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he new Archdeacon of st TDavids, Revd Keith smallwood will be collated on 19th May at a service in the . A week earlier, on 15th May he will also be licensed as the new Vicar of . For Keith this is something of a spiritual homecoming, having started his journey into the ministry in the 1960s at st John’s College, , an experience that he still cherishes. since then, his journey has taken him from his native Monmouth Diocese, where he was ordained, to the , where he served for over 20 years, before as “running away from God”. If thetic Warden of Ordinands set him returning to , to Brecon Cathe- you find yourself going down the on the right road – a road that has Preparation for marriage and issues surrounding long-term dral and to a parish in swansea. wrong road, he says (quoting lord now come full circle. relationships are crucial. This year the diocese, for possibly the he started his working life in soper), it doesn’t help to break into Full interview: page 2 banking, a decision he now sees a trot! Ystrad Meurig and a sympa- first time ever, will have representation at Wedding Fayres Full article: page 15

That’s the way to do it! Contributions to Pobl Dewi Minister praises Plant Dewi’s family strategy We welcome articles of interest from readers and, Welsh Assembly govern- then we need to address the prob- in particular, we would like Ament minister has singled lems that parents and children face to encourage submission out family support groups such as together,” he said. “The sort of pro- of articles in Welsh. those run in by active approach I have witnessed in Articles should be sent to Plant Dewi, the st Davids Dioc- these groups is exactly the kind of esan family support organisation, initiative we need to roll out across The Managing Editor: as typical of the sort of schemes Wales.” Tessa Briggs, needed if the new Welsh Assembly Mr lewis spent over an hour [email protected] Government anti-poverty strategy meeting parents, attending the or they can be posted to: is to meet its targets. sessions to hear their concerns. Deputy childrens minister huw “I was deeply impressed,” he Pobl Dewi lewis, AM, was visiting Fami- said. “It’s clear that the ongoing The Diocesan Office lies Together groups in support Plant Dewi provides for and on the day that he these families makes a huge differ- announced the strategy, which ence to their confidence in seeking SA31 2JG aims to eradicate child poverty in to improve their lives and those of Wales by 2020. their children.” marked for the attention of “If we are to meet our goals, The Editor See pages 6 to 9 for a series of articles about The Big Society Join Pobl Dewi on and Am ddim Free 2 Pobl Dewi, March 2011

fascinated by railways and narrow gauge in particular. And I have a film soundtrack collection to rival I am looking forward to being the BBC! And finally, do you have a message to impart to the diocese? with you I’m looking forward to being with you and to serving in the parish of steynton. I can’t wait to see what The Archdeacon Designate of St Davids, the Revd Canon , chats to Paul Mackness you can teach me and in return about his life, his family and his hopes and aspirations for his future in St Davids hope that I can impart something to the Diocese. IRST of all Keith, can you What are your priorities in the What are your interests in Ftell us a little about your short term? Ministry? family? In the short term, to listen. To listen Where to start? This could take I’m married to Anne and have to what makes the diocese and its hours . . . well preaching has always been for 42 years. We met whilst people tick. I’d like to hear how been something that is important to we were both working for the others see the role of the archdea- me, I like hearing interpretations Spring Midland Bank. We have two chil- con. What I don’t want to do is fall of the Word, and have struggled dren, heather, who is a Major in into the trap of answering ques- to do as well as those who have the Queen Alexandra Nurses, and tions that nobody’s asking. inspired me. I specialised in Bibli- discussion Jonathan who is a fundraiser for cal Narrative Theology when I charities and other organisations. What are you looking forward did my Masters degree in Applied We also have four grandchildren, to the most? Theology at Newcastle University. all boys. I’m also fascinated by the whole evenings To be honest, the new challenge area of vocation, whether lay or Wyn is inviting people and new environment that comes Can you tell us a little about ordained, it’s great to listen to other in the diocese to a series of began for me. I started training at with moving to and learning about your ministry so far? people’s stories, and get inspiration discussion evenings. He hopes Ystrad Meurig, so I feel that I’ve a new Diocese. It strikes me as I was ordained in Monmouth from others in our Church family. that parishes will respond by come full circle. I started here and being a tremendous challenge at a Diocese in 1971, and served two encouraging the young and the am now returning, it feels nice to significant stage of the diocese’s curacies there. At first I thought What gets you up in the mature to attend come back. Over the years I’ve ministry, I’m very much looking that there was nothing beyond the morning? done a bit of consultancy for the forward to being alongside you all. he Bishop would like to take Monmouth Diocese, that is to say I diocese, whether delivering train- An alarm clock! No seriously, it’s Tthis opportunity to listen to felt that I would serve all my minis- ing for clergy or helping with that no two days are the same, I your views about “what the church try there. however this changed ICMe (Initial Continuing Minis- Do you have any regrets about always approach each day with a is for”. The evening will focus on and I spent 23 years in the Church terial education) or POT (Post moving? great sense of wonder and think our situation now and seek ideas of england, specialising in the ordination training). In 2003, I Anne and I will miss swansea, about what might happen, what through discussion about how we training of adults and youth work conducted the ordination retreat. we liked living there. I’ve been people I might meet. My family can step forward as disciples of as well as incumbencies in three I’ve visited a few times since following quite a few local soccer is of course always a source of Christ in mission. very different parishes. I worked my appointment and am trying teams and have thoroughly enjoyed delight. As we cannot all meet together for the Carlisle Diocese as Adviser to learn more about the various this. But swansea will always be in the same place at the same time for Clergy Training, and for the I know Keith that you’re a busy communities by looking at the there. I’ll also miss working with the Archdeacons have arranged last eight years I have been serv- person, but do you have any local papers etc. I’ve been mainly the swansea and Brecon Diocese local meetings so that the Bishop ing in the Diocese of swansea and hobbies or outside interests? a tourist here up until this point, and its people, it has been a pleas- can hear as many views as possi- Brecon as Director of Ministry. but I’m really looking forward to ure to serve there and of course I’m a keen watcher of sport, I get ble. The dates for each area are coming back. I was here in 1977 we had five lovely years living to maybe 35 soccer matches in the How well do you know the listed below and the place will as a Youth Officer at the British in the Cathedral Close in Brecon. season. I follow Rugby Union and ? be announced. Posters will be Council of Churches Dayspring But I’m sure that there are experi- Rugby league and speedway. I’m provided around the deaneries for Well really this is a lovely coin- Youth Festival that was based at ences ahead that we haven’t even a keen photographer and an avid people to see, as well as return slips cidence, as this was where it all the Cathedral in st Davids. dreamed about! reader of just about anything. I’m for those who intend to come. each meeting will start at 7pm and last until 9pm. Refreshments Evangelism Team St Cynwyl’s re-opens will be provided. Daugleddau, Diocesan committees are all very well – but what have they and got to do with anything that goes on in parishes? Grass-roots 28th March Clarbeston initiatives are great – but how will anyone else know about your Road Memorial Hall good ideas? Carmarthen and URING 2010 the diocesan promoting a deanery mission or 29th March St John’s Devangelism Team was think- supporting evangelism courses in Church Hall, Carmarthen ing about how to link up these two parishes. Cydweli ends of evangelism in our diocese: The first opportunity for reps 31st March Dafen Church Hall parish initiatives and diocesan- and the team to meet was over a & wide vision. The answer the team meal together on 14th January. and Dyffryn Aman came up with was to try to identify On that occasion we started to get 1st April Hall a network of people, one in each to know one another and shared Pembroke deanery, who could make that link feedback on Walk st David and its 4th April St John’s Church and who would help to enthuse impact. Hall, their deanery with a vision for Not all deaneries have yet been evangelism. able to appoint a rep . . . so do ask Roose These representatives are your Area who your rep is. 7th April Church of the intended to keep their deaneries If your deanery already has one, Bishop led a special service in February to celebrate Holy Spirit, informed about wider initiatives in it will be useful to know. If not – the re-opening of St. Cynwyl’s Parish Church in . and Ultra outreach: Back to Church sunday, well, it could be you! The church had to close last year so that repairs could be Aeron and Glyn Aeron for example, or one-offs like the The evangelism Team is carried out to the floor, which had become dangerous. Services 11th April Holy Trinity Walk st David Mission. And they hoping to make faith-sharing part moved to the village hall while the work was in progress. Now, Hall, will be there to keep the dioce- of the normal life of every parish in with the repairs completed on time and within budget, the Llanbadarn Fawr san evangelism Team informed our diocese. A person in each dean- congregation can return. 12th April St Anne’s Church about good things going on in ery with a brief to keep evangelism Aberporth has had a Christian building dedicated to St Cynwyl Hall, their parishes. They could encour- on our agenda could be a real step for over 1,400 years. The present one is Victorian. It replaced an and Sub Aeron, age evangelism in their deanery towards making this hope a reality. old and crumbling Norman style building whose only remnant is 18th April Newcastle and in individual churches, maybe Will Strange the old font outside the South porch Emlyn Church Hall Pobl Dewi, March 2011 3 Appointments CME: From Sudan to St Davids Marianne Osborne, Curate in , explains CME and reports on February’s fascinating lecture

ONTINUAl Ministerial edu- and advocacy played a major role Ccation (CMe) days are a series in her work there. of lectures run throughout the year All those present at the lecture to assist clerics in keeping up to marvelled at the depth and simplic- Revd Jeffrey Gainer, Vicar date with new information and new ity of the faith of the people of of & & ideas. It is also, of course, an excel- sudan, and, on a personal level, Merthyr w Pastoral Care lent opportunity to take time out of I was particularly touched by of Abernant, Area Dean of Revd Sian Wight, Priest busy parish life to catch up socially the natural beauty of the outdoor St Clears, to serve also as in Charge of St Ishmael’s with one another. In February, we churches within the shade of great Canon of the Cathedral, w & , were very excited to welcome our trees, whose very roots created occupying the 6th Cursal stall to serve also as Vocations Revd Dr Rhiannon M M guest speaker, the Revd Canon seats for all those who wished to Adviser for the Archdeaconry Johnson, NS Priest in Joanna Udal, who is the Arch- worship. of Carmarthen Charge of Walwyn’s Castle, bishop of Canterbury’s secretary It is easy to forget at times to serve also as half-time for Affairs. that we are indeed part of a much Diocesan Course Director for Joanna has travelled extensively bigger picture; in fact we are part Exploring Faith throughout the many countries of of a worldwide family of Christ. the Anglican Communion along- some would say it is our diversity side Archbishop Rowan. her role as Anglicans that is our Achilles’ requires a strategic ‘macro’ over- heel, our primary weakness, but view as well as attention on a I say it is our greatest strength: ‘micro’ level to particular issues individualism through diversity, relating to individual provinces or grounded in and through the love communion-wide concerns. of Christ. With a collection of the most “This life is revealed, and we have wonderful images from these trav- seen it and testify to it, and declare Revd Bryan D Witt, Vicar els, Joanna successfully reminded to you the eternal life that was with of St Clears w & us of the great size and diversity the Father and was revealed to us & Llanfihangel Revd Paul Boyle, Priest of our communion and, of course, - we declare to you what we have how different we are as individual seen and heard that you also may Abercywyn, Diocesan in Charge of Burton & provinces, historically and cultur- have communion with us; and truly Director of Education, to , appointed Revd Paul Mackness, ally. It is these differences that our communion is with the Father serve also as Honorary part-time Priest in Charge Incumbent, United Benefice make such a colour- and with His Son Jesus Christ. Canon of the Cathedral of Camrose & also to assist the Diocesan Social of , to also ful denomination, with Christ as These things we write so that our Responsibility Officer serve as Clerical Secretary the cornerstone of all we have built Joy may be complete” 1 John1. 2-4 of the Diocesan Conference, together throughout the world in (Biblical reference taken from the Diocesan Standing his name. the introduction section of the Committee and the Diocesan It was interesting to hear document entitled ‘The Anglican Nomination Board that from 2001-2009 Joanna was Communion Covenant’.) selected to serve in sudan as assist- If you are interested in learn- ant to their Archbishop. she shared ing more about the workings of with us her experience of a coun- the Anglican communion there is try whose people’s lives at that an excellent Website to explore at time were tainted by violence and www.anglicancommunion.org political dispute. Peace-making

