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Booklet 5 Remembrance and Mourning Remembrance & mourning Booklet 5 Help in coping: When someone dies in a road accident Kristine Alilunas Rodgers Kristine Alilunas Rodgers 1999, 2000 Australian Capital Territory Magistrates Court, Canberra, Australia The NRMA - ACT Road Safety Trust provided funding for ‘Help in Coping: When Someone Dies in a Road Accident’ (a draft version of which was prepared in 1998 under the auspices of the National Association for Loss and Grief (ACT)). Rodgers, Kristine Alilunas. Remembrance & mourning. Booklet 5 of Help in Coping: When Someone Dies in a Road Accident. ISBN 1 86331 471 7 In memory of Colin Rodgers. To all those who have died on Canberra’s roads. For all those bereaved by a road accident in Canberra, and for those helping them. ACKNOWLEDGMENTS The assistance of the NRMA - ACT Road Safety Trust is gratefully acknowledged. This booklet would not have been possible without the cooperation of many in the community. The assistance of the following persons and organisations is gratefully acknowledged, as is that of others who have also contributed information or comments, or preferred to remain anonymous: John Allison/Monkhouse; Viki Fox, Kidscan; Barbara Miller, psychologist; M. H. O’Rourke; Meryl and John Turner, The Compassionate Friends. Those acknowledged are not responsible for the contents of the booklet. NOTE The information in this booklet has been drawn from a number of sources. Some practices may vary within a religious community; many associated practices may have been omitted. No offence is intended to any religious community. The intention is to point out some of the common threads in religious practices, from many different cultural traditions, that can help people to grieve. It tries to do this in a way that acknowledges and affirms the wide variety of religious, spiritual and cultural beliefs and practices within the Canberra community. USE OF THIS MATERIAL Material in this booklet may be down loaded and copied for a non-profit purpose as long as you do not make any changes or additions and you include full publishing details (author, title, date, funding source, publisher and Web site). 2 Help in coping THE IMPORTANCE OF MOURNING This booklet is especially intended for those who may feel a need to develop their own mourning rituals. Most cultures in the world have developed rituals to help the bereaved. These rituals provide social support and structure for emotions to be expressed. Some of these practices may go back thousands of years. Such supports and structures may sometimes be lacking in our society nowadays; our Western culture has lost many traditional practices relating to death and mourning. (For example, many people no longer expect that those attending the funeral will wear black, or that close family members will wear black clothes for a period of time. The custom of wearing a black arm band has virtually disappeared. Although some may be glad that such customs are no longer expected, these were effective ways of alerting others to the special, vulnerable state of the bereaved.) Our modern society provides for funeral customs and expressions of condolence, and many bereaved people arrange for formal acknowledgment of the anniversary of the death. But there is little provision made for the extended period of mourning that continues long after the funeral. Because of this ‘gap’ in our society, you may find it helpful to draw on some of the rituals practised by traditional religions, both Western and non-Western. Many of these are carried out by various communities in Australia today. You can borrow from these and invent your own rituals to help you express and channel your grief, and carry them out either on your own, in total privacy, or in the company of close family members or friends. Here are some examples of practices taken from Buddhism, Greek Orthodox Christianity, Hinduism, Islam and Judaism, with a few examples also from Anglicanism, Roman Catholicism and Sikhism, and Aboriginal Australian and Maori practices. Some of these customs are also associated with taboos. In some societies close family members are sometimes not merely discouraged from doing certain activities or helped to do certain activities but are not allowed to do them (to touch food, for instance) because they are considered temporarily ‘unclean’. An underlying taboo is perhaps universally associated with death, and a taboo or stigma (conscious or not) may be attached to a close association with a person who has died. You may find at times that a similar sort of taboo or stigma is at work in some people’s reactions to your circumstances, and in yourself. In our Western society, this may manifest itself in such ways as avoiding contact, keeping silent, denying grief. Consciously or not, we all dread the prospect of our own death and that of someone we love. The prospect – and the reality – are ‘off limits’ to many of us; we simply don’t want to think about it or know about it. Help in coping 3 But a tragedy has happened and you have been thrown, unprepared, against the reality of death in your life. And yet somehow you must go on living. At first the triggers, the reminders, the thoughts may be constant and the waves of intense grief overwhelming; you may be able to think of little else. And yet, some of the time at least, you will have to (and will be able to) temporarily ‘put aside’ your grief to do whatever tasks need to be done (in fact, you will probably be doing this from the very first, in all of the decisions you have had to make concerning the funeral, for example). Later on, the pressures to ‘get on with your life’ become very strong. But your life has been changed by this tragedy; your intense grief over the loss you have experienced is still there, part of your new reality. It is futile to try and pretend it’s not there or run away from it or ‘get over it’; you must – and can – travel through it. Gradually, more and more of the time, you can have more control and choice, you can ‘manage’ your grief (although there will still be unexpected triggers that you may not be able to control). By accepting your grief, not denying it, you can allow it a place in your life, allow yourself time for it. Allowing yourself the freedom to mourn (in a society that does not encourage it), developing your own mourning rituals, finding someone who will listen to you at least some of the time as you relive the experience and remember the person who died, seeking out support (possibly from new sources) may help you in surviving your loss and living with your grief. 4 Help in coping RITUALS OF REMEMBRANCE D E E P M O U R N I N G • seven days (no work, no cooking, etc.) (Hinduism) • seven days (family stays at home, visitors come; candle or lamp burns; prayers and readings – ‘shiva’) (Judaism) • ten days, followed by a ceremony (Sikhism). Traditional practices of deep mourning can provide a structure that allows the family to focus their emotions and thoughts entirely on the person who died, to give physical expression to their grief, protected from outside pressures, and to talk endlessly about the person who died. In our society, bereavement leave from work is intended to allow for the funeral; however, the standard three days’ leave is hardly sufficient for deep mourning. You should not be expected (or expect yourself) to be ‘operational’ within so short a time. If you are employed, take as much leave as you can or feel that you need (both now and later on). Now is the time to allow yourself to weep (it’s the body’s natural way and allows certain chemicals to be released), wail, sob, scream, shout. F R E Q U E N T V I S I T S T O T H E G R AV E A N D / O R A C E R E M O N Y O R S P E C I A L P R AY E R S • during the first three days (Buddhism) • on the third, ninth and fortieth days, and then after three, six (or nine) and twelve months (Greek Orthodox) • on the third, seventh and fortieth days, and every week for the first 40 days (Islam) • prayers for one or two weeks; on the seventh day: collect the ashes and hold a ceremony; one month after the death: scatter the ashes over a river or lake and hold a ceremony (Hinduism) • mourning and ceremonies continue for two to six weeks (Aboriginal Australians) • person’s name included in prayers in a place of worship. These traditions can help the family to let the reality of the death sink in, through frequent visits to the cemetery, and to channel and express their grief through regular ceremonies and prayers or time spent focusing on the person who died. After cremation takes place, for example, a ceremony may be held when collecting the person’s ashes and when scattering (or interring) them. Help in coping 5 M O U R N I N G • 30 days of gradual readjustment (Judaism) • 40 days, followed by a ceremony (Greek Orthodox) • seven weeks (49 days) (Buddhism) • 100 days of mourning, followed by a ceremony (Buddhism) • one year of grieving (healing, remembering, regular prayers) (Judaism). These traditions of mourning recognise that a period of readjustment is needed while a bereaved person is gradually able to return to everyday activities. The person is allowed time, and encouraged, to grieve and begin to heal.
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