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October 21, 2018

Parish Office: 2485993 Fax: 3870517 email: [email protected] www.stjohnfairport.org 8 Wickford Way Fairport, New York 14450

OUR PERSONAL POWER  In John Milton's classic tale "Paradise Lost", Satan's final throne of grace to receive mercy and to find grace for time- words to God ring out with his eternal defiance, "I’d rather ly help". Our confident, constant prayer to the Father for a reign in Hell than serve in Heaven." The use of personal true servant's heart will always be generously answered. power to either reign over God or serve under God was the Jesus said, "Whoever wishes to be great among you will be original Sin in God’s universe. Starting with the Angels' your servant." Our ability to show effective, Christlike Rebellion, then the Fall of Adam & Eve and continuing service only comes from “serving under” the Holy Spirit’s today, such an exalted, demonic desire to be as Powerful as Power. "Whoever wishes to be first among you will be the God remains the ultimate temptation. God gave angels and slave of all." Such a high expectation! We can't possibly humans the powerful Gift of free will, and it came with a conjure up that level of selfsacrifice using our own per- choice: Will I use my personal power to serve God…or to sonal power. We must honestly surrender and exchange serve myself? We Christians do not totally reject God as our personal power for God’s Personal Power (aka Holy Satan did, yet we make daily choices to use our personal Spirit). We will always come back to that eternal “power power to either “reign over” God’s Will or “serve under” choice”: to serve God or serve ourselves. Serving God’s God’s Will. Today’s Gospel shows Jesus dealing with His way requires using God's unlimited power; serving our disciples’ personal power struggles. To correctly use our way requires using our limited power supply. We don't personal power, as God intended us, means that we want to have enough personal power to serve others as Christ empower others through our service. We teach, demon- did. He needed the Holy Spirit, and so do we. Only the strate and lead them into discovering and using their own Holy Spirit enables conversions, evangelization, service, Godgiven personal power. Today our Church celebrates redemptive suffering and effective prayers to occur in and World Mission Sunday. Missionaries are fine examples of through us. Our constant and confident prayers to Jesus, using personal power to embrace, enhance and empower our sympathetic High Priest, keep us joyful and powerful, the lives of others for more dignity and for God’s glory.  as we dwell in His Spirit, being His servants on this earth.   In the Gospel Jesus explains what God’s leader-  Have you ever heard, "SoandSo” is a good person, ship power is like. "You know that those who are recog- so he/she will make it to Heaven." NO. No one deserves or nized as rulers over the Gentiles lord it over them, and “earns” Heaven by their behavior. Salvation is God’s Gift their great ones make their authority over them felt. But it to sinful humanity. The Father says in Isaiah, "Through His shall not be so among you." God gave both angels and hu- suffering My Servant shall justify many, and their guilt He mans personal power so that they will serve others. Chris- shall bear." James and John demanded a Heavenly Glory tians are to intentionally lead by example; become another without first accepting their surrender of personal power. Christ on earth; be willing to lay down our lives for others; Jesus’ Blood paid for our salvation, but our sanctification reject our need to “reign over” people, and instead we will is going on now. Sanctification requires our exchange of “serve under” the Holy Spirit. Sadly we all know people personal power for God’s Power, in order to love and serve who serve others out of fear, anxiety, frustration, anger, as Jesus did, through the inner work of the Holy Spirit. For pride, obligation, etc. Such a dysfunctional service is not then we will know sanctity and a life of personal Power, how Jesus served, and comes not from the Holy Spirit. gifted to us by the Son of Man, Who is still continuing to God’s Word promises us, "Let us confidently approach the serve us, even from Heaven. Fall Blessings, Barbara

Our Church is equipped with hearingloop for hearing aid wearers. Switching your hearing aid to the “TMode” position should allow you to hear the service.  All weekend SJR Masses are live streamed on the Internet.  Go to www.stjohnfairport.org and click on Live Streaming Weekend Mass.  Page Two St. John of Rochester Church, Fairport, New York October 21, 2018

 

