CORE Metadata, citation and similar papers at core.ac.uk Provided by Pepperdine Digital Commons Pepperdine Dispute Resolution Law Journal Volume 13 | Issue 1 Article 4 2-15-2013 Facilitating Forgiveness and Reconciliation in “Good Enough” Marriages Solangel Maldonado Follow this and additional works at: https://digitalcommons.pepperdine.edu/drlj Part of the Dispute Resolution and Arbitration Commons, Family Law Commons, Law and Psychology Commons, and the Law and Society Commons Recommended Citation Solangel Maldonado, Facilitating Forgiveness and Reconciliation in “Good Enough” Marriages, 13 Pepp. Disp. Resol. L.J. Iss. 1 (2013) Available at: https://digitalcommons.pepperdine.edu/drlj/vol13/iss1/4 This Article is brought to you for free and open access by the School of Law at Pepperdine Digital Commons. It has been accepted for inclusion in Pepperdine Dispute Resolution Law Journal by an authorized editor of Pepperdine Digital Commons. For more information, please contact
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[email protected]. Maldonado: Facilitating Forgiveness and Reconciliation in “Good Enough” Marr [Vol. 13: 105, 2013] PEPPERDINE DISPUTE RESOLUTION LAW JOURNAL Facilitating Forgiveness and Reconciliation in “Good Enough” Marriages Solangel Maldonado* I. INTRODUCTION Scholars, policymakers, and parents constantly debate whether divorce is harmful to children and, if so, whether parents should stay together for the sake of the children.1 The answer to the first question seems well- established. On every measure—academic achievement, conduct, psychological adjustment, self-esteem, and social relations—children with divorced parents, and adults whose parents divorced when they were children, score lower than children and adults whose parents remained married.2 However, this might be the wrong question to ask.