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STREET TEMPLE RODEF SHALOM 2100 WESTMORELAND FALLS CHURCH. V$RGINIA 223 Te1eson.: 70-5322217
Interim Bulletin January 1983 #1A
The correct date for the next Teinole Rodef Shalom Congregational Meeting is Mondaj,Janury 24, 1983 at 8:00 p.m. This date has been erroneously report- ed twice - our atoicgies, we hope it has not created a problem.
The agenda for this meeting is as follows:
Minutes ...... Jeffrey Rosenfeld Treasurer s Report ...... Peter Elinsky, Eleanor Linde Select Nominating Committee Slate • Sabbatical Report ...... Peter Latkin Reli gious Practices Report ...... Carl Checknoff Rabbi s Contract ...... Carl Ch€.cknof, 1, Armand Weiss Announcements ...... 1. Nan Rudin 2. Sisterhood
Anyone wishing to add to this list, please call the Temple office as soon as possible. (532-2217)
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MID-ATLANTIC CONFERENCE -- WILLIAMSBURG, 1982
From : Marian Goldberg, President -
On December 2-5, Temple Rodef Shalom shared a memorable Mid--Atlantic Council meeting in Williamsburg. The following resolution was passed:
Recognizing that Rabbinic students are given inadequate formal training regarding today s youth, a resolution was introduced at the plenary session by the Youth Committee of the Mid-Atlantic Council recommending that specific . coursework and/or practical experiences with youth he incorporated into the curriculum of FIUC-TIP, programs." The resolution was passed.
Paraphrased by Judy Seiff Report by Ruth Checkoff (Past President)
I served as chairperson of the MAC nominating committee, Leo Rosenbaum was elected as a delegate from the Region to the National Board of the UAHC, Hank Self f was newly elected to the MAC Board, Judy stepped down as secretary and I am moving into that position. At this particular Biennial, as we have in the past, many of us chaired, spoke or served as Resource people for the workshops.
My "personal" report: Each of us chose workshops that would help us in the work we do for the Temple, or in which we have a personal interest - perhaps those are the same. I attended a session on Synagogue Music, one on Nuclear Proliferation and the workshop on "Directions in Worship", which I chaired and Rabbi Berkowits was a speaker. From the one on music I came away feel- ing that we do not involve our congregants enough in learning the music so that we can all sing music we know and find spiritually satisfying.
Admiral La Rocque and Rabbi Haberman were the speakers at the session on Nuclear Proliferation, Sam Simon was Chairman. Both speakers were brilliant with compelling arguments for stopping the production of arms and delivery systems. (Last year the UAHC Plenary voted to support a Nuclear Freeze). I hope we can schedule Admiral La Rocque to speak at Rodef Shalom in the near future. I am convinced that this issue should have a very high prior- ity on everyone s agenda!
The workshop on Worship dealt with the issue of classical Reform vs Traditional practices in today s Reform congregations. This subject is very relevant to the discussions we on the Religious Practices Committee have been having and I would like t6 see us hive a Friday Night Forum on 0 this. Our Rabbi is also involved in this through his work on the UAHC Commission on Worship. It could help our members clarify their thinking on this and raise everyone s consciousness. I would be happy to work on this. By the way, on the UAHC Long Range Planning Committee this has also been a very hot issue.
In addition to the distinguished Jewish historian, Dr. Jacob Radner Marcus, who spoke at the Saturday evening banquet, there were two other scholars for the weekend: Rabbi Sanford Seltzer, Director of the Commission on Worship, who gave the keynote address for the theme of the meeting, Reform Judaism: Facing the Crises of Our Time" and Rabbi Harold Kushner, author 9 of "Why Bad Things Happen to Good People" who delivered the sermon at the Service on Friday at the Bruton Parish Church and gave two seminars on Sat- urday and Sunday. Unfortunately the lessons we learned from the sermon and seminars had to be put to a practical test because of the death of one of the delegates from Baltimore. Our hearts went out to his family, but we, as a group of synagogue leaders, also had to deal with this unfathomable event. It was very upsettinu to all even those who didn t know him person- ally. To Carl and me it was all the more poignant because through our association with the Region, we had just begun to know him and like him.