Revd R Paul Davies, Vicar of & , to serve also as Diocesan Warden of Revd Euryl Howells, Ordinands appointed Senior Chaplain, Revd Alan M Chadwick, Hywel Dda Health Board, Rector of Hubberston & Area 22 November 2010 Dean of Roose, to be Priest in Charge of & Revd Matthew F Baynham, to remain as Area Dean of (currently Permission to Roose Officiate) to serve as part- time Priest in Charge of Llanllwchaearn & Llanina, 1 March 2011 Revd Canon Joanna Udal with Wyn Evans Revd Philip Wyn Davies, Vicar of , Ystrad Meurig & Strata Florida & Other CME days arranged for 2011 Blaenpennal, to serve also as 7 and 8 June, Workshop on multi-church ministry, with Area Dean of the Deanery of Revd Canon Jeremy Martineau Revd Richard S Wood, Lampeter & Ultra Aeron Curate, w Revd Ceri Davies, Team 11 and 12 October, Workshop on non-violent communica- Aberaeron & Llanddewi Vicar in the Rectorial Revd Peter O Jones, Curate, tion, with Penny Spawforth w Llanbadarn Benefice of Llanelli, appointed Hubberston, to be Priest in 17 November, Staying and leaving: the impact of incum- Trefeglwys, to be Team Vicar, Curate of & Charge, Llanfihangel Genau’r bency and vacancy length on church growth, with Ven Rectorial Benefice of Llanelli, Newchurch & a’r Glyn, Talybont & , Bob Jackson 4 April 2011 Betws, 1 January 2011 16 May 2011 4 Pobl Dewi, March 2011 Taking our boots off? Walk St David. What a great mission! But what have parishes done since, wonders Richard Wood Music Sunday O many churches involved in into ‘normal life’? Was this focus you, your church or your group of that week. Many have found that 2011 sWalk st David last year found on sharing our faith a flash in the parishes continue the good work there are people in their commu- it to be a wonderful time of adven- pan; something which, now we’ve that Walk st David might have nities who are interested in finding RSCM’s Music Sunday will, ture – doing new things, old things tried it, we can not worry about for inspired? out more about the Christian faith this year, be on 13th June in a new way and everything with a couple of years? Across the diocese lots of and have been able to go to Alpha, the extra enthusiasm, energy and surely not! The apostle Peter churches are finding that some- Start! or Menter courses as a result. “Try to imagine a sunday with- experience of the teams of mission- encouraged us to ‘always be thing which started during Walk st some areas have even seen out any music and you realise ers provided by Through Faith prepared to . . . give the reason for David has been able to continue. the results of the Faith survey how absolutely vital music is to Missions (TFM). the hope that you have’ (1 Peter Things like Men’s Breakfasts, conducted at the time of the mission worship,” says lindsay Gray, But was that it? Just another 3:15). We may have been prepared Parent and Toddler groups, services get interest in the local press. Director of the Royal school of ‘week of mission’ where we make to do this during Walk st David, in care homes, new opportunities Church Music, “and on 13th June an extra effort before relaxing back but what about now? how can in schools have all grown out of Faith we’re encouraging churches to But there are even more oppor- celebrate music in worship in tunities than this! Maybe Walk whatever way they can.” st David has whetted your appe- tite for mission events and you’d Radio Four like to invite the team you had A wide variety of events have (or others from TFM) back again. already been registered, ranging Maybe you saw some people come from a special collection, concerts to faith in that week or others begin and recitals, to services with appro- to take their faith more seriously priate hymns, readings and prayers. who now need someone to come Music sunday is also being marked alongside them as they begin to be by the BBC – on Radio Four with a disciples. Perhaps you would like live broadcast of Sunday Worship, to learn more about what being an on Radio Two’s Sunday Half Hour, evangelist means. and Songs of Praise from Winches- Maybe it’s not time to take ter Cathedral. those boots off after all! The Dioc- A major part of Music sunday esan evangelism Group and our is The 50:50 Campaign. Participat- new, but growing, evangelism ing churches can use their events to Network would love to hear what raise funds and split the proceeds sort of things you’re doing or what between themselves and the sort of help and inspiration you RsCM. might need. Ideas, downloadable resources Do get in touch with me at and suggestions for appropriate [email protected] or any music, readings and prayers are member of the evangelism Team, available at and keep walking! www.rscm.com/musicsunday Support for worship leaders  and pastoral visitors Following on from their successful training day for pastoral visitors, the Lay Development Group is  now offering a workshop for Worship Leaders

T DAVID’s Diocese lay tried and tested resources. re-evaluate where we are at in our sDevelopment Group recently The main speakers were Revd own visiting”; “It was time well  held a training day at st Mary’s Canon stuart Bell and Jean Morgan spent”; “excellent training day in hall, Cardigan, where they both of st Michael’s Cardigan!” explored the “ministry of compas- and they were very well received The group is now offering sion”. The day was aimed at those by the 40 attendees. The feedback another day’s training, this time  involved in pastoral visiting; offer- after the day was very positive: aimed at Worship leaders and ing good advice, practical and “I believe the day energised those those wishing to learn more about  spiritual guidance and a tool kit of of us who came and helped us to this important laity role. This one day workshop will be held in the  Regency hall, on saturday 26th March 2011.  The day will focus on: • The planning and creation of  themed word services  • Raising awareness of the   numerous and creative resources available which  support worship today • Guidance on writing a good homily  If you would be interested in this workshop, then please contact  Caroline Mansell by telephone:   01834 810055, or  [email protected]  Pobl Dewi, March 2011 5

of the Cathedral and the day to day Roadshow administration and ministry of the Dean, Chapter and Cathedral staff. Y mae Eglwys Gadeiriol Tyddewi, yn gysylltiedig â thystiolaeth Cristionogol am dros 1,700 o flynyddoedd, ac yn dal We anticipate that the presentation i fod mor bwysig ac yn ganolog i’n bywydau ni heddiw. Y mae cyfres o deithiau wedi eu trefni i bwysleisio gwaith will last no longer than 45 minutes, y Gadeirlan ac i ddangos sut y gall plwyfi, grwpiau ac unigolion fanteisio ar y cyfleusterau a’r gwasanaethau sydd with an opportunity for questions ar gael. Y mae’r Canon Trigiannol, Dorrien Davies, yn eich gwahodd i ymuno ag ef yn un o’r digwyddiadau yn eich and answers, and will be followed Archddiaconiaeth. by refreshments. St Davids Cathedral, an iconic place of Christian witness for over 1,700 years, is as relevant and central to our It is our hope that this forth- lives today as it has ever been. A series of roadshows are planned, which will highlight the work of the Cathedral coming Roadshow will enable the and demonstrate how parishes, groups and individuals can take advantage of the facilities and services on offer. Cathedral to be seen as a focus Canon Residentiary, Dorrien Davies, invites us all to one of the Archdeaconry events for the Diocesan family and will highlight its relevance for parishes Ne of the most recognisable and their priests. The presentation Oand iconographic symbols will provide information which of Wales is st Davids Cathedral. will enable groups and individuals located in a beautiful and majestic to maximise the use of the facili- landscape it has borne testimony ties and services that are available to the Christian faith in Wales here in st Davids. It will also stress for over 1700 years. It is a place future projects at the Cathedral, steeped in history and enriched by such as the planned restoration centuries of tradition and folklore. of the shrine of st David and the It is primarily a place of worship, education programme attached to prayer and spirituality which this. reflects the Christian gospel in its presence and yearly cycle of praise Aims and objectives and witness. Dates and venues have been sometimes there is a misun- arranged for each Archdeaconry derstanding about the role of the and posters will be issued in due Cathedral and what it can offer course. Our hope is that this pres- the Diocese. For many it is a place entation will act as a starting point of pilgrimage and for the curious for parish priests and their congre- it is nothing more than an epic of gations to appreciate, and make architecture, full of history of the more use of, the Cathedral and its locality and its influence further facilities. It will also illustrate that afield. Yet st Davids Cathedral is the Cathedral can help and support more than these things. parishes in their own ministries, One of my favourite pro- in the realisation that prayer is grammes on the television is The constantly being offered for indi- Antiques Roadshow. I am sure that vidual parishes of this Diocese and you, like me, are amazed by some their aims and objectives in the of the objects that are brought to name of Christ. be valued and appreciated by the have always had and never really of the Cathedral Church. It will be The Roadshow will consist of a We look forward to meeting experts. I am always delighted appreciated. an opportunity for us to give insight presentation which will incorporate you all at the Cathedral Road- by the expressions of amazement The object of the Cathedral to the structures that make it possi- its role as a spiritual centre, a place show which, we hope, will provide and pleasure when people real- Roadshow is to draw to the attention ble for the Cathedral to be seen as of musical excellence in the choral a glimpse of our life here at st ise the value of something they of our Diocese the value of the life the Mother Cathedral of Wales. foundation, the role of the Friends Davids.

The Diocesan Tourism Group’s latest Training Day 2 Making the world welcome St Davids Cathedral provided useful information 0 for parishes wanting to open up their churches to 1 visitors this summer. Topics covered included insurance, Roadshow 1 local history, heritage tours, genealogy and how the Churches Tourism Network is All members of the St Davids Diocese are invited supporting the growth of faith to attend the Cathedral Roadshow.