PASTOR: Rev. Peter Clifford: 2485993 x15; SJR DAY OF SERVICE 2018 [email protected]    PASTORAL ASSOCIATE: Ms. Barbara Hesenius; 248 5993x12;  [email protected] Day of Service 2018 was a big success!! PASTORAL ASSOCIATE FOR WORSHIP: Mrs. Amy Voll: By the numbers…(my best count…) 2485993 x13; [email protected] 23 different service opportunities IN RESIDENCE: Fr. James Boyle, Fr. Alexander Bradshaw 174 volunteers DEACONS: Jim Pegoni, Parish Deacon; Tom Cleary and Dan    countless people donated Kinsky, Senior Status  N  MUSIC: Amy Voll, Choir Director; [email protected] 248 4 years old youngest volunteer 5993; Marko Pranic, Pastoral Musician (Associate Director of 85+Noldest volunteer Music and Organist) & Catechist; [email protected]; 35 cards made for veterans Brad Batz, Liturgical Musician, [email protected]  35 Christmas crafts made for Meals on wheels  DIRECTOR OF RELIGIOUS EDUCATION (K7): TBA   recipients RELIGIOUS ED SECRETARY: Ms. Eileen Muoio: 248  N  8850; [email protected] 2,600 envelopes stuffed YOUTH & YOUNG ADULT MINISTER: Mrs. Pam Sikora; 1,000+ Sharing Tree ornaments made 2485993 x 38; [email protected] 136 Hygiene kits madeMdonated to Catholic Family YOUTH MINISTRY ASSISTANT: Colleen Young: Center, House of Mercy  [email protected]  N   275 bag lunches made donated to Holy Apostles, FINANCE DIRECTOR: Bridget Nowak: 248 5993 x 36;  [email protected] House of Mercy BUSINESS & PROPERTY MANAGER: Patrick Bianchi: 27 shutins visited with a nice plant 2485993 x 19, [email protected] 10 boxes of children’s books donated to Hope Hall OFFICE MANAGER: Kate Wahl: 2485993 x 10; 3 boxes of food donated to Hope Hall [email protected] ; (office) [email protected]    69 packages of cookies donated to Advent House’s WEBMASTER: Marcia Gyles: [email protected]  SOCIAL MEDIA: Marko Pranic: [email protected] freezer BAPTISM: Contact Pastoral Associate Barbara Hesenius:  50 cat blankets made and donated to Lollypop Farm 2485993 x 12. View parish website for more information.   MATRIMONY: Contact Pastoral Associate Barbara Hesenius     A great big thank you and much gratitude 248 5993 x 12. View parish website for more information. to the committee that helped plan and  FUNERAL PLANNING: Contact Pastoral Associate Barbara  Hesenius: 2485993 x 12; [email protected]. secure service opportunities: PARISH REGISTRATION: Contact Pastoral Associate Christine Colao, Joann Kuhman,  Amy Voll at 2485993 x 13 or register online at parish website. Molly Henry and Kathy Cannon.  HOME/HOSPITAL VISITS: Contact Pastoral Associate     Barbara Hesenius 248 5993 x 12; [email protected] Also, thank you so much SJR staff for all the  PASTORAL COUNCIL CHAIR: Jerry Reyes:  [email protected], 6831925 support and for putting up with my steady stream FINANCE COUNCIL CHAIR: Jurij Kushner: 2236441, of emailsNespecially Fr. Peter, Amy, Marko,  [email protected] Kate, Barb, and Pam.  PERPETUAL ADORATION CHAPEL: Open 24 hours.  Saturday Children’s Rosary/Adoration Hour at 3:00 PM. But the biggest thankyou goes to the supergenerous Rosary in Church at 9:00 AM on First Saturdays and 4:15 PM  each Saturday. Coordinator: Judy ShanahanN4251396 and kind SJR parishioners who donated their time, SAINT’S PLACE: Settles refugee families. Clothing Closet is talent, and treasure to make this day a wonderful  in SJR Parish Center. Call Isabel Miller @ 3856860 to success. It was fantastic to see such great work being volunteer. Drop off donations at St. Louis Church.  done with such big smiles. In some groups people PRAYER CHAIN: Contact Marie Kushner:   came in as strangers and left as friends. This is what [email protected]  PARISH OFFICE HOURS: Monday thru Friday: 8:30am to it’s all about! Thank you! Noon & 1:00M4:30pm. CONFESSIONS: Saturday 4:004:45 PM (before 5:00 Mass) WEDDING BANNS SUNDAY MASSES: Saturday at 5:00 PM, and Sunday at N  7:30, 9:00, 10:30 AM and Noon.  I Justin Letendre Raphaella D’Alonzo   We Are A “Stephen Ministry” Parish Grieving? Chronic illness? Family stress?  Call for a Stephen Minister at 2485993 x 16.  We are trained to care for you in all situations.  Page Three St. John of Rochester Church, Fairport, New York October 21, 2018

