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Types of Abuse and Examples Types of abuse and examples There are different types of abuse that perpetrators use against their victims, most abuse will overlap. Types of abuse include; physical, sexual, psychological, verbal, emotional and mental, financial and spiritual. Physical Physical abuse is the use of physical force against someone, in a way that injures or endangers that person. Domestic abuse rarely starts at physical assault; perpetrators will use physical abuse when they feel they are being challenged. Examples of physical abuse include: Punching Biting Using weapons Hitting Nipping Poisoning Spitting Squeezing Throwing things Kicking Shoving Force feeding Strangling Suffocating Attempts to kill Restraining Pushing Reckless driving Burning Grabbing Pulling hair Scalding Choking Murder Stabbing Throwing Head butting Breaking bones Sexual Any situation in which someone is forced to participate in unwanted, unsafe or degrading sexual activity, even when it’s with a partner the person is also having consensual sex is sexual abuse. Examples of sexual abuse include: Rape (forced penetration) Forcing sex with others Sexual assault (vaginal, anal or Forcing sex in front of others oral) Making her watch or mimic Sexual assault using objects; pornography sex toys, broken glass, bottles, Unwanted fondling etc Videoing / photographing her Forcing sex in ways that hurt, doing sexual acts or following a physical beating The First Step Telephone: 0151 548 3333 www.thefirststep.org.uk Pinching or biting breasts and Withholding sex and/or buttocks affection Name calling e.g. frigid, whore Making sex conditional on her Criticising her sexually behaviour Forcing her to strip, or Minimising or denying her forcefully stripping her feelings about sex or sexual Sadistic sexual acts preferences Forcing her into prostitution Forcing or coercing her to act out fantasies she is not comfortable with Psychological violence Psychological includes verbal, emotional and mental abuse. The abuse can use both verbal and non-verbal communication. The impact of psychological abuse is often deeper and longer lasting than physical abuse. Examples of this kind of abuse include: Name calling Criticism or constantly Constant insults correcting everything she says Shaming and humiliating her in or does public, with put-downs Refusing to listen to anything disguised as jokes she has to say Nasty, hurtful sarcasm Not allowing her to voice her Only engaging in conversation opinion or have an opinion of with her when he decides the her own time is right Denial – pretending he hasn’t Silences and sulking for days said or done something Blocking and diverting her if Laughing or making fun of her she wants to say something inappropriately He decides what subjects can Leaving nasty messages (texts, and cannot be discussed voicemail, Facebook, Twitter, Trivialising and minimising etc.) anything she says and making it Accusing her of unfaithfulness, seem insignificant not trying hard enough or Twisting and turning every purposely doing something to situation around so it’s always annoy her fault Blaming her for his failures, or Screaming and shouting at her other forms of abuse in private or public The First Step Telephone: 0151 548 3333 www.thefirststep.org.uk Emotional / Mental Emotional and mental abuse is often subtle and in some cases victims don’t recognise they are being abused. This kind of abuse will wear victims down, often over a long period of time, until they take responsibility for their abuser’s actions and behaviour towards them, or simply accept it. Financial In addition to hurting victims emotionally and physically, perpetrators may also hurt them financially. Examples of economic or financial abuse include: Controlling all the finances Stealing or selling her possessions Not allowing her to see any bank or taking money statements, bills, or any financial Exploiting her assets for his transactions personal gain Putting all the bills in her name Preventing her from working or then not paying them – destroying choosing her own career her credit or chance to set up her Making her work from home so he own bank account if she leaves can “keep an eye on her” Withholding money or credit cards Sabotaging her job (making her Not allowing her to have her own miss work, calling constantly) bank account Making her beg for money Not paying bills and spending the Setting up financial loans, credit money on himself (alcohol, cards, hire purchase agreements gambling, trips out, treats for by forging her signature or making himself) her sign the paperwork Giving her an allowance which is The perpetrator refusing to work not sufficient to buy what she or contribute to the financial needs running of the family and house Making her account for every penny she spends and inspecting all receipts The First Step Telephone: 0151 548 3333 www.thefirststep.org.uk Spiritual Spiritual abuse can be hard to detect, especially if you are not knowledgeable in that particular religion, culture, beliefs and traditions. Examples of this include: Using her religious or spiritual Using religious teachings or beliefs to manipulate her cultural tradition as an excuse Preventing her from practising for violence her religious or spiritual beliefs Denying access to ceremonies, Ridiculing her religious or places of worship, land or spiritual beliefs family Forcing the children to be Forcing her to do things brought up in a faith that mum against her beliefs has not agreed to Forced marriage Threats to harm or kill in the Female genital mutilation name of ‘honour’ The First Step Telephone: 0151 548 3333 www.thefirststep.org.uk .
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