As I write, I realize how much I personally got from this meeting and I would like to express my appreciation for the philosophy we have at Rodef Shalom of encouraging our participation in this kind of event and in Jewish affairs in general. -2- - Is Report by Nan Rudin
A MOVING EXPERIENCE
I m sure that none of the delegates to the Mid-Atlantic Council Biennial of the Union of American Hebrew Congregations will ever forget the weekend in Williams- burg this year, on December 3-5.
The theme was "Reform Judiasm": Facing the Crises of our Time". I was a delegate from our Temple; there were 8 of us, plus our Rabbi and alternates and others representing Rodef Shalom - gaining insights and understandings that we can hopefully translate into more meaningful work and study at our Temple.
The delegates came from congregations from Delaware to North Carolina - over 300 of us in the Mid-Atlantic region as palt of the Reform Movement. We adhere to the tenent that creativity and progress are essential to the religious life and that we must seek to bring contemporary relevance to the beliefs and practices of our Reform tradition. Rabbi Richard Sternberger was director of the convention.
The theme was offered in various workshops during the weekend, by the keynote• speaker, and by sermons and speeches by rabbis who are leaders in Reform move- ruent. The Shabbat Service at the Bruton Parish Church had as its sermon: "Crisis of Faith" - delivered by Rabbi Howard Kushner, author of the book, "Why Bad Things Happen to Good People" - a "best-seller" nationwide. Workshops Saturday and Sunday further explored this theme.
indeed,what happened Saturday evening provided a "crisis in faith" because one .W of the delegates from Baltimore was stricken with a heart attack and passed away minutes before the banquet was to begin.
The shock to his wife and friends was unimaginable. The grief and pain caused by this sudden death were felt by everyone, even those of us who didn t know the victim of this tragedy. At Rabbi Kushner s workshops the next morning we explored the impact of this happening - particularly as it related to the theme of the weekend and to Rabbi Kushner s book and his theological approach.
Thus, the convention was a blending of conviviality, education, inspiration, pathos and sharing. Communication was the key word - fellow Jews were united in a common experience - its impact transcended other emotions. The dialogue made possible by meetings such as this is invaluable to Rabbis and lay leaders of congregations. We focused in on vital issues such as outreach programs for Jews by choice, meeting family needs by the "caring" congregations. "Why bad things happen to good people", Jewish ethical wills, problems and opportunities for Reform Judiasni in Israel, nuclear proliferation and the critical debate to limit nuclear weapons. Critical issues in contemporary socities, education, youth programming, worship, music and liturgy, anti-semitism: indeed, all these subjects are critical, worthy of thought and study and sharing ideas. As social action co-chairman of the Temple, I came away from the convention with my head swimming with ideas and new themes for us to pursue.
I m sure if you get in touch with any of our delegates, or our Rabhi, we can discuss with you the areas of your own interests and how you can jo n with others in exploring sp new challenges. -. - The beautifully planned Bienniel provided a focus. And the incident of the death of a delegate caught this particular delegate up, once again, with the fragility of life. All the speakers, and Rabbi Kushner in par- ticular, pointed the way for us to take on needs and challenges with ugrency, now- The workshops on nuclear proliferation was perhaps the most dramatic way to confront the crucial iue, and the fact that the time is NOW. I came away with the feeling that the time is short and we all, together, must do everything we can for our personal lives and for the community and the world. Thus, the impact of this Bienniel was very strong, for me, and I m sure for us all.
AUCTION I notice - notice - notice
Many thanks to the members of our congregation for their generous donations which made the auction such a success. Donor forms are available in the Temple office for those who do not yet have them. You will need this form if you wish to claim your donation as a tax deduction for 1982. Be aware, however, that the burden of proof rests upon you when it comes to sub- stanciating your claim of their value to the IRS.
Sisterhood is planning a new Uniongram project which promises to bring more of the personal touch to the Congregation. Each month we will publish the birthdays and anniversaries of the adult members of the Temple. In this way, members may remember their friends by sending a Uniongram and at the same time contribute to our Sisterhood.
The form below will aid us in facilitating this program. Please fill out and return it to: Jackie Goldman, 1.052 Bellview Road, McLean, Va. 22102.