STEPHEN MINISTRY CORNER   “Christ caring for others...through others.”    We all go through tough times in life.  Times that seem turbulent and unsettling. In Congratulaons to 500 Club winners: the midst of these challenging seasons, it can be  Mike Johnson and Fred Conway who each won $75.  extremely helpful to have someone come alongside Tickets can sll be purchased for $20 N us to give understanding and encouragement to in the parish office from Kate during the week. provide stability, hope, and Biblical principles to help Every Ticket is eligible for Every Drawing! us through the storm.   That’s what a Stephen Minister is able to provide: Weekly and Monthly Winners, plus 2 Grand Prizes a listening ear, a supportive perspective, and God’s of $500 (to be drawn at parish breakfast  Word to help us through the challenges of life.  on Sunday March 17, 2019). Proceeds benefit  Call 2485993 x16 to leave your confidential  the many organizaons in our parish.  Message...and your phone # too.  Thanks for your support

Registration is open for CYO  We are inviting all of the men of the Grades 312, boys and girls and  parish, from 18 years old to become all skill levels are welcome.  part of this organization to make a Follow the link to register:  difference, to make things better for https://www.sportsmanager.us/ others, to enhance your spiritual stjohncyo.htm life, to get involved in your parish and in your community and give back, and to build camaraderie and PERINTON FOOD SHELF strong relationships as we work together to serve The following items are what we have the greatest SJR and beyond.  need for: cereal, oatmeal, bottled juice, tea, pudding cups, cookies, fruit cups (not applesauce) crackers,  Please talk with a Knight after any of the Masses on October 27 and 28, and become a member. You can tuna, cake mixes, frosting, brownie mixes, rice mixes, also go to www.KofC.org for more information as well beef stew, hash, soup, stuffing, gravy, salad dressing, as to join online. There is something for everyone, oil, shampoo, toothpaste, toothbrushes, soap and  and with many members, the load is lightened.  deodorant.   Thank you so much for any help you can give us. The Rev. Michael Hogan Council #15917 was formed to support the St. John of Rochester Parish as well KNIGHTS OF COLUMBUS FRUIT SALE as the larger Perinton and Rochester community. As a part of the Knights of Columbus, the largest  Make sure to stop by before or after all Masses Catholic fraternal organization, we are able to help this weekend to order your delicious fresh Florida with many Catholic causes whether in Perinton, in the oranges and grapefruit! Fruit will be available for region, the state, the nation, or anywhere in the pick up at SJR after Masses on DEC 1st and 2nd. world. We see the positive impact of our efforts  Please bring cash or a check with you at time of  locally, as well as everywhere else. You can go  order placement. All profits go to charitable causes in anywhere in the world and be part of the Knights  our faith community. Questions or preorders, activities there, whether just visiting or if you move please contact Fred Conway at 5853009176 or  there.  [email protected]   It is great to be part of an organization that focuses on Catholic values as well as our pillars of Charity,  FIRST FRIDAY BOOK CLUB Unity, Fraternity, and Patriotism. We do great work  First Friday Book Club will meet again on Friday, for others all while having fun. And we make a  November 2, 2018. We gather in the Gathering Room of difference around the world, and right at home! the Ministry Building at 1:00PM and begin promptly at   1:15PM. Join Us! Our November book for discussion is “Below Stairs” by Margaret Powell. All are welcome! Page Four St. John of Rochester Church, Fairport, New York October 21, 2018



