DOCSLIB.ORG

The Discursive Construction of Love and Romance in Intimate Heterosexual Relationships

Total Page：16

File Type：pdf, Size：1020Kb

Download full-text PDF Read full-text
The Discursive Construction of Love and Romance in Intimate Heterosexual Relationships Open Research Online The Open University’s repository of research publications and other research outputs Professions of love : the discursive construction of love and romance in intimate heterosexual relationships Thesis How to cite: Burns, Angela Mary (2000). Professions of love : the discursive construction of love and romance in intimate heterosexual relationships. PhD thesis The Open University. For guidance on citations see FAQs. c 2000 The Author Version: Version of Record Copyright and Moral Rights for the articles on this site are retained by the individual authors and/or other copyright owners. For more information on Open Research Online’s data policy on reuse of materials please consult the policies page. oro.open.ac.uk Angela Mary Burns, B.Sc., B.A. (Hons) Professions of love: The discursive construction of love and romance in intimate heterosexual relationships Thesis submitted for the degree of Ph.D. in Psychology, The Open University, November 1999. A157Haz(S 1\10 ~ ~ 762/S1 DATE of 8uSYf\\ff/,:N', I2- N~erntfr2 IDtq 9 OlTE ap AL~At2-K): Zq -uul\\e LOCO Acknowledgements My grateful thanks go to Chris Griffin and Dot Miell for their supervision, and for how, in their different ways, they have given me consistently helpful comments and invaluable support. Thanks too to all those friends and colleagues who have expressed an interest in my work and for the many conversations and discussions about what I was currently thinking/writing about 'love'. I'm particularly grateful to my friends who formed a 'memory-work' group with me. Very special thanks go to those women and men who became my participants and talked about their experiences of love and relationships. Thank you so much for your time, participation and fascinating stories. Finally, I want to thank my partner, Rob, for his support, encouragement and love throughout my studies. Many thanks to you all. E 12 ·1 . 'Jr.')- OJ J c.. /"-U...... '..... ' RESEARCH DEG ESCENTRE LIBRARY AUTHO FORM Please return this form to the The Research Degrees Centre with the two bound copies of your thesis to be deposited \yith the University Library. " All students should complete Part 1. Part 2 only applies to PhD students. Student:_F\_C\J_C;_£._LA-----=-M_A_P;y'__ ~_~_N-f ___ PI: Degree:._--=.~__ \)_________ • Part 1 Open University Library Authorisation [to be completed by all students] I confinn that I am "illing for my thesis to be made available to readers by the Open University Library, and that it may be photocopied, subject to the discretion of the Librarian. Signed: _--,-A-h~-:....:........:cr-+"-=-:t.L----=----~=____:.....:;...f' ___ Date: _~_.8_ 1 _90_____ _ Part 2 British Library Authorisation [to be completed by PhD students only] If you want a copy of your PhD thesis to be available on loan to the British Library Thesis Service as and when it is requested, you must sign a British Library Doctoral Thesis Agreement Fonn. Please return it to the Research Degrees Centre ,,,ith this form. The British Library "ill publicise the details of your thesis and may request a copy on loan from the University Library. Infonnation on the presentation of the thesis is given in the Agreement Fonn. Ple-,ase note the British Library have requested that theses should be printed on one side only to enable them to produce a clear microfilm. The Open University Library sends the fully bound copy of theses to the British Library. The University has agreed that your participation in the British Library Thesis Service should be voluntary. Please tick either (a) or (b) to indicate your intentions. [a] ~ I am willing for the Open University to loan the British Library a copy of my thesis. A signed Agreement Fonn is attached. [b] D I do not "ish the Open University to loan the British Library a copy of my thesis. Signed: _---.:.tTh--L.:~~-=--c.-<.:....