Wife s name: Birthday, Month and Day
Husband s name: Birthday, Month and Day
Anniversary
-4- S There will be a Sisterhood Meeting on Wednesday, January 19th at 7 p.m. to . 8:30 p.m. All members and prospective members will be treated to an evening of glamour. Sisterhood members will model for "Color Me Beautiful" and a hair stylist consultant. Don t forget to mark your calendars.
Dancing Bagel Bar -
BAGEL BAR JANUARY 23rd. While the kids j are in school, why not join us for a 13t3 ii cup of coffee and a bagel? ) b 1
SHELTER HOUSE
The SHELTER HOUSE which the Temple supports particularly helps families which have lost their homes for whatever reason, as well as abused persons. It DESPERATELY needs all types of cleaning supplies and household paper goods.
Please help Carol Davidson help Shelter House by bringing any contributions to a sisterhood meeting. There will also be a clearly marked box in the cloak room. S Attention! Evening Sisterhood Meetings are open to all Sisterhood Members - Any member is welcome at evening functions.
Social Action Committee Meeting Date Change:
The correct date for the next Social Action Committee meeting will be Tues- day, January 18, 1983 at 8:00 p.m., at the home of Jan Saferstein, 1638 Warner Avenue, McLean, Virginia.
Senior Youth Group will be having a general meeting the weekend of the 15th of January. At this meeting a MAFTY slide show will be presented and details of a secret trip will be discussed.
In February there will be a Schlep - In and a fund-raiser marathon.
Details about these events will he coming soon.
Gwen Hurwitz
-5.. SOCIAL ACTION
A few days before Christmas, members of the Religious Action Group called S Reverend John Steinbruck of the Luther Place Memorial Church to see if we, as Jews, could help on Christmas Day, with the less fortunate people they addist daily and inightly at their church. Mrs. Steinbruck arranged for us to come to the day center, with food for thirty, for Christmas afternoon and evening.
We played Bingo and served a lovely meal. At 6:45 p.m. we closed the day center and helped the women with their new bags full of their possessions, gifts and Bingo prizes. They go across the street to the church to sleep, after a day which hopefully was a bit brighter because we were there. A A -Nan Rudin
CHAI SOCIETY NEWS
On Wednesday, December 22, after two weather postponements, the Chai Society was finally able to have their Channuka Dinner. Thanks to Annette Hoptman and her helpers, everything was marvelous.
An added bonus was a slide presentation and commentary given by Harold Winer of his and Elizabeth s incredible 10,000 mile Trans-Siberian Railroad trip. I Condolences to Rona Hitlin on the loss of her father Gustave Trachtenberg.
Congratulations and best wishes to Fern Koch and Bill Bekenstein who were married on January 1, 1983.
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"It is a tree of life to those who hold it fast"
The Tree of Life was graciously donated by the following families:
Mr. & Mrs. Sidney Bennett Mr. & Mrs. Herman J. Obermayer Mr. & Mrs. Daniel Goldberg
-7- a Thank you for your kind contributions DONOR STONES:
The Herman J. Obermayer Family In Honor of Mr. & Mrs. Leon J. Obermayer
The Herman J. Obermayer Family In Memory of Captain & Mrs. Neville Levy
The Daniel Goldberg Family In Loving Memory of Robert Goldberg
The Daniel Goldberg Family In Loving Memory of Jack & Lois Goldberg
The Kenneth Schlossberg Family In Loving Memory of Ilya S tolaye father of Sophia Judy & Robert Rosenbaum In Loving Honor of their children Robert, Jr., Elizabeth & John DONOR LEAVES:
Joseph & Ida Auerbach In Honor of our Grandchildren: 1. David, Allan and Michael Linde 2. Heather, Elissa and Marc Remer I
The Joseph Cohen Family In Memory of Hannah and Jacob Cohen