DAY MASS INTENTIONS PARISH ACTIVITIES

Sunday,  7:30 amNBarbara CopelandNEd & Suzie Meyer K of C Fruit Sale before & after all Masses October 21 9:00 amNMaureen MisewiczNMary Rinehart 10:40 AM Rel Ed Classes  Parish Center TwentyNinth  NFrancis ReusNFamily  N N  N N 11:30 AM 12:30 PM RCIA LeVeque Room Sunday in  10:30 am Francis & Catherine Gilligan Their 5:00 PM  Rel Ed Classes  Parish Center  Ordinary Time Family     NVictor PlatiNJohn & Bernie Eilertsen 6:00 PM Youth Group Room S6 & Gym 6:308:00 PMNWomen’s SpiritNGathering World Mission Sunday 12:00 pmNRon HirschlerNKaren Carlo Murphy NDaniel Farchione, Sr.NGabriel Zanche, Room Sr.  Rosary Table YM Can Drive Monday, 6:30 amNFor Our Parishioners 12:001:00 PM  Bible Study  Gathering Room October 22 8:30 amNDiane SmithNTom & Terry Nutting 12:303:00 PMNLadies VolleyballNGym Saint John Paul II, 4:30 PM  Religious Ed  Parish Center  Pope 6:30 PM  1st Penance Meeting  S8 7:00 PM  Religious Ed  Parish Center 7:009:00 PM  Stephen Ministry  Gathering Room 9:0011:00 PMNPineapples BBNGym Tuesday,  6:30 amNChuck NoonanNMary & Stephen  6:008:00 PM  Finance Council  LeVeque Rm October 23 Loughman 6:159:00 PMNDiscovering ChristNParish Ctr Saint John of  8:30 amNAngela MagowanNCarol Smith 9:0011:00 PMNHickory Ridge BBNGym Capistrano, Priest  Wednesday,  6:30 amNEdgar FarquharNAnthony & Donna  9:00 AM1:00 PMNPerinton ArtistsNS8 October 24 Lamendola 5:306:15 PMNChildren’s ChoirNMusic Rm Saint Anthony Mary 8:30 amNBarbara DaceyNBen & Jennifer Caruso 6:307:15 PMNHandbellsNMusic Room  Claret, Bishop 7:00 PM  Bible Study  Gathering Room 7:009:00 PM  Boy Scouts  Parish Center 7:309:00 PMN10:30 ChoirNChurch 8:3011:00 PMNDrop In VolleyballNGym Thursday, 6:30 amNJerry McCroneNMel & Sharon Kahler 7:008:00 PM  K of C Holy Hour  Chapel October 25 8:30 amNScripture/Communion Service 7:008:30 PMN9:00 ChoirNMusic Room 9:0011:00 PM  Men’s BB  Gym Friday, No 6:30 am Mass 7:008:30 AMNMen’s Prayer GroupN October 26 8:30 amNScripture/Communion Service LeVeque Room 1:002:30  Creative Writing Group  LeVeque Room Saturday,  8:30 amNTim McCormickNLarry Farnand 7:30 AM  Southern Hills BB  Gym October 27 5:00 pmNJames A. KayNWife, Geri & Daughter 8:30 AM  Parish Council Agenda Mtg   Judi LeVeque Room NNicholas LombardoNKnights of      3:00 11:00 PM K of C Dinner Parish Center Columbus  NArthur MearnsNKnights of Columbus & Gathering Room N N  4:005:00 PMNReverent SoundNMusic Rm Gil Landry Knights of Columbus  Rosary Table Sunday,  7:30 amNGeraldine C. GreeneNTom & Ronnie K of C Coffee Hour after all Masses October 28 Nescot 7:00 AM1:00 PM  K of C Recruitment   Thirtieth Sunday in  NJohn R. CarpinoNDennis & Joyce    Gathering Room Ordinary Time Hopkins 9:00 AM  Youth Ministry Breakfast & Mass  9:00 amNLeo CrowleyNHugh Crowley N N Church & Parish Center Anthony Pesce & Keneth Opdyke Mary    Pesce & Family 10:40 AM Rel Ed Classes Parish Center 10:30 amNJoe, Mary & Werner DriesslerNFamily 11:30 AM12:30 PMNRCIANLeVeque Room NJay Patterson (4th anniv.)NFamily 5:00 PM  Rel Ed Classes  Parish Center  12:00 pmNJoan LeeNPat & Dave Long 6:00 PM Youth Group  Room S6 & Gym NPatty Leonardo O’Neill & Carol  6:308:00 PMNWomen’s SpiritNGathering AmalfiNJoyce DiMarzo & Family Room Respect Life Tag Board Rosary Table Page Five St. John of Rochester Church, Fairport, New York  October 21, 2018

