7 Social Media Safety Tips for Kids*
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7 Social Media Safety Tips for Kids* Whether they use Club Penguin or Facebook, read up on these social media safety tips for kids From Club Penguin to Facebook, the ever-increasing presence of social media in kids' lives has prompted the American Academy of Paediatrics to issue a new report aimed at moms and dads. “The digital world is an evolving landscape that parents have to learn to navigate,” says co-author Kathleen Clarke-Pearson, M.D. Social networking certainly has its advantages. It strengthens connections with friends and family and encourages participation in community service, collaboration on school projects, and communication with coaches and teammates. It can even help kids who don't quite “fit in” foster their identity and unique social skills. How does it go wrong? Impulsive kids may comment on an inappropriate post without thinking, which can snowball and become very hurtful, says Dr. Clarke-Pearson. Here, some ways to help your child use social media appropriately: 1. Immerse yourself. Know how to create a profile, “friend” your child, and be a part of his online life. He may insist that you don't embarrass him by posting comments his friends can see, but that's okay. You still get a window into his world. 2. Be a model. If you're constantly on the cell or computer, your tween will want to be, too. 3. Power down. Insist that meals be device-free and set a reasonable bedtime. 4. Chat him up. Don't rely solely on a “net nanny” software program to keep your kid from questionable sites. Talk about your and his social-media experiences. 5. Go public. Keep the computer centrally located in the family room or kitchen. 6. Be kind. Discourage meanness, gossiping, and posting anything that's untrue or potentially harmful. 7. Take action. For more info, go to cybersafebook.com. * Acknowledgements - http://www.parenting.com/article/social-media-safety Whether we like it or not, there are social networks and apps that our children use with free abandon. Below are some that we have found for parents to look out for: 4chan.org Probably a collection of the worst of the Internet in one place. Users are mostly anonymous. 8chan (8ch.net) On 8chan, you can create an imageboard for free with no experience or programming knowledge needed, which can result in extremely inappropriate content. 9Gag.com An image/social board that consists mostly of very inappropriate content. After School Advertised as “Funny Anonymous School News For Confessions & Compliments” in the AppleStore, this anonymous app by Ambient is much like YikYak and Whisper. This app allows sexual and graphic images. Learn more about AfterSchool in this Safe Smart Social video. Airtime This mobile app is a video-based chat and is advertised as almost feeling like being in the same room as your friend. Appear.in A registration-free video chatting site. Also a mobile app. ASKfm ASKfm is a social network where members interact by inviting others to ask anonymous questions. ASKfm has a Safety Center to “empower users with the information, guidance and tools they need to navigate safely and enjoy the service.” Watch this Safe Smart Social video to learn more. Avocado A chatting app for couples. Users can share pictures, calendars, chat privately and doodle on photos. Backpage.com A classified advertising website launched in 2004 notorious for allowing ads that sell children for sex (sex trafficking). Badoo Mobile messaging. Less popular than Whatsapp or Kik. Bebo This is an older, defunct website that has relaunched as an app on both Android and iOS. The main component is video group chatting. Utilizing your contacts, it adds people to your friends’ list. Best Secret Folder An iOS app that is used if you don’t want anyone to know that you downloaded a privacy app. The icon is disguised as “My Utilities,” so no one will ever guess there are private photos tucked away in your phone. There is an “Intruder stopper” option plays fake video upon opening. Bubble A private messaging app that takes from your existing social media profiles and adds them to your “bubble.” The content is posted for all of your friends to see. Direct messaging is one of the main features of this app. Burn Note A texting app that erases messages after a set period. Messages are stored until first viewed and then deleted. Chatbulb.com A free web-based chat room. Enter any username of your choice and start chatting. There is no signup or age verification. The usernames are often sexually graphic. ChatRoulette.com This website allows people to anonymously video chat online with anyone and without any security blocks or filters. Frequently people are unclothed in the chats. Creepypasta Internet horror stories passed around on forums and other sites to disturb and frighten readers. Includes stories from Slender Man, a fictional character that inspired two 12-year-old Wisconsin girls to stab and nearly kill a friend. Disney LOL An app designed especially for kids that mimics most social media apps, but consists entirely Disney-related content. Disney Mix An app designed by Disney for safe messaging with your friends. There are strict community guidelines and the app has 24-hour support moderation. DOWN – Dating Formerly named Bang With Friends it has been criticized for not delivering what it promises for adults 18 and older. The premise of the website is to setup discrete sexual encounters with Facebook friends. Those friends only know about somebody’s interest when they reciprocate through the app. Down to Lunch An app used for inviting a group of friends to a particular place or event. There have been rumours about the app being connected to sex trafficking, but the makers assure they are not true. The comments by some teenagers who use it mention that scheduled fights, rumours and sexual encounters are often found on the app. Ello Basically, Tumblr meets Pinterest. This site caters to artists who want to reach out to a broader audience. It has a “Not Safe For Work” (NSFW) mode and does not ask for age at sign up. Facebook & Facebook Messenger A leading social network. Facebook Messenger allows for photo and video exchange as well as phone calls. Learn more about Facebook in this Safe Smart Social video. Access the Parent’s Guide to Facebook from CyberWise. Fess An anonymous app for high schoolers to post confessions. Users are validated that they’re in high school through their Facebook accounts. FireChat App that lets users chat without an internet or phone connection. FireChat uses a hidden iOS feature known as Multipeer Connectivity Framework (MCF) to relay messages instead of sending messages using a mobile signal. The free app creates its own network where each mobile device on it becomes a ‘node.’ Foursquare Goal-based location sharing. Kids can share their exact location to a public audience at any time. Gallery Lock An Android app used to hide photos. It lets you put the app icon in “Stealth Mode,” so it doesn’t appear on your phone. It will also catch a photo of any intruder with your phone’s front-facing camera after three failed password attempts. Google Duo Duo is a very easy to use 1-to-1 video chatting app. It can be used over cellular data as well as Wi-Fi. Grom Social An online social networking website for kids between the ages of 5–16 years. Founded with the intention of creating a safe social networking site for kids. Groupme For iOS and Android, this app is a group texting app that can also be used through your native SMS. Happn This app saves the profiles of other users if you are in the same vicinity. Happn has a mature rating. Features include sending secret likes as well as “charms.” Hater A dating app targeted at millennials with the concept that it can match users with someone based on what each user hates. Instead of swiping on people, you swipe on topics Hello For both iOS and Android, this app contains categories of interests you can pick from. Based on what you like, post and the response from the community you will move up or down the leaderboard. Hide It Pro An Android and iOS app disguised as a fully functional audio manager. It’s a secret vault that protects all your secret content. The program will disappear from the recent apps list, too, leaving all tracks covered. Hitwe A free dating app available on Apple and Android. The app seems to be riddled with spambots. One of the promotional elements involves meeting the people you discover and contains location information. IMVU This site is a virtual world where users control their avatars to navigate and chat with other users. There are over 50 million accounts and the site continues to grow. Instagram Users can post photos and have their followers comment. Recently Instagram has been in the news regarding its growing popularity for trading or selling drugs online. KeepSafe A simple Android and iOS app with basic password protection for photos and videos. Capable of sending ‘self-destructing’ photos to others. Kik An instant message app that also allows photo sharing. It is loaded with sex and porn spammers. Kik also announced Kin, a digital currency for use on its platform; based on the ethereum blockchain, the value of Kin is expected to rise as more people use the service. Gaggle has seen many incidents via this app with inappropriate photos. Watch a real story about an incident on Kik involving a real student.