-.::&=---.;....I~~-r_--- Date: __~_. _~_. _ao____ ~_-*_ \ ABSTRACT Professions of love: The discursive construction of love and romance in intimate heterosexual relationships For this thesis, my aim was to deconstruct the notion of heterosexual love in order to question if and how current stories of love are involved in producing gender inequality. Using discourse analysis, informed by feminist theory, I analysed, in detail, qualitative interviews with eleven women and eleven men about their most important intimate heterosexual relationships and their experiences of love. The traditional view of romantic love as a symbol of freedom and redemption has been challenged by feminist arguments that romantic love obscures male privilege in intimate heterosexual relationships. Mainstream social psychological research has tended to measure and categorize 'love' with little regard to wider historical and social contexts which means that the few in-depth explorations of the complex meanings of love are primarily sociological. Where some research has suggested that gender inequality may proceed from women's investment in romance and men's in emotional illiteracy (e.g. Jackson, 1993; Langford, 1999), others conceive that a wider democratization of social life is producing a shift to more rational and equitable intimate relationships (e.g. Giddens, 1992; Illouz, 1997). My findings demonstrate that talk of love is extremely complex while also cliched and inchoate. I identified two broad and pervasive discourses, in tension with each other - the discourse of romantic love and the work discourse of love and intimacy. The romantic discourse was inextricably inscribed with discourses of emotion where the work discourse was associated with doing rather than feeling. The work discourse allowed the male interViewees, in particular, to construct relationships as contexts for their own personal growth work and exercise of expertise. The democratization of heterOsexual love may not be well underway if a shift to rational intimacy involves a transformation of romantic feeling into a narcissistic discourse of personal success. I also identified how male privilege was instantiated in discourses of infidelity. CONTENTS page CHAPTER 1. INTRODUCTION 1 1.1. A context for researching 'love' 1 1.2. Theoretical rationale: doing love, doing gender? 10 1.3. My research questions 14 1.4. The structure of this thesis 14 CHAPTER 2. I'v1AINSTREAM SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGICAL CONCEPTIONS OF LOVE 17 2.1. Sociobiology and evolutionary theory 18 2.2. Love as a felt emotion 21 2.3. Mainstream psychologists' measures of 'love' 23 2.3.1. Research on women's and men's attitudes to love and sex 26 2.4. Psychologists' contributions to the language of love 28 2.4.1. Romantic/passionate versus companionate love: 'immature' versus 'mature' love 30 2.4.2. A triangular theory of love: intimacy, passion and commitment 32 2.4.3. Love, gender and attachment styles 34 2.5. The use of psychodynamic and psychoanalytic theories 35 2.6. Social exchange theories of relationships 38 2.7. Narrative and talk 40 2.7.1. Love as a story 40 2.7.2. Telling stories of unrequited love 41 2.8. A cross-cultural approach to love 42 2.9. Summary: mainstream social psychological conceptions of love 44 2.10. Advice on love and heterosexual relationships 45 CHAPTER 3. CHALLENGES TO MAINSTREAM PSYCHOLOGY'S REGIMES OF TRlITH ABOlIT LOVE 48 3.1. Feminist critiques of love and romance 48 3.2. Theoretical underpinnings of feminist research 50 3.2.1. Radical feminist analyses 50 3.2.2. Gender differences and feminist reworkings of psychodynamic theory 53 3.2.3. A turn to language and postmodernism 56 3.3. Discursive work on love and sexuality 59 3.4. Theorizing love and an emotionalit)'/rationality split 61 3.5. The discourses of romantic love in romantic fiction 65 3.5.1. "Becoming a woman through romance" 68 3.6. Empirical work linking gender and romance narratives 71 3.7. Narrative approaches to love 73 3.8. Laying out a method to investigate love 78 3.9. Conclusion to literature review 83 CHAPTER 4. METHODOLOGY 86 4.1. Design: Feminist discourse analysis of interviews 86 4.1.1. Discourse analysis as theory and method 86 4.1.2. A feminist discursive approach 88 4.1.3. Qualitative interviews 'X) 4.2. Participants 91 4.2.1. Study 1: Women participants 91 4.2.2. Study 2: Men participants 92 4.3. Interviews 93 4.4. Procedure for analysis 95 4.4.1. Study 1: Analysing the women's interviews 95 4.4.1.1. Identifying discourses and discursive themes 96 4.4.2. Study 2: Analysing the men's interviews 98 4.4.3. Study 3: Analysing the women's and men's accounts of infidelity 99 4.5. Reflexivity 99 4.5.1. Reflecting on the experience of conducting the interviews, transcriptions and analyses 102 CHAPTER 5. STUDY 1. WOMEN IN LOVE 105 5.1. The discourse of romantic love 105 5.1.1. Powerful feelings: weird yet recognizable feelings 105 5.1.2. Romantic epiphanies: "suddenly", not 'love at first sight' 109 5.1.3. Discoursing the importance of being in a relationship and whether women have to be 'in love' 111 5.1.4. A gendered discourse of romantic love: women want love, men want sex 116 5.1.5. Shifting and fragmented meanings of love: constructing a moral hierarchy of emotion 119 5.1.6. True Love (with Mr Right) lasts without promising a 'happy-ever-after' 121 5.1. 