PLEASE PRAY FOR THOSE  PRAYER CORNER IN SERVICE TO COUNTRY AND GOD Pray for our parishioners. Many names may no longer require We Pray Especially For: Ensign Noelle DeMarco, Maj. Daniel Gilmore, this listing…call 2485993 to update.   Specialist Ryan Kelly, Commander Rob Prince USN, Matt Wurz, Maj. Mitch Alepoudakis Renee Guerin Megan Peterson Robert Kurpiel, Maj. Christopher Kurpiel, Jill Nawrocki, Sgt. Travis  Joe Arnitz Mark Hackett, Jr. Penny Pflueger Robert Atkinson Christine Harder Lucille Pet Rossi  Johnson, Staff Sgt. Jordan Torcello, Maj. Jeffrey Bavis, Corporal Ryan  Ann Avallone Penny Hasty Diana Pirelli Larry Barnhart Cecile Hawkins Peter Pierce Palanzo, PVII Corey Pedeville, Cpt. Jennifer Long, Sgt. Chad Griffo, Staff Pete Beerse Eleanor Heier Anne Politer Sgt. Kevin Maeder, Sister Susan Marie Norton, PVMI, Sgt. Robert Chantra, Mary Bellows Jakob Hermann & Family Skip Prevost Allison Bianchi Jim Higgins Naomi Reichert E6 Philip J. Tremiti, Lance Corporal Joshua Snyder, Seaman David Barker, Ella Bogan Matthew Hoffman Tom Reedman Nick Boriphet Barbara House Justine Restrick Col. Martin Schmidt, Sgt. Alex Martens USMC, Sgt. Melissa Martens Paige Boyum Vivian Iaculli James Rhodes USMC, Pvt. Cyrus Gorcica Marine, Lance Corporal John Hebert, 1st Lt. Patricia Breeden Sue Itzenplitz Marie Rizzitano Elizabeth Brooks Sue Jackson Joel Rivera Thomas N. Leone Air Force, Lt. J.G. Alex Dudek, USN, 2nd Lt. Timothy Betsy Brown Jacquie Jansen Kevin Roberts Sally Brown  Nader Judeh Eric Rochester Segrue, Army, 2nd Lt. Dennis Segrue, Army, U.S. Army 1st Lt. Patrick Gail Burgie Maggie Kaiden Aaron Roney Hughes Bob Burke Jack Kaminska Connor Roth June Burket Karen Kanar Timothy Rupright Kathy Cannan Claire Kaufman Andrew Carlile Russell Lucy Chacchia Debbie Keller Ed Schwinger Max Charleton Karen Kelly Robert Scott Consistent Life Ethic  Martha & Julio Chaves Jenni Kench Mary Sculley CORNER     Tom Clark Eileen King Kathy Seifert Bernard Cleary Patricia Harris Koenig Linda Shano  A. Yahap Coban Meghan Kremble Patrick Shaunessy "Pope Francis Urges Catholics to Seyim Coban Amy Krempecki Jane Shenegulet Angie Cockman John Krempecki Margaret Mary Shine Uphold Value of Human Life" Michelle Coleman Daniel Langevin Angeline Siracuse  James Compitello Wilfred H. Langevin, III Mary Siciliano Carol Cooke Jamie Lee Debbie Silverthorne    Dorothy Cooper Terry Leone Gloria Smith "In his homily, (then Cardinal Jorge Bergoglio gave at a Joan Crowley Ruth Leopold Peggy Smith Amy Ogi Crumley Phil Livecchi Gene & Cecelia Sommers Mass in 2005 in honor of St. Raymond Nonnatus, patron Abi Cunllinan Matthew Loveless Ed Starken Christine Dandridge Kathleen Lynch Albert Steinmetz saint of expectant mothers and midwives) the future pope Gerry Dangler Mary MacCart John Stio Aaron Davis Rebecca MacCart Suzanne Strong said, Haley Dibiase Bob Maddamma, Jr. Marilyn Suggs  Michael DiMuro Jackie Carzo Maj Eric Summers Ben Dipasquale Anthony Marcoccia Rose Ann Szczepanik      Anthony DiTucci Matthew Martin Lorna Thompson 'All of us must care for life, cherish life, with Colin Donahue Rose Matina Brian Thorn Mat Dougherty Kyran McCarthy Brian Thorpe tenderness, warmth...to give life is to open the heart, and to Carolyn Dunbar Madelyn McCarthy Kori Tolbert Marion Easley Blake McCracken John Toth care for life is to expend one's self in tenderness and  Theresa Elliott Christopher McLaughlin Mark Tursi Karen Farngm Scott Miller Sarah Williams  Joshua Farnsworth Colleen Mourer Ken Wolf warmth for others, to have concern in my heart for Dolores Faulkner Ashlae Mull Michael Zalone Lisa Ferrari Kim Murphy William R. Zink others...Caring for life from the beginning to the end, what Virginia Filar Dan Nescot Special Intention Jo Fitzpatrick Paul O’Brien Sean, Bridget, Suzanne, Joseph, a simple thing, what a beautiful thing...So, go forth and Emily Fraiser Joseph Palmeri Ryan, Christopher, Amanda, Laura Frazier Karla Panic Steve, Matt, Melissa, Anthony,  don't be discouraged.Care for life.It's worth it!' " Otto Funderburk Yo Parnell Bob, Brian, Bernie  Tom Fuoco Jill Pasiak  George German Nancy Pelletier PLEASE CALL THE                 Ciara Griffin Steve Perlow OFFICE WITH ANY  DioceseofRaleigh.org 7/18/13 Carol Grundman Benjamin Pervis UPDATES TO THIS LIST. LITURGICAL MINISTERS—WEEKEND OF October 27 & 28, 2018

