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בס"ד CEREMONY & CELEBRATION FAMILY EDITION THIS SERIES IS BASED ON THE TEACHINGS AND WRITINGS OF זצ"ל RABBI LORD JONATHAN SACKS PESACH 5781 Educational content provided by Dr. Daniel Rose together with The Rabbi Sacks Legacy Trust Seder Night Companion SEDER NIGHT is a highlight of the Jewish calendar for parents This educational companion to Seder night will give you and children alike. It is the night that revolves around children, some ideas and thoughts on several of the core pages from and parents are reminded of the importance of their role as the Haggadah and how Rabbi Sacks understands them. As educators. (Thankfully the Haggadah gives them lots of tools well as educational insights, like all Ceremony & Celebration: and tips!) Family Editions, this Pesach instalment also includes activities, stories, and reflection questions in each section, designed to Rabbi Sacks zt”l explains that on the eve of the original Pesach, engage all the participants around your Seder table, young at the very moment when a new chapter in the life of the and old alike. Jewish people began, we found out what it means to be a Jew: “About to gain their freedom, the Israelites were told that they You will notice many extracts from Rabbi Sacks’ writings, had to become a nation of educators” (Radical Then, Radical all sourced from The Jonathan Sacks Haggada, published by Now, p. 32). Being a Jew means being both a student and an Koren. This guide is designed to be used in conjunction with educator, and Seder night is our opportunity to focus on both a Haggadah; it is not a replacement for one. these roles. מַ ה נִ ּ שְׁ ּתַ נָ ּ ה MA NISHTANAH yerushah, not a nachalah. It needs work ling testimony to the restlessness of the on behalf of the child if it is to be passed human spirit and its constant desire to IN A NUTSHELL on across the generations. go further, higher, deeper. Far from faith There are four places in the Torah where Commentary on Ma Nishtanah, excluding questions, questions testify to it speaks of children asking questions The Jonathan Sacks Haggada faith – that history is not random, that about Pesach – and each of these four the universe is not impervious to our How does Ma Nishtanah and the role verses are the sources for the four understanding, that what happens to us of children asking questions affect children’s questions (see page 4). This is not blind chance. We ask not because your experience of the Seder? inspired a tradition that the story of we doubt, but because we believe. the Exodus from Egypt must be told, The Art of Asking Questions, wherever possible, in response to the The Jonathan Sacks Haggada questions asked by children, and this is where the idea for the four questions in How is asking questions “an expres- Ma Nishtanah comes from. The origin sion of faith”? Doesn’t it show a lack of the text is the Mishnah (Pesachim of faith? 10:4) although the words have changed slightly over time to reflect our chang- ing practices (for instance, since the destruction of the Temple, we can no QUESTIONS TO THINK ABOUT longer bring the Korban, so the fifth AND ASK AT YOUR SEDER question (on serving roast meat) is no longer included in Ma Nishtanah). 1. Why do you think we encourage children to ask questions on Seder night? 2. Are there any bad questions? DEEP DIVE 3. Do all questions have answers? What do we do if no one we know The Torah has two words for inher- has the answer to a question? itance, yerushah and nachalah, and they represent the two different ways in which a heritage is passed on across the generations. The wordnachalah comes from the root nachal, which also means A STORY FOR THE ‘river’. It represents an inheritance that is NIGHT OF STORIES merely handed down, without any work Isidor Rabi won the Nobel Prize in on the part of the recipient, as water physics in 1944. When he was asked flows in a river.Yerushah , by contrast, FURTHER THOUGHTS why he became a scientist, he replied: means active inheritance. R. Shimshon Religious faith has often been seen as “My mother made me a scientist with- Raphael Hirsch pointed out that laresh- naive, blind, accepting. That is not the out ever intending to. Every other Jew- et, the verbal form of yerushah, some- Jewish way. Judaism is not the sus- ish mother in Brooklyn would ask her times means ‘to conquer’ or ‘to capture’. pension of critical intelligence. To the child after school: ‘So? Did you learn It means actively taking hold of what contrary: asking a question is itself a anything today?’ But not my mother. one has been promised. An inheritance profound expression of faith in the intel- ‘Izzy,’ she would say, ‘Did you ask a good for which one has worked is always ligibility of the universe and the mean- question today?’ Asking good questions more secure than one for which one ingfulness of human life. To ask is to be- made me a scientist.” has not. That is why Judaism encour- lieve that somewhere there is an answer. ages children to ask questions. When a The fact that throughout history people Do you get more invested in learn- child asks, they have already begun the have devoted their lives to extending ing when you are encouraged to ask work of preparing to receive. Torah is a the frontiers of knowledge is a compel- questions? 2 עֲבָדִ ים הָ יִינוּ AVADIM HAYINU Egypt, none of the subsequent events Judaism made this a matter of religious of Jewish history would have occurred. obligation. Pesach is where the past IN A NUTSHELL What and where we are now is the result does not die, but lives in the chapter we This is the beginning of theMaggid sec- of what happened then. write in our own lives, and in the story we tell our children. tion of the Haggadah – the main section There is a fundamental difference be- where we tell the story of the Exodus. tween knowing and telling the story. We History and Memory, It is also the start of the response to the do not tell the narrative of the Exodus The Jonathan Sacks Haggada questions asked in the Ma Nishtanah. to know what happened in the past. We Why do you think education has Before we delve into the depths of the do so because each telling engraves that story of the Exodus itself, the Haggadah become so important in Judaism, and event more thoroughly in our memo- what impact has that had on Jewish makes sure we realise how we are per- ries, and because each year adds its own sonally affected by this historical event. history? insights and interpretations. Judaism is It reminds us that if not for the Exodus, a constant dialogue between past and we would still be slaves in Egypt! This present, and since the present always passage also explains that the mitzvah of changes, there is always a new juxtaposi- telling the story of Exodus is for every- tion, a new facet of the story. The Sages QUESTIONS TO THINK ABOUT body, (even the old and wise) and the said, ‘There is no house of study without AND ASK AT YOUR SEDER story should be told at length to make it chiddush, some new interpretation.’ The impactful. 1. Why does the Haggadah say, “We story of Pesach never grows old, because were slaves in Egypt”? Were you a the struggle for freedom never ends, and slave in Egypt? therefore each generation adds its own commentary to the old-new story. 2. Do you like long stories? Why do you think the Haggadah tells us that DEEP DIVE Commentary on Avadim Hayinu, the longer we make this story, the The Jonathan Sacks Haggada One of the rules of telling the story on better? Pesach is that each person must feel as if What new aspect of the story, or the 3. Why does the Haggadah have to they had personally left Egypt. History Haggadah, have you discovered this point out that old and wise people becomes memory. The past becomes year? Share it with everyone at your still have to do this mitzvah? the present. At this stage, therefore, we Seder. speak of the continuing consequenc- es of the past. Had the Exodus not happened, and the Israelites stayed in FURTHER THOUGHTS EXPERIENCING THE SEDER To be a Jew is to know that over and On Seder night we try to feel as if we above history is the task of memory. As ourselves are being freed from slavery Jacob Neusner eloquently wrote: “Civi- in Egypt. During a point in the evening lisation hangs suspended, from gener- when the younger people seem less engaged (perhaps after we read of the ation to generation, by the gossamer Four Children, until it’s time for the Ten strand of memory. If only one cohort of Plagues) send them away from the table mothers and fathers fails to convey to to find costumes and prepare their own its children what it has learnt from its play of the Exodus from Egypt. parents, then the great chain of learning and wisdom snaps. If the guardians of They’ll have to work quickly! To make human knowledge stumble only one it more challenging, you could ask the time, in their fall collapses the whole adults to choose a new genre for the edifice of knowledge and understand- play, such as adventure, science-fiction, ing” (Neusner on Judaism: Religion and or fantasy.