7. Resisting the discourse of roman tic love: being in love is immature, loving is adult 124 5.2. Discourses of emotion 127 5.2.1. Excitement 128 5.2.2. A Roller Coaster of emotions 129 5.2.3. Irrationality and madness 129 5.2.4.
Load more

Recommended publications
  • Love Is Our Mission
    LOVE IS OUR MISSION The family fully alive Scripture texts from the New American Bible, revised edition © 2010, 1991, 1986, 1970 Confraternity of Christian Doctrine, Washington, D.C., are used by permission of the copyright owner. All rights reserved. No part of the New American Bible may be reproduced in any form without permission in writing from the copyright owner. Scripture quotations from New Revised Standard Version Bible: Catholic Edition, copyright © 1989, 1993 National Council of the Churches of Christ in the United States of America, used by permission. All rights reserved. English translation of the Catechism of the Catholic Church for use in the United States of America copyright © 1994, United States Catholic Conference, Inc. — Libreria Editrice Vaticana. English translation of the Catechism of the Catholic Church: Modifications from the Editio Typica copyright © 1997, United States Catholic Conference, Inc. — Libreria Editrice Vaticana. Excerpts from the English translation of the Compendium of the Catechism of the Catholic Church copyright © 2006 Libreria Editrice Vaticana. All rights reserved. The exclusive licensee in the United States is the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, Washington, D.C. and all requests for United States uses of the Compendium of the Catechism of the Catholic Church should be directed to the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops. Every reasonable effort has been made to determine copyright holders of excerpted materials and to secure permissions as needed. If any copyrighted materials have been inadvertently used in this work without proper credit being given in one form or another, please notify Our Sunday Visitor in writing so that future printings of this work may be corrected accordingly.
    [Show full text]
  • Critical Analysis of the Roles of Women in the Lais of Marie De France
    University of Montana ScholarWorks at University of Montana Graduate Student Theses, Dissertations, & Professional Papers Graduate School 1976 Critical analysis of the roles of women in the Lais of Marie de France Jeri S. Guthrie The University of Montana Follow this and additional works at: https://scholarworks.umt.edu/etd Let us know how access to this document benefits ou.y Recommended Citation Guthrie, Jeri S., "Critical analysis of the roles of women in the Lais of Marie de France" (1976). Graduate Student Theses, Dissertations, & Professional Papers. 1941. https://scholarworks.umt.edu/etd/1941 This Thesis is brought to you for free and open access by the Graduate School at ScholarWorks at University of Montana. It has been accepted for inclusion in Graduate Student Theses, Dissertations, & Professional Papers by an authorized administrator of ScholarWorks at University of Montana. For more information, please contact [email protected]. A CRITICAL ANALYSIS OF THE ROLES OF WOMEN IN THE LAIS OF MARIE DE FRANCE By Jeri S. Guthrie B.A., University of Montana, 1972 Presented in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the degree of Master of Arts UNIVERSITY OF MONTANA 1976 Approved by: Chairmah, Board of Exami iradua4J^ School [ Date UMI Number EP35846 All rights reserved INFORMATION TO ALL USERS The quality of this reproduction is dependent upon the quality of the copy submitted. In the unlikely event that the author did not send a complete manuscript and there are missing pages, these will be noted. Also, if material had to be removed, a note will indicate the deletion. UMT OissHEH'tfttkffl Pk^islw^ UMI EP35846 Published by ProQuest LLC (2012).