Day Greeters Servers Lectors Cantor Children’s Video Ministry Liturgy Saturday  Bev Carpenter Team 1: INCheryl Freer Choir  TBD 5:00 PM Carol Smith Gabriel Gelke IINPeter Ciavarri  Rachel & Richard Sophia Johnson  Connors Jack Roote

Sunday Margaret Schenkel Team 1: INMichael Malinowski   TBD 7:30AM Roni Walker Tom Sanders IINBill Morris

Sunday Sally Schindler Team 1:  INYouth Choir Team 2: K & 1: Marla TBD 9:00 AM  Joan Siegl Jack Gossin IINYouth Clark, Amanda  Sean Gossin Folwell Grades 25: Ryan Mathis Claudio, Laura & Alyssa Gambacorta

Sunday Jean Commesso Team 1: INTom Bayer Choir Team 2:  TBD 10:30 AM  Kevin Murphy IINElsa McMahon Grades K5:  Matt Reed Linda Erhard

Sunday  Cathy Basta Team 1: INJeanie Sanders Cantor  TBD 12:00 PM Addie York IINKathy Purcell

Crest ManorNChristine Colao, B Creighton, Bob Maddamma, Laura Ziccarelli Solstice Senior LivingNJohn Jensen Brookdale EastNMary K. Reid See www.stjohnfairport.org for the Daily Mass Readings. Page Six St. John of Rochester Church, Fairport, New York October 21, 2018

SCRIPTURE READINGS Today, October 21NTwentyNinth Sunday in Ordinary Time  Isaiah 53:1011 Through his suffering, my servant shall justify many. Hebrews 4:1416 So let us confidently approach the throne of grace. Mark 10:3545 “Can you drink from the cup that I drink?” They said to Jesus, “We can.” Questions for Reflection:  The just one suffers for justice’s sake. How much have I been willing to risk for justice?  How difficult is the movement from humility to gratitude, and from gratitude to confidence? Have you even refused to forgive or to be forgiven?  On this World Mission Sunday, what are you willing to sacrifice, and how far does your courage go for what you profess?  Readings for Next Week: Jeremiah 31:79; Hebrews 5:16; Mark 10:4652

Thanks to the generous donation of the screen and the OCTOBER ROSARY TABLE installation of it by the SJR Men's Club, all ministries   "The Rosary is my favorite prayer.Such a wonderful and groups now have a large size permanently    prayer! Wonderful in its simplicity and its depth ... installed projector screen for use in their programs. On the background of the words 'Ave Maria' the soul visualizes the main events in the life of Jesus Christ ... From my deepest heart I exhort all to recite it."                     Pope John Paul II    at Camelo de S. Teresa Coimbra, Portugal Rosary Meditations from Mother Teresa of Calcutta  In honor of October being the Month of the Holy  Rosary, a Rosary Table will be set up in the SJR hall- way across from the Gathering Room from October 20 until October 28.Handmade rosaries and other religious themed items such as adult and children's tote bags, magnets, holy water bottles, advent calendars, holy cards, etc. will be available on the Rosary Table  all items are complementary.Please feel free to take whatever you may need.If you would like to learn how to make rosaries, please contact Barb at 3770689 or [email protected]

