Freedom to Serve Guide Pulls Its Name from Our Organization’S Vision
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S E C O N D E D I T I O N 8 FREEDOM TO SERVE: THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE TO LGBTQ MILITARY SERVICE THE VISION Freedom to Serve. THE MISSION Representing the U.S. LGBTQ military community worldwide. Our mission is to: educate the community, provide legal services, advocate for authentic transgender service, provide developmental opportunities, support members and local chapters, communicate effectively, and work towards equality for all. ACKNOWLEDGMENTS OutServe-SLDN acknowledges the authors and editors of this second edition of the Freedom to Serve publication, in alphabetical order by last name: Andy Blevins, Kai River Blevins, Paul Charas, Corrine Cole, Peter Perkowski, Dimitri Pixley, Jeffry Priela-Tam, Felipe Rendón, Hanna Tripp, and Matt Thorn. The acknowledgments for assistance and advice with the second edition of this publication echo and should be read in conjunction with the gratitude to the authors, contributors, and editors that was extended through the publication’s first edition. Copyright © 2018 OutServe-SLDN, Inc. All rights reserved. OutServe-SLDN copyrighted publications are protected under copyright law. Permission is given to download for individual use, to link to pages of this guide on the site, www.outserve-sldn.org, and to copy materials provided that all copyright notices and disclaimers are contained thereon. FREEDOM TO SERVE: THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE TO LGBTQ MILITARY SERVICE i A MESSAGE FROM OUR LEGAL & POLICY DIRECTOR Dear Friends, Here at OutServe-SLDN, we are committed to the idea that all capable individuals willing to selflessly serve our nation deserve to do so honorably, openly, and authentically. Since 1993, we have proudly dedicated our services and programming to defend LGBTQ servicemembers and veterans that have and continue to serve us. This much-anticipated, second installment of the Freedom to Serve guide pulls its name from our organization’s vision. This booklet was first released at the repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” providing immediate guidance as lesbian, gay, and bisexual members began serving openly without fear of separation. Since our first installment, the Defense of Marriage Act has been repealed, prompting the Departments of Defense and Veterans Affairs to finally recognize our spouses in ways their heterosexual counterparts always have been. This edition of the publication provides additional information on some of the more nuanced changes that have come to pass in the last six years. While we have seen great progress in equitable justice, representation, and support for portions of our community, we continue to work tirelessly to ensure our transgender siblings are afforded those same essential liberties. Much of the information in this guide will prove to be helpful to transgender servicemembers, veterans, and hopeful recruits. We will continue to push out additional guidance as we can and would be happy to speak with any transgender servicemembers about any specific issues they are facing. This publication is intended to be a general resource for you and your loved ones while you navigate military service as a member of the LGBTQ community. But every case is different; in this publication, it is impossible for us to provide particularized advice for every scenario you might encounter. We encourage you to reach out to our legal staff for any specific guidance you may need. Our services have always been, and will continue to be, completely free to you and your families. Thank you for your commitment to this country, we look forward to continuing to advocate for you. Yours in Service, Peter E. Perkowski Legal & Policy Director FREEDOM TO SERVE: THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE TO LGBTQ MILITARY SERVICE ii OUR STAFF Andy Blevins, Executive Director Navy Veteran • Trans Army Veteran Spouse Peter Perkowski, Legal & Policy Director Kai River Blevins, Director of Education & Veteran Services Trans Army Veteran Corrine Cole, Legal & Policy Manager Scott Davis, Education & Advocacy Program Manager Air Force Service Member Bridget Lawson, Legal & Policy Associate Ashley Carothers, Chapter Leaders Quorum Chair Air Force Veteran • Army Spouse Matthew Hardwig, Chapter Leaders Quorum Vice Chair Air Force Service Member • Air Force Spouse OUR BOARD OF DIRECTORS Wesley Reynolds, MD, Co-Chair • Joshua Fontanez, Co-Chair Air Force Veteran Army Service Member Monique Clarke, Secretary • Jeffery Mueller, Treasurer Marine Corps Service Member