This is a new enterprise of outreach and will be held: by day, or week by week, and with-

out whom some sections of the Archdeaconry of Cardigan The Big Society would be much poorer, Tuesday 14 June at 7.00pm in spirit, health and wellbeing. Holy Trinity Church Hall, Aberaeron According to Elfed Godding, National Director for Evangelical If you would like to let us Alliance Wales, the combined work of the Christian voluntary know about similar schemes which Archdeaconry of St Davids sector equates to around £102m of services provided in Wales you are running, and which you Wednesday 15 June at 7.00pm think would be of interest to read- St Mary’s Church, Haverfordwest WeINI, the Council of the provided [to ] can be ers, please get in touch with the GChristian Voluntary sector in estimated at £2.9m per year’. In editor at [email protected]. Gener- Archdeaconry of Carmarthen Wales, has established local coun- Carmarthenshire this figure rises to ally, articles, in english or Welsh, should be an absolute maximum Thursday 16 June at 7.00pm cils covering each local Authority an estimated £8m per year, and in of 400 words and accompanied Halliwell Hall, Trinity College Carmarthen and provides leadership and direc- to £13.8m per year. tion to those working in a variety so, with The Big society once by one or two good quality photo- graphs. Also, if you think it would Each evening will include a presentation by members of the Cathedral, of areas such as the elderly, ex pris- again in the spotlight, the series be helpful, please provide informa- a question and answer session and light refreshments. oners, drug rehabilitation, social of articles on pages 6 to 9 give a tion about setting up the scheme, care, mothers and toddlers, health, flavour of some of the work being Please contact the Deanery Office on 01437 720202 equality and much more. Accord- done by our church communities how you promoted it and the ing to Gweini, in Ceredigion alone across the Diocese of st Davids. response to date. it is estimated that ‘the economic There are undoubtedly countless Come and hear what the Cathedral has to offer you and your parish benefit of just part of the services more which open their doors day 6 Pobl Dewi, March 2011 Global Fair trade matters Following this year’s Fairtrade Fortnight, Amelia Gardner ethical issues reminds us that Traidcraft producers rely heavily on the Christian community for support Revd Canon Dr Peter Sedgwick, principal of St Michael’s College, Llandaff, has been appointed a member of the Anglican-Roman “show Off Your label” was the Catholic International Commission (ARCIC) theme of Fairtrade Fortnight 2011, urging us “to get loud and proud RCIC, which was set up 40 years ago to promote unity between the about Fairtrade, to load the FAIR- Atwo churches, will begin a new round of dialogue in May. Its focus TRADe MARK with meaning and will be how local churches across the world can respond to a range of ethi- get more people excited about the cal issues such as abortion, capital punishment, cloning, the environment difference their choices can make. and consumerism. The talks are expected to last at least five years. let’s show off a different way of Canon sedgwick, an ethicist who has published widely on Anglican doing trade and why we support it!” social issues, said he was looking forward to the discussions which he Peter Sedgwick The Fairtrade Foundation, is a hoped would further Christian unity. certification scheme, established in 1992 by CAFOD, Christian Aid, Oxfam, Traidcraft and the World Development Movement, later joined by the Women’s Insti- tute and endorsed by the Mothers’ that all tea, coffee, sugar, biscuits, Dads help themselves Union. The first annual Fairtrade and even Communion wine served A group of DIY Dads clubbed together to work on each others’ houses, with great success, Fortnight took place in 1995, and in your church, is fairly traded. look out for the growing range reports Peter Arnold in 2001 Garstang in lancashire declared itself “the world’s first of Traidcraft products available, he dads from the Plant Dewi dads!) are available, but dads are Fairtrade Town”. which can be ordered from their TNeyland Dads’ group have welcome to attend without a child Traidcraft was the brainchild of headquarters in Gateshead. Visit taken a novel step to help each other if they just fancy a chat and want to Richard Adams, a visionary former their website www.traidcraft.org. out and to save some cash. After a sample one of the lunches. theology student, and launched in uk, or telephone 0870 444 1543. conversation about how difficult For more information about 1979 by a group of Christians as Remember that the Fairtrade status it is to get jobs done around the the groups and regular free day a practical response to the gospel of our diocese will be reviewed house when you are looking after trips for dads and your kids contact of Jesus. I first heard of it in 1980 periodically, and we need to make children, and about the expense of Peter Arnold 01646 689095 or text at a Mothers’ Union meeting. every effort to maintain it. Christmas, it was decided to start ‘Dad’ to 07805 078967 and we’ll having spent several years living The acclaimed actor Colin a DIY circle. A group of 3-4 dads get back to you. Transport avail- in a Nigerian village where most of Firth said recently: “I’m a voter got together to fix up each others’ able on request. our neighbours existed at subsist- and a citizen and a consumer, and houses. “We save some money, Fishguard Dads’ Group – every ence level, and now cocooned in that makes me complicit in all the have some fun and do something Monday (Term Time only) from a hampshire vicarage, Traidcraft things that radiate out from that. for ourselves” says luke Allerton 11am to 1pm at Fishguard Family offered me a small way of help- everything I buy is a political act of . Centre, The Old library, Fishguard ing poor producers of commodities – purchasing habits are like votes, “The idea has been a great Pembroke Dads’ Group – every we use daily, but rarely stop to we have choices.” success” says Project Worker, Dale Tuesday (Term Time only) from think where they come from. since so let’s vote with our shopping Barker “and, with some of the paint 11am to 1pm at Pembroke Cricket then the number and quality of bags for People before Profit. donated from FRAMe magazine, it Picture from front to back: Club, Upper Road, Traidcraft products has increased has cost next to nothing”. Brian Burnett – Dad; Luke Pembroke hugely. last year they focussed on Plant Dewi Dads’ groups are Allerton – Dad; Pete Arnold – Dads’ Group – every tea. This year they have concen- Bishop’s open to all dads and children, of Project Worker; Dale Barker – Wednesday (Term Time only) from trated on honey. any age, during term time. Games Project Worker; Mark Watling 11am to 1pm at The Club, Charles Traidcraft relies heavily on the and activities for the children (and – Dad st, Neyland. support of the Christian community Lent Book in their mission of fighting poverty through trade. But with increas- ing success has come increasing competition, and there is a danger Good food and good company that their prophetic voice may be lost without the continued support of Christians. so please make sure Serving weekly meals to the homeless in Aberystwyth has strengthened community ties and fostered unexpected relationships, says Elaine Jensen ter, which we then learned relies on INCe November 2009 around ing: when we started we would The links between st Michael’s food donations, so a ministry was s20 members of st Michael’s regularly get 3-5 guests each week, and the shelter started when a started collecting food donated by Church in Aberystwyth have been but now we routinely have 8 or donation of food was made after members of the congregation. We serving weekly meals to the home- more - we’ve learned to relax a bit the harvest thanksgiving service in take the food once a week to the less. every sunday we provide and cater flexibly! If we have too st Michael’s to the homeless shel- shelter. We asked the shelter staff good food and friendly company much food we try and distribute it ter in Aberystwyth. Following this, what else we could do to help and for individuals in the care of Cere- to those who have come, who often a relationship developed between were told that sundays are diffi- digion Care society, who run want to take food to their friends, the staff who run the shelter, and cult days for the homeless because Finding Hope and Meaning the homeless shelter and other or we donate it to the homeless the church: a group of church many places where they like to in Suffering temporary housing projects in shelter. youth helped redecorate the shel- hang out, and which are rela- Trystan Owain Hughes Aberystwyth. It’s been so encour- tively safe for them, are not open. ISBN 978 0 281 06249 2 aging getting to know our guests. If homeless people have nowhere Price £9.99 We’ve made some really good safe to go they are more vulner- Diagnosed with a degenerative spinal relationships and it can genuinely able to negative influences. so we condition at the age of 34, Trys- feel like family as we eat together decided to commit to weekly meals tan Owain hughes was surprised to around a nicely laid table, eating and I am pleased we did. The work discover that, instead of increasing his tasty, wholesome food. sometimes is not onerous as enough people are unhappiness, it spurred him on to seek we see our sunday lunch guests in prepared to help, and the people out sources of hope and meaning. he our church services. We pray that who come are genuinely grate- suggests that learning how to face our all of them will find Jesus and his ful, polite and engaging. We enjoy suffering and how to wait patiently may peace for themselves, and that he their company and benefit from the be the secret of finding joy in our lives. will enable them to find his path interaction. I believe this minis- To order, email: for them, free of any addictions in try is on God’s heart – he loves [email protected] safe and loving homes. the stranger, giving him food and or call 01235 465 500 or visit Our numbers seem to be grow- clothing (Deut 10:18, 19). www.spckpublishing.co.uk Pobl Dewi, March 2011 7 Interfaith Working together & The Big for change Society Following an inter-church meeting last year, Paul Davies celebrates the success of four new projects in Burry Port Don MacGregor, Diocesan Interfaith Officer, reflects on OUR exciting projects have Christian festivals like Christmas. current issues Fbeen established in Burry Port In response to these concerns, as the result of churches of differ- last september the Burry Port ANY Christians wonder ent denominations considering Christian Forum was established Mwhat interfaith work is for. how they might work together. (http://burryportchristianforum. In West Wales, surely there is little An informal inter-church webplus.com). Its aim is to address need for it? I would argue that meeting in 2010 resulted in consid- the Lund Principle and act together because there is relatively little eration of the big ecumenical in matters that are of common exposure to people of other faiths challenge posed by the Faith and concern to us. so far, four projects in this area, there is even more Order Conference of the World have emerged in response to need for awareness of the beliefs Council of Churches meeting in concerns raised. of other faiths in this divided lund in 1952: that churches should The first is Hot Potato. This is world. For many, interfaith work act together in all matters except an evangelistic project that seeks of emergency food to people in The fourth project was the has one over-riding purpose: to those in which deep differences to meet people in their own envi- crisis who have been referred by establishment of a life-sized crib bring peace to the planet. Peaceful of conviction compel them to act ronment – the pub! It meets on local care professionals using a next to the Christmas tree in the communities can help build world separately. a sunday evening at 8pm in the voucher system. town’s memorial gardens. This was peace. There is a strong tradition Four areas of life and ministry Neptune hotel and invites people The third project is a Youth so successful in reminding people of peace and tolerance in Welsh seemed to dominate the conver- to come and listen to a speaker Café. This is a facility set up in of the real meaning of Christmas Christianity which helped shape sation between representatives talk about an aspect of life such as the new Plant Dewi Centre, which that the town council has agreed the nation’s consciousness. such of the ten churches in the town: forgiveness with an opportunity for opens every Thursday from 7-9pm. to us building an easter Garden in virtues are at the heart of all true declining church attendance; the discussion and debate. It provides a safe space for chil- April. religions and they are gifts that can little church involvement in issues The second project is the Food- dren of comprehensive school age We have been enormously be shared. Religious divides are of social responsibility; the lack bank. We have partnered elim to meet and socialize and also to energized and encouraged by the fuelled by fear and misunderstand- of work with teenagers; and the Pentecostal Church in this Chris- hear about the Christian gospel in impact of Christians dwelling ing and rarely reflect the reality increasing commercialization of tian initiative to provide three days an informal and relaxed context. together in unity. of those who live with an open- hearted faith. It is time to dwell on the positives and recognise that people who seek to live peace- fully in caring and compassionate ways can be role models within our Co-operatively speaking communities, whatever their spir- itual tradition. Trevor Winn, from the Pencader Food Co-operative Project, reports on the success of an initiative ‘Community cohesion’ is one to provide low-cost, good quality fruit and vegetables to the local community of the political ‘in-terms’, with the aim of developing a society he Food Development Officer with common vision and sense of Tfor the West Wales Regenera- belonging, where the diversity of tion Unit visited Pencader Family people’s backgrounds and circum- Centre (part of the Diocesan Plant stances is appreciated and valued. Dewi organisation) in 2009. she This is being actively promoted in outlined how a food co-opera- school curriculum policies and is tive scheme could be set up and part of the aim of interfaith work. provided a kit to get us started, And now we have the concept which included bags, a set of of ‘The Big society’, with the scales, an account book and other government’s aim to ‘take power necessary items. Next we found a away from politicians and give it to willing group of volunteers and we people’, thus developing the values were ready to go. of care and compassion and getting We found a good supplier people involved. This is, of course, in Carmarthen who was sympa- in line with the teachings of Jesus, thetic towards the project and, by and with interfaith work promoting submitting our order on a Wednes- understanding and respect for the day afternoon, the supplier would core values of love and compassion have the goods ready to pick up the in all the different world faiths. following morning to take to the The recently launched global family centre. We provide a bag of ‘Charter for Compassion’ calls for vegetables for £2.50 and a bag of ‘a return to the ancient principle that fruit for £2.00. any interpretation of scriptures that Our vision was to help provide a breeds violence, hatred or disdain proper diet to people who wouldn’t is illegitimate’. From the Christian otherwise take this option, espe- tradition, it is what Jesus was call- cially the elderly and isolated. We ing us to 2,000 years ago – to enter were very pleased at the response the kingdom of God and relate to and watched as our vision became each other from a different place, a reality. the project would not be able to and a workshop where the children was selected to receive a visit from not of competition and aggres- however, by January 2010, continue. designed a logo for the van. We can Mark James, the Chief executive sion, but from a place of openness we realised that there was one When a representative from now deliver produce to homes and Officer of Carmarthenshire County and understanding. Maybe we are major problem: we were carrying Carmarthenshire County Coun- other establishments, such as the Council, in late 2010, and we were approaching the time when, to £60-£90 worth of produce which cil Regeneration Unit visited the local school, and small towns, for also voted the best project in north quote from luke’s gospel (1:78-9), was becoming a strain on our small centre we explained our predica- example . Furthermore, Carmarthenshire last December, “The dawn from on high will break Vauxhall Corsa which was becom- ment, following which we received many people now visit the centre to for which we received £200. Our upon us, to give light to those who ing a strain. All those 25 kilo bags a grant of £11,676.22. This covered pick up their fruit and vegetables, aim is to keep prices low and we sit in darkness and in the shadow of potatoes were beginning to tell! the cost of leasing a van for eight who otherwise might not have seen always appreciate donations to help of death, to guide our feet into the We realised that either we months (which has since been what we do. with rising fuel costs! For more way of peace.” needed to get some kind of van or extended), advertising material, Due to our efforts, our project information call 01559 384490. 8 Pobl Dewi, March 2011 St Paul’s Family Centre Debbie James gives an insight into the work of an organisation which helps and supports families in need T PAUl’s Family Centre (part sof the Diocesan Plant Dewi organisation) was established as a registered charity in 1997, and has an excellent track record in the provision of support to families in the Bigyn/Tyisha community in llanelli, Carmarthenshire. It offers a safe, welcoming, sup-portive place where families The centre has made it a prior- for Polish parents and their chil- can experience a variety of activi- ity to help tackle the effects of dren, which provide them with an ties in an inclusive environment. the recession. We have a good opportunity to enjoy crafts and We help tackle issues within the reputation in offering a non-threat- play activities together and it is community, whether they stem ening place where people feel hoped that, in time, that they will from poverty, isolation or the safe, thus helping rebuild confi- also join in the other activities that restricted life chances symptomatic dence, self-esteem and motivation, we provide. of living in such a socially deprived and allowing the acquisition of We are situated in the centre area. In doing so, we hope to have new skills. We also help fami- of the community on the site of a a positive, empowering impact on lies develop coping strategies and demolished church. It is humbling the individuals who attend, and the provide workshops on CV writ- to think that, even though the community as a whole. deprivation in Wales. Recently local people. This has resulted in ing, interview techniques and basic church itself has long gone, we are The continuous decline and there have been further job losses a higher number of families expe- skills, as well as advice on budg- carrying on its work in the commu- closure of local industry has led due to redundancies at a local car riencing a lack of confidence and eting and debt management. There nity by reaching out and caring for to the community experienc- plant as well as the closures of self esteem, debt problems, tension are also childcare facilities availa- those in need. ing poverty and exclusion and the local copper works and many within family relationships, family ble to allow parents to take part in For further information call the centre is in one of the highest of the town centre shops, all of breakdown and housing problems the training. 01554 775338. ranked areas of health and income which had provided work for due to payment defaults. We also offer family sessions