HOLIDAY ADOPT A FAMILY PROGRAM The annual Adopt a Family Program is beginning. Signups will take place in the Narthex, after all Masses on the weekend of November 3/4. This program provides Christmas presents for 15 families from Our Lady of the Americas Parish in Rochester.   An interview has been conducted with each adopted family outlining particular needs and wants. You would receive names, ages, and gift ideas for each family member. A large labeled bag will be provided for pur- chased gifts to be placed, and returned to church, by early December.  Thank you so much for supporting this ministry. Your efforts are greatly appreciated and bring great joy to these neighboring families. For more information or questions, please contact Terry Nutting 3145106 ([email protected]). Page Seven St. John of Rochester Church, Fairport, New York October 21, 2018 



STEWARDSHIP “Sharing Our Blessings” Stewardship is also gifts of time and talent   20182019 CATHOLIC     Week of October 15, 2018 MINISTRIES APPEAL Envelopes  $ 13,982.50    Loose Money  $ 1,265.31    $70,585.50 Direct Deposit $ 9,551.50 245 Donors TOTAL  $ 24,799.31     29.08%   Goal: $242,708

PARISH TITHING  One of SJR’s cotithes for October is Focus Pregnancy Help Center, at the  suggestion of parishioner Tim Shine.   The Center’s Mission Statement is:  “To appropriately face the reality of abortion. To respond with urgency to the immediate need to save a life. To counsel through verbal  interaction, literature, and photographic images. Our mission is to  provide a lifegiving solution to all women & girls contemplating  abortion. To help them to choose life and to supply the support & referrals that they need with love.”  Focus Pregnancy Help Center was started in 2005, offering free pregnancy tests and support for Moms to choose life for their babies. Over the years it has grown into a busy and wellreceived resource for the city of Rochester community. They currently offer free pregnancy testing, early ultrasound referral and material aid for families who choose life for their babies.  The Center’s allvolunteer staff works to save the lives of unborn children and assist mothers and those  expecting with diapers, food, clothing, PacknPlays, pregnancy tests and prayerful, practical advice. Focus Pregnancy Help Center helps expectant women and mothers of all religions, races, creeds and colors with care and compassion throughout their pregnancy and after delivery.    

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RITE OF CHRISTIAN  NEXT BAPTISM RETREAT INITIATION OF ADULTS “Are You Expecting?”  Thinking about becoming Catholic? Couples, please attend before birth. Our next Retreat will be Friday, November 16, from 79 pm in the Gathering Room. Never Baptized? Wondering how to If this is your first child or you are new to SJR, then register complete your Catholic Sacraments? online at www.stjohnfairport.org. Click on Baptism...then  Were you raised in another Faith  Infant. Pastoral Associate Barbara will contact you. (And don’t Tradition and want to know how to be received into forget to also register online as a SJR parishioner!)  the Catholic Church?   *Parents: You will promise to raise your children as Catholics RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults) sessions and have them receive all their Sacraments. But, was your own will be after 10:30 Mass in the LeVeque Room. Join wedding the Sacrament of Matrimony? If not, call Barbara to Amy Voll to discuss this faith journey. Can’t make it arrange for a sacred exchange of Matrimonial Vows with God this week? Call Amy at 2485593 x 13 for more info. and each other in a simple ceremony called a “Convalidation”. This Sacrament can occur after a Mass...or any time you choose. 

 RELIGIOUS EDUCATION NEWS!  October Blessings to All,  This weekend we begin Religious Education, Confirmation Prep, and Youth Ministry. YEAH! Our halls will once again be filled with the Young Church learning about our Faith and developing a relationship with Jesus. If your family has not registered it is not too late, contact our office and we will help you signup.  As we start, I would like to say Thank You to our many volunteers who share their time with SJR’s many faith forming ministries. Our Young Church is lucky to have such generous teachers. THANK YOU for all that you do.  I want to share with you all of you this lovely fall prayers:  O God of Creation, you have blessed us with the changing of the seasons. As we embrace these autumn months, May the earlier setting of the sun remind us to take time  to rest.May the crunch of the leaves beneath our feet remind us of the brevity of this earthly  life.May the steam of our breath in the cool air remind us that it is you who give us your breath  of life.May the scurrying of the squirrels and the migration of the birds remind us that you call us to follow your will.  We praise you for your goodness forever and ever.Amen.  Many Blessings, Pam

