Worksheet For Russell Brand | Freedom From Our Addictions (Episode
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Worksheet for Russell Brand | Freedom from Our Addictions (Episode 659) As Russell Brand noted in this episode, the idea of a 12-step program is more than 100 years old, and the principles used in that program can be used to deal with any inordinate attachment. Far from it being a last option right before (or right after) hitting rock bottom, it’s something that can be engaged in proactively, far before a crisis. We have to realize that what makes us feel good doesn’t have to come from something external -- be it food, or drugs, or sex, or even a job or a person. The answers lie within ourselves. Our consumer-driven society doesn’t really preach that gospel, as it constantly asks us to look outside ourselves. What’s worse is that if our addiction involves other people, we are playing a role in their own destructive behavior, as well. They, too, are human beings trying to address insecurities and problems within themselves. Jordan notes in the episode that it is perhaps much more obvious to admit to addiction to something like cocaine than social media -- which may seem innocuous, but is really quite insidious. In the spirit of “not waiting for a crisis,” let’s ask some of the questions Russell asked himself to get on the road to recovery and a much better life. What are all of the harmful behaviors that I currently engage in? Russell said that you have to be completely honest and admit to all of them. Am I willing to change my life, to live in a new way, so as not to engage in these behaviors? If you can’t answer “Yes” right away, keep filling out the questions and come back to this. If you mark “No” right away, there’s no point in filling out the rest of the questions. You’re not ready yet, and that’s okay, but at least you have identified the issues keeping you discontented. Do I have at least one person who is willing to serve as an accountability partner, someone I can call day or night to help me when I am struggling? Write down the name of every person you can. Am I prepared to apologize, unconditionally, to all those who I have hurt? Russell notes that this has to come from a place of compassion -- not a “well he/she did this to me too/first” but rather, “I take full responsibility for my actions, regardless.” Russell wrote his book 15 years after getting clean, and he references the Egyptian Sun God Ra, as well as the myths of Sisyphus and Prometheus, to remind us that life is an ongoing struggle. He doesn’t see himself as a guru, but as just another recovering addict who doesn’t have the answers, but is definitely on a path. Russell says: “You can act yourself into thinking differently but you can’t think yourself into acting differently.” What do you think he means by this and how can you apply it regarding some of the issues you’ve identified above? Extra credit: Russell notes that what gets his attention is any time he sees a practice or trend in our modern times that has been spoken about for centuries or even millennia, across cultures and religions. Are there any trends or ideas in the modern zeitgeist that seem really new and radical but are simply new ways of expressing tried-and-true concepts? We’ll give you one to get started: think about the Minimalist movement and Jordan’s interview with Joshua Fields Millburn. .