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CONGREGATION BETH EL ATERETH ISRAEL High Holiday Guide Table of Contents Rabbi's Message ON ROSH HASHANAH, the shofar is intended Rabbi’s Message .................................................. 3 to awaken us to focus on what is really important in life. During the rest of the year we often get caught up Schedule of Services .......................................... 4 in the details of daily living and are distracted from concentrating on what is truly significant in our lives. Customs for Rosh Hashanah - Simanim .......... 5 This past year, many have already begun that process due to the Covid health crisis that has taken over Suggested Readings ........................................... 6 the world. The frailty of human existence echoed During the Yomim Noraim in the Unesana Tokef prayer has been brought home too starkly, as we all know individuals who have Rosh Hashanah Ritual Guide ............................. 7 been struck with this illness, and some who have succumbed. Yom Kippur Ritual Guide .................................... 9 We have developed a heightened sense of obligation Customs for Erev Yom Kippur to behave in a responsible and safe manner while — Blessing sons and daughters .............. 10 maintaining a close connection with family, friends and community members. Having to distance — Kapparot.................................................11 ourselves from each other to one degree or another has given us a deeper appreciation of how important Sukkot ...................................................................12 connecting to each other means to us. We often take — The Four Species things for granted until they are taken from us. — Succah Building Reminders Through the Yomim Noraim we ask Hashem to — Shabbat and Yom Tov Candles in the Succah remember us for "chayim," for life, and to write us in the book of "chayim," of life. The Hebrew word "chaim" technically is a plural form of the word "chay" which means life in the singular. Why, when we pray as individuals, do we pray for life in the plural? Perhaps because living life without being able to share it with others is not really living at all. We all feel that sentiment so profoundly this year. May we be blessed this year not only with life, but with "Chayim" the privilege of being able to share life with each other in a full and meaningful way. Kesiva V’chasima Tovah שנה טובה Rabbi Gershon Segal HIGH HOLIDAY GUIDE / 3 HIGH HOLY DAYS - 5782 Schedule of Services Selichot Erev Sukkot - Monday, September 20 August 28 11:00 pm Candle Lighting 6:26 pm August 29-Sept 2 7:35 pm September 5 7:30 am Mincha/Maariv 6:40 pm September 6 7:00 am Sukkot- First Day - Tuesday, September 21 September 9 6:30 am/7:30 pm Shacharit 7:30 am & 9:00 am September 12 7:30 am/7:20 pm September 13 7:20 pm Mincha/Maariv 6:35 pm September 15 7:00 am Candle Lighting after 7:27 pm Erev Rosh Hashanah—Monday, September 6 Sukkot - Second Day– Wednesday, September 22 Morning Selichot 7:00 am Shacharit 7:30 am & 9:00 am Candle Lighting 6:51 pm Mincha/Maariv 6:35 pm Mincha/Ma’ariv 7:00 pm Havdallah after 7:25 pm Rosh Hashanah—Tuesday & Wednesday, Sept 7 & 8 Chol Hamoed– Thursday, September 23 Shacharit Outdoor/Indoor 8:00 am/8:30 am Shacharit 6:45 am Torah Reading Outdoor/Indoor 9:00 am/9:30 am Mincha /Maariv 6:35 pm Shofar Outdoor/Indoor 9:30 am/10:00 am Erev Shabbat Chol Hamoed –Friday, September 24 Shofar Only Session RH Day 1 Outdoor 1:00/4:30 pm Shacharit 6:45 am Shofar Only Session RH Day 2 Outdoor 1:00 pm Tashlich (Only Tuesday afternoon) Candle Lighting before 6:19 pm Mincha/Maariv 6:20 pm Mincha/Maariv 6:35 pm Candle Lighting (Tuesday) after 7:52 pm Shabbat Chol Hamoed– Saturday, September 25 Havdallah (Wednesday) after 7:50 pm Shacharit 7:30 am/9:00 am Tzom Gedaliah—Thursday, September 9 Mincha/Maariv 6:10 pm Fast Begins 4:52 am Havdallah 7:20 pm Morning Selichot/Shacharit 6:30 am Chol Hamoed– Sunday, September 26 Mincha /Maariv 6:40 pm Shacharit 8:00 am Fast Ends 7:33 pm Selichot 7:30 pm Mincha/Maariv 6:30 pm Shabbat Shuva - Saturday, September 11 Hoshana Rabbah - Monday, September 27 Shacharit 7:30/9:00 am Shacharit 6:30 am Mincha 6:35 pm Candle Lighting 6:14 pm Shabbat Shuva Drasha 7:00 pm Mincha/Maariv 6:25 pm Maariv 7:35 pm Shemini Atzeret - Tuesday, September 28 Havdallah 7:45 pm Shacharit 7:30 am / 9:00 am Erev Yom Kippur—Wednesday, September 15 Yizkor Selichot 7:00 am Mincha 2:30 pm Mincha/Maariv 6:25 pm Candle Lighting before 6:35 pm Simchat Torah Hakafot 7:00 pm Kol Nidrei 6:45 pm Candle