Air Force Service Member Lars Anderson • Shaina Barnes • Nathaniel Boehme • Ariana Bostian-Kentes Air Force Veteran Navy Veteran Air Force Service Member Army Spouse Sharon Brackett • Danyell Brenner • Ben Finzel • John Harry • Tracey Hepner Navy Service Member Air Force Veteran Army Spouse Bryan Hlavinka • John Klenert • Jeffry Priela • Hanna Tripp • Todd Weiler • Mica Willis Navy Service Member Air Force Veteran Army Veteran OUR MILITARY & VETERANS ADVISORY COUNCIL Lindsay Church, Co-Chair & Steven Proctor, Co-Chair Navy Veteran Army Service Member Sarah Alder • Amanda Brewer • Ashley Broadway-Mack • Todd Burton Army Veteran Army Spouse Army Spouse Army Retiree Andres Camilo Hernandez • Charlotte Clymer • Jennifer Dane • Blake Dremann Army Veteran Trans Army Veteran Air Force Veteran Trans Navy Veteran John Fiorentine • Jessica Girven • Nick Harrison • Laila Ireland • Kody Parsons Coast Guard Veteran Air Force Spouse Army Service Member Trans Army Veteran Air Force Service Member & Trans Air Force Spouse Matthew Phelps • Gene Silvestri • E.J. Smith • Brynn Tannehill • Meg Zajac Marine Corps Service Member Trans Army Veteran Marine Corps Partner Trans Navy Veteran Trans Navy Veteran Spouse FREEDOM TO SERVE: THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE TO LGBTQ MILITARY SERVICE iii CHAPTERS WITHIN THE CONTINENTAL UNITED STATES (CONUS) Chapter Name E-mail Address Alabama & Georgia [email protected] Arizona [email protected] Arkansas [email protected] Southern California [email protected] Central California [email protected] Northern California [email protected] Colorado & Wyoming [email protected] Northern Florida [email protected] Southern Florida [email protected] Idaho [email protected] Illinois [email protected] Indiana [email protected] Kansas & Missouri [email protected] Kentucky [email protected] Louisiana [email protected] Michigan [email protected] Mississippi [email protected] Nebraska [email protected] Nevada [email protected] New England [email protected] New Mexico [email protected] North Carolina [email protected] k Northern Tier Region [email protected] (North & South Dakota, Minnesota, Montana) New York & New Jersey [email protected] Ohio [email protected] Oklahoma [email protected] k Pacific Northwest Region [email protected] (Washington & Oregon) Pennsylvania [email protected] South Carolina [email protected] Tennessee [email protected] Texas [email protected] Utah [email protected] Virginia [email protected] k National Capital Region [email protected] (Washington, DC; Northern Virginia; Maryland) Wisconsin [email protected] FREEDOM TO SERVE: THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE TO LGBTQ MILITARY SERVICE iv CHAPTERS OUTSIDE THE CONTINENTAL UNITED STATES (OCONUS) Chapter Name E-mail Address Afghanistan & Iraq [email protected] Alaska [email protected] Bagram [email protected] Belgium [email protected] k Middle East Region [email protected] (Bahrain, Saudi Arabia, Qatar, UAE) Cuba [email protected] Europe [email protected] Germany [email protected] Guam [email protected] Hawaii [email protected] Italy [email protected] Japan [email protected] Korea [email protected] Kuwait [email protected] Lajes & Portugal [email protected] Okinawa [email protected] Puerto Rico [email protected] Spain [email protected] Turkey [email protected] United Kingdom [email protected] SUPPORT & RESOURCE FORUMS Forum Name E-mail Address Army [email protected] Air Force [email protected] Marine Corps [email protected] Navy [email protected] Coast Guard [email protected] National Guard & Reserves [email protected] Service Academies [email protected] Reserve Officer Training Corps (ROTC) [email protected] Non-commissioned Officers [email protected] Junior Officers [email protected] Senior Leaders [email protected] Transgender [email protected] Bisexual [email protected] Living with HIV [email protected] Christians [email protected] FREEDOM TO SERVE: THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE TO LGBTQ MILITARY SERVICE v ABOUT THIS PUBLICATION This guide provides lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBTQ) servicemembers with a comprehensive overview of the laws, policies, and practices that are relevant to their military service, as well as practical information for advocates and friends of LGBTQ servicemembers. OutServe-SLDN, Inc. (OS-SLDN) is a legal aid and advocacy organization devoted to ensuring equality in military service for LGBTQ servicemembers and to representing members of the military and their families against discriminatory policies and actions. OS-SLDN provides free, confidential legal assistance on any issue relating to the actual or perceived