Revd Don Macgregor, we have enjoyed two Christmas Carol Ministry in the services and two harvest Thanks- Hidden histories giving services. Trading just stops Martin Greig reports on the work of Seren for a short while to enable every- market place one to join in if they wish. As one Seren is a local charity providing a free, confidential counselling trader said. ‘If we cannot cele- service for adults who have been sexually abused as children. Jennie Annis, a priest in Fishguard, enjoys working brate harvest in a Farmers Market, Clients come from all walks of life, including, sadly, some who alongside traders in her local market, and celebrates where can we celebrate?’ have been abused by clergy or other church workers. Apart the fact that it is an excellent form of witness and The hours are long, especially on from one-to-one counselling, Seren offers support groups and evangelism cold, wet winter mornings, and the financial rewards low. however, if workshops, pre- and post-counselling, when funds allow, and hAVe been a self-supporting about Cathedral and local church you enjoy baking and are a self- provides specialised training and support for counsellors I priest for the past 15 years and I services, has increased. We have supporting priest looking for a earn my living baking for Country been a bridge for people who are new challenge in public ministry, hIlDhOOD sexual abuse we take them seriously when they Markets, based in haverfordwest hesitant to approach their own I would highly recommend that Caffects adults in a wide range do, and we provide support and and Fishguard Farmers Markets. minister and a sounding post for you contact your nearest Country of ways. For those who were able counselling. Country Markets (formerly known those who are unhappy with their Market, who will help you obtain to tell a trusted adult at the time it seren’s clients did not get such as WI Country Market) was the church life. the necessary Food hygiene certifi- happened, and for whom the abuse support, and have reached adult- original Farmers Market, set up In the Fishguard Farmers cates. You, too, can then enjoy the was then stopped and appropri- hood as survivors of a traumatic in 1919 to enable farmers’ wives Market, with the support and camaraderie of the market place, ate support given, damage may be childhood. We provide a highly throughout the UK to supplement encouragement of my colleague, which takes a lot of beating. minimal. however, for those who specialised service whose well their income on a co-operative have had to keep it a secret, were trained counsellors work without basis. Country Markets today still ignored, disbelieved, or silenced charging. however, this is not a work on the same principles and by threats, by shame or by igno- “fashionable” area of work and we high standards as when the organi- rance of where to turn, and/or have are always looking for support in zation first began. suffered prolonged abuse over all forms. Our Bishop writes, “The Until Christmas we had two many years, the consequences Christian gospel points us to God’s other priests in our co-operative, may be severe. Most suffer from special care for the most vulnerable but they now have other minis- chronically low self-esteem, and in society and support for seren is try commitments. Working on many have problems with motiva- one way to respond. Your money, the market is an excellent form tion; some have turned to alcohol, your prayers, your voice in the of witness and evangelism. some substance abuse or self-harm, some political arena, and maybe your of the other market traders were, experience social or relationship direct involvement, can all help at first, a bit suspicious of a priest difficulties and become isolated. bring light into lives that have been working in their midst, openly They are victims twice over, first far too dark for far too long.” For wearing the ‘uniform’, but the of their abusers and secondly of more details please see the website camaraderie between traders has society’s reluctance to hear and www.seren-wales.org.uk, or call been a reward in itself. respond to their hidden histories. 0845 4561657. When I first began work- Through counselling, disturbing ing on the market people would symptoms are diminished, and safe stare in disbelief, some customers ways found to cope with hitherto asked how a priest could ‘stoop so overwhelming feelings. FINAL DATE low’, one customer even asked if I With recent, heightened aware- for articles for the thought it a suitable job for a priest! ness of childhood sexual abuse But as the years have passed, the has come an increased commit- July edition of number of people approaching us ment to protecting our children Pobl Dewi (my husband, who is a Reader, also – in the family, in the community, works on the stall) with spiritual in churches. We try to encourage is 17th June questions, and tourists enquiring and enable children to speak out, Pobl Dewi, March 2011 9 Friends, food and fun Following refurbishment and redevelopment of the church hall at Steynton, the recently launched parish lunch club has proved an unqualified success s part of its Venturing in in so doing, to continue to provide such was the demand we began AMission initiative, which aims an attractive facility for all users with 44 members, which has been to build on, and further develop, The work started in January 2010 sustained, and we have a waiting its outreach into the community at and was completed in June at a list! We meet on the first Monday large, the member- cost of £170,000, and the refur- of each month and the meal ship at steynton, near Milford bished, renamed steynton Church includes a main course, dessert and haven, resolved to redevelop and and Community hall was launched tea or coffee. Menus have included improve the facilities offered by in August. This provided opportu- a roast pork dinner, sausage and their existing church hall. The nity for many initiatives to use the mash and a magnificent four course proposals sought to: make improve- hall, one of these being the “steyn- Christmas lunch, all for £3. ments to the existing structure; ton Parish luncheon Club” The only criterion is that mem- incorporate new facilities: a new The luncheon Club opened bers are over 60! Anyone interested kitchen, disabled toilets, easy access its doors in september 2010 with in joining should contact Gaynor for all throughout; undertake reme- the original intention of limit- Ford on 01646 693452 dial works to the existing structure ing membership to 20. however A centre of learning within the community St Marks School, Haverfordwest, reaches out into the whole community and fosters aspirations

