade of col- • Avoid crowded places as much as you home in Rehoboth Beach, was selected Mr. ors? Oh well, maybe reasonably can. Go to the grocery late Double L Leather 2009 and Chris Riss of they were sewing at night. Sit in the part of the bus that’s Rehoboth was 1st Runner-Up. new ones.....) less crowded. Avoid unnecessary air The Meet and Greet held at the bar Hats off to con- travel - airplanes are very efficient places on Friday, September 18th was very infor- test producer Patrick to transmit airborne disease. Entertain mal with no introductions of judges or con- Grady (Mr. Double friends at home instead of going to a testants. The only speech of the evening L. Leather 2003) bar or a crowded theater. Don’t visit sick involved Mr. Mid-Atlantic Leather 1989 who gave everyone friends who might have flu-call and send Dan Noel, who was the tally master for the the perfect end to flowers or food. contest, standing on a chair and welcoming the summer. I had • If you’re sick, stay home. Your everyone. a great time with so coworkers will not thank you for your Dan was all smiles all weekend as he many dear friends conscientiousness if you come to work has just moved into a stunning new house such as Mr. Club XS sick and share your illness. just outside of Rehoboth. (Mr. Maryland Leather 2009 Dave Stay well! Leather 2007 Sir Steve offered to host an af- Shover (who asked —Dr. Eva ter-hours cigar party at Dan’s new place. The me to be in his ben- white carpets and furniture are just beautiful- efit show on October Dr. Eva Hersh is Chief Medical Officer at but unfortunately Dan declined.) 24th at Club XS in Chase Brexton Health Services. Dan went on to announce that it was not York, Pa. I wouldn’t too late to enter the contest (there were only miss it!) and Mr. Maryland Leather 2008 Kris contestants for January’s Mr. Mid-At- Send your comments and questions by two contestants at this point), and he add- DeBlase who telephoned a few hours before lantic Leather 2010 Contest being se- email at [email protected] or ed that even if someone forgot to pack the the contest to ask if I wanted to go out for lected. (The week before the Mr. Double by surface mail to Eva Hersh MD, Chase leather there were enough leather folks in a drink. When I replied I’m in Rehoboth, he L Leather Contest, James Botelho from Brexton Health Services, 1001 Cathedral the house who could help out a newcomer. laughed and said, “Surprise, so am I!” New Haven was selected Mr. Connecticut St., Baltimore, MD 21201 Dan’s little speech must have worked September is such a beautiful time at Leather.) as four contestants graced the stage on Sat- the beach and as I relaxed in the hot tub It is hard to believe that this year TUNE IN OR TUNE OUT urday night: Chris Riss of Rehoboth Beach, at the Shore Inn across from the Double L is starting to come to a close, but when -- continued from page 23 Bill Forrest from Baltimore, John Truzzolino Bar after the contest with Mr. Mid-Atlantic the curtain goes up on the New Year in from NY and Rehoboth and Bob Sprout from Leather 2009 Kip Hollar and other friends, Washington during MAL Weekend, it will where was she lost. Lewes. Del. we discussed how it is exciting to see the once again be time for a really big show! While her voice isn’t in top condition, This year’s judges were: “The First Lady the soul and the drive is there. She keeps of Leather” Mary Elizabeth Boyd, Mr. Double the tracks fresh without selling out, and L Leather 2000 Mark Teasedale (who also while not everything here works, what does did a beautiful job singing the National An- work more than picks up the slack. I wel- them at the start of the contest), leather come Whitney Houston back to music. She columnist Vern Stewart, International Mr. deserves it, and this album is clearly a testa- Drummer 1994 Keith Hunt, and Mr. Double ment to that. L Leather 2008 Paul Masterson. Tune In. Mr. Mid-Atlantic Leather 2004 Steve Ranger, also former Mr. Double L Leather OUTloud’s queer TV guide: was the Den Daddy and Mid-Atlantic Leath- erboy 2009, boy eddie was the Judge’s Boy. www.baltimoreoutloud.com Doing another flawless job as emcee was Mr. Mid-Atlantic Leather 1993 Frank No- Sign up online now for free wicki. No one does a better job keeping a contest moving especially when there is no home delivery of OUTloud. filler entertainment. www.baltimoreoutloud.com

