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Nova Southeastern University NSUWorks Department of Conflict Resolution Studies Theses CAHSS Theses and Dissertations and Dissertations 1-1-2017 I am Human, Too! An Analysis of Conflict Resolution Theories and Their Applicability to the LGBTQ Community Jaime Anzalotta Nova Southeastern University, [email protected] This document is a product of extensive research conducted at the Nova Southeastern University College of Arts, Humanities, and Social Sciences. For more information on research and degree programs at the NSU College of Arts, Humanities, and Social Sciences, please click here. Follow this and additional works at: https://nsuworks.nova.edu/shss_dcar_etd Part of the Social and Behavioral Sciences Commons Share Feedback About This Item NSUWorks Citation Jaime Anzalotta. 2017. I am Human, Too! An Analysis of Conflict Resolution Theories and Their Applicability to the LGBTQ Community. Doctoral dissertation. Nova Southeastern University. 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An Analysis of Conflict Resolution Theories and Their Applicability to the LGBTQ Community by Jaime Anzalotta A Dissertation Presented to the College of Arts, Humanities and Social Sciences of Nova Southeastern University in Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements for the Degree of Doctor of Philosophy Nova Southeastern University 2017 Copyright © by Jaime Anzalotta May 2017 Nova Southeastern University College of Arts, Humanities, and Social Sciences This dissertation was submitted by Jaime Anzalotta under the direction of the chair of the dissertation committee listed below. It was submitted to the College of Arts, Humanities, and Social Sciences and approved in partial fulfillment for the degree of Doctor of Philosophy in Conflict Analysis and Resolution at Nova Southeastern University. Arlen Garcia, Ph.D. ~ , 1l uate or'Fin~ ,· • ~. ' Chair Acknowledgments Life is indeed a journey. It has a beginning, middle, and an end. Most of the time, one focuses on the date of birth and date of death ignoring the “hyphen” in between. However, that “hyphen” in between those dates describes an individual’s evolution and lived experiences. As I write the acknowledgements section of my dissertation, I find it hard to believe that the former shy, sheltered and introverted teenager from Hialeah, Florida, who dropped out of high school at the age of 16, is earning his PhD. Although I have always had a passion for education, school was simply not for me. I was bullied as a teen and did not have many friends. As mentioned in the new musical Dear Evan Hansen, I felt as if was I was waving through a window. I was waving for someone – anyone – to notice me and wave back. It was not until a tragic incident in my life, the sudden death of my mother when I was 16 years old, that I was no longer able to simply wave through a window and hope for someone to notice. I was forced, by life’s circumstances, to break the window and take control of my life. It was not until at the age of 17, when I started at Miami Dade College, that my drive and passion for education began. My family and friends have always been my rock. Without their support, none of my accomplishments would be possible. Nilda Pineiro, Lily Calderon, and Marina “Jefucha” Hernandez, embraced me when I first started college. Their selflessness, unconditional support, and dedication to my success provided me with the foundation I needed to begin this journey. Individuals like Dr. Isabel Rodriguez-Dehmer, Dr. Jose Vicente, Tere Collada and Dr. Malou Harrison have believed in me from day one and have been my rocks throughout this process. It is because of their support and trust that I have achieved this milestone. To my dissertation committee who have guided me and assisted me through this process: My chair Dr. Jason J. Campbell—Thank you for believing in me and your unconditional support. Dr. Arlen Garcia—Your commitment to this process is more than what I will ever be able to thank you for. Dr. Judith McKay—Thank you for your prompt responses and unconditional support. Carlyn Jorgensen and Niki Incorvia—Thank you for your guidance and support through this process. You were always there when I needed you. Leen—Thank you. I could not have done this without your unconditional commitment and support. Your friendship and willingness to guide me through this process is the true meaning of commitment. To the Starbucks staff in Miami Lakes: Thank you for the Frappuccinos, conversations during my break, and allowing me to spend many hours a day at your location. It truly takes a village. Some say that blood is thicker than water, but I have been blessed to have friends that I have laughed with, cried with, and have had shared memories with that will last a lifetime. It is not that I consider them family—they are family. Ana, Yvette, Nick and Ang—Thank you for your support during my journey. The card nights, the laughs, and you all pushing me to finish “my paper” really made a difference in this journey. You have been there for me and I am grateful to have you all in my life. Donald- Thank you for “el cafecito”, your support and opening your home. I am grateful, my friend. Erika- Thank you for staying part of my live for over 20 years. We have shared many memories that will never be forgotten. Steph, Mel, Ernie and Kesia—It is hard to put in words what you all mean to me. You are part of me. You will always be in my life and I am grateful to you for allowing me to be part of yours. Thank you for loving me unconditionally and supporting me. You have all been instrumental through this journey. We have been through it all! We have been happy, sad, broke, have traveled the world- but most importantly, we have been there for each other! To infinity and beyond! Helen—I have told you many times before—you are probably one of the smartest people I have ever met. What I do not tell you enough is how kind, loyal, and selfless you are. I cannot put into words how much I appreciate your support through this journey. You have been more than a friend. You have been my therapist and guiding light in moments of darkness. I am forever grateful for your support. To my little niece Vicky and nephew Lio—Tio Jaime loves you. Always remember the importance of an education. It will truly provide you with endless opportunities. There are four people in my life that are my backbone. They are the reason why I do what I do and continue to succeed. Titi Gladys- Thank you for loving me and being there for me during the hardest times of my life. Always know that I love you and will always be there for you. Ala—you are sweet, extremely intelligent and I love you for being just the way you are. You have been there since day one for me. Education has always meant to you what it now means to me. Your text messages of encouragement kept me going when I thought it was not possible. Papi—It is because of YOU that I am where I am today. You are hardworking and a perfect role model. You have taught me how to be kind, hardworking, and that anything is possible. I have seen how much you have sacrificed for us and I am eternally grateful. Tus sacrificios hicieron posible que yo pudiera cumplir este sueño. GRACIAS. Te quiero mucho. To my little brother Karlos—You know how much you mean to me. You are the reason why I work as hard as I do. I look up to you and I hope you always know that you are the most important person in my life. You are my little big brother and I will always be here for whatever you need. To the three people whom I have loved most that are no longer here: Nena, Tia and Mami—Thank you for always being by my side although the universe decided you no longer belonged to this world. Your teachings have stayed with me during the hardest of times. There were many times when I thought I couldn’t continue and I kept going- kept pushing myself. You have been there for me just as much-or more than anyone else in my life. This accomplishment is as much mine as it is yours. Table of Contents List of Tables ................................................................................................................. iv List of Figures ................................................................................................................. v Abstract .......................................................................................................................... vi Chapter 1: Introduction ................................................................................................... 1 Statement of Problem ............................................................................................ 7 Research Questions ............................................................................................... 8 Research Method .................................................................................................. 9 Delimitations of Study ........................................................................................ 11 Definition of Terms ............................................................................................. 11 Outline of Dissertation .......................................................................................