    [Show full text]
  • Women in Love
    Women in Love D.H. Lawrence This eBook was designed and published by Planet PDF. For more free eBooks visit our Web site at http://www.planetpdf.com/. To hear about our latest releases subscribe to the Planet PDF Newsletter. Women in Love Chapter I SISTERS Ursula and Gudrun Brangwen sat one morning in the window-bay of their father’s house in Beldover, working and talking. Ursula was stitching a piece of brightly- coloured embroidery, and Gudrun was drawing upon a board which she held on her knee. They were mostly silent, talking as their thoughts strayed through their minds. ’Ursula,’ said Gudrun, ‘don’t you REALLY WANT to get married?’ Ursula laid her embroidery in her lap and looked up. Her face was calm and considerate. ’I don’t know,’ she replied. ‘It depends how you mean.’ Gudrun was slightly taken aback. She watched her sister for some moments. ’Well,’ she said, ironically, ‘it usually means one thing! But don’t you think anyhow, you’d be—’ she darkened slightly—’in a better position than you are in now.’ A shadow came over Ursula’s face. ’I might,’ she said. ‘But I’m not sure.’ Again Gudrun paused, slightly irritated. She wanted to be quite definite. 2 of 903 Women in Love ’You don’t think one needs the EXPERIENCE of having been married?’ she asked. ’Do you think it need BE an experience?’ replied Ursula. ’Bound to be, in some way or other,’ said Gudrun, coolly. ‘Possibly undesirable, but bound to be an experience of some sort.’ ’Not really,’ said Ursula.
    [Show full text]
  • Saluting Service and Sacrifice
    MOVIES: Bill & Ted return as MLB middle-aged dads Page 21 Hall of Famer Tom Seaver, heart and soul of the ’69 MUSIC: The Killers ‘Miracle Mets,’ dies at 75 still exploring Page 32 Back page TRAVEL: DIY cruises keep dreams afloat Page 28 stripes.com Volume 79, No. 100 ©SS 2020 FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 4, 2020 $1.00 PACIFIC U.S. ARMY/AP Sgt. Maj. Thomas Payne, shown as a sergeant first class in 2012, will receive the Medal of Honor for his actions during a daring 2015 raid that rescued 70 hostages set to be executed by Islamic State militants. Soldier will get Medal of Honor for Iraq rescue Saluting BY JAMES LAPORTA Associated Press DELRAY BEACH, Fla. — An American soldier who helped res- service and cue about 70 hostages set to be executed by Islamic State mili- tants in Iraq has been approved to receive the Medal of Honor for actions during a daring 2015 raid, The Associated Press has learned. sacrifice Sgt. Maj. Thomas “Patrick” Payne, a Ranger assigned to the U.S. Army’s Special Operations Command, will receive the U.S. military’s highest honor for valor in combat in a White House cer- Scaled-down ceremony marking 75th anniversary of WWII’s emony set to be held on the 19th anniversary of the Sept. 11, 2001 terrorist attacks. end reflects on a generation’s toil to turn ‘peril into peace’ The medal approval was con- firmed by two Defense Depart- BY WYATT OLSON U.S. sailors aboard On Wednesday, only a dozen veterans of the ment officials who spoke on Stars and Stripes the USS Michael war were on the fantail of that ship in Pearl condition of anonymity because Murphy stand at Harbor, Hawaii, to witness a commemoration HONOLULU — Seventy-five years ago, they weren’t authorized to speak attention while marking the 75th anniversary of the war’s 900 bombers and fighters filled the sky above passing the Battleship on the record.