T MARK’s VA school, haver- Wellbeing) Project, which was sfordwest, is well aware of the funded through a three year grant, need to engage the community it allowed parents to become more serves. The catchment area is one actively involved in their chil- of the most deprived in Pembro- dren’s learning at an individual keshire, with the second highest level, according to need. however, Free school Meals indicator in with much progress having been the County. The school adopts an made, since the appointment of inclusive approach and an open headteacher Debbie Davies in door policy which many of the 2005, the school recognised there parents rely upon. was still much more that could and engage in learning other than Debbie Davies passionately Multi-agency collaboration be done towards providing access that offered by Family learning/ believes that the community has is a key feature; the TAC (Team for all parents to the school. so, Basic skills courses. They have ownership of the school and a non Around the Child) Officer is based participated in Community Art in 2010, st Mark’s took the lead enjoyed courses such as Papercraft, judgemental/positive approach is at the school as is the Youth Worker Therapy classes, creating their own when four schools developed the sugarcraft, Food and hygiene, First to be adopted by all staff. “Nothing for the area. st Mark’s runs its own Community lion for the school ACe (Aspiration in Communities Aid, Beginners Welsh and Cook- is too much trouble – if we can do counselling facilities, offering (the lion being the symbol of the through Education) Project. ery. st Mark’s will continue the it we will – there are no obstacles, support for all adults and children school). Parents have also accessed This innovative, yet risky, project, with parents now begin- only hurdles which we shall over- who live in the Merlins Bridge CFs Computer Classes which has RAIse (Raising Attainment and ning to request specific training, come.” From creating a weekly area. Many community focused led to further college courses and Individual standards in education in collaboration with the school’s Parent and Toddler group at school, activities have enhanced the life more formal qualifications for – A Welsh Assembly Programme) ACe Keyworker, who, in turn, has to supporting or organising training of the school: Pyramid has been some. funded project has offered parents in made positive links with other agen- – nothing is too much for st Mark’s a great asset as an After school The sMIle (St Mark’s the four communities the opportu- cies, supporting parents into further where the Christian ethos is at the Club and a good number of parents Improving Literacy and Emotional nity to think about their aspirations training or the world of work. heart of all that is done.

constantly. An example is the word sometimes say that Jesus wants ‘suffer’. In 1611 it had two basic children to suffer. he certainly King James Bible meanings. One is still used today: doesn’t. The ‘King James’ Bible As we celebrate 400 years of the King James Bible, Patrick ‘to feel or undergo great discom- contains some beautiful language – Thomas considers its history and invites readers to an anniversary fort in body or mind’. The other but should be read with care (and a service and exhibition at the cathedral was ‘to allow someone to do some- dictionary). thing’. In the ‘King James’ Bible There will be a service, 2011 is the fourth centenary of the and Bishop lancelot Andrewes. It (Matthew 19.14) Jesus says ‘suffer arranged by the St Davids and Authorized (‘King James’) Version was written to be read out loud, little children, and forbid them not, District Council of Churches of the Bible. My generation, born unlike most modern versions, and to come unto me; for of such is the (CYTUN) in St Davids Cathedral in the 1950s, was probably the last has cadences which make it flow kingdom of heaven.’ What Jesus on Sunday 30 October at 6pm to one to have been brought up on the easily off the tongue. Most impor- intended was the second meaning celebrate the 400th Anniversary of ‘King James’ – though it was still tantly, for centuries it was The of the word: ‘Allow little children... the ‘King James’ Bible. It will be in use at Mattins and Bible in the english language. to come to me.’ But that mean- accompanied by a Bible Exhibition when I was a curate in st Peter’s, however ‘King James’ also ing has disappeared from Modern in the Cathedral Library. Carmarthen, at the beginning of the has its shortcomings. The accuracy english. The result is that people 1980s. As a schoolboy I was made of the text is one difficulty. The to learn passages from it, and when Bible originates from manuscripts Bible verses surface in my mind copied repeatedly in the age before to establish the most reliable text. Diocesan Year Book they still tend to be in the words of printing. sometimes a weary or several of the most important of ‘King James’. distracted scribe would misread a these sources were discovered A new Year Book will be produced later this year There are several reasons why word or misunderstand a sentence well after 1611. Most modern • Tessa Briggs has taken over as editor this particular version has been so and alter it. he might even miss out translations of the Bible are there- • Most Chairmen have already been contacted and asked for influential. It appeared at a time a whole chunk of text by mistake. fore more accurate than the ‘King updates of the committee listings for the book when the english language was Biblical scholars examine a wide James’ version. • Any corrections/amendments/updates/queries should be sent to at its most classical: the age of range of ancient manuscripts, The other problem is one of [email protected] as soon as possible William shakespeare, John Donne checking them against each other understanding. language changes 10 Pobl Dewi, March 2011

ANY of you will recall that the tourism tab. The site also Mwhen I made my first formal provides links to others involved visit to the deaneries of the diocese Opening our churches in church tourism such as CTNW in 2008, I made a particular point (Church Tourism Network Wales), of challenging the churches of The Bishop reminds us that our churches are rich in heritage and provide places of prayer, and saints and stones. The group the diocese by asking how many peace and tranquillity. By opening our sacred places on a daily basis we have unique is also compiling a database of were kept open during the week opportunities for mission churches that are currently open so that this invaluable resource for in the Diocese, and runs the occa- mission could be made available to renew an opportunity for which little or no church background. sional Tourism Day – the most those hundreds and thousands of churches in earlier centuries were Churches which have visitors’ recent was on 7 March at Pren- people who either live or visit the renowned – that of offering hospi- books are often surprised how many dergast, haverfordwest. It focused diocese each year. I did the same tality to visitors and pilgrims. people call in during the course of on how to prepare for visitors and in my episcopal Visitation in 2009. And we have much to offer a day or week, and, remembering share with them the distinctive- Many churches do, ensur- those who come to enjoy that hospi- that only 1 in 5 is believed to sign ness of our churches and chapels as ing that there is someone there tality, for each church is unique, the book, an open church draws in places of spirituality, heritage and to welcome visitors. Many more bearing witness to the worship of a significant number of people. hospitality. It included aspects on could; and I am glad that the Dioc- its community over many centu- The Diocesan Tourism Group security of the building, genealogy, esan Tourism Group has taken up ries, as well as providing a place is keen to offer help to churches and examples of groups engaging this challenge. of prayer, peace and tranquillity. in developing their ministry with faith tourism in West Wales. As a diocese we are fortunate to Churches are also signposts of of welcome to visitors and has The Diocesan Tourism Group live in an area that is both spectacu- our heritage, for within the build- produced a number of resources. exists to help the parishes, so if lar in its scenic beauty and rich in ing, and the churchyard that often It is hoped they will help those you want any further information its Christian heritage, and since the surrounds them, is reflected the Opening a church offers a real who want to enhance what they or have an idea for a tourism day, sixth century, people have visited story of the community in which mission opportunity for a parish, as already do, or who want to open then please contact sarah Geach on its churches, cathedral and sacred they are set, as well as the faith that it allows engagement with a wide their church, but are not sure where 01834 812078, places. This trend continues today, has inspired and sustained them in range of people, some of whom to begin. Much of this material is or email: [email protected] and by opening our churches we good times and bad. would consider themselves having on the diocesan website, under Prime location for disabled fishermen For the disabled who enjoy fishing St Aidan’s Churchyard, on the banks of the Cleddau River, is set to offer ideal facilities

esTlING quietly on the Nbanks of the eastern Cled- dau River, st Aidan’s churchyard, , has come to the atten- tion of the Pembrokeshire Rivers Trust as a prime location for the development of fishing facilities for the disabled. The intention is to extend the path leading to the church door around to the river bank, which will have been shored up along the length of the churchyard. A St Aidan’s, Llawhaden purpose-built wooden board-walk, with fixing points for wheelchairs, will overlook the gently flow- £20 per season for adults and £10 new; indeed, the previous vicar was ing waters of the river in which for children under 18 (daily permits a very keen fisherman and could Peace and tranquillity on the banks of the Cleddau trout and sometimes salmon are £10 and £5, respectively) and this often be found enjoying the fishing frequently caught. includes a considerable length of rights he held as incumbent. With easy access to the church Although funding for this Aidan’s is very supportive of the the adjacent field whose owners are For further details, and offers car park it is envisaged that this project is the responsibility of the venture and looks forward to seeing keen to help the church with its own of help with fundraising, contact will become the most important Rivers Trust, which is currently it come to fruition. Permits to fish fund raising. Therefore the sight of Revd huw Davies, The Vicar- location for disabled fishermen in trying to raise the funds required, in this idyllic location have been people fishing from the church- age, , Clunderwen, the country. the church community of st sold for many years – currently yard bank of the river is nothing Pembrokeshire sA66 7lD.

“so, if you think you’re a better clock faces have been taken away shot than me, prove it.” That was for cleaning and repair, but the the challenge from one American Aiming High bullet holes will remain untouched. soldier to another, when they were Shooting, bullets and a clock face. As part of the town’s history they stationed in rival units outside Hugh James, from , tells all remind us not only of social change Kidwelly in 1944. They had been in our own neighbourhood, but of drinking in the lord Nelson Pub in the lord Nelson, but at a dance the church and some years later the events that affected the whole and now stood on lady street, in the Town hall. That may be so, council received a letter from one world. looking up at the spire of st but most matches from those war- of the soldiers involved, apologis- I had hoped the masons work- Mary’s Church. egged on by their time dances were very different. ing for the damage he had caused ing on the tower would find colleagues they took pot-shots at A number of servicemen met their as a young man away from home. evidence of bullets, lodged some- the cockerel 168 feet above them. wives there, and some of them That letter is now lodged some- where in the masonry behind the The cockerel was undamaged, have spent the rest of their lives in where in the archives of the llanelli clock faces. Disappointingly, they but the two clock faces each have the area. I have buried a number Borough Council and my attempts did not find anything. I had hoped a bullet hole as a reminder of the who died in recent years, and the to trace it have not yet borne fruit. to use them as evidence and ask the event. stories of how they met their part- We are currently undertaking United states Army if they would honourable John Mchugh, the There are different versions of ners are always interesting. extensive repairs to the tower, and like to contribute towards the cost 21st secretary of the United states the story, and others tell me that the But what about the clock? It the town council has taken advan- of repairing our tower. I decided Army. I wonder what response I’ll shooting match was arranged, not belongs to the town, rather than tage of this to repair the clock. The to ask anyway and wrote to the receive. Pobl Dewi, March 2011 11 St Teilo Trelech a’r Bettws In the second of her new series, Mary Baker considers the life and works of St Teilo

OFTeN travel between Talog in ing a route once travelled by Teilo claims between of llandaff and st I Carmarthenshire and in himself. Davids, legitimising their power. Pembrokeshire and, on my way, I he appears to have been a eventually I did gain entry to pass the little grey church at Peny- contemporary of st David and they the church, and the Victorian build- bont dedicated to st Teilo. One day are said to have travelled together ing is very ordinary. my curiosity got the better of me to Jerusalem and Rome, no mean No-one locally can explain the and I stopped to explore. feat when we consider the transport Teilo connection but I like to think The churchyard is surrounded options available in the 6th century. of the saint, with his bell, stop- by a circular enclosure and the early accounts tell us that Teilo ping on his way to Pembrokeshire ground level is higher than the road returned from his travels with a and preaching to the local people; – both indicators of an early site. wonderful bell that was both beau- that memory may have founded an On the north side of the church tiful to behold and sweet to hear. earlier church. Perhaps the ancient is an intriguing old stone set on a With the aid of this bell, he healed stone in the churchyard was a small hillock. It was a misty day the sick and administered justice. preaching cross where genera- but I could see at once that the he was also an excellent preacher tions of orators followed Teilo’s church is set on a hillside with a and could be understood “in many example in this hidden corner of dramatic steep drop to the south tongues”. Carmarthenshire. side – a fitting place for a church st Teilo is associated with many dedicated to one of my favourite sites including , llandeilo Mary Baker runs early Welsh saints, Teilo. and llandaff, and there are legends Archaeotours, taking visitors I was very disappointed to find concerning his saving of seven from around the world to the door locked and no information water boys who lived for a time ancient sites in West Wales available about key holders, so, in Mathry. later, in the Medieval www.archaeotours.co.uk having explored all that I could, I period, Teilo was used as a politi- set off to Mathry, possibly follow- cal pawn with claims and counter From palace to museum In the first of a two-part series, Jill Davies from the Friends of Carmarthenshire Museum, looks at the history behind the Old Bishop’s Palace at Abergwili