ALL PARENTS OF K5 CHILDREN: I urge you to send your child to the “Liturgy of the Word” for Kindergarten through Grade 5 students at 9am and 10:30am Sunday Masses. They will hear the Mass Scriptures and discuss those Scriptures at their appropriate intellectual and spiritual level. They will receive a better understanding about the Bible and being a disciple of Jesus than if they remain in Church with the adults. They will return to Church in time for the “Liturgy of the Eucharist”. Whether your child attends Catholic School, Religious Education or is Homeschooled, the Children’s “Liturgy of the Word” is a different worship/faith experience. Kindergarten & Grade 1 meet in the Gorman Room. Grades 25 meet in the Gathering Room. NOTE: DO keep Preschoolers with you. We still have one opening for a Leader at the 10:30am Mass.          Thank You, Barbara Hesenius  Page Nine St. John of Rochester Church, Fairport, New York October 21, 2018   YOUTH & YOUNG ADULT MINISTRIES  Any question please contact Pam Sikora at [email protected] Upcoming Events

2018R19 Youth Ministry Registration Youth Ministry   Registraon is now available on the   Youth and Young Adult website for the   First Breakfast & Mass Sunday, October 28, upcoming youth ministry year.  9:00 AM Mass followed by breakfast in the    Parish Center. See YM webpage to sign up  (by 10/25). Open to all SJR Teens Sign up now for a year of faith T   T   fellowship fun!    Chili CookOff! Don’t miss our first annual  Any queson contact Pam Sikora at “Chili CookOff” on Saturday, November 3 at  [email protected] or 248R5993 ext. 30 6:00 PM in the Parish Center. See the YM  page on the website for more information:  www.stjohnfairport.org/youthministry



YM Can Drive Oct 20th and 21st All Masses You can also dropped off returns to EZ Bottle and Can Return 1259 Fairport Rd, Fairport Please tell them they are for SJR’s Youth Ministry 

Thank You!  

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SWEET CHARITY   Resale Boutique & Shop  Come Join Us  Needs Donations for Story Time! Advent House, Fairport’s comfort care home for  over twenty five years, now has a volunteerrun St. Joseph School will again host a story time for 2 resale store, Sweet Charity, 650 Whitney Rd., and 3 yearVolds with their moms, dads or caregivers. Fairport. Sweet Charity welcomes your yearround It will be held: generosity as we strive to provide a consistent  source of income for Advent House, allowing it to Fridays, September 21st through December 14th   remain a feefree place of peace and comfort for    (Except Oct. 5th, Nov 9th, Nov 23rd no school) residents and their families. St. Joseph’s School Library We are in need of your donations of quality V  couches, loveseats, coffee tables, side and end Choose from 2 sessions 9:30 to 10:30am Or 10:30 to 11:30am  tables, dressers, queen size headboards, buffets,  dining room tables with chairs, kitchen tables, We will have stories, finger plays, songs and a craft! small appliances and kitchen items, home decor  and jewelry. Pick up may be arranged!  To register, please visit our St. Joseph School We also invite you to shop WedsSat 10am V V V  Website at http://sjspenfield.com/pre school story time 4pm, donations are accepted until 3pm those days. V   Visit our Facebook page Sweet Charity Fairport or call St. Joseph School at 586 6968. Space is for additional information.  limited and registrations will be accepted on a first Email [email protected] or call come, first serve basis. There will be a $10.oo  (585) 3640317 during open hours, with questions.  registration fee. If you have any questions, please  call Mary Beth LaDuca at 586V6968. Come for some  Thank you for your generosity! reading fun! 20182019 CATHOLIC MINISTRIES APPEAL  The 201819 Catholic Ministries Appeal is starting! Watch your mail for a letter from Bishop Matano, and please prayerfully consider a gift to provide ministry in a time of increasing need.  The funds raised truly allow us to be the hands of Christ to so many M to reach out and nurture the faith of our youth and young adults, to minister to the aged and infirm, and to provide for those families who lack the basic necessities of life, such as food and clothing.  In addition, your support enables us to properly form our seminarians for dedicated priestly ministry,  support our Catholic schools and continue the crucial work of Catholic Charities.