26 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD september 25, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com SCOTT NEVINS followed it up with “Recessionista: Cheaper BR:…..so you’re a virgin…. ernment singles out legally married same- -- continued from the front page than a tank of gas” so now I do a combina- SN: ….(laughs) It’s so great that a theatre sex couples for discriminatory treatment tion of those two show which is what you company is doing all these shows all year under federal law, selectively denying them for TV Land. I did the red carpet for the Joan guys will see in Baltimore. long and my reason for wanting to help them more than 1,100 federal protections and re- Rivers Roast, the one for Michael Douglas (do great shows) is that somewhere, in my sponsibilities – including Social Security and AFI salute and the TV Land awards. BR: So you have written these shows to- head, there is this little kid, boy or girl, who immigration benefits – that otherwise apply tally yourself? comes and sees the shows there and that is to married couples. BR: You are a busy guy…. SN: Oh yeah. A lot of the reviews have what inspires them to become a performer. This policy is discriminatory and harm- SN: …Yes I am happier when I am busy so deemed me the male Kathy Griffin. The The same way it did for me when my ful to families, preventing the government it’s fun and I love working. Besides all that best quote we have is- ‘a young, sexy, gayer Aunt Grace took me to see (the Broadway from honoring its legal commitments and I have been on the road doing my shows. I Kathy Griffin.’ She’s a little meaner than I am musical) 42nd Street when I was 4 years the needs of families, even though these now have two weeks off so I am headed to so mine is more fun. I am a storyteller, not old. It changed my life. I talk about that in couples have assumed the obligations of New York. a comic. I talk about my family and dating the show. It’s something that I feel strongly civil marriage under state law and contribute plus working with celebrities and working in about since we are losing arts education in as citizens and taxpayers. BR: How did you get started especially my vocal impressions. It’s a Vegas-y type the schools. Arts and Music. when branching out and doing so many show. I love doing a live show. I don’t make fun ELLEN / AMERICAN IDOL different things? I have a very mixed fan base: straight of people in the audience. The people in the -- continued from page 18 SN: I started with a live talk show, not tele- women, gay guys and a lot of straight guys front row are safe. There is an energy in the vised, in this new place called THERAPY in who come with their girlfriends who are com- room that you can’t control sometimes so it’s For these reasons, the producers have NYC. I was producing all the weekly shows ing back because they like it. One guy said fun to play off of it. It’s thrilling and danger- tinkered with the original winning formula when they opened and I wanted to do a live to me after one of the shows; he said “you’re ous at the same time. and added the fourth judge among other talk show and we called it SCOTT NEVINS kinda like the guy next door who just hap- tweaks. What they have not remedied is the PRESENTS, and it kind of caught on. The pens to be gay. Anyway my girlfriend loved BR: You have covered all my questions flawed and seemingly unfair voting process audience, especially the gay audience is you and I think you’re fucking funny.” They and I didn’t even ask that many of them. whereby “tweens” and others can text in very set in their ways and they are tough get it…. SN: You can ask me anything you want. I am their votes by the hundreds because of their unless you are a screaming, singing black game for anything. Since it’s a benefit I will passion towards a particular contestant. woman or a drag Queen. BR: ….and you are so quick. From the get half naked and do sexual favors after the There have been unconfirmed reports The gay audience will look at me back Broadway Cares videos that I have seen show for anyone who pays double for their that Clay Aiken’s home state of North Caro- in the day when I first started and they didn’t you host you pull the funniest stuff from ticket. I will spice up the pot a little bit. lina was virtually blocked out of the voting know what to do with me. I was a guy who nowhere, turn it inside out and everyone during the finals due to “technological” rea- was up there and I wasn’t singing, I wasn’t goes hysterical. BR: He’s only kidding but watch out Bal- sons. Similar horror stories surfaced con- stripping and I wasn’t in drag. And that was SN: Thank you, you’re sweet. I think I get it timore, Scott