N 1972 Bishop Roberts moved hall for the canons and rooms for had built at my own charge in my Ito a newly built house in the the bishop. house called Abergwili house. I grounds of the old Bishop’s Palace The college existed for 250 named it the chapel of st John the at Abergwili. It was the end of an years before Bishop Barlow trans- Baptist”. The chapel replaced the era. The Palace had been an epis- ferred it to Brecon in 1541. Despite earlier college chapel and was sited copal residence certainly since the “much wailing and weeping of the on the first floor above where it had . Before that there had disconsolate people of Abergwili, stood, now the library. During the been a on the site. . . . a multitude of prebendaries, civil war the palace suffered from Today the Palace is the home of canons, choristers and the organist, neglect and most were Carmarthenshire County Museum, accompanied by wagons loaded non-resident. a museum in its own right, its struc- with books, organs, vestments and Bishop Ottley set about resto- ture following the medieval layout. ornaments were ostentatiously ration in 1713. his survey, which Bishop Bek, who was appointed conveyed to Brecon, where they links the present building to the in 1280 and was responsible for the were greeted by the bells of the medieval college, shows that the palace and hospital at st David’s, town”. The college of Abergwili buildings were set around a quad- made the church at llangadog into was never dissolved but still exists, rangle known as the ‘Green Court’, a college, which was removed to incorporated in Christ College, the remnant of the old . Abergwili by 1291. At the time, Brecon. Around the quadrangle was the Bek was granted a licence to realign Bishop made former cloister alley at ground floor the road from Carmarthen to Drys- the Palace a centre for poets and level with a ‘long Gallery’ at first lwyn, presumably to go round his scholars. here the New Testa- floor level and a stone staircase up new building. The main buildings ment and the Book of Common to it. There was no building on the would have been the church and Prayer were translated into Welsh east side; probably the medieval the chapter house, built around a in 1567. Bishop laud consecrated east range had been demolished. cloister, together with rooms and a “the Chapel or Oratory which I

Flower Festival New Festival Service Book Church A NeW festival service book, It contains a varied range Ceredigion entitled The Word Revealed, of music including hymns, on the theme of to celebrate the 400th anniver- worship songs and anthems, all The glorification of hymns sary of the King James Bible of varying difficulty. has been published by the 28th to 31st May Copies and further infor- Royal school of Church Music daily 10am to 7pm and mation from the RsCM, (RsCM). Sunday 2 to 6pm Telephone: 0845 0217726 The festival service is in For further information five parts, each reflecting a e-mail: musicdi [email protected] contact particular stage in the story of www.rscm.com/shop. Revd Julian Smith 01974 Photo by Dara Jasumani reproduced by permission of the Museum the Bible’s translation and use. 202336 The Chapel in the Old Bishop’s Palace 12 Pobl Dewi, March 2011 The Church in Wales Rural Issues Hub Canolbwynt Materion Gwledig yr Eglwys yng Nghymru Eileen Davies, Diocesan Rural Life Adviser, invites readers to a series of day seminars which address issues facing rural areas

AVe you been to one of these organisations including the Welsh opportunity to learn more about hseminars yet? Well, there’s Assembly Government, Farm liai- what the Welsh Assembly Govern- plenty of opportunity as there are son Team, Farming Connect, Royal ment and its different teams were several planned for the remainder Agricultural Benevolent Institu- doing to meet the demands of our of the year, when we are given an tion, Farm Crisis Network, National rural areas. There were explana- opportunity to share our concerns Farmers Union, Farmers Union tions on the Common Agricultural and better equip ourselves to of Wales, MIND Cymru, Rural Policy and the changes due to address issues in rural areas. life Advisers and Wales Federa- be implemented in 2013, as well The first session, “The nature tion of Young Farmers Clubs. The as the new Glastir scheme being of rurality in Wales and the question as to what extent a busi- introduced by elin Jones, Minister church’s involvement”, looked ness approach to farming, with for Rural Affairs, and the knock-on at the immense challenges facing its emphasis on performance and effect to farmers and new entrants. the church in rural areas. In many productivity, conflicts with the way I trust that together we can make small villages the only visible of life, still considered as one of a difference in our rural areas, and organisation left is the church; so spirit and passion, was addressed. if you would like to know more, what of the future direction of the Isolation is the greatest problem please join us on 27th May, 24th church, its focus and work? What – how do we respond to farmers, June 2011, 10.30am-3.30pm, at the of the priorities and purpose facing and people in general, who are not Royal Welsh showground, Builth the church, and the training and good at asking for help, for fear Wells. Alternatively please call me support needed to face these chal- of being seen as not able to cope. on 01559 384248. lenges? Church buildings could Moreover, how do people know Mae’r her sydd yn ein gwyn- be put to better use: as bases for about the different agencies which ebu yng nghefn gwlad yn un real social enterprises, providing and are ready and willing to offer confi- iawn, ond drwy rannu gwyboda- organising social care, retail serv- and the culture of volunteering. bodies working in our rural areas. dential help? Could clergy and eth ac adnoddau, a rhwydweithio ices, markets, Wi-fi zones and so These are some of the ideas which The second session’s focus parishes be conduits for informa- gyda’n cyfeillion sydd yn gweithio on. As Christians, we have a moral came out of our first discussion, was “The Pastoral Care of Agricul- tion? Could church facilities be yng nghefn gwlad, fedrwn wneud duty to lead ethical schemes and which also clearly identified the tural Communities and Families.” centres of information? gwahaniaeth sylfaenol a pharhaol. encourage environmental projects need for liaison between all the speakers came from various The third session provided an

or building surveyor to explain able to help you identify poten- their report to you in person. tial sources of funding. Quinquennial inspections You may need to cover your Need more help? professional adviser’s time If you have any questions about Advice and help are readily available and travel costs but you will maintenance or repair issues save money in the longer term contact the society for the Protec- N 1952, a Church of england tion is generally frequent enough written in non-technical language by focusing on the immediate tion of Ancient Buildings (sPAB) report, The Preservation of Our to spot problems before signifi- and preferably illustrated with I repair priorities. for advice and guidance. This Churches, identified the lack of cant damage occurs although the photographs. • Discuss the contents of the service is normally available on regular monitoring of the condition system works best if the QI is Things to do . . . report with your fabric commit- Fridays between 9.30am and of churches as a problem, so formal supplemented by informal yearly • When you receive the report tee or parochial church council 3.30pm on 0207 456 0916. Alterna- quinquennial (five-yearly) inspec- inspections made by those respon- read it carefully. You might find and agree a plan of action to tively you can email your questions tions were introduced as a statutory sible for the building. it helpful to walk around the tackle any necessary house- to [email protected]. requirement through The Inspec- The Quinquennial Inspection building with the report so that keeping issues, maintenance or Copies of sPAB’s range of tion of Churches Measure 1955. Report (QIR) is usually presented you can identify the defects it repairs. Technical Pamphlets and Infor- In essence, Quinquennial in a standardised format and refers to. • If major repair works are mation sheets can be purchased Inspections (QIs) involve a thor- contains vital information such • If you are finding it difficult needed contact your profes- online. Further information is ough survey of all aspects of a as the current and ongoing repair to understand the report or the sional adviser for advice on also available from the Method- building’s fabric and are intended needs of the building, as well as recommendations for repair, how to tackle them. You will ist Church, Church of england and to identify any problems that have suggestions for ‘good housekeep- contact your professional need their expertise in terms Building Conservation Directory developed since the last time it was ing’ and maintenance. Reports adviser of drawing up specifications websites. inspected. A five-yearly inspec- should be concise, easy to read, • Consider asking your architect for the work. They may also be

as exemplars to show what can be done. Don’t run out of energy! The GB motion is a call to everyone in the Church in Wales to Revd Canon Robin Morrison, Bishops’ Adviser on Church and Society, invites churches and play their part and set an example individuals to look at ways in which they can be more energy-efficient to others. As Peter Davies, sustain- able Development Commissioner T last september’s meeting affect energy supplies for decades The Parish Green Guide has for Wales and Chair of the Climate Aof Governing Body (GB), a to come. been provided to help parishes Change Commission for Wales, motion was passed calling on the The same GB motion also think through their own approach said when introducing the motion, UK and Welsh Assembly Govern- called on ‘members of the Church to energy use. This Governing “The Church in Wales can play a ments to take urgent action to ensure in Wales to encourage and adopt Body motion now encourages all key role in developing these local the continued development and full ways of reducing personal energy Christians to think about their indi- solutions and being an exemplar implementation of long term strat- consumption.’ This, too, is now vidual energy consuming habits. through its own actions in reduc- egies to secure the provision of urgent as part of our individual and Many individual Christians have ing energy use and in encouraging appropriate and sustainable energy corporate witness, for we cannot for some time been leading the way local energy generation. supplies. There is a real possibility morally ask others to do what we in showing the importance of life- Our churches are at the heart of a gap appearing between energy are not prepared to do ourselves. In style changes and turning values viduals feel they are not acting on of local communities and are production and energy demand the Pauline metaphor of the body, into practical action. The church their own. The Diocesan environ- therefore well placed to lead or and what we do over the next five the asks each of us congregation could become a place mental Award scheme exists to inspire projects which can generate years, and certainly in the lifetime to play our part so that the whole of mutual help, support and advice celebrate local achievements and renewable energy for use of that of the present UK government, will can flourish. in local communities so that indi- some parishes have been chosen community.” Pobl Dewi, March 2011 13 Pererindod i Israel Suzy Bale, from , tells us about the Diocesan Pilgrimage with Bishop Wyn to the Holy Land in early February. The group spent a week in Jerusalem and the final three days in Tiberias by the Sea of Galilee. There were visits to the Dead Sea and many of the holy and historic sites