    [Show full text]
  • Marten Stol WOMEN in the ANCIENT NEAR EAST
    Marten Stol WOMEN IN THE ANCIENT NEAR EAST Marten Stol Women in the Ancient Near East Marten Stol Women in the Ancient Near East Translated by Helen and Mervyn Richardson ISBN 978-1-61451-323-0 e-ISBN (PDF) 978-1-61451-263-9 e-ISBN (EPUB) 978-1-5015-0021-3 This work is licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial- NoDerivs 3.0 License. For details go to http://creativecommons.org/licenses/ by-nc-nd/3.0/ Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data A CIP catalog record for this book has been applied for at the Library of Congress. Bibliographic information published by the Deutsche Nationalbibliothek The Deutsche Nationalbibliothek lists this publication in the Deutsche Nationalbibliografie; detailed bibliographic data are available on the Internet at http://dnb.dnb.de. Original edition: Vrouwen van Babylon. Prinsessen, priesteressen, prostituees in de bakermat van de cultuur. Uitgeverij Kok, Utrecht (2012). Translated by Helen and Mervyn Richardson © 2016 Walter de Gruyter Inc., Boston/Berlin Cover Image: Marten Stol Typesetting: Dörlemann Satz GmbH & Co. KG, Lemförde Printing and binding: cpi books GmbH, Leck ♾ Printed on acid-free paper Printed in Germany www.degruyter.com Table of Contents Introduction 1 Map 5 1 Her outward appearance 7 1.1 Phases of life 7 1.2 The girl 10 1.3 The virgin 13 1.4 Women’s clothing 17 1.5 Cosmetics and beauty 47 1.6 The language of women 56 1.7 Women’s names 58 2 Marriage 60 2.1 Preparations 62 2.2 Age for marrying 66 2.3 Regulations 67 2.4 The betrothal 72 2.5 The wedding 93 2.6
    [Show full text]
  • Title "Stand by Your Man/There Ain't No Future In
    TITLE "STAND BY YOUR MAN/THERE AIN'T NO FUTURE IN THIS" THREE DECADES OF ROMANCE IN COUNTRY MUSIC by S. DIANE WILLIAMS Presented to the American Culture Faculty at the University of Michigan-Flint in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the Master of Liberal Studies in American Culture Date 98 8AUGUST 15 988AUGUST Firs t Reader Second Reader "STAND BY YOUR MAN/THERE AIN'T NO FUTURE IN THIS" THREE DECADES OF ROMANCE IN COUNTRY MUSIC S. DIANE WILLIAMS AUGUST 15, 19SB TABLE OF CONTENTS Preface Introduction - "You Never Called Me By My Name" Page 1 Chapter 1 — "Would Jesus Wear A Rolen" Page 13 Chapter 2 - "You Ain’t Woman Enough To Take My Man./ Stand By Your Man"; Lorrtta Lynn and Tammy Wynette Page 38 Chapter 3 - "Think About Love/Happy Birthday Dear Heartache"; Dolly Parton and Barbara Mandrell Page 53 Chapter 4 - "Do Me With Love/Love Will Find Its Way To You"; Janie Frickie and Reba McEntire F'aqe 70 Chapter 5 - "Hello, Dari in"; Conpempory Male Vocalists Page 90 Conclusion - "If 017 Hank Could Only See Us Now" Page 117 Appendix A - Comparison Of Billboard Chart F'osi t i ons Appendix B - Country Music Industry Awards Appendix C - Index of Songs Works Consulted PREFACE I grew up just outside of Flint, Michigan, not a place generally considered the huh of country music activity. One of the many misconception about country music is that its audience is strictly southern and rural; my northern urban working class family listened exclusively to country music. As a teenager I was was more interested in Motown than Nashville, but by the time I reached my early thirties I had became a serious country music fan.