is coming……………. cerning the voting in this past season’s final all they had ever seen. from my big family. And I am very politically between the charismatic and talented (and I was one of the first guys ever to have active. I am watching CNN and MSNBC as All tickets are $25 and may be ordered at yes, gay) Adam Lambert and the boy-next- their own solo show in New York. But after we speak. I make a lot of political speeches www.spotlighters.org - just click on tickets. door crooner Kris Allen. Some have even about two months, a lot of work, and trial which is a whole other side people don’t re- Will Call Reservations will be taken at 410- suspected the outcome is rigged. and error I booked Tammy Faye Baker to ally know about. 752-1225 or [email protected]. There Nonetheless, notice how all the buzz on come on and it just took off from there. We is more info at the website - just click on the recent Idol tour was about Lambert as had tons and tons of celebrity guest stars BR: When Fuzz (managing/artistic direc- Tickets for 2009-2010. opposed to Allen. Look at the commercial and they are all listed on my website (www. tor of the Spotlighters) told me that he success of Aiken compared to Ruben Stud- scottnevins.com). It really became the thing had booked you for their fundraiser I said REPEAL dard—his competitor and winner of Idol’s to do in town and it made my name there. WOW, your kidding, he’s wonderful. And -- continued from the front page second season. Does winning the title actu- From there I did Sirius radio for about a year he said I know we have to let Baltimore ally matter? Or is talent and popularity the plus some TV stuff while still doing the live know that everyone has to come and see as more states recognize the commitment of real winning formula? shows once in a while. his shows. (A Friday late show may be loving same-sex couples and their families, As we embark on Season 9, Ellen De- added if the earlier show sells out.) it’s time for this law to go into the history Generes is expected to create buzz of her BR: Would you call what you do on the SN: When are you coming? books where it belongs.” Solmonese offered own. In show business, buzz, especially if road stand-up? remarks at the press conference where the positive, often equals success. SN: I had never done comedy before and BR: The Friday show. introduction of the bill was announced. ellen should save American Idol, at I don’t consider myself a comedian, which SN: Oh good, you’ll see the first one. The Rep. Donna Edwards (D-4th Congres- least for now. confuses people. I only say that because I raw, uncensored version as we see what sional District) was the sole original co- have great respect for comedians because works and what doesn’t. sponsor of RMA from the Maryland delega- JOSH ATEROVIS they have spent many many years working in tion. Interim Managing Director for Equality -- continued from page 19 horrible clubs trying to work out the material BR How structured is your show? Do you Maryland, David Toth, said in a statement, and I headlined at Carolines on Broadway: have a set script or material to draw from “Equality Maryland’s members are brimming JA: Well, I don’t consider myself a photogra- the dream spot for a lot of people. I walked flowing from what is working with an au- with appreciation and pride that one Mary- pher by any stretch, but writing is definitely in there as a headliner because they knew I dience? land Congressperson - Donna Edwards my passion, so it’s a no-brainer — I’d choose could pull in an audience. SN: It’s a combination of my two shows, kind – has spoken clearly that she stands for the author. of a ‘Best of’ version of the greatest hits plus equal government treatment of all families. BR: Which took you to another level. a lot of new stuff. I write new material every- We urge other members of our congressio- Josh Aterovis will be participating at an “Au- SN: Then I started doing these one-man the- where I go especially with all the craziness nal delegation to add their names to this fun- thors’ Night” event on October 13 sponsored atre shows. The first was “Do you know who going on in the world. I have never played damental human rights legislation.” by the Columbia/Howard County chapter I think I am?” which started as a pet project Baltimore….. Through DOMA, which was signed into of PFLAG. See Out and About for more that grew and grew so I took it on the road. I law on September 21, 1996, the federal gov- information.

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