Gay Guide to Bangkok by Harvie
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(9) Our details In this disclaimer, "we" means (and "us" and "our" refer to) Harvie. 3 CONTENTS Arranging to Meet ................................................................................................................................... 5 Online Dating .......................................................................................................................................... 6 Before you meet ..................................................................................................................................... 7 Where to Meet ....................................................................................................................................... 8 How to Avoid Going Broke ...................................................................................................................... 9 Keeping in Touch ................................................................................................................................... 10 Gay or Just Gay Friendly? ...................................................................................................................... 11 How to meet Gay guys .......................................................................................................................... 12 Gay Friendly Hotels in Bangkok ............................................................................................................ 15 Gay Bangkok – gay bars and clubs ........................................................................................................ 19 4 Arranging to Meet You have read about gay boys in Thailand, you may even have seen photos of these handsome, well- endowed guys and now you want to sample one (or even two) for yourself. So how do you get to know them? How do you get to meet them? How do you find out for yourself what pleasures are available in Gay Thailand? First things first. Thailand is NOT a country in which being gay is legally allowed, it is MUCH better than that, it is a country in which being gay is socially accepted. As long as you break no other laws (paedophilia for one) you can be openly and happily gay in The Land of Smiles. Always try to smile, always greet people in the Traditional Thai way and you will be welcomed everywhere. Now for the first step towards meeting the man of your wet dreams. Go on line. Here are some suggested chat rooms. Silver Daddies (obviously caters to the more mature searcher). Fridae ( for the specifically Asian lover) OnlyLads for special delights in and near Thailand (Myanmar and Laos). Don’t underestimate those lovely Myanmar men in their long skirts (sarongs). Grindr – also for bi and curious guys Jack’d – many Thai gays use this site. Grab yourself a computer or laptop or smart phone and log on to a chat site designed for gay men (or women). 5 Online Dating So you are online and the chatting gets hot. You have seen a profile pic and been sufficiently turned on to want to go further. Is that profile pic recent? Is it really him? Try to meet on Skype or some other application where you can chat on cam and see the real person. Failing this then ask for recent pics by email (and even these cannot be fully trusted). In some countries they are not allowed to post photos of themselves but use models or actors, thankfully Thailand is not one of them. In Thailand you may get much more than face pics to lure you on. On line dating is more than finding a guy and making a choice. It is the time to reveal a little of yourself and, hopefully, encourage them to do the same thing. Get to know each other and get to know more ABOUT each other. Beware of the guy that has lost his father and only has a mother and four younger brothers and sisters. Some may be genuine, others will be setting you up for financial support. Be honest at all times, after all what have you got to fear, you have not met yet. Nothing is worse than painting false pictures and then hoping to cover up the flaws when the real person is encountered. Why pretend your 6” dick is larger than average when the truth will eventually unfold – but not as much as you suggested it would? Why say you are versatile if you are 99% bottom or top? This is only going to be a short holiday together so you ask yourself, why not stretch the truth a bit? Why not? Because so many short holidays have turned out to be repeated affairs or even long lasting partnerships. Start off on the right foot – be open and honest. 6 Before you meet This is where honesty is really important. This is where you have to expose the real you. Are you HIV negative? Are they? Do you have or want to see proof? Are you totally top or bottom? Do you like kissing, oral sex, group sex? Have you any fetishes? Are you single, in an open relationship or married with children? What are you really looking for – outrageous sex, companionship and compatability with a farang abroad, love? Are you a drinker, smoker, drug user? Do you practice safe sex (most Thais insist on it)? So should you. Are you happy to share your holiday with this one guy or are you looking for someone who will show you the gay hotspots and let you off the leash if you so wish? What happens if, when you finally meet, there is no chemistry? ALL these questions and maybe more need to be answered before you plan your first meeting. Do they seem too personal? Yes, they are but sticking your dick in someone is as personal as it will ever get. Be a man, even if you are a bitch, and start off honestly. Just one precaution = it is not necessary at this time to give great details about your worldly wealth. If you are asked if you own your own home and you do, just say yes but there is no need to say what it is worth. You can honestly say you are a business man without telling them you are the Managing Director. The precaution here is to make sure you meet a genuine guy and not someone looking for a possible sugar daddy. 7 Where to Meet ALWAYS arrange your first meeting in a public place and, if possible, avoid gay venues. You are two people meeting for the first time so a public place will ensure that you treat each other with respect ( a great way to start an affair or even a loving relationship). In gay venues you might be influenced by the atmosphere and the gay crowd to experience feelings more associated with the place than the person. If you only feel comfortable, or less embarrassed, in gay venues then choose a gay friendly bar (The Telephone Bar in Silom is perfect).