    [Show full text]
  • The Computer As Author and Artifice
    University of Montana ScholarWorks at University of Montana Graduate Student Theses, Dissertations, & Professional Papers Graduate School 1996 Silicon poetics| The computer as author and artifice Lawrence Andrew Koch The University of Montana Follow this and additional works at: https://scholarworks.umt.edu/etd Let us know how access to this document benefits ou.y Recommended Citation Koch, Lawrence Andrew, "Silicon poetics| The computer as author and artifice" (1996). Graduate Student Theses, Dissertations, & Professional Papers. 3555. https://scholarworks.umt.edu/etd/3555 This Thesis is brought to you for free and open access by the Graduate School at ScholarWorks at University of Montana. It has been accepted for inclusion in Graduate Student Theses, Dissertations, & Professional Papers by an authorized administrator of ScholarWorks at University of Montana. For more information, please contact [email protected]. Maureen and Mike MANSFIELD LIBRARY The University of J M O N T A N A Pennission is granted by the author to reproduce tliis material in its entirety, provided that tliis material is used for scholarly purposes and is properly cited in published works and reports. ** Please check "Yes" or "No" and provide signature** Yes, I grant permission No, I do not grant permission Author's Signature D ate Any copying for commercial purposes or financial gain may be undertaken only with tlie author's explicit consent. SILICON POETICS: THE COMPUTER AS AUTHOR AND ARTIFICE by Lawrence Andrew Koch B. A., Rutgers College, Rutgers University, 1991 Presented in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the degree of Master of Arts in English (Literature option) The University of Montana 1996 Approved by: Chair, Board of Examiners Dean, Graduate School Date UMI Number: EP35509 All rights reserved INFORMATION TO ALL USERS The quality of this reproduction is dependent upon the quality of the copy submitted.
    [Show full text]
  • Kinship, Love and Life Cycle in Contemporary Havana, Cuba
    “To Not Die Alone” KINSHIP, LOVE AND LIFE CYCLE IN CONTEMPORARY HAVANA, CUBA HEIDI HÄRKÖNEN Research Series in Anthropology University of Helsinki Academic Dissertation Research Series in Anthropology University of Helsinki, Finland Distributed by Unigrafia P.O. Box 4 (Vuorikatu 3 A) 00014 University of Helsinki Fax. +358-9-7010 2370 http://www.unigrafia.fi ISNN 1458-3186 ISBN 978-952-10-9822-2 (paperback) ISBN 978-952-10-9823-9 (PDF) Unigrafia 2014 To my family – in Havana and Helsinki Contents List of Illustrations viii Acknowledgments ix 1. Introduction: Bodies, Love, and Life in Urban Havana Introduction 1 Socialist Efforts to Modernise Sexuality 3 Post-Soviet Havana 8 Negotiating Intimacy, Money, and Reciprocity 12 Space and Housing 15 Body, Beauty, and Race 18 Love, Passion, and Emotions 22 Gendered Forms of Agency 25 Conclusion 29 2. Kinship as an Idiom for Social Relations Introduction 34 Kinship and the Life Cycle 35 Reciprocity and the Dialectics of Care 39 Love, Reproductive Cycle, and Personhood 42 Fieldwork in Havana 45 Conclusion 54 3. Having a Child is Worth the Trouble: Fertility and Reproduction Introduction 56 Deciding over Pregnancy: When to Have a Child? 58 “Not Planning It” 61 Love 62 “Having the Conditions”: Money and Housing 64 State Involvement in Decisions over Pregnancy 66 Infertility 68 Waiting for a New-Born: Expectations Regarding a Baby 71 Body and Looks 71 Baby’s Gender 73 Notions of Kinship: Blood, Nurture, and Biogenetic Ties 74 Nurture as Female Care 76 Material Contributions as Male Care: “A Child Makes the Father” 78 State Care: Nurture and Material 83 After Birth: Catholic Baptism 88 Godparents 91 Naming 96 Conclusion 99 4.