Mr. & Mrs. Herbert D. Twynham In Memory of their dear ones Mrs. Erna Frankel In Memory of her dear . husband, Eric D. Frankel Mr. & Mrs. Harold Silverstein
Dr. & Mrs. Jeffrey M. Schulman To Remember our "great -grandparents Harry &Bessle Schulman" by Joshua and Jonathan Schulman Mr. Harry J. Chernock In Memory of his wife, Irene R. Chernock Is Dr. & Mrs. William J. Hooker In Honor of their parents and children: • Florence May Forman Ralph & Marjory Hooker William M. & Diane Deutsch Hooker Susan Hooker a second one in loving memory of Father-Morris Forman Brother-James R. Hooker
Mr. & Mrs. James G. Radcliffe & Family Mr. & Mrs. George Cohen In Memory of Aaron Goody father of Phyllis Joel & Myra Gerstie In Honor of their Children - Bradley Roy & Lisa Beth Gerstie Zara & Albert White
Dr. &Mrs. Howard I-left In Memory of David Heft
a second one in memory of Doris-Davis Eckstein & Jacob R. Davis Gregory & Tybe Haas In Honor of their parents: Gertrude & Julius Drayer and Ruth & Nelson Haas Hyman J. Cohen In Memory of his parents: Benjamin & Kate Bazol Cohen
Raymond & Shirley Gala nt In Honor of their children: Mark, Cindy, Debbie & Ellen Galant
Peter & Elaine Elinsky In Honor of their wonderful children: Lauren & Rachel Elinsky Lauren & Rachel Elinsky in Honor of their grandparents: LOUIS & Ruth Elinsky and Kibbe & Shirley Ger8teifl 9 Harvey L. Levin In Memory of Barbara M. Levin, Sisterhood President, 1971-1973. is Sylvia & Ian Shenk In Loving Memory of Harry Shenk a second one in Loving Memory of Rebecca Liebman Friedman Joan & Richard Friedman In Honor of son, Andrew Michael Friedman
Margaret & Peter Latkin a In Honor of Parents, Sylvia & Harry Latkin and Frances & Sidney Popkin I I Nan Rudin In Loving Memory of Berton Mayer Rudin by Nan, Emily, Jonathan Andrew & Elizabeth Rudin B nai Mitzvah Class of November 6, 1982 Eric P. L. S. Vidibor Na ava Feder Sheila Peltzer Jacqueline Helitzer Goldman James A. Weller Renee Peristein - In Honor of Rabbi Laszlo Berkowits Frances & Stuart Schwartz In Loving Memory of Frances Mother, Teri Weinman a second one in Loving Memory of Stuart s Father, David Schwartz William L. Bekenstein In Honor of his children, Jane, Jon & David Dorothy & Sidney Bennett In Loving Memory of Dr. Hans Adler Eve & Dwight Harvy In Loving Memory of Anne Rosen & Jack Glazer Selma & Meyer Perlin In Loving Memory of his parents Molly & Issac Perlin
10 S a second one in Loving Memory of Selma s Parents • Vera & Manasse Schulmann and her beloved brothers, Hermann, David & Georg
Rose & Burton Thorman Honoring the Memory of her parents, Maurice J. & Anna Singer Zucker Kay & John Craft In Friendship
Susan & Michael Lerner for Lee & Amy Lerner In honor of their grandparents Rose & William Haines & Elynor & Sidney Lerner
Ralph Cole In Loving Memory of Beatrice J. Cole Arlene & David Lanter and Florence & Alan Frey In Honor of Joseph Cohen
Dr. & Mrs. Donald Lubin Chai Society of Temple Rodef Shalom, 1982
Jean & Jeffrey Forman In Honor of Their Parents & Grandparents Blanche & Charles Forman Annette & Raymond Herzog
Norman, Judith & Shana Potter Linda & George Carlson In Celebration of our Son, Noah Carlson on his Bar Mitzvah
Irene & Donald Gavin In Honor of their children Andrew Scott & Mitchell Bryant Gavin
Eleanor & Richard Linde and . Amy & Paul Remer In Honor of their Parents Ida & Joseph Auerbach 11 Joyce & Robert P. Jones In Honor of their sons, Hayden Randall & Cameron Lewis Jones is Judy & Bruce Goldstein
Carol & Eugene Davidson In Loving Memory of Pearl & Leo Cohn
Wendy & Bob Weinberg In Loving Memory of their parents Beatrice Kohn Weinberg & Abraham M. Weinberg
Havurah Yechad The Families of P. Chandler, R. Hitlin, P. Levine, C. Moore, D. Tarr and R. Zurndorfer
Suzaane & Raymond Ellis In Honor of their parents Eva & John Ellis and Valda & Alfred Keich