Lighting after 7:15 pm Yom Kippur — Thursday, September 16 Simchat Torah - Wednesday, September 29 Shacharit Indoor/Outdoor 8:30 am Shacharit 7:30 am & 9:15 am Torah Reading 9:30 am Simchat Torah Hakafot Yizkor 10:00 am Mincha/Maariv 6:25 pm Mincha 5:30 pm Havdallah 7:13 pm Neilah 6:30 pm after Maariv 7:36 pm Fast Over/Havdallah 7:36 pm 4 / CONGREGATION BETH EL ATERETH ISRAEL CUSTOMS FOR ROSH HASHANA – EVENING MEALS Simanim During the evening meals of Rosh Hashana there are several customs. Choose from your tradition. DATES: A blessing of “Boray Pree Ha’etz” is recited (having in mind all the tree fruit that you intend to eat during the meal) after which dates are eaten then say: ְי ִהי ָרצוֹ ן ִ)מ ְּל ָפ ֶני ָך, ה׳ ֱא ֵלֹק ּינו ֵוא ֵלֹקי ֲאבוֹ ֵת ּנו,( ׁ ֶשִי ּ ַת ּמו שׂוֹ ְנ ֵא ּינו. Yehee ratzon sheyitamu sonaynu v’oyvenu. “May it be Thy will that our adversaries be eradicated.” This is a phonemic symbol. The Hebrew word temarim dates sounds similar to the yitamo (to eradicate). POMEGRANATES: One then eats the pomegranates and before eating recites: ְי ִהי ָרצוֹ ן ִ)מ ְּל ָפ ֶני ָך, ה׳ ֱא ֵלֹק ּינו ֵוא ֵלֹקי ֲאבוֹ ֵת ּנו,( ׁ ֶש ִנְר ֶּבה ְּזכֻיוֹ ת ְּכִר ּמוֹ ן. Yehee ratzon shenarbeh zchuyos k’rimon. “May it be Thy will that we have a multitude of merits like (the seeds of) the pomegranate.” APPLE IN HONEY: An apple is dipped into the honey and before eating the following is recited: ְי ִהי ָרצוֹ ן ִ)מ ְּל ָפ ֶני ָך, ה׳ ֱא ֵלק ֹּינו ֵוא ֵלקֹי ֲאבוֹ ֵת ּנו‚( שׁ ּ ְת ַחֵדשׁ ָע ֵל ּינו ׁ ָש ָנה טוֹ ָבה ּו ְמ ּתו ָקה. Yehee ratzon shetchadesh olaynu shana tova umesuka. “May it be Thy will to usher in upon us a good and sweet year.” FISH: Before eating fish the following is recited: ְי ִהי ָרצוֹ ן ִ)מ ְּל ָפ ֶני ָך, ה׳ ֱא ֵלֹק ּינו ֵוא ֵלֹקי ֲאבוֹ ֵת ּנו,( ׁ ֶש ִנ ְפֶרה ְו ִנְר ֶּבה ְּכָד ִגים. Yehee ratzon shenifreh v’nirbeh k’dogim. “May it be Thy will that we be fruitful and multiply like fish.” FISH HEAD: Before tasting the fish head the following is recited: ְי ִהי ָרצוֹ ן ְּ)מל ָפ ֶני ָך, ה׳ ֱא ֵלֹק ּינו ֵוא ֵלֹקי ֲאבוֹ ֵת ּנו,( ׁ ֶש ִנ ְהֶיה ְלרֹאשׁ ְולֹא ְל ָזנ ָב. Yehee ratzon shehneeyeh l’rosh vlo I’zonov. “May it be Thy will that we be likened to the head. not to the tail.” CARROTS: Before eating carrot tzimmes the following is recited: ְי ִהי ָרצוֹ ן ִ)מ ְּל ָפ ֶני ָך, ה׳ ֱא ֵלֹק ּינו ֵוא ֵלֹקי ֲאבוֹ ֵת ּנו,( ׁ ֶשִיְר ּב ּו ְז ֻּכיוֹ ֵת ּנו. Yehee ratzon sheyirbu zechuyosenu. “May it be Your will that our merits increase. “ The Yiddish word for carrots ‘mehren’ is similar to the Yiddish word mehr which means more. NEW FRUIT: On the second evening of Rosh Hashana it is customary to eat a new fruit—one which had not been eaten since last Rosh Hashana. Since there is some question as to whether or not the blessing of Shehecheyanu should be said at kiddush on the second night of Rosh Hashana … when the Shecheyanu is recited one should also have in mind the new fruit. Even if one does not have a new fruit, Shehecheyanu is recited in the kiddush. The new fruit is eaten after the Hamotzie and eating of the Challah. NUTS: There is a custom to refrain from eating nuts on Rosh Hashana. The Hebrew word for nut is ‘egoz’ which has the same numerical value as the Hebrew word ‘chet’ which means sins. HIGH HOLIDAY GUIDE / 5 SUGGESTED READINGS DURING THE YOMIM NORAIM Since davening time in shul will be reduced due to Covid safety concerns, we will have an opportuni- ty to spend more time in study and reflection at home. Below are a few suggested titles one can easily obtain before the chag. If you are looking for more suggested reading material on a specific topic, don’t hesitate to contact Rabbi Segal at [email protected] The Koren Sacks Rosh HaShana Mahzor https://korenpub.com/collections/mahzorim/products/the-koren-sacks-rosh-hashana-mahzorhardcovercom- pactashkenaz The Koren Sacks Yom Kippur Mahzor https://korenpub.com/collections/mahzorim/products/the-koren-sacks-yom-kippur-mahzorhardcovercompac- tashkenaz Machzor Mesoras HaRav – Yom Kippur with commentary adapted from the teachings of Rabbi Joseph B. Soloveitchik https://oupress.org/product/machzor-mesoras-harav-yom-kippur/ Machzor Mesoras HaRav – Rosh Hashana with commentary adapted from the teachings of Rabbi Joseph B. Soloveitchik https://oupress.org/product/machzor-mesoras-harav-rosh-hashana/ A variety of Artscroll Machzorim https://www.artscroll.com/Items.aspx?hierId=MAC Machzor The Artscroll Children's Machzor for Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur https://www.artscroll.com/Books/macch.html On Repentance Author: Rabbi Joseph B.