    [Show full text]
  • A Journey of a Woman in Search of True Love and She Drifted to Understand the Concept of Transcendental Oneness
    Laali A journey of a woman in search of true love and she drifted to understand the concept of transcendental oneness. 1 About the Author The author has education in epistemology and taught philosophy and culture in the university. He is working as a senior journalist and covered socio- economic stories in Rajasthan and Gujarat- great states of culture and customs of India. 2 The story of an illiterate woman of Rajasthan in India who in her journey of finding transcendental love realizes that marriage is not only the answer. After her broken marriage she tries several live in-relationships to find true love. She knows that the feeling of transcendental love, a love beyond logic and reasoning, exists and she starts searching the meaning of love, during her journey, she tries to understand principles of Hindu religion and philosophy to understand the reality and truth that fabricates the society to live in accordance with right knowledge. The lower communities that remained suppressed for thousands of years have their own customs and rituals and have their own closed society but unfortunately their literatures and customs got no place in writing because education was mostly limited to upper class. The story also tells that Indian philosophy was never applied to get the real advantage of such knowledge. And therefore philosophies remained just reciting of books and prevailing system of society and confused common man. I am thankful to my daughter Sanghamitra and son Kumar Bodhisattva who persuaded me to continue my writing. They came in my life as little angels. 3 Index 1.
    [Show full text]
  • ALDEBARAN KARAOKE Catálogo De Músicas - Por Ordem De INTÉRPRETE
    ALDEBARAN KARAOKE Catálogo de Músicas - Por ordem de INTÉRPRETE 10 CC I'M NOT IN LOVE 10000 MANIACS MORE THAN THIS 2PAC DEAR MAMA 3 DOORS DOWN HERE WITHOUT YOU 4 NON BLONDES SPACEMAN 4 NON BLONDES WHAT'S UP 5 SECONDS OF SUMMER AMNESIA 5 SECONDS OF SUMMER HEARTBREAK GIRL 5 SECONDS OF SUMMER JET BLACK HEART 5 SECONDS OF SUMMER SHE LOOKS SO PERFECT 50 CENT IN DA CLUB A TASTE OF HONEY SUKIYAKI A TEENS SUPER TROUPER ABBA CHIQUITITA ABBA DANCING QUEEN ABBA FERNANDO ABBA GIMME GIMME GIMME ABBA HAPPY NEW YEAR ABBA I HAVE A DREAM ABBA KNOWING ME KNOWING YOU ABBA MAMMA MIA ABBA MONEY, MONEY, MONEY ABBA THANK YOU FOR THE MUSIC ABBA THE WINNER TAKES IT ALL AC-DC BACK IN BLACK AC-DC HIGHWAY TO HELL ACE HOW LONG ACE OF BASE ALL THAT SHE WANTS ACE OF BASE HAPPY NATION ADELE ALL I ASK ADELE CHASING PAVEMENTS ADELE DON´T YOU REMEMBER ADELE HELLO ADELE MAKE YOU FEEL MY LOVE ADELE ONE AND ONLY ADELE ROLLING IN THE DEEP ADELE SET FIRE TO THE RAIN ADELE SKYFALL ADELE SOMEONE LIKE YOU ADELE WHEN WE WERE YOUNG ADRIAN GURTVITZ CLASSIC AEROSMITH AMAZING AEROSMITH ANGEL´S EYE AEROSMITH CRAZY AEROSMITH I DON'T WANT TO MISS A THING AEROSMITH SEASONS OF WITHER AFTER THE FIRE DER KOMMISSAR A-HÁ CRYING IN THE RAIN A-HÁ HUNTING HIGH AND LOW A-HÁ TAKE ON ME A-HÁ THE SUN ALWAYS SHINES ON TV AIR SUPPLY ALL OUT OF LOVE AIR SUPPLY EVEN THE NIGHTS ARE BETTER AIR SUPPLY HERE I AM AIR SUPPLY I CAN WAIT FOREVER AIR SUPPLY JUST AS I AM AIR SUPPLY LONELY IS THE NIGHT AIR SUPPLY LOST IN LOVE AIR SUPPLY MAKING LOVE OUT OF NOTHING AT ALL AIR SUPPLY THE ONE THAT YOU LOVE AKON RIGHT
    [Show full text]
  • Priests and Romantic Love
    Priests and Romantic Love - A Woman's Perspective Since this Website was launched in the summer of 2009, many women and priests have been in contact to share their experience of falling in love. The article below is from the perspective of Marie, a woman who was in love with a priest and he with her for several years and how their romantic relationship developed and, sadly, ended. Marie shares many insights into the dynamic of romantic love in the context of the priesthood. Her experiences are not unique and will be helpful to others in similar situations. From Marie: Catholic Priests’ Emotional Instability Toward Women One area in which many an otherwise capable or even gifted priest falls short is having a basic understanding and relationship with women. In particular, if he develops feelings for a woman or a woman falls in love with him, most priests will lack the compassion, maturity, and knowledge that comes easy to them in other areas of their ministry. This article explores possible causes of this deficiency, as well as the devastating repercussions it can have for priests and women. When a Young Man Receives His Priestly Calling Most priests enter the seminary at a young age, often shortly after high school graduation, having begun to discern the vocation as early as middle school. Young men are attracted to the vocation by the promise of an instant community with like-minded peers, a belief that Jesus has personally “called” him to this lofty status, and the ego-boost of instant respect and recognition for making such a noble choice.
