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PhoenixPhoenixBristol eastbayri.com THURSDAY, JANUARY 30, 2014 VOL. 178, NO. 5 $1.00 Police nab another resident in heroin investigation A Bristol teen is the lat- Jan. 23 on a warrant charge of delivering in for other people with their money and Mr. Silva posted a $5,000 surety bond Jan. est to be arrested follow- heroin. professed that he was not selling heroin for 23, and is due back in court April 24 for a ing a month-long nar- During the investigation, a confidential self-profit. pre-trial arraignment disposition confer- cotics investigation by informant for the police department According to the report, he told police ence. the Bristol Police Depart- allegedly bought heroin from Mr. Silva. The that he would buy about $70 of heroin daily On Jan. 10, Bristol police arrested six oth- ment. purchase took place on or about Jan. 8. for the past six months, keeping about $20- er Bristol residents for their alleged involve- Rilyn Silva, 18, of 12 While being interrogated, Mr. Silva worth that he had bought for his friends ment in the sale, distribution and use of Rilyn Silva Carol Ave., was arrested allegedly told police that he picked up hero- with their money. heroin. Putting the breaks on teen dating violence Mt. Hope girls’ group creates awareness video campaign BY CHRISTINE O’CONNOR [email protected] The girls chuckled, preparing for their skit. The skit is serious in nature, but a little bit of laughter helped ease their anxiety. Danah Sullivan, 15, was acting as the boyfriend in the scenario, while Mikayla Zupuis, 16, was the girlfriend. The two were pretending to be riding in a car. Mikayla was dri- ving. Suddenly, a text came through on Mikayla’s phone. “Who’s this?” Danah asked. “Who’s Alex?” “She’s a girl from my psychology class,” Mikayla replied, jovially. “We have plans tonight.” “No, you’re hanging out with me tonight,” Danah shot back, her PHOTOS BY RICHARD W. DIONNE JR. voice rising. “I own you, so you’re From left, Emily Cordeiro, Mikayla Zupuis, and Danah Sullivan brain storm ideas for their PSA about dating violence. not going anywhere.” Stunned, Mikayla defended her- ders, risky sexual behavior and throughout the day on the Husky self, announcing that Danah did- further domestic violence. News Network for the month of n’t own her. Half of those teens who are vic- February. Advocates of the cause With that, the argument tims of both dating violence and have designated that month to became physical. Danah tried rape attempt suicide, the study raising awareness about it. choking Mikayla, who swerved off concluded. “We’re hoping that students the road and crashed as a result. “Anecdotally, we have both seen learn more about it and take steps This is an example teen dating a student’s ability to be successful to prevent it,” said Alex Neris, 16, violence. in school be terribly affected if who’s working alongside Danah they are a victim, especially if and Mikayla. Teen Dating Violence there is previous trauma,” said “You should know when he Awareness Month Deb Knapman, a licensed clinical starts to treat you like property Though the interlude was brief, social worker who works with stu- and control you, that it’s not a it has lasting effects. dents at Mt. Hope High School. good relationship,” Danah added. According to a 2001 study pub- To raise awareness and combat “You should never be treated like lished by the Journal of American teen dating violence, a girls’ group anything but a person.” Medical Studies, teens in violent at Mt. Hope High School is pro- Teen relationships at Mt. Hope relationships are at a greater risk ducing several skits about the top- Videographer Kylie McPherson chats with a group about making a PSA about dating violence. Kylie is a student at Mt. Hope High School and for substance abuse, eating disor- ic, which will be broadcast See YES Page 8 works with the school’s Husky News Network. Frostbiter returns After nearly 80 years, classic dinghy comes home in great shape EAST BAY LIFE Page 2 Bristol Phoenix January 30, 2014 Bristol Phoenix January 30, 2014 Page 3 Facing ALS with faith and love St.Philomena alumna shares her story with eighth-graders BY JIM MCGAW [email protected] Afterward, Maura Hegarty admitted she had been nervous about asking such a sensitive question. Sitting in a wheelchair in front of her was Natalie Baron Swift, who in July 2011 was diagnosed with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS), a progressive neurodegen- erative