YFlAWNI breuddwyd i Cymweld â gwlad Iesu oedd y daith ddeg diwrnod i Israel i lawer o’r 27 oedd wedi dechrau o lanyfferi a Chaerfyrddin yn gynnar ar Chwefror y cyntaf i deithio i heathrow. esgob Wyn oedd ein arweinydd ysbrydol ac yn Israel fe’n tywyswyd o gwmpas gan Oliver, yn wrei- ddiol o Wlad Belg, sydd wedi Aaron Amsalem, an Israeli Jew, and co-owner of the Ron Beach ymgartrefi yn Jerwsalem ers 30 Hotel in Tiberias, says ‘I hope the conflict will end one day but mlynedd, a Mahmoud a’i fws it will only come with understanding. Maybe Tunisia and Egypt a’i allu i fynd ag e’ i bobman! have started this process.’ Roedd wythnos yn Jerwsalem yn gyfle i ni gael blas o’r hanes a arbennig personol iawn, a phobl draws Môr Galilea. Roedd na gyfle chymhlethdod y ddinas sanctaidd yn ymateb yn wahanol i’r gwaha- i gael hwyl hefyd,- cyfle i ‘nofio’ a hanesyddol. Wrth gerdded trwy’r nol lefydd; . . . eglwys y Beddrod yn y Môr Marw a llyn Galilea. Two talks given to hen ddinas a’i gwahanol ardaloedd sanctaidd, Yad Vashem – cofeb Wrth gwrs beth sy’n gwneud cawsom gyfle i weld a chael blas yr holocost, teithiau i Qumram pererindod yn wahanol yw cyfle i o’r ddinas a’r tirlun fyddai wedi a Massada, Bethlehem, ymuno â fynd yn ddyfnach a chael profiad pilgrims shed light bod yn gyfarwydd i Iesu. Roedd chynulleidfa y Gadeirlan Angli- ysbrydol – taith i’r enaid, a dyna’r Mynydd yr Olewydd yn lle dda i canaidd ar fore sul, sgyrsiau hyn a gawsom. Cawsom ein porthi on some of the ni ddechrau ar y bore cyntaf. O’r gan Canon hosam Naoum, Mr gan ddoethineb a ffydd dawel fan yna rydych yn gweld yr hen Aaron Amsalom oedd yn rhoi Oliver, â’i wreiddiau yn ei astudia- ddinas a’r eglwysi, y Beddrod profiad Cristion Palesteinaidd o ethau yn yr Ysgol Feiblaidd yn issues in this divided sanctaidd, Mynydd y Deml a Nasareth a phrofiad Iddew wedi’i Jerwsalem, a’i ddawn i gyfath- chromen aur Cromen y Garreg. eni a’i fagu yn siarad Arabeg rebu cymhlethdod y gwahanol land Roedd ein dyddiau yn llawn iawn yn Tiberias yn y tridegau. gymunedau sy’n cydfyw yn Israel; gan fod llawer o’r henebion yn Wedi gadael Jerwsalem, roedd Canon hosan yn rhannu ei obaith agored yn ystod y bore yn unig. naws mwy hamddenol wrth i ni i Gristonogion fod yn bobl sy’n Roedd y prynhawn yn fwy hamd- symud i lannau llyn Galilea. gallu croesi ag adeiladu pontydd; denol, a’r nos yn gyfle i rannu Cawsom gyfle i ddarganfod trefi gwên y Chwaer Nada, y lleian pryd o fwyd, sgwrsio ac ymla- cyfnod gweinidogaeth gyhoed- Garmelaidd o Irac, a sgwrsio gyda cio. Yn sicr, cyfle i gael blas a dus Crist, Jericho, Capernaum a hi yng Nghapernaum; a’n haddo- throsolwg oedd hyn. Bydd pawb Mynydd y Gwynfydau, gan orffen liad fel grŵp gyda esgob Wyn a yn cofio lle neu ennyd neu brofiad yn hamddenol drwy hwylio ar Chanon Dennis yn ein harwain.

Bukuvu News Jennie Annis reports on a project which is making a difference to communities in the war-ravaged Congo and asks for readers’ help to continue the work

UKUVU is situated on the Bsouth-western shores of lake Kivu and has suffered the same ravages, genocide and war as Rwanda. Unfortunately the size of Congo (approximately the area of europe) has made it difficult for its Revd Canon Hosam Naoum, Priest-in-charge of the Cathedral government to control – the Congo- Church of Saint George the Martyr, Jerusalem, tells pilgrims lese government being based in ‘Although Christians are a very small minority, we are part of the Kinshasa, some 5,000 miles west struggle and a bridge for peace.’ of Bukavu. The cost of education is between Us$35 and Us$150 per term. As the average wage is Us$4 studying agriculture, physics and been used to enlarge the school for men and Us$3 for women and, accountancy. Buki is in his 3rd and Bible school libraries, enable with families averaging between 6 year at law school in Chicago, his the Cathedral Carpentry school to to 14 children, boys are educated aim is to return home as an ‘honest send ex-boy soldiers back to their first, then girls, with most finishing politician’. villages with a basic tool kit, set after primary school. The Congo When the girls began school up a sewing school, clothe over Project was created 14 years ago we told them that if they manage 1,000 families, supply 400 school and its aims are simple: to pay the to graduate from college the uniforms, and equip the school and school fees of a minimum of 12 ‘project’ would buy them a much diocesan offices with computers. children a year and to send as much coveted western wedding dress. We now have enough gifts to fill aid as is possible. Two wedding dresses were sent a 40ft container and are urgently Our first student qualified as last December, one for a Christ- requesting help to fund its purchase a GP three years ago and spent 6 mas Day wedding the other for a and delivery. months in Pembrokeshire as an Gabon. Raphael is a 1st year medi- ated as degree-holding nurses and wedding in January. The wedding If you think you can help, no observer at Withybush hospital. cal school in south Africa working an accountant, respectively, last dresses were bought from local matter how little, please contact Due to the generosity of a retired towards a more internationally september. We have six children charity shops. Revd Dr Jennie Annis on 1348 Withybush physician, Akin is respected qualification. Bora, in primary school, three in second- The project has also sent a 840689 or Revd Don Macgregor now working and studying in the Francine and Philomena gradu- ary school and three at college, container of gifts which have on 01348 872894. 14 Pobl Dewi, March 2011 Bye Buy Youth work: Where to begin? Dyfrig Lloyd sets about answering this question

Childhood T begins with prayer. Youth work willing to explore and commit to within our churches is an inte- this vital aspect of church life. We Jean Oliver reports on the high profile Mothers’ Union campaign I gral part of our common mission also need people who are willing to which has challenged the commercialisation and sexualisation and ministry: welcoming, encour- pray for the youth of our diocese so of childhood aging and nurturing young people anyone who is interested in doing that our work may be underpinned within our church communities and youth work, but not sure where to N september, Reg Bailey, chief the use of sex to sell to children; with prayer. Youth work begins extending a hand of friendship to begin. Youth work is an adventure executive of Mothers’ Union welcomes Mothers’ Union’s Bye with prayer. I those who are not. however, from which both challenges and deep- launched the Bye Buy Childhood Buy Childhood campaign which If you would like to find out experience, this is easier said than ens the faith of those engaged in it, campaign. “We are concerned challenges the commercialisation more about our work and how we done. and also nurtures and supports the that our children are growing up of childhood; recalls the Govern- can help encourage and resource The Diocesan Youth team has young people with whom we walk believing they are what they own. ment’s promise to tackle the your youth work, please visit our drawn up a plan to help churches alongside. To see youth work grow Childhood has become a market- commercialisation and sexualisa- new Facebook page – DYC ‘what’s explore this important aspect of within our parishes, deaneries and ing opportunity worth £99 billion tion of childhood; and calls upon occuring [sic] then?’ church life. Our mission statement diocese, we need people who are in the UK, with marketers target- the Government to take steps to for the forthcoming years is simply, ing children’s natural inexperience, fully prohibit sexualised media, “to encourage and resource a through methods such as celeb- marketing and products aimed at or Christ-centred expression of rity endorsement, in order to reach easily accessible to children under youth ministry in each deanery of not only children’s pocket money 16.” the diocese”. It is our hope that but also the household purse. The Another result of the MU this will encourage conversations MU has been concerned about members’ challenge is that Asda within deaneries and parishes families and Christian family life has signed up to Mumsnet’s ‘let regarding youth provision, and for over a hundred years and we Girls be Girls’ campaign pledging how churches within deaneries can believe we can make a difference not to sell products which exploit, work together, to think creatively to childhood”. To help us challenge emphasise or play upon children’s and enable churches to engage with ourselves and lobby manufac- sexuality. youth work and meet the spiritual turers, marketers and political A new easy to use website,” needs of young people. representatives we have produced CheCK”, to help marketers To this end, the Diocesan Youth a set of prompt cards, available in advertise and communicate with Team is in the process of creat- our branches. children responsibly, has also been ing resource packs; a step by step As a result of lobbying by launched, which contains infor- guide to setting up an expression our members, David Morris, MP mation on regulation, legislation of youth ministry. We also intend (Morecambe and lunesdale) and guidance on marketing to, and holding a day later on this year for tabled an early Day Motion in communicating with, children. A November in Parliament highlight- booklet for families is available ing our campaign which has been to help them with the issues and signed by MPs of all parties, includ- impact of the commercial world ing Welsh MPs: “That this house within the home. notes that childhood is a market- A petition addressed to the There is room at the inn ing opportunity worth £99 billion prime minister and his deputy John Powell relates how St Tysilio’s congregation overcame the difficulties of the appalling in the UK; is concerned about the was signed by hundreds of branch weather over Christmas, with positive results effect on children’s wellbeing of members and families in our the volume and some methods of diocese and over 8,000 signatures advertising of children’s products; had been received by Mary sumner heN members of st Tysilio suffering Church and meditations there and felt that the inn had is particularly concerned about house by mid January. WChurch, , and thanksgivings were written on become a sacred place where time near , found that it was cards that were hung on the Christ- and eternity had come together and impossible to hold their Christmas mas Tree. the world was a better place Carol service in Church, due to the All present were glad to be icy and treacherous weather, they were delighted to accept the invita- tion of a local Inn. The proprietors of The New Inn, , offered one of their rooms that had been deco- rated in festive mood and this warm welcome attracted some who never went to church. It also made sure that a service was held and showed that the Church has to connect with the local community. st Tysilio sunday school, the vicar and church members took part in a brief Nativity Play. There were carols, readings and prayers, candles were placed appropriately on a world map to pray for the