    [Show full text]
  • Songliste Koreanisch (Juli 2018) Sortiert Nach Interpreten
    Songliste Koreanisch (Juli 2018) Sortiert nach Interpreten SONGCODETITEL Interpret 534916 그저 널 바라본것 뿐 1730 534541 널 바라본것 뿐 1730 533552 MY WAY - 533564 기도 - 534823 사과배 따는 처녀 - 533613 사랑 - 533630 안녕 - 533554 애모 - 533928 그의 비밀 015B 534619 수필과 자동차 015B 534622 신인류의 사랑 015B 533643 연인 015B 975331 나 같은 놈 100% 533674 착각 11월 975481 LOVE IS OVER 1AGAIN 980998 WHAT TO DO 1N1 974208 LOVE IS OVER 1SAGAIN 970863기억을 지워주는 병원2 1SAGAIN/FATDOO 979496 HEY YOU 24K 972702 I WONDER IF YOU HURT LIKE ME 2AM 975815 ONE SPRING DAY 2AM 575030 죽어도 못 보내 2AM 974209 24 HOUR 2BIC 97530224소시간 2BIC 970865 2LOVE 2BORAM 980594 COME BACK HOME 2NE1 980780 DO YOU LOVE ME 2NE1 975116 DON'T STOP THE MUSIC 2NE1 575031 FIRE 2NE1 980915 HAPPY 2NE1 980593 HELLO BITCHES 2NE1 575032 I DON'T CARE 2NE1 973123 I LOVE YOU 2NE1 975236 I LOVE YOU 2NE1 980779 MISSING YOU 2NE1 976267 UGLY 2NE1 575632 날 따라 해봐요 2NE1 972369 AGAIN & AGAIN 2PM Seite 1 von 58 SONGCODETITEL Interpret 972191 GIVE IT TO ME 2PM 970151 HANDS UP 2PM 575395 HEARTBEAT 2PM 972192 HOT 2PM 972193 I'LL BE BACK 2PM 972194 MY COLOR 2PM 972368 NORI FOR U 2PM 972364 TAKE OFF 2PM 972366 THANK YOU 2PM 980781 WINTER GAMES 2PM 972365 CABI SONG 2PM/GIRLS GENERATION 972367 CANDIES NEAR MY EAR 2PM/백지영 980782 24 7 2YOON 970868 LOVE TONIGHT 4MEN 980913 YOU'R MY HOME 4MEN 975105 너의 웃음 고마워 4MEN 974215 안녕 나야 4MEN 970867 그 남자 그 여자 4MEN/MI 980342 COLD RAIN 4MINUTE 980341 CRAZY 4MINUTE 981005 HATE 4MINUTE 970870 HEART TO HEART 4MINUTE 977178 IS IT POPPIN 4MINUTE 975346 LOVE TENSION 4MINUTE 575399 MUZIK 4MINUTE 972705 VOLUME UP 4MINUTE 975332 WELCOME
    [Show full text]