Barbara L. & James W. Korrnan To The Beautiful Memory of Bernice R. Korman
Family and friends of Par , & William Levir. In Honor of their 30th Wedding Anniversary December 25, 1982
OUR TREE OF LIFE CONTRIBUTION
Yes, we/l want to donate and will purchase leaves at $500 per leaf, or $5.000 a donor stone to honor. remember or congratulate my
This contribution is in addition to my present assessment. Bill me immediately for the full amount of $ -. or in two $250 payments for each leaf. Donor stones may be paid in five $1000 units. Names of honorees or contributors are engraved upon pay- ment in full. Date Name Address City State ______Zip S 12
4 COUPLES CLUB INTERNATIONAL GOURMET DINNER SATURDAY, JANUARY 22 - 7:30 p.m. . The COUPLES CLUB invites you to share your favorite international dish and join us for good company , live entertainment and belly dancers, in our international cafe atmosphere in the social hall. Remember last years fantastic event. This year is your chance to share and enjoy one of our favorite events. Don t miss out - make your reservation early - space is limited.
$7.00 per couple advance reservation by - January 17th
$9.00 per couple at the door
For further information or to make your reservation by telephone, call:
Janet & Russ Roseman ...... 356-2573 Isobel & Michael Rahn ...... 356-6797 Lynne & Dennis Berg ...... 821-0415 Na ava & Gershon Feder ...... 452-8530 Charles & Heidi Greenberg ...... 255-2377 Jackie & Stu Hess ...... 280-2193 Marion & Joel Jacknow ...... 698-8702 Done & Ken Epstein ...... 591-0438
Please indicate 1st, 2nd, and 3rd choice. Bring 1st choice unless otherwise notified. Dish should serve 8-10 hungry people.
NAME OF DISH NAME PHONE HORS D OEUVRES
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BEEF
VEGETARIAN
SALAD & BREAD
DESSERT
Please return with check made out to Temple Rodef Shalom Couples Club Zor reservation by January 17th - send to:
Janet Roseman 6613 Ivy Hill Drive McLean, Va. 22101
Please bring copies of your recipies on cards to share with the group. VuUtr - I S" c,. F^a
Camp Rodef Shalom s seventh season is in full swing. We have very exciting program of song, dance, sports, swimming, arts, and crafts all combined with the opportunity to be in a Jewish learning experience. - Flo Frey, Camp Director and Brad Gerstie, Program Director, and an enthusiastic, talented staff look forward to a busy, happy summer at Camp Rodef Shalom. Dates: July 1-2fr, 1983 Ages: Pre-school: Ages 4 and 5 Senior Camp: Grades 1-6 (As of Sept. 1983) Teen Camp: Grades 7-8 (As of Sept. 1983) Counselor Aides: Grade 9 (As of Sept. 1983) Fees: Pre-school: $190.00 9 am to 1 pm. Senior Camp: $250.00 9 am to 3 pm Teen Camp: $250.00 9 am to 3 pm CA s: $150.00 9 am to 3 pm There will be a minimal additional charge for those trips planned for these groups. . The basic fee includes camp photo, tee shirt, field trips etc. Second and successive Pre-schoo]. Camper: $171.00 Second and successive Senior Camper: $225.00 Please add an additional $25.00 to the above fees for each camper whose family is not affiliated with any temple. A $50.00 non-refundable deposit is required with the completed application. This will be app iea against the total fee. Balance is due by april 1. Please complete the application and return with your check payable to Camp Rodef Shalom to: Camp Rodef Shalom 2100 Westmoreland Street Falls Church, VA 22043 532-2217 (Days) 241-8941 (Evenings) Name: ------Address:
Parent(s) Name: Home phone:______Address: ______Emer. phone:______City: Bus, phone:______Amount enclosed: Balance due: I give my child(ren) permission to participate in all Camp Rodef - Shalom field trips. Name(s) 0 Date: Parents signature______Please reserve seat(s) for my child(ren) on the Reston bus.
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