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Vol. 102, No. 26 On the Inside ~acuity Want Defined Rights Academic Freedom· revision approved; goes to Trustees .................... page 7 Getting High? Electric rates in Newark ................... page 1 What;s Wrong ·with Bacchus? Lots of things, apparently ................... page 11 Komlo to the NFL? Review photographer DavidS. Resende Hens and their QB in Texas . I THE LAST GAME of the Delaware football season, and the Tubby Raymond's gridders meet Eastern Illinois for the Divi for Championship ... page 20 lost Delaware game for these four senior offensive sion II championship. Left to right: Andy Mihaly, Bill Ragni, linemen, comes tomorrow afternoon in Longview, Texas as Mike Mill, captain John Morrison.' Campus Briefs ............ 5 Assertiveness Training Identifies Rights by LORRAINE BOWERS feelings and to deny self. being assertive means one violated. Assertive behavior Classified ... ·............ 14 (This article is part IV in a ' Assertiveness training person wins while a lot of peo is direct, honest and an ap Editorial ................. 8 V part series on the Counsel basically relies on question ple lose. But that description propriate expression of one's ing Center - the premises it ing some of those rules, defines aggressive behavior. feelings, opinions and H Cetera ............... 11 operates under and what it although not necessarily According to an asser beliefs." Retrospect ............... 5 has to offer. Part V will ap violating them, said Dr. tiveness training workshop For example, said Wilson, a pear next week.) Michele Wilson, counseling handout, an assertive person woman is asked out by a man Something's Happening .... 5 The Judea-Christian ethic psychologist at the Counsel "stands up for his legitimate she doesn't want to go out Sports .................. 20 teaches individuals to be con ing Center. rights and in such a way that with. She has basically three cerned about other people's Many people assume that others' rights are not options. She can lie and tell him she's busy - that's unassertive. She can tell him he's a fool - that's ag 26 Rapes Reported to S.O.S. in 2 Years gressive. Or she can tell him by LORRAINE BOWERS victims are afraid of how they will be with him," she said. "It really she appreciates him asking and LISA ERB seen by others, court or police harass depends on the situation," Schaefer but she'd prefer not to go out Twenty-six rapes were reported to ment, and intimidation by the rapist, emphasized. with him- that's assertive. the Support Group for Victims of Sex she suggested. The case which is most frequently Assertiveness training ual Offenses (S.O.S.) during the past According to S.O.S. statistics, publicized in the media, that being the workshops offered by the two years, according to S.O.S. co almost all rapes occurred off-campus girl who is jumped in the bushes, is Counseling Center try to help ordinator Karen Schaefer, who and the majority of victims knew not the typical case, she stressed. an individual (training is of released statistics for the first time in their attacker. "The most frequent kinds of rapes - fered to men and women) the group's existence. Twenty-three of the rapes reported which we know of occur with a girl identify what he wants, and In contrast, the Newark Police had involved university students or staff and her boyfriend, or a girl and a date identify the things which are only nine rapes reported to them dur while two involved pre-college age end up sexually involved, and the girl keeping him from getting doesn't want it.'' ing the same period. women. One rape was reported by a "The rapist is suffering from no what he wants.· In addition, Of the incidents reported to the member of the community. diagnosable illness. Ordinary people the workshops provide the in police last year, two went to trial; the All of the victims were white and just aren't thought to be rapists, dividual with a group setting charges were dropped in one case and only two were raped by members of although they definitely can be," said where he can practice asser the charges are still pending after the another race, said Schaefer. Schaefer. tiveness through role playing. court granted two continuances in the Physical violence was th"reatened in In addition to the statistics on rape, "The first time in the other case. some of the cases, she said. "I know of Schaefer also released information on group, she'll (a student) pro- · Schaefer speculated that at least one case where the victim was other problems which S.O.S. bably fumble because of her five times as many rapes as reported threatened with a knife," she said. members have dealt with. Nine sex nervousness. Then she'll get to S.O.S. probably occurred. Of the None of the victims suffered any ex ual harassment cases were reported some feedback on how she cases reported, most were reported tensive physical injuries, however. to S.O.S. members during the last two sounded and support from the five to six weeks after the attacks, she "A victim should try to talk to years along with one child abuse case group for what she wants to said. the potential rapist. If that doesn't and eight requests for information on do. She'll then rehearse it Few rapes are reported because work. she should yell, cry, or plea sex-related issues. · (Continued on Poge 4) Page2 THE REVIEW, UNIVERSITY OF DELAWARE, NEWARK, D':L December 8, 1978 ERSITYTUT RING SERVICE These departmental/ unit supervisors can put students in touch with qualified tutors. Undergraduate tutors are paid $2.95 per hour; graduate tutors are paid $4.00 per hour. The University 30th On University pays one-hall the cost for students receiving 25% to 50% financial aid. or the total cost for students receiving 50% or more aid. Prospective tutors should also contact these supervisors. ACCOUNTING Prof. A. DiAntonio 221 Purnell Hall 738-2962 AGRI. & FOOD ECON. Prof. R.C. Smith 234 Ag. Hall 738-2511 ''Fortunate 500'' List AGRI. ENGINEERING Prof. E.N, Scarborough 057 Ag . Hall 738-2468 ANIMAL SCIENCE Prof. P. Sammuelwitz 028 Ag. Hall 738-2525 When it comes to en college endowments - that ANTHROPOLOGY Prof. Norman Schwartz. 309 Kirkbride Off. Bldg . 738-2821 dowments, the University of part of an institution's income ART Prof. D. K. Teis 104 Recitation Hall 738-2244 Delaware is in Division I all derived from donations. Part ART HISTORY Prof. J.S. Crawford 335 Smith Hall 738-2865 the way- it ranks No. 30 on of the story is a list of the 40 ATHLETICS (Varsity) Prof. T.C. Kempski Oel. Fieldhouse 738-2253 Esquire magazine's "For most generously endowed col BIOLOGY Ms. Wendy Groce 117 Wolf Hall 738-2281 BUSINESS ADMIN . Ms . P. Johnson 306 Purnell Hall 738-2554 tunate 500" list. leges and universities in the CHEMISTRY Mrs . Susan Cross 104 Brown Lab 738-2465 Esquire has a story this United States according to COMMUNICATION Ms . J. Harrinoton 301 Kirkbride Off. Bldo . 7:lll-8041 ' week (December 19 issue) on June 30, 1978 figures. The COMPUTER AND INFORMATION SCIENCES ·Prof. G. 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