FRESH EDITION OF STANFORD COMMUNION SETTING A new performing edition Charles Villiers Stanford in well-known melodies of a major piece of 1909, has been edited for from the original. church music repertoire use in modern-day church Copies from RSCM Music has just been published services by Professor Direct, by the Royal School of Jeremy Dibble of Durham Church Music (RSCM). University. It includes 0845 021 7726; The Communion Service Professor Dibble’s own [email protected]; in C, composed by Sir setting of the Kyrie using www.rscm.com/shop Pobl Dewi, March 2011 15 Reflection Pray for the peace of Jerusalem In the Year of our Lord 2011, Dennis Baxter joined other pilgrims as they visited the Holy Land in February. Here he reflects on the divisions which rend the country

he holy land, a place of sepa- prophets as Judaism and Christian- I felt the brokenness of the Pales- Tration, a place revered by three ity, including Jesus, but only as a tinians, who feel betrayed and world religions all claiming parent- prophet, not the son of God. These pushed out of their villages. The hood from Abraham. The place religious sites built on top of each brokenness of the Jews was just claimed by Christianity and Juda- other are a possible powder keg in as profound and the Yad Vashem ism as the most holy land and by the Middle east. holocaust Museum brings that Islam as the third most holy place If asked, I would guess that sharply into focus. after Mecca and Medina. most members of the three Abra- The biggest sadness for me, As I considered the concept of hamic religions would say that that however, as I considered and ‘holy’ or its meaning (set aside/ central to their faith is to love your listened to both Palestinians and cleansed/separated/for religious fellow man. Yet it seemed so sad, Jews, was the fact that most of use), as I witnessed not only three as we went to the different quarters them just wanted to live in peace world faiths but also split denomi- of Jerusalem - Palestinian, Jewish, and have a quiet life in a Palestin- nations of all three struggling for a Orthodox, that very rarely would ian state and a Jewish state. The piece of the Palestinian/Israeli pie, those paths cross. Religion and bombing, the guns and all that the big question in my mind was, politics in Israel/ Palestine defi- stuff is not what they want, it is is God really happy with this kind nitely cause discomfort. Psalm 122 definitely not what God wants, he of situation? The general mean- Al Aqsa Mosque instructs us to ‘pray for the peace sent his son to a world divided, to, ing in most Biblical commentaries of Jerusalem’. This is as meaning- eventually, through Jesus Christ, be and dictionaries for Israel is ‘he things and was found as a young the Abrahamic religions, yet under ful now as it has ever been, in fact a world united. struggles with God’ or something child of twelve debating and learn- the necessary armed guard. Inside this was on my mind at all times Pray for the peace of Jerusalem. very near that interpretation, and ing with scholars, I could not help the Temple Mount we saw two during our stay in this holy land. it comes from the Book of Genesis but feel extremely uncomfort- mosques, including the famous when Jacob wrestled through the able at having to be searched for Dome of the Rock (Al Aqsa night with God, following which guns and other kinds of weapons Mosque) with its beautiful golden God changes Jacob’s name to while looking over at the western dome. It felt a little uncomforta- Israel. wall and seeing many Jews and ble to see that two Muslim places standing at the edge of the Rabbis praying that one day they of worship were built on top of the Temple Mount, that most holy may enter. To get into the Temple Jewish temple and yet the Jews place where Abraham was said to area itself, we then had to walk could not enter. I did wonder at the have brought his son Isaac/Ishmael over a kind of bridge after passing motive of this, and our guide said (depending on whether you are Palestinian soldiers with machine that the Muslims have a tendency a Jew, Christian or Muslim) for guns. My heart felt very heavy at to build on top of, or very near, sacrifice, where Mohammed was that point knowing that so much Christian sites. I could only think, said to have ascended by stallion to prayer and worship was happening as I reflected on this, that the heaven, where Jesus taught many all around us in the three forms of Islamic faith does claim the same

The Wailing Wall showing the bridge, far right, which leads to the Marriage matters Temple Mount it’s not falling in love that matters, commitment for the long term and Preparation for marriage and issues surrounding long-term relationships are crucial, says Alan but choosing to love. At its best at times is very hard going, but the Chadwick. Couples in Roose Deanery are invited to two innovative events this spring in marriage we are choosing to presence of Christ makes a differ- love another in the way that God ence. having the right third person “One in ten marriages will not emotion of “falling in love” often money and communication. some- loves us – putting another’s inter- in a marriage will help it work. make it past five years and 45 per stops couples from thinking about times it’s easier for a couple to est above our own. This requires cent will, ultimately, end in divorce, how they will live together in a talk through personal issues as one if the current rate of breakdowns long-term relationship, with the couple among many rather than at continues,” announce the newspa- need to adapt both practice and home with the vicar listening to pers. “The now expectations to different life situ- their every word. has the lowest marriage rate and ations. Couples sometimes need Then, helped by the Moth- highest divorce rate since records help to manage their marriages and ers’ Union, we are taking a stall in began. One third of divorces negotiate their way through diffi- Pembrokeshire’s biggest commer- involves a child of primary school culties. This is compounded by cial wedding fair at Withybush. age.” But, does it matter? A few the increasing number of secular We will have pictures and infor- observations: weddings, which generally have mation about all the churches in Firstly, the church must main- little marriage preparation, and by the deanery and guidelines about tain publicly that marriage is a the increasingly accepted view that what a church wedding involves. good thing. It’s God’s idea: his way “serial monogamy” is all that is This is not so much about “sell- to help couples grow together in needed. ing” the church venue, as being his love, and the best environment With this background, Roose incarnational: being the body of for bringing up children. In saying Deanery is trying two things this Christ – talking to people, answer- this, the church is not judging those spring. We are holding a saturday ing questions – a visual presence who are not married or saying they morning of marriage preparation that God has something to do are bad parents: accusations which to which we are inviting all the with marriage and he can make a sometimes silence the church. couples who are marrying in our difference. secondly, couples rarely take churches this year. Churches have And the Royal Wedding? Well, time to prepare for marriage. A lot always given some sort of marriage I won’t be buying a mug myself, of money and time might be spent preparation, but we want to give but given the chance I would on getting the wedding day “just time for couples in a structured say to Kate and William, as to right”, but little, if any, on getting way to talk through the important every couple getting married, that the relationship right. The intense issues of expectations, children, marriage is a wonderful gift, but Rachel and Neil Harper on their wedding day at Hubberston 16 Pobl Dewi, March 2011 Here I am – send me Book Review The , Rt Revd , writes about Ministry and Calling Sunday in June, and the new vocations website

Dyma fi – anfon fi. Prin fod llawer o ddatganiadau grymusach o ffydd na’r pedwar gair syml hyn, geiriau’r proffwyd Eseia yn yr Hen Destament, sy’n taro cloch i unrhyw un a’i cynigiodd ei hun i’w ordeinio. Eleni, am yr ail flwyddyn yn olynol, yr ydym yn neilltuo un Sul i weddïo’n benodol dros bobl a elwir i’r weinidogaeth ac i annog eraill i ystyried a ydynt hwythau’n cael eu galw. Cynhelir Sul Gweinidogaeth a Galwad mewn eglwysi ledled Cymru ar 5 Mehefin, y Sul ar ôl y Dyrchafael

eRe I am – send me. There us before we start listening more The Church in Wales wants hare few more powerful affir- carefully. to seek and inspire a new genera- mations of faith than these simple This year, Ministry and Calling tion of church leaders. In many five words. They were the words sunday will be held in churches ways, it’s a practical desire – a uttered by the Old Testament across Wales on 5th June, the third of our clergy currently serv- prophet Isaiah and they resonate sunday after Ascension. each ing are due to retire in the next five with everyone who has offered church will be given a resource able online at www.churchinwales. years. We don’t believe God has Unexpected Treasure: themselves for ordination. pack with relevant readings, reflec- org.uk/call or in Welsh at www. stopped calling people but we do More Letters to Kate This is why these words have tions and prayers for those thinking churchinwales.org.uk/galwad/ believe he is calling us to search By Judy Roblin been chosen by the Church in about ordination. There will be We’ll also be launching a website, out and develop new ways of being St Pauls Publishing Wales to help raise awareness of postcards people can fill in if they which will be online at www.voca- Church, and exercising ministry to ISBN: 9780854397739 the nature of vocation. In this busy, feel they have a vocation and need tionswales.org.uk from 5th June, sustain our life. Ordained ministry Price: £7.95 noisy world it’s not always easy advice about what to do next, as giving advice, contact details, news has still got an important role to This book is a follow-up to Judy to hear the “still, small voice of well as cards you can pass on to and resources for those who want undertake, and we all need to work Roblin’s Letters to Kate, and I calm” calling us to a different way those you feel may have a voca- to look into vocations more closely. together to seek out vocations – must confess I wondered if I would of life. sometimes, it takes others tion but who need a little nudge. If you’re on Facebook then look up especially among younger people. be able to immerse myself in the who know us well to point it out to These resources will also be avail- “Church in Wales Vocations”. book, not having read the initial story. however, after the first chap- ter I was totally hooked! Treasures of Darkness Michaelgarth, set in its own book a place, please contact Jessica The letters are the most wonder- garden, is the convent’s retreat Aidley on 01273 455 445, ful dialogue between Kate and her Jessica Aidley invites those who have suffered loss to a retreat house and offers time and a quiet e-mail [email protected] or godmother Alisa. Kate – a wife, space to receive God’s peace, helen Dacey on 01873 831037, mother and teacher – shares with ollowing on from the success explore your journey of grief and e-mail [email protected] her godmother the roller-coaster Fof a previous retreat for those share experiences. ride of her spiritual journey and who had suffered loss and bereave- The suggested donation is £50 her life as she attempts to under- ment, a further retreat will be held per night (total £150) but this can Notice stand the presence of God walking at Michaelgarth, Tymawr Convent, be waived or reduced if this is too alongside her. near Monmouth, from 16-19 June. much. For more information, or to received Kate discovers that her constant struggle with the need to maintain balance in all areas of her being – family, husband, work Flower Festival and faith – requires a vulnerability St Mary’s Church, Roch and and openness of herself, and when the Roch community this balance becomes too difficult celebrate an for her to control she experiences a Foundation Degree Course ‘dark night of the soul’. Extravaganza of Flowers Alisa, a character who is Friday 27th May to Monday considerably older than Kate, is a for church musicians 30th May, 10am-6pm daily. constant fountain of spiritual nour- Light refreshments available ishment and wisdom in her letters. throughout. One could say she is like a spiritual guide to Kate, supporting her but A warm welcome to all allowing her to find her own way by encouraging her to find space in her life, to be prayerful and listen Disclaimer to God, especially when Kate is at Pobl Dewi and the her lowest ebb. diocese of St Davids I especially enjoyed the various take no responsibility, pieces of poetry dotted throughout liability or share the the letters, which allow the reader views or opinions of to experience ‘Kate’ and to live her any articles contained journey, almost as if we are along- herein. All information side her as she writes – her pain, is the responsibility her joy and her growth as a child of of the person or God. organisation submitting I would highly recommend the article. Pobl Dewi this book. It was a real joy to read, take no responsibility and I am sure that most of us who © The Royal Society of Church Music for any errors or are caught up in the midst of the balancing act of our lives can, From September 2011, Canterbury Christ Church University and the Royal School of Church Music omissions through the writing of Ms Roblin, will be working together to offer a foundation degree course for those working in church music. Pobl Dewi find real affinity with the charac- Many of the practical elements of the course, which is aimed at students of all ages, are focussed The Diocesan Office ter of Kate and also find nurture round the student’s work in their own church, and cover a wide range of topics. The core content will Abergwili and direction in the wisdom of her be delivered using online learning resources and residential study schools. For more information Carmarthen SA31 2JG godmother Alisa. visit www.canterbury.ac.uk and www.rscm.com – Marianne Osborne