disease. Maura, an eighth- grader at St. Philomena School, worked up her nerve and stood up. “Do you ever think about dying?” she asked. Mrs. Swift, a Warren resident who graduated from St. Philome- na in 1982, didn’t flinch. “I do,” Mrs. Swift said. “With ALS, it’s inevitable. But I’m at peace with it. It’s just a phase of life.” Mrs. Swift was invited to speak PHOTOS BY JIM MCGAW Friday by her friend, literature Natalie Baron Swift, who said her faith keeps her going, shows students the Scapular she always wears. “You just wear it and Mary does the rest,” teacher Pam Principe, whose she said. eighth-grade students had just finished reading “Tuesdays With n’t have ALS, I didn’t find that as Morrie.” In the bestselling book, much. Having a terminal illness is sports columnist Mitch Albom almost a blessing.” recounts his visits with Brandies Being prepared for death is eas- University Professor Morrie ier when you have a strong family, Schwartz, who was dying from said Mrs. Swift, a mother of six. St. Philomena ALS. “I’m not sad for myself. I’m sad School literature And now students, nervously for my husband and kids,” she teacher Pam holding pieces of paper with ques- said, adding that her family has Principe embraces tions they had prepared, had a always been her main support her friend, Natalie real-life ALS patient in front of system. “My parents have always Baron Swift, after them. been there for me. My husband is Friday’s presenta- Mrs. Swift, however, put them at a wonderful man and I’ve been so tion. Mrs. Swift ease right away. In the course of blessed. He works hard and graduated from about 40 minutes, she took every always comes home with a smile the school in 1982. question, answering in a straight- on his face.” forward manner without a trace of Despite her illness, she’s still a self-pity or tears. mom. “They don’t see me as sick, “You can ask me anything. You and I still yell at them. I can’t grab don’t have to worry about making them whenever I want and that me sad,” said Mrs. Swift, who did- serves them well,” she joked. n’t touch the box of tissues in her Not everyone can deal with day-to-day struggles living with “When I was diagnosed, I called Some of Mrs. Swift’s former lap. death, she acknowledged. “I feel ALS, a terminal disease that my sister; I was very upset. She teachers were at the presentation The only time she started to get like I have to be strong for others. affects nerve cells in the brain and said to me, ‘Just remember when including Paula Baker, who still emotional was when a student I’ve had friends who haven’t con- the spinal cord. Peter was with Jesus when he was teaches first grade at the school, asked her how ALS, also known as tacted me, and I thought they “Getting myself dressed — just walking on water.’ From that and Sister Imelda Toomey, who Lou Gehrig’s Disease, had might have,” Mrs. Swift said. daily living,” she said when a stu- moment on, there was just this came by to visit. “I’m really changed her outlook on life. But plenty of others have rallied dent asked about her struggles. peace that came over me. I can tell touched by your tremendous “You see the beauty in simple around her since she was first “It’s feeding myself. My hands are that people are praying for me courage and your honesty,” Sister things — just looking out the win- diagnosed. When a student asked getting weaker and weaker; I need constantly,” she said. Toomey said. “I have fond memo- dow and seeing a beautiful day. her if she has a regular visitor like my food cut up for me. Basically She displayed her scapular — a ries of you.” Seeing my kids get home from the one in “Tuesdays with Morrie,” everything we take for granted.” Roman Catholic sacramental pen- Donna Bettencourt-Glavin, the school… a smile,” she said. “I’ve she said, “I have Monday, Tuesday, dant — that she always wears school’s principal, assured Mrs. gained joy, peace, friendships. I Wednesday, Thursday, Friday. I Faith keeps her going around her neck. “I don’t go any- Swift that everyone in the room don’t dwell on anything negative; I have someone who visits every Mrs. Swift said her faith has not where without it,” Mrs. Swift said. will be praying for her. try to stay positive. I feel kindness; day. only guided her through ALS, it’s “You just wear it and Mary does “That’s what keeps me going,” people stop and smile. When I did- She also touched briefly on her grown since her diagnosis. the